There was a time in my life that I wanted to please the people around me but still it ended so much pain and betrayal for me. Hanggang dumating ang time na nawalan na po aq ng gana at wala na aqng pakialam sa kanila 😆and now mas peaceful po ang life q dahil sarili q nlang po ang pini please ko 😂😂Dont get me wrong pero natoto na po kc aq ung sobra mong nilalapit ang sarili mo sa mga tao pero at the end sasaktan ka lang nila. But now im so happy and have a peace mind 😘
Lordielyn Dumpit I can relate to this so much. I realized that I need to change & put myself first, love ❤️ myself because God loves me. It’s not a quick overnight solution but we’ll get there. Good luck ...
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very simple: You can't please everybody. Just be true to yourself. Ang importante wala kang nasasaktan, natatapakan.. youre doing the right at the right time with the right people. Always believe in yourself. Have a strong faith in God.
Sir, continue to make videos and share your insights most especially when it comes to the will of God. Isa ko sa mga tumatangkilik ng teachings mo mapa business man or life in general, mabuhay ka :)
I’ve been a people pleaser for so long & now I’m feeling the effects of this bad move. It’s more on anger & self pity & I’m hoping & praying that someday I’ll overcome these emotions with God’s help & guidance. Salamat
Sir Chinkee, Thank you so much po sa mga videos mo, nakaka-inspire at madami akong natutunan, yung video re: "Magpatawad ka Naman" malaki ang tulong sakin nun... at ang favorite video ko re: 3 Ways to reduce stress in life. Nalaman ko ito sa isang youtuber na sis purpleheiress, that time (weeks a ago) was the lowest point in my life, na-touch ako at nabago mga views ko sa buhay dahil sa mga videos mo., Salamat Sir!!! Kudos to you! at higit sa lahat kay LORD who restore my faith. Continue making video Sir Chinkee madami kang natutulungan.. God Bless! 😉🙏👍👍👍
Thanks sir chink+,, dati ang hilig ko din magplease ng tao lalong lalo na nung nagkawork na ako,, but then napagtanto ko parang ako nagpapahirap sa sarili ko dahil parati nlang ako dapat makisama so now ang mindset ko, i can stand alone,, may kumausap o wla, may kasama o wala ok lang nakaramdam ako ng peaceful at minsan mas ok nalang ung alone ka for good tahimik at stressfree ang life
Dati people pleaser ako . Ganun kasi ang pagpapalaki noong araw sa probinsya namin na kami yung mababa at sila ang mataas . Nagsawa ako sa kakasunod sa kamangmangan. I have realized that people will treat you according to the way you present yourself . Pinagdasal ko yung maging balanse sa sarili at sa kapwa . Minsan pumapalya pero ang mahalaga aware na ako sa mga abusado sa kakautang sakin .
This is the most important and valuable teaching I have heard at this point of my life. Counting only to God and HIM only to be pleased. Thank you brother in faith.
Thank you so much, Sir Chinkee Tan. Your advice here is on point. I'll definitely have to work on strengthening my relationship with God. God bless po. More power! Please make more videos like this for us (pinoys) to be inspired and motivated to become financially worry-free and at the same time become closer to God. Salamat po ulit. Mabuhay!
thank u ser,,,, I follow u po,,,, sa totoo Lang po NASA point ako ngaun na gusto Kong pumatay ng tao,,,, pero nung mga napanuod Ko mga video po,,,, nakatulog ako ng may kapanatagan sa puso
My mother raised us to be independent at all aspects except emotional, in w/c we were taught to please others esp kins before ourselves. But immediately after the death of my mom I learned that those people are “orocan”. I was lost for a long time and only by God’s grace that I survived the pain of not only losing my mom but also of knowing that the people were taught as a family since I was a child do not really give a damn about us. God is merciful- I live, survive and been truly connected with God more than ever.
Gud eve, tama po kayo at yan ngyayari skn ngayon n pra tanggapin naging snusnuran n lng sa knya..dapat kna po xa alisin sa buhay ko? Kc ngyysri po nkkaramdam nku ng galit at inis sa trato nia skn. Nkikita kna rin n po para ba npakaliit ng tingen nia skn.
yes the first thing God taught me is to say NO. Pray first if it's the will of God....discern. and we cannot give what we do not have. also if it gives you stress don't . if there is doubt, don't
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lam mo mr chikee mga payo mo akma s ate ko kc gnun n ganun tlaga cya..halos tama lahat yun payo mo problem ko pano magbabago kapatid ko sna mtugunan u po mga ng cocommit s inyo sagotin nyo sna din po
Chinkee Tan and Herbert Bautista may have some similar features, but they are different people. Hopefully, you'll reach 1M subscribers this 2020, Chinkee. Thank you for posting helpful and insightful videos. Godspeed to you and your family.
Ako pag alamko that I have done All my best tapos wala pang signal of appreciation gaya ng isang Boss hindi inuumintahan ang sweldoko Sibatnako hanap ng ibang trabaho! Ganon din sa mga kaibigan at kamaganak Kuno; ginagawa akong tanga, tsk tsk!
Salamat Sir Chinkee lagi po akong nakikinig sa mga pAngaral mo Sir..Nakaka encouraged po ang dami ko nang natutunan..maraming salamat po sa Sharing ng Idea.
There was a time in my life that I wanted to please the people around me but still it ended so much pain and betrayal for me. Hanggang dumating ang time na nawalan na po aq ng gana at wala na aqng pakialam sa kanila 😆and now mas peaceful po ang life q dahil sarili q nlang po ang pini please ko 😂😂Dont get me wrong pero natoto na po kc aq ung sobra mong nilalapit ang sarili mo sa mga tao pero at the end sasaktan ka lang nila. But now im so happy and have a peace mind 😘
Lordielyn Dumpit I can relate to this so much. I realized that I need to change & put myself first, love ❤️ myself because God loves me. It’s not a quick overnight solution but we’ll get there. Good luck ...
Pareho tayo
Tama.po yan binigay muna lahat. Sasaktan ka na .hihiyain kapa. Sa maraming tao. Nakkawalan talaga ng respect to any 1.
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Ako rin po.
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Hi there. God bless u n ur wife. Keep it up ok. I loved it.
erika madrid , agree ako sayo!
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very simple: You can't please everybody. Just be true to yourself. Ang importante wala kang nasasaktan, natatapakan.. youre doing the right at the right time with the right people. Always believe in yourself. Have a strong faith in God.
Thank you Sir. Madami po ung napapa inspire niyo. You already served your purpose. God Bless.
Sir, continue to make videos and share your insights most especially when it comes to the will of God. Isa ko sa mga tumatangkilik ng teachings mo mapa business man or life in general, mabuhay ka :)
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I’ve been a people pleaser for so long & now I’m feeling the effects of this bad move. It’s more on anger & self pity & I’m hoping & praying that someday I’ll overcome these emotions with God’s help & guidance. Salamat
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Sir Chinkee, Thank you so much po sa mga videos mo, nakaka-inspire at madami akong natutunan, yung video re: "Magpatawad ka Naman" malaki ang tulong sakin nun... at ang favorite video ko re: 3 Ways to reduce stress in life. Nalaman ko ito sa isang youtuber na sis purpleheiress, that time (weeks a ago) was the lowest point in my life, na-touch ako at nabago mga views ko sa buhay dahil sa mga videos mo., Salamat Sir!!! Kudos to you! at higit sa lahat kay LORD who restore my faith. Continue making video Sir Chinkee madami kang natutulungan.. God Bless! 😉🙏👍👍👍
Thanks sir chink+,, dati ang hilig ko din magplease ng tao lalong lalo na nung nagkawork na ako,, but then napagtanto ko parang ako nagpapahirap sa sarili ko dahil parati nlang ako dapat makisama so now ang mindset ko, i can stand alone,, may kumausap o wla, may kasama o wala ok lang nakaramdam ako ng peaceful at minsan mas ok nalang ung alone ka for good tahimik at stressfree ang life
Dati people pleaser ako . Ganun kasi ang pagpapalaki noong araw sa probinsya namin na kami yung mababa at sila ang mataas . Nagsawa ako sa kakasunod sa kamangmangan. I have realized that people will treat you according to the way you present yourself . Pinagdasal ko yung maging balanse sa sarili at sa kapwa . Minsan pumapalya pero ang mahalaga aware na ako sa mga abusado sa kakautang sakin .
Sarap manood at mkinig sayo..dami ko natutunan sayo sir...tnx nd GODSPEED
This is the most important and valuable teaching I have heard at this point of my life. Counting only to God and HIM only to be pleased. Thank you brother in faith.
Maraming salamat po sir sa mga videos mo na nakakabago ng life towards positive side..
You're welcome
God bless
Tama,....We have one and only one audience :) And no matter what, His heart is happy to have us
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I have done self coaching program because I consider my self as "Pleaser" and I'm having hard time to say no.
Thank you so much, Sir Chinkee Tan. Your advice here is on point. I'll definitely have to work on strengthening my relationship with God. God bless po. More power! Please make more videos like this for us (pinoys) to be inspired and motivated to become financially worry-free and at the same time become closer to God. Salamat po ulit. Mabuhay!
thank u ser,,,, I follow u po,,,, sa totoo Lang po NASA point ako ngaun na gusto Kong pumatay ng tao,,,, pero nung mga napanuod Ko mga video po,,,, nakatulog ako ng may kapanatagan sa puso
God is good
NEVERRRR AGAIN. THANK YOU FOR THIS REMINDER.
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thank you sir you are a great channel of blessings from God to enlighten and bless people like me.God's anointing and favor be upon you always..
Thanks sir chinx naging positive nrin ako
Galing
Thank you po! More blessings to come in your lifee
Amen!! God bless you all!! Thank you for the great advice...
My mother raised us to be independent at all aspects except emotional, in w/c we were taught to please others esp kins before ourselves. But immediately after the death of my mom I learned that those people are “orocan”. I was lost for a long time and only by God’s grace that I survived the pain of not only losing my mom but also of knowing that the people were taught as a family since I was a child do not really give a damn about us. God is merciful- I live, survive and been truly connected with God more than ever.
GOD is good!
Sir, Thank you for enlighten me. I learned a lot from you! God Bless you....
Its true that I am a people please. Salamat sa advice.
Gud eve, tama po kayo at yan ngyayari skn ngayon n pra tanggapin naging snusnuran n lng sa knya..dapat kna po xa alisin sa buhay ko? Kc ngyysri po nkkaramdam nku ng galit at inis sa trato nia skn. Nkikita kna rin n po para ba npakaliit ng tingen nia skn.
Salamat po sa tips minsan nakakapagod tlaga maging man pleaser
You're welcome
God bless
I love u sir chinkee.. salamat sa mga video mo,marami akong natutunan. Hindi na ako depress dahil sa mga video mo
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God bless
parang ako to ahhhh thank u very much Mr. tan ur the best adviser...
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YAN ANG MALI KO PEOPLE PLEASER AKO AT MASYADO AKONG MABAIT
This is a very powerful statement.
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God bless
yes the first thing God taught me is to say NO. Pray first if it's the will of God....discern. and we cannot give what we do not have. also if it gives you stress don't . if there is doubt, don't
I am enlightened to this vlog
HASBIYALLAH wa nee’mal WAKEEL (GOD Almighty is enough for us). ☝️
thank you sir!
Thank you Sir Chinkee. Regards from Italy.
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Absolutely true
Thank you sir Chinkee..
welcome
Thank you sir nakakainspired sinasabi mo po
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Thank u Sir! God bless
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God is my security.
Thankbu so much for this learning
Ganda..
lam mo mr chikee mga payo mo akma s ate ko kc gnun n ganun tlaga cya..halos tama lahat yun payo mo problem ko pano magbabago kapatid ko sna mtugunan u po mga ng cocommit s inyo sagotin nyo sna din po
SALAMAT SIR............ I would like to take your advise................
You're welcome
God bless
Best one
Yes Ganyan PO ako
wow..such a man of God... :) :) :)
God bless!!! ;)
Indeed
Thanks sir you don't know how your videos helped me a lot
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I've been there, done that. Kaya ngayon hindi na. :)
I am already one of your new subscriber, I really like your vlogs or videos.It is informative, educational, inspirational and encouraging.God bless.
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God bless
Indeed!
Correct.
Thank youu! It really helped me
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I learned so much from your videos sir 😍
More pa sana ganto content heheh new viewer
I can totally relate, sir. :(
Kuya pwedi how to avoid conflicts work place thanks
may problema po ako , tingin ko po isa ako dito. and i just cant stop this attitude
Chinkee Tan and Herbert Bautista may have some similar features, but they are different people.
Hopefully, you'll reach 1M subscribers this 2020, Chinkee. Thank you for posting helpful and insightful videos. Godspeed to you and your family.
You're welcome
God bless
Yes po ganyan po aq
we can all change
Amen
Eh yong matulungin klang tgla still bad effect pa rin yon?
Sir Tanong lng po Ang people plesear po ba same same lng po ba sa insecure
Aww me ganito akong side😢
Ako pag alamko that I have done All my best tapos wala pang signal of appreciation gaya ng isang Boss hindi inuumintahan ang sweldoko Sibatnako hanap ng ibang trabaho! Ganon din sa mga kaibigan at kamaganak Kuno; ginagawa akong tanga, tsk tsk!
galing naman please share and subscribe
Salamat Sir Chinkee lagi po akong nakikinig sa mga pAngaral mo Sir..Nakaka encouraged po ang dami ko nang natutunan..maraming salamat po sa Sharing ng Idea.
Be a leader not a follower.
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Amen ! Very well said po. Thanx so much for all the spiritual advice. God bless always ..
Amen