Yoatzi y’all are just being REAL! The biggest difference is y’all are public and we’re not this is NORMAL. Pls don’t listen all of a sudden everyone has their PhD in therapy lol
@@Rxo008 let’s not point fingers this is exactly why relationships get to this point is the pointing fingers instead of communicating. You’re no one to say she will regret anything
He won’t look at how she looks at him every time he expresses himself. You can tell she only care for herself and how she feels this should go. She didn’t really agree to anything he said she added her thoughts along with everything to help herself out. No wonder I’m the live she said she didn’t want to edit this Video cuz it gave her anxiety.
TOTALLY! You took the words out of my mouth. I felt the same way watching the video, the way she kept saying how they both felt in the relationship and would look at him and say, right?, he would think about it before agreeing with her 🫣
Wow! This really makes me see her in a much different light! Cause her ex was “better” and yet she withstood that fool back and forth for YEARS….. and Alex, he’s just tooooooo good for her and she doesn’t know how to handle it cause she’s use to toxic! Sad! Self centered, for sure! She says it’s about the kids, but nah, it’s about her…. I read the comment that said “imagine losing someone cause you’re focused on being a good parent” and I couldn’t agree more! Alex, I pray alllllllll the goodness in this worlds finds you because being a great and very present dad for your kids is always the #1 priority because your kids love won’t ever switch up on you! Wow, imagine that! You deserve the love you give Yoatzi, you’re high key immature! Your facials say it all
I hope Alex makes his own video explaining and expressing his feelings. Yoatzi seems like a handful when it comes to relationships and wants everything to be rushed. Alex is calling her out on her bs and she’s trying to make it seem like it wasn’t ever her fault and he’s the bad guy. He deserves better
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
I wish he can make a vlog alone, he looks so sad like he wants to just talk about his feelings. He keeps getting interrupted I hope you’re okay Alex this is not you’re fault. Some people don’t know the concept of good things come to those who WAIT. Nothing comes good when you rush things. You’re a great father and a great role model! praying for you 🙏🏼💕
it’s the fact that it’s okay for him to be interrupted but not her…action speaks louder than words. and I’m sorry, it’s “ALEX AND MYSELF” not me and Alex 😭
That’s what I was thinking he keeps getting interrupted or I feel like yoatzi is like staring at him hard so he’s like damn I can’t really say much so he just says what he can
alex we’re sorry for prejudging the situation, this video made it very clear why this isn’t working out and it’s not your fault you took on the role of being a dad to a kid that isn’t even yours and you were taken for granted. You couldn’t even express yourself without being cut off or interrupted, time for yoatzi to find her 3rd baby daddy and just keep it pushing you’re a great guy!
@@Silvy91 cuz that’s probably exactly what she’s gonna do if she wasn’t ready to be in a relationship why start one and hurt someone along the way and her son 🤦🏼♀️
@@Silvy91because she’s already on tik tok live talking about her new “crush” so yeah it seems like she’s already looking for her 3rd baby daddy instead of time for herself
Girl this is something that can be fixed. No matter who your partner is, there will be times when you “loose yourself”, you’re too busy to go on dates, might feel unappreciated and so on. Marriages and relationships in general are so far from perfect, but if you guys love one another and the relationship isn’t toxic that it can definitely be worked on. Counseling, family vacations, date nights, girl dates, hobbies etc 💕
4th this!!!! Specially after kids!! You have to WORK at your relationship, kids can strain it and postpartum can change you but once you go through that rough patch and find your way back to putting each other first you find a groove and you’re good! If you can’t do that in a relationship you’re not ready for marriage. It’s not easy but so worth it 🩷🩷
Facts, focus on yourself and be there for your baby girl. You owe Yoatzi nothing. You are an amazing father and soon will fine an amazing womN who will match your vibe
100% it’s so refreshing hearing how he isn’t financially able to do the things she wants him to do like get engaged and throw a whole wedding. He’s not an influencer and doesn’t get brand deals like she does. Hopefully once day she understands that not everything goes her way
I keep coming back to try to understand this. I just want to say Alex you are a gem. A keeper. Don't blame yourself. We all saw you give your all. I wish you the best. It's not your fault. You got a good head on your shoulders. I can see the hurt in your expression. Keep your head up.
She’s definitely the problem. He deserves better. The whole timeline situation is dumb, the truth of the matter is there is no right or wrong time, it’s just the bullshit society engraves in our head. Loving someone and putting their effort into you and your child should be appreciated more. Glad she left him…He definitely dodged a bullet with her.
She let all these “influencer” weddings get to her head. He might not be perfect but neither is she. It’s hard to find a man that’s going to love your child like his own. She’s going to have so many men in and out of these kids lives.
She put up with so much disrespect with her ex but Alex wasn’t enough because he is a first time parent to two, and was doing his best to be a great father!? She keeps saying she needed this and that what about him ? And what he needed he was a new learning parent and that shit is hard. A ring doesn’t define anything and it seems like she isn’t mature enough to understand that. I hope he moves on and finds someone who truly appreciates him and fights for him the way she wants him to “fight for her”
The crazy part is this is the edited part she decided to post cuz she thought she would get people to agree with her. I can imagine that the unedited version is a lot more interrupting and eye rolls from her
When she says “I just feel like if you really want something you just work really hard for it”. Like girl, you have it easy, your brother got famous so automatically you got a following quick and easy. We are not all on social media, sitting at home, going to parties, shopping and getting paid for it. So many people live paycheck to paycheck, working REALLY hard to survive! Not even for the things that they want but to keep food on the table and a roof over their head.
@@noixzy7 exactly ….. and you don’t think he’s trying social media and his side jobs .. so for her to say to him he if wanted to do it he would .. girl he IS !!
And you would think them growing up not Rich she would have some sort of humbleness but she forgets that platform can be taken away just as fast & no shade I see it coming already
I always felt like this was a rushed relationship, but hopefully, both are happy with their decisions. You can tell alex is really a great dad not only to his daughter but to a kid that he doesn't share blood with amazing.
Alex is an amazing man. And I hope he finds the girl who doesn’t take him for granted. Any girl would love to be with someone like him and the way he just took in her son as it was his own and still does till now
Honestly , I feel like this breakup was much needed. Alex deserves someone who compliments him. I never saw that with yoatzi. I love Yoatzi so much but I think when it comes to relationships, she’s a handful
Maybe she does lie …I’m not gonna go compliment my partner of their is nothing to compliment him about ! 😂that’s lying and that’s not allowed so why would I do it 😂
Not only is he a great dad and taken for granted. But giving up when your kids barely one because he’s busy being a great dad would make me fall in love and try harder! Imagine falling out of love instead of trying especially when he took your son as his.
Yoatzi, in our generation numbers are unrealistic. I got engaged (to my now husband) 7 years into our relationship. I was only 22 when he proposed to me, we were so young. We got married 3 years later! We’re here today 16 years in. It takes tremendous time to know that you’re willing to put your all into your person. Flaws and all. You’ll be okay girl, your person will come along! ❤ xoxoxo
Agree I've been with my now husband for 13 years we got married 08/2021 I wasn't rushing it when the time came for both of us to settled down we agreed on it together to get married and we both enjoyed our wedding with our kids and family
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
thats the take ur taking from this ? he was trying to be a great dad for both ella and travis but he was loosing himself in the process. like he said he was gonna take care of not only his own but travis as well. he was being a good dad but shit happens.
It’s so sad, like he was being a new parent to just to his first born but to a kid she already had like make that make sense. He was being a figure to heal the pain Travis must of had I don’t think she realizes how important of a figure he is to Travis. And just because he devoted his time to them? Idk we live in a whole different world now I guess
watching this i’m so sad for alex i feel like he was working so far to please her and do things right. and i get him i would understand and appreciate if my boyfriend told me he is waiting for the right time especially when he wants to be financially stable and it’s obvious his feelings are always there for her. I thought it was adorable that he said that he would want to marry yoatzi right then and there but he is not in the place financially and it makes me so sad because i know if alex was financially there he would go out of his way to make yoatzi happy. but i feel like nothing is enough for her
That is true. I think because of your lifestyle that she has. She wouldn't be humble enough with a wedding with 60 people. Like I get that she came from poverty but looking now at her lifestyle does not show that she can be humble. Sorry yoatzi just what I see.
The moment you became a mom it honestly stopped being about you regardless if you are in a relationship or not. I met my husband when my kids from my previous marriage were entering their teenage years. He had it hard and he still chose us. And there’s nothing that makes me happier than when I see them spending time with eachother. I choose that over any flowers or anything. We’ve been together 4 years and we just had the opportunity to get married. Not everyone gets the opportunity to live a fairy tail but that doesn’t take away the value and the true feelings in a relationship. I hope you really take a step back and really see the big picture. I feel you still have things you need to work on in yourself and you are trying to have Alex fix them for you but I don’t think he has the solution to them. I really wish you both the best and I still see hope that this can workout.
No it never stops being about you regardless if you're a mom or not your cup needs to be full in order to take care of everyone else. So tired of hearing this narrative this is the main reason why mom's don't prioritize themselves because it's "not about mom" anymore when in reality moms run shit. Yes make sure your kids are always good but TAKE CARE OF YOU TOO MOMS because you matter too
That shows the level of maturity on her. Not talking bad about her but as a parent myself I would never make my partner pick what comes first specially with their daugher being so small and him being great with her son.
Literally, the fact that they only broke up a month ago and she’s already talking bout guys in her dms is crazy… while he’s not only taking care of their daughter but HER son.
@@__Vivi092 exactly everyone is talking shit about alex yet to me he is not wrong. He obviously knows her batter than any of her fans or people that watch her videos
@@lizbethbee2574 exactly everyone in the comments coming at him. But it’s clear she’s the problem. He’s only tryna be a better man for the kids. She should be focusing more on her kids as well. & the whole marriage thing look at all these influencers Bri&Fern, Laura&viC Etc they have been together forever and didn’t rush into marriage.
@@__Vivi092 i know yoatzi it’s a whole influencer or whatever but honestly i always seem alex do more for the kids than she did.. he always cooked for the family and seen him take care of the kids at home and she always out partying, i understand moms need time out too but idk yoatzi does seem toxic and selfish
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
It takes a lot of courage to put your relationship out there for everyone to watch especially knowing people will judge you. I hope you guys figure things out, whether it's together or seperate. Always rooting for yall. 🫶
its so obvious who the mature person is here.. Yoatzi has issues she has to resolve on her own. Louie literally tried to tell her what her problem is on their podcast and she took it in a whole different way to her convenience where even louie told her thats not what he meant. Alex your already out of this "relationship" and its the best u could have done. Yoatzi is alot to deal with because of her unresolved issues. They advocate for Betterhelp seeking therapy and what not but dont use it for themselves. Yoatzi seek help if its not for yourself do it for your babies. they dnt need to be dragged in deeper into all of this because u cannot realize or accept where you are wrong. hopefully Once u get the help u need maybe u guys can be better for eachother. At this point
I think you expected to much from him.. you already had Travis and it’s like you forced him to take that responsibility as well and it messed him up mentally..
Totally and i didnt see her doing her part she was well fed loved and I never saw her go out and about for him and expected so much from him it goes both ways🗣️
Imagine the pressure he feels knowing his proposal, the ring, wedding and everything else is going to end up on RUclips. You can tell he’s a great guy…..reminds me of my husband. We dated on and off for 4 years before he proposed. To this day he tells me it wasn’t because he didn’t love me, but because I (like Yoatzi) have a very STRONG personality and he didn’t know if he wanted to deal with my mood swings forever.
Being a nagging gf/wife can be a turn of for men as well it’s pushes them away. Also it’s nice to acknowledge men feelings not only our own. Therapy would help you guys because all I heard was “I” “me”. Not enough “how are you feeling” or “how about us or we ”🤷♀️ Alex shows empathy and yoatzi shows anger.
Omg this!! I got this feeling so much! A relationship is so much more than just one person especially with kids. And towards the end she seemed annoyed like he’s just expressing his emotions 🥺
As women it’s always about what we want, I want to be engaged, I want to do this & that, but we never stop & think like wait what does HE want? Most of the time we never realize we are selfish creatures, we set deadlines, & a lot of pressure to guys but marriage is life changing we need to understand it’s not just about us but them too. I feel like if you don’t let him go he will propose once he’s ready ❤️
The comments didn’t pass the vibe check because a majority of them were supporting Alex. This may be her channel but she knows her reasoning for leaving him and how she left him was immature. She had high expectations of people supporting her even when she was wrong and that’s not how it worked out in the end for her.
So you left him for not giving you the attention but actually giving it to your kids? he took your 1st kid like his own this is such a selfish move it was a not enought for you. Poor alex i feel so sorry for him. Alsoo you came out in a live saying you already had a crush? He doesn't deserve this.
How is this video supposed to be about his side but she talks majority of the time and interrupts him? He deserves someone that will appreciate the person he is.
It’s clear that you two have a chance and there’s hope. It’s also clear that you two have a lot to learn and it will take patience, dedication, compromise, & hard work! It’s possible!
All im going to say Yoatzi heal yourself mentally, physically & emotionally! I know your past journey was hard and probably still getting to you and now you’re a mom of 2 don’t rush things because of what other friends do. ❤
This, very wise words. From a very respectful point of view, respectful for what they shared, respectful for what they've been though. I was an emotionally immature woman for most of my 20s. I had the same mindset about the timeframe of dating, about an "ultimatum". I have been dating for 7 years now, are now engaged and the amount of people who always put their two cents about me holding around for so long and it's not about that at all. My partner and I know where we're at on the relationship and working things out, learning a lot from each other. I finally learned towards the 7 year mark, that our journey is ours. That I had a lot of growth to do for myself first and then as a couple. Relationships truly take work, work of self first and then together. So yes, I agree that she has a lot of healing to do, saying this with love and from my self journey. 🩷
Alex deserves better! Yoatzi wants a social media boyfriend and those are some pretty unrealistic standards to press on someone… the moment Alex finds a girl who appreciates him and sees the value of him, it’s gonna hit Yoatzi like a truck! Good luck to both of y’all !
When you come out of a toxic relationship unfortunately you carry those coping mechanisms. She is working on herself that's why she is more vocal about it. It takes time.
I find it funny how she made that uncalled comment about him (Alex), but what about the other ex ? Yeah the one that actually gave her hell.🤦🏻♀️ yep ! She needs to definitely work on herself because her maturity levels aren’t matching up.
Communication is key you two! I hope y'all work thru this, I can see the love between each other, just gotta mature and understand each other's views and opinions.
Alex please make your own video by yourself where you can actually talk!! Don’t be so hard on yourself your actually a keeper!! Yoatzi is the issue here!!
yoatzi literally had alex as a baby sitter. he was always with the kids & she was just doing what she wanted. yeah it’s her job, but same way she was going out with louie she could have gone out with alex. it’s takes 2 bro.
What I saw: Yoatzi seems mad she didn't get her way and Alex seems dissapointed. I get we all need and want to get at a point where were emotionally stable and want to "secure" a future, but leaving a toxic relationship and environment takes a lot of time to heal and find your true self. One day at a time. Hoping everything works out for both of them.
I’m literally in the same position I’m sad constantly because I am sad that I never got to date my partner because I got pregnant and we had to rush everything yet our relationship hasn’t flourished. I totally understand both parties I understand Yoatzi as a woman we love having those magical moments with our partner and when you don’t have it it almost feels like you’re dead inside like you’re missing out on something you never had. I also understand Alex and how easy it is to lose yourself being a parent. No one who hasn’t gone through this will understand I hope everything works out the way it has to I love you yoatzi and I hope you just do what makes you happy because at the end of the day that will make you a better parent❤️❤️Sending love and good vibes
im sorta the same way... i never actually got to date my man or get to know him, it was all about drinking from the start. on & off relationship, literally every month, ended up pregnant 2 years into it.. we bother have been sober since but now i feel like im missing something.. i feel like hes just a best friend, that i have 2 babies w... i honestly dont see a future w us 😮💨 its literally the same every single day, also him not helping around the house or w the kids whatsoever.. i feel empty, ive told him many times that "i feel like something is missing, you & the babies are here but i feel like im waiting for something or someone, but theres nothing im waiting for" 😢
Someone once said to me: In a relationship you have the Cinderella syndrome where you expect a relationship to be a fairy tale. No relationship is perfect. That’s why you communicate and grow together. Patience is a key. You can’t expect someone to change overnight. Besides, to love someone is not to change them 😭🥺
I feel for Alex , you can tell yoatzi wants everything her way and fast ! If you Truly love someone there should never be no time limit to anything. Especially knowing he maybe can’t afford it ;(, you can tell he was trying but she wants a social media aesthetic man who does all these things to prove his love but sometimes it’s not like that, it just shows that she didn’t want to be with certain things he didn’t do for her which is messed up
wdym sometimes it’s not like that. that’s why people have standards and things they want clearly Alex can’t give that to her. i don’t understand how you guys think yoatzi is toxic when it’s alex he claims he loves her but won’t go out of reach to prove it to her.
@@stephanieraya7737 Bffr if he left her because she spent most of her times with the kids how would that look? Also what about his needs? Did she fulfill them? No he clearly said in one video he was cleaning and organizing because yoatzi for the longest was mentally not okay and hadn’t cleaned. That’s love, any other guy would leave you at home to go and party. It’s called priorities, he doesn’t have to buy a brand new car just to show he loves her. You can see how much he did. He was sure fitting all her needs when all the stuff happened with her last relationship and helped her mentally feel ok and help Travis move past such trauma that can in the long term affect him, but that’s not love. Now, he doesn’t fit her needs. Now he makes her unhappy. You can’t force someone to marry you? Like are you listening that sounds crazy. Alex can’t express himself and you can see it, she invalidated his feelings and when she’s saying “I have to physically say what I need” that’s literally controlling. You are unresolved emotions that you need to heal before asking anybody to fulfill your own needs. When your content and happy with yourself you don’t need anybody meaning you don’t need anybody to come and make you happy. If you need someone to make you happy specially in a relationship you shouldn’t be in one. If it’s this hard and it’s a relationship, it’ll only get worse during marriage. It’s not about who is more toxic or who isn’t. Girl bffr, don’t gaslight her tantrum. She needs help and she needs to accept her wrongs same as Alex, once they can do that then manny things can be fixed and possibly find their way back. You’ll never grow as a person if you can’t accept where you went wrong, she clearly only likes to point who did what. If everyone lived with the victim mentality nobody would get anywhere.
My man proposed at our 7th anniversary and we're getting on our 10th anniversary (2 years left) her reasons are dumb AF. She seems toxic AF. Men propose when they feel ready to fully provide.
I think the biggest advice I could give you both is to address and meet eachother’s needs BUT the kids always come first. Once you have kids involved they are the priority, your needs come after theirs. If your partner is a great parent that’s amazing and you’re already blessed. When kids are this little there is very little time to do relationship stuff but you have to learn to appreciate and love the little things your partner does for you during this time. Seems like she didn’t want to be complacent in the relationship and he didn’t want the heavy pressure that was being applied although he seems to have been trying his best. Hopefully they can fix it especially for the sake of their babies!
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
@@stephanieraya7737no nobody knew how it went, but it’s not about getting out. She needs to truly understand where she went wrong. Before she was with Jesse she cheated on her bf to get with Jesse everyone knows how that ended and you clearly could see how much he was controlling and toxic to her. She accidentally got pregnant in a situation ship she didn’t even want. Now she’s leaving because she was unhappy and wasn’t getting her needs met. All these three people wether toxic or not they all ended the same. Nobody is telling her to go back, their simply letting her know she needs to accept and grow as a person. She is an amazing influencer, but sometimes. Sometimes we need to hear the hard truth in order to grow. Even Louie on the podcast looked irritated with her, saying “bitch again” and theirs nothing wrong with starting all over, like do it! But do it rite, heal your own person first before even trying with anybody new, accept your toxic and wrongs before even moving forward. If not she’ll continue every relationship with the victim mentality
I really hope Alex does a video on his channel. I don’t know but this kinda showed Yoatzi in a different light. Very toxic. I pray for both of them but especially for Alex to be able to work on his mental health and become the version he desires. ❤
Me and yoatzi had the same mindset it’s not healthy But girlie don’t rush it All this is a learning experience Everything will happen in gods timing 🫶🏻🙏🏼 praying things get better for you guys Take time to work on yourselves or therapy together 🙏🏼🥰
I think sometimes we are just to blind sided by what we have grown up seeing about what a "happy ending" should look like... when in reality that don't exist . We can easily get caught up in wanting what social media shows . ... but it's something unreal. From what I have seen Alex is such a great guy! And Yoatzi I can see where you are coming from mama. I hope it all works out for the best of you and the kiddos🫶🏽❤️ sending you guys all the positive vibes !! Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable to what reality really is. ❤Haters will always have something to say! 🤷🏽♀️😘It's sad to see that there are still women out there who have such low self esteem . Pobresitas 😢
I have been watching yoatzi for a long time and you can tell Alex is an amazing person who took in Travis as his own and was very involved and hands on with the kids . Maybe yoatzi way of receiving love is in gifts and dates and his was cooking for you being involved with the kids and it was something that could definitely be worked on.
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
My husband and I got together after only knowing each other for 3 months and I completely understand how stressful it is to not to have time to date and get to know each other before the baby and especially after the baby. It’s extremely hard in the beginning. I would say the first 3 years are the hardest. But if you love each other I mean really love each other it will work out as long as you BOTH put in the effort. Stop being selfish, stop being spiteful and learn to grow with each other and be a team. Wishing you guys the best 🫶🏼
Look at Karen and Sebas and Bri and Fern. They all grew together and then got engaged. A ring isn't going to fix anything. Trust me marriage is hard and you are tested the first couple year's. That piece of paper definitely changes things and not always in a good way. Every relationship takes times. Wishing you both the best.
No relationship is perfect! But like you said “if you really want something you work for it” and if you guys both really want this relationship you work for it! I’m not the type of person to comment but I just had to because you guys are both amazing individuals with two amazing little babies. I’ve met you both and you guys are full of energy. As a girl I understand where you’re coming from with the whole “bf award” thing. That also caused my relationship but it’s not us being selfish, it’s more than that and I’ve read that it has to do a lot with our own trauma. So don’t beat yourself up for it but take this time to work on your mental state. I could be wrong but I’m genuinely speaking from experience. I felt like I was in a position where I was asking for too much when in reality I wasn’t. So we decided we’d both work on eachother until we were happy with ourselves. Self love is the key babe. Alex is an amazing guy/father. Definitely a keeper especially in this generation. We’re all human, we all have flaws but we just have to choose the people who are worth going through life’s up’s and downs with. No one said it would be easy. Take time for yourselves, you both have different trauma wether it be from your childhood or even now! Learn them and overcome them. If it’s meant to be it’ll be. Best of luck ❤
I think Yoatzi is just confused about what she wants or needs in a relationship. In the podcast, she’s talking about how she lost herself because of the relationship. Here, she says it basically didn’t feel like a relationship. Regardless, still love both. Alex seems like a good dude and she just seems a little lost.
yoatzi man girl idk where to start, but girl I'm disappointed in you. Alex is trying & is also being brutally honest with his feelings & in the end you tell him he pisses you off??? smh. You should be happy he's communicating with you!! Not all men will or even try. If you want it to work you have to hear him out, even if the truth hurts, it is what it is. It seems you're mad he's telling the story how ya'll really got together & you want to paint it nicer & get mad he's not. Like girl?? Not everything is rainbows. I've been married 10 years & it's hard. Appreciate Alex stepped up, now a days most men won't even want a woman with a child. He said it too, he wasn't ready but was trying!! I'm sorry but I'm on Alex's side on this one
Hopefully you guys can make it work out everyone had there issues it isn’t easy 😮 but I hope you guys figure it out and see eye to eye about a lot of stuff !!!
He sounds like a great guy she really lost a good one all because she wants to rush him smh.. He mentally wasn’t ready but he tried to be the best dad to those kids, it isn’t your fault Alex some people just don’t know how to value a person for what they do and all they do is complain instead of making things work , a relationship takes 2 ppl 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I would be so embarrassed to upload this. Yoatzi, do better girl.. that mentality isn’t gonna get you anywhere, especially when a lot of men these days just wanna party it up with different girls, and you can tell Alex genuinely just wanted a family. So sad.
Some things just need to be private. Yoatzi spent this whole time blaming him deflecting and she sounds angry, resentful and gaslighting Alex. Said he could tell his side but yet carried the video. You could tell she’s angry and isn’t receiving what he’s saying. This video should have not been uploaded. This should be between them. These things should just be talked about between the 2 people in the relationship. Embarrassing.
After having a shitty ass ex that she suffered anxiety etc you would figure she would’ve been grateful to have had Alex by her side; responsable; respectful lovable and caring that accepted Travis as his own treated him with love ! She took him fro granted y ahora sola esta!!!!
I feel like his more way more mature then her. She is very close minded and like that No Va tener un hombre de verdad q sea bueno. Cause if he is a good father to your son that shows what type of men he is.
Honestly I feel like it’s you who doesn’t put work into your relationship. Alex seems so nice and caring with your kids. He loves both kids and you pressuring him and giving him an amount of time to propose?
No relationship is perfect. You both need to work on yourself’s individually. Romantic relationships are the biggest mirrors to the inner work we have to do. Anything we dislike about our partners it’s actually mirroring to us what we dislike about ourselves. Self awareness is very important to heal those parts of us. Another advice that has helped me a lot was, that we can’t receive what we don’t give ourselves. So if we want love, attention, to feel valued, etc. we need to give that to ourselves first. Hope this helps. Sending you much love.
Yoatzi said that he didn’t get the “boyfriend award” I wonder if she got the girlfriend award? A relationship is a two way street. To me it seems like she wants what she wants when she wants and Alex made her upset when he wouldn’t do it.
Alex you are such an amazing person, you became a dad to a kid that was not yours while also taking care of your own. Unfortunately that wasn’t enough for her. Don’t ever feel like your feelings should be brushed under the rug. this video wasn’t necessary at all this was a conversation you both should’ve had in private with a therapist. Alex keep working on yourself and for your kids. The right person will value you and appreciate you for you. It’s better to really get to know someone instead of jumping straight to marriage. Esp when there have been many pumps and like yoatzi said “she broke your heart” and she’s admitting it to many viewers. That’s just sad. I love ya alex you’re gonna be successful
Yoatzi we love you but you lost a great guy… Alex it is NOT your fault you took on an extra role you didn’t have to but you did and your doing great!😭 Stay strong Alex we see your hard work and you loving daddy side❤️
She's going to regret losing him too, maybe not now but in a couple of years when he finds someone who appreciates him and his efforts to be a great dad.
Alot of people don’t understand how hard it can be to adjust to your relationship changing after having a baby especially if you weren’t together for long before that, it’s a lot of pressure and sometimes it’s better to just break it off rather than forcing something disingenuous. Better for your kids to see you civil than fighting all the time if that’s the case
“Room mate stages” and “losing yourself “ are definitely the hardest, especially when you are on social media and see all the cute things others do for their gfs. ❤ I learned to just set up the dates myself lol same w my bf he’s worried about the kids and bills 24/7 . I also understand Alex about the rushing of engaged, like sebas said he didn’t feel financially ready to give it his all nor where he wanted to be in life .
The comments did not pass the vibe check lmao. But I’m glad you guys have a spot to express your feelings 🤍
Yoatzi don’t listen to people as long as you happy and healthy live your life with your two beautiful kids ❤❤❤ilysm
Yoatzi y’all are just being REAL! The biggest difference is y’all are public and we’re not this is NORMAL. Pls don’t listen all of a sudden everyone has their PhD in therapy lol
This is a huge eye opener for yourself then! Your going to regret losing this man!!!
@@Rxo008 let’s not point fingers this is exactly why relationships get to this point is the pointing fingers instead of communicating. You’re no one to say she will regret anything
Did the comment not past the vine check because they didn’t say what you wanted to hear. A ring does not defined a relationship
Yeah, I hope Alex does his own video expressing his feelings. You can tell he was holding back.
She kept interrupting him or tryna finish his sentences.. I would’ve loved to see his point of view.
She said she wanted to give Alex the space like he dosent have his own channel lol all she wanted was the money part of course 😂😂😂
Oh yeah
Yes!
freakin sucks he couldn’t “tell his side” .. poor guy
I want to hear Alex’s true feelings and thoughts about this on his channel ❤️
He won’t look at how she looks at him every time he expresses himself. You can tell she only care for herself and how she feels this should go. She didn’t really agree to anything he said she added her thoughts along with everything to help herself out. No wonder I’m the live she said she didn’t want to edit this Video cuz it gave her anxiety.
I agree, I feel like she held him back from saying what he wanted to say.
TOTALLY! You took the words out of my mouth. I felt the same way watching the video, the way she kept saying how they both felt in the relationship and would look at him and say, right?, he would think about it before agreeing with her 🫣
The fact that she’s getting mad when Alex is trying to explain his side of the story is mind blowing.
Wow! This really makes me see her in a much different light! Cause her ex was “better” and yet she withstood that fool back and forth for YEARS….. and Alex, he’s just tooooooo good for her and she doesn’t know how to handle it cause she’s use to toxic! Sad!
Self centered, for sure! She says it’s about the kids, but nah, it’s about her…. I read the comment that said “imagine losing someone cause you’re focused on being a good parent” and I couldn’t agree more!
Alex, I pray alllllllll the goodness in this worlds finds you because being a great and very present dad for your kids is always the #1 priority because your kids love won’t ever switch up on you!
Wow, imagine that!
You deserve the love you give Yoatzi, you’re high key immature! Your facials say it all
I hope Alex makes his own video explaining and expressing his feelings. Yoatzi seems like a handful when it comes to relationships and wants everything to be rushed. Alex is calling her out on her bs and she’s trying to make it seem like it wasn’t ever her fault and he’s the bad guy. He deserves better
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
Girl he stepped up to be a father to a kid that isn’t even his. How dare you be like “3 years or you’re gone.” Should feel ashamed
Exactly. MOST men will not care for a kid like if it was there's or even be willing to take of one that isn't there's.
Girl he wasn’t giving her what she wanted from the relationship being a good father isn’t enough he Wasn’t a good partner. He wasn’t giving her enough
I wish he can make a vlog alone, he looks so sad like he wants to just talk about his feelings. He keeps getting interrupted I hope you’re okay Alex this is not you’re fault. Some people don’t know the concept of good things come to those who WAIT. Nothing comes good when you rush things. You’re a great father and a great role model! praying for you 🙏🏼💕
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YES! She wanted to rush into things, I think it’s bc her influencer friends were getting engaged and married…it got to her head.
it’s the fact that it’s okay for him to be interrupted but not her…action speaks louder than words. and I’m sorry, it’s “ALEX AND MYSELF” not me and Alex 😭
That’s what I was thinking he keeps getting interrupted or I feel like yoatzi is like staring at him hard so he’s like damn I can’t really say much so he just says what he can
I thought I was the only one who noticed he looked sad, and kept getting interrupted
alex we’re sorry for prejudging the situation, this video made it very clear why this isn’t working out and it’s not your fault you took on the role of being a dad to a kid that isn’t even yours and you were taken for granted. You couldn’t even express yourself without being cut off or interrupted, time for yoatzi to find her 3rd baby daddy and just keep it pushing you’re a great guy!
Why you had to say 3rd baby daddy ? Why not time to love herself , weirdo.
@@Silvy91 cuz that’s probably exactly what she’s gonna do if she wasn’t ready to be in a relationship why start one and hurt someone along the way and her son 🤦🏼♀️
@@Silvy91because she’s already on tik tok live talking about her new “crush” so yeah it seems like she’s already looking for her 3rd baby daddy instead of time for herself
@Rubi no lies were said ! 💯
i was like wait whaaaatttttt
All I am going to say is…..Alex, you deserve better babe! ❤
Girl this is something that can be fixed. No matter who your partner is, there will be times when you “loose yourself”, you’re too busy to go on dates, might feel unappreciated and so on. Marriages and relationships in general are so far from perfect, but if you guys love one another and the relationship isn’t toxic that it can definitely be worked on. Counseling, family vacations, date nights, girl dates, hobbies etc 💕
I second this...
YESSS! I third this…
Agreed!!!! Marriage is a lot of work but it’s so worth it
4th this!!!!
Specially after kids!! You have to WORK at your relationship, kids can strain it and postpartum can change you but once you go through that rough patch and find your way back to putting each other first you find a groove and you’re good! If you can’t do that in a relationship you’re not ready for marriage. It’s not easy but so worth it 🩷🩷
Yep
Good luck to you both. Alex, it isn’t your fault. Stop blaming yourself.
Exactly 😢
Facts, focus on yourself and be there for your baby girl. You owe Yoatzi nothing. You are an amazing father and soon will fine an amazing womN who will match your vibe
Definitely agree
Love how Alex is standing his ground! 💯
100% it’s so refreshing hearing how he isn’t financially able to do the things she wants him to do like get engaged and throw a whole wedding. He’s not an influencer and doesn’t get brand deals like she does. Hopefully once day she understands that not everything goes her way
I keep coming back to try to understand this. I just want to say Alex you are a gem. A keeper. Don't blame yourself. We all saw you give your all. I wish you the best. It's not your fault. You got a good head on your shoulders. I can see the hurt in your expression. Keep your head up.
I think this is what’s best for Alex, God is looking out for you. You seem like a good person and you will find someone who appreciates you.
She’s definitely the problem. He deserves better. The whole timeline situation is dumb, the truth of the matter is there is no right or wrong time, it’s just the bullshit society engraves in our head. Loving someone and putting their effort into you and your child should be appreciated more. Glad she left him…He definitely dodged a bullet with her.
She let all these “influencer” weddings get to her head. He might not be perfect but neither is she. It’s hard to find a man that’s going to love your child like his own. She’s going to have so many men in and out of these kids lives.
i literally saw him at the mall by himself with ella it’s so bad
She put up with so much disrespect with her ex but Alex wasn’t enough because he is a first time parent to two, and was doing his best to be a great father!? She keeps saying she needed this and that what about him ? And what he needed he was a new learning parent and that shit is hard. A ring doesn’t define anything and it seems like she isn’t mature enough to understand that. I hope he moves on and finds someone who truly appreciates him and fights for him the way she wants him to “fight for her”
The crazy part is this is the edited part she decided to post cuz she thought she would get people to agree with her. I can imagine that the unedited version is a lot more interrupting and eye rolls from her
Towards the end I literally felt the tension from her you can even see it in her face when she looked at him
When she says “I just feel like if you really want something you just work really hard for it”. Like girl, you have it easy, your brother got famous so automatically you got a following quick and easy. We are not all on social media, sitting at home, going to parties, shopping and getting paid for it. So many people live paycheck to paycheck, working REALLY hard to survive! Not even for the things that they want but to keep food on the table and a roof over their head.
Exactly !!!! That was selfish asf and inconsiderate.
Yesss!!! She doesn't understand money doesn't grow on trees and sometimes even if you work you ass off you still can save tons of money!
@@noixzy7 exactly ….. and you don’t think he’s trying social media and his side jobs .. so for her to say to him he if wanted to do it he would .. girl he IS !!
And you would think them growing up not Rich she would have some sort of humbleness but she forgets that platform can be taken away just as fast & no shade I see it coming already
@@noixzy7 he clearly said if he could get married rite now he would but he’s not financially able to .
I always felt like this was a rushed relationship, but hopefully, both are happy with their decisions. You can tell alex is really a great dad not only to his daughter but to a kid that he doesn't share blood with amazing.
Alex is an amazing man. And I hope he finds the girl who doesn’t take him for granted. Any girl would love to be with someone like him and the way he just took in her son as it was his own and still does till now
Yoatzi brings him in to tell his side but gets upset when he does. I feel bad for Alex. I think this breakup is good for them both.
I know right !! Every time he would actually spill the tea she would Interrupt and “correct”.
His feelings don’t matter. Sad.
Honestly , I feel like this breakup was much needed. Alex deserves someone who compliments him. I never saw that with yoatzi. I love Yoatzi so much but I think when it comes to relationships, she’s a handful
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I agree with this. I love yoatzi too but I think that Alex gives the most
Yesss👏🏻 she wanted him to do all that but what about her doing it to him. Just as much as she needed love he did too.
She definitely gives that energy.
Maybe she does lie …I’m not gonna go compliment my partner of their is nothing to compliment him about ! 😂that’s lying and that’s not allowed so why would I do it 😂
Not only is he a great dad and taken for granted. But giving up when your kids barely one because he’s busy being a great dad would make me fall in love and try harder! Imagine falling out of love instead of trying especially when he took your son as his.
Yoatzi, in our generation numbers are unrealistic. I got engaged (to my now husband) 7 years into our relationship. I was only 22 when he proposed to me, we were so young. We got married 3 years later! We’re here today 16 years in. It takes tremendous time to know that you’re willing to put your all into your person. Flaws and all. You’ll be okay girl, your person will come along! ❤ xoxoxo
Agree I've been with my now husband for 13 years we got married 08/2021 I wasn't rushing it when the time came for both of us to settled down we agreed on it together to get married and we both enjoyed our wedding with our kids and family
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
So y’all broke up because he was trying to be a good dad……
I’m confused
Being a first time parent is hard and when you do focus on your kids and forget to take time for partner it does take a toll on your relationship.
thats the take ur taking from this ? he was trying to be a great dad for both ella and travis but he was loosing himself in the process. like he said he was gonna take care of not only his own but travis as well. he was being a good dad but shit happens.
@@Goldensapphire.yeah I get
It’s so sad, like he was being a new parent to just to his first born but to a kid she already had like make that make sense. He was being a figure to heal the pain Travis must of had I don’t think she realizes how important of a figure he is to Travis. And just because he devoted his time to them? Idk we live in a whole different world now I guess
watching this i’m so sad for alex i feel like he was working so far to please her and do things right. and i get him i would understand and appreciate if my boyfriend told me he is waiting for the right time especially when he wants to be financially stable and it’s obvious his feelings are always there for her. I thought it was adorable that he said that he would want to marry yoatzi right then and there but he is not in the place financially and it makes me so sad because i know if alex was financially there he would go out of his way to make yoatzi happy. but i feel like nothing is enough for her
That is true. I think because of your lifestyle that she has. She wouldn't be humble enough with a wedding with 60 people. Like I get that she came from poverty but looking now at her lifestyle does not show that she can be humble. Sorry yoatzi just what I see.
tbh idk i feel like their both in different head spaces, they both deserve better
The moment you became a mom it honestly stopped being about you regardless if you are in a relationship or not. I met my husband when my kids from my previous marriage were entering their teenage years. He had it hard and he still chose us. And there’s nothing that makes me happier than when I see them spending time with eachother. I choose that over any flowers or anything. We’ve been together 4 years and we just had the opportunity to get married. Not everyone gets the opportunity to live a fairy tail but that doesn’t take away the value and the true feelings in a relationship. I hope you really take a step back and really see the big picture. I feel you still have things you need to work on in yourself and you are trying to have Alex fix them for you but I don’t think he has the solution to them. I really wish you both the best and I still see hope that this can workout.
No it never stops being about you regardless if you're a mom or not your cup needs to be full in order to take care of everyone else. So tired of hearing this narrative this is the main reason why mom's don't prioritize themselves because it's "not about mom" anymore when in reality moms run shit. Yes make sure your kids are always good but TAKE CARE OF YOU TOO MOMS because you matter too
@@killerfootsteps I guess all her happy videos with him were fake...
Love your comment, very respectful and wise pov. Men matter too!
Love Alex praying he gets to where he wants to be mentally and emotionally 💕
Imagine losing someone because you were being an amazing parent :(
That shows the level of maturity on her. Not talking bad about her but as a parent myself I would never make my partner pick what comes first specially with their daugher being so small and him being great with her son.
Literally, the fact that they only broke up a month ago and she’s already talking bout guys in her dms is crazy… while he’s not only taking care of their daughter but HER son.
@@__Vivi092 exactly everyone is talking shit about alex yet to me he is not wrong. He obviously knows her batter than any of her fans or people that watch her videos
@@lizbethbee2574 exactly everyone in the comments coming at him. But it’s clear she’s the problem. He’s only tryna be a better man for the kids. She should be focusing more on her kids as well. & the whole marriage thing look at all these influencers Bri&Fern, Laura&viC Etc they have been together forever and didn’t rush into marriage.
@@__Vivi092 i know yoatzi it’s a whole influencer or whatever but honestly i always seem alex do more for the kids than she did.. he always cooked for the family and seen him take care of the kids at home and she always out partying, i understand moms need time out too but idk yoatzi does seem toxic and selfish
Alex is solid proof of a REAL MAN . Honestly wish you the best . ❤️
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
It takes a lot of courage to put your relationship out there for everyone to watch especially knowing people will judge you. I hope you guys figure things out, whether it's together or seperate. Always rooting for yall. 🫶
its so obvious who the mature person is here.. Yoatzi has issues she has to resolve on her own. Louie literally tried to tell her what her problem is on their podcast and she took it in a whole different way to her convenience where even louie told her thats not what he meant. Alex your already out of this "relationship" and its the best u could have done. Yoatzi is alot to deal with because of her unresolved issues. They advocate for Betterhelp seeking therapy and what not but dont use it for themselves. Yoatzi seek help if its not for yourself do it for your babies. they dnt need to be dragged in deeper into all of this because u cannot realize or accept where you are wrong. hopefully Once u get the help u need maybe u guys can be better for eachother. At this point
I think you expected to much from him.. you already had Travis and it’s like you forced him to take that responsibility as well and it messed him up mentally..
Totally and i didnt see her doing her part she was well fed loved and I never saw her go out and about for him and expected so much from him it goes both ways🗣️
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THE ENTIRE VIDEO YOATZI PUT HERSELF ON BLAST LIKE GIRL YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. YOU. ALEX SOUND CLEAR MINDED ON EVERYTHING HE SAID. 💅
He deserves better 😊 period.
This girl is immature asf & he’s too good of a man for her. She just happened to get pregnant. She just sees him as a ‘best friend ‘ & a nanny .
Imagine the pressure he feels knowing his proposal, the ring, wedding and everything else is going to end up on RUclips. You can tell he’s a great guy…..reminds me of my husband. We dated on and off for 4 years before he proposed. To this day he tells me it wasn’t because he didn’t love me, but because I (like Yoatzi) have a very STRONG personality and he didn’t know if he wanted to deal with my mood swings forever.
Being a nagging gf/wife can be a turn of for men as well it’s pushes them away. Also it’s nice to acknowledge men feelings not only our own. Therapy would help you guys because all I heard was “I” “me”. Not enough “how are you feeling” or “how about us or we ”🤷♀️ Alex shows empathy and yoatzi shows anger.
Omg this!! I got this feeling so much! A relationship is so much more than just one person especially with kids. And towards the end she seemed annoyed like he’s just expressing his emotions 🥺
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this comment needs to be seen by them im frrr this is exactly how i feel it is!
This 👏🏽
Seriously yoatzi acts like a child
As women it’s always about what we want, I want to be engaged, I want to do this & that, but we never stop & think like wait what does HE want? Most of the time we never realize we are selfish creatures, we set deadlines, & a lot of pressure to guys but marriage is life changing we need to understand it’s not just about us but them too. I feel like if you don’t let him go he will propose once he’s ready ❤️
The comments didn’t pass the vibe check because a majority of them were supporting Alex. This may be her channel but she knows her reasoning for leaving him and how she left him was immature. She had high expectations of people supporting her even when she was wrong and that’s not how it worked out in the end for her.
So you left him for not giving you the attention but actually giving it to your kids? he took your 1st kid like his own this is such a selfish move it was a not enought for you. Poor alex i feel so sorry for him. Alsoo you came out in a live saying you already had a crush? He doesn't deserve this.
I agree!
Im sure he knows the girl he has and they wont last dna on baby girl 😅😅
How is this video supposed to be about his side but she talks majority of the time and interrupts him? He deserves someone that will appreciate the person he is.
It’s clear that you two have a chance and there’s hope. It’s also clear that you two have a lot to learn and it will take patience, dedication, compromise, & hard work! It’s possible!
All im going to say Yoatzi heal yourself mentally, physically & emotionally! I know your past journey was hard and probably still getting to you and now you’re a mom of 2 don’t rush things because of what other friends do. ❤
This..
This, very wise words. From a very respectful point of view, respectful for what they shared, respectful for what they've been though. I was an emotionally immature woman for most of my 20s. I had the same mindset about the timeframe of dating, about an "ultimatum". I have been dating for 7 years now, are now engaged and the amount of people who always put their two cents about me holding around for so long and it's not about that at all. My partner and I know where we're at on the relationship and working things out, learning a lot from each other. I finally learned towards the 7 year mark, that our journey is ours. That I had a lot of growth to do for myself first and then as a couple. Relationships truly take work, work of self first and then together. So yes, I agree that she has a lot of healing to do, saying this with love and from my self journey. 🩷
Alex deserves better! Yoatzi wants a social media boyfriend and those are some pretty unrealistic standards to press on someone… the moment Alex finds a girl who appreciates him and sees the value of him, it’s gonna hit Yoatzi like a truck! Good luck to both of y’all !
You can tell Yoatzi is too toxic , and you can tell Alex is annoyed af.
I wanted her to just let him talk but she kept getting defensive. I love her but I feel bad for him. I totally understand him.
@@honeya3362 yesss she kept interrupting him , and she wanted him to agree with her 🥴
tbh like poor guy he was trying his best
When you come out of a toxic relationship unfortunately you carry those coping mechanisms. She is working on herself that's why she is more vocal about it. It takes time.
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You can tell she didn’t like him telling his part of the story…
I deadass love alex he’s such an amazing dad and person i love how he still has love for both of the babies🥰❤
The way she put him down as no to the “best boyfriend” award 🤣🤣🤣 bffr yoatzi.
Can’t even imagine leaving a relationship for someone who is trying to be the perfect dad to not only HIS own but her own LMAO
I find it funny how she made that uncalled comment about him (Alex), but what about the other ex ? Yeah the one that actually gave her hell.🤦🏻♀️ yep ! She needs to definitely work on herself because her maturity levels aren’t matching up.
You wanted to give him a chance to explain..Yet you totally took over the convo...😮
Communication is key you two! I hope y'all work thru this, I can see the love between each other, just gotta mature and understand each other's views and opinions.
Alex has a good head on his shoulders. He is an amazing dad…
I agree with Alex he's definitely the adult in this relationship. Give him a chance to speak
Alex please make your own video by yourself where you can actually talk!! Don’t be so hard on yourself your actually a keeper!! Yoatzi is the issue here!!
yoatzi literally had alex as a baby sitter. he was always with the kids & she was just doing what she wanted. yeah it’s her job, but same way she was going out with louie she could have gone out with alex. it’s takes 2 bro.
Yoatzi doesn’t hold herself accountable for what she said . She’s tryna look good for the video. She needs time to heal
What I saw: Yoatzi seems mad she didn't get her way and Alex seems dissapointed. I get we all need and want to get at a point where were emotionally stable and want to "secure" a future, but leaving a toxic relationship and environment takes a lot of time to heal and find your true self. One day at a time. Hoping everything works out for both of them.
Gaaaadamnnn she got mad way too quick and just cut him off 🫣 like why even make this video
The lip bitting means "nervousness"😅i suffer from that. She looks very UPSET when he talks, like she dont want him to say the truth
Maybe letting him speak his mind ….. you can see his frustration cause she keeps finishing his story but you can tell it’s not what he wanted to say
Yoatzi wants to get married so bad she ruined her relationship. She's going to be another princess Mae , third baby daddy coming soon
I’m literally in the same position I’m sad constantly because I am sad that I never got to date my partner because I got pregnant and we had to rush everything yet our relationship hasn’t flourished. I totally understand both parties I understand Yoatzi as a woman we love having those magical moments with our partner and when you don’t have it it almost feels like you’re dead inside like you’re missing out on something you never had. I also understand Alex and how easy it is to lose yourself being a parent. No one who hasn’t gone through this will understand I hope everything works out the way it has to I love you yoatzi and I hope you just do what makes you happy because at the end of the day that will make you a better parent❤️❤️Sending love and good vibes
im sorta the same way... i never actually got to date my man or get to know him, it was all about drinking from the start. on & off relationship, literally every month, ended up pregnant 2 years into it.. we bother have been sober since but now i feel like im missing something.. i feel like hes just a best friend, that i have 2 babies w... i honestly dont see a future w us 😮💨 its literally the same every single day, also him not helping around the house or w the kids whatsoever.. i feel empty, ive told him many times that "i feel like something is missing, you & the babies are here but i feel like im waiting for something or someone, but theres nothing im waiting for" 😢
@@daniellenelson8222 I hope you can find what makes you happy🤍
Someone once said to me: In a relationship you have the Cinderella syndrome where you expect a relationship to be a fairy tale. No relationship is perfect. That’s why you communicate and grow together. Patience is a key. You can’t expect someone to change overnight. Besides, to love someone is not to change them 😭🥺
Love this !!!!! ❤
I feel for Alex , you can tell yoatzi wants everything her way and fast ! If you Truly love someone there should never be no time limit to anything. Especially knowing he maybe can’t afford it ;(, you can tell he was trying but she wants a social media aesthetic man who does all these things to prove his love but sometimes it’s not like that, it just shows that she didn’t want to be with certain things he didn’t do for her which is messed up
I agree 😢
totally agree
Very true
wdym sometimes it’s not like that. that’s why people have standards and things they want clearly Alex can’t give that to her. i don’t understand how you guys think yoatzi is toxic when it’s alex he claims he loves her but won’t go out of reach to prove it to her.
@@stephanieraya7737 Bffr if he left her because she spent most of her times with the kids how would that look? Also what about his needs? Did she fulfill them? No he clearly said in one video he was cleaning and organizing because yoatzi for the longest was mentally not okay and hadn’t cleaned. That’s love, any other guy would leave you at home to go and party. It’s called priorities, he doesn’t have to buy a brand new car just to show he loves her. You can see how much he did. He was sure fitting all her needs when all the stuff happened with her last relationship and helped her mentally feel ok and help Travis move past such trauma that can in the long term affect him, but that’s not love. Now, he doesn’t fit her needs. Now he makes her unhappy. You can’t force someone to marry you? Like are you listening that sounds crazy. Alex can’t express himself and you can see it, she invalidated his feelings and when she’s saying “I have to physically say what I need” that’s literally controlling. You are unresolved emotions that you need to heal before asking anybody to fulfill your own needs. When your content and happy with yourself you don’t need anybody meaning you don’t need anybody to come and make you happy. If you need someone to make you happy specially in a relationship you shouldn’t be in one. If it’s this hard and it’s a relationship, it’ll only get worse during marriage. It’s not about who is more toxic or who isn’t. Girl bffr, don’t gaslight her tantrum. She needs help and she needs to accept her wrongs same as Alex, once they can do that then manny things can be fixed and possibly find their way back. You’ll never grow as a person if you can’t accept where you went wrong, she clearly only likes to point who did what. If everyone lived with the victim mentality nobody would get anywhere.
My man proposed at our 7th anniversary and we're getting on our 10th anniversary (2 years left) her reasons are dumb AF. She seems toxic AF. Men propose when they feel ready to fully provide.
I think the biggest advice I could give you both is to address and meet eachother’s needs BUT the kids always come first. Once you have kids involved they are the priority, your needs come after theirs. If your partner is a great parent that’s amazing and you’re already blessed. When kids are this little there is very little time to do relationship stuff but you have to learn to appreciate and love the little things your partner does for you during this time. Seems like she didn’t want to be complacent in the relationship and he didn’t want the heavy pressure that was being applied although he seems to have been trying his best. Hopefully they can fix it especially for the sake of their babies!
Alex!!!! It’s okayyyyy, don’t let this bring you down we see how amazing you are. Don’t let them boss you
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
@@stephanieraya7737no nobody knew how it went, but it’s not about getting out. She needs to truly understand where she went wrong. Before she was with Jesse she cheated on her bf to get with Jesse everyone knows how that ended and you clearly could see how much he was controlling and toxic to her. She accidentally got pregnant in a situation ship she didn’t even want. Now she’s leaving because she was unhappy and wasn’t getting her needs met. All these three people wether toxic or not they all ended the same. Nobody is telling her to go back, their simply letting her know she needs to accept and grow as a person. She is an amazing influencer, but sometimes. Sometimes we need to hear the hard truth in order to grow. Even Louie on the podcast looked irritated with her, saying “bitch again” and theirs nothing wrong with starting all over, like do it! But do it rite, heal your own person first before even trying with anybody new, accept your toxic and wrongs before even moving forward. If not she’ll continue every relationship with the victim mentality
I really hope Alex does a video on his channel. I don’t know but this kinda showed Yoatzi in a different light. Very toxic. I pray for both of them but especially for Alex to be able to work on his mental health and become the version he desires. ❤
Me and yoatzi had the same mindset it’s not healthy
But girlie don’t rush it
All this is a learning experience
Everything will happen in gods timing 🫶🏻🙏🏼 praying things get better for you guys
Take time to work on yourselves or therapy together 🙏🏼🥰
I think sometimes we are just to blind sided by what we have grown up seeing about what a "happy ending" should look like... when in reality that don't exist . We can easily get caught up in wanting what social media shows . ... but it's something unreal. From what I have seen Alex is such a great guy! And Yoatzi I can see where you are coming from mama. I hope it all works out for the best of you and the kiddos🫶🏽❤️ sending you guys all the positive vibes !! Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable to what reality really is. ❤Haters will always have something to say! 🤷🏽♀️😘It's sad to see that there are still women out there who have such low self esteem . Pobresitas 😢
I have been watching yoatzi for a long time and you can tell Alex is an amazing person who took in Travis as his own and was very involved and hands on with the kids . Maybe yoatzi way of receiving love is in gifts and dates and his was cooking for you being involved with the kids and it was something that could definitely be worked on.
@dezziii_69 super agree
Yoatzi you you deserve what makes you happy and if this relationship didn’t do that then you did the right thing. i don’t understand how everyone immediately took his side it’s frustrating being in your spot. Wanting something out of a relationship but not being able to get it. leaving was the right thing to do or else you would constantly be in a battle with him and yourself. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they didn’t know how it truly went in the relationship.
ALEX SAY YOUR “REAL” TRUTH ON YOUR CHANNEL I DONT KNOW WHY SHE BROUGHT YOU TO HER CHANNEL FOR HER TO GET ALL THE VIEWS AND SHIT
My husband and I got together after only knowing each other for 3 months and I completely understand how stressful it is to not to have time to date and get to know each other before the baby and especially after the baby. It’s extremely hard in the beginning. I would say the first 3 years are the hardest. But if you love each other I mean really love each other it will work out as long as you BOTH put in the effort. Stop being selfish, stop being spiteful and learn to grow with each other and be a team. Wishing you guys the best 🫶🏼
Dang I was rooting for you guys. You never know what the future holds and no matter what the babies are lucky to have you both as parents 💙💜
Look at Karen and Sebas and Bri and Fern. They all grew together and then got engaged. A ring isn't going to fix anything. Trust me marriage is hard and you are tested the first couple year's. That piece of paper definitely changes things and not always in a good way. Every relationship takes times. Wishing you both the best.
alex- “ok” 😭😭😭
Praying for both, hope you guys can someday be a happy family!!
No relationship is perfect! But like you said “if you really want something you work for it” and if you guys both really want this relationship you work for it! I’m not the type of person to comment but I just had to because you guys are both amazing individuals with two amazing little babies. I’ve met you both and you guys are full of energy. As a girl I understand where you’re coming from with the whole “bf award” thing. That also caused my relationship but it’s not us being selfish, it’s more than that and I’ve read that it has to do a lot with our own trauma. So don’t beat yourself up for it but take this time to work on your mental state. I could be wrong but I’m genuinely speaking from experience. I felt like I was in a position where I was asking for too much when in reality I wasn’t. So we decided we’d both work on eachother until we were happy with ourselves. Self love is the key babe. Alex is an amazing guy/father. Definitely a keeper especially in this generation. We’re all human, we all have flaws but we just have to choose the people who are worth going through life’s up’s and downs with. No one said it would be easy. Take time for yourselves, you both have different trauma wether it be from your childhood or even now! Learn them and overcome them. If it’s meant to be it’ll be. Best of luck ❤
I think Yoatzi is just confused about what she wants or needs in a relationship. In the podcast, she’s talking about how she lost herself because of the relationship. Here, she says it basically didn’t feel like a relationship. Regardless, still love both. Alex seems like a good dude and she just seems a little lost.
yoatzi man girl idk where to start, but girl I'm disappointed in you. Alex is trying & is also being brutally honest with his feelings & in the end you tell him he pisses you off??? smh. You should be happy he's communicating with you!! Not all men will or even try. If you want it to work you have to hear him out, even if the truth hurts, it is what it is. It seems you're mad he's telling the story how ya'll really got together & you want to paint it nicer & get mad he's not. Like girl?? Not everything is rainbows. I've been married 10 years & it's hard. Appreciate Alex stepped up, now a days most men won't even want a woman with a child. He said it too, he wasn't ready but was trying!! I'm sorry but I'm on Alex's side on this one
Bruh she’s a narcissist
Hopefully you guys can make it work out everyone had there issues it isn’t easy 😮 but I hope you guys figure it out and see eye to eye about a lot of stuff !!!
He sounds like a great guy she really lost a good one all because she wants to rush him smh.. He mentally wasn’t ready but he tried to be the best dad to those kids, it isn’t your fault Alex some people just don’t know how to value a person for what they do and all they do is complain instead of making things work , a relationship takes 2 ppl 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Why is there a timeline or numbers for marriage/engagement/promise ring? There was no timeline for jumping in bed together. Let’s be real here!
Girl yes ! “You’re wasting my time” like whaaattt… they have a baby a family together . She chose that 😭
I would be so embarrassed to upload this. Yoatzi, do better girl.. that mentality isn’t gonna get you anywhere, especially when a lot of men these days just wanna party it up with different girls, and you can tell Alex genuinely just wanted a family. So sad.
Some things just need to be private. Yoatzi spent this whole time blaming him deflecting and she sounds angry, resentful and gaslighting Alex. Said he could tell his side but yet carried the video. You could tell she’s angry and isn’t receiving what he’s saying. This video should have not been uploaded. This should be between them. These things should just be talked about between the 2 people in the relationship. Embarrassing.
I was quick asf when I saw the title
Sameeee 😂😂
Sameee
Im sure you were😂
Cuz we’re chismosas or metiches like she says 😅
Same
Alex is making a lot of sense
After having a shitty ass ex that she suffered anxiety etc you would figure she would’ve been grateful to have had Alex by her side; responsable; respectful lovable and caring that accepted Travis as his own treated him with love ! She took him fro granted y ahora sola esta!!!!
You can tell how much you both love each other. Sometimes it’s the right person and not the right time. Wish you both the best on the new journey ♥️
I feel like his more way more mature then her. She is very close minded and like that No Va tener un hombre de verdad q sea bueno. Cause if he is a good father to your son that shows what type of men he is.
Honestly I feel like it’s you who doesn’t put work into your relationship. Alex seems so nice and caring with your kids. He loves both kids and you pressuring him and giving him an amount of time to propose?
Honestly yoatzi lost a good man, love is not just a feeling it’s a choice you make everyday to make it work no matter what circumstances you are in
No relationship is perfect. You both need to work on yourself’s individually. Romantic relationships are the biggest mirrors to the inner work we have to do. Anything we dislike about our partners it’s actually mirroring to us what we dislike about ourselves. Self awareness is very important to heal those parts of us. Another advice that has helped me a lot was, that we can’t receive what we don’t give ourselves. So if we want love, attention, to feel valued, etc. we need to give that to ourselves first. Hope this helps. Sending you much love.
BREAKING UP BECAUSE HE WAS TRYING TO BE A BETTER PARENT. Not just one. But two. woah, what a horrible guy 😐
Yoatzi said that he didn’t get the “boyfriend award” I wonder if she got the girlfriend award? A relationship is a two way street.
To me it seems like she wants what she wants when she wants and Alex made her upset when he wouldn’t do it.
Thissss
I wish the best for both of you, hope you both find happiness 🦋
I love you yoatzi. I’m going thru the exact same thing ❤ literally you spoke about my situation
Alex you are such an amazing person, you became a dad to a kid that was not yours while also taking care of your own. Unfortunately that wasn’t enough for her. Don’t ever feel like your feelings should be brushed under the rug. this video wasn’t necessary at all this was a conversation you both should’ve had in private with a therapist. Alex keep working on yourself and for your kids. The right person will value you and appreciate you for you. It’s better to really get to know someone instead of jumping straight to marriage. Esp when there have been many pumps and like yoatzi said “she broke your heart” and she’s admitting it to many viewers. That’s just sad. I love ya alex you’re gonna be successful
Yoatzi we love you but you lost a great guy… Alex it is NOT your fault you took on an extra role you didn’t have to but you did and your doing great!😭 Stay strong Alex we see your hard work and you loving daddy side❤️
She's going to regret losing him too, maybe not now but in a couple of years when he finds someone who appreciates him and his efforts to be a great dad.
You have such a good heart, Alex! Hope fine love where you’re appreciated!
Alot of people don’t understand how hard it can be to adjust to your relationship changing after having a baby especially if you weren’t together for long before that, it’s a lot of pressure and sometimes it’s better to just break it off rather than forcing something disingenuous. Better for your kids to see you civil than fighting all the time if that’s the case
“Room mate stages” and “losing yourself “ are definitely the hardest, especially when you are on social media and see all the cute things others do for their gfs. ❤ I learned to just set up the dates myself lol same w my bf he’s worried about the kids and bills 24/7 . I also understand Alex about the rushing of engaged, like sebas said he didn’t feel financially ready to give it his all nor where he wanted to be in life .
she didn't like that tho.. Karen understood is the difference