I'm not even married yet but I personally think this scene right here is so realistic & so necessary for any married couples out there. Communication is the foundation of any relationship.
This was tough, but I think it was necessary for Bobby and Athena and Bobby does have a solid point. It’s great that Athena is independent, but Bobby’s right how she doesn’t him include on any of the decisions that she makes and she doesn’t seem to consider his feelings.
Agree with all of this. I do wish Bobby was upfront with her though. My guess is that he did not want a confrontation, so he kept this from her so she could experience what it was like to be left out. But then it backfired and ended up bringing confrontational, anyway. But it was a good thing that it did because it brought everything out in the open.
@@MsQuartermaine Bobby tried to be upfront with her each time & each time she was dismissive of his feelings. I feel like he didn't have a choice but to give her a taste of her own medicine.
So glad Bobby got this out, because he has been holding this in since the end of last season. Hate to see them at odds, but this was needed…can’t wait to see them grow and become stronger from it.
I love Athena but I completely agree with Bobby. She's always keeping him in the dark and never lets him lead. Plus he brought up something that I've always wondered, the fact that she doesn't have a partner on the force. If she keeps this up, she's gonna lose a good man.
I've only seen clips up until now, but I can already get the sense that Bobby's one of those guys where it takes a LOT to get under his skin, and if he gets pissed at you, you know you messed up. Badly.
I think Athena was at fault, she is too guarded and needs to be more open with Bobby, she needs to discuss important issues with him, it’s obvious that they care a great deal about one another. I hope season five shows more of their personal time together with them making joint decisions, my favourite 9-1-1 couple ❤️
I love them & they're so cute and strong together but we need two for one fight. I knew you or nobody understanded why she doesn't tell every decision she makes. I tell It simple. She doesn't wan't to weight anyone with her issues or fights. I'm feeling so bad for her. Shes so amazing but everyone just blame her. I knew at the beginning of the season that she wasn't ok when she said in ep 1 to Bobby that she doens't wan't anyone worrying about her bcs she's ok. I knew😢😦😣 Nobody never ever understands. Why?!😬😡
@@heavenlee6866 yup I was talking to my married friends and once they got married they would always call their husband when they stayed out late, not really to ask permission but just out of respect.. kinda to say “hey do you think I should” which annoyed me but didn’t really surprise me as it’s a very conservative group of people but the more I thought about it the more it made sense. It’s like when you’re living with someone, sharing a life together you run NEARLY everything by them, it’s not just you, you have to think about. Maybe Bobby sees something Athena doesn’t- sometimes we aren’t the best judge of whether we are actually okay. We will push ourselves to work to the bone when really what’s best for us is to take a break. Maybe Bobby doesn’t want to worry about his wife out in the field for the rest of their lives. It’s just about mutual respect.
@@mcnoneya Yes I 100% agree with you! And even if she is scared to share everything with him, at least that should be run by him! She leaves him in the dark, while he is open to her. Also, when he does open to her she will just focus on her own problems. Like his feelings don’t exist. I mean I can definitely see how independent she is but she needs to loosen up a lot you know?
@@heavenlee6866 maybe snd I’m just playing devils advocate here, but maybe she’s focusing on her own problems when he opens up because that’s exactly what she would do. As in she’s independent so even when she does open up say to a therapist she still tries to focus on fixing things herself so maybe she thinks Bobby’s opening up but that’s all he wants, is to share and not have her help him. 🤷🏻♀️ idk does that make sense? But now that we are on the topic, I feel like they threw the mom and dad of the group together even though they hadn’t really built any chemistry. I detect NO romantic chemistry between these 2, a partnership yes, that they for the most part when it counts on the job they are there for each other, except for the obvious issues showcased here. Am I crazy?
@@mcnoneya YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT!! I completely understand what you are saying! I thought I was the only one who thought there was no romantic spark between them! They are amazing PARTNERS but not ROMANTIC PARTNERS! And I completely agree with your therapist & bobby thing too. Maybe her independence could have came from being scared of another marriage failure? So she wanted to do things on her own? Bobby and Athena literally communicate like they are work partners, not living in the same household and married. They (specifically athena) keep things from eachother! In a marriage you are supposed to be 1 and they are literally 2. Literally feels like there is a wall between them. But girl what did you think of the season finale?!!😯
Oh that was hard and I like that Bobby spoke up his feelings but it’s never good to say something that can mean breaking up/divorce... even though you don’t mean it the one who heard tends to keep thinking about it and eventually... ends up as a reality...
This is besides the point, but did anyone else notice that the dialogue in the episode was slightly different than the dialogue that was in the promo? "Marriage isn't supposed to work like that" vs. "This isn't how a marriage is supposed to work."
Heaven Lee I could see that being the reason to include an exciting scene in the promo and then cutting it. But this was a different version of the same scene. I think it's because they do a lot of takes and then splice the best (or what they think is best) ones together.
yeah i see it. but athena is the one who rly needs it. bobby is open and she just needs to open up. this is an easy fix and it’s lowkey athena’s fault. hate to say it bc i love her but it is what it is.
@@seasonfour9407 i dont know who you are but don’t act like you know stuff. she is the only reason i still watch the show. you can still love someone and think they are in the wrong.
@@seasonfour9407 I would never insult you. Or threaten you. Ever. Aside of that, you don’t know how much I love her and I don’t know how much you love her. Doesn’t matter. None of our businesses. Girly I think you are taking this a bit too personal. It’s a show. I just had a comment on where a visible issue is in their marriage. And discussions on a show is exactly what producers want. Sparks more interest and suspicion. I’m not going to respond to the negative things you said, just pray over them; that’s the devil trying to get to me. God bless you and have a great day!
@@seasonfour9407 I would never have any intention hurting you and I’m deeply sorry if you felt that way. I completely accept your apology. I know you didn’t mean any of that stuff the way it came out. I can tell you have a sweet heart that God wants to use for good. And he will. God bless you!❤️
A lot of people do not like confrontation and try their best to avoid it but sometimes you have to be confrontational in order to get things out in the open that need to be in the open.
I'm curious to see if that Rachel girl turns up in series 5. I presume Bobby is still sponsoring her, I wonder what the Han brothers will think about that
Neither one of them wanted to do this scene so thats probably why. They have said they love Bobby and Athena together and they don't want conflict between them. But they had to bring in a little drama
I'm not even married yet but I personally think this scene right here is so realistic & so necessary for any married couples out there. Communication is the foundation of any relationship.
Facts!
Athena: "Mariage isn't supposed to work like that".
Bobby :"Who said this mariage is working ???"
*Drop the mic*
I screamed when she said that
I was like "o-" when he said that cuz I thought their marriage was great but I guess not
This was tough, but I think it was necessary for Bobby and Athena and Bobby does have a solid point. It’s great that Athena is independent, but Bobby’s right how she doesn’t him include on any of the decisions that she makes and she doesn’t seem to consider his feelings.
Agree with all of this. I do wish Bobby was upfront with her though. My guess is that he did not want a confrontation, so he kept this from her so she could experience what it was like to be left out. But then it backfired and ended up bringing confrontational, anyway. But it was a good thing that it did because it brought everything out in the open.
But there has to be a conversation aka communication is key
@@MsQuartermaine Bobby tried to be upfront with her each time & each time she was dismissive of his feelings. I feel like he didn't have a choice but to give her a taste of her own medicine.
@@RDCFemmes Bobby communicated his feelings to her each time & she continued to disregard his feelings.
You usually don't see Bobby get that upset but he's finally telling Athena how he feels in their marriage.
Right!!!! I said the same thing!!
So glad Bobby got this out, because he has been holding this in since the end of last season. Hate to see them at odds, but this was needed…can’t wait to see them grow and become stronger from it.
I love Athena but I completely agree with Bobby. She's always keeping him in the dark and never lets him lead. Plus he brought up something that I've always wondered, the fact that she doesn't have a partner on the force. If she keeps this up, she's gonna lose a good man.
Literally one of the hardest things Ive ever had to watch😭
That sass at 1:16 had me 😬😬😬
I've only seen clips up until now, but I can already get the sense that Bobby's one of those guys where it takes a LOT to get under his skin, and if he gets pissed at you, you know you messed up. Badly.
🏖 Athena's my girl, but it's about time Bobby spoke up (to her)!! She confides in her ex, than her present man !!?!
YES
All the time. I think she's opened more and let him in more now that Michael is gone.
@@9-1-1andconniebritton true! It had to take Michael "leaving", for her to come around?? whatever! 😊
I think Athena was at fault, she is too guarded and needs to be more open with Bobby, she needs to discuss important issues with him, it’s obvious that they care a great deal about one another. I hope season five shows more of their personal time together with them making joint decisions, my favourite 9-1-1 couple ❤️
I love them & they're so cute and strong together but we need two for one fight. I knew you or nobody understanded why she doesn't tell every decision she makes. I tell It simple. She doesn't wan't to weight anyone with her issues or fights. I'm feeling so bad for her. Shes so amazing but everyone just blame her. I knew at the beginning of the season that she wasn't ok when she said in ep 1 to Bobby that she doens't wan't anyone worrying about her bcs she's ok. I knew😢😦😣 Nobody never ever understands. Why?!😬😡
No joke my sister and I started crying after this scene. But we recovered remembering that they needed this.
Noooo, not mom and dad fighting :(
Ouch! That was a heated moment for these two.
Watching this scene last night I was like "Yes Bobby! Tell her like it is!" Lol I love Athena but she deserved that.
I agree she’s being so hypocritical lol but all love for her❤️
Lol wys!! She's my girl!! But Bobby just let so much slide with her,so now he's speaking up!! But fr they better work it out lol 😆
@@rozzgary8569 Right!!!
I love Angela’s acting but Athena is a little dramatic
@@prettiestmills2.0 honestly 💀
Man I was stunned watching this scene. I really thought it was about to be over right here!
I totally agree with Bobby!
im right behind u!
As much as I love Athena this needed to be said
Meh, they'll figure it out and come to an accord later. It's what mature couples do.
I really hope so.. in this case, I agree with Bobby
Oh please Athena keeps things from Bobby all the time but what it’s not okay when he keeps secrets. 🙄🙄
right! she’s my girl and i love her, but the way she tried to back it up saying she is “independent.” a relationship doesn’t work like that athena.
@@heavenlee6866 yup I was talking to my married friends and once they got married they would always call their husband when they stayed out late, not really to ask permission but just out of respect.. kinda to say “hey do you think I should” which annoyed me but didn’t really surprise me as it’s a very conservative group of people but the more I thought about it the more it made sense. It’s like when you’re living with someone, sharing a life together you run NEARLY everything by them, it’s not just you, you have to think about. Maybe Bobby sees something Athena doesn’t- sometimes we aren’t the best judge of whether we are actually okay. We will push ourselves to work to the bone when really what’s best for us is to take a break. Maybe Bobby doesn’t want to worry about his wife out in the field for the rest of their lives. It’s just about mutual respect.
@@mcnoneya Yes I 100% agree with you! And even if she is scared to share everything with him, at least that should be run by him! She leaves him in the dark, while he is open to her. Also, when he does open to her she will just focus on her own problems. Like his feelings don’t exist. I mean I can definitely see how independent she is but she needs to loosen up a lot you know?
@@heavenlee6866 maybe snd I’m just playing devils advocate here, but maybe she’s focusing on her own problems when he opens up because that’s exactly what she would do. As in she’s independent so even when she does open up say to a therapist she still tries to focus on fixing things herself so maybe she thinks Bobby’s opening up but that’s all he wants, is to share and not have her help him. 🤷🏻♀️ idk does that make sense?
But now that we are on the topic, I feel like they threw the mom and dad of the group together even though they hadn’t really built any chemistry. I detect NO romantic chemistry between these 2, a partnership yes, that they for the most part when it counts on the job they are there for each other, except for the obvious issues showcased here.
Am I crazy?
@@mcnoneya YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT!! I completely understand what you are saying! I thought I was the only one who thought there was no romantic spark between them! They are amazing PARTNERS but not ROMANTIC PARTNERS! And I completely agree with your therapist & bobby thing too. Maybe her independence could have came from being scared of another marriage failure? So she wanted to do things on her own? Bobby and Athena literally communicate like they are work partners, not living in the same household and married. They (specifically athena) keep things from eachother! In a marriage you are supposed to be 1 and they are literally 2. Literally feels like there is a wall between them. But girl what did you think of the season finale?!!😯
The subject matter aside, at least once or twice you gotta have a little conflict in any good on-air couple.
Ouch😭😭😭 that ending hurt
That went ugly really fast. I hope they don't get a divorce or something
They are my favorite married couple including Karen and Hen
Can’t wait for this to come out on Netflix
Oh that was hard and I like that Bobby spoke up his feelings but it’s never good to say something that can mean breaking up/divorce... even though you don’t mean it the one who heard tends to keep thinking about it and eventually... ends up as a reality...
This is besides the point, but did anyone else notice that the dialogue in the episode was slightly different than the dialogue that was in the promo? "Marriage isn't supposed to work like that" vs. "This isn't how a marriage is supposed to work."
i think they do that in promos to make the promos more interesting and people more hyped for the next episode.
Heaven Lee I could see that being the reason to include an exciting scene in the promo and then cutting it. But this was a different version of the same scene. I think it's because they do a lot of takes and then splice the best (or what they think is best) ones together.
@@MsQuartermaine Yeah I completely agree with you!
I need them to work it out ☺️
Angela Bassett is one Badass Actress..
Am I the only one seeing them going to a marriage counselor somewhere in season 5?
yeah i see it. but athena is the one who rly needs it. bobby is open and she just needs to open up. this is an easy fix and it’s lowkey athena’s fault. hate to say it bc i love her but it is what it is.
@@seasonfour9407 i dont know who you are but don’t act like you know stuff. she is the only reason i still watch the show. you can still love someone and think they are in the wrong.
@@seasonfour9407 I would never insult you. Or threaten you. Ever. Aside of that, you don’t know how much I love her and I don’t know how much you love her. Doesn’t matter. None of our businesses. Girly I think you are taking this a bit too personal. It’s a show. I just had a comment on where a visible issue is in their marriage. And discussions on a show is exactly what producers want. Sparks more interest and suspicion. I’m not going to respond to the negative things you said, just pray over them; that’s the devil trying to get to me. God bless you and have a great day!
@@seasonfour9407 I would never have any intention hurting you and I’m deeply sorry if you felt that way. I completely accept your apology. I know you didn’t mean any of that stuff the way it came out. I can tell you have a sweet heart that God wants to use for good. And he will. God bless you!❤️
NOOO not them I love them :(
Oh no 😭🥺
How do you find these scenes, what app do you use ? I’m just curious.
A lot of people do not like confrontation and try their best to avoid it but sometimes you have to be confrontational in order to get things out in the open that need to be in the open.
Shades of Nate Fisher came out here lol
Yes have to break up all the time but I’m a huge fan of y’all what channel TV you guys are my favorite show to watch
I knew it!!! Just tell my mom “I think this two are over”. And she ask me for a reason. 12 hours later she said: “you have right”.
I hate in a couple when one says I didn’t think I needed your permission. Well that goes both ways.
I'm curious to see if that Rachel girl turns up in series 5. I presume Bobby is still sponsoring her, I wonder what the Han brothers will think about that
When Athena doing something behind Bobby's back it's okay but when Bobby do the same to her it's not okay? Bobby right, this marriage isn't working
Stand your ground... Bobby
Hey Athena and I have the same phone case.
Oooooo helll yah
Athens needs to stop it going to cost her
Speak up Bobby. Communication is a two-way street... not a one lane highway.
beautiful woman Jackeline Basset maintains her freshness and sympathy with her 50
Bobby has a point but my god seeing pile-up lady out and about pissed me off
😘
Yeah Bobby is leaving the show
I don't like her as Bobby's wife. She's all but snarling at him half the time. He deserves better.
Rachel is also a victim of pileup to she has to wear one of those stupid leg monitors and i think can't see her son
Sorry but her acting is really poor here
Act then🤔
Neither one of them wanted to do this scene so thats probably why. They have said they love Bobby and Athena together and they don't want conflict between them. But they had to bring in a little drama
never and still don't give a shit about Bobby. first character from a show/movie i hated. I guess because he's with my actress mama Angela Bassett