Actually proverbs does instruct a woman to work who are married. It says her hands are supposed to work and get up early. So just to be clear it is OK for your wife to work that is scripture based. But her work does not have to be something she hates or has to do to be able to support the home is what they're saying
I’m going to watch/ listen in the morning. Listening to the fellas first thing in the morning before work helps to keep me motivated for the day 💞👏🏾thanks guys !
11:53 🤨”when’s the last time you saw somebody walking through the parking lot with one shoe” 🤣🤣🤣 every time I hear this I crack up laughing he was a dog in that moment
If you ain't been speaking directly to me this last week. You guys have had me miserable but it's been pushing me when I needed it this week... I'm trying hard to make this change
To the person who made the comment about money/two incomes, it's not totally about the money it's about being treated as a precious jewel, it's about being attentive, helpful around the house, taking the initiative to be thoughtful and romantic, to have open communication , to be thankful and appreciated, not being taken for granted, ignored, given the silent treatment, not expecting the wife to do EVERYTHING while they do the bare minimum
Mal and I are around the same age... at the time of this comment I'm 44 and I think Mal is 43... he's from Chicago... I'm from St. Louis... we both came up in the Crack, Affirmative Action, Welfare, Gang, and Strong Section 8 era in the 80's and 90's my mother was married then had me... my dad died when I was 2... my mother was a single mother for 42 years of my life...I NEVER had a man Stress to me what Mal was saying at 52:28 mark ... And it's factually documented that I am not alone!!! That being said because men with my simular circumstance in addition to the strong black woman narrative, I admittedly can say that you can look at a Woman as an income stream...But, when you have proper guidance, mentorship, leadership you come to understand that Being a Man is a huuuuuggggeeee weight/role/and responsibility but, the proper teaching establishes a hunger and mentality in you to embrace and accept the challenge and the weight of putting your Wife and Family on your Back and Shoulders! #My2Cents
I would greatly respect and honor 0:46 he🎉r wishes and choicesof having a better life then hanging around in time to take care of a grown man like me I don't want to steal any of her youth as with being done previously I want her to have a full valuable successful life she is the most loving caring person in the world and I just want her to realize she is not damaged like she feels i did my best to help her grow beause she is worth priceless endless happiness and peoples respect i gave herr my unbreakable oath to be her true family in th8s life and beyond I only want her to respect her self unconditionally I want her to o know i will always be a person who would give his life to protrct het heart. I will not be aburden like I feel all the time on her I don't like her spending money onr ever . I'm q grownan
Wow y'all touched on stuff A LOT OF DUDES OUT HERE need to hear. "You too needy. Since you not whole you looking for your wife to fill that". 🔥🔥🔥🔥 This is the type of shit that's going to build strong men in the long run. Let's go CJ
I appreciate these Kings so much! This episode should clear up any confusion around the 'your wife should stay home' conversation. If you want a true helpmate, she should be able to CHOOSE how she helps and not forced to be an additional income stream! #Periodt
Thank God and ya'll for this conversation! I always wanted my wife to come home, but now motivated to set a date and put in the focused work to make it happen.
What's also crazy to me is that first comment that Mal read makes me wonder if that is a person who even listen ls to the pod and if so they are not getting anything out of it. What a shame after everything and all the nuggets you guys have dropped, it seems like people are still not getting it.
To put this in a different perspective. I think I understand that as a man he needs to be able to create so his wife won't have to outside of her field. As a woman I do create but it's never because I have to. I do agree with you all. Also living within your means is the best gift we have in America. I was taught to live off one income and allow the other incomes work for you.
They raise some valid points but I think they out of touch. Them pay checks that ET gives them must have made them forget that money doesn’t grow on trees. Who doesn’t want to retire their spouse if that’s their choice. Easier said than done! I work full time in corporate and own a business on the side, so I understand the grind and pressure of life. It’s something about people in the 1% lecturing the rest of the world about not being in the financial position to retire their wives just doesn’t sit well with me.
E.T doesn’t pay Jemal. Jemal’s MULTIPLE STREAMS OF INCOME pays Jemal. Jemal retired his wife in 2001 when he was making $36,000 a year as a Chicago police officer that leveraged that (Earned income stream) and purchased a rental property giving him (Rental income stream) which allowed him to retire his Queen! How do I know this?? Cause this is Jemal🤷🏽♂️💪🏾 we’re not lecturing my brother we’re TEACHING and EXPOSING 👊🏽
@@thomasking1748I appreciate your response brotha and congrats to you and all the success that you’ve achieved but you are the exception. According to the US Census, just 6% of Black adults in the U.S. have an annual earnings of $100,000. The numbers don’t lie Jemal. Not trying to be a Debbie downer bro, I enjoy y’all podcast. I just think we need to be realistic about how difficult what y’all are challenging us brothers to do. My wife and I are both college graduates, work full time and own businesses on the side and are no where close to financial freedom. So I can only speak on my experiences, but congrats to you bro.
@@DansChessLoungeBro, trust me when I tell you that you can do it! Matter of fact you can do wayyyyy more than what I’ve ever done because you have the type of exposure that wasn’t available when I done this 24 years ago. One of The reason why it’s 6% is because of the lack of our belief, The lack of our exposure and the lack of our knowledge. Appreciate you bro! Nothing but love.👊🏽
Actually proverbs does instruct a woman to work who are married. It says her hands are supposed to work and get up early. So just to be clear it is OK for your wife to work that is scripture based. But her work does not have to be something she hates or has to do to be able to support the home is what they're saying
I’m going to watch/ listen in the morning. Listening to the fellas first thing in the morning before work helps to keep me motivated for the day 💞👏🏾thanks guys !
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I definitely agree! I’ve been listening to all the episodes I have missed! Love this podcast!
Always remember that taking offense is a personal choice, not on the person that’s delivering the message! Love this message & virtual accountability!
“what she WANTS to do and THAT’S servicing God and serving the church” 🎼🎶👂
11:53 🤨”when’s the last time you saw somebody walking through the parking lot with one shoe” 🤣🤣🤣 every time I hear this I crack up laughing he was a dog in that moment
They ain't ready. This is one of the many subjects that is not taught enough in our community. Thank you, Gentlemen!!
Amen🙏🏽
If you ain't been speaking directly to me this last week. You guys have had me miserable but it's been pushing me when I needed it this week... I'm trying hard to make this change
This is she type of podcasts we need in the black community because we need to get better
Regarding marriage and streams of income, this is the BEST conversation that I have ever heard! Thank you SO much for this.
To the person who made the comment about money/two incomes, it's not totally about the money it's about being treated as a precious jewel, it's about being attentive, helpful around the house, taking the initiative to be thoughtful and romantic, to have open communication , to be thankful and appreciated, not being taken for granted, ignored, given the silent treatment, not expecting the wife to do EVERYTHING while they do the bare minimum
Mal and I are around the same age... at the time of this comment I'm 44 and I think Mal is 43... he's from Chicago... I'm from St. Louis... we both came up in the Crack, Affirmative Action, Welfare, Gang, and Strong Section 8 era in the 80's and 90's my mother was married then had me... my dad died when I was 2... my mother was a single mother for 42 years of my life...I NEVER had a man Stress to me what Mal was saying at 52:28 mark ... And it's factually documented that I am not alone!!! That being said because men with my simular circumstance in addition to the strong black woman narrative, I admittedly can say that you can look at a Woman as an income stream...But, when you have proper guidance, mentorship, leadership you come to understand that Being a Man is a huuuuuggggeeee weight/role/and responsibility but, the proper teaching establishes a hunger and mentality in you to embrace and accept the challenge and the weight of putting your Wife and Family on your Back and Shoulders! #My2Cents
You are 100% right about the family structure. This would be a game changer in the AA family.
I would greatly respect and honor 0:46 he🎉r wishes and choicesof having a better life then hanging around in time to take care of a grown man like me I don't want to steal any of her youth as with being done previously I want her to have a full valuable successful life she is the most loving caring person in the world and I just want her to realize she is not damaged like she feels i did my best to help her grow beause she is worth priceless endless happiness and peoples respect i gave herr my unbreakable oath to be her true family in th8s life and beyond I only want her to respect her self unconditionally I want her to o know i will always be a person who would give his life to protrct het heart. I will not be aburden like I feel all the time on her I don't like her spending money onr ever . I'm q grownan
I will set her free gladly if she can b happy in her life but she chose me and gave me the greatest gift n my lif
Jamal, the Kendrick Lamar of SOS. BARS!!!
Wow y'all touched on stuff A LOT OF DUDES OUT HERE need to hear. "You too needy. Since you not whole you looking for your wife to fill that". 🔥🔥🔥🔥 This is the type of shit that's going to build strong men in the long run. Let's go CJ
I appreciate these Kings so much! This episode should clear up any confusion around the 'your wife should stay home' conversation. If you want a true helpmate, she should be able to CHOOSE how she helps and not forced to be an additional income stream! #Periodt
Thank God and ya'll for this conversation! I always wanted my wife to come home, but now motivated to set a date and put in the focused work to make it happen.
What's also crazy to me is that first comment that Mal read makes me wonder if that is a person who even listen ls to the pod and if so they are not getting anything out of it. What a shame after everything and all the nuggets you guys have dropped, it seems like people are still not getting it.
To put this in a different perspective. I think I understand that as a man he needs to be able to create so his wife won't have to outside of her field.
As a woman I do create but it's never because I have to. I do agree with you all. Also living within your means is the best gift we have in America. I was taught to live off one income and allow the other incomes work for you.
This is a school, men. Thank you, CJ, Jemal, ET & Carl W.F.
Woooooowww the headline is a banger🔥🔥🔥
This title is crazy!!! Can’t wait to watch it
All suky suky now! 😊🙏Thtat's what's up. I love that you are taking on this subject. 😊🙏
CJ is right ✅️ I needed to hear this fr! You wasn't ball hogging brother lol u was cookin! ❤
Finally able to catch a live…
Peace & Blessings 🙏🏾 Best Podcast Ever Hands Down!
I've watched 98% of the 438 episodes... I've Neva seen sooo many women in the comments... Very Telling... hmmm... #My2Cents
Needed to hear this today 🇿🇦
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This was so good and necessary
Enjoyed the pod and previous pods!
I Love it! Fire podcast.
Excellent pod fellas! 👍🏾
Mal really be spitting 🙏🏾💎💐💯
I understand everything yall was saying
Get em mal
Get em CJ!
This episode was absolutely amazing.🔥🔥🔥🔥 . I’m talking about profound key points to help elevate or take a personal inventory of yourself .
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They raise some valid points but I think they out of touch. Them pay checks that ET gives them must have made them forget that money doesn’t grow on trees. Who doesn’t want to retire their spouse if that’s their choice. Easier said than done! I work full time in corporate and own a business on the side, so I understand the grind and pressure of life.
It’s something about people in the 1% lecturing the rest of the world about not being in the financial position to retire their wives just doesn’t sit well with me.
E.T doesn’t pay Jemal. Jemal’s MULTIPLE STREAMS OF INCOME pays Jemal. Jemal retired his wife in 2001 when he was making $36,000 a year as a Chicago police officer that leveraged that (Earned income stream) and purchased a rental property giving him (Rental income stream) which allowed him to retire his Queen! How do I know this?? Cause this is Jemal🤷🏽♂️💪🏾 we’re not lecturing my brother we’re TEACHING and EXPOSING 👊🏽
@@thomasking1748I appreciate your response brotha and congrats to you and all the success that you’ve achieved but you are the exception.
According to the US Census, just 6% of Black adults in the U.S. have an annual earnings of $100,000. The numbers don’t lie Jemal. Not trying to be a Debbie downer bro, I enjoy y’all podcast. I just think we need to be realistic about how difficult what y’all are challenging us brothers to do. My wife and I are both college graduates, work full time and own businesses on the side and are no where close to financial freedom. So I can only speak on my experiences, but congrats to you bro.
You must have forgot Jemal started this when he was making less than you were as a Chicago police officer?
@@DansChessLoungeBro, trust me when I tell you that you can do it! Matter of fact you can do wayyyyy more than what I’ve ever done because you have the type of exposure that wasn’t available when I done this 24 years ago. One of The reason why it’s 6% is because of the lack of our belief, The lack of our exposure and the lack of our knowledge. Appreciate you bro! Nothing but love.👊🏽
Unearned income 🔥🔥🔥
It’s harder to mold children than it is to fix broken men ? Or it’s easier to mold children than it is to fix broken men?
It’s easier to build strong children than to repair broken men….
Seeing her light up in her mind when she sees that value of he character is my medicine alone
Im constantly seeking a solution to her feeling of being alone she is what matters my injuries are accepted and my responsabolity
God bless whoever is reading this I gotta keep my mind focused. Peace
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