The Way Out (Gay short Film)

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  • Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2024

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  • @kjohns5139
    @kjohns5139 2 года назад +93

    Great short film, and so tragically true. Many closeted gay men are living two lives, with wives and children. However; it not only hurts the family, but in the long-run, it hurts the man trying to live two lives. it is very unfair that in the vast majority of these men's cases, family, religion, society and circumstances forced them into a traditionally straight life. A life where they could never be happy, or live-out their true selves. And once the children come along, the lies grow bigger, more often, and to more people. One day the guy wakes up to find the massive web of deceit he's woven for himself, feeling there's no way out. I know all this to be true. I lived a lie for 32 years. And even though I never cheated on my wife, I never knew the contentment, fulfillment, and happiness of being me, and knowing how to love and be loved as I was created to be, by a man side. But at 55-years-old, after 32 years of marriage, and two grown sons, I met a wonderful man who helped me see who I really was. At the time, I was in Evangelical ministry, for decades, and he was a Roman Catholic priest, of over 18 years. Subsequently, I got divorced, and he left the Church. And to say it was tough, is a massive understatement. In 2012 we got engaged to be married. At the point that I choose to be honest and open, I stopped living everyone else’s truth, and choose to live mine. It was very hard, for everyone involved, but finally I was free. And THAT, is worth, all you have to pay for that freedom. As difficult as it would be for this man to come out, in the long-run, it would be best, for him and everyone in his life. Sometimes your truth, is hard to live, but it is always better than living a lie.

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  2 года назад +9

      Thanks for sharing. I believe that they are still millions of guys around the world that are living double life fearing, and not knowing how to revile them selfs to the world. Sadly many of them never do.

    • @tvrajagopalaniyer8375
      @tvrajagopalaniyer8375 Год назад +2

      ​@@shimonkabili555425:18

    • @siegfriedsomseb2974
      @siegfriedsomseb2974 Год назад +1

      ​@@shimonkabili5554❤

  • @briananderson8428
    @briananderson8428 6 месяцев назад +15

    "I wanted him to live my way. Now he doesn't live at all." This might be the best short I've ever seen. So well done.

  • @kanishkk6531
    @kanishkk6531 Год назад +30

    @Shimon Kabili - Thank you for this very meaningful short film....
    I am Indian & gay and in my late forties. I came out to my parents when they wanted me to marry a woman. They accepted me immediately though I'm not sure they entirely understood the difficulties, the sadness and worst of all the loneliness of being gay & single in India. Despite it all, I'm relieved that I'm not living a double life and a lie. Your short film reaffirmed my belief that I did the right thing years ago....

    • @saroxkingdom
      @saroxkingdom Год назад +4

      You're lucky. Your parents accepted you. Mine haven't. We just don't talk about it, and I'm still living under their roof.

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@saroxkingdom Get out of that bloody house!

  • @muwanguzishakira
    @muwanguzishakira Год назад +9

    😢😢😢😢the conversation grandpa gave was soo painful. He's not living ma way nor other ways 😭😭😭 they need to be loved and accepted. No one has right to judge them.

  • @aaric1703
    @aaric1703 2 года назад +27

    Excellent and unexpected film. It never ceases to amaze me how people use religion as a basis for hate.

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  2 года назад +3

      Me too.

    • @itsallagame7354
      @itsallagame7354 2 года назад

      Because religion is hate. Simple

    • @WorldEye88
      @WorldEye88 Год назад +2

      The family was Jewish. It really doesn’t matter about religion. In this case is him who’s living a double life. The wife is the victim.

  • @angelfmf
    @angelfmf 2 года назад +18

    Very touching story, special the scene in the car, i dont pity the main character though he made all his choices like many people i know, but im glad he found his way in the end*

  • @tomob102
    @tomob102 2 года назад +28

    Beach scene was soo romantic

  • @hunterchampion5433
    @hunterchampion5433 Год назад +4

    That’s so foul with your wife and kids on the trip. You’re cheating everyone. I don’t really believe in cheating but I believe in honesty. I understand that sex can just be Sex but you have to be considerate and transparent.

  • @joeowens6180
    @joeowens6180 2 года назад +20

    Extremely well done; the policeman was compassionate, but Ryan's life will always have a double torture. I hope he has learned...... "what you are doing."

  • @dougrobnyc
    @dougrobnyc Год назад +5

    Bisexual or Gay living in the closet is no way to live.

  • @royyork2546
    @royyork2546 2 года назад +6

    A WONDERFUL STORY..WISHING LIFESTYLE WOULD BE EASIER....LOVE STORY..SINCERELY, ROY LEONARDO DUKE YORK 2ND...

  • @WorldEye88
    @WorldEye88 Год назад +4

    Great movie. Israeli and Mexican cast with excellent performance. A real situation. However 11:55, how stupid can you be to leave the bed to look for a guy in the streets in the middle of the night…
    The urges were really bad. He got lucky. Police were benevolent and helped him.

  • @joellebrown539
    @joellebrown539 2 года назад +8

    The argentinian guy is really beautiful. Whats his name?

  • @josemartinseurodance4735
    @josemartinseurodance4735 Год назад +4

    BELA FOTOGRAFIA E UM CASAL GAY LINDOS ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Budnbuf
    @Budnbuf 2 года назад +10

    Well done. I am hoping to see more from you Shimon.

  • @georgensal
    @georgensal 2 года назад +5

    Very well done.....

  • @staymonspencertcb7046
    @staymonspencertcb7046 5 месяцев назад +1

    My fear was so high if they get caught 🫣

  • @stevelapierre4776
    @stevelapierre4776 2 года назад +6

    This is based on TRUE EVENTS.... people comment, ''touching, well done...'! It is anti-human... If gays are treated like this in Mehico... I never knew this... Well to hell with Mehico!!!

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  2 года назад +3

      Yes it's base on my true experience.

    • @itsallagame7354
      @itsallagame7354 2 года назад

      Are you the married guy? And did you get together with the other guy?

    • @stevelapierre4776
      @stevelapierre4776 2 года назад

      @@itsallagame7354 Hi, NO.. I am not but spoke to the real guy and THIS is really what happened to him unreal... I knew a few people go there every year, and meet teen male prostitutes on the beach and I find this true story.. To hell with Mexico like I said....is this ok!!!??

    • @Deftonesalexglover_girl
      @Deftonesalexglover_girl Год назад

      @@shimonkabili5554ממש עצוב לי לשמוע מקווה שהיחס ישתנה.

  • @pixie99
    @pixie99 2 года назад +3

    Thank you xx

  • @irenejunechiriikenyangal254
    @irenejunechiriikenyangal254 2 года назад +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥😘😘😘😘

  • @Twinkietoots
    @Twinkietoots 2 года назад +6

    And the message is ????? Live your life in a lie ????

  • @FabianWolter-kh1mt
    @FabianWolter-kh1mt 20 дней назад +1

    06:00

  • @JackHuang-on2ce
    @JackHuang-on2ce 2 месяца назад

    When a husband is fed up having with his wife, he could find others to have sex with, and that's totally alright. But he won't allow his wife to have sex with the others, sometimes for years. How kind is that?

  • @SomoIya-qh7jz
    @SomoIya-qh7jz 8 месяцев назад

    🥰🥰😍😍💕💕❤️❤️💖💖💞💞👍💯

  • @rajhakesepian1211
    @rajhakesepian1211 2 года назад +1

    Ni film pendek ap masih ada film fullnya

  • @2622ja
    @2622ja Год назад

    Ein Ende ohne Ende.

  • @LMays-cu2hp
    @LMays-cu2hp 2 года назад +2

    Very nice..

  • @jammyhome8544
    @jammyhome8544 Год назад +1

    So funny one 😂😂😂

  • @MichaelBell-fx8yr
    @MichaelBell-fx8yr 3 месяца назад

    How are you going from Michael Gordon Bell 😊

  • @behnammobile1505
    @behnammobile1505 2 года назад +3

    Please make Farsi subtitles

  • @Natalieollievere-lr5jy
    @Natalieollievere-lr5jy 11 месяцев назад

    ROMANS 5:8 BUT GOD COMMENDETH HIS LOVE TOWARD US ,IN THAT, WHILE WE WERE YET SINNERS , CHRIST DIED FOR US.

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 7 месяцев назад +1

      You are quoting a man who abused homosexual people. Read Romans chapter 1. Paul from Tarsus was exactly like the Police chief in the movie. He was homophobic. Since you quote him I suspect you are too.

    • @I_JUST_LOVE_MEN
      @I_JUST_LOVE_MEN 6 месяцев назад

      That means you can do anything but you'll go to heaven?

  • @keithdubas8044
    @keithdubas8044 2 года назад +4

    This presents itself as a LGBTQ film, but it is not. It infers you should live as a frustracted, closeted person.

  • @juanramos.jr.7948
    @juanramos.jr.7948 Год назад

    En tiempo la mentira se va da cuenta! La verdad siempre va salir! Yo siento por la familia, todo sus vidas destruirlo! Se el sabia que era gay el debería da cuenta de principio. El solo destruir la vida de todos. Merecer que lo espera! Solo opinión de un gay!

  • @josephlenehan4461
    @josephlenehan4461 Год назад

    Joseph and today

  • @rppacademic
    @rppacademic 4 месяца назад

    Smoking ... sooo stupid!

  • @hpy9137
    @hpy9137 Год назад

    El objetivo principal del corto parece ser continuar con la manía de los estadounidenses de ofender a otras naciones desde su supuesta superioridad. Cuando terminan negando las injusticias de su tierra y lo conservadores que son en su gran mayoría. Tristemente realista. Todos sufren por no ser honestos y dejar ser.

  • @neculaiboranda
    @neculaiboranda Год назад

    😅😅😅😅

  • @neculaiboranda
    @neculaiboranda Год назад

    😊r55r😊

  • @juancarlosdelacruz7859
    @juancarlosdelacruz7859 2 года назад

    Por favor en español

  • @DANIIEL32
    @DANIIEL32 2 года назад

    ?

  • @cynthiajones4332
    @cynthiajones4332 2 года назад

    Truly I say to you, whoever hears my word (Jesus) and believes him who sent me (God) has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.John 5:24 Are people born gay? Do people choose to commit adultery/fornicate or are they born with a tendency to sin? Please think about it. Repent/believe or you will not inherit the kingdom of God. Out of love Jesus died for you, live for Him.

    • @KCal1213
      @KCal1213 2 года назад

      Shut the hell up with your stupidity. Worry about your own eternal life.

    • @neilcognito
      @neilcognito 2 года назад +10

      How do you say, "Piss off" in spanish? 😕
      Also, note your bible also say, to not force your beleives and teachings on others. That is a sin, and you will not inherit his kingdom.
      Now, please go repent, and bug off.

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  2 года назад +12

      @@neilcognito The only nasty replies that I get are from religious people that are supposed to be peaceful and come people. Think about that.

    • @felixcanas9446
      @felixcanas9446 2 года назад

      Say what? You Dídac not understand this story at all. Why Did you watch it?

    • @itsallagame7354
      @itsallagame7354 2 года назад

      Religious people are the most hateful and bigoted bunch. They’re not supposed to be peaceful

  • @FabianWolter-kh1mt
    @FabianWolter-kh1mt 20 дней назад +1

    06:00