I am aware that there is a sputtering/pitty-patty sound in the background of this video. I was unaware of it while I was making this video, and I apologize for it. I've ordered a new microphone to hopefully resolve this. The one I have is about worn out. :(
Hi Mary, I just wanted to thank you for doing what you do. I'm about to be a senior in highschool and I've been listening to your videos for about 2 years now. You're videos have helped me so much and have helped me get a good night sleep so I don't pass out in class LOL anyway, thank you for being you and creating such a positive environment with amazing content. Much love to you Mary!! ❤
I hate that the person you trusted with your writing gave such nasty feedback. I agree that there was definitely jealousy there. Sounds like they didn’t want you to succeed where they had failed. On a much smaller scale, I took a lot of writing classes in college and we always had to give each other feedback. This one girl absolutely hated me and my writing. She was so nasty about it that our very hands-off professor actually interrupted her and asked if she had anything constructive to say. Anyway, I’m really glad you kept writing. I’ve been listening to and really enjoying River Road. I can also see how much your writing skills show through in your role plays.
I had a very similar experience with a girl in my professional writing class last semester. She gave me 0s on every rubric she had to score for me. The reason she hated me: I told her in a private discussion that there was a contraction in writing so if she wanted to fix it I wouldn't put it on the rubric (which I mentioned because contractions were a big no-no and we lost all points in that category!). My professor did not even care and her scores had an impact on my overall grade. I put that in my class review!
@@suger595 What a terrible person! Also sounds like your professor was super lazy and didn’t want to do any of his own grading. I would have had to drop that class.
Don't take anything personally, how people treat you is a projection of their reality. You can't control how people act. Don't dwell on it. You can always control your attitude and work ethic. Be respectful always, and don't be afraid to shine.
Mary, don't ever apologize for talking about you! I really really enjoyed this video! I found it extremely relaxing but, at the same time, inspiring. I am so glad that I have learned so much more about you just by listening and watching to this video. Great video and always! ❤️
Me at 6am: I don't know if I can do it. I am just about worn out from it all. Me 2 hours later: Whatever bitches. Mary said nice things to me and I can take all y'all now.
I love watching you & I’m glad I watched this particular video with you talking about goals & encouragement.. I was a drug addict most of my life & I always heard that I wasn’t capable of getting clean and sober.. I’m 47 years old now & 3 years clean and sober.. I’m getting to keep my grandkids now & closer to my daughter after years of mental abuse of ppl telling me to couldn’t do it !! Well I did & I’m glad I proved others wrong bc they definitely didn’t want to see my succeed . Thanks for the encouragement
You're so good at spreading kindness, and it seems totally genuine coming from you. Feeling very grateful to have your channel for comfort ♡ Take care of yourself, lovely Mary! You're an unstoppable ray of sunshine!
This video had me in tears (In the best way) I really needed to hear this Mary. Thank you for sharing. I will definitely come back to this video to get me pumped up when I’m feeling stuck. Totally going to make some big steps towards my goals today that I’ve been putting off for numerous reasons. Today is the day I’m starting! Thanks to you.
I am regretfully late to view/listen to this video. There are so many moments in it that really touched me. I’m gonna have to repeat it a few times (and look for your novels!). Such wonderful stories and really genuine encouragement. Thank you.
Mary, my father died suddenly on Friday. Your videos have been a great comfort but I’m wondering if you have anything specific to say about grief and loss? You seem to be the wisest woman I know.
i’m sorry to hear about your loss :( my bfs mom died unexpectedly in january and i also took comfort in mary’s videos. if i remember correctly she has a few older ones on grief/advice that u may find some comfort in if u search for it. hope u find some peace and comfort ❤️❤️❤️
@SouthernASMR Sounds I am really thankful for your words and inspiration. 💚 Glad you reconsidered what that nincompoop told you in your youth about your writing and that you are writing again. Think it is clear to both myself and your thousands of fans/followers that you have a talent for creating relatable multi layered characters. Your creativity is very much appreciated. 💚I was told, as an impressionable and insecure spotty teen, that my Art was substandard by a particularly anally retentive teacher at school. I beLIEved it too at the time. Am I Rembrandt? No, but am my slice of consciousness as are you! Thank you again for your wisdom and the amazing crackling plastic sounds and the tippy tap of your broken mic. Much love from Yorkshire, UK. Xx
Your comments about the criticism you received for your book reminds me of something I once heard from Michael Malice about one hit wonders. Michael said he hates hearing people criticize one hit wonders. Are those one hit wonders Beethoven or Mozart? No. But for a brief period of time they still managed to bring some joy and happiness to the world, and that's something to be proud of and something very difficult to do. If my lot in life is to bring a little joy and happiness to the world for a period of time, then what could possibly be wrong with that. The world needs more people like that, not less
Im 21 amd had to cut out family family that i love with all my heart because when my husband and i were going through a hard time they would rather i give up and let it end even though we had just had twins even though we were very early on and still trying to figure out us and life and how we should and do work best together. They also for a very long time were discouraging about mt goal to marry him and start my life because hes nothing like them he is not content to sit stagnant he is very driven towards his goals and towards the life he wants and hes always encouraged me and pushed me to be the same and do the same and our dreams being similar and me loving him the way i do i saw our entire future together and i wanted it. Ive had to cut off and cut out family i love because they have continuously tried to break us apart and break me down to their level. I have chosen my husband and my children and a life that is currently hard and is a struggle because were young and just starting out because i would rather struggle towards my goal with someone who wants to get to their goal with me than dit in a life that i am unhappy with that i dont want all because my family is ok to have nothing to show for their years of working at the same job and the same town and all they did was settle i refused to settle and so did my husband and many if them hate him and me for it. But i cant be apologetic for choosing to try for my goal
I’ve had and have something similar going on with a future job interest :/ I’ve wanted to be an environmental lawyer for 6 years, and my parents always said I never had it in me since I’m always quiet and never talk, and recently my brother just told me he didn’t think I could peruse it.
i wish i had your gift for writing where you feel like you're just transcribing a movie. i think for so long and so hard about my plots and its not easy lol. thank you for the wonderful video and advice.
I think Mary and I have a somewhat similar approach to writing- it can be good long term, but you often get stuck with having a certain "scene" in your mind that's way ahead of the plot you've written thus far. You want to rush and get to the good part , but you know your readers wouldn't enjoy that. It's a whole thing. Love your Mystic Messenger profile picture by the way ^^
keep writing the book.. I know of a published author-ny times best sellers too and she got started (pre you tube) with a blog... and a carefully placed sample of her writing on craigslist(nyc). she isn't everyone's cup of tea(she can be rather snarky), but I find her funny. but it took a lot of writing (and reading other well respected authors work/books to assist in learning how to write well).
Hi sweetie, wow, I do these art works also. They are rather soothing, even better with you whispering whilst doing yours. Thank you lovely lady, love from Lorraine in England xxxx
My dream is to become a model since I’m 5’8 at the age of 13 and my mom says why don’t you play basketball and I’m not really into sports but I’m just scared to tell them my dream is to become a runway model
I have never made it all the way through any of your videos, and that is a very high compliment because I have terrible insomnia. I just wanted to tell you the first half of all your videos are fantastic! 😂❤️
I am aware that there is a sputtering/pitty-patty sound in the background of this video. I was unaware of it while I was making this video, and I apologize for it. I've ordered a new microphone to hopefully resolve this. The one I have is about worn out. :(
Do you have a link to the microphone you ordered! I’m looking for a new one!! Is it the same microphone or something different!
No worries, Mary. Your content is always great, pitty patty or not :)
Tell the haters it's a candle 😎
Didn't bother me at all.
I kinda like the pitty patty sound
I’m glad you didn’t give up. You’re creative and multi-talented. That’s apparent.
Hi Mary, I just wanted to thank you for doing what you do. I'm about to be a senior in highschool and I've been listening to your videos for about 2 years now. You're videos have helped me so much and have helped me get a good night sleep so I don't pass out in class LOL anyway, thank you for being you and creating such a positive environment with amazing content. Much love to you Mary!! ❤
I hate that the person you trusted with your writing gave such nasty feedback. I agree that there was definitely jealousy there. Sounds like they didn’t want you to succeed where they had failed.
On a much smaller scale, I took a lot of writing classes in college and we always had to give each other feedback. This one girl absolutely hated me and my writing. She was so nasty about it that our very hands-off professor actually interrupted her and asked if she had anything constructive to say.
Anyway, I’m really glad you kept writing. I’ve been listening to and really enjoying River Road. I can also see how much your writing skills show through in your role plays.
I had a very similar experience with a girl in my professional writing class last semester. She gave me 0s on every rubric she had to score for me. The reason she hated me: I told her in a private discussion that there was a contraction in writing so if she wanted to fix it I wouldn't put it on the rubric (which I mentioned because contractions were a big no-no and we lost all points in that category!). My professor did not even care and her scores had an impact on my overall grade. I put that in my class review!
@@suger595 What a terrible person! Also sounds like your professor was super lazy and didn’t want to do any of his own grading. I would have had to drop that class.
Don't take anything personally, how people treat you is a projection of their reality. You can't control how people act. Don't dwell on it. You can always control your attitude and work ethic. Be respectful always, and don't be afraid to shine.
I really needed to hear this. Thank you ❤️
Mary, don't ever apologize for talking about you! I really really enjoyed this video! I found it extremely relaxing but, at the same time, inspiring. I am so glad that I have learned so much more about you just by listening and watching to this video. Great video and always! ❤️
Me at 6am: I don't know if I can do it. I am just about worn out from it all.
Me 2 hours later: Whatever bitches. Mary said nice things to me and I can take all y'all now.
These words of encouragement are so lovely, Mary. Thank you for spreading kindness 🤍
I love watching you & I’m glad I watched this particular video with you talking about goals & encouragement.. I was a drug addict most of my life & I always heard that I wasn’t capable of getting clean and sober.. I’m 47 years old now & 3 years clean and sober.. I’m getting to keep my grandkids now & closer to my daughter after years of mental abuse of ppl telling me to couldn’t do it !! Well I did & I’m glad I proved others wrong bc they definitely didn’t want to see my succeed . Thanks for the encouragement
You're so good at spreading kindness, and it seems totally genuine coming from you. Feeling very grateful to have your channel for comfort ♡ Take care of yourself, lovely Mary! You're an unstoppable ray of sunshine!
Mary, you are amazing. Thank you for always being our friend ❤
the crinkle sounds are my favorite
This video had me in tears (In the best way) I really needed to hear this Mary. Thank you for sharing. I will definitely come back to this video to get me pumped up when I’m feeling stuck. Totally going to make some big steps towards my goals today that I’ve been putting off for numerous reasons. Today is the day I’m starting! Thanks to you.
Love the diamond picture that you're working on, it's really pretty.
Love the unicorn.
Omg that’s so crazy I just purchased one of these about a week ago and I just started it today what are the odds! Sleeping to this tonight! ❤️
I love diamond paintings. I made one for my mom. ❤💙💕💜
I am regretfully late to view/listen to this video. There are so many moments in it that really touched me. I’m gonna have to repeat it a few times (and look for your novels!). Such wonderful stories and really genuine encouragement. Thank you.
I have so enjoyed this video. You are so creative Mary. You inspire me a lot. And I thank you for that.
No way!! I've been working on a diamond painting all day today so this is extra awesome!!! Great minds think alike😜
What an inspiring story thank you for sharing. I needed it right now especially
Mary, my father died suddenly on Friday. Your videos have been a great comfort but I’m wondering if you have anything specific to say about grief and loss? You seem to be the wisest woman I know.
Sorry to hear about your dad, I'm always here to talk x 🤍
My condolences
i’m sorry to hear about your loss :( my bfs mom died unexpectedly in january and i also took comfort in mary’s videos. if i remember correctly she has a few older ones on grief/advice that u may find some comfort in if u search for it. hope u find some peace and comfort ❤️❤️❤️
Love the crinkle sounds
u posted as my head hit my pillow 💙 forever grateful 💜
Thank you for the message,I really appreciate it❤️
I hope you never stop ASMR your the best in my book 💗
This was so uplifting, thank you Mary!
I'm a new subscriber and all I can say is your voice is so relaxing and puts me to sleep 💤 thank you 😊
@SouthernASMR Sounds I am really thankful for your words and inspiration. 💚 Glad you reconsidered what that nincompoop told you in your youth about your writing and that you are writing again. Think it is clear to both myself and your thousands of fans/followers that you have a talent for creating relatable multi layered characters. Your creativity is very much appreciated. 💚I was told, as an impressionable and insecure spotty teen, that my Art was substandard by a particularly anally retentive teacher at school. I beLIEved it too at the time. Am I Rembrandt? No, but am my slice of consciousness as are you! Thank you again for your wisdom and the amazing crackling plastic sounds and the tippy tap of your broken mic. Much love from Yorkshire, UK. Xx
Love these sounds Mary 🙏🙏🙏💤💤
You’re awesome, Mary!
Your comments about the criticism you received for your book reminds me of something I once heard from Michael Malice about one hit wonders. Michael said he hates hearing people criticize one hit wonders. Are those one hit wonders Beethoven or Mozart? No. But for a brief period of time they still managed to bring some joy and happiness to the world, and that's something to be proud of and something very difficult to do. If my lot in life is to bring a little joy and happiness to the world for a period of time, then what could possibly be wrong with that. The world needs more people like that, not less
Im 21 amd had to cut out family family that i love with all my heart because when my husband and i were going through a hard time they would rather i give up and let it end even though we had just had twins even though we were very early on and still trying to figure out us and life and how we should and do work best together. They also for a very long time were discouraging about mt goal to marry him and start my life because hes nothing like them he is not content to sit stagnant he is very driven towards his goals and towards the life he wants and hes always encouraged me and pushed me to be the same and do the same and our dreams being similar and me loving him the way i do i saw our entire future together and i wanted it. Ive had to cut off and cut out family i love because they have continuously tried to break us apart and break me down to their level. I have chosen my husband and my children and a life that is currently hard and is a struggle because were young and just starting out because i would rather struggle towards my goal with someone who wants to get to their goal with me than dit in a life that i am unhappy with that i dont want all because my family is ok to have nothing to show for their years of working at the same job and the same town and all they did was settle i refused to settle and so did my husband and many if them hate him and me for it. But i cant be apologetic for choosing to try for my goal
I LOVE THIS DIMOND PAINTING!!! I have a panda one and I just haven’t finished it even tho I got it for EASTER LAST YEAR!! 😂😂😂
I’m second 😏😏
I’ve had and have something similar going on with a future job interest :/
I’ve wanted to be an environmental lawyer for 6 years, and my parents always said I never had it in me since I’m always quiet and never talk, and recently my brother just told me he didn’t think I could peruse it.
i wish i had your gift for writing where you feel like you're just transcribing a movie. i think for so long and so hard about my plots and its not easy lol. thank you for the wonderful video and advice.
I think Mary and I have a somewhat similar approach to writing- it can be good long term, but you often get stuck with having a certain "scene" in your mind that's way ahead of the plot you've written thus far. You want to rush and get to the good part , but you know your readers wouldn't enjoy that. It's a whole thing.
Love your Mystic Messenger profile picture by the way ^^
keep writing the book.. I know of a published author-ny times best sellers too and she got started (pre you tube) with a blog... and a carefully placed sample of her writing on craigslist(nyc). she isn't everyone's cup of tea(she can be rather snarky), but I find her funny. but it took a lot of writing (and reading other well respected authors work/books to assist in learning how to write well).
Wonderful.
Thanks
The Queen!!
Hi sweetie, wow, I do these art works also. They are rather soothing, even better with you whispering whilst doing yours. Thank you lovely lady, love from Lorraine in England xxxx
Love ur channel keep up the great work Mary greeting from NYC 🗽
Will you read your first book to us? Please!! I thoroughly enjoyed River Road
Are you published? I am interested in reading your work if I can figure out where to find it.
Is there any way for us to have access to your books?? I would love to read it!
It's on a Playlist on her channel called river road
❤️
Where could we read your book?
I ❤️ you Mary
Can you make another wreath making video
My dream is to become a model since I’m 5’8 at the age of 13 and my mom says why don’t you play basketball and I’m not really into sports but I’m just scared to tell them my dream is to become a runway model
Hope u achieve ur dream ❤️❤️❤️
you sound like my ex wife and it made me cry
was hard to listen to the whole thing :v
I have never made it all the way through any of your videos, and that is a very high compliment because I have terrible insomnia. I just wanted to tell you the first half of all your videos are fantastic! 😂❤️
Wow, thank you!