I’m so thankful it’s finally coming out how many boys were sexually abused! It’s mind boggling how long it’s been covered up! Thank you for speaking out about this trauma!
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
Men do not have an outlet to talk about the pain and grief related to sexual abuse. We are often shamed, blamed, and labeled as “weak”. It is an injustice is the highest order. Happened to me when I was 16. I was a child and it wasn’t my fault.
I was sexually abused by my cousin who was a year older than me I believe I was 4 or 5 . I’m just now at 27 realizing I have signs of ptsd. I just got health insurance and am going to seek help.
I never told anyone as a kid because I thought one of two things would happen, they wouldn’t believe me or they would shame and make fun of me because I was a boy and my abuser was a woman, and so I MUST have wanted it. I didn’t. I hated it and I hated myself for years because I thought I caused it.
Me too....by family. And at 50 years old I still struggle. I still feel it's my fault....to this day....it feels like yesterday...the flashbacks are disruptive and the PTSD sometimes is difficult
No one DESERVES to have their innocence STOLEN Jacques .. When someone in a position of power and authority, with way more experience than you abuses that authority and your trust .. that's not your fault. I knew my babysitter was lying when he told me he wanted to "show me what love is" but there was just no way I could be prepared for the intensity of those feelings at age 7. Even if you liked it, they shouldn't have done it, and if you feel violated then they were wrong. I'm sorry you were put in that position.
@@someonesaid2170 waslam bro i am also a muslim,what I mean to say is that why the hell do you want to get in touch like did you undergo similiar shit or you need help with something
What’s crazy is when I finally disclosed to my grandma about what happened years ago it was so hard to talk about I was laughing, stalling, and breathing like I was having a panic attack. I don’t remember it visually cause it was dark and I was given something to go to sleep. This was done by a trusted highly respected person in the church a choosen 144,000 individual now I understand the interest he took in me as grooming me.
So 😥. Didn't realize that this type behavior happened to so MANY innocent children, both males and females. Glad men are also speaking up, now. Makes me wonder if someone had protected these innocent children with their initial molestation if they wouldn't have experienced depression, a lack of trust, thinking that now they must become gay, become introverted or just become afraid of MOST people. A beautiful blonde lady that I knew said that about 10 male coworkers ran a train on her after work. (She said that they used a broomstick on her also.) She was afraid to tell anyone. So she cut off and dyed her long blonde hair and dressed in male-type clothing to hide her beauty. Later she pretended to like other women to push ALL men away. Seemed to work but she was lonely, so she sought out other small-scale timid women that couldn't control her to fulfill her personal interaction needs. She said that she tried to be gay BUT this really wasn't working for her. Thus, she started doing drugs and drinking heavily. Lost touch with her story for a long time. Saw someone who knew her who told me that she moved to another area and later killed herself. So sad because abusers DON'T realize the emotional and psychological trauma that they impose on innocent people to relieve their inability to find appropriate sexual partners. How very, very sad. 😥
Que bueno que puedan contar su historia, hay muchos hombres en su misma situación que están viendo este video. Un fuerte abrazo para cada uno de ustedes 🤗🤗🤗🤗💪🏻
I’m so thankful it’s finally coming out how many boys were sexually abused! It’s mind boggling how long it’s been covered up!
Thank you for speaking out about this trauma!
Abused by my aunt in my teens. In recovery. The pain and the nightmare seem to diminish as I keep talking to trusted friends and therapist.
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
Men do not have an outlet to talk about the pain and grief related to sexual abuse. We are often shamed, blamed, and labeled as “weak”. It is an injustice is the highest order. Happened to me when I was 16. I was a child and it wasn’t my fault.
No it was not your fault. You were a child.
Same thing happened to me at a similiar age, guy was a serial predator, my regret was telling my parents 10 years later.
I was sexually abused by my cousin who was a year older than me I believe I was 4 or 5 . I’m just now at 27 realizing I have signs of ptsd. I just got health insurance and am going to seek help.
I never told anyone as a kid because I thought one of two things would happen, they wouldn’t believe me or they would shame and make fun of me because I was a boy and my abuser was a woman, and so I MUST have wanted it. I didn’t. I hated it and I hated myself for years because I thought I caused it.
Me too....by family. And at 50 years old I still struggle. I still feel it's my fault....to this day....it feels like yesterday...the flashbacks are disruptive and the PTSD sometimes is difficult
Just keep talking to your therapist or trusted friends about it. The pain will eventually diminish.
No one DESERVES to have their innocence STOLEN Jacques ..
When someone in a position of power and authority, with way more experience than you abuses that authority and your trust .. that's not your fault.
I knew my babysitter was lying when he told me he wanted to "show me what love is" but there was just no way I could be prepared for the intensity of those feelings at age 7.
Even if you liked it, they shouldn't have done it, and if you feel violated then they were wrong. I'm sorry you were put in that position.
Its not your fault. And you are not alone.
I was molested by a " Friend" at age 12 and his mother did nothing about it..
"Parents"
I don't get it why did you quote parents?
I was also sexually abused by my barber.I was also abused once at a mosque.This caused me life time depression.
Salaam alaykom,is it possible to get in touch with you?
@@someonesaid2170 yes who are you
@@biggiestud9451 I'm just a stranger who saw your comment coincidentally. How can I get in touch with you?
@@someonesaid2170 waslam bro i am also a muslim,what I mean to say is that why the hell do you want to get in touch like did you undergo similiar
shit or you need help with something
@@biggiestud9451 No I didn't. I'm a woman but someone I care about went through it and that's why i wanted to talk with you.
What’s crazy is when I finally disclosed to my grandma about what happened years ago it was so hard to talk about I was laughing, stalling, and breathing like I was having a panic attack. I don’t remember it visually cause it was dark and I was given something to go to sleep. This was done by a trusted highly respected person in the church a choosen 144,000 individual now I understand the interest he took in me as grooming me.
So 😥. Didn't realize that this type behavior happened to so MANY innocent children, both males and females.
Glad men are also speaking up, now.
Makes me wonder if someone had protected these innocent children with their initial molestation if they wouldn't have experienced depression, a lack of trust, thinking that now they must become gay, become introverted or just become afraid of MOST people.
A beautiful blonde lady that I knew said that about 10 male coworkers ran a train on her after work. (She said that they used a broomstick on her also.) She was afraid to tell anyone. So she cut off and dyed her long blonde hair and dressed in male-type clothing to hide her beauty. Later she pretended to like other women to push ALL men away. Seemed to work but she was lonely, so she sought out other small-scale timid women that couldn't control her to fulfill her personal interaction needs. She said that she tried to be gay BUT this really wasn't working for her. Thus, she started doing drugs and drinking heavily. Lost touch with her story for a long time. Saw someone who knew her who told me that she moved to another area and later killed herself. So sad because abusers DON'T realize the emotional and psychological trauma that they impose on innocent people to relieve their inability to find appropriate sexual partners. How very, very sad. 😥
Que bueno que puedan contar su historia, hay muchos hombres en su misma situación que están viendo este video. Un fuerte abrazo para cada uno de ustedes 🤗🤗🤗🤗💪🏻
The background music ruined it for me
With help love and support anything is possible.
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