Dear Co-wives...Mind YOUR Marriage!
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
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ABOUT US:
We are Coach Nazir, Coach Fatimah, & Coach Nyla. We are considered Black Americans and we were all raised as Christians. We have a keen understanding of the many facets of American culture and the ongoing challenges it presents.
Each of us accepted Islam as young adults and are practicing Muslims who follow the final revelation, The Quran, and the sunnah of the Last & Final Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (sws).
Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla 13 years ago and their polygynous journey began.
Since then, 4 more children have been born, another son by Coach Fatimah and 3 sons with Coach Nyla who has added 2 bonus children (step-children) to the family making a total of 12 children.
We had very little support and even slimmer resources when we began our journey, so things were done by trial and error and there were lots of errors!
However, being proactive in our growth and commitment to the success of the family, we figured it out and decided to be a resource for others who may be experiencing similar difficulties.
We reverse-engineered the methods that we found worked best. We chose to remove any excuses from those who say they didn't have a way to learn how to practice it correctly.
ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
This channel is a place where we invite you to travel with us on our personal development journey to develop better and more fulfilling relationships whether you are single, married in monogamy, practicing or looking to practice polygyny.
We share a lot about polygyny and its dynamics because our teachers and spiritual leaders have failed us in this area and polygyny doesn't get its fair share of airtime. We want to be a healthy resource because people are still practicing it without practical education.
As a man, we help provide guidance in areas of leadership, financial IQ, emotional intelligence, mental awareness, and overall levels of competence and confidence.
As a woman, we help women connect to their femininity, learn how to navigate differing dynamics, how to be attractive as a whole, and how to craft a life of fulfillment no matter the challenges.
We help committed people go from surviving to thriving. If you are dedicated to growth, love, and connection then understand that the truth may set you free, but it may upset you first.
We tell the truth, share best practices, and also learn from our community.
ABOUT YOU:
If you are a man or woman who is interested in becoming the best version of yourself and in turn developing rich, fulfilling, and joyful relationships with others, then you are in the right place.
If you are looking to grow, learn more, and shine when there seems to be so much darkness around, then you are on the right channel.
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Here are a few ways we want men to benefit from our channel:
1. Better your character
2. Raise your leadership ability
3. Increase your financial intelligence
4. Expand your emotional capacity
5. Develop mental strength and agility
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2. Increase your femininity and maturity
3. Understand your female supportive and nurturing roles
4. Learn how to bring peace, joy, and beauty through sophistication
5. Increase your emotional, mental, and spiritual intelligences
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You just got a good husband to and I believe that’s the main thing that makes a polygamous marriage work. If your husbands compares you two or says to one that the other is better than you??? Sis, no woman will take that! So bless that man and May grant you all ease ❤
What was that jab about someone not having their mom
Screammmmm! Guess what?!😂🎉😂❤😂🎉😊😊😊
I HAVE YOUR BOOK IN MY HANDS! HAPPY DANCE, BACK FLIPS, 😂🎉😂😊😊😊❤❤❤
Ok Lauretta! You are going to have to send us a video of your happy dance and back flips lol🤣
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi lol. I am on it!
Lauretta is in the house! Salam alikum dear Sisters Coach Fatimah and Coach Nyla!
Suggestion!
Make a t shirt that says
MIND YOUR MARRIAGE
I think looking in cell phones, Facebook etc, are PAIN mining...dig deep enough ..long enough...you are going to hit big rocks and break your shovel!
We all know where our eyes go our enery flows. If I tell you to not think of a red truck ...the first thing you do is see a red truck!
I get it, and still I struggle 😢
Mind your marriage
Mind your marriage
Mind your marriage
Beautifully said ❤️
Lets give them our blessings guys
If they feel its good for them its ok
Always been a fan of you two 💕
Love you fillah 💕
Y'all take care of father king y'all looking beautiful.
Hard to mind your marriage when you're sharing the same guy and anything he does, it affects you, your kids with him and the future you want with him.
Hard doesn't mean impossible. Marriage isn't necessarily easy.
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Marriage is ment to enrich my live and not to bother me.
Sad to see you think all marriages don't have problems and challenges. Real Life doesn't work that way, believing so is delusional. Ask any married people if they have had any problems they had to solve and overcome, the answer will be unanimous.
I don't think the above comments are saying marriage is not hard. We all know it is, it's hard work. I think they are saying, why ADD to the problems. Bringing in another person is bringing in another way of life, ideas, ways of handling money, rearing children, etc because each person bring history, baggage, damage, scars, past emotional issues, belief systems, competition and other demons. It also makes room for jealousy and different preferences, which can birth additional problems. You can love--or have love for two people, but only one will truly have you heart. It takes major courage and real love to commit that love to one person because it is a choice - to choose that one person to love and give your all to, and not divide yourself. I feel, for men, polygamy is simply greed and selfishness. And, for women, it's desperation and/or the fear of being alone. These are facts.
Your "feelings" are just that. Feelings. That does not make them facts. What you stated was possible negatives and nothing positive where it shows extreme bias because if the possible negatives in monogamy were focused on then marriage in general would seem like something to avoid all together.
You stated that marriage is hard. Life in general can be hard. It's how we handle our situations and choices that matters. Or should we just give up and throw it all away. If polygyny isn't for you, great, move on. There are those who make the intentional choice in doing so based on their reasons and not your limited and arrogant view on what you may think or "feel". What we do is for them, not you. However, thanks for your comment. It helps with content, education and the algorithms.
Thank you❤
And u guys are intelligent