SubhanAllah! السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته coach Nyla. Whoever don't understand what polygamy is and how it works, aren't mature enough. They need to go back and read/see what الله says about it in the Quran! I don't pay negative thoughts from people any mind. I'm a muslimah and gonna do me regardless of what people say. الله is my judge, not them!!! People are always in other people's business, they need to mind their own! May الله help/guide us all to what's halal and protect us from the evil whispers of shaytan by HIS mercy! اللهم امين 🧕👳♂️🧕
I think almost everyone who has a problem with polygyny is projecting . They are asking themselves how they would handle it if their husband married again. And that is where they start getting sassy and disrespectful. What if you were truly happy, the husband would see, and then what? It rocks everyone's boat. I so get it. I see them struggling and suffering. May Allah bless them. It is all fear based. It is so much easier to take their crap when it is framed this way. Just love them. Actually, being a Muslima, esp a born Muslim, might make it harder.
Helping me put self in others shoes. Oooo our Muslim friends and his culture but here in America. the wives I’m staying away from them mad hens girl !. His family even though from /in the old country not their “tribe” plusbthey’ve known me 24 yrs child they’re unglued. She’s 42 never married. Mom passed . Taking care of father. Pious . We with no children. Allah bless us all ❤ keep focus and off burnout 🤲 They can’t see it that it’s good for our family/society. Days of Fitna is what it is
May Allah bless you Sis. Everything that we want and need is in Islam. Allah revealed that. This deen is perfected. We struggle and the goal is jennah. Stay focused.
SubhanAllah! السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته coach Nyla. Whoever don't understand what polygamy is and how it works, aren't mature enough. They need to go back and read/see what الله says about it in the Quran! I don't pay negative thoughts from people any mind. I'm a muslimah and gonna do me regardless of what people say. الله is my judge, not them!!! People are always in other people's business, they need to mind their own! May الله help/guide us all to what's halal and protect us from the evil whispers of shaytan by HIS mercy! اللهم امين 🧕👳♂️🧕
I think almost everyone who has a problem with polygyny is projecting . They are asking themselves how they would handle it if their husband married again. And that is where they start getting sassy and disrespectful. What if you were truly happy, the husband would see, and then what? It rocks everyone's boat. I so get it. I see them struggling and suffering. May Allah bless them. It is all fear based. It is so much easier to take their crap when it is framed this way. Just love them. Actually, being a Muslima, esp a born Muslim, might make it harder.
Helping me put self in others shoes. Oooo our Muslim friends and his culture but here in America. the wives I’m staying away from them mad hens girl !. His family even though from /in the old country not their “tribe” plusbthey’ve known me 24 yrs child they’re unglued. She’s 42 never married. Mom passed . Taking care of father. Pious . We with no children. Allah bless us all ❤ keep focus and off burnout 🤲 They can’t see it that it’s good for our family/society. Days of Fitna is what it is
May Allah bless you Sis. Everything that we want and need is in Islam. Allah revealed that. This deen is perfected. We struggle and the goal is jennah. Stay focused.
Stay focused and do your thing.......sharing your journey and sharing your successes should be done more...
I read my Bible and journal.
Coach nyla, you are so adorable! You make me smile
Initial wives will feel that they are misplaced, etc. for the most part depends on the husband’s ability to lead
At first, all the raw emotions come up. That is normal
Tired of lack of integrity, etc