Queer Talk Ep 3: Brown Singaporeans Discuss Sexual Racism
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- Опубликовано: 31 янв 2023
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Chapters:
0.00: Introduction
0.36: Coming out to family
2.54: Racism on dating apps
4.35: Lying about one's own race on dating apps
5.31: Experience of being bisexual in Singapore
5.58: Does racial preference constitute sexual racism?
8.37: Will they date someone of their own race?
8.58: Responding to 'You're good looking for your race'
9.45: Conclusion
Cast:
Augustine: / augustashleys
Bhas: / bhas.karan
Sariyan: / a.p0phis 
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I think the key is to separate prejudice from preference. We all have certain prejudices that have developed over the course of our lives for various different reasons but as long as we're always willing to keep an open mind and try out new things when given the opportunity we can overcome them and live a more enlightened life. By doing this we might also discover amazing new things that we never thought existed before so there's always a reason to try.
I’m here for the representation of brown voices! Thank you!
You’re welcome! Thank you for the kind words 😊
Well the gay racial discrimination still occurs on Grindr even after irc has ended. As a Malay guy been there and experienced it
when sariyan said “we play basketball, we hit each other with balls and stuff yknow” 🤣🤣🤣 7:42
Please make more like this
Gay racial discrimination, prejudice and preference...all roll into one. There are other factors to consider. It may sound easy for some to say willing to keep an open 😁hole, heart, mind and try to give a chance. Don't complaint about not finding a mate/bf/companion...etc because WE are choosy/racist/discriminate. Like everyone else aka the straights too. Both guys/men/girls/women...all seeking THE ONE by doing the same. Must be a certain race. Must be well educated/rich/handsome/pretty/good bod/slender/fair/tan/tall/smooth facial skin...etc
It's all depending on our upbringing/surroundings...of course when we are young, we all have that ideal person in our mind/heart. But due to past personal experiences, hygiene plays a BIG role in everyone. Of course, certain people are more/less clean in certain erm erm areas...then followed by compatibility...bedroom, communication and certain areas that already becomes a hurdle from the beginning...
Indians with Chinese = good compatibility (having pets and food is not an issue). Chinese/Indian with Malays = Possible but still need to work on THE issues). Malay/Indians/Chinese with Ang Mo = Can!!! Yes!!! Why is that?
I have been out/dating since 12yo. Been with Indians, Chinese, Malays and other nationalities, tall, short (erm erm...yes I meant THAT) long, huge, hunky, chubby, thin...but as you grow, with all the experiences...you will know what you like/prefer. Rather than being all nice and going through the entire process all over again. But as we all know, as we AGE...the dating pool will be smaller and smaller...and some will choose to settle with whoever comes along. Everything is YES, YES, SURE, OK at the beginning.
Well end of day, its important when you do find that someone/anyone, lay out the cards on the table. What you want/needs are. Make sure there's no misunderstanding/miscommunications and DON'T just settle.
Lol a few years down the line and i got blocked by the dude in the middle cause I'm indian. Its ok if you're not keen, just say it. But don't later go on being "woe is me I'm indian" and treat your own kind like crap.
This entire conversation is so boring and i didn't learn anything. I CAN DEFINITELY ADD MORE SPICE TO THIS but since i don't have a huge account following so guess that'll never happen 😒