Spilling Tea On Gay Friendships I The Unfiltered Gay Podcast Ep 5
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
- Get ready for some hot tea as our hosts spill the beans on how friendships work in the gay scene.
Connect with our hosts here:
- Aiman: / aimanomg
- Kieran: / kierancyr
- Sean: / mrseanfoo
Watch the uncut version of this episode on Patreon: / dearstraightpeople
I am a straight 55 year old Dutch woman. Not sure if that has anything to do with anything, but you guys are cracking me up. Something like this: long overdue in my opinion!
Glad you’re enjoying our podcast so far! More to come 😊
I'm a 67, straight woman, from the US, and I agree with you, these guys are hysterical, lol!
I love how you guys disagree with each other, but have a nice conversation ❤
Fun conversation. Quite true about the intentional vs circumstantial. I've been a very go with the flow guy, so kinda makes sense that till now I have more straight friends than gay friends much less a gay clique.
Something I find a bit difficult to navigate with gay friendships is that initially, it can go in any direction - friendship, relationship, or hook up. I've had times where I meet someone wanting to be genuine friends but they get attracted to me and try to make a move. The moment this happens, it feels like it's hard to keep trying to be friends.
I also agree that once you somehow get yourself into the gay scene, it's easy to make gay friends organically.
Wah, i watch all the videossssssssss….entertaining!
I guess I had a similar thinking with Sean, his mind do relate with me in every questions of it. hahaha. maybe because we are in the same era
Watching this episode made me realise that i do not have a tribe/close gay friends of my own since i came out! Has it always been a thing to find your own group of gay friends?
I think it's just one of those unspoken things where we unknowingly do search for a group (whether it be going to queer spaces for a night out, or following other queer ppl on social media and making an effort to DM them with hopes of a future connection) to be a part of once we're out. That being said, it's not a "must". There's just a lot to be found and learned when you do find other queer people who you can relate to and be 100% your authentic self with.
errmmm....True friends will be difficult to be friends with benefits......it really depends on how the individual conceives about what is sex to him. As for friendships regardless between gays or straights, the types of relationships developed will differ as you age with the different priorities you have at different stages of your life. The question I have really is how true a friendship can be and how long can it last...
12:14 🤣 JACK-A-DA
Love this show❤ But perhaps u could do something about the audio. Its sound far, sometimes unclear to listen due to room echoing.
Hey, we're thrilled to hear that you find our podcast entertaining!
Just a heads-up, all our episodes were filmed on the same day. Unfortunately, we only discovered during post-production that the mics weren't working properly. As a result, the audio quality will be subpar for a few more episodes.
However, if the reception is positive and we get the chance to produce a second season, we'll definitely invest in a proper studio and triple-check that the mics are working perfectly. Thanks for your understanding and support!
@@DearStraightPeople That wud be great! Keep it up!! xoxo
which is the followup series
“But what if your sister was a top” 😂
Hahahahaah this is so funny . Anyway I believe Gays and straight , they are same same but different in their own ways. Just stay happy , no violence , no discrimination and no hate .
Hey guys! Let's go to Tantric for a drink.
Onz!
Ok the guy to the leftmost makes a lot of sense. And is cute. Hi. Lol
If he could tone down his hand gestures, I’m sure there will be a long queue to get to know him! 🙂 Sorry if this offends him! 🙏
Hi! Where’s Isaac (I think that’s his name.)? Also, I have never been interested in sleeping with friends, either but having partners checks that box.
Our hosts change for every episode 😊
I was 23 then and now I regret about at the time my best friend ask for sex lol and I rejected him.. he is straight but curious
I know the world has changed since the nineties, but back then in the mid-west US of A anyway, we were forming gay neighborhood associations, religious associations, softball, bowling or rugby leagues and meeting people outside the bars. This generation is far more about hook-ups than anything else, which is sad because of all the years we spent trying to get SS marriage laws passed in the West. Plus the fact that as you age you will realize just how pointless being a full-time horn-dog can be.
The other thing is, straight men have to live in straitjackets always worrying about not getting too close to their male friends (will they think I'm GAY). That to me is both sad for them and very unnatural. Humans need each other, we are innately social creatures, and most poor straight guys, at least in the USA, can only talk about either women or sports, both such shallow pursuits.
This is my sage advice for today, childrens.