VLOG | I’m Single.. How to get over your EX… in 3 days.. CHAI!!!

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
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  • @Itstorobaby
    @Itstorobaby 2 года назад +408

    See the views in less than a day 🥺❤️❤️ Sophia you are loved and there’s no doubt about that ❤️ forever an inspiring woman

  • @SoNgBiRd63100
    @SoNgBiRd63100 2 года назад +936

    Heads up y’all, the stages of grief isn’t linear. You can actually move between the stages back and forth at different moments until the grief period is over. It’s OK and normal to feel you’ve accepted something but then feel angry again. Again, grief isn’t linear, give yourself space to feel and heal. ❤️

    • @shaenichole5378
      @shaenichole5378 2 года назад +14

      I’ve every emotion possible, I’ve cried daily at a drop of a dime. I dry my face and move on with my day. Grieving is needed and it’s okay to go through it. I’m not rushing it bc I need heal from this fully

    • @coachzaynab355
      @coachzaynab355 2 года назад +1

      Thank you!

    • @npayne7776
      @npayne7776 2 года назад +20

      Yes hunni! You think you're good and then BOOM you are going through the emotions.... Strength out of the window, down the street and around the corner. I'm glad she is in good spirits now but Healing is a moment by moment thing. Not even day by day. You could be living your best life and get triggered instantly. Praying for her healing. It takes time.❤

    • @Somelikeitthrift
      @Somelikeitthrift 2 года назад +3

      It took me 4 months to get over it

    • @PaigesOfJordan
      @PaigesOfJordan 2 года назад +2

      I needed to see this. thank you for this

  • @zakiyadaniels7639
    @zakiyadaniels7639 2 года назад +418

    It’s not normal to go through the stages of grief in 3 days… It’s amazing that you’re helping ladies to acknowledge their grief but please know ladies that it’s totally okay to not be fully through your grieving process in three days🙂

    • @krimezofkolor4683
      @krimezofkolor4683 2 года назад +6

      Thank you

    • @HydenNoway
      @HydenNoway 2 года назад +3

      you're comment caught my eyes because it make sense then i saw your last name.. we have the saaaame yay

    • @fadyanassor6934
      @fadyanassor6934 2 года назад +20

      its unrealistic also especially whe you been with them for long

    • @yesBUTnoable
      @yesBUTnoable 2 года назад +16

      I was thinking the same thing. At the time of the video it was only 2 days later so those stages of grief may not have even been fully felt or experienced at their full capacity just yet. Wishing her all the best tho💕

    • @palesarampesi1536
      @palesarampesi1536 2 года назад +1

      Exactly!!!!!!

  • @Nita.b
    @Nita.b 2 года назад +647

    I’m about to be a year single after a 7 year relationship. It has been hard as hell grieving but once that person literally doesn’t exist to you anymore (acceptance) it’s smooth sailing. LET’S GO OUTSIDEEE 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

    • @Seekwhatwillbefound
      @Seekwhatwillbefound 2 года назад +11

      Your so gorgeous

    • @Nita.b
      @Nita.b 2 года назад +4

      @@Seekwhatwillbefound thank you love 💖💖

    • @soniajohn
      @soniajohn 2 года назад +20

      I can relate. I became a year single today after a 7 year relationship. It felt like I was mourning someone, so painful. But after acceptance comes blossom.

    • @livinlifewithla7142
      @livinlifewithla7142 2 года назад +10

      @@soniajohn I agree I was also in a long term relationship of 8 years and it hurt like hell even noticing I was letting go , but once a woman has accepted that this person is not mines anymore and the emotions are no longer in the way ….it’s no returning

    • @thulilekhoza818
      @thulilekhoza818 2 года назад +2

      I know... Been there

  • @chloeways3832
    @chloeways3832 2 года назад +200

    This just shows how WHOLE you were as a woman in your relationship! A lot of women get out of relationships feeling empty, incomplete, and just not themselves ( I used to be one of them). However, this proves that when you show up to a relationship WHOLE and in CHRIST and when you continue to pour into YOURSELF that no matter what transpires you will be okay. James 1:2-4 "Consider it a great joy when you experience various trials because in the end, you will be complete lacking nothing." It's only up from here girl! Always supporting you fine babe!!!

    • @itsci
      @itsci 2 года назад +4

      I love the self awareness because this is so true.

    • @ManiJ.
      @ManiJ. 2 года назад

      This was real. I love it.

    • @DeeplyJenny
      @DeeplyJenny 2 года назад +1

      speak the truth ♥️

  • @missabigail1366
    @missabigail1366 2 года назад +725

    Hey Sophia, be comfortable with the fact that you don’t have all the answers.. your only 24. It’s ok not to get over an ex in 3 days, it may take you much longer considering you were together for years. All you need is inner-peace, great company and positivity - and you will be alright ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

    • @genevafacon3479
      @genevafacon3479 2 года назад +15

      Beautiful words! Blessings to you!

    • @palesarampesi1536
      @palesarampesi1536 2 года назад +2

      Well said ❤️

    • @Msqueen_d
      @Msqueen_d 2 года назад +2

      Facts sis you not the first or last

    • @sharonhassan9286
      @sharonhassan9286 2 года назад +2

      This really helped me lost3years of reletionship

  • @TheLeanneSarah
    @TheLeanneSarah 2 года назад +320

    nah like i'm genuinely in disbelief... I was over here thinking a proposal was going to become in the next year or so chaiiiii, sophia we love you and continue to live your best life in peace!!

  • @FisayoGracieAbby
    @FisayoGracieAbby 2 года назад +70

    "Even though it's just a breakup, it really does feel like somebody died" That really got to me. I just found you Soph and i love you already! Wow you're amazing! Just keep going girl

  • @gloriadickson03
    @gloriadickson03 2 года назад +558

    It’s actually so significant that you got your RUclips plaque when you needed it the most!! Look at God!!! You are lifted Sophia❤️

  • @danikaherman7847
    @danikaherman7847 2 года назад +270

    Worst and best feeling in the world is when I walked away from my kids dad. 9yr relationship but known him for 12yrs. Haven't looked back and my life got 10x better. Love and support coming from Tampa, FL.

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @jasminejackson4877
    @jasminejackson4877 2 года назад +41

    Don't let them grief specialist tell you that you need 6 months to heal. When you are ready then YOU are ready. 🙌 I hope everything works out for you 🥰

  • @lwilliams418
    @lwilliams418 2 года назад +280

    The stages of grief comes in waves… It won’t happen over 2 days. It may not come in 2 months. You feel ok right now because you may still be in shock but it’s not over🥺 Allow yourself all the time you need because those feelings will arise again. I ended a 8 year relationship 3 months ago and it still hurts! My heart goes out to u❤️

    • @teeshastrio915
      @teeshastrio915 2 года назад +22

      Just ended a 7 year relationship and it definitely comes in waves.

    • @ByRenz
      @ByRenz 2 года назад +60

      I was just about to say the same thing. I kind of wish she didn't post this video yet because it feels ok now, but months after, when the dust settles, it burns so bad. I remember after my first break-up, I didn't experience the hurt until about five months later, especially when I found out that he had moved on.
      Sophie, I enjoy your videos so much, but please take this time to focus on your transition.

    • @nessawithsmiles
      @nessawithsmiles 2 года назад +25

      I know exactly what you’re talking about. But I pray that she don’t experience the waves, and that she just experiences calm and peace long-term.

    • @ByRenz
      @ByRenz 2 года назад +1

      @@teeshastrio915 Each wave hurts differently.

    • @StarringShameka
      @StarringShameka 2 года назад +3

      Yes yes yes to this comment

  • @folayemi_aina
    @folayemi_aina 2 года назад +242

    This comment section is for me! You all rock! Sending love to you Soph, on my very bad days i thank God for the little things like moving my hand freely without assistance from someone else.
    You will be okay and love you.

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

    • @TyVonNorth
      @TyVonNorth 2 года назад +8

      Loved this. Heavy on the thanking God for the little things just like that. It can be so easy to forget the simplest blessings, bc it gets clouded by other disheartening things we face. Thank you for the reminder 🤍

    • @patricewashington888
      @patricewashington888 2 года назад

      Amen

    • @thatchickdriaa
      @thatchickdriaa 2 года назад

      ❤️

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin 2 года назад

      Aweeee this is so wholesome 😢 and you are so right often we forget about Gods blessings upon us and it’s things like what you just said

  • @Kaymaxwelldevelops
    @Kaymaxwelldevelops 2 года назад +164

    Editing and story organization…..music selection and placement….!!!!!!! Let’s take a moment to acknowledge the impeccable flow of this Vlog!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 You will and always have grown, adapted and overcome on this channel. This is a lesson in life. Love to see it🌹🌹🌹

    • @SpiceItUp_5150
      @SpiceItUp_5150 2 года назад

      Yesssss. What is the name of the 1st. song

    • @ToyaSooooDope
      @ToyaSooooDope 2 года назад +1

      @@SpiceItUp_5150 broken promises by summer walker

    • @SpiceItUp_5150
      @SpiceItUp_5150 2 года назад +1

      @@ToyaSooooDope thank you.

  • @efiadams
    @efiadams 2 года назад +268

    Aww Sophia…I’m sorry you’re going through this. Now…3 days to get over someone you invested almost 3 years with…that’s very unlikely. Like a lot of people mentioned in the comments…grief comes in waves. I’m not hoping you get back to the sadness and the loneliness…but don’t be surprised if it comes back. There’s no timeline to healing. May God cover you through this journey 🤍

    • @lovelydae7455
      @lovelydae7455 2 года назад +4

      Yeah maybe she’s accepted it but nah

    • @badbxtchtee
      @badbxtchtee 2 года назад +2

      Don’t say when say if😭😭

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

    • @efiadams
      @efiadams 2 года назад +1

      @@badbxtchtee Oh yeah you’re right! I’m gonna edit my comment, thank you!

    • @badbxtchtee
      @badbxtchtee 2 года назад +1

      @@efiadams no problem babes🤍🤍

  • @ohsovee
    @ohsovee 2 года назад +19

    I am 6 months post breakup from my 10 year relationship. Even after these months there are days that I get sad & reminisce about the past. Healing takes time & doesn’t follow the normal “steps of grief”. Have patience with yourself & your healing. Don’t forget that you’re loved. Sending you love & light ❤️

  • @prettybrown6247
    @prettybrown6247 2 года назад +411

    Haven’t even watched but ain’t nothing wrong with being single. Live your best life! 😍 You got the whole world ahead of you, and you got everything going for you. 💞

    • @diamondwilliams1207
      @diamondwilliams1207 2 года назад +5

      This is so true

    • @GrowwithNaomie
      @GrowwithNaomie 2 года назад +3

      True that

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you now

  • @emmiesworld2435
    @emmiesworld2435 2 года назад +67

    Just got out of a 4 year relationship with my high school sweetheart . We have lived together this whole time and have been friends for 7 years. I feel like my whole world is crashing down but I know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. This video was in my recommendations and the universe did that on purpose. Thank you for simply being transparent. You never know who your helping and you definitely helped me just watching this ❤️

  • @TheBrieEffect
    @TheBrieEffect 2 года назад +242

    My great grandmother told me once that I didn’t get over a break up easily or quickly it’s just that the grieving process started while I was in the relationship and before the break up even happened. I am a firm believer of that 💜. I know this is just a small part of your journey girl. Wishing love and light.

    • @Sophiology
      @Sophiology  2 года назад +38

      I love that, shout out to grandma ❤️

    • @Ny.Lynette
      @Ny.Lynette 2 года назад +6

      Had to add this to my Instagram story cause chile 🙏🏽

    • @TheBrieEffect
      @TheBrieEffect 2 года назад +4

      She was an amazing woman 😊

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      @@Ny.Lynette do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @PRETTYASSP
    @PRETTYASSP 2 года назад +37

    Love everything about this video except the “Luckily I’m still young comment” Doesn’t matter if you’re young, older or old if you have breath in your body you can always START OVER!!! If something is not serving you then you know what ya gotssss to do! When you realize you are the CREATOR you’ll see a MAN is the least of the worries 💟💫 much love to you babesss

    • @AboutBritney
      @AboutBritney 2 года назад

      Absolutely agree 🙌🏾

    • @stacyhugues1806
      @stacyhugues1806 Год назад +4

      I agree with you but you are not the CREATOR though you are the bearer of life. Only GOD is the creator

  • @dorisn.6640
    @dorisn.6640 2 года назад +58

    As someone who has been divorced twice, you are going to be alright lil sis. Your attitude towards the breakup is right. Its been just couple of days, you are still in the grieving phase. Some days you'll feel gd and others you may feel sad. If you do, its alright. Give yourself that grace to feel sad that day. Eventually as the days turn to weeks, the weeks turn to months, the sadness won't be there anymore when you think of him. Again you are doing great. Your energy is in the right place. keep doing you and keep stepping forward.

  • @Jazzyroseyy
    @Jazzyroseyy 2 года назад +130

    My friend sent me this video and I definitely needed it. After 4 years together, I broke off my engagement a few days ago. Still processing but I’m hopeful that I can find peace within myself. Thanks for sharing!🤍

  • @tg_k7235
    @tg_k7235 2 года назад +142

    This video truly showed how verse Jeremiah 29:11 is coming to past because the Lord DOES have a plan for you Sophia and I am just happy to see you pushing through because God has not and will not lead you astray. You have truly been an inspiration to me and many others. Keep shining boo- your fine babe from Mn🤍

  • @DC.DYNASTY
    @DC.DYNASTY 8 месяцев назад +2

    I always jump straight to acceptance.. my life is mine and the one who fits, will fit.

  • @mandimandss
    @mandimandss 2 года назад +229

    What an intro, absolutely amazing ! Keep the faith Sophia, nothing lasts forever, you are never stuck. Love your content and God sees your heart, been through this before and trust me last last hits 🤣🤣🤣. I love how self aware you are too, going through and analysing the entire thing. Keep your mind positive is one thing I’ll say, don’t allow one situation to stop you from fully opening up again in the future, but as the Lord says guard your heart!

  • @imkayelle
    @imkayelle 2 года назад +132

    I’m so happy that you chose yourself! Toxic relationships and situationships are glorified in the media and look at you, taking the healthier more mature route. Thanks for continuing to be a role model. We love you Sophia and we can’t wait to see how God continues to bless you. Happy healing beautiful ❤️.

    • @miimonalisa
      @miimonalisa 2 года назад +4

      I jumped through the video. What exactly did she say the issue was?

  • @tierrastark7258
    @tierrastark7258 2 года назад +275

    I’m rn crying over a breakup That’s about to happen. I feel like this has been a cycle for me I’m 30 and can’t seem to find a stable love

    • @Oneakaell
      @Oneakaell 2 года назад +12

      Hugs!

    • @lilliekjordan7444
      @lilliekjordan7444 2 года назад +71

      DON'T GO LOOKING FOR LOVE❣️ BE YOURSELF THE RIGHT ONE WILL FIND YOU!!!! NO JOKE IT WORKS..

    • @beccabexx
      @beccabexx 2 года назад +21

      Girl you are worthy of peace and love! You got this and stay strong! ❤️

    • @dannidan4794
      @dannidan4794 2 года назад +33

      You need to figure out what about you that keeps attracting unstable love. It starts with us baby girl

    • @LBenedicta_M
      @LBenedicta_M 2 года назад +1

      Love and light 🤗

  • @keepingupwithfrancine
    @keepingupwithfrancine 2 года назад +53

    It’s crazy how everyone is always alerted when someone is going through a breakup, the views increase even the comments, it’s as if everyone was waiting for this moment… may we not be waiters of bad news but forever always remain supportive be it the good or the bad🙏…To Sophia babe stay strong and hang in there,it’s not easy losing someone you loved, no matter how we try to put on a cute smily face, it hurts and it’s good to admit…. Have a blessed journey and continue in God

    • @johndre8673
      @johndre8673 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having my former partner back , after being separated for months . All thanks to Mr Ehijator whom help me to get back my ex again , I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours

  • @ferociouscherub9819
    @ferociouscherub9819 2 года назад +12

    IM NOT TRYING TO BE MESSY BUT…..but when he couldn’t be there for her on New Years🤔, AND didn’t pick the phone when she called MULTIPLE TIMES🤔…that was 🚩🚩🚩🚩…. Her disappointed face was heartbreaking. ☹️I just had a bad feeling during that vlog. Sophia, YOU WILL BE FINE!! I pray that you have strength during this difficult time 🙏🏾

  • @ToriUptown
    @ToriUptown 2 года назад +4

    the five stages of grief is some BS. grief does not have a play book. it’s literally different for everyone. we have to stop trying to turn everything into logic. FEEL your feelings. that’s the only way through 💕

  • @JayniaAnsha
    @JayniaAnsha 2 года назад +200

    just got out of my 3 year relationship a couple days ago and i’m also doing well. i feel more relieved than sad or mad and people keep telling me that i’m “faking it” but in reality i’m not. when you know you’re a good person and you put good out into in the universe you receive all things good in return (ten-fold). you’re blessed and highly favored, this relationship was just one of God’s tests and you passed! you’re poised, classy and handling it with grace which is very hard to do but everything will be okay you’ll continue to do amazing things in this world 🤍

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

    • @naylajackson5151
      @naylajackson5151 2 года назад

      I love how you think about it . You continue to learn that they are lessons and your getting ready for your blessing .

    • @ms.polishjohnson8031
      @ms.polishjohnson8031 2 года назад

      I honestly get over it in less than 5 hours lol but something maybe severely wrong with me lol so I don’t recommend 🤔

    • @melliethemortician
      @melliethemortician 2 года назад +3

      Sometimes that's how it ends up being for the best. My last relationship after it ended it felt more like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders and they said the same, the relationship was no longer good even though we tried our hardest and so it became a burden instead. Knowing when to let go helps shorten that grieving process because you know you tried

    • @Msqueen_d
      @Msqueen_d 2 года назад

      Sis I think we all have to be selfish and stick to it

  • @accordingtomarise
    @accordingtomarise 2 года назад +142

    Seems like all the 2019 relationships ended this year. Took me 3 months to get over mine but I’m now living my best life. ☺️
    You’re amazing ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

    • @JennyAdebayo
      @JennyAdebayo 2 года назад +4

      Literally babes mine ended 3 days ago

    • @prophetess7771
      @prophetess7771 2 года назад +4

      Mine ended last week

    • @venusqueen1456
      @venusqueen1456 2 года назад +2

      Mine ended 5 months ago💔

    • @kiara_lofi
      @kiara_lofi 2 года назад

      Mine ended 4 months ago its crazy 😭

  • @tiarramonet
    @tiarramonet 2 года назад +259

    Sending you love babe 🥺

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @teresaelaine_
    @teresaelaine_ 2 года назад +138

    We love a transparent queen! Sophia, I wish you nothing but the best during your new chapter. As long as you continue to walk by faith, God will continue to bless you beyond measures. I learned the hard way that the people you love the most can be the same people that’ll hurt you the worst. I’m not going to lie, break ups hurt. So it’s okay to be sad, it’s okay to feel hurt. Just know God has something in store for you bigger than your eyes can see. But fine babe it’s just in time for you to have a HOT GIRL SUMMER! Love you Sophia!

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @rstyles9070
    @rstyles9070 2 года назад +15

    Cried the whole way through this video. Struggling to leave a 4 year relationship that serves me no purpose *alexa play “foolish” by Ashanti*.
    Love to you Sophia. Beautiful beautiful lady. Glad you’re doing well

    • @corina6772
      @corina6772 2 года назад +3

      Wishing God gives you the heart and energy the start a new
      Best

  • @Citygirlll
    @Citygirlll 2 года назад +25

    I was hoping the title was a clickbait 😭😭. I’m shook. Sending you virtual hugs Sophia, God has bigger plans for you, xx❤️

  • @sewaoluwa
    @sewaoluwa 2 года назад +9

    Y'all in the comments are the sweetest 🥺 I'm so happy she knows she has supporters and well wishers, God bless everyone sending her love. Girl never forget you are enough ❤️

  • @megan-renee
    @megan-renee 2 года назад +212

    Sophia! sending love your way heartbreak isn't easy ... I know you only show a small part of your day but your positivity in a time like this is truly inspiring! there's nothing like a woman standing up and choosing herself! love that for you wishing you happy happy happy days ahead fine babe🥰

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you now

    • @teamlaureas
      @teamlaureas 2 года назад

      Sending you love girls 😘😘 washin from France

  • @AndreaAvanha
    @AndreaAvanha 2 года назад +73

    Girl, you are so dope! Been watching you for a long time and you’ve always stayed true to yourself & YOU ARE REAL!! Come on now, ain’t nothing you can’t overcome. You are a strong woman as you said & although this is a change, you will overcome. I love that you continue to open your videos with a biblical verse. Keep on keeping on girl, Gods got you ❤️

  • @ThembelihleBhengu
    @ThembelihleBhengu 2 года назад +39

    South Africa 🇿🇦 we are here. Good luck on your healing process babe. We’re going to continue supporting you. ❤️❤️

  • @florider5517
    @florider5517 2 года назад +8

    For it to only be 2 days from the breakup and she’s comfortable to make a video that means she checked out a minute ago.

  • @TaiwoCapodanno
    @TaiwoCapodanno 2 года назад +34

    So proud of how you’re handling this though, it’s giving, “my Heavenly Father will fight for me jare, let me enjoy my life, who has time to be crying?” 💕

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @yardvibz85
    @yardvibz85 2 года назад +6

    Nothing wrong with being single! It gives you the chance to find yourself and other things that was being ignore, be strong, you got this!

  • @SimplyVie__
    @SimplyVie__ 2 года назад +33

    The way my heart hurt just reading the title😩 but I know God has a plan.. sending my love ❤️❤️

  • @preciousmoloi6761
    @preciousmoloi6761 2 года назад +3

    Exactly. Fr grief that relationship and that person. Literally allow yourself to feel all the emotions and cry for as long as you need to. Eventually you'll be alright. Don't rush that process. There is no such thing as getting over someone you loved easily or quicker.

  • @KimoraMyliaa
    @KimoraMyliaa 2 года назад +36

    Proud of you for doing what’s best for you! I’m 4 months into my breakup and I’ve been the happiest girl ever.

  • @chillwithnyya8140
    @chillwithnyya8140 2 года назад +19

    Stay beautiful, Soph!! I'm going through a breakup while 7 months pregnant and I can actually say that life is better when you love yourself more. Men come and they go but you stay with yourself forever. Cherish you and love yourself. Hugs and Kisses from NY in Dallas 💕

  • @efemenajuweto8915
    @efemenajuweto8915 2 года назад +92

    It really felt like I was on FaceTime with you sophia and there’s no better way to handle this than the way you handled it. God will see you through babes cuz you’re forever a fine babe ❤️❤️

  • @Lizorlose
    @Lizorlose 2 года назад +3

    This is hella dramatic and I love it. We both know you deserve better sis. A fine babe like you don’t need to talk about a break up because you will be making up in other forms like winning and God.

  • @patiencendori1119
    @patiencendori1119 2 года назад +61

    Kudos to you for finding laughter and joy throughout this process. Three years is a lot of time to have someone in your life, not including the time yall were friends prior. I love your openesse and the fact that you are sharing your testimony and thanking God through it all. Single or not I'm so proud of the woman you are becoming!

    • @damarisjohn5847
      @damarisjohn5847 2 года назад

      Sophia u are strong and can walk through the process.

  • @coleencowell
    @coleencowell 2 года назад +8

    You remind me so much of myself. One day after my breakup, I got the job offer that I always wanted and a response from uscis regarding my citizenship.
    God definitely has a plan sweetheart 🤞🏾
    Continue to trust in him.

  • @iamqueenama4233
    @iamqueenama4233 2 года назад +76

    I’m so sorry that you are going through this. Thank you for being real and transparent. May God carry you through this time period. Forever a strong fine babe! ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @jewellies3653
    @jewellies3653 2 года назад +15

    I needed this vlog so bad ! Five years and I’m going through a heartbreak as we speak . Thank You for posting 💜

  • @TrudyTalee
    @TrudyTalee 2 года назад +20

    3 days in tho . Over 3 years that’s not easy. I think giving yourself time before speaking tooo much on it. Wishing you the best for the days ahead

  • @asiaafox8578
    @asiaafox8578 2 года назад +6

    I resonated with this video so much. It’s been about 2 weeks and finally at peace with everything. Part of getting to this peace was realizing that we would never be together again and being okay with that.

  • @LeahBethTv
    @LeahBethTv 2 года назад +42

    I'm shook, praying for you soph ❤️

  • @BeautyByOsa
    @BeautyByOsa 2 года назад +8

    Been through a break up as well after a 4 year relationship and I know how you feel when you describe it as feeling like someone died. His loss at the end of the day!! Praying that God continues to give you his peace. Sending lots of love your way girl! 💕💕

  • @shukyarije9337
    @shukyarije9337 2 года назад +33

    It takes a real person to sit and talk about their break up, especially with so many subscribers. Thanks for being authentic, your so relatable thats why you are my favvv youtuber. You keep it real!!! This one hurts but I know you are a fine babe, keep your head up and you will be fine!! It happens its okay to be sad for now. Stay strong gurl!! We here for you!

  • @Cash_mom
    @Cash_mom 2 года назад +2

    What people don’t realize this break up is traumatic and you have to just let your mind body and soul just go through it and just purge it out of your system and then one day you’ll realize hey I’m not sad again I’m me again. You’ll be OK baby girl❤️

  • @StarringShameka
    @StarringShameka 2 года назад +87

    The editing of this vlog is everything! Keeping you in my thoughts & prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽💗 keep your head up, even on the days you feel sad ✨

    • @jesusisable7052
      @jesusisable7052 2 года назад +2

      Yes I was like intro was top tier 🥇🏆👸🏾🤎

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад +1

      @@jesusisable7052 do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @ife1967
    @ife1967 2 года назад +5

    “Allow God to do it”.
    Sending love Babe❤️

  • @lifewithalafia7016
    @lifewithalafia7016 2 года назад +41

    I’m shocked, but I wish the best healing for you Sophia! I’m so excited for your new chapter in life. *Sending prayer, hugs & love* ♥️♥️♥️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @halorose
    @halorose 2 года назад +5

    New Subscribers alert 🚨 This video is so different and much needed for the culture NO ONE talks about these things that are needed. Thank you. I too am going through the grief process. This helped so much.

  • @gracefullymarieange
    @gracefullymarieange 2 года назад +4

    Honestly you’re off to a great start. This may sound cliche but with God you will get through this with a breeze. You will have your moments but the more you cling to God and let Him do a work in you, you will come out refined and better. Weeping May endure for the night but joy comes in the morning. Take in what God is trying to elevate in you in this new season. Realign yourself with His Word. I love you boo, you got this. ♥️

  • @msslr
    @msslr 2 года назад +5

    Break ups/heartbreaks are never easy. I wish you nothing but the best during this time. I'm sending love and light your way. Continue to enjoy life and remember who you are queen!

  • @Ma.Ndabezitha_
    @Ma.Ndabezitha_ 2 года назад +8

    ATLEAST YOU CRIED IN BUSINESS CLASS!!! 😭😂👏👏 Sophia I love you!!! 😂😂❤️

  • @alexandramorinello5784
    @alexandramorinello5784 Год назад +1

    Just remember that these "stages" are not always in order and we experience them in different orders. sometimes you may experience the grief kick in later on.
    Also, women tend to get over the relationship sooner if there have been problems IN the relationship fo you to start getting over and moving on while still in the relationship.
    3 days in is still pretty soon! Take care of yourself!

  • @coffeenomilk
    @coffeenomilk 2 года назад +4

    omg bestie 🥺 I’m so sorry but happy for you at the same time because it’s the beginning of a new season and chapter of your life. and God really has plans to prosper you so keep finding peace in that verse. love you lots ❤️🫶🏾

  • @MariahKierra
    @MariahKierra 2 года назад +2

    I’m currently going through the stages of grief from a 3 year relationship. I’m somewhere between anger and bargaining!!! My heart is so broken!! I wish you nothing but the best throughout your new journey 💕💕

  • @cicilewis2043
    @cicilewis2043 2 года назад +27

    Wow..I'm shocked! I was saying to myself how I thought u and Carlton looked so happy when I was watching yall on I believe it was your insta stories..you looked so happy and how he looked at u was so adorable..wow u just never know what's going on in people's relationship. Huns I'm so sorry and you look refreshed and looking good. Stay strong!

  • @divinesoul4
    @divinesoul4 2 года назад +2

    It’s weird how “Transitioning” and “self discovery” always takes place after we step into a new age (Birthday). I had same experience and I’m glad that relationship ended because I had to awaken to who I really I am.
    Grieving doesn’t mean you are weak; it simply means you acknowledge your emotion and you are not putting it under the bus but you’re owning up to it.
    Live for you, love yourself and be at peace with your self.

  • @kumag4530
    @kumag4530 2 года назад +32

    Wow I’m genuinely shocked! Thank you for being so open & honest with us. You’ve always been so real & you’ll get through this with so much grace ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @AmaniRakeia
    @AmaniRakeia 2 года назад +2

    aw, i'm going through a 'heartbreak' but he wasn't officially mine so i feel hella silly and kinda stupid for even being emotional. but feellings were involved on both ends and I'm definitely grieving. thank you so, so much for this video. i hope you're doing a bit better these days. i can't wait to feel like my entire self again. time heals all.💖

  • @jamilewilliams6100
    @jamilewilliams6100 2 года назад +3

    Heart break is grief especially when it was genuine, but ALLOW yourself to heal from the inside out. Remember that before all you are human, you are a woman, you have feelings. I think the public puts this magnifying glass on influencers that is not fair, so be fair to yourself and allow yourself to heal Sophia! All Nija strong woman influencer behind! Allow yourself to heal I beg. But go fine babe! Cause you got this!

  • @faithmartina4144
    @faithmartina4144 2 года назад +36

    Wishing you light and love babes sometimes God has a way of laughing at our plans, in this next transition God will make a way out of no way. You always come out on top 🥰🥰🥰

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @mayacincosa6975
    @mayacincosa6975 2 года назад +1

    Sophie, you're not over it but that's ok. Allow yourself to be sad. We are human. Take your time and enjoy singledom when you are ready.

  • @tavilyfeofmusic
    @tavilyfeofmusic 2 года назад +4

    Also everyone should understand this about Sophie, she been maturing, Divinely and gracefully growing into her divine Feminine power and beauty! She been healing and giving us the tools to be successful, I watched her go through ups and downs through her channel! So this is just a bump in the road, I know she gone be okay! Beautiful Soul 😍

  • @AshleyNoSwiper
    @AshleyNoSwiper 2 года назад +6

    This is the same even for friendships! I've felt those same emotions after losing a friend of years.

  • @inspiredbysi
    @inspiredbysi 2 года назад +9

    Wow what a woman of God you are! That’s how you know when ur whole with urself, whatever the reason was of the breakup you were strong enough to let go and for most women it’s hard because of the battles of loneliness, insecurities, etc 🤍 Ladies a relationship with God is so necessary ✨🤞🏽

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 года назад

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @its_mangunezi
    @its_mangunezi 2 года назад +4

    I’ve been watching you for almost 2 years now and what I’ve noticed about you is that you are so close to God and babe you will get through this 🇿🇦♥️
    Psalm 34:18

  • @sibahlemnyandu5397
    @sibahlemnyandu5397 2 года назад +15

    It's 6:07AM rn in South Africa & the way I just sang "Last Last" out loud with you LOL, it's the only song I've been listening to the whole week since I'm going through a break up. Please let's chop our breakfast & keep it moving, sending you so much strength & LOVE. Can't wait to be apart of your new journey 💖💖💖

    • @boipelo_k
      @boipelo_k 2 года назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @VennesaM
      @VennesaM 2 года назад

      💜💜💜💜

  • @__Ivori
    @__Ivori 2 года назад +12

    This couldn’t have done at a better time. 😩 I’m in this space right now & this was so inspiring

  • @britneycook5975
    @britneycook5975 2 года назад +5

    This is crazy I was in the same predicament a year ago ending a 4.5 relationship I know exactly how you felt or are feeling
    I can just tell you my year of singleness was everything I needed.
    God is definitely revealing to you that you made the right decision
    You got this fine babe

  • @kaysteph02
    @kaysteph02 2 года назад +5

    My jaws is on the ground right now😢😭😭😭
    Honestly I love you both together, but God know the best for YOU ❤️❤️❤️

  • @timamanaj
    @timamanaj Год назад +1

    Literally in every heartbreak God will always be around you special in the hard times of breakup ❤. It shall be blessed and the man of your dreams that understands and value you will come to you.

  • @Iamdanackc
    @Iamdanackc 2 года назад +16

    It’s something about God’s peace🤍 preach Soph! God has something way better in store. I love you girly, you will definitely get through this. A day at a time. Praying for you love!

  • @ghossone81
    @ghossone81 2 года назад +1

    the breakup is still going to ROCK you. this is not how healing works 🤣😂. it’s clear as day that you’re far from okay and that’s fine. you really should just give yourself to go through the grief and heal. getting over someone in 3 days is not realistic, even if you started grieving the relationship before you left it. these breakup olympics aren’t fooling anyone. good luck with moving on, though. you’ll be fine, with time.

  • @breannalang5139
    @breannalang5139 2 года назад +11

    Even in a heartbreaking moment.. you’re still shining bright &’ your energy is still beautiful. Wishing you a safe return back to yourself 🤎

  • @bunsy2755
    @bunsy2755 2 года назад +1

    How fitting that the RUclips plaque came that day. Your friends and colleagues reminded you that you are loved and God reminded you that you are loved by thousands of strangers as well. Coincidence is truly His way of remaining anonymous. Welcome to the healing journey! 5 months later and I am still obsessing over my ex. The anger has subsided and when the bargaining failed, I’ve been stuck in despair. I keep picturing a scene where he is powerfully laughing with bliss, while I am standing afar, watching him with sad eyes. That’s how it feels, like I am mourning him deeply but he has no recollection of my existence. This isn’t a case where you assume the person is not affected by the separation but they really are. I wish!

  • @salishajay19
    @salishajay19 2 года назад +7

    We still want a fully furnished apartment tour! 🥰

  • @MrGansters2
    @MrGansters2 2 года назад +3

    Being single can be very fun! Live your best life love. When God says it’s time he will send the right mate for you. Keep the content coming beautiful, we are here for you!!!

  • @KingBunnyxo
    @KingBunnyxo 2 года назад +14

    Going through a divorce! Thank you for the video love 💕 strong gals will always be good 🥰

  • @growingwitha1578
    @growingwitha1578 2 года назад +3

    You are a strong fine babe Sophi……the right person will come in due time!!!❤️✌🏽

  • @mbali4728
    @mbali4728 Год назад +1

    I love how you mentioned South Africa twice South Africa 🇿🇦 ♥️♥️love you fine babe . Def always supporting

  • @CeeJayLive
    @CeeJayLive 2 года назад +19

    I'm soo shocked. I thought this was a sit down advice thing and not your personal experience
    Anyways, It will take longer than 3 days to get over it because it was your first serious relationship
    However, take all the time you need
    God has got you ❤️
    Support from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @kimeshablair4362
    @kimeshablair4362 2 года назад +8

    I absolutely needed this video! Literally! I’m 3 days in, this is the hardest breakup but you just helped me realize and wake up and choose myself. Thank you beautiful I literally love you ❤️ I’m going to go through this grief process .

  • @ninamugabe
    @ninamugabe 2 года назад +6

    Last November I made the decision to leave my toxic ex boyfriend of a year and eight months and it’s taking me some time to heal from all the pain, heartache and deception that I dealt with in the relationship… from that day on, I began to choose life each and every day ❤️ I just wanna send my love to those who are going through breakups ❤️

  • @lilmamajaiteh
    @lilmamajaiteh 2 года назад +2

    “Open your pocket, let me see” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    Also the song Last Last couldn’t have at a better time for most of us. Sending you lot’s of love ❤️

  • @chayngoo
    @chayngoo 2 года назад +26

    Sophia you are a real a** woman fr! Classy, authentic & r e l a t a b l e! I remember the burning clothes on snap days (I’ve been there too 😭) but that peaceee of God hits different, always!
    You talking about the guy in the elevator 😂 “we must stay focused sister” *Dr. Umar voice*
    It’s summer sha, live your best life💃🏾

  • @bougiebaby985
    @bougiebaby985 Год назад +2

    I needed to see this , even though you are younger than me you have been teaching me for years i been here since DAY ONE !
    I’m so happy I watched this video because I needed to see this I really did because I’m going through it!
    But I know the plans God has for me !