Hey Guys! It's been a minute. Thank you for watching! 🫶🏽 I appreciate all of your support. Allowing me to rant, vent & gist! Sorry this video took so long, I’ve had the flu on top of recovery. But I’m back to 100% now. And will be pumping out videos! That's it, that's all. Love you, Sophia ❤
You lookin GOOD Sis! Having haters is a GOOD thing! I don’t like it when my haters are too quiet. Mine have been too quiet lately. Headed to Miami TOMORROW!!! Bouta get this body right TIGHT! You are the BOMB! 😘!!!!
Let me say I almost never leave comments unless someone like Sophia points me out lol I’ve watching and supporting since forever ago. I’m so happy for you and proud you did something for you regardless of unpopular beliefs 🤎🤎🤎 you look good love 🙌🏾
Going under the knife to alter your look is not the same as wearing lash extensions or a waist trainer. It's major surgery, which has cost many people their lives and is usually an indicator that the person undergoing surgery has some sort of body dysmorphia. For any young person coming to watch this as encouragement to go under the knife, please don't. There are things about all of us that aren't perfect, but God makes no mistakes, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you came into this world. Nothing needs to be altered, at least not in terms of the physical. The real work is dealing with what's going on inside of our minds and not allowing the voice of the world to drown out the voice of God. As scripture states, "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind." Don't let the world deceive you.
I am 2 months post op from tummy tuck surgery… my starting weight was 330lbs and I lost over 100lbs and I def had body dysmorphia… I had a large lower belly and hanging skin on my top.. I felt like why lose weight to end up looking like a melted candle… from a size 22/24 to a 14/16 and now a 12 after tummy tuck surgery… u darn right I feel so amazing now🎉🎉🎉 I can celebrate my body after losing weight and wear the clothes I like
Don’t be so judgemental, quite frankly it’s between her and her God. It has nothing to do with you. If you love her and other young people like you say, take up with God in prayer instead of publicly casting stones at her.
@@mrsropaxo exactly. I believe that’s the only way we can draw people to Christ. Correct them in love and most importantly pray for them. Pray that people see themselves the way God sees them. That makes a world of difference.
Just be honest and say/admit you got it for vain reasons. No need to lie about it or cover up with God just admit you’re flawed like everyone else without being morally superior.
The industry made her do it, she needs to keep her contracts and win more. It slipped when she was talking but you have to be discerning to hear it. Like the saying goes, "If you don't gerrit, forget abourrit"! I pray blessings upon her life.
Despite her reasoning, BBLs are ultimately to invoke lust. The motives to invoke that lust may vary, for some its for more views, others its a promotion, for some it's the attention. For some its a record deal, some want bigger tips and more drinks in the club. Bottom line, BBLs would never have become as big as it is today if it werent for how men react to seeing them. The most confident men or conceited are typically men who attract the most women. Whether she acknowledges it or not, she has a higher level of confidence because she just increased her ability ti attract more male attention. May God bless her though.
I understand your reasoning behind getting the surgery and wanting to look better for yourself, but I believe a lot of the reasons why we we want to look a certain way is based on what society has lodged in our brains as “sexy” “cute” etc. I fall victim to looking that way too; slim waist, bigger butt. Nobody’s perfect and I do believe that God made everyone unique for a reason. ❤
Very true, I fall victim too. I had to get my intentions right before going to the gym, to not do it because I want people to see me in a certain way or please the Standards of the world.
I agree with everything you said besides "we." Societal norms have never impacted me, as I always wanted to be different and not like everyone else. So much so that I spent an entire summer learning to write with my left hand when was 12 because everyone I knew wrote with their right hand. I've been 5' 7" , with a 34A chest since I was 13 (except when pregnant with my son), and finally got up to 110 lbs during my second semester of college and 121 lbs after the birth of my son at 21. My norm has been 122 - 128 lbs, and at 5' 7", it's not the body of a stereotypical black woman. I literally got made fun of about being "skinny" until high school when it stopped. But then once I got in my mid-20s, it basically started again, with "you're so thin" or "you're so tiny comments." Even was questioned about which finger did I use to throw up with😮, which is ludicrous because anyone that knew/knows me will say I eat like a line backer. I am just blessed with a high metabolism. Maybe liking my physical person (then loving at 30) and not caring what others thought is a culmination of being the oldest with brothers, being a tomboy, having balanced feminine and masculine energies, and my role model being the best dad in the world. He always encouraged and supported me, as well as always shared how much he loved me and how proud he was. Regardless, I'm thankful and blessed to have loved myself enough to know, I don't need to be like anyone else, and I'm perfect they way I am.
@@TheCurlyFitChicOriginal such a beautiful story 💕 I’ve struggled with my weight as well and have a high metabolism. For me, it can be very discouraging sometimes with my weight fluctuating so much. I’ve learned to love whatever God has blessed me with and it’s amazing to see you doing the same! God bless you 🫶🏽
I’ve never heard of this girl before and having visited her page, I don’t understand the outrage. Her entire platform is about weave, make-up, there is no God here. There never was. Her platform looks exactly the same as girls in the world. Y’all Christians could never get me to join y’all’s fold 😅
I still believe that if you didn’t see those women on social media with what many have been conditioned to believe is the “perfect body”…you wouldn’t have wanted or done the surgery. No matter what, it is your choice. To all the girls people are advising….you should also learn that influencers are not perfect people, although they may portray next to perfect lives. They have their own insecurities and have the freedom to act on those. It is up to you to know better & do better.
Denying yourself and living for God has a christian also means not doing some certain things..accepting that God makes no mistake..being comfortable with how God made you is so peaceful…self love is necessary but self idolatry is a stretch…having to please yourself over God is wild!
I honestly feel so sorry for young content creators, because somehow it seems that no matter what they do or have accomplished, they can’t seem to be happy and they’re always looking for more and validation, very sad
But really truly wholeheartedly seeking God we will understand more and more the happiness is a fleeting feeling. YOu'll never be happy chasing happiness but real Joy in christ. I agree with the first comment. I seen a quote that said many are getting their bodies done but not their spirit /soul in order. Not saying this is pertaining to you but we can apply this to everything. The further you go in life at times , if you are not truly grounded with God, in your word, reading the bile, fasting as needed, its easy to want to fix everything (nothing wrong with bettering yourself) But it will be easy to go with the vybes of the world. Certain lifestyle, nightlife, validation esp on social media, wrong circles etc. As long as you know your convictions with God and doing what you feel pleases him then thats it. No one have to tell us anything. God convicts us behind closed door on ALL our decisions. It's up to us if we listen or not. @@Sophiology
Instead of worrying about someone being happy or not how about direct your righteousness to these corrupt leaders that are allowing genocides to go on?
When people make their own version of God and get mad when you point them to the real God you always get blamed as being to judgemental cause in their head God is this big teddybear who allows anything, who caters to their feelings rather than they submitting to Gods will. If you believe that your body is the temple of God why are you getting influenced by the world to change it into the worlds standard? We as your supporters should go along on your lukewarm journey ?! Be glad that some of us point it out that you are getting to worldy cause you loved it when the christians were supporting you thinking they found a real christian influencer who has godly standards but no a little bit of money can do a lot.. you cannot convince other christians to just accept this like its normal. You know God spits out the lukewarm right? God says if we cannot judge small matters between ourselves how are we going to judge angels..sooo we as fellow christians should let each other know when we see ungodly behavior which will end up in lukewarmness never forget this line be holy as he is holy hebrews 12 should be a great reminder that god is a consuming fire 🔥 and not a teddy bear.
Sad that you need to involve Christianity with your insecurities rather than praying on it and understanding the Lord made you perfect the way you were.
Just because you lived through the surgery and other died DO NOT mean God loves you no more than them NOR does it mean He agrees with you not your relationship with Him is good. ITS CALLED GRACE AND YOUR TIME OF JUDGMENT HAS NOT CAME.
It’s shocking how many young women these days are getting surgery! You’re healthy and able bodied, no kids, gym is a healthier and safer option. I believe a lot of you guys will be under the table AGAIN after your first child. It’s unsustainable! The most important thing is to live a healthy lifestyle. Don’t give in to the pressure for instagram and what you think men desire.
The results she’s wants cannot be obtained in the gym. Plus she’ll still be eating healthy and working out for health reasons so his response is a bit somehow
@@taii_chii6782yes it can. The problem with this generation is that you all want “instant gratification”. You’re risking your life with surgery. You even have to sign a waiver if it doesn’t go in your favor. Is it really worth it? When you are young, able bodied and can go to they gym? It’s just the easy way out in my opinion
I really just believe people just feel let down Sophia. 😭💔 I know that you say you have never desired or encouraged people to see you as a spiritual leader but the moment you declare you “love” Jesus in your bio and on a platform of over half a million followers… that’s the moment you become an influencer and leader whether you signed up for it or not. Whether you like it or not, your decisions are on display for everyone to weigh against scripture because it’s how a true follower of Jesus Christ is distinguished. It’s how we determine the real from the fake. And we are all accountable to scripture even when we least want to be and when it hurts the most. The Bible tells us if you love Jesus to obey his commandments. Meaning, to do what we are told in scripture. I don’t know your personal and private relationship with Jesus but I’ve followed you for years and sis the makeup and hair videos are FIRE, but to dress provocatively, curse in your videos, and get mad at your brothers and sisters in Christ when they hold you accountable (and call them judge mental weirdos) is ridiculous 🤦🏽♀️ Most of your loyal followers aren’t in your comments writing these long posts because they hate you, want to drag you, or even don’t have anything else they could be doing… I genuinely think it’s because most of them feel hurt and disappointed at the direction your content has been going and that the example of a “Jesus lover” you’re consistently showing is not lining up with scripture. I see the light in your life sis and pray that through the clutter you can see the heart and hurt some people may genuinely be feeling due to some of the decisions and lifestyle choices that have been shown from you sis. Praying for your continued growth and healing in Christ sis. 🙏🏽❤️
She’s allowed to love and worship Jesus in her OWN way. Even an ex str|pper like Cardi B had ‘in God we trust’ on her Instagram at the very start of her career. Did it stop God from blessing her? Nope. In fact. Sophia and Cardi have waaay more than any of you ladies here can ever dream of having. So sit down and have a think about that. Let it marinate.. 😂😴🚮
@@gailainsley6939okay clearly you’re definition of blessing is skewed monetary belongings is not the measurement of blessings … having a penthouse does not make you “more” blessed then the college student living in the dorm hun
nah girl, its giving, you feel called out and guilty bc people are pointing out the hypocrisy in the fact that you went and got this surgery, simply for vanity. not to mention, you already had the "ideal" body according to society, so what message are you pushing to your younger audiences who might not have been as naturally curvy as you already were? at the end of the day you got the surgery so stand in that decision, but at least have the decency to not make it the entire subject of your vlogs when you know most of the girls that follow you wouldn't be interested in that. you could have made content in bulk ahead of time. but alas. i guess you're going for a different audience now which is fine.
Called out by who exactly? People who are sinless ? Why is it necessary to call out someone for what they are doing to themselves? Something that doesn’t affect you (them) in anyway? Ridiculous
@@maamequansmah9080 she is an influencer and content creator. Nothing she does affects any of us and yet we still comment bc we can, and it’s clearly what she wants, engagement from viewers. None of us are sin less but none of us are above criticism either, we’re allowed to point out hypocrisy and express disappointment that someone we support and care about went and got a risky surgery to “fix” something that was never broken. If she didn’t want any one to comment their opinions then she shouldn’t have posted these vlogs at all.
Again, this is her body, and it doesn’t affect you in any way. Yes, we are allowed to comment however, as humans with empathy, sometimes it’s better to choose not to deliberately hurt someone with our words (Call her out ). Especially an outsider, which she is (You don’t really know her ). It is not your place to criticize her. At the end of the day, her choices are between her and her God.
Brothers and Sisters, aunties and uncles, let''s pray for our sister here. We should not judge, nor condemn her for her decisions that go against the bibles teachings, that is between her and God. If we see something wrong, lets just pray or at the very least voice our opinion in a loving manner. We will never get the chance to say, "i told you so" on the day of judgment. Just pray...I beg.
Save your prayers for those dying of hunger Those without shelter at night or in the day Those who are orphaned because greedy corporations and corrupt governments allowed bullets and bombs to flood the streets Those lost to drugs and disease Those who will never live a life to walk, run, feed or give because their bodies can’t function Those who will never be able to hear or see the people that love and care for them daily Those people all around the world are the ones who deserve prayers and abundance
Every single time, there are actual issues they could be condemning in the work, yet they are worried about what someone else is doing with their body.
We must be able to say it’s wrong if it’s wrong and it’s being put out there for the world to see so that someone else that’s more impressionable doesn’t fall victim to these procedures. We are made the way we are for a reason. When we do these things aren’t we trying to be our own God creating ourselves how we thought we should have been made?
Extremely self righteous and judgmental and I’m sure they all have stuff going on that others would judge them for aswell as no one is perfect 😂 ONLY God can judge at the end of the day
You telling me that the Spirit of the Lord led you to undergo a life threatening surgery to enhance your features for Jesus? How will this be used for the kingdom of God? You didn’t do this for you or the eyes of men, or the more clicks online?
@@Josephinetl God is graceful, but when it comes to people lying on His name He’ll make an example out of her. I hope she wise up and repents soon because I’ve seen people lose their everything except the cloths on their back
@@Josephinetl pride comes before the fall, so if she’s overcome with pride she won’t do it but she also doesn’t understand that have that spirit of pride welcomes the spirit of destruction. I really hope she does the right thing but I want to see God glorified :(
I’ve been a subscriber for a long time and I’ve always supported you Sophia!! I don’t agree with your choice but it’s your life! It has nothing to do with me. I love your content regardless. You always stay true to yourself and are always transparent with all of us. I pray that God continues to bless you and wish you all the best with your healing. ❤
You talk to GOD just like you’re talking to us; same way. Read and study the Bible ; then you can pray the word. Find scriptures in the Bible that relates to your situation and just Remind GOD of what HIS word says. That’s it! 🤷🏽♀️❤
The “big back and wide waist” comment was unnecessary and fatphobic. We aren’t the ones desperate to risk our lives under the knife to be accepted by society. 💋
Did you see the comments? Those were unnecessary 😒 It's like people say what they want to others, but when they clap back its "unnecessary" and now yall offended 😒 Fatphobic is when a person doesn't like fat no matter what, she's saying she dont like fat for her, she not concerned if others like their back big.. she just dont want a big back on her body..she wants her back slim, her waist tiny, hips wide, and butt round.. Whats wrong with that?
@@silly_shelly_fanright??? No where in that entire video did she say nun about being fat phobic or insinuate that she’s fat phobic. People are bored and mad 😴
Just because you did it doesn't make it right, the bible is literally our guide so people ain't as dumb as you'd like to make it seem, open it more often till it sits in you sis, I wish you speedy recovery, inner healing and outer healing❤️
I have nothing against surgery but the mentality behind...its like always running after perfection...never feeling enough...the scariest thing for me 😢
As a Christian girlie I had to skip over the secular music. I came here from Twitter and I’ve struggled with my body as well but what I can say is that was your decision and I’m still contemplating it myself. Just be sure to guard your eye gates and ear gates because the music is a tool satan uses to influence anyone. Children, Christians whoever. There’s sooooo many fire artists that are born again, all over TikTok, RUclips, IG, etc. As someone who fed into the lies from the devil such as fear/insecurity secular music was only programming me/feeding my flesh to believe that there was something wrong with me. But the Lord says we are fearfully and wonderfully made. We are created in His image. And I know it may sound cliche or religious but meditating on the word of God built up my confidence with the body I have now. And I’m not built bad but I wasn’t happy for a while. But when I filled my spirit up none of it even mattered. So I’m still praying about it. But God bless you on your journey beloved! You look GREAT. And the doctor you chose is the BEST. Everything will work out for those who love God.
I don’t know why people are shocked. Quoting bible verses and saying I’m a Christian doesn’t mean that people won’t make choices like this. I’ve been a Sub for a while and in my journey watching Soph, she very laid back and honestly none of us “Christian people” said anything. This a product of how much the gospel twisted in our generation. It’s become very sugar coated and everyone picks out what they wanna hear from the bible. The bible does nothing encourage us to go clubbing, wear over sexualising clothes, live worldy lifestyle and my soph did all this. Or at least that’s what she’s presenting to us. This type of lifestyle is very toxic and will ruin many other young people watching her. Sis I would advise that you turn back to Christ, because in him you will find true love and you will appreciate the way God had made you. I pray that you open your heart to this message. I’m not trying to hate, but I be want to set you free with the truth. ❤
I said it in this video too, & many videos before, that I’ve never presented to be perfect or an example. I want girls like me, who are working to be better and closer to God, to feel safe in their journey. To not feel hopeless, because it’s hard. I’m just being real, & I personally no longer care what back lash I get for being transparent and honest. Only God truly knows me. & he loves me regardless of what the world thinks. That’s all that matters to me.
I find it genuinely weird how you and many others people judging her in the comments have been following her and her worldly lifestyle for so long, yet draw a line at her undergoing trough surgery. Y'all should ask yourself this very simple question and if the answer isn't pure hypocrisy then I don't know. Because her main content is clearly beauty and lifestyle and there's no way someone who's looking for a fully christian oriented content would follow Sophia. That's complete nonsense. Leave that woman alone and keep your fake concern to yourself. If your comments comes out of worry and love, pray for her instead of being condescending on the internet with people y'all know nothing about.
@@purple_princess97 never said I followed her for Christian Content. I love wigs and makeup and that’s the content she started with anyway. So that is actually the reason why I follow her. I have other RUclips channels for faith related content 🥰
Then why are you pointing her living a worldly lifestyle? If you follow her for wigs and makeup and don't expect her to be someone who will fortify you, I think it's a bit unfair.@@chantalbolembo
@@purple_princess97 proverbs 27:5-6, “Open rebuke is better Than secret love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.” I didn’t write that comment with intention of pointing fingers trust me. If anything nobody’s perfect, but when I see a sister needs help I gotta help. Soph is a beautiful woman and I’ve also seen that she is trying to get close to Christ. When the enemy see that someone is actually trying to get close to Christ that’s when he attacks. It may be through insecurities, friends, drugs, depression etc. but I want her to genuinely know that Jesus loves her just the way she is.
Please do not include Christianity or the lord Jesus Christ in you choosing to permanently alter your body just so you could achieve a particular look that actually cheapens you more than anything. Loving God should have taught you self love from the inside out, a lot of people do the work from the outside but barely care enough to do the necessary work from the inside which is the part of ourselves that matters the most.
Stop using Gods name in vein to condone your outta pocket behavior and choices. That crazy af that you really putting Christ name on something that is completely has nothing to do with his work.
I appreciate the honesty and transparency a lot of these content creators do surgery and hide and pretend. You don’t have to agree but what’s done is done either your support her or you find someone who’s more aligned with your interests no need to speak down or speak I’ll of anyone
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? 23 And then will I profess unto them*, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
I absolutely love Sophie Here for ALL you have to offer .you truly add value, PLEASE don’t ever forget it. “I BEG” 😂 Because you empower and encourage in ways you may never understand .in all you choose to do REMAIN BOLD AND VERY COURAGEOUS God Bless you and yours Queen 👸🏽-Love Goddess Paradise🌺🎀🌴✨💋💋💋✌🏾
But really truly wholeheartedly seeking God we will understand more and more the happiness is a fleeting feeling. YOu'll never be happy chasing happiness but real Joy in christ. I agree with the first comment. I seen a quote that said many are getting their bodies done but not their spirit /soul in order. We just can't take our bodies with us no matter what we do to it. Does not mean we should not improve it (my personal journey im constantly in the gym as much a I can but try to keep God at the center of it all. And not to embody a spirit of vanity as expressed often on social media . Everyone is obsessed with looking good and being this IT girl they speak of. Not saying this is pertaining to you but we can apply this to everything. The further you go in life at times , if you are not truly grounded with God, in your word, reading the bible, fasting as needed, its easy to want to fix everything (nothing wrong with bettering yourself) But it will be easy to go with the vybes of the world. Certain lifestyle, nightlife, validation esp on social media, wrong circles etc. As long as you know your convictions with God and doing what you feel pleases him then thats it. No one have to tell us anything. God convicts us behind closed door on ALL our decisions. It's up to us if we listen or not. @Sophiology
I've learned The more we grow in christ secretly. HE gracefully breaks us behind close doors, followers -NO ONE can tell you thing God hasn't been trying to tell you about how you should live, what you should do etc..GOD convicts us before anyone else does. Even right down to the little things, where we go, what objects we bring into our homes, what we wear, what we eat, every little thing. Long as you feel you mad ea decision right with God principles and can also take WISE counsel from those who walk in spirit;;not those who judge harshly but those who speak Godly truth whether you want to hear it or not.
I respect your decision to do the surgery. This is your life. However, you can't complain about being fresh from surgery and people making comments that you did not like. You've been on this platform for far too long to not understand what comes with it. You should have kept the surgery to yourself for a while for your own mental health and post-op healing. People are sideyeing you because people have become greedy with these elective surgeries. People use the "I did it for me" is an excuse. It's purely out of influence and validation of others. There was absolutely NOTHING wrong with you and I won't be the one to pacify you like the others. Using the word "Christian" doesn't make it so. This was vanity. Dont use God to justify that. You did what you did, stand on it alone. You would be respected for that.
How is she using God to justify her deciding to do surgery. I believed I just watched a video in which she thanked God (as she always does) and also thanking God for her recovery. Right ??
Y’all remember when she gained weight because of PCOS and she was very sad about it. Now she is happy with her body and y’all still coming for her . This is her decision and people will always talk . She is happy that’s all that matters
Uhh no; do YALL remember when Sophie content was for the EVERYDAY BLACK WOMAN!?… her PCOS and the comments that went along with it was nothing but support and encouragement. Any mentions about weight gain was Sophie speaking about Losing HER WEIGHT, not people commenting about her weight gain.
Sophia fighting for her life in the comments😂 just let it go girl. the frustrating part is youre not being truthful. Just admit you felt insecure with your body and you have low self esteem because of seeing other girls and influencers on sm. And feeling the pressure to conform. Thats all. Expecting people to participate in your delusion when the truth is evident is crazy.
this whole thing has honestly made me love you more. despite it all, you continue to show up and it’s so inspiring. may recovery continue to be good to you.
Thank God for your praying mom! I honestly believe some of your fans felt you didn’t need the surgery. Some felt you already had a great body/shape prior to your procedure. However, it’s still your decision with what you want to do with your body and in life in general. We only have one life to live, so I pray you are able to do and experience things that you derive joy from. As long as you are doing right by God, what others say or think should not matter. That doesn’t make your less of a Christian then the person next to you in church. Wishing you a speedy recovery and happy holidays🙏
She has decisions, yes. But it's not everything she gets to decide. Our bodies our temples of Christ. We should honor it as such. She's wayy older than me, and she's an adult, I get that. But at the end of the day, our decisions not only affect our physical/daily life but it affects our spiritual life w/ God. 😅
@@gorile6944 I get what you are saying. To give more context, I personally don’t subscribe to plastic surgery. It’s not my thing, however I don’t believe a woman getting a tummy tuck, Lipo or other cosmetic procedures will make them go to hell. I don’t believe it’s a sin to do so. Please correct me if I am wrong. My response would be different if we were talking about character, lifestyle choices, dressing, etc. We don’t know any of these influencers personally. We tend to judge them based off of the few minutes of their lives we see in their videos. If anyone feels that Sophia isn’t representing that of a child of God in her videos, biko pray for her. Let’s not preach at her. That’s the biggest blessing/gift you can give anyone. A genuine prayer 🙏
@@talishamason8553 Every video you see of theses women getting BBL’s, all of them are single. They’re doing it because they want too, not because of a man.
If God had anything to do with this, he would've told you to work out, and do it the healthier way, I'm sure he would have been there with you along the journey with you as you committed yourself to the gym. You made this decision on your own. To go under the knife to look better than what you believed wasn't good enough, which God created, was all your decision. Having a major surgery that could have caused you your life, when nothing was wrong with you. It wasn't a life or death type surgery that you actually needed to save your life. But took the risk of losing your life, just for vanity is crazy to me. Stop putting God in this, only thing you should be thanking God for that he kept you well and alive from the surgery, cause many girls have lost their life do to vanity, and like on social media from people who really don't care about you. Be blessed.
Why don’t you go work out and go find Matthew verse 4:5 because you seem to know more abojt judging others when you not perfect yourself mind your business hunny
Knowing who you are and being able to block out the noise will always help you stand firmly in your decisions. Regardless if people agree with your decisions or not, as long as your happy, that’s all that matters. Sending you all the love and light💜
If you want the surgery, that’s your right and your choice. But to really add “Christian” to the title for clout and clickbait is blasphemy. A faith based on selfless love of God just has no place in this. It’s really a shame. Hopefully your heart isn’t far from being convicted for this title
Same! I will always love and support Sophia. I hope she is truly happy and healthy with who she is and she said that she is several times so I’m gonna take her word for it and support
@@silly_shelly_fanfor me I’m a slightly worried because she was on her juice diet and work outs and she was losing weight that way so the surgery seemed like it came out of the blue. And we’ve seen people have 1 surgery then another and then they get hooked. Not saying Sophia is the same as them, but it happens . She was very beautiful naturally and I feel like she didn’t need it at all but that’s her decision to make. It just seems like after the break up she has had a couple of cosmetic surgeries so I hope everything is okay with her within and she says she is happy so I will support her
It’s amazing to me that most ppl who have a strong opinion about surgery would run and get it the first chance they could, if they could afford it. You look absolutely amazing. Ppl will have an opinion no matter what so who cares!🎉
In a world where people will get on the internet and try to tear you down with their opinions I hope that you are able to heal and recover physically and mentally from the negativity!! God loves you either way. You are happy with your decision and that’s all that matters ❤️
To follow God is to not conform to this world because the world is overtaken by the evil one. Is she conforming to the world with her decisions, or is she conforming with God?
@@n.g.l. so you see someone who has “conformed to this world” and the best line of action as a Christian is to condemn them? No! Even if you want to correct, you do so from a place of love. Not from a vile bitter place. I don’t approve of bbls, but I won’t speak wickedness to someone who just finished having surgery, bleeding and trying to recover. The fact that she is alive, means God has he’s reasons for allowing her to wake up, no of us here could have made her survive it but God. So we need to relax and if you are so convicted, you can go the route of praying for her not speaking evil.
@@Osass1998 while I do agree that Christians must gently correct others, and refrain from speaking ill on someone. Is this conversation directed at me? If not, then why was it necessary for you to bring this up?
@@n.g.l. this is a reply for everyone that wants to beautify their bitterness with bible verses, or “Christianese”. If you don’t fall in that category, you can go ahead and ignore it!
Making someone feel bad for a decision that has already been made is so so weird. God Bless you Sophia, so happy you’re on the journey of healing & feeling better. Still wishing you a speedy recovery ❤
Correct we are coming at her for using Gods name in vein. All that other shit is completely off topic. The fact that you’re condoning her using Gods name in vein over her decision is crazy…
I think we can share our opinions without being disrespectful. Sophia has always been a very transparent, smart and respectful person so let’s do the same thing. It takes a lot of God to open the comments 😮 I just wish her well, peace of mind and an assurance that she is loved by God.
Sophie, I’m glad you are doing well darling. I hope you recover perfectly. I want you to know that God loves you no matter how you look, and what the world says matter not. We are in the world, but not of this world. Please try not to let the unkind comments get to you, it takes time for us to renew our mind to this Truth, especially with the high degree of social conditioning we are exposed to. I pray your spiritual eyes will be opened to see that you are lovely as you are in Christ. God Bless❤
Hey Sophie, how are you? I have a question for you regarding your surgery, did you pray and ask God if He approved of you getting this surgery? And if so, did you wait for His answer?
A walk with God is personal, I love watching you , keep on being amazing. people should mind their own. It’s your life Sophia honestly you’re the best RUclipsr and you have helped me with my walk with God. So pls don’t let negativity derive you from your purpose.
If getting surgery makes you feel even more confident, why’s that anybody’s problem?? It’s your decision and only you can make the right decisions for yourself. God has your back
Well it wouldn't be anyone's problem that's between her and God however she's changing the way God made her to find confidence where she can just find confidence in Christ in the way she was born 1 Peter 3:3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.
If you spent all that time researching, pre-op, during surgery and post surgery looking into God’s word, you’d have seen His image of you rather than how the world sees you
Your channel was recommended to me and all I can say is wow! Your spirit is very light and vibrant, it is infectious. You speak with much compassion and I subscribed right away. I look forward to watching more of your videos and I pray you have a speedy recovery ❤ I am in the beginning stages of getting ready for surgery and your calming demeanor is so helpful.
No hate but as Christians or even as non-Christians we do not have to agree with everything that someone does.The bible tells us not to judge yes but to correct each other in love. We do not have to accept secular culture in order for people to love God. God has rules and regulations, some rules are even a bit harsh but it’s for our good. It’s okay to accept you did surgery because you wanted to. No need to selectively quote the bible. Sorry for all the hate you received.
I never really comment but been here since the beginning… while it’s shocking and I can see what ppl mean when they say ur changing at the end of the day we don’t know you for real. As long as ur safe and healthy live ur life ❤
Sophia has always been beautiful & funny to me but I’ve always sense insecurity & low self-esteem but I thought she would manage it by just flourishing as who she naturally was. Surgery won’t change mindsets but She’s still bae & she’s alive, for that we should be grateful.
I don’t think people are upset about you getting surgery I think it has more to do with using the word or God to justify it. It’s okay to want to look or feel a certain way but just say that, then people wouldn’t be so mad. But anyways hope you continue to heal 🤍
What people fail to realize is this is YOUR LIFE! We’re not here on earth to seek the approval of others. You can die having any kind of surgery let’s be for real. If you’re happy and your decision makes you feel better then all is well.People will always people. God bless❤🙏🏾 Happy healing 😊
Girl you look good! Dont worry about what others think as there will always be people who judge. The judges Jesus and he was perfect! So encourage yourself, inspire and transform to your YES moment! ❤❤🎉😊 Im truly inspired!
I'm old enough to be your mother so believe me when I say...Your mother DID that!!! She did a WONDERFUL job raising you. You live your life. And as a Christian continue to love. That's what we are commanded to do...LOVE not judge. You look great.
Hey Guys!
It's been a minute. Thank you for watching! 🫶🏽
I appreciate all of your support. Allowing me to rant, vent & gist! Sorry this video took so long, I’ve had the flu on top of recovery. But I’m back to 100% now. And will be pumping out videos!
That's it, that's all.
Love you,
Sophia ❤
Hey sis , where did you get your sandals from in your thumbnail? Xx
You lookin GOOD Sis! Having haters is a GOOD thing! I don’t like it when my haters are too quiet. Mine have been too quiet lately. Headed to Miami TOMORROW!!! Bouta get this body right TIGHT! You are the BOMB! 😘!!!!
@@nk7925hey babe ❤️❤️ Gucci
@@BBFLYRISEN😂😂❤️❤️ be safe and wish you the best with your surgery
Let me say I almost never leave comments unless someone like Sophia points me out lol I’ve watching and supporting since forever ago. I’m so happy for you and proud you did something for you regardless of unpopular beliefs 🤎🤎🤎 you look good love 🙌🏾
Going under the knife to alter your look is not the same as wearing lash extensions or a waist trainer. It's major surgery, which has cost many people their lives and is usually an indicator that the person undergoing surgery has some sort of body dysmorphia. For any young person coming to watch this as encouragement to go under the knife, please don't. There are things about all of us that aren't perfect, but God makes no mistakes, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you came into this world. Nothing needs to be altered, at least not in terms of the physical. The real work is dealing with what's going on inside of our minds and not allowing the voice of the world to drown out the voice of God. As scripture states, "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind." Don't let the world deceive you.
Amen and amen
I am 2 months post op from tummy tuck surgery… my starting weight was 330lbs and I lost over 100lbs and I def had body dysmorphia… I had a large lower belly and hanging skin on my top.. I felt like why lose weight to end up looking like a melted candle… from a size 22/24 to a 14/16 and now a 12 after tummy tuck surgery… u darn right I feel so amazing now🎉🎉🎉 I can celebrate my body after losing weight and wear the clothes I like
no-one asked you just be quiet and live your life you
Don’t be so judgemental, quite frankly it’s between her and her God. It has nothing to do with you. If you love her and other young people like you say, take up with God in prayer instead of publicly casting stones at her.
@@mrsropaxo exactly. I believe that’s the only way we can draw people to Christ. Correct them in love and most importantly pray for them. Pray that people see themselves the way God sees them. That makes a world of difference.
Leave religion out of it. You have the free will to be vain if that is what you want.🤷🏾♀️
exactly. her including God just made herself His enemy.
@@babyspicebitchI wouldn’t say that. God loves us all.
I’m not even Christian or nothing but that’s facts
😂😂😂you people are so jealous
Exactly
Just be honest and say/admit you got it for vain reasons. No need to lie about it or cover up with God just admit you’re flawed like everyone else without being morally superior.
The industry made her do it, she needs to keep her contracts and win more. It slipped when she was talking but you have to be discerning to hear it. Like the saying goes, "If you don't gerrit, forget abourrit"! I pray blessings upon her life.
Thank you for this. She’s lying straight up and thinks she’s gonna get away with lying about the Lord in front of THOUSANDS!
Right!! like why are you bringing God into your sin.
Wow….. I didn’t know we have soooooo many mind readers…
Despite her reasoning, BBLs are ultimately to invoke lust. The motives to invoke that lust may vary, for some its for more views, others its a promotion, for some it's the attention. For some its a record deal, some want bigger tips and more drinks in the club. Bottom line, BBLs would never have become as big as it is today if it werent for how men react to seeing them. The most confident men or conceited are typically men who attract the most women. Whether she acknowledges it or not, she has a higher level of confidence because she just increased her ability ti attract more male attention. May God bless her though.
I understand your reasoning behind getting the surgery and wanting to look better for yourself, but I believe a lot of the reasons why we we want to look a certain way is based on what society has lodged in our brains as “sexy” “cute” etc. I fall victim to looking that way too; slim waist, bigger butt. Nobody’s perfect and I do believe that God made everyone unique for a reason. ❤
Also it’s not about looking “sexy” because our bodies will stay, and go to the dust anyway, but our souls will live forever, either in heaven or hell.
May God prepare our hearts so we can be ready for his coming 🙏😊
Very true, I fall victim too. I had to get my intentions right before going to the gym, to not do it because I want people to see me in a certain way or please the Standards of the world.
I agree with everything you said besides "we." Societal norms have never impacted me, as I always wanted to be different and not like everyone else. So much so that I spent an entire summer learning to write with my left hand when was 12 because everyone I knew wrote with their right hand. I've been 5' 7" , with a 34A chest since I was 13 (except when pregnant with my son), and finally got up to 110 lbs during my second semester of college and 121 lbs after the birth of my son at 21. My norm has been 122 - 128 lbs, and at 5' 7", it's not the body of a stereotypical black woman. I literally got made fun of about being "skinny" until high school when it stopped. But then once I got in my mid-20s, it basically started again, with "you're so thin" or "you're so tiny comments." Even was questioned about which finger did I use to throw up with😮, which is ludicrous because anyone that knew/knows me will say I eat like a line backer. I am just blessed with a high metabolism.
Maybe liking my physical person (then loving at 30) and not caring what others thought is a culmination of being the oldest with brothers, being a tomboy, having balanced feminine and masculine energies, and my role model being the best dad in the world. He always encouraged and supported me, as well as always shared how much he loved me and how proud he was. Regardless, I'm thankful and blessed to have loved myself enough to know, I don't need to be like anyone else, and I'm perfect they way I am.
@@TheCurlyFitChicOriginal such a beautiful story 💕 I’ve struggled with my weight as well and have a high metabolism. For me, it can be very discouraging sometimes with my weight fluctuating so much. I’ve learned to love whatever God has blessed me with and it’s amazing to see you doing the same! God bless you 🫶🏽
Maybe take the word “Christian” out, I think that’s probably why people were so upset about it. 🤷🏾♀️Anyways, you look good queen. ❤
Yes. Literally. If she didn’t have Christian in the title, no one would care. 😂😂😂🙄🤦🏾♀️
She only said it because people are judging her being a Christian and getting surgery
I’m not sure she understands that bc even ppl who aren’t Christians know she’s lying.
@@ignitedsoulexpressions they wouldn’t care bc she wouldn’t be lying.
@@beautybyamor common sense isn’t always common
I’m not against plastic surgery whatsoever but let’s be real , God did not tell you to get surgery
That’s it , that’s all … simply stated 👏🏾
Exactly
right
I Hate when people use God’s name like that to cover up the fact she was just insecure and got it.
I’ve never heard of this girl before and having visited her page, I don’t understand the outrage. Her entire platform is about weave, make-up, there is no God here. There never was. Her platform looks exactly the same as girls in the world. Y’all Christians could never get me to join y’all’s fold 😅
I still believe that if you didn’t see those women on social media with what many have been conditioned to believe is the “perfect body”…you wouldn’t have wanted or done the surgery. No matter what, it is your choice. To all the girls people are advising….you should also learn that influencers are not perfect people, although they may portray next to perfect lives. They have their own insecurities and have the freedom to act on those. It is up to you to know better & do better.
Denying yourself and living for God has a christian also means not doing some certain things..accepting that God makes no mistake..being comfortable with how God made you is so peaceful…self love is necessary but self idolatry is a stretch…having to please yourself over God is wild!
Putting your life at risk for a COSMETIC surgery has nothing to do with God 🙄
Hopefully she understands that it’s not in the name of the Lord.
The vibe I’m getting from your energy is that you’re trying to act strong and I hope you’re actually being strong behind the camera sha.
I honestly feel so sorry for young content creators, because somehow it seems that no matter what they do or have accomplished, they can’t seem to be happy and they’re always looking for more and validation, very sad
I can see that in every young adult. We’re all trying to be the best we can be. Everyone’s afraid of ending up unhappy in life.
But really truly wholeheartedly seeking God we will understand more and more the happiness is a fleeting feeling. YOu'll never be happy chasing happiness but real Joy in christ. I agree with the first comment. I seen a quote that said many are getting their bodies done but not their spirit /soul in order. Not saying this is pertaining to you but we can apply this to everything. The further you go in life at times , if you are not truly grounded with God, in your word, reading the bile, fasting as needed, its easy to want to fix everything (nothing wrong with bettering yourself) But it will be easy to go with the vybes of the world. Certain lifestyle, nightlife, validation esp on social media, wrong circles etc. As long as you know your convictions with God and doing what you feel pleases him then thats it. No one have to tell us anything. God convicts us behind closed door on ALL our decisions. It's up to us if we listen or not. @@Sophiology
Instead of worrying about someone being happy or not how about direct your righteousness to these corrupt leaders that are allowing genocides to go on?
@@SophiologyWow. Life in Christ does not have to be this way. Get away from the people you associate with and run to a Bible based church.
Bit of a shame to be honest
I don’t understand why you are bringing God in to this. Especially when he made you in his image. 🤷🏽♀️
Exactly. It’s okay she chose to have surgery, she is an adult. No need to justify it and bring God in it.
Try to work hard and have money maybe you can relate
When people make their own version of God and get mad when you point them to the real God you always get blamed as being to judgemental cause in their head God is this big teddybear who allows anything, who caters to their feelings rather than they submitting to Gods will. If you believe that your body is the temple of God why are you getting influenced by the world to change it into the worlds standard? We as your supporters should go along on your lukewarm journey ?! Be glad that some of us point it out that you are getting to worldy cause you loved it when the christians were supporting you thinking they found a real christian influencer who has godly standards but no a little bit of money can do a lot.. you cannot convince other christians to just accept this like its normal. You know God spits out the lukewarm right? God says if we cannot judge small matters between ourselves how are we going to judge angels..sooo we as fellow christians should let each other know when we see ungodly behavior which will end up in lukewarmness never forget this line be holy as he is holy hebrews 12 should be a great reminder that god is a consuming fire 🔥 and not a teddy bear.
Thank you.❤
I love this ❤
Thanks for this message! Be blessed sis...❤💯🙏
@@mroly76 💕
@@Heiswithher 💕
What’s christian about not being grateful for what God gave you? Surely if people love you, they’ll remind you of that?
Exactly
touch grass, please
What's Christian about judging others? I believe there is a verse about that in the bible, eh? Love and concern are quite different from judgement.
@@Chioma_😂😂😂😂 she’d probably find problems with grass touching as well🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ ppl need to mind their damn business
@@meethatswhooSo telling someone to be grateful is judgement? They never talked down about her or insulted her.
Sad that you need to involve Christianity with your insecurities rather than praying on it and understanding the Lord made you perfect the way you were.
So take the wig off and show us u not insecure mama
Just because you lived through the surgery and other died DO NOT mean God loves you no more than them NOR does it mean He agrees with you not your relationship with Him is good. ITS CALLED GRACE AND YOUR TIME OF JUDGMENT HAS NOT CAME.
Ok
It’s shocking how many young women these days are getting surgery! You’re healthy and able bodied, no kids, gym is a healthier and safer option. I believe a lot of you guys will be under the table AGAIN after your first child. It’s unsustainable! The most important thing is to live a healthy lifestyle. Don’t give in to the pressure for instagram and what you think men desire.
The results she’s wants cannot be obtained in the gym. Plus she’ll still be eating healthy and working out for health reasons so his response is a bit somehow
@@taii_chii6782yes it can. The problem with this generation is that you all want “instant gratification”. You’re risking your life with surgery. You even have to sign a waiver if it doesn’t go in your favor. Is it really worth it? When you are young, able bodied and can go to they gym? It’s just the easy way out in my opinion
@@taii_chii6782they very much can be obtained at the gym and with a healthy lifestyle.
@taii_chii6782 Yes only a healthy good looking booty can be done at the gym. That diaper weird looking but cost money.
I don’t think she can have kids based on PCOS
I really just believe people just feel let down Sophia. 😭💔
I know that you say you have never desired or encouraged people to see you as a spiritual leader but the moment you declare you “love” Jesus in your bio and on a platform of over half a million followers… that’s the moment you become an influencer and leader whether you signed up for it or not.
Whether you like it or not, your decisions are on display for everyone to weigh against scripture because it’s how a true follower of Jesus Christ is distinguished. It’s how we determine the real from the fake. And we are all accountable to scripture even when we least want to be and when it hurts the most.
The Bible tells us if you love Jesus to obey his commandments. Meaning, to do what we are told in scripture. I don’t know your personal and private relationship with Jesus but I’ve followed you for years and sis the makeup and hair videos are FIRE, but to dress provocatively, curse in your videos, and get mad at your brothers and sisters in Christ when they hold you accountable (and call them judge mental weirdos) is ridiculous 🤦🏽♀️
Most of your loyal followers aren’t in your comments writing these long posts because they hate you, want to drag you, or even don’t have anything else they could be doing… I genuinely think it’s because most of them feel hurt and disappointed at the direction your content has been going and that the example of a “Jesus lover” you’re consistently showing is not lining up with scripture.
I see the light in your life sis and pray that through the clutter you can see the heart and hurt some people may genuinely be feeling due to some of the decisions and lifestyle choices that have been shown from you sis.
Praying for your continued growth and healing in Christ sis. 🙏🏽❤️
Mmm
WELL SAID ! xo PERFECTLY WRITTEN.
She’s allowed to love and worship Jesus in her OWN way. Even an ex str|pper like Cardi B had ‘in God we trust’ on her Instagram at the very start of her career. Did it stop God from blessing her? Nope. In fact. Sophia and Cardi have waaay more than any of you ladies here can ever dream of having. So sit down and have a think about that. Let it marinate.. 😂😴🚮
She loves people of Christ, not judgmental tight asses with their nose stared down at everyone.
@@gailainsley6939okay clearly you’re definition of blessing is skewed monetary belongings is not the measurement of blessings … having a penthouse does not make you “more” blessed then the college student living in the dorm hun
nah girl, its giving, you feel called out and guilty bc people are pointing out the hypocrisy in the fact that you went and got this surgery, simply for vanity. not to mention, you already had the "ideal" body according to society, so what message are you pushing to your younger audiences who might not have been as naturally curvy as you already were?
at the end of the day you got the surgery so stand in that decision, but at least have the decency to not make it the entire subject of your vlogs when you know most of the girls that follow you wouldn't be interested in that. you could have made content in bulk ahead of time. but alas. i guess you're going for a different audience now which is fine.
CALL IT !!
Agreed
Called out by who exactly?
People who are sinless ?
Why is it necessary to call out someone for what they are doing to themselves? Something that doesn’t affect you (them) in anyway? Ridiculous
@@maamequansmah9080 she is an influencer and content creator. Nothing she does affects any of us and yet we still comment bc we can, and it’s clearly what she wants, engagement from viewers. None of us are sin less but none of us are above criticism either, we’re allowed to point out hypocrisy and express disappointment that someone we support and care about went and got a risky surgery to “fix” something that was never broken. If she didn’t want any one to comment their opinions then she shouldn’t have posted these vlogs at all.
Again, this is her body, and it doesn’t affect you in any way. Yes, we are allowed to comment however, as humans with empathy, sometimes it’s better to choose not to deliberately hurt someone with our words (Call her out ). Especially an outsider, which she is (You don’t really know her ). It is not your place to criticize her. At the end of the day, her choices are between her and her God.
Brothers and Sisters, aunties and uncles, let''s pray for our sister here. We should not judge, nor condemn her for her decisions that go against the bibles teachings, that is between her and God. If we see something wrong, lets just pray or at the very least voice our opinion in a loving manner. We will never get the chance to say, "i told you so" on the day of judgment. Just pray...I beg.
Save your prayers for those dying of hunger
Those without shelter at night or in the day
Those who are orphaned because greedy corporations and corrupt governments allowed bullets and bombs to flood the streets
Those lost to drugs and disease
Those who will never live a life to walk, run, feed or give because their bodies can’t function
Those who will never be able to hear or see the people that love and care for them daily
Those people all around the world are the ones who deserve prayers and abundance
There is nothing wrong I. What she did go repent and stfu
@@indi1omccoln565 No need is too small for God. We can pray for them all. Saved prayers are not genuine. But thank you for your input.
@@mercisadiki you better pray to God he agrees with you
@@indi1omccoln565 he doesn’t need to agree with me. I need to agree with him.
People use religion and’God’ to be malicious and projecting their own prejudice. Safe recovery dear
Every single time, there are actual issues they could be condemning in the work, yet they are worried about what someone else is doing with their body.
We must be able to say it’s wrong if it’s wrong and it’s being put out there for the world to see so that someone else that’s more impressionable doesn’t fall victim to these procedures. We are made the way we are for a reason. When we do these things aren’t we trying to be our own God creating ourselves how we thought we should have been made?
Extremely self righteous and judgmental and I’m sure they all have stuff going on that others would judge them for aswell as no one is perfect 😂 ONLY God can judge at the end of the day
literally
Honestly. They need to get a grip. And ironically, none of what they’re doing is Godly.
You telling me that the Spirit of the Lord led you to undergo a life threatening surgery to enhance your features for Jesus? How will this be used for the kingdom of God? You didn’t do this for you or the eyes of men, or the more clicks online?
@@Josephinetl God is graceful, but when it comes to people lying on His name He’ll make an example out of her. I hope she wise up and repents soon because I’ve seen people lose their everything except the cloths on their back
@@Josephinetl pride comes before the fall, so if she’s overcome with pride she won’t do it but she also doesn’t understand that have that spirit of pride welcomes the spirit of destruction. I really hope she does the right thing but I want to see God glorified :(
Quoting scriptures but has SZA Toxic behind music in the background? Man this whole video should be called “Straddling the Fence”
And the fact that you can identify that it’s SZA is giving what in your opinion?
@@ChiChiBbySza is a worldly artist & she’s claiming to be Christian. That doesn’t go together is what she’s saying…
I’ve been a subscriber for a long time and I’ve always supported you Sophia!! I don’t agree with your choice but it’s your life! It has nothing to do with me. I love your content regardless. You always stay true to yourself and are always transparent with all of us. I pray that God continues to bless you and wish you all the best with your healing. ❤
You talk to GOD just like you’re talking to us; same way. Read and study the Bible ; then you can pray the word. Find scriptures in the Bible that relates to your situation and just Remind GOD of what HIS word says. That’s it! 🤷🏽♀️❤
The last person I thought would do this but oh well... this is 2023... nothing shocks anymore.
The “big back and wide waist” comment was unnecessary and fatphobic. We aren’t the ones desperate to risk our lives under the knife to be accepted by society. 💋
Did you see the comments? Those were unnecessary 😒 It's like people say what they want to others, but when they clap back its "unnecessary" and now yall offended 😒 Fatphobic is when a person doesn't like fat no matter what, she's saying she dont like fat for her, she not concerned if others like their back big.. she just dont want a big back on her body..she wants her back slim, her waist tiny, hips wide, and butt round.. Whats wrong with that?
@@silly_shelly_fan I said what I said
I agree
@@silly_shelly_fanright??? No where in that entire video did she say nun about being fat phobic or insinuate that she’s fat phobic. People are bored and mad 😴
I agree! It was fatphobic unfortunately.
Just because you did it doesn't make it right, the bible is literally our guide so people ain't as dumb as you'd like to make it seem, open it more often till it sits in you sis, I wish you speedy recovery, inner healing and outer healing❤️
Using God for clicks??? We are truly in the last days. 🤢
I have nothing against surgery but the mentality behind...its like always running after perfection...never feeling enough...the scariest thing for me 😢
As a Christian girlie I had to skip over the secular music. I came here from Twitter and I’ve struggled with my body as well but what I can say is that was your decision and I’m still contemplating it myself. Just be sure to guard your eye gates and ear gates because the music is a tool satan uses to influence anyone. Children, Christians whoever. There’s sooooo many fire artists that are born again, all over TikTok, RUclips, IG, etc. As someone who fed into the lies from the devil such as fear/insecurity secular music was only programming me/feeding my flesh to believe that there was something wrong with me. But the Lord says we are fearfully and wonderfully made. We are created in His image. And I know it may sound cliche or religious but meditating on the word of God built up my confidence with the body I have now. And I’m not built bad but I wasn’t happy for a while. But when I filled my spirit up none of it even mattered. So I’m still praying about it. But God bless you on your journey beloved! You look GREAT. And the doctor you chose is the BEST. Everything will work out for those who love God.
I don’t know why people are shocked. Quoting bible verses and saying I’m a Christian doesn’t mean that people won’t make choices like this. I’ve been a Sub for a while and in my journey watching Soph, she very laid back and honestly none of us “Christian people” said anything. This a product of how much the gospel twisted in our generation. It’s become very sugar coated and everyone picks out what they wanna hear from the bible. The bible does nothing encourage us to go clubbing, wear over sexualising clothes, live worldy lifestyle and my soph did all this. Or at least that’s what she’s presenting to us. This type of lifestyle is very toxic and will ruin many other young people watching her. Sis I would advise that you turn back to Christ, because in him you will find true love and you will appreciate the way God had made you. I pray that you open your heart to this message. I’m not trying to hate, but I be want to set you free with the truth. ❤
I said it in this video too, & many videos before, that I’ve never presented to be perfect or an example. I want girls like me, who are working to be better and closer to God, to feel safe in their journey. To not feel hopeless, because it’s hard.
I’m just being real, & I personally no longer care what back lash I get for being transparent and honest. Only God truly knows me. & he loves me regardless of what the world thinks. That’s all that matters to me.
I find it genuinely weird how you and many others people judging her in the comments have been following her and her worldly lifestyle for so long, yet draw a line at her undergoing trough surgery. Y'all should ask yourself this very simple question and if the answer isn't pure hypocrisy then I don't know. Because her main content is clearly beauty and lifestyle and there's no way someone who's looking for a fully christian oriented content would follow Sophia. That's complete nonsense. Leave that woman alone and keep your fake concern to yourself. If your comments comes out of worry and love, pray for her instead of being condescending on the internet with people y'all know nothing about.
@@purple_princess97 never said I followed her for Christian Content. I love wigs and makeup and that’s the content she started with anyway. So that is actually the reason why I follow her. I have other RUclips channels for faith related content 🥰
Then why are you pointing her living a worldly lifestyle? If you follow her for wigs and makeup and don't expect her to be someone who will fortify you, I think it's a bit unfair.@@chantalbolembo
@@purple_princess97 proverbs 27:5-6, “Open rebuke is better Than secret love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.” I didn’t write that comment with intention of pointing fingers trust me. If anything nobody’s perfect, but when I see a sister needs help I gotta help. Soph is a beautiful woman and I’ve also seen that she is trying to get close to Christ. When the enemy see that someone is actually trying to get close to Christ that’s when he attacks. It may be through insecurities, friends, drugs, depression etc. but I want her to genuinely know that Jesus loves her just the way she is.
Please do not include Christianity or the lord Jesus Christ in you choosing to permanently alter your body just so you could achieve a particular look that actually cheapens you more than anything. Loving God should have taught you self love from the inside out, a lot of people do the work from the outside but barely care enough to do the necessary work from the inside which is the part of ourselves that matters the most.
Stop using Gods name in vein to condone your outta pocket behavior and choices. That crazy af that you really putting Christ name on something that is completely has nothing to do with his work.
Exactly
Exactly
You can validate your point but don’t be putting God Abeg 😂😂
I appreciate the honesty and transparency a lot of these content creators do surgery and hide and pretend. You don’t have to agree but what’s done is done either your support her or you find someone who’s more aligned with your interests no need to speak down or speak I’ll of anyone
I’ll accept everything but there’s no need to put “ Christian” in this. We really be out her mocking God and that’s not fair!
Yep, that’s it and that’s all.
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23 And then will I profess unto them*, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
I absolutely love Sophie Here for ALL you have to offer .you truly add value, PLEASE don’t ever forget it. “I BEG” 😂 Because you empower and encourage in ways you may never understand .in all you choose to do REMAIN BOLD AND VERY COURAGEOUS God Bless you and yours Queen 👸🏽-Love Goddess Paradise🌺🎀🌴✨💋💋💋✌🏾
But really truly wholeheartedly seeking God we will understand more and more the happiness is a fleeting feeling. YOu'll never be happy chasing happiness but real Joy in christ. I agree with the first comment. I seen a quote that said many are getting their bodies done but not their spirit /soul in order. We just can't take our bodies with us no matter what we do to it. Does not mean we should not improve it (my personal journey im constantly in the gym as much a I can but try to keep God at the center of it all. And not to embody a spirit of vanity as expressed often on social media . Everyone is obsessed with looking good and being this IT girl they speak of. Not saying this is pertaining to you but we can apply this to everything. The further you go in life at times , if you are not truly grounded with God, in your word, reading the bible, fasting as needed, its easy to want to fix everything (nothing wrong with bettering yourself) But it will be easy to go with the vybes of the world. Certain lifestyle, nightlife, validation esp on social media, wrong circles etc. As long as you know your convictions with God and doing what you feel pleases him then thats it. No one have to tell us anything. God convicts us behind closed door on ALL our decisions. It's up to us if we listen or not. @Sophiology
I've learned The more we grow in christ secretly. HE gracefully breaks us behind close doors, followers -NO ONE can tell you thing God hasn't been trying to tell you about how you should live, what you should do etc..GOD convicts us before anyone else does. Even right down to the little things, where we go, what objects we bring into our homes, what we wear, what we eat, every little thing. Long as you feel you mad ea decision right with God principles and can also take WISE counsel from those who walk in spirit;;not those who judge harshly but those who speak Godly truth whether you want to hear it or not.
I respect your decision to do the surgery. This is your life. However, you can't complain about being fresh from surgery and people making comments that you did not like. You've been on this platform for far too long to not understand what comes with it. You should have kept the surgery to yourself for a while for your own mental health and post-op healing.
People are sideyeing you because people have become greedy with these elective surgeries. People use the "I did it for me" is an excuse. It's purely out of influence and validation of others. There was absolutely NOTHING wrong with you and I won't be the one to pacify you like the others. Using the word "Christian" doesn't make it so. This was vanity. Dont use God to justify that. You did what you did, stand on it alone. You would be respected for that.
How is she using God to justify her deciding to do surgery. I believed I just watched a video in which she thanked God (as she always does) and also thanking God for her recovery. Right ??
Y’all remember when she gained weight because of PCOS and she was very sad about it. Now she is happy with her body and y’all still coming for her . This is her decision and people will always talk . She is happy that’s all that matters
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Uhh no; do YALL remember when Sophie content was for the EVERYDAY BLACK WOMAN!?… her PCOS and the comments that went along with it was nothing but support and encouragement. Any mentions about weight gain was Sophie speaking about Losing HER WEIGHT, not people commenting about her weight gain.
Exactly thank you
God wouldn’t want this
If she makes a decision to take drugs and promote it to her audience no one say a word because that’s judgmental?
I started watching you off your Lagos vlog and now catching up with everything else. I love how resilient you are. More love and blessings 😘
Craziest title I must admit
Don’t bring God into this. - just say you wanted to enhance your sex appeal and feel favored to wake up unscathed
Sophia fighting for her life in the comments😂 just let it go girl.
the frustrating part is youre not being truthful. Just admit you felt insecure with your body and you have low self esteem because of seeing other girls and influencers on sm. And feeling the pressure to conform. Thats all. Expecting people to participate in your delusion when the truth is evident is crazy.
You are craze😊
this whole thing has honestly made me love you more. despite it all, you continue to show up and it’s so inspiring. may recovery continue to be good to you.
Thank God for your praying mom!
I honestly believe some of your fans felt you didn’t need the surgery. Some felt you already had a great body/shape prior to your procedure.
However, it’s still your decision with what you want to do with your body and in life in general.
We only have one life to live, so I pray you are able to do and experience things that you derive joy from. As long as you are doing right by God, what others say or think should not matter.
That doesn’t make your less of a Christian then the person next to you in church.
Wishing you a speedy recovery and happy holidays🙏
She has decisions, yes. But it's not everything she gets to decide.
Our bodies our temples of Christ. We should honor it as such. She's wayy older than me, and she's an adult, I get that. But at the end of the day, our decisions not only affect our physical/daily life but it affects our spiritual life w/ God. 😅
@@gorile6944 I get what you are saying. To give more context, I personally don’t subscribe to plastic surgery. It’s not my thing, however I don’t believe a woman getting a tummy tuck, Lipo or other cosmetic procedures will make them go to hell. I don’t believe it’s a sin to do so. Please correct me if I am wrong.
My response would be different if we were talking about character, lifestyle choices, dressing, etc.
We don’t know any of these influencers personally. We tend to judge them based off of the few minutes of their lives we see in their videos.
If anyone feels that Sophia isn’t representing that of a child of God in her videos, biko pray for her. Let’s not preach at her.
That’s the biggest blessing/gift you can give anyone. A genuine prayer 🙏
I love you Sophie YOU are amazing and such a wise individual!! I never really comment but I had to let you know for the one time 🥰🥰
“These BBL’s killin y’all” 💀💀💀💀
It's the man fault
@@talishamason8553 Every video you see of theses women getting BBL’s, all of them are single. They’re doing it because they want too, not because of a man.
God loves you and nothing will change that. I pray for your speedy recovery.
If God had anything to do with this, he would've told you to work out, and do it the healthier way, I'm sure he would have been there with you along the journey with you as you committed yourself to the gym. You made this decision on your own. To go under the knife to look better than what you believed wasn't good enough, which God created, was all your decision. Having a major surgery that could have caused you your life, when nothing was wrong with you. It wasn't a life or death type surgery that you actually needed to save your life. But took the risk of losing your life, just for vanity is crazy to me. Stop putting God in this, only thing you should be thanking God for that he kept you well and alive from the surgery, cause many girls have lost their life do to vanity, and like on social media from people who really don't care about you. Be blessed.
Didn’t I already say this in the video?? 😂😂
You did, and I still spoke on it, and decided to still give you my opinion.
Not gonna lie, the tone of this comment is kinda crazy
Why don’t you go work out and go find Matthew verse 4:5 because you seem to know more abojt judging others when you not perfect yourself mind your business hunny
@@samjack4985it’s disgusting the audacity of these fake Christian’s in the comments they make me sick
Knowing who you are and being able to block out the noise will always help you stand firmly in your decisions. Regardless if people agree with your decisions or not, as long as your happy, that’s all that matters. Sending you all the love and light💜
If you want the surgery, that’s your right and your choice. But to really add “Christian” to the title for clout and clickbait is blasphemy. A faith based on selfless love of God just has no place in this. It’s really a shame. Hopefully your heart isn’t far from being convicted for this title
girl we love you, it was just unexpected. We’re just shook and slightly worried 🤍
Just curious, Why are you worried? Or concerned?
Same! I will always love and support Sophia. I hope she is truly happy and healthy with who she is and she said that she is several times so I’m gonna take her word for it and support
@@silly_shelly_fanfor me I’m a slightly worried because she was on her juice diet and work outs and she was losing weight that way so the surgery seemed like it came out of the blue. And we’ve seen people have 1 surgery then another and then they get hooked. Not saying Sophia is the same as them, but it happens . She was very beautiful naturally and I feel like she didn’t need it at all but that’s her decision to make. It just seems like after the break up she has had a couple of cosmetic surgeries so I hope everything is okay with her within and she says she is happy so I will support her
slightly?/this chick is trippin. HER SOUL HAS LEFT THE BUILDING.
@@complexsimplicitii we should pray fr bc she’s clearly not thinking straight
The surgery, the wig, lashes, veneers, Ton Ford book, LV bag…. So much effort only to copy so many others for a very unremarkable outcome.
unremarkable?
Just started following you! Love your energy ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Do what ever you want, but take christianity out of it PLEASE
I’m saying though. Seems so forced to add “Christianity” to this. Like why?
It’s amazing to me that most ppl who have a strong opinion about surgery would run and get it the first chance they could, if they could afford it.
You look absolutely amazing. Ppl will have an opinion no matter what so who cares!🎉
I got this on twitter and thought it was fake. Second hand embarrassment
These are end times, I pray we all be ready, for his return 🙏🏽
Those gym results hit different 💪🏽team naturally healthy toned and BEAUTIFUL
In a world where people will get on the internet and try to tear you down with their opinions I hope that you are able to heal and recover physically and mentally from the negativity!! God loves you either way. You are happy with your decision and that’s all that matters ❤️
And that’s on big facts. No one deserves such negativity.
To follow God is to not conform to this world because the world is overtaken by the evil one. Is she conforming to the world with her decisions, or is she conforming with God?
@@n.g.l. so you see someone who has “conformed to this world” and the best line of action as a Christian is to condemn them?
No!
Even if you want to correct, you do so from a place of love. Not from a vile bitter place.
I don’t approve of bbls, but I won’t speak wickedness to someone who just finished having surgery, bleeding and trying to recover.
The fact that she is alive, means God has he’s reasons for allowing her to wake up, no of us here could have made her survive it but God. So we need to relax and if you are so convicted, you can go the route of praying for her not speaking evil.
@@Osass1998 while I do agree that Christians must gently correct others, and refrain from speaking ill on someone. Is this conversation directed at me? If not, then why was it necessary for you to bring this up?
@@n.g.l. this is a reply for everyone that wants to beautify their bitterness with bible verses, or “Christianese”. If you don’t fall in that category, you can go ahead and ignore it!
I love your choice I’m having surgery next week and I believe strongly in Our Father
Making someone feel bad for a decision that has already been made is so so weird. God Bless you Sophia, so happy you’re on the journey of healing & feeling better. Still wishing you a speedy recovery ❤
That’s how I feel about the bashing of women who had children out of wedlock.
Correct we are coming at her for using Gods name in vein. All that other shit is completely off topic. The fact that you’re condoning her using Gods name in vein over her decision is crazy…
Let’s apply your logic to this: someone committed murder and people are making them feel bad for it. That’s weird?
@@n.g.l.that’s ending a life this is altering a body she still alive and is safe so wtf u getting at
@@J_L_P6 if you can’t apply your logic to anywhere else then it’s baseless and considered illogical.
I think we can share our opinions without being disrespectful. Sophia has always been a very transparent, smart and respectful person so let’s do the same thing. It takes a lot of God to open the comments 😮 I just wish her well, peace of mind and an assurance that she is loved by God.
Sophie, I’m glad you are doing well darling. I hope you recover perfectly. I want you to know that God loves you no matter how you look, and what the world says matter not. We are in the world, but not of this world. Please try not to let the unkind comments get to you, it takes time for us to renew our mind to this Truth, especially with the high degree of social conditioning we are exposed to. I pray your spiritual eyes will be opened to see that you are lovely as you are in Christ. God Bless❤
Sophia you looked amazing before… you did not need this at all you were already BLESSED. Absolutely worried for you but wishing you the best…
Hey Sophie, how are you? I have a question for you regarding your surgery, did you pray and ask God if He approved of you getting this surgery? And if so, did you wait for His answer?
In this life you have to do what makes you happy. Life is short. Live and let live. 🤷🏾♀️
Love you for being honest about this whole process. Im happy you’re healthy and babe… you look GOODT 💕
New subscriber here and I love your content. I been binge watching all day. There’s nothing like a PRAYING MOTHER!!❤️
Mental health is real
Real confidence is silent. It’s exuded not proclaimed.
Girl, you look amazing! I am all for women doing whatever makes them happy, comfortable and confident
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A walk with God is personal, I love watching you , keep on being amazing. people should mind their own. It’s your life Sophia honestly you’re the best RUclipsr and you have helped me with my walk with God. So pls don’t let negativity derive you from your purpose.
If getting surgery makes you feel even more confident, why’s that anybody’s problem?? It’s your decision and only you can make the right decisions for yourself. God has your back
Well it wouldn't be anyone's problem that's between her and God however she's changing the way God made her to find confidence where she can just find confidence in Christ in the way she was born
1 Peter 3:3
Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.
Yall need to stop bringing God into other people’s freewill. His permissive will does not equate to Him coming I agreement or acceptance.
Fine babe, ignore the hate and live your life the fine babe way. Feel good, rest and heal from your surgery just continue to be a fine babe.
If you spent all that time researching, pre-op, during surgery and post surgery looking into God’s word, you’d have seen His image of you rather than how the world sees you
I am supporting and praying for you! Oh, and love, love, love your content.
Your channel was recommended to me and all I can say is wow! Your spirit is very light and vibrant, it is infectious. You speak with much compassion and I subscribed right away. I look forward to watching more of your videos and I pray you have a speedy recovery ❤ I am in the beginning stages of getting ready for surgery and your calming demeanor is so helpful.
Thank God, my mirrors loves me as much as I love my natural self.
No hate but as Christians or even as non-Christians we do not have to agree with everything that someone does.The bible tells us not to judge yes but to correct each other in love. We do not have to accept secular culture in order for people to love God. God has rules and regulations, some rules are even a bit harsh but it’s for our good.
It’s okay to accept you did surgery because you wanted to. No need to selectively quote the bible.
Sorry for all the hate you received.
There’s this saying that I’ve you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Sophia, you do what makes you happy.
I never really comment but been here since the beginning… while it’s shocking and I can see what ppl mean when they say ur changing at the end of the day we don’t know you for real. As long as ur safe and healthy live ur life ❤
Sophia has always been beautiful & funny to me but I’ve always sense insecurity & low self-esteem but I thought she would manage it by just flourishing as who she naturally was. Surgery won’t change mindsets but She’s still bae & she’s alive, for that we should be grateful.
Who’s here from twitter ?
What happened on twitter??
🤣🤣🤣yasss girl do what you want !!!! As long as you’re healthy while healing. Safe recovery!!!
I don’t think people are upset about you getting surgery I think it has more to do with using the word or God to justify it. It’s okay to want to look or feel a certain way but just say that, then people wouldn’t be so mad. But anyways hope you continue to heal 🤍
Thanks for sharing your HONEST journey. You’re beautiful ❤. All is covered under the blood and HE knows your heart and intentions.
At least she’s honest…some of your faves be playing in your face
What people fail to realize is this is YOUR LIFE! We’re not here on earth to seek the approval of others. You can die having any kind of surgery let’s be for real. If you’re happy and your decision makes you feel better then all is well.People will always people. God bless❤🙏🏾 Happy healing 😊
God wouldn't send you to put your life at risk to change the body HE gave you….doesnt make sense. Just something to think about. 😢
Girl you look good! Dont worry about what others think as there will always be people who judge. The judges Jesus and he was perfect! So encourage yourself, inspire and transform to your YES moment! ❤❤🎉😊
Im truly inspired!
I'm old enough to be your mother so believe me when I say...Your mother DID that!!! She did a WONDERFUL job raising you. You live your life. And as a Christian continue to love. That's what we are commanded to do...LOVE not judge. You look great.
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It's your life, do what makes you happy
I really like how your just care free in your videos and your have a great sense of humor 🥰 funny and pretty 🫶🏿
All you did was enhance your beauty, this is your body sis you can do whatever you want ! sending you so much loveee
Everyone is just trying to be the best version of themselves y'all.Quick recovery Sophia.❤
you look better and better every time i see you, go baddie, go fine babe