"...the most depressed I've been was when I was in my twenties... I was single, I was unemployed, I was broke, I was still living at home..." *me look up from my phone and turn my head towards my mirror and sees me... in my twenties, single, unemployed, broke, and depressed* lol "...if I would've killed myself back then, I would've missed out on so many big things!... I guess the most important lesson is stick around, because you don't want to miss all the awesome things in your future." Thanks Mr. Sandberg, been kind of in a hole lately and depressed, but seeing this gave me inspiration again and hope for my future! Can't wait to see your next project, whether on RUclips or the big screen!
Maybe it will take some time to get better, but life can always get better, whereas death is incredibly final (I mean, I guess it depends on what you believe, but I wouldn't trade the uncertainty of life for the uncertainty of death). I love you, Kyle, keep going
I recommend Max Joseph. His videos pop up a lot on RUclips, but I always avoided them because the thumbnails and titles aren't very inviting, but recently I warned his video "DICKS: Do you need to be one to be a successful leader?" and it's one of the best videos I've watched this year
@@bcbhir the ending of Once Upon a Time... wouldn't have made any sense if the film hadn't built the characters up into the situation. Great movie from start to finish.
Everyone who wants to be a filmmaker should be watching this channel. The bit about depression is somethingn that is not talked about nearly enough in the industry. Thanks for the excellent advice, David, and thanks for sticking around.
@@steprockmedia it may not be as unexpected as you think, i believe its very expected of us humans to feel that way because all of us have aspirations, goals, plans, weekly/daily expectations etc no matter how big or small. So for example, when you set yourself a holiday or vacation for the following year, you will work all year round getting ready for that vacation and not just financially, you will be in anticipation, the vacation will be an escape for you. The depression can come right before you leave(quite rare as you've been waiting for this moment), while on vacation or the most common is when you get home because after we have have gone past that goal we feel very depressed as you as yourself "what now?". It is why we must always set goals for ourselves nomatter how big or small. Man... I should follow my own advice.
@@markregina6178 he doesn't mean the depression is unexpected, he means it's unexpected to hear something like this from someone as established as this.
wow. I'm currently feeling depressed while i'm trying to write some scenarios and feeling shit about them, feeling shit about my job and overall situation, but sir, you give me damn hope.
You’re probably never gonna read it but I’m gonna say it anyways: this video has helped so much I can’t even describe. I guess I’ve watched it at the exact right time. Thanks a lot.
“I think the most important lesson for me is: Stick Around. Because you don’t want to miss out on all the awesome things in your future.” Thank you for sticking around. So many of us are grateful that you did. 💕💕💕
Just discovered your channel! LOVE all your insights and your willingness to teach and educate based on your real life experiences! Thank you for being so informative!
Almost cried near the end. I hope you know how much it means to a depressed, single and unemployed guy in his 20s with his head full of dreams. You’re a great man, David EDIT: Since I keep getting more comments under this, I might as well give an update. I am no longer unemployed and single and I have been doing much better. Depression comes and goes. I still dream of being a filmmaker and, in fact, I just recently directed a low budget commercial for the new business of a family member. It gets better, and I now believe it can get even better than that. It’s a slow process but joy will always be something worth fighting for.
This is the best!!! I heard of lights out years ago but I didn't know this guy was so DOWN TO EARTH and real!!! Thanks for sharing important lessons and ending with the most important lesson of all. I subscribed because I need more of this kind of thinking in my life.
I find it unique and necessary that as I put stories to scripts, I am so much more attached to the characters and lessons in the story and then after the story is complete.
Most RUclipsrs: *Get a job in the industry and go silent from RUclips David: Hold my clapperboard Seriously though, thank you so much for these videos :D
Hey I know this is probably not good for me to ask this but I’m working on a film about suicide and is it possible I can ask you some questions? I understand if you don’t want to be asked questions, I just want to make this film right, instead of doing it the “Hollywood” way
Wow, how did that get so deep so quickly. Love your down-to-earth manner and your way to motivate people without preaching idealism. Thanks a lot for that!
As a guy in the film industry, suffering from depression, I really appreciate the experience you’ve shared. It made me feel a little more normal :) can relate. Subscribed!
Best video I’ve seen in AGES laughing and agreeing from beginning to end. No funny camera angles, no gimmicks just great content delivered with huge authority, a new fan.... thank you so much for making this, Col.
Your best advice is - don't ignore the process. In the end of it all, what really matters is what happened all during the production - its called Life. Audiences will forget your 2 hr. product, but you have 2 years of your life to remember.
Depressed, unemployed, in my late 20s doubting every single thing I have done in my life. I can't tell you what your words by the end of this video meant to me. I hope I can one day gather the courage to make my own shorts and write features. Thank you David.
These lessons are so valuable and useful! And the last one is pure gold. The way you feel now, doesn't mean you'll feel that way all the time! Don't let the depression fool you! Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
Thank you for talking about depression. I'm in my final years of my animation degree and it's hit me really hard. I see all my classmates succeeding, whilst I'm happy for them, I'm angry at myself for not trying as hard, for not being brave enough to enter my work into festivals, for not being 'good enough' it's really eating me up at the moment. I hope I am able to get though it
I'm not even a filmmaker, I just make stupid short comedy videos on Instagram that make only me laugh, but I've been really enjoying your channel so much after discovering it a few days ago. Your candid, no-bullshit advice is so incredibly refreshing. Most of the other videos I watch about filmmaking are full of jargon and pontificating which just rolls right over me, whereas with your videos I absorb so much. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences and knowledge, looking forward to watching many more of your videos.
“Resolution matters way less than you think” I love that because with technology advancing every year, most creators worry about the next 10k, 12k, etc. Focus on story
This is the most honest video I’ve seen so far that talks about what you can learn and what you go through when you get into real filmmaking. Sir, thank you. Thank you so much for it.
I know nothing about making movies, I'm not an aspiring film maker, I've never thought about film making ever... yet lately these are some of the most entertaining, educational, and just inspiring videos I've seen on RUclips in a long time. Bravo.
I’ve clicked on this video to hear about movie making, and I got pretty great life lessons. This is what you call a great story teller! Thanks for that.
As a n amateur filmmaker on my late 20's dealing with depression and self destructive impulses, this hits on a really personal level, you got me tearing up a bit there. You might be saving someone's life with just a couple honest words, thank you for staying real brother!
Really connected with what he said about depression as it hit me hard after my first cliff dive into zero budget film making. Many months, loads of people, loads of problems and challenges, great experience and then BAM, all over, all finished, me left editing it all and all the energy I had just gone because I was back alone now. Took longer to edit than film and was a really depressing time... but I stuck it out, got it together (over 2 hours first cut then some how down to 90 minutes) and finished. Not the best film but achieved what I set out to do with pretty much nothing, but that depression thing stuck with me and put me off making another for a long time.
I’ve been struggling with depression since separating from the military for the same reasons you described following a film project. It took me a long time to come to terms with what I was feeling and to make the decision to move forward building a new life, and it is indeed a cycle of highs and lows. I wanted to thank you for taking the time to make this, and know how comforting it was for me to hear your candid experience.
I had no clue this channel existed until I got recommended one of your videos. Thank you for the insight you gave. Probably the whole speech about depression was what got me most. Thank you.
Big fan of what you do. Saw the lights out short film like 10 times when it was getting shared everywhere. Congrats on everything so far. Idk if you’ll read this but my mom and I make movies together and started doing short films more this year and did 15 so far. We do everything between us 2 kinda how u and your wife did starting out. Thanks for continuing to post content like this.
From one director to another ... what a great message. Thank you and congratulations. And yes... thank goodness you're around to deliver such an important message.
wow, how down to earth is David. I'm so grateful that you post vids like this. You're a legit huge Hollywood director and you treat us fans so awesomely. I love this channel. Thank you.
I love how he's already directing million dollar box office films and still posts vids from the platform where he started. Keep it up!
i love this dude. Lets kiss him
Parallax Peak such an inspiration for aspiring filmmakers from youtube.
Now I want him more for Shazam 2 ⚡⚡
He’s a rare one let’s not lose him
@@ianob14 AGREED! Love this guy so much!
"...the most depressed I've been was when I was in my twenties... I was single, I was unemployed, I was broke, I was still living at home..."
*me look up from my phone and turn my head towards my mirror and sees me... in my twenties, single, unemployed, broke, and depressed* lol
"...if I would've killed myself back then, I would've missed out on so many big things!... I guess the most important lesson is stick around, because you don't want to miss all the awesome things in your future."
Thanks Mr. Sandberg, been kind of in a hole lately and depressed, but seeing this gave me inspiration again and hope for my future! Can't wait to see your next project, whether on RUclips or the big screen!
You can do it Kyle!
Maybe it will take some time to get better, but life can always get better, whereas death is incredibly final (I mean, I guess it depends on what you believe, but I wouldn't trade the uncertainty of life for the uncertainty of death). I love you, Kyle, keep going
came here for filmmaking tips, but leaving with lessons about life
thank you sir
and for the bonus tutorial
indeed
Such a great guy!
I love how real and uncut he is. Everyone needs a mentor like this.
uncut? I guess we'll never know Tré
not after he made one of the worst box office bombs of all time.
@@purefoldnz3070Every filmmaker even up to the legendary ones have had flops before, film is an art not a business
I wish more directors had down-to-earth RUclips channels. This is great.
Thankfully the director of Longbox Breakup has one
No, nope. I think we can be glad that we already have this one, I want the directors rather to focus on making great movies
I agree, the breakdown helps
Oh hey Houston
I recommend Max Joseph. His videos pop up a lot on RUclips, but I always avoided them because the thumbnails and titles aren't very inviting, but recently I warned his video "DICKS: Do you need to be one to be a successful leader?" and it's one of the best videos I've watched this year
This literally got so deep at the end out of no where. But it felt so warranted and close to home. Thank you man. Thank you for sharing that
yeah very unexpected lol but awesome that hes sharing it, especially from his perspective from filmmaking in hollywood
"A bad ending can ruin everything you've done". Hehe. GOT em.
to the audience is what he was saying
@@HeyIntegrity That's what happened
Or a good ending can elevate a mediocre movie, hello once upon a time in Hollywood.
@@bcbhir the ending of Once Upon a Time... wouldn't have made any sense if the film hadn't built the characters up into the situation. Great movie from start to finish.
How come nobody is noticing your game of thrones joke? Men like u are the ones that will forge the future. Good job, you should be proud.
The ending was so wholesome. Thanks discount Orson Welles!
lmao accurate
Swedish Orson Welles
You have legitimately become one of my fave directors.
Yes he's still so human despite now making it big in the film industry.
Luke Ayers His journey to Hollywood is literally like a Cinderella from rags to riches story
@@plisskenetic Totally
Amen! And this should be played for ALL young people struggling with depression (or any age for that matter)!
Beautiful honesty, thanks bro :)
Hahaha I love the blury animated background tutorial. I know it was partially a joke but it was legit helpful haha
Everyone who wants to be a filmmaker should be watching this channel. The bit about depression is somethingn that is not talked about nearly enough in the industry. Thanks for the excellent advice, David, and thanks for sticking around.
Wannabe filmmakers should watch this channel for sure
Totally unexpected tip, but very real.
@@steprockmedia it may not be as unexpected as you think, i believe its very expected of us humans to feel that way because all of us have aspirations, goals, plans, weekly/daily expectations etc no matter how big or small. So for example, when you set yourself a holiday or vacation for the following year, you will work all year round getting ready for that vacation and not just financially, you will be in anticipation, the vacation will be an escape for you. The depression can come right before you leave(quite rare as you've been waiting for this moment), while on vacation or the most common is when you get home because after we have have gone past that goal we feel very depressed as you as yourself "what now?". It is why we must always set goals for ourselves nomatter how big or small. Man... I should follow my own advice.
Francis Brothers Films *aspiring
@@markregina6178 he doesn't mean the depression is unexpected, he means it's unexpected to hear something like this from someone as established as this.
wow. I'm currently feeling depressed while i'm trying to write some scenarios and feeling shit about them, feeling shit about my job and overall situation, but sir, you give me damn hope.
Keep going. It will, as all things tend to do, pass. You are NOT alone.
idk you but I'm sending u love. hope ur feeling better bro
Everyone is right! Surround yourself with people who strive to create like you! It'll make all of your work seem worth it in the end. Keep going!
"Stick around." - My favorite quote of the day now.
It's even better if you've watched Predator recently.
You’re probably never gonna read it but I’m gonna say it anyways: this video has helped so much I can’t even describe. I guess I’ve watched it at the exact right time. Thanks a lot.
I agree
“I think the most important lesson for me is: Stick Around. Because you don’t want to miss out on all the awesome things in your future.”
Thank you for sticking around. So many of us are grateful that you did.
💕💕💕
Just discovered your channel! LOVE all your insights and your willingness to teach and educate based on your real life experiences! Thank you for being so informative!
I agree ! I learn a lot from his channel ! Have you used many of these lessons in your work ?
Almost cried near the end. I hope you know how much it means to a depressed, single and unemployed guy in his 20s with his head full of dreams.
You’re a great man, David
EDIT: Since I keep getting more comments under this, I might as well give an update. I am no longer unemployed and single and I have been doing much better. Depression comes and goes. I still dream of being a filmmaker and, in fact, I just recently directed a low budget commercial for the new business of a family member. It gets better, and I now believe it can get even better than that. It’s a slow process but joy will always be something worth fighting for.
Hang in there buddy.
mid or late 20s? I just turned 30 and I'm all of them too. You've got time. Just keep at it every day, no distractions.
same story, same story.. it's almost like he is been in my shoes
Just entered my forties and I lost the train long time ago, and I am now locked in a dead end job. You are young, do not give up and listen to David!
@@lew6598 great tips!
This is the best!!! I heard of lights out years ago but I didn't know this guy was so DOWN TO EARTH and real!!! Thanks for sharing important lessons and ending with the most important lesson of all. I subscribed because I need more of this kind of thinking in my life.
The ending of this video makes it better.
Joellperry … EVEN better is what we all meant.
Got so much respect for you.. Wow. Never stop posting videos here!
Yo Andreas!
"bad ending can ruin everything"
And the ending of this video is perfect
And I didn't see it coming. At all.
The ending of a film can literally affect your perception of an entire movie in retrospect
Check, Mate!
Agreed, I'm putting blurry di*k pics behind all of my text now, thanks ponysmasher! ...that's what you meant right?
Game of Thrones season 8 is the best example
Wow I was not expecting that ending, I really needed to hear that. Too much to be a coincidence THANK YOU!
it's funny how film making lessons turned into life lessons and I totally like it and find it really helpful
I find it unique and necessary that as I put stories to scripts, I am so much more attached to the characters and lessons in the story and then after the story is complete.
Hey. Really appreciated this. Thank you for sharing and for being honest. Really admire that.
Respect for this man for being so honest.
Absolutely!!
Your last words just might have saved my friend's life. Thank you.
"A bad ending can undo everything before it" Ha, D&D watch and learn
D&D?
It's 2D now.
Nahh
I mean, GOT got bad a few seasons before the ending.
@@JoseRodriguez-zb9eq negative
David, you might have just saved my life. Thank you.
Most RUclipsrs: *Get a job in the industry and go silent from RUclips
David: Hold my clapperboard
Seriously though, thank you so much for these videos :D
*Ahem* Mysteryguitarman *Ahem*
more like...
*David Holds Clapperboard Himself*
It is true, he went from some animations to short films to directing some of the highest earning movies like Shazam
I watch the end of this video every now and then when I am feeling low, it really helps.
I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts lately, so the ending of this was really good to hear. Thank you.
Hang in there, friend. Much love.
Thank you.
Hey, you're worth it. Remember that.
Hey I know this is probably not good for me to ask this but I’m working on a film about suicide and is it possible I can ask you some questions? I understand if you don’t want to be asked questions, I just want to make this film right, instead of doing it the “Hollywood” way
Hang in there, buddy.
8:40 The Adventures of Tintin. That ending in the mansion is so dull and anticlimatic that you forget how good the movie was.
It's the ending but it's not the climax... its a bit of an epilogue or set up for the sequel. It didn't make me forget about the movie... I loved it!
Dull anticlimactic ending is the original 'get out' ending,
Wow, how did that get so deep so quickly. Love your down-to-earth manner and your way to motivate people without preaching idealism. Thanks a lot for that!
"i guess for me the most important lesson of all is... To stick around"
This just hit me real hard.
This man is proof that being a great artist and a great person are not mutually exclusive.
As a guy in the film industry, suffering from depression, I really appreciate the experience you’ve shared. It made me feel a little more normal :) can relate. Subscribed!
i love that you still humble and you don’t abandon you roots, youtube channel, keep like that. I hope someday you come to México
I usually don't comment but man, I needed to hear that ending portion. Thank you so much dude. I'll be sticking around.
Me: "Oh hey that's cool someone experienced to teach me some great things about film making!"
Video: You're going to be depressed.
Jokes aside I actually learned a lot thank you
I come back to this video every now and then, helps a lot my brother... thank you Sandy F. Swedeberg, love you dude x
"Stick around" I wasnt expecting that in this type of video but I absolutely love that you included that! ❤
Best video I’ve seen in AGES laughing and agreeing from beginning to end. No funny camera angles, no gimmicks just great content delivered with huge authority, a new fan.... thank you so much for making this, Col.
I'm about to graduate film school and you have no idea how much I needed this, specially your last advice "stick around" thank you so much!
Your best advice is - don't ignore the process. In the end of it all, what really matters is what happened all during the production - its called Life. Audiences will forget your 2 hr. product, but you have 2 years of your life to remember.
God I hope he never stops making videos on youtube. He was literally talking from heart.
Depressed, unemployed, in my late 20s doubting every single thing I have done in my life. I can't tell you what your words by the end of this video meant to me. I hope I can one day gather the courage to make my own shorts and write features. Thank you David.
I'm a single male early 20's who just wants a job but injured my back so can't stand up for very long. I hope my life gets better like yours did.
@Nosferatu no that would hurt his back more.
@@YumiSumire nice
@@YumiSumire lmao
This is incredible. I'm a bit dumbfounded that someone who has reached this level of success still shares so much on here. Thank you!
“Stick around ‘cause you’re gonna miss out on everything you have on your future.” The best quote I have heard all year.
I just saw the first edit of a short I have worked on for a year, and I can thank you enough for the comfort this video provided me. Thank you.
lol the blurry green background bit was really cool
That is some down to earth advice. You da man!
The ending was the best. It made everything worth it.
These lessons are so valuable and useful! And the last one is pure gold. The way you feel now, doesn't mean you'll feel that way all the time! Don't let the depression fool you! Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
This part about depression at the end just gave me will to live and create! Thank you!
Again...well said David. "Stick Around". Your humility is a rock to stand on. Nicely done. Thank you.
What a narrator!
I haven't listened anyone with such engagement for a long time.
I'm glad to have reached this.
Sometimes its just about hearing things... things we might know but.. its good to be reminded :)
Thank you for talking about depression. I'm in my final years of my animation degree and it's hit me really hard. I see all my classmates succeeding, whilst I'm happy for them, I'm angry at myself for not trying as hard, for not being brave enough to enter my work into festivals, for not being 'good enough' it's really eating me up at the moment. I hope I am able to get though it
You will get through it. Make art, that's an artist's true responsibility.
I'm not even a filmmaker, I just make stupid short comedy videos on Instagram that make only me laugh, but I've been really enjoying your channel so much after discovering it a few days ago. Your candid, no-bullshit advice is so incredibly refreshing. Most of the other videos I watch about filmmaking are full of jargon and pontificating which just rolls right over me, whereas with your videos I absorb so much. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences and knowledge, looking forward to watching many more of your videos.
“Resolution matters way less than you think” I love that because with technology advancing every year, most creators worry about the next 10k, 12k, etc. Focus on story
Yes 100%
They really don't though. Many movies end up using a 2k di that are upscaled to 4k.
@@HeyIntegrity I think the comment is more based on people who are trying to get to the hollywood level.
This is the most honest video I’ve seen so far that talks about what you can learn and what you go through when you get into real filmmaking. Sir, thank you. Thank you so much for it.
I know nothing about making movies, I'm not an aspiring film maker, I've never thought about film making ever... yet lately these are some of the most entertaining, educational, and just inspiring videos I've seen on RUclips in a long time. Bravo.
You're helping so many people. It's great to see that you still upload. Thank you for that!
Came for the filmmaking tips, subbed for the life lessons. Great video man, appreciate you sharing your thoughts.
Man the way you talked about the ending made me emotional. We love you Mr Sandberg.
You have no idea how much this video helped me ... I'm in my early 20s and depressed as hell ... Thank you for this.
"Stick around" I love it! thanks for this!
That was really insightful, invaluable tips and to see you post here inspires alot, Mr. David... Love you!!!
This video just came in the right time. and definitely hit a spot. Thank you
So generous of your spirit to keep educating people, thank you!
I’ve clicked on this video to hear about movie making, and I got pretty great life lessons.
This is what you call a great story teller!
Thanks for that.
This video is just amazing.
For reall! Are you into filmmaking ?
As a n amateur filmmaker on my late 20's dealing with depression and self destructive impulses, this hits on a really personal level, you got me tearing up a bit there.
You might be saving someone's life with just a couple honest words, thank you for staying real brother!
I still love how you're doing RUclips. One of my favourite youtubers. Been here since 2015, and haven't regretted subbing since.
so awesome to see one of “us” that has “made it”. Thanks for coming back and sharing all this knowledge with us
Really connected with what he said about depression as it hit me hard after my first cliff dive into zero budget film making. Many months, loads of people, loads of problems and challenges, great experience and then BAM, all over, all finished, me left editing it all and all the energy I had just gone because I was back alone now. Took longer to edit than film and was a really depressing time... but I stuck it out, got it together (over 2 hours first cut then some how down to 90 minutes) and finished. Not the best film but achieved what I set out to do with pretty much nothing, but that depression thing stuck with me and put me off making another for a long time.
What a brilliant bucket of goodness! Practical answers and a life hack to boot!
I felt like you were speaking directly to me in that last part. Thank you.
This was beautifully candid. No ego, just honesty. Thank you.
I loved your lesson at the end. Im definitely going to stick around.
Just found this channel, really loving it. Mike and Jay gave it a great recommend.
Love you bud. Thanks for uploading these vids.
Bravo. One of the most honest and inspiring videos from a film maker I’ve ever seen.
I’ve been struggling with depression since separating from the military for the same reasons you described following a film project. It took me a long time to come to terms with what I was feeling and to make the decision to move forward building a new life, and it is indeed a cycle of highs and lows. I wanted to thank you for taking the time to make this, and know how comforting it was for me to hear your candid experience.
That Bonus Tutorial with that photo just blew me away! Had a great connection to what you said before...
Your ending to this video was phenomenal. Your ratings are now bursting thru the roof!
Just now discovering this channel. It's so valuable. Thank you for putting these videos out. Hugely appreciated.
Thanks for these tips David, really appreciate you taking the time to help us small fish out.
If you need a PA just lemme know :)
I had no clue this channel existed until I got recommended one of your videos. Thank you for the insight you gave. Probably the whole speech about depression was what got me most. Thank you.
Thank you for making these inspiring videos und especially for being this honest.
I love how he was so open in the last part of the video, it actually means a lot to people in similar conditions !
lovely message to end on bro, much love from Botswana
Thank you Dave. I've never heard anyone speak to the depression pain point in film like you just did. 9:46 onward is gold.
Big fan of what you do. Saw the lights out short film like 10 times when it was getting shared everywhere. Congrats on everything so far.
Idk if you’ll read this but my mom and I make movies together and started doing short films more this year and did 15 so far. We do everything between us 2 kinda how u and your wife did starting out.
Thanks for continuing to post content like this.
From one director to another ... what a great message. Thank you and congratulations. And yes... thank goodness you're around to deliver such an important message.
Depression is Inevitable - That's the most universal lesson of all time
wow, how down to earth is David. I'm so grateful that you post vids like this. You're a legit huge Hollywood director and you treat us fans so awesomely. I love this channel. Thank you.
I love the “depression” part! Exactly how I feel every time. But this is funny how I love those depression moments! It’s addictive!
That last line made me emotional. Thank you for your words and advise.