I Found Suspicious Texts On My Wife's Phone After She Suggested We Open Our Marriage r/Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

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  • @sciencenerd8428
    @sciencenerd8428 2 дня назад +122

    Story 1: This guy is in this relationship all by himself and doesn't realize it.

    • @Bearwoods02
      @Bearwoods02 2 дня назад +3

      I’m a Scottish female and can 100% agree with you 😢

    • @One.DeSanctis.
      @One.DeSanctis. 2 дня назад +11

      OP shouldn't have to "read the cues," to understand his wife's needs. They do not communicate well, at all.

    • @Imahappygirl25
      @Imahappygirl25 2 дня назад +4

      Been there done that 😢

    • @rosiecheeks.k
      @rosiecheeks.k День назад

      Absolutely 💯

  • @mikef2811
    @mikef2811 2 дня назад +84

    Cheaters are the ones who are always angry when their spouse checks their phones..LOL

  • @nmarrero357
    @nmarrero357 2 дня назад +40

    Nah, those sounds are the sound of the first OP's relationship imploding

  • @Masenken
    @Masenken 2 дня назад +24

    Divorce. She has a secret friend this entire time and then gets mad when he finds out about it and feels some type of way. Toss her right out the door. She's for the streets

  • @KadeStringer2.0
    @KadeStringer2.0 2 дня назад +53

    Op don’t waste your time going through her phone and just get a divorce

    • @whitneybennett4857
      @whitneybennett4857 2 дня назад +5

      At this point that's literally all he can do. She doesn't want counseling, she's not apologizing, she's not showing any remorse whatsoever, and she's still putting the blame on him for whatever form of relationship she's had with this guy. I know divorce is a very difficult thing to go through, as is accepting it's the end of your marriage. But geez, sooner or later this chump's going to have to face facts. This is no longer a marriage, regardless of whether or not she's actually having an affair.

    • @johnbradbury8610
      @johnbradbury8610 День назад

      Yeah, even counseling is a waste of time at this point. She has no respect for him

  • @Pintosonic
    @Pintosonic 2 дня назад +19

    Story 1: This guy needs to hire a PI to have the truth. For some reason he doesn’t want to believe he’s being cheated on.

    • @Goliath_mindset
      @Goliath_mindset День назад +2

      It also doesnt help that most the replies hes getting is to "communicate" and try to work with her more when its pretty clear to the average human (read: not some of the special types that flock to reddit) that the relationship is over. It doesnt help when someone seeking advice is gaslit to disbelieve themselves.

  • @GLoLChibs
    @GLoLChibs 2 дня назад +25

    S1- Maybe his wife should've tried direct communication? Wanting something but expecting someone to 'read the signs' is always a recipe for disaster.

  • @ZombieSazza
    @ZombieSazza 2 дня назад +13

    Second story: discovering your sexuality isn’t an excuse to cheat, and it’s certainly not a weapon to be wielded against your partner. She lied, cheated, wants an “open relationship” where only she can sleep around but not OP, refuses to communicate, is blaming OP… honestly if that were me? I’d be leaving, she already cheated, there’s no guarantee she won’t cheat again…
    Oh look at that, a text saying “I’m so sorry” the morning after she left, hmm, that’s sus. Can’t trust her, also can’t trust his “friend” who covered up the cheating, I’d be getting rid of them all from my life.

    • @anthonygilmour6236
      @anthonygilmour6236 43 минуты назад

      If this is the same story I'm thinking about this story has multiple updates let's just say calling his ex a clusterf*ck of poor decisions is an understatement.

  • @EluneAnzu
    @EluneAnzu 2 дня назад +26

    Story 1: Hoping the next update is that OP realized the relationship is over and they're getting a divorce because it definitely sounds like his wife is only sticking around for the "stability" and doesn't like him anymore, it's just that he's the stable option. But yeah, they definitely need to get a divorce, *especially* before this toxic relationship is normalized for their kids.

    • @johnbradbury8610
      @johnbradbury8610 День назад

      Doubt it, Op is a simp. He is willing to accept anything she tells him. Even if he caught her in their bed he would take her back

    • @johnbradbury8610
      @johnbradbury8610 8 часов назад +1

      Doubt it, OP us a simp

  • @WereDictionary
    @WereDictionary 2 дня назад +33

    At this point, "opening up the marriage/relation to save it" just translates directly into "they have someone else lined up and want to rail them without you being able to get mad over it" in my head.

    • @dayd6383
      @dayd6383 2 дня назад +4

      It’s not just in your head. It’s reality. It’s always a red flag.

  • @KE-hr4sb
    @KE-hr4sb 2 дня назад +7

    Gaslighting has more definitions than the mob claims. "Making you doubt yourself" is one of them, and it's absolutely what she's doing.

  • @loganjoh1
    @loganjoh1 День назад +3

    Story 1: “hopefully learn to trust again” OP you are too trusting

  • @NinaHutchinson-fk8cc
    @NinaHutchinson-fk8cc 2 дня назад +15

    Damn, immediately getting rickrolled

  • @MimosaRose
    @MimosaRose День назад +3

    S1- Open marriage request= marriage death knell.

  • @rinpaisys
    @rinpaisys 2 дня назад +5

    S1: doesn’t really speak well to someone’s character when they hear your wedding to them is postponed due to issues and all automatically jump to speculating the reason is that they are cheating on you. It says the people who know them either know them to be a cheat or at least see them as someone who very likely would. Nobody assumes OP was the issue. They all jumped to the fiancee cheating immediately in the speculation with no other context beyond “wedding postponed due to issues”.

  • @muhname6052
    @muhname6052 2 дня назад +8

    S3: can't help notice that all the things that were broken were OP's

  • @rachaeldumas7432
    @rachaeldumas7432 2 дня назад +11

    I'm lovin' the Ricky, new intro! Hilarious!

    • @juliearmfield2634
      @juliearmfield2634 День назад +1

      Oh it takes me back to when i was young and perky.
      I miss those days. 😢

  • @ZombieSazza
    @ZombieSazza 2 дня назад +4

    Story 3: GOD BLESS NATALIA! Everyone needs someone like Natalia in their lives, I’m so glad OP managed to escape. I cannot believe the amount of destruction Steve created because he couldn’t abuse another woman, and endangered her pets. I’m so glad they’ve added new notes to protect future women.
    What a horrible situation all around, but I’m so glad OP escaped before that level of violence was inflicted on her.

  • @whitneybennett4857
    @whitneybennett4857 2 дня назад +6

    And, of course, started in right away with one of the most cliche excuses: "Boo-hoo, you weren't giving me enough attention!"
    Well, then, you act like an adult. You have an honest conversation with your partner, seek counseling, or leave. You don't sneak around.
    Edit: And doesn't the idea for an open relationship/marriage always seem to come from the "horny" partner's friends and not from them wanting to get down and dirty with a certain person?

  • @boneymeroney2674
    @boneymeroney2674 2 дня назад +6

    Demolition in the background is awesome. 😂

  • @ZombieSazza
    @ZombieSazza 2 дня назад +3

    Honestly OP just get a divorce, she doesn’t respect you, she’s lying to you, she literally refuses to stop talking to her “friend” despite her husband begging her to stop destroying their marriage, she’s manipulating him, she’s gaslighting him… brother needs to LEAVE, he’s in a marriage by himself at this point. She’s just constantly angry, blaming OP, refused to actually work on their marriage and destroying her own marriage whilst acting like the victim.
    Just LEAVE OP! Ask yourself “can I see myself living like this for the rest of my life? Can I live the rest of my life being disrespected, unloved, not able to trust my wife, and miserably unhappy until the end of my days?” because that’s what’s gunna happen!
    Also yes, we can hear Connor constantly trying to break in to rescue you LMAO

    • @teniosiyemi1081
      @teniosiyemi1081 День назад

      Can't blame her for not respecting him to be honest. How can you respect someone that clearly doesn't respect himself. She has shown where she stands, but he keeps crawling back

    • @teniosiyemi1081
      @teniosiyemi1081 День назад

      Can't blame her for not respecting him to be honest. How can you respect someone that clearly doesn't respect himself. She has shown where she stands, but he keeps crawling back

  • @muhname6052
    @muhname6052 2 дня назад +3

    S2: id put money that she cheated when she went to her friends for the weekend

  • @BambixLynn
    @BambixLynn 2 дня назад +3

    Getting Rick roll’d in 2024 was not on my bingo card….

  • @DomSte128
    @DomSte128 2 дня назад +13

    Story 1: no wonder his wife is cheating on him. This dude has no spine at all. He's so weak and his wife knows it, she has no respect for him and knows he doesn't have the courage to leave her.

  • @luckylass5444
    @luckylass5444 2 дня назад +6

    Story 1: guy is a dolt

  • @Munthegun
    @Munthegun 2 дня назад +5

    Story 1: This dude is such a push over and doormat. And that’s me putting it nicely because I don’t want RUclips to block my comment. What a tool.

  • @skyelindsey687
    @skyelindsey687 День назад +2

    If she wasn’t doing anything then she wouldn’t have changed her passcode so he couldn’t see what she was doing. It’s actually not toxic to have each others passcode for the phone. She 100% is cheating.

  • @darkmask5933
    @darkmask5933 День назад +1

    Story 2 had another update that Markee missed; OP went to counseling but it was a couples counselor that his fiancé picked who was 'very' LGBT+ friendly. Basically, OP realized how big a mistake it was because the counselor started shaming OP for not allowing fiancé explore her sexuality and he was being unfair, at that point OP mentally checked out until the counselor realized it and tried to get OP to re-engage and OP refused. Not only that, but fiancé was caught texting some mysterious number in the same state as the girl she cheated with at the wedding. All this combined and OP finally broke it off with his fiancé, which she was very upset about.

    • @morphinpink
      @morphinpink День назад +1

      Ironically, it's actually super gross to encourage "experimenting" like?? Sapphic women aren't sex toys to experiment with while you have a man on standby for marriage.

  • @tinygabriel9760
    @tinygabriel9760 2 дня назад +2

    Clues your partner doesn't care or respects you is story 1 wow... he confronts her and what does she do change her phone password and threatens to restart contact with a man she knows is flirting with her ( gosh knows what else)

  • @loganjoh1
    @loganjoh1 День назад +2

    Story 1: OP is a doormat no wonder she was cheating on him

  • @stellamccoy5259
    @stellamccoy5259 День назад +1

    So, what did the wife do to help with the situation? It sounds like she kept all her feelings inside rather than discuss it with OP. I knew my husband for 10 weeks before we got married. We never hid anything from each other as afar as electronics are concerned. He could get into all my accounts as I could get into his.

  • @flaminhotyoshi7403
    @flaminhotyoshi7403 2 дня назад +1

    I couldn’t get over the noise outside Markee’s window 🤣It really did sound like a warzone, lol!

  • @PlasticBluVentRabbit
    @PlasticBluVentRabbit 2 дня назад +3

    Ain’t no way i JUST CLICKED TO GET RICK’D

  • @AloraGames
    @AloraGames 21 час назад

    Loved this recording of your live show. But I jumped with every “BOOM” from outside! 😅

  • @M_IAWIA
    @M_IAWIA День назад

    Story one: the communication issues reminded me of a story from my boss and his divorce. He often asked his wife to sit down and grab a coffee, and she declined. Only after the divorce did they realise he asked because that was his way of inviting to a talk, while she declined as she thought it was only about coffee and she didn't want coffee. So they both ended up thinking the other party never wanted to talk.

  • @Jasonfallen71
    @Jasonfallen71 День назад

    At first I thought Markee added the sound effects of an explosion 😂
    Then it kept. Friggin. Happnin
    Hysterical. He owns a recording booth. Loved the silly line about it being Conner busting in 😂😂😂

  • @immortalsofar5314
    @immortalsofar5314 День назад

    Every open relationship I've been in, I ended when the "my case is different because reasons" came up. Then, the last one, I went first and then got told, several years later, that now it was her turn the rules had changed. I give up.

  • @Bearwoods02
    @Bearwoods02 2 дня назад +1

    56:00 last Story : I’m so glad I can hear a full update!! 😢🎉
    Thank the lords you saved your babies 🦎 🐍 🐸🥰

  • @FreijaVanir
    @FreijaVanir День назад

    Forget the story, his reactions to the demolition noises is the best part.

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 День назад +1

    25:40 so she wants to have her cake and eat it too? OP said let’s call things off so she can explore and she said no to calling things off, but still wants to explore! It’s unfair of her to want to try and have things both ways.
    And then later she’s mad at the idea of OP also participating in an open relationship? This is just all types of selfish!

  • @paulinadeboer3604
    @paulinadeboer3604 День назад +1

    Everyone she could cheat him so leave. Wife is abusive LEAVE NOW.. silent treatment, belitle him aggression...

  • @owenfautley
    @owenfautley День назад

    The 3rd story reminds me if an image where a guy stuck a note to the underside of a toilet seat warning the bf that he unknowingly participated in his gf cheating on him but was disgusted after finding out.

  • @Keita999
    @Keita999 2 дня назад +1

    Cant believe i got rick rolled by you while driving lol

  • @zafarsyed6437
    @zafarsyed6437 День назад +2

    Did Markee temporarily move to Lebanon or something?

  • @EternaMidnight
    @EternaMidnight День назад

    Lol wife's basically like "Sorry I got caught. Would do it again."

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink День назад

    Your hair looks so nice Markee. Thank you for the video.

  • @scruffylookingNerfherder5742
    @scruffylookingNerfherder5742 2 дня назад +1

    Markee is secretly broadcasting from Ukraine!

  • @joeyjojojrshabadoo7462
    @joeyjojojrshabadoo7462 20 часов назад

    Op in story 2 sound like older and wiser version of Op story 1. He’s gonna be a supportive partner but he is nobody’s fool.

  • @dawnacarabajal9817
    @dawnacarabajal9817 2 дня назад

    Markie you are looking great! Looks like you are working out. Whatever you are doing, keep it up!

  • @kipdiggs1827
    @kipdiggs1827 3 часа назад

    She can be friends with who she wants. He can have boundaries and be married to who he wants.

  • @jazzamethyst8225
    @jazzamethyst8225 День назад

    Took the quiz based on my current relationship and my previous one. Current relationship scored 1 and that's because he does question rather than encourage different changes I'd like to make. He's not discouraging but wants to know what motivates the change and if I've considered possible drawbacks (Not a bad thing in my mind since I tend to be idealistic or overly optimistic without considering logistics) My previous relationship scored 66 which kinda surprised me but not completely. Spent 3 years together and the first 2 years things were quite good, but the last year was hell. It genuinely felt like a switch flipped and I was scared for my safety more so after the break up since he had various friends stalking my whereabouts along with refusing to leave my home, etc.
    Current relationship is almost at the 2 yr mark. Any behaviors I found concerning or hurtful he rectified and apologized along with stating his plan on how he'll prevent or work on not repeating those things. And I've done the same. We'll see how the next few years go though. Fingers crossed 😮‍💨

  • @angeliqueSeidlitz2388
    @angeliqueSeidlitz2388 2 дня назад

    Markee!!! You always make me laugh and smile. When I have a bad day I think on your reactions to stories lol

  • @radish6740
    @radish6740 День назад +2

    The comment blaming Op for his wife’s whoring around was absurd. Definitely from a cheating pos.

  • @angeliqueSeidlitz2388
    @angeliqueSeidlitz2388 2 дня назад +2

    Haha I'm not even mad about being rolled

  • @melaniecocchiola1303
    @melaniecocchiola1303 2 дня назад

    Your live videos are the best!

  • @saber5408
    @saber5408 2 дня назад

    XD the editing is great

  • @kurotsuki7427
    @kurotsuki7427 День назад

    Unfortunately as someone who has had the mold thing happen multiple times. Depression and other mental health problems. Im working on it and have been doing better but if you find yourself having to clean mold from your kitchen take it as a reminder to check if your doing ok. Are you over worked? Burned out? Is the depression getting worse? Your adhd meds or coping skills still working?
    Physical things like this can be a sign somethings slipping. But you can do something about it, even if it takes time.

  • @Jasonfallen71
    @Jasonfallen71 День назад

    Markee just glossed over “… he took good care of his lizard….” but liked the “…snake got loose….”
    I’m starting to get more complete picture of our guy, his complexities and 💩
    😉

  • @Bleg94
    @Bleg94 16 часов назад

    1. Story:
    so OP was successfully gaslighted by his cheating wife into believing nothing did happen? pathetic
    he already got more than enough proof for her infidelity / planned infidelity and still forgives her?
    this OP wouldn't be 100% sure about her cheating after catching her in the act with her telling him "it's not what it looks like"
    at this point he is basically giving consent to her cheating and deserves all she does ...

  • @mbyerly9680
    @mbyerly9680 2 дня назад

    I dealt with large dynamite explosions for several weeks when the city decided it wanted to run sewer and water lines along my property line through a field of large boulders. Highly not recommended.

  • @Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets
    @Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets 23 часа назад +1

    *does a bunch of crap that annihilates trust in a relationship*
    "WOW! How can you not trust me?!"
    *trigger warnings*
    *that ridiculous user flair*
    damn, I really hate a lot of reddit.

  • @littlegreycat
    @littlegreycat День назад

    Opening the marriage only works for very sexually adventurous people that BOTH feel the same way.

  • @Adrienne-i1m
    @Adrienne-i1m День назад

    Please don't take this as creepy but I LOVE watching u at your snarky best!
    Don't ever stop being Snarky, Markee !!!🤙🤪😁

  • @littlegreycat
    @littlegreycat День назад

    27:49 she wanted a safe harbor and for him to wait for her. She didn't want to let him have any freedom

  • @user-meepmoop
    @user-meepmoop День назад

    Did I actually just get rickrolled😂😂😂

  • @littlegreycat
    @littlegreycat День назад

    45:22 the big red flag was not letting her sleep until she "let it go"

  • @AvyFerg
    @AvyFerg День назад

    She asked to open the marriage because she's not getting her needs met but is comfortable with OP. I'm just saying, either fix the problem or move on find someone else to be happy with.

  • @VictorLiso
    @VictorLiso 2 дня назад +2

    Did anyone discover what a Ricky situation is

  • @CarlosBristol1663
    @CarlosBristol1663 2 дня назад

    Story 1: While I do believe the wife might be cheating, I also feel that the husband demonstrates a serious lack of self-awareness. Let’s be honest-missing clear signals from one’s spouse, particularly around intimacy and emotional connection, is concerning, regardless of how long they’ve been married. It’s a fundamental part of any relationship to remain attuned to one another’s needs and cues, especially in a marriage that requires ongoing effort to stay strong. That said, it also seems that the wife may have mentally checked out, possibly feeling unfulfilled or frustrated with the lack of assertiveness on his part. In a way, her behavior could be a push for him to stand up for himself(he seems like a wuss tbh) perhaps to demand transparency, set boundaries, or ultimately make the tough decision to end the relationship. It’s as if she’s giving him the option to either reclaim his sense of self and take charge or recognize that it might be time to walk away entirely but no matter how we look at it, she does not want to be with the current man op is and has zero respect for him nether does she take him seriously.

  • @anotherone1532
    @anotherone1532 2 дня назад

    Bro Connor’s at the door 😂😂😂

  • @Old_Toby
    @Old_Toby День назад

    He's just a friend.

  • @loganjoh1
    @loganjoh1 День назад

    Story 1: “I shouldn’t have looked in her phone” why not? Seriously why not? As long as you don’t make a habit of checking her phone if you check one time who cares? Her the one who is at the minimum entertaining this dude?

  • @picklerick5116
    @picklerick5116 День назад

    I went through my husband's phone a few nights ago. I found that he was looking at tiktok hoes. He's currently got no access to his phone. I'm pregnant and we have two little ones. I'm not leaving, and this isn't the worst kind of betrayal he could've done. I just cry a lot and I can't look at my own reflection anymore. I've always been against this kind of crap but I've always been cool with normal adult videos so I really don't understand it. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't understand sticking around for bullshit. So yea..

  • @Buff_Helpy
    @Buff_Helpy 2 дня назад

    Ignore the noises buff helpy is just working on a project

  • @littlegreycat
    @littlegreycat День назад

    I have 7 year old twins . It's no biggie for the noise

  • @littlegreycat
    @littlegreycat День назад

    6:20 she was already working on an emotional affair at the very least. Meeting her family? Completely sus.

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 День назад

    18:20 that….that’s not how that works!

  • @JohnJackson-e9z
    @JohnJackson-e9z День назад

    Story 1: She is at the very least having an emotional affair with a guy who has openly told her he wants to have sex with her.

  • @TravelingJinx
    @TravelingJinx День назад

    “Ended contact for you” ummm you should’ve ended contact immediately when you found out he had feeling for you??

  • @PlasticBluVentRabbit
    @PlasticBluVentRabbit 2 дня назад

    Markee’s recording in the fuckin’ WW1 trenches or something, AND THIS DUDE IS NOT GETTING THE POINT THAT HIS RELATIONSHIP HAS BECOME EXTREMELY ONE SIDED AND HE NEEDS TO GET OUT

  • @DanniellekyleFenton-Johnston
    @DanniellekyleFenton-Johnston День назад

    It sounds like construction

  • @becauselifts9913
    @becauselifts9913 День назад

    Aw man, I missed a live stream?

  • @johnbradbury8610
    @johnbradbury8610 День назад

    Markee, are you drinking?

  • @aimee1177
    @aimee1177 2 дня назад

    Dude, are you in a war zone?

  • @listenquitely2888
    @listenquitely2888 День назад

    S1: Op is a chump.

  • @suzismith9011
    @suzismith9011 День назад

    Hi all 🐱🐱👋👋

  • @williamschmidt675
    @williamschmidt675 День назад

    The construction noise is a metaphor for the demolition of these relationships!

  • @DHB373
    @DHB373 2 дня назад

    Thats Ricked up…

  • @IzudeDarkwolf
    @IzudeDarkwolf 2 дня назад +1

    If you're not placing the boundaries on attention, you're not loyal, whether or not you have cheated is fairly irrelevant as 99% of the time your just gaslighting yourself to think what your actions are, is not immoral betrayal.

  • @Akemi.24-45
    @Akemi.24-45 2 дня назад

    おはよ〜、マーキー!♥️🤗

  • @MeTeaOakRStNR
    @MeTeaOakRStNR 2 дня назад

    63 💚

  • @AvyFerg
    @AvyFerg День назад

    10:20 My ex-husband was CONSTANTLY expecting me to cheat and I have said the same thing. That shit is annoying if you're not a cheater. If OP's wife really did nothing other than enjoy concerts, and she walked away from someone she KNOWS she can get with for him, OP needs to get over it.
    A starved dog is gonna look for food or attack when you're waving a steak in front of its face. That's why she's pissed at him. "You won't do XYZ and are mad someone else wants to."
    OP needs to be her concert buddy. I actually feel bad for the wife. She's COULD be happy but is choosing to settle. He's already admitted he's boring AF and barely gives affection or sex. She's 100% there for the kids. I know so many people doing the same thing.

  • @crystalweible152
    @crystalweible152 День назад

    We NEED to normalize unlimited phone access between partners. I can go into my husband's phone whenever. He uses mine as well. No biggy.

  • @drrobinf.a.2942
    @drrobinf.a.2942 День назад

    Regular listener here. Would you PLEASE stop interrupting yourself to comment & laugh at sounds of demolition. It's irritating. Be professional and just stay focused and calm, and keep going with the story.