If you check out my older stuff, I've done live classes that were up to 2-2.5 hours long. It's just a skill bro, your attention is trainable, your focus is trainable. All you have to do is work towards it. Thanks for the comment bro!! (P.S This video had breaks in between, as I'm continuously trying to recollect my thoughts and taking glances at my cheat sheet (which has points that I need to cover per topic) to make sure I don't go off topic and waste your time)
It was a great and informative video❤, people have a short attention span, considering putting shorts from this video, it will reach to the target audience.
Thank you so much for the comment, I have made shorts, but right now am not posting as my target audience is people, who would watch longer videos!! have a great day tripti
I'm sure this video is helpful i clicked it seeing how this guy talking on one topic for an hour then I realised the actual topic is about it. Keep going brother I'm your new subscriber ✌️
Move on, you're not going to have a meaningful conversation with everyone. Someone may just not be in the mood, see that they seem uninterested, and move on.
Can you suggest topics which teenagers and college students are usually or always interested in talking about ? Asking because they hardly talk about stuff we read in books or shown in documentaries. 😶
I'll give you a general rule of thumb, you do this, you'll stand out from everyone on college. Ask people about themselves, ask questions that will make people think, and then give a big ass answer, your goal isn't to add anything to the conversation, just to keep listening to them. That's how you'll be the most liked as well btw, girls love guys that listen. Ex- "Hey, you seem a really happy/quiet today, I hope everything is alright?" or "Hey, I noticed you're really good at ____ , how'd you get so good?" . Thank me later....
I am a stutter. This is the barrier refining me from human interections. It downgrade my confidence so much that it can be evident how I look and act. Any tips?
I know another brother who's a stutter, I'm going to tell you exactly what I told him bro. First of all, I'm not a psychologist, I don't stutter and I don't personally know anyone who stutters, so I'm not an expert by any means. But I can relate to not being confident enough, I've basic level understanding of stutters, and I think there's a trigger that cues the stutter, so basically it's a fear that leads to you stuttering, naturally a person would avoid such interactions or such scenarios. But being a high value man, it's important that you seek out situations like these that make you stutter, go up to a person and just say one sentence, speak to 2-3 strangers a day. If you stutter, try again tomorrow, you're not going to see a stranger twice in your life bro. So, just relax, also? Just to be clear, if I or anyone that I've ever known, comes across a person who stutters but is respectful and has good manners, is dressed well and looks well, it wouldn't even matter to me, perhaps I wouldn't even notice. Additionally there are loads of speech coaches online, there must be some courses to help with your stutter, or at least your confidence. Don't make it a disability, work towards it, I believe in you. Take action, here's your actionable step: Speak to 2 girls a day. I'm sure talking to girls is terrifying to you, but it won't go away unless you act, so do this. Hope this helps bro! Cheers!
The sacrifices that you made in the process of improving yourself will it be worth it at the end ? I mean to say that isn’t life all about having genuine relationships,doing things we love that makes us happy I’m not against self improvement but will it be worth it at the end ? What’s your thought on this By the way got many insights from your video Keep growing bro 🙌
Really happy that someone took action. Very interesting question btw..... So, my experience is that, this? is the happiest I've ever been in my life, and I live with the a very simple code: Keep it simple stupid (or KISS). I don't like thinking about stuff that's not going to help my progress, whatever hinders my progress, or whatever causes me to doubt myself is poison to me. If drinking "might" cause me to get addicted, and will ruin my consistency, and make me a degenerate man, it's simply poison to me. Sacrificing on relationships, not building good long lasting friendships, if that's what normal people consider to be life? I wanna be more than that, and for that I'm willing to sacrifice forever. I can always have fun when I've achieved my goals. I'm going to have more money than my friends in the next 5-10 year period, because of my sacrifice. It's simply delaying gratification. Now to simply answer your question, if I were to die tomorrow, I'm going to be happy, satisfied and proud, because I was doing what I believed god put me on this planet to do, my parents are going to have nice things to say about me, hopefully they'll hear great things about me from you guys. I want to make a difference in the world, and that requires you to be more than the common man. So, yeah I think it's worth it, I could be wrong, but I'm willing to roll the dice! Hope this answers your question!
Bro, that almost made me giggle. It's weird how you know you act a certain way, don't like it, and still continue to do it. The problem is not that you're being needy, the problem is that initially you're all sophisticated with the chick, and then you act like your real self and she doesn't like you anymore. I'm sure this needy this is something a chick has told you as well. I'm gonna be honest, acting "needy" is quite pathetic, but I'm sure you're not actually acting needy as in, you're not begging them to talk to you, and you're not begging them to have sex with you, I'm sure it's relatively normal behavior. The problem is that the internet tells you to act a certain way to woo a girl, and you do that, you're mysterious and you're charming and you're likeable, but that's not really you. Instead of pretending to be someone and something else, work on yourself and be a better man, so that there is no pretense involved. Hope this helps bro!!
@@akshathsharma really appreciate your words akshath , you are so young and have sucha a good knowledge, books or the relationship in ur past has thought you stuffs , because I learn many things from my relationship
The biggest challenge I had was being forced to talk to people in a social setting ("networking") with someone who you're not genuinely interested in or find interesting to talk to that you now have to pretend to be interested when you're clearly not in order to be rude and disrespectful (people pleasing?). Though I mastered this art through various interaction (corporate and college does this to you) with fellow peeps. Have you faced this before?
The sole reason why I dropped out of college and why I refuse to work a job is so I don't have to do things that seem pointless to me, being uncomfortable is a daily routine, if it forces growth, it's welcome in my world. But "networking" seems pointless, at least when you're in the corporate world. I don't blame you bro, I'm glad you learned something out of it though. I would recommend you get out of this situation, and grow on your own. Have a great day!
You must know someone who has a good sense of humor, be his friend, think "what would he say in this scenario" ,learn by doing, you'll be bad a couple of times, but you'll learn
Talk to more girls in class bro. There is no other way to stop being afraid, talk to your friends who are girls, slowly start getting in the circle of girls who you wanna talk to, and then use the strategies I've told you about in the guide. You can't karate kid this shit, you get comfortable by doing it so much that you're bored.
Hey bro, that's a good question. My personal opinion is that, for most men, cold approach is not the way to go, quite honestly. Because you generally don't wanna go for a girl that would give her number to a random stranger. In my experience, as I've done cold approach, and meaningful relationships through slowly taking flirty friendships to relationships. The quality of the relationships are not even comparable, the conversations, the love, the sex, the time spent, etc... everything is higher in quality when you actually know the person a lot before considering relationships. I'll give you a bonus tip: There were actual times when women approached me, instead of the other way around, obviously not directly I wouldn't have dated them that way, but the prettiest girls in school were attracted to me, and that's because I was on self improvement, and was probably the only guy in school, who looked good, had a good physique, didn't have a shit personality and didn't fail every test. I've grown a lot since then, and right now, I'm not at all approaching women. I want you to be very careful with what kind of woman you let into your life, because she can either help you ton, or ruin your years of progress. If you're young like me, and have had enough experience with girls like me, I'd advise you stay away from them and work on yourself, if you're in a setting where you're exposed to girls frequently, you'll be getting signals. Hope this helps!!
@@akshathsharma When I am in a setting where I meet women - college - the kind of women I meet are not the ones I wanna end up in a relationship with. These women are not "my type" and I wasn't attracted to any of the ones that I talked to. And I am not into partying/clubbing or finding women on dating apps. Where do I find good women then? (I get it that I should focus on myself and that I am doing but seeing all my friends in relationships makes me a little jealous 😭. I asked the question in the first place because I see some very pretty women during my daily travel but I don't go up to them)
See bro, self improvement and dating although are not mutually exclusive, I mainly only talk about self improvement, and not about "how to get girls" because i don't really believe in that myself. I think the path to greatness is better treaded alone. So, because it's against what i believe in, I won't give you advise on how to get more girls. Because your problem is not that you can't find girls. It's jealously, if you feel jealous of your friends, firstly you're not a high value man, and secondly, you should aim to fix this deep rooted problem, because once you do find a girl, then you're gonna be jealous that she's not as pretty as your friend's girlfriend, etc...etc...etc... So I would encourage you to work towards fixing this problem, as grass always will look greener on the other side, I assure you, if you really talk to them, their relationships are not all rainbows and unicorns. It takes great efforts to maintain a relationship. If you truly believe that I am in any way more wise than you, take this advise. If you think I'm just a dumbass on the internet, well, you're right. I hope this gives you something to think about. My goal is to help you, not to offend you btw Cheers!!
Bro im 16 and im from west bengal... I wanted to address you my experience and the issue i faced because i lacked communication... So one year ago when i changed my school, i was the centre of attraction and every other girl was keen to talk to me... Like the most beautiful girls in the whole school as well... But i was too arrogant to talk to so i ignored and whenever i saw any girl classmate at the bus stop or some place like that I don't even bother to say hi aur hello... (Basically i fked up every communication) And all this happened when i was an athlete and i was on proper self improvement (just like you mentioned, i also scored good in all the exams)... But one year later now, no one gives a shit , hardly talk with the girls of the class , haven't made significant connection, did have a relationship but she left to another town... So my question is despite having self improvement can you still fk up because of communication skills ?.. how do i fix this ?..
Bro, communication is a major part of self improvement. I avoid social settings because I'm in a deeply focused period of my life, when I want to make the most progress, so I'm avoiding any and all distractions. But, as a kid you need to be social as fuck, your community and your circle is your entire life, you spend more time in school than in your house. Now, you understand that self improvement and social skills/social life are correlated. Here's how you fix it, participate, put yourself out there. Any function in school, any competition, any discussion in class, in between friend group, engage engage engage. You said you already have a nice personality, and the way you explained shit, I know you're not a bitch at talking, just make sure people know how great of a guy you are, be the popular kids, the easiest way to become popular is to have as many female friends as possible, when you can make every girl in your class laugh. You've won. Hope this helps!
Now i gotta think about actionable steps so as the school reopens after a few days.. i get right on track... Anyways thanks for your insights... I think I'll just be into more conversation but here's another issue that when two or more people are talking its quite awkward to enter and just join there talk.. as it feels i was never the part of it.. this alienation feeling has made me ignore conversations significantly... But the reason i got gf in first place was the exact opposite i communicated brilliantly with her and i'd find ways to sneak into her communications as well... But it isn't the case with other girls or group of ppls...
I'll take that as a compliment, I'm being as authentic as possible, and I've learned a lot from hamza, so my tone, my personality does shadow his. I'm grateful that you see it not as a bad thing, because I'm giving value in my own way, and sharing my own authentic experiences, and sharing what I believe to be true. Thanks for the comment brother! Hope you got some value!!
Thanks for the honest comment brother, I've been really against bgm to begin with, I heard somewhere that it helps with retention, I'll fuck it off. Hope the video helped!!
Interesting that you see it that way. I am very heavily influenced and inspired by hamza, as I've been religiously consuming his content for years now, but I assure you my content, however original does overlap with hamza's. That's because how much I've learned from him and our mindset also overlaps. I'm working really hard to make my content unique, but still recognizable as self improvement, perhaps you have some points where I can improve and make my content more unique?? Hopefully, I was still able to help you out. Have a great day!!
was actually waiting for today's video!🥳
Made my day bro!! Hope you bought the books. Have a great day
@@akshathsharma thanks.will let you know when I complete one book
the one thing i never understand how tf people of my age can sit and record 1 hr long videos without cuts and stuff , like great buddy .
If you check out my older stuff, I've done live classes that were up to 2-2.5 hours long. It's just a skill bro, your attention is trainable, your focus is trainable. All you have to do is work towards it. Thanks for the comment bro!! (P.S This video had breaks in between, as I'm continuously trying to recollect my thoughts and taking glances at my cheat sheet (which has points that I need to cover per topic) to make sure I don't go off topic and waste your time)
It was a great and informative video❤, people have a short attention span, considering putting shorts from this video, it will reach to the target audience.
Thank you so much for the comment, I have made shorts, but right now am not posting as my target audience is people, who would watch longer videos!! have a great day tripti
I'm sure this video is helpful i clicked it seeing how this guy talking on one topic for an hour then I realised the actual topic is about it. Keep going brother I'm your new subscriber ✌️
Thanks for the comment brother! Hope you got some value!!
You have finally mastered hamza's accent 👏
Bruv he has a an English accent, mine is Indian. Lol
hahahahaha fr
What if the person (stranger) i am talking to is not intersted in a conversion or is an introvert
Move on, you're not going to have a meaningful conversation with everyone. Someone may just not be in the mood, see that they seem uninterested, and move on.
Can you suggest topics which teenagers and college students are usually or always interested in talking about ? Asking because they hardly talk about stuff we read in books or shown in documentaries. 😶
I'll give you a general rule of thumb, you do this, you'll stand out from everyone on college. Ask people about themselves, ask questions that will make people think, and then give a big ass answer, your goal isn't to add anything to the conversation, just to keep listening to them. That's how you'll be the most liked as well btw, girls love guys that listen. Ex- "Hey, you seem a really happy/quiet today, I hope everything is alright?" or "Hey, I noticed you're really good at ____ , how'd you get so good?" . Thank me later....
I am a stutter. This is the barrier refining me from human interections. It downgrade my confidence so much that it can be evident how I look and act. Any tips?
I know another brother who's a stutter, I'm going to tell you exactly what I told him bro. First of all, I'm not a psychologist, I don't stutter and I don't personally know anyone who stutters, so I'm not an expert by any means. But I can relate to not being confident enough, I've basic level understanding of stutters, and I think there's a trigger that cues the stutter, so basically it's a fear that leads to you stuttering, naturally a person would avoid such interactions or such scenarios. But being a high value man, it's important that you seek out situations like these that make you stutter, go up to a person and just say one sentence, speak to 2-3 strangers a day. If you stutter, try again tomorrow, you're not going to see a stranger twice in your life bro. So, just relax, also? Just to be clear, if I or anyone that I've ever known, comes across a person who stutters but is respectful and has good manners, is dressed well and looks well, it wouldn't even matter to me, perhaps I wouldn't even notice. Additionally there are loads of speech coaches online, there must be some courses to help with your stutter, or at least your confidence. Don't make it a disability, work towards it, I believe in you. Take action, here's your actionable step: Speak to 2 girls a day. I'm sure talking to girls is terrifying to you, but it won't go away unless you act, so do this. Hope this helps bro! Cheers!
The sacrifices that you made in the process of improving yourself will it be worth it at the end ?
I mean to say that isn’t life all about having genuine relationships,doing things we love that makes us happy I’m not against self improvement but will it be worth it at the end ?
What’s your thought on this
By the way got many insights from your video
Keep growing bro 🙌
Really happy that someone took action. Very interesting question btw..... So, my experience is that, this? is the happiest I've ever been in my life, and I live with the a very simple code: Keep it simple stupid (or KISS). I don't like thinking about stuff that's not going to help my progress, whatever hinders my progress, or whatever causes me to doubt myself is poison to me. If drinking "might" cause me to get addicted, and will ruin my consistency, and make me a degenerate man, it's simply poison to me. Sacrificing on relationships, not building good long lasting friendships, if that's what normal people consider to be life? I wanna be more than that, and for that I'm willing to sacrifice forever. I can always have fun when I've achieved my goals. I'm going to have more money than my friends in the next 5-10 year period, because of my sacrifice. It's simply delaying gratification. Now to simply answer your question, if I were to die tomorrow, I'm going to be happy, satisfied and proud, because I was doing what I believed god put me on this planet to do, my parents are going to have nice things to say about me, hopefully they'll hear great things about me from you guys. I want to make a difference in the world, and that requires you to be more than the common man. So, yeah I think it's worth it, I could be wrong, but I'm willing to roll the dice! Hope this answers your question!
At starting I am very attractive when I start liking someone, i level down and i slowly start acting needy , pls help me out
Bro, that almost made me giggle. It's weird how you know you act a certain way, don't like it, and still continue to do it. The problem is not that you're being needy, the problem is that initially you're all sophisticated with the chick, and then you act like your real self and she doesn't like you anymore. I'm sure this needy this is something a chick has told you as well. I'm gonna be honest, acting "needy" is quite pathetic, but I'm sure you're not actually acting needy as in, you're not begging them to talk to you, and you're not begging them to have sex with you, I'm sure it's relatively normal behavior. The problem is that the internet tells you to act a certain way to woo a girl, and you do that, you're mysterious and you're charming and you're likeable, but that's not really you. Instead of pretending to be someone and something else, work on yourself and be a better man, so that there is no pretense involved. Hope this helps bro!!
@@akshathsharma really appreciate your words akshath , you are so young and have sucha a good knowledge, books or the relationship in ur past has thought you stuffs , because I learn many things from my relationship
thanks man, just trying to fulfil my purpose. Glad you found it valuable.
😅@@akshathsharma
The biggest challenge I had was being forced to talk to people in a social setting ("networking") with someone who you're not genuinely interested in or find interesting to talk to that you now have to pretend to be interested when you're clearly not in order to be rude and disrespectful (people pleasing?). Though I mastered this art through various interaction (corporate and college does this to you) with fellow peeps. Have you faced this before?
The sole reason why I dropped out of college and why I refuse to work a job is so I don't have to do things that seem pointless to me, being uncomfortable is a daily routine, if it forces growth, it's welcome in my world. But "networking" seems pointless, at least when you're in the corporate world. I don't blame you bro, I'm glad you learned something out of it though. I would recommend you get out of this situation, and grow on your own. Have a great day!
Hello akshath, how can you improve your sense of humor and make people laugh
Could you tell some action steps
You must know someone who has a good sense of humor, be his friend, think "what would he say in this scenario" ,learn by doing, you'll be bad a couple of times, but you'll learn
You are a G..
Thanks for the comment, really loving the support!!!
Hello , my name is prabin sharma and i am from Nepal and my question is " How to not get afraid to talk to girls in a class "
Talk to more girls in class bro. There is no other way to stop being afraid, talk to your friends who are girls, slowly start getting in the circle of girls who you wanna talk to, and then use the strategies I've told you about in the guide. You can't karate kid this shit, you get comfortable by doing it so much that you're bored.
Your video or "how to win friends and influence people"
You can easily do both bro
Hey man! Do you think its a good idea to cold approach women in India because it isn't yet normal for men to just randomly go up to and talk to women?
Hey bro, that's a good question. My personal opinion is that, for most men, cold approach is not the way to go, quite honestly. Because you generally don't wanna go for a girl that would give her number to a random stranger. In my experience, as I've done cold approach, and meaningful relationships through slowly taking flirty friendships to relationships. The quality of the relationships are not even comparable, the conversations, the love, the sex, the time spent, etc... everything is higher in quality when you actually know the person a lot before considering relationships. I'll give you a bonus tip: There were actual times when women approached me, instead of the other way around, obviously not directly I wouldn't have dated them that way, but the prettiest girls in school were attracted to me, and that's because I was on self improvement, and was probably the only guy in school, who looked good, had a good physique, didn't have a shit personality and didn't fail every test. I've grown a lot since then, and right now, I'm not at all approaching women. I want you to be very careful with what kind of woman you let into your life, because she can either help you ton, or ruin your years of progress. If you're young like me, and have had enough experience with girls like me, I'd advise you stay away from them and work on yourself, if you're in a setting where you're exposed to girls frequently, you'll be getting signals. Hope this helps!!
@@akshathsharma When I am in a setting where I meet women - college - the kind of women I meet are not the ones I wanna end up in a relationship with. These women are not "my type" and I wasn't attracted to any of the ones that I talked to. And I am not into partying/clubbing or finding women on dating apps. Where do I find good women then?
(I get it that I should focus on myself and that I am doing but seeing all my friends in relationships makes me a little jealous 😭. I asked the question in the first place because I see some very pretty women during my daily travel but I don't go up to them)
See bro, self improvement and dating although are not mutually exclusive, I mainly only talk about self improvement, and not about "how to get girls" because i don't really believe in that myself. I think the path to greatness is better treaded alone. So, because it's against what i believe in, I won't give you advise on how to get more girls. Because your problem is not that you can't find girls. It's jealously, if you feel jealous of your friends, firstly you're not a high value man, and secondly, you should aim to fix this deep rooted problem, because once you do find a girl, then you're gonna be jealous that she's not as pretty as your friend's girlfriend, etc...etc...etc...
So I would encourage you to work towards fixing this problem, as grass always will look greener on the other side, I assure you, if you really talk to them, their relationships are not all rainbows and unicorns. It takes great efforts to maintain a relationship. If you truly believe that I am in any way more wise than you, take this advise. If you think I'm just a dumbass on the internet, well, you're right. I hope this gives you something to think about. My goal is to help you, not to offend you btw Cheers!!
@@akshathsharmaGreat point bro, will definitely give it a thought and try to fix this mindset.
Good man. You're on the right path already
Bro im 16 and im from west bengal... I wanted to address you my experience and the issue i faced because i lacked communication... So one year ago when i changed my school, i was the centre of attraction and every other girl was keen to talk to me... Like the most beautiful girls in the whole school as well... But i was too arrogant to talk to so i ignored and whenever i saw any girl classmate at the bus stop or some place like that I don't even bother to say hi aur hello... (Basically i fked up every communication) And all this happened when i was an athlete and i was on proper self improvement (just like you mentioned, i also scored good in all the exams)... But one year later now, no one gives a shit , hardly talk with the girls of the class , haven't made significant connection, did have a relationship but she left to another town...
So my question is despite having self improvement can you still fk up because of communication skills ?.. how do i fix this ?..
Bro, communication is a major part of self improvement. I avoid social settings because I'm in a deeply focused period of my life, when I want to make the most progress, so I'm avoiding any and all distractions. But, as a kid you need to be social as fuck, your community and your circle is your entire life, you spend more time in school than in your house. Now, you understand that self improvement and social skills/social life are correlated. Here's how you fix it, participate, put yourself out there. Any function in school, any competition, any discussion in class, in between friend group, engage engage engage. You said you already have a nice personality, and the way you explained shit, I know you're not a bitch at talking, just make sure people know how great of a guy you are, be the popular kids, the easiest way to become popular is to have as many female friends as possible, when you can make every girl in your class laugh. You've won. Hope this helps!
Now i gotta think about actionable steps so as the school reopens after a few days.. i get right on track... Anyways thanks for your insights... I think I'll just be into more conversation but here's another issue that when two or more people are talking its quite awkward to enter and just join there talk.. as it feels i was never the part of it.. this alienation feeling has made me ignore conversations significantly... But the reason i got gf in first place was the exact opposite i communicated brilliantly with her and i'd find ways to sneak into her communications as well... But it isn't the case with other girls or group of ppls...
Start interacting, you're a young man you'll figure it out. It's not that hard trust your instincts
Bro you sound so similar to Hamza ! Not making fun of you but just said what I observed
I'll take that as a compliment, I'm being as authentic as possible, and I've learned a lot from hamza, so my tone, my personality does shadow his. I'm grateful that you see it not as a bad thing, because I'm giving value in my own way, and sharing my own authentic experiences, and sharing what I believe to be true. Thanks for the comment brother! Hope you got some value!!
pls dont use background music or use a better one
Yes, I've removed background music from the upcoming videos. Thanks for your feedback
Introduction in this video : isisiiddiidjfnfiejejdhfje🗿
lmao
video not even of 1 hour
bro your bgm is stupid please remove it , it just distracts from conversation and video was really good . Keep On .
Thanks for the honest comment brother, I've been really against bgm to begin with, I heard somewhere that it helps with retention, I'll fuck it off. Hope the video helped!!
wtf 1h video. BLUD IS MAD
lol, wait till I drop 4 hour guides on how to get girls!!
bro trying so hard to be hamza
Interesting that you see it that way. I am very heavily influenced and inspired by hamza, as I've been religiously consuming his content for years now, but I assure you my content, however original does overlap with hamza's. That's because how much I've learned from him and our mindset also overlaps. I'm working really hard to make my content unique, but still recognizable as self improvement, perhaps you have some points where I can improve and make my content more unique?? Hopefully, I was still able to help you out. Have a great day!!
first you need a good looking face and good accent and voice. That's it
Pretty much, worked for me! doesn't mean you can't still be better and become more interesting.
shirt pehno pehle
Nhi