Seeing him with his grey beard makes me so emotional... I’ve been following him from a time when he didn’t have grey beards😭😭😭... May Allah grant him the highest place in Jannah and forgive him for all his sins. And for all Muslims as well.
I was thinking the same that he became grey since i liston to him since he had black hair may ya rabbi bless him and grant him long life health and aljanaat may ya Allah bless us in these month of ramadan forgives us our sin and grant us aljanaat Ameen
People talk about miracles of Taajud. I just witnessed one. I was having this great problem with a certain relationship of mine. And I really was on the verge of messing things up. I have cried for months now and yet these last 2 days were extreme days for me because i couldn't find any way. It was so dark. I cried to Allah in tajjud to show me what the truth actually was and here I am finding myself listening to exactly what I need to hear! Allah chose you Nouman Ali khan to sooth the heart of a girl who was thinking that her life had no meaning left. It may not sound like a miracle. But it is. ❤️ I'm in tears
I’m listening to it now. Insha Allah. I hope to get my answer. I pray you are doing well. I have made dua in sujood and before fajr and Tahujjid salaah for anyone feeling similar pain to mine.
Rehana Yasmin it’s a lesson and a test for you my dear sister. Mashallah how beautiful your heart is to have such love. Attachment can be a brutal thing and I hope you find the strength to give that love to Allah SWT and yourself first. The person Allah in his mercy and wisdom chooses for you will give that same amount love of love back to you ❤️
Waallahi, this man is a gift from Allah SWT to the Ummah. Nobody explains and interprete Surahs better than Brother Nouman. It would be a lost if we don't digest what he teaches
@@hotenigma01 Just the things in my head and my course of action were going to be something v contradictory to this khutbah. I would have regretted it after. But, fortunately I saw this and now, I know better.
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..? Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it. This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way. I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram! True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women. The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues. There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings. The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view. We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days. Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife. So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
@@JahannamHellfire I hope you’re doing okay. First off, don’t confuse what scholars believe with what they say about Islam. I’ve heard scholars I look up to say men are above women, but they used an arabic literature argument not an islamic one. So I am free to think otherwise alhamdullilah. About polygamy, if you don’t want to turn to science’s analysis of women and men’s behavior then we can only examine the law in Islam. In the Quran, it is mentioned that men can marry up to 4 wives even though Allah clearly states that it might be a challenging decision to not stay monogynous (surat Nisaa, ayah n 3). But it is still halal to do so for men, not for women. Try to remove all other distortions such as are men more polygamous than women by nature, and any other belief stated by others and yourself. Just read the ayah and make duaa. May allah guide us and helps us in our challenges.
السلام عليكم I have been noticing and feeling like whenever I am upset, Ustadh or other shaykhs whom I listen to, come up with a solution for the particular problem of mine, but, all of sudden, I have realised that it's not the case because INDEED Qur'an is The book of guidance for those who believe and whole of humanity in every aspect of life no matter from where you start taking notes from Qur'an. The Miracle is not about the coincidence of getting same lecture as of our problem, but, actually and Indeed the Miracle is the word of Allah The Most Loving The Most Knowing who has blessed us with Qur'an. We always think that He doesn't help us but He actually already has provided us with a solution. May Allah Almighty preserve our teachers, give us wisdom to understand His Book, give us strength to reflect upon His Book and make us of those whom He loves. Ameen.
you know that nouman is a salafi wahabi, who calls all other Sunnis on earth not Salafis as ahl al bida? He even labelled our Prophet salamullah alaih as "dead" astaghfirulAllah. By Sunni Aqeeda, Prophets are not dead, they are alive in their blessed resting places, and their status is higher than that of any Shaheed.
ahmad multan please don’t bad mouth someone who has done nothing but exalt the glory of god and our holy prophet (PNUH). Whatever NAK’s personal beliefs are is not for us to judge. He has helped so so many of us to understand this amazingly wonderful yet complex religion
@@multanprarie2600 Naudhubillah. No, that is innovation that no Sunni follows, except for extreme innovators and grave worshippers. Not even most sufis follow such an innovation. Fear Allah and never repeat such a thing.
I absolutely LOVE Surat Yousef 😊 it’s my favorite Surah in the Quran because it’s the first surah I COMPLETELY understood at a very young age and was able to memorize it and made me appreciate it soooo much more ♥️ May Allah safeguard you all 🙏🏻
Why would any muslim lady who has the Quran in her heart ever ever take a picture of herself n post it. Hv u no shame. Repent . Remove it n may Allah reward u n 4 give you.
may Allah protect you and your love of the Quran. the message someone wrote about your picture is not the correct way to advise in islam. may Allah protect you and guide you always Aameen.
Yasmin znxhjbuzuihxcx y Thank you kindly 🙏🏻 oh that comment flew RIGHT OVER MY HEAD and that commenter is IRRELEVANT! I am judge by my CREATOR and NOT his creation 🤗 otherwise I would have addressed the oppressed fool lol
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..? Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it. This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way. I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram! True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women. The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues. There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings. The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view. We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days. Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife. So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
There are surely miracles of only relying on Allah SWT. I'm going through the toughest phase of my life right now. Feels like there's no light at the end of the tunnel. Its difficult for me to envisage the future when I've hit the lowest point in my life. This stranger need prayers!
@@nabildirar1413 psychopathy, sociopath,, narcissist and psychopath. learn about them. as your know their game, then it becomes like an immunity or vaccine against their satanic games. once you learn about these terms, THEN go on to study codependency.
@@bibz8003 its never too late, everything happens with Allahs permission. Perhaps a victim will be then empowered to be an advocate, a healer, a friend for those who are stuck in a dark and abusive place. At the minimum, you will collect the abusers good deeds on the day of judgement or transfer your sins to them.
im so glad that usthadh nouman ali khan still doing his khutbahs masha allah even during this pandemic, may allah swt bless him and his family ameen, pray for this world everyone. pray more and ask for forgiveness
It's precious, was just talking with Maa about ustad's khutba.. Its here, its fazr now... Day starting with Namaz and khutba..Love and dua for ustad and his family.
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..? Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it. This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way. I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram! True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women. The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues. There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings. The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view. We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days. Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife. So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
this is such a great lecture. it makes me re-examined myself as well. i might have toxic love with my parents too, because often I feel they favor my sister than me. i want to be loved the way i think i should, and that is toxic. thank you for addressing this. it'll make me be more mindful and i hope to always remember never to be toxic in my love with anyone....
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..? Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it. This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way. I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram! True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women. The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues. There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings. The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view. We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days. Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife. So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
A silent prayer for help and strength from Allah for all people stuck in toxic and abusive homes during this time of world lockdown... may Allah help us all, and end this test soon... May all bless Ustadh Naoman Ali Khan and his family...
I heard this story a million times, and it was explained to me so many times, but never in my life had I heard such a great and realistic approach to it.
By far the best khoutba I have ever listened to. I’ve watched it so many times. It encompasses so much, so much about communication, cognitive thinking, critical thinking, personal and professional relationship struggles... etc. This is so deep! May Allah reward you.
As long as our focus is to please Allah, we can never feel jealous. Getting angry is a choice. We just need Allah to give us strength if we feel we are getting so weak to something.
Salaams. In one of the lectures he had given and I can't recall which one, but he said that sometimes parents can breed jealousy and hate. Now by that he meant that when one child gets more attention the other sibling can become jealous through the actions of his or her parents. Giving love has to be taken very responsibly and with great wisdom IMO. Salaams4now...Hussein.
اختيار موفق ..ننتظر سلسلة رمضان ان شاء الله.. اللهم بلغنا رمضان وإياكم .. The most beautiful thing in this kind of reflection is how these ayats are talking about our social life,our relationships and our psychological and emotional problems..and ustahd Nouman is the best one to deliver the messages .
Subhanallah.This is so on point.My take away is Islam is alive.It acknowledges how we feel and perceive but most importantly One needs to take care of themselves selves.I have learnt so much on this platform.key among them is Toxic love...internal struggles,being accountable for Gods blessings and responsibilities.This delicate balance between reminding us of what our deen is about but also ably fitting it into today's world is what makes this platform so relevant. God bless this man
I have two rules to lead me to the right path I ask Allah for guidance and correct me whenever I feel that I am getting wrong in something. And second rule I don't discuss people to the people I directly talk to the person after finding suitable time. if doesn't work I repeat it again.
Subhanallah, amazing khutbah. This hits home, dealing with narcissistic person/people in noble relationships is down right painful as people who have narcissistic personality disorder or NPD don’t change. The pain is too deep. Every single person should spread awareness about narcissistic relationships and toxic relationships... we need to educate our kids about this... can’t stress enough. Jazakallah khairan for this lecture.
It's hard. Very hard to take a decision when you identify the kind of relationship you are in. When you are not proud of a person, you will get signs. And you damn believe it. And take decision rightaway.
This story is wonderful and always reminds me how is the great HIM..Allah is the best director. 😭😭.MashaAllah such a great khutbah ustadh..thank u so much..🙏
Salam; you are right about that, not all of us have Yaacob in our lives. With a toxic person, we cannot open up about our hurt, because they will use it against us. So like you said, all we have is SABR. May Allah swt grant us jannah
Assalamualaikum sir... You don't know what a great job u have done 😊 though I am from a Muslim family I had doubt about many facts in Islam... Your lectures have made me a practicing Muslim... And now I am proud of being a slave of Allah 😊 oh yeah the rest of my family members are not practicing muslim though... They pray but are not very concerned about the prayer 5 times a day 😔 Jazakallah khairan sir... May Allah bless u & give u the ability to serve the Muslim ummah with the knowledge of Qur'an More then before ❤️
Assalam o alaikum warahmatullahi waberkatuhu! Alhumdulillah , was curiously waiting fot it. I am kind of Qurentined far from home. The only thing that gets me out of this boredom is Quran and Your Lectures. Pray For the people around world? May Allah SWT bless you.
Subhaan Allah. The depth of understanding of the meaning and lessons in the holy Quran and then being able to interpret and present that lesson in a way for us all to benefit is indeed a gift from Allah. Jazakallah Khair Ustadh.
I HAVE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT THESE VERSES THAT DEEP. THIS KHUTBAH HAS OPENED UP MY MIND AND GIVEN ME A DEEPER UNDERSTANDING OF THE STORY. BAARAKALLAHU FIIKUM
يا مقلّب القلوب ثبّت قلبي علي دينك 🤲🏽 YAA MUQALLIBAL QULOOB THABBIT QALBEE ‘ALAA DEENIK “OH TURNER OF HEARTS, KEEP MY HEART FIRM ON YOUR RELIGION”. 🤲🏽 😭
I started to listen to You respected sir in the last ashrah of holy Ramadan means two days back. I had been through so many speakers' talk may Allah bless them all but the very first lecture miricals of Aytul Kursi grasped my heart so deep that i am left with all dramas all entertaining shows but just your lectures. At Allah pak grant me persistence nd may Allah pak greatly bless you ilahi ameen
Grey hair is a sign of a person who self reflects, a thinking person who seeks his knowledge from within so he can grow and mature. This is the spiritual path, the path of God. God is in everyone.
thank you brother nouman for addressing this topic. it was very needed specially more so now than ever allot of our homes are broken . may allah put the love back in our homes and for each other ameen
I CAN RELATEEE SOO MUCH!!! It once happened with me n my aunt, where she literally forced me to a point to SPEAK by yelling at me so much so I started crying and said I don't know why I feel like nobody loves me, and my point was not to be even ungrateful I said I just don't understand and it would keep making me angry and do stupid stuff... but she interpreted it as extreme ungratefulness, disrespectful and labelled me as someone not worthy of attention because of what I have said that i feel this way towards my fam!! Not that I wanted to!!! I just needed a bit help but she bulldozed me with such toxic words and insulted me that ripped my soul tbh It was the last day I EVER talked to anyone about how I feel, I was working my way constantly to talk to my mother about this issue and I believe I would have been successful but NO MY BELOVED AUNTIE HAD TO STEP IN, SCOLD ME FOR NOTHING AND BE MY BOSS AND TELL ME HOW SHOULD I FEEL AND HOW I'M PATHETIC FOR FEELING CERTAIN THINGS! It's true what Br Nouman said, some people are just emotionally disordered so much so they don't care how they might damage someone with their words and actions.
I through your story with in my experience☺ i just can say here that human all is intriguing. I try many ways to hold a pride to stand. Now im focusing to try 'paradox thinking' concept. I love listening ust.Nouman kutba n all scholars but there is time we can't lean on speeches except we practice to get awareness personally. Remember that In Allah side you are more worthy.☺
@@skyinuri8868 Alhamdulilah :) jazakAllah khayrun for your kind words :) that one incident was the one that matured my thinking on not to blindly depend on others for emotional support in any way, and it connected me straight to Allah, and made me truly realize that no one but Allah truly cares for me, and He will make things easy for me if I hold on and even now and then she still behaves like that, salting old wounds, and making fun of me in a sarcastic way, I just try being patient and not let it get to me and now that I've lost my mother too, May Allah bless her Jannat-ul-Firdos, I try to be the mature one and not respond in a furious way that would give her a chance to strike back hard. I pray for her and myself and im still learning and will continue to better my life In sha Allah... :)
@@KBH4 exactly bro. Sometime i think if we keep quiet it will worse our mentality. If we complain them as a respond about how abusive they are, it will be a circle hurting each others, innit? If we tell other as its how we throw away the toxic it can be called fitna, ghiba etc. The only way is patience indeed. When you fall, just hold on, ask Allah to rise you up. Fall-Hold on-Stand Up-repeat😁
@@skyinuri8868 I totally agree with you!! I have learned to believe and be satisfied on the fact that keeping internal things to oneself is more safer than just randomly channeling it out to people that would respond either violently or ignorantly and also to other people who act like they are concerned about your problems but in reality they just wanna gossip and bless you with their same advice of *Be Patient* and not truly mean it anyway! Instead of somebody else telling me to have sabr and stuff, I'd prefer my own self telling me that! I'd discuss my probs with Allah and set myself on Fall- Hold on- Stand up- repeat mode through the mercy of Allah He never lets you down 😁
Wow similar thing happened to me a month ago . Every since that day i literally feel like im carrying a weight inside of me . but i have certainty that Allah azzawajal helps everyone . I pray that you overcome this sitatuion easily and quickly insha'Allah .
i think this khutba is so time appropriate allot of muslim families are going through this right now. and at times just processing this whole thing is difficult . i pray that our parents also remember to play favorites when it comes to their children . i have heard with my own ears that this and that child are my favorite and the parents have said it when the other kids have been there too at the time. if your not pleased with us parents please make dua for allah to guide us . may allah make us appreciate our parents and may allah fix the parent child relationship ameen. .
The main toxic love I have endured is the love I have for myself! True love is saving your heart from lust that leads to ache. I have been suffering from heartache from years of emotional instability! I pray Allah Cures our heart and instill his love in our hearts!
I wish I listened to this lecture earlier. Communication is key, and everything said in this lecture is true. I want to be a better communicator and tell people what I am feeling right away. Thanks Nouman ali khan
25:30 This is how sometimes we learn in this Surah how pure emotions like love and noble relationships like children and parents and spouses can become extremely toxic. When those emotions are not guided and are not dealt in a healthy way.
Seeing him with his grey beard makes me so emotional... I’ve been following him from a time when he didn’t have grey beards😭😭😭... May Allah grant him the highest place in Jannah and forgive him for all his sins. And for all Muslims as well.
I was thinking the same that he became grey since i liston to him since he had black hair may ya rabbi bless him and grant him long life health and aljanaat may ya Allah bless us in these month of ramadan forgives us our sin and grant us aljanaat Ameen
I was watching him since he had no beard
I know...
Exo Solo same here
I used to watch him when I was 10 and now I'm 16 and you realise how short life is
People talk about miracles of Taajud. I just witnessed one. I was having this great problem with a certain relationship of mine. And I really was on the verge of messing things up. I have cried for months now and yet these last 2 days were extreme days for me because i couldn't find any way. It was so dark. I cried to Allah in tajjud to show me what the truth actually was and here I am finding myself listening to exactly what I need to hear! Allah chose you Nouman Ali khan to sooth the heart of a girl who was thinking that her life had no meaning left. It may not sound like a miracle. But it is. ❤️ I'm in tears
I’m listening to it now. Insha Allah. I hope to get my answer. I pray you are doing well. I have made dua in sujood and before fajr and Tahujjid salaah for anyone feeling similar pain to mine.
May Allah AlRahman AlRahim The Listener The Helper to help you and bless your life and ease everything you do and all muslims. Amin
Be strong girl... XO
Beautiful
Rehana Yasmin it’s a lesson and a test for you my dear sister. Mashallah how beautiful your heart is to have such love. Attachment can be a brutal thing and I hope you find the strength to give that love to Allah SWT and yourself first. The person Allah in his mercy and wisdom chooses for you will give that same amount love of love back to you ❤️
For those suffering in silence, remember Allah is near
Sulaiman Westbrook
Aameen 🙏🏾
Absolutely right
It's ironic your name is Westbrook and you have a warriors logo
@@haarish1602 hahahaha I don't know if you made my day or ruined it 😂😂
@@sulaimanwestbrook2580 lol
Waallahi, this man is a gift from Allah SWT to the Ummah. Nobody explains and interprete Surahs better than Brother Nouman. It would be a lost if we don't digest what he teaches
Certainly has a great way of storytelling from the Quraan.
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Hisham Osman indeed he is mashaAllah i personally take his name and make dua for him .. mashaAllah what a gem
It is great to have nomaan brother and his teaching
Hisham Osman agreed! Ma sha Allah he definitely has a wonderful way of explaining Quran and Hadith
Plz.pray for this ummah ...may Allah protect all muslims.
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kavya mohata Allahu Akbar! May I ask what made you say this? I agree with you though.
@@hotenigma01 Just the things in my head and my course of action were going to be something v contradictory to this khutbah. I would have regretted it after. But, fortunately I saw this and now, I know better.
May Allah guide us..
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..?
Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it.
This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way.
I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram!
True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women.
The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues.
There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings.
The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view.
We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days.
Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife.
So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
@@JahannamHellfire I hope you’re doing okay. First off, don’t confuse what scholars believe with what they say about Islam. I’ve heard scholars I look up to say men are above women, but they used an arabic literature argument not an islamic one. So I am free to think otherwise alhamdullilah.
About polygamy, if you don’t want to turn to science’s analysis of women and men’s behavior then we can only examine the law in Islam. In the Quran, it is mentioned that men can marry up to 4 wives even though Allah clearly states that it might be a challenging decision to not stay monogynous (surat Nisaa, ayah n 3). But it is still halal to do so for men, not for women. Try to remove all other distortions such as are men more polygamous than women by nature, and any other belief stated by others and yourself. Just read the ayah and make duaa. May allah guide us and helps us in our challenges.
السلام عليكم
I have been noticing and feeling like whenever I am upset, Ustadh or other shaykhs whom I listen to, come up with a solution for the particular problem of mine, but, all of sudden, I have realised that it's not the case because INDEED Qur'an is The book of guidance for those who believe and whole of humanity in every aspect of life no matter from where you start taking notes from Qur'an. The Miracle is not about the coincidence of getting same lecture as of our problem, but, actually and Indeed the Miracle is the word of Allah The Most Loving The Most Knowing who has blessed us with Qur'an. We always think that He doesn't help us but He actually already has provided us with a solution.
May Allah Almighty preserve our teachers, give us wisdom to understand His Book, give us strength to reflect upon His Book and make us of those whom He loves.
Ameen.
Same thoughts ❤ A'ameen ✨
Masha'allah.. well said brother :-) Alhamdulillah.
It is called Hidayat. WHICH UR HEART REALLY SEEK
I don’t know if you can read this Sheikh Nouman, but may Allah azza wajjal bless you and your family with all His Favors and Blessings
Don Legend Amina ya rabiii
you know that nouman is a salafi wahabi, who calls all other Sunnis on earth not Salafis as ahl al bida? He even labelled our Prophet salamullah alaih as "dead" astaghfirulAllah. By Sunni Aqeeda, Prophets are not dead, they are alive in their blessed resting places, and their status is higher than that of any Shaheed.
ahmad multan please don’t bad mouth someone who has done nothing but exalt the glory of god and our holy prophet (PNUH). Whatever NAK’s personal beliefs are is not for us to judge. He has helped so so many of us to understand this amazingly wonderful yet complex religion
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Naudhubillah.
No, that is innovation that no Sunni follows, except for extreme innovators and grave worshippers.
Not even most sufis follow such an innovation.
Fear Allah and never repeat such a thing.
I think it seems a strange thing also, Surah Al Imran says every soul shall taste death. So it's doesn't seem possible.
Love this guy.. He always comes at a tangent that is never thought of.. He's been blessed with hikma!!!
May Allah preset him
I absolutely LOVE Surat Yousef 😊 it’s my favorite Surah in the Quran because it’s the first surah I COMPLETELY understood at a very young age and was able to memorize it and made me appreciate it soooo much more ♥️ May Allah safeguard you all 🙏🏻
Why would any muslim lady who has the Quran in her heart ever ever take a picture of herself n post it. Hv u no shame. Repent . Remove it n may Allah reward u n 4 give you.
may Allah protect you and your love of the Quran. the message someone wrote about your picture is not the correct way to advise in islam. may Allah protect you and guide you always Aameen.
Yasmin znxhjbuzuihxcx y Thank you kindly 🙏🏻 oh that comment flew RIGHT OVER MY HEAD and that commenter is IRRELEVANT! I am judge by my CREATOR and NOT his creation 🤗 otherwise I would have addressed the oppressed fool lol
SOUTHERN BMW staying silent is really better cause your feelings were about to be hurt
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..?
Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it.
This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way.
I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram!
True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women.
The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues.
There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings.
The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view.
We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days.
Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife.
So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
There are surely miracles of only relying on Allah SWT. I'm going through the toughest phase of my life right now. Feels like there's no light at the end of the tunnel. Its difficult for me to envisage the future when I've hit the lowest point in my life. This stranger need prayers!
psychopathy, sociopath, narcissists and psychopaths. if you are in a toxic relationship. study the aforementioned terms, it will help you immensely.
what do you mean by aforementioned terms?
@@nabildirar1413"previously mentioned" terms meaning the ones from the beginning of the comment
@@nabildirar1413 psychopathy, sociopath,, narcissist and psychopath. learn about them. as your know their game, then it becomes like an immunity or vaccine against their satanic games. once you learn about these terms, THEN go on to study codependency.
Sadly we learns these terms when it's too late, when we've already been through the abuse.
@@bibz8003 its never too late, everything happens with Allahs permission. Perhaps a victim will be then empowered to be an advocate, a healer, a friend for those who are stuck in a dark and abusive place. At the minimum, you will collect the abusers good deeds on the day of judgement or transfer your sins to them.
im so glad that usthadh nouman ali khan still doing his khutbahs masha allah even during this pandemic, may allah swt bless him and his family ameen, pray for this world everyone. pray more and ask for forgiveness
It's precious, was just talking with Maa about ustad's khutba.. Its here, its fazr now... Day starting with Namaz and khutba..Love and dua for ustad and his family.
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Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..?
Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it.
This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way.
I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram!
True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women.
The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues.
There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings.
The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view.
We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days.
Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife.
So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
Nouman Ali Khan is soo wise.
My words won’t do justice to the work you are putting out .. I feel speechless but I am not Duaaless for you
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this is such a great lecture. it makes me re-examined myself as well. i might have toxic love with my parents too, because often I feel they favor my sister than me. i want to be loved the way i think i should, and that is toxic. thank you for addressing this. it'll make me be more mindful and i hope to always remember never to be toxic in my love with anyone....
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..?
Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it.
This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way.
I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram!
True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women.
The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues.
There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings.
The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view.
We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days.
Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife.
So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
Finding Nouman Ali Khan was and is a gift to me by Allah. Alhamdulillah
A silent prayer for help and strength from Allah for all people stuck in toxic and abusive homes during this time of world lockdown... may Allah help us all, and end this test soon... May all bless Ustadh Naoman Ali Khan and his family...
I heard this story a million times, and it was explained to me so many times, but never in my life had I heard such a great and realistic approach to it.
By far the best khoutba I have ever listened to. I’ve watched it so many times. It encompasses so much, so much about communication, cognitive thinking, critical thinking, personal and professional relationship struggles... etc. This is so deep! May Allah reward you.
As long as our focus is to please Allah, we can never feel jealous. Getting angry is a choice. We just need Allah to give us strength if we feel we are getting so weak to something.
Self-Notes: Surah Yusuf, Toxic love of brothers of Yusuf a.s. , Parents children and all other relations.
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Salaams. In one of the lectures he had given and I can't recall which one, but he said that sometimes parents can breed jealousy and hate. Now by that he meant that when one child gets more attention the other sibling can become jealous through the actions of his or her parents. Giving love has to be taken very responsibly and with great wisdom IMO. Salaams4now...Hussein.
Hi
Been listening to him over 11years now Alhamdulillah May Allah grant you the best of this world and akheera
My most favorite scholar Masha Allah what a grace!
اختيار موفق ..ننتظر سلسلة رمضان ان شاء الله.. اللهم بلغنا رمضان وإياكم ..
The most beautiful thing in this kind of reflection is how these ayats are talking about our social life,our relationships and our psychological and emotional problems..and ustahd Nouman is the best one to deliver the messages .
Subhanallah.This is so on point.My take away is Islam is alive.It acknowledges how we feel and perceive but most importantly One needs to take care of themselves selves.I have learnt so much on this platform.key among them is Toxic love...internal struggles,being accountable for Gods blessings and responsibilities.This delicate balance between reminding us of what our deen is about but also ably fitting it into today's world is what makes this platform so relevant. God bless this man
ياااااا رب
Please pray for the Muslims suffering around the wold :)
I have two rules to lead me to the right path
I ask Allah for guidance and correct me whenever I feel that I am getting wrong in something.
And second rule I don't discuss people to the people I directly talk to the person after finding suitable time. if doesn't work I repeat it again.
MashaAllah I am stunned at how Ustad has explained such depth and complexity of the just a few ayahs. Tabarakallah
May Allah bless you and your family ustad NAK
Subhanallah, amazing khutbah. This hits home, dealing with narcissistic person/people in noble relationships is down right painful as people who have narcissistic personality disorder or NPD don’t change. The pain is too deep. Every single person should spread awareness about narcissistic relationships and toxic relationships... we need to educate our kids about this... can’t stress enough. Jazakallah khairan for this lecture.
Today I feel brother Nouman ali khan is a angel for me that sent by allah. He showed me right path . I wish I could met him .
Just what i needed, SubhanAllah. ❤
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I just realised when u r at the hands of shaitan u become toxic
Toxic and restless...contrary to the blessings you get from imaan (satisfaction and happiness)
May Allah protect us all from Shaytan's influence and help us to be grateful for Allah's Infinite blessings. Ameen
It's hard. Very hard to take a decision when you identify the kind of relationship you are in. When you are not proud of a person, you will get signs. And you damn believe it. And take decision rightaway.
The present situation I am in is similar.... Alhamdulillah I came across this video...
May Allah bless you brother
This story is wonderful and always reminds me how is the great HIM..Allah is the best director. 😭😭.MashaAllah such a great khutbah ustadh..thank u so much..🙏
May allah forgive us الله هو اللطيف الودود
Salam; you are right about that, not all of us have Yaacob in our lives. With a toxic person, we cannot open up about our hurt, because they will use it against us. So like you said, all we have is SABR. May Allah swt grant us jannah
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Toxic Love. .Interesting topic. .
I hadn't yet thought about It. .
Good text Sheik. ..
masha Allah 🌹
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So beautiful soura so incredible story, so amazing men may Allah bless you and protect us all
Thank you for deep analysing this beautifull surah!
Brother Nauman, I have only one heart...
And wallahi you have stolen...
جزاك الله أخي
بارك الله في علمك.
Assalamualaikum sir... You don't know what a great job u have done 😊 though I am from a Muslim family I had doubt about many facts in Islam... Your lectures have made me a practicing Muslim... And now I am proud of being a slave of Allah 😊 oh yeah the rest of my family members are not practicing muslim though...
They pray but are not very concerned about the prayer 5 times a day 😔
Jazakallah khairan sir... May Allah bless u & give u the ability to serve the Muslim ummah with the knowledge of Qur'an More then before ❤️
Masya Allah,thank you for sharing this ustadz 🙏
Allahu akbar . Jazak allah ustad Noman
Assalam o alaikum warahmatullahi waberkatuhu! Alhumdulillah , was curiously waiting fot it. I am kind of Qurentined far from home. The only thing that gets me out of this boredom is Quran and Your Lectures.
Pray For the people around world?
May Allah SWT bless you.
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Aameen
Been Following Nouman Ali Khan for years but this episode described my entire life.
Masyaa Allah, barakallaahu fiik
Best khutbah ever!! JazakAllaahu khayran kaseera
It's like u are speaking to me directly...these issues are so real.... Allah swt sent me this msg thru u ustadh... Absolutely amazing subhanAllah x
Ustad Nouman Ali Khan.!
You are special gift of Allah for Muslim Ummah..
Allah give you looooong life.❤️❤️❤️
Subhaan Allah. The depth of understanding of the meaning and lessons in the holy Quran and then being able to interpret and present that lesson in a way for us all to benefit is indeed a gift from Allah. Jazakallah Khair Ustadh.
Believe me, this dude knows what he is talking about when speaking about toxic love.
Pun intended?
@@pruthvirajkahle1 where's the pun?
Haters hate. But we keep going.
@@MotorStorm66 i believe the brother is a divorcee therefore i thought the comment was an innuendo
I HAVE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT THESE VERSES THAT DEEP. THIS KHUTBAH HAS OPENED UP MY MIND AND GIVEN ME A DEEPER UNDERSTANDING OF THE STORY.
BAARAKALLAHU FIIKUM
MasyaAllah.... Surah Yusuf is my favorite and you give me another insight about the story. Thank you so much. Please explain more....
Its so beautiful and soothing❤ May Allah always be with you Ameen
Jazak'Allah Khair Brother for beautiful speech.
Thank you sir for your khutba.May Allah protects you and your family from evil eye and from any kind of disease.
My favorite person in the world: Imam Nouman Ali Khan. All praise is for Allah
Jazakallah khairan Ustad Nouman Ali khan. This khutbah really helps me in understanding of many things
Ma Sha Allah beautifully explained!! may Allah bless you always ustadh.....you are doing a wonderful job😊😊😊
Very helpful khutba..
Za-ja-AK-Allahu-khairan...!
Great speaker MashaAllah
يا مقلّب القلوب ثبّت قلبي علي دينك 🤲🏽
YAA MUQALLIBAL QULOOB THABBIT QALBEE ‘ALAA DEENIK
“OH TURNER OF HEARTS, KEEP MY HEART FIRM ON YOUR RELIGION”. 🤲🏽 😭
May Allaah bless you and your family and the whole umma keep us United
Please pray for my son's guidance shukran
Barakallahu fiik ustadh...
Wow that was so insightful, MashaAllah
May Allah bless you with more wisdom and enlighten us.
I started to listen to You respected sir in the last ashrah of holy Ramadan means two days back. I had been through so many speakers' talk may Allah bless them all but the very first lecture miricals of Aytul Kursi grasped my heart so deep that i am left with all dramas all entertaining shows but just your lectures. At Allah pak grant me persistence nd may Allah pak greatly bless you ilahi ameen
Grey hair is a sign of a person who self reflects, a thinking person who seeks his knowledge from within so he can grow and mature. This is the spiritual path, the path of God. God is in everyone.
thank you brother nouman for addressing this topic. it was very needed specially more so now than ever allot of our homes are broken . may allah put the love back in our homes and for each other ameen
WOW! MashaAllah! TabarakAllah! Ustdat, barak Allah ufik for bringing this to us. :)
Woww subhan Allah...
U r really well motivational....
I have started to watch u everyday.....
Alhamdulillah...
ALLAH give u rewards for this
Aameen
Thank you for making me love Allah ..
❤
❤❤❤ amazing story of Yosef
may Allah Bless you and protect you always Ustadh!
I CAN RELATEEE SOO MUCH!!!
It once happened with me n my aunt, where she literally forced me to a point to SPEAK by yelling at me so much so I started crying and said I don't know why I feel like nobody loves me, and my point was not to be even ungrateful I said I just don't understand and it would keep making me angry and do stupid stuff... but she interpreted it as extreme ungratefulness, disrespectful and labelled me as someone not worthy of attention because of what I have said that i feel this way towards my fam!! Not that I wanted to!!! I just needed a bit help but she bulldozed me with such toxic words and insulted me that ripped my soul tbh
It was the last day I EVER talked to anyone about how I feel, I was working my way constantly to talk to my mother about this issue and I believe I would have been successful but NO MY BELOVED AUNTIE HAD TO STEP IN, SCOLD ME FOR NOTHING AND BE MY BOSS AND TELL ME HOW SHOULD I FEEL AND HOW I'M PATHETIC FOR FEELING CERTAIN THINGS!
It's true what Br Nouman said, some people are just emotionally disordered so much so they don't care how they might damage someone with their words and actions.
I through your story with in my experience☺ i just can say here that human all is intriguing. I try many ways to hold a pride to stand. Now im focusing to try 'paradox thinking' concept. I love listening ust.Nouman kutba n all scholars but there is time we can't lean on speeches except we practice to get awareness personally.
Remember that In Allah side you are more worthy.☺
@@skyinuri8868 Alhamdulilah :) jazakAllah khayrun for your kind words :)
that one incident was the one that matured my thinking on not to blindly depend on others for emotional support in any way, and it connected me straight to Allah, and made me truly realize that no one but Allah truly cares for me, and He will make things easy for me if I hold on and even now and then she still behaves like that, salting old wounds, and making fun of me in a sarcastic way, I just try being patient and not let it get to me and now that I've lost my mother too, May Allah bless her Jannat-ul-Firdos, I try to be the mature one and not respond in a furious way that would give her a chance to strike back hard.
I pray for her and myself and im still learning and will continue to better my life In sha Allah... :)
@@KBH4 exactly bro. Sometime i think if we keep quiet it will worse our mentality. If we complain them as a respond about how abusive they are, it will be a circle hurting each others, innit? If we tell other as its how we throw away the toxic it can be called fitna, ghiba etc. The only way is patience indeed. When you fall, just hold on, ask Allah to rise you up.
Fall-Hold on-Stand Up-repeat😁
@@skyinuri8868 I totally agree with you!!
I have learned to believe and be satisfied on the fact that keeping internal things to oneself is more safer than just randomly channeling it out to people that would respond either violently or ignorantly and also to other people who act like they are concerned about your problems but in reality they just wanna gossip and bless you with their same advice of *Be Patient* and not truly mean it anyway!
Instead of somebody else telling me to have sabr and stuff, I'd prefer my own self telling me that! I'd discuss my probs with Allah and set myself on Fall- Hold on- Stand up- repeat mode through the mercy of Allah
He never lets you down 😁
Wow similar thing happened to me a month ago . Every since that day i literally feel like im carrying a weight inside of me . but i have certainty that Allah azzawajal helps everyone . I pray that you overcome this sitatuion easily and quickly insha'Allah .
MashAllah TabarakAllah excellent lecture sir. JazikAllah kharanay Allah bless you with a long noble life and the Ummah. Ameen.
i think this khutba is so time appropriate allot of muslim families are going through this right now. and at times just processing this whole thing is difficult . i pray that our parents also remember to play favorites when it comes to their children . i have heard with my own ears that this and that child are my favorite and the parents have said it when the other kids have been there too at the time. if your not pleased with us parents please make dua for allah to guide us . may allah make us appreciate our parents and may allah fix the parent child relationship ameen. .
subhanAllah....................May Allah Rabbul Izzah grant you Jannnah.
U do surah's soo goos mashaAllah!😊😊
What a great way to explain toxin love and pure love. You do that in each of your videos
The main toxic love I have endured is the love I have for myself! True love is saving your heart from lust that leads to ache. I have been suffering from heartache from years of emotional instability! I pray Allah Cures our heart and instill his love in our hearts!
I wish I listened to this lecture earlier. Communication is key, and everything said in this lecture is true. I want to be a better communicator and tell people what I am feeling right away. Thanks Nouman ali khan
Jazakumullahu khairan kathira.. You're an intellectual! Every time I listen you, I learn something new. Every time!!
Maa shaa Allah, tabarakaLlah!
25:30 This is how sometimes we learn in this Surah how pure emotions like love and noble relationships like children and parents and spouses can become extremely toxic.
When those emotions are not guided and are not dealt in a healthy way.
This is Ahmad from UK.
I love you.
May Allah swt. Bless you and your family.
soo great for you to adress this topic this is so important yet not adressed enought, barakallah fik brother
11:06 Sometimes a parents need to give tough love.
Sometimes a parent needs to give encouragement and motivation and acknowledgement.
You are so wise, wish more people would listen to you than hate preachers who just demand to believe
Salaamu Ustaz..nice & 🖒thoughts..info's..nice speech..concerns overall..
Jazakumullaah khairan katsiiiir ustadz💜💜💜
MashaAllah wonderful
JazakAllah Sir u just gave the Khutbah i was really looking for. Got a lot of my misconceptions cleared finally that made me suffer a lot
Bro you talk really good
Really awesome kutuba, well explained 💯 May Allah almighty reward you sheikh 💖💖💖
Thankyou so much Ustadz, great khutbah.🙏🏻
Subhan Allah explained really nicely khan