I’ve been rejected for a year after graduating last year in computer science. I’m working in retail while I’m searching for my real job. I feel like I’m not good enough to be hired as a programmer. Living with a lower class family, I just want to be hired as a programmer and change my life financially and help my family out, too. I hope it gets better soon...
@OzoneGamerStation: Continue to stay disciplined on your vision, because "If you can see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hands." -Steve Harvey
You have a CS degree, you won't be out of work for long. The best thing you can do in my own opinion is make yourself marketable. Take on personal projects (like making an app you always dreamed of even if it's a trivial one like making a soundboard) to show case your abilities. I got hired because on lead dev i interviewed with loved how I had done some work with the Unity Game engine and made a game! I have a CS degree too, and it took me a while. But you WILL get that job.
Ya just got to step back, calm your self down, and then ask those questions. Great video, will keep this in mind when I get rejected. I also like how the end of the video relates to Spirited Away so well.
It took me so long to even get a interview, afterwards I got rejected a few times. All told me that I did very well but got someone with more experience. It seems the majority of these entry level job was my no experience. Now that I am getting experience I have more perspective on what to ask in interviews.
I really appreciate that you have the courage to talk about feelings as a software engineer. If we can't manage the feelings that come up as part of our work, I don't think we can do our best work. And, more importantly, sustainability in our career is going to be a lot harder. I don't think any of us can manage all the feelings well, but if we talk about it with each other and learn from each other, we'll get closer. I've interviewed a lot of potential coworkers over the years. For a long time I found the other side of this very difficult. Who am I to judge this person after only 45 minutes together? At some point it occurred to me that there is alignment in the interview if we frame our thinking a certain way. What we (interviewer and candidate) want to do is to figure out together if the candidate will be happy and productive in the specific role being considered. If we both estimate that to be true, we both want it to happen. If not, we should be glad that we figured that out before it became much more painful to go our own ways. Then it's not about acceptance or rejection, it's about deciding if we're a good fit for each other. That doesn't mean it doesn't feel like rejection when there is disagreement about the fit! I think finding the right framing in other areas can also help get past the feelings of rejection and onto the learning you talk about. For example, we can figure out as a team (engineers, PM, EM, etc.) whether we should do the project or not. We all have bits of the context that fit together to make a good decision. If it feels like rejection to me, that might be the indicator I need to seek out the context I'm missing (or is there context I have that others weren't aware of?). Ideally we can build enough trust with each other to feel that we're making good decisions as a team. Sometimes the "rejection" just means the team/product/customer isn't ready for the idea yet, but let's keep looking for the right time to consider it again.
When I was laid off from my internship earlier than I was supposed to be I was not able to ask any of those questions since it was a shock for me. I was not expecting that at all. Now I regret it since I don't know exactly know the reason why I was not "good enough" for them. I keep creating reasons on my own trying to figure it out what could be the reason but in the end it just hurts more.. Now I do feel better and I'm leaving this on the past and trying to see the good things that happened beacuse I had more time and stuff. But yeah. Anyway... Awesome video Mayuko :)
Thanks so much. I was pushed out (fired) from my first job after university. It was a while ago and I took it pretty bad. but I learnt a lot from it. Your video has made me feel better. Thank you 😊
i seriously don't get why don't you get a lot of likes and thumbs up cause i ligetimately adore your content and it's really helpful and enjoyable as well big up to you girl keep doing the good job
I hate getting "no" for anything, this is one of my bad sides but also one of the good sides! It's good that I don't like getting rejected and I'm not discouraged, I get up and try even harder, but it's still bad :( even if I don't show it.
I interviewed for a SWE intern position at Google about two weeks ago. Got my rejection last week. It definitely sucks but I’ll continue doing what I can. Good timing, thanks 👍
I was rejected by Google when I applied for the Internship. That day was worst day in my life. I was kinda like a beast who broke everything in the house. Just I know how I dealt with the rejection. And the next year, with a great interview practice, I applied there again and successfully passed into Google. This is my rejection story. *Lesson:* Try again and again against the failure
I just got my confidence to apply for a Web Developer job after finishing online courses, and I am getting a lot of rejections. This is a very nice video, very timely with what I am experiencing now.
Thank-you for #THIS, @mayuko!! Also, could be nothing concerning you / outside of your scope, regardless of your input /output (lack there-of even), concerning rejection. "Rejection is a re-direction." - Oprah Winfrey The blanket moved (didn't notice the dog, at first 😆 lol)!! 😦
Thanks girl. I needed this. I just got rejected for an internship and I was pretty sure that I got it. You said it right: sad, angry, not worth of the place, imposter syndrome.... It sucks big time.
Hello im new to your channel and i also started listening to your podcasts. I aspire to be a software engineer like you. I love your videos! I'm looking forward to watch more of your videos in the future ^^ have a nice day~
Hey Mayuko, thanks for the info and great content here! Although it would have been nice to have a bit more on the feeling side of things. As technical people, I think most of us generally gravitate towards finding out what they did wrong or how to solve this problem better next time. So I think in most cases, people will know what it is that they "have to do" to not get rejected next time. But what would have been an interesting topic is the "why" part. Why should we get up 8 times again to continue? How do we get the motivation to keep trying? We know the solution but when you are rejected and feel demotivated, how do you get the mental strength to actually attempt those solutions? It certainly helps to understand that we learn everything each time we fail, but the bad feeling is still there. I'm interested in hearing your opinion on that.
i think that rejected not only as about our skill or our product will buid it, but something on another reason maybe that is the cause. example the close ourselfe on the employer is not close so that project move to another person who more close ..
I saved every rejection email i got when i applied for jobs and internships. I dont know why I did, probably as proof to myself that I was at least trying. I have a dev job now for a management consultant firm so in the end, i guess it all worked out. But I sometimes wonder what i learned from each failure, if anything at all...it concerns me that I struggle with this.
The lesson is life is a numbers game. In school you are taught that if you get 90% of the answers right thats an "A", and that's success. Well in the real goddamn world an "A" is like getting 10% of the answers right.
Exactly what I needed to watch as I have a phone interview with Google tomorrow - I've received my fair share of rejections especially in terms of the job search and I have this fear that the same will happen after the interview tomorrow; this video made me realize that I'll be at peace regardless of the outcome and I know that I'll keep trying if I get rejected. Thanks Mayuko!
I see rejection as part of the hustle. I tried to break into other types of jobs before I even looked into programming (spoiler, failed to land many a "dream job" in unrelated fields). While working in the tech support, I got interested in programming. So, just kept practicing and grinding. I got really inspired when a co worker at the time showed me some cell phone game he made , it looked cool and it was the perfect kind of thing to show in a programming interview, very "look what I am capable of doing". I really hate the process of applying for jobs, hoping they call me back, and clenching my teeth in job interviews. I think I am just going to keep working unrelated jobs while I try to make apps in my free time. My ultimate goal is to have a programming side hustle. I will either becoming good enough at programming, I can just go into interviews / be recruited, or if I find one day my regular 9-5 does not work out, well, I have the programming skills to fall back on. The way I see it, its not so much "rejection" you need to keep working hard and sharpening your skills, so that, you are valuable enough to always be in demand.
You can't have this kind of mindset. If you're rejected it's because you're just not good enough and you need to improve yourself. Remember that most people do what's easy, and that's why their life is hard. If you do what's hard, then your life will be easy.
Greetings from Singapore. Update from the last time you liked my comments : I am STILL in the midst of getting my certifications (albeit while my online professors are ghosting me) - I've been getting my assignments wrong... But I am still pushing through my assignments.
Nice video, could you please make a tutorial to train a dog? That would be very useful since I'm getting a new family member probably a Husky or maybe I adopt one.
Actually, the process is often very chaotic. I had some interviews recently (before xmas) and didn't think about getting an offer from a huge outsourcer. But others? Ok. One day, I interviewed for dev position to make addons in odoo. I got an invitation after a phone call, which was called off after the weekend before another interview in Karlsruhe. Companies consist out of people who are making decisions. And a decision to hire someone is a business decision. Speaking now from the perspective of a former applicant, all rejections hurt, when you are in a tough place. But some decisions have nothing to do with you. Sometimes you might think: Better off without this company. One businessman rejected me and hurt me a lot. He told me to go to the labour department "for help". Seriously: Do you really want to work with such a person????? I used to work with a boss, who became toxic by day by day, because I wasn't behaving like a dev in his eyes. Some people really wake up with the idea how they literally screw others over. So don't take rejections personally. They are opening doors for better opportunities. I used to take rejections very to my heart to depression and that in the video described feeling of not being "good enough".
make your own thing.. what work become to much weird.. jump jump.......... don't waste time thinking .. company don't care employee.To quick respond , something wrong.To delay , something wrong.. if they reply one or two okay safe a bit work but not for long term.. jump2
I was rejected by a reputed company and they did not bother to reply to my mail asking for a reason for rejection. I interviewed with them in July. They told me that I am great and they will let me know in October as it was in internship role and they had to interview other candidates as well. The first week of October upon asking they replied that I was rejected. I thanked them for their time and asked about my areas of improvement. They did not reply.
I am studying computer science for 1 year now and I am looking for a internship so I can get some experience in real life what working like a programmer is like. But all I get is rejections. Its starting to tear me up from the inside because I always feel really dumb after rejections. On top of that I am not the best student either it takes me longer to learn something than other people. All in all it leads me to believe that i am not destined to become a programmer.
@Mazlum97: Continue to learn as much as you...the journey you're on is a marathon; and you'll reap the benefits of it, by staying-the-course. I'm cheering you on!! 👏
Very cool sharing, yeh recently I was rejected at a job interview, which gave me great motivation and direction/areas to study on, and I am at it, from a rejection feeling now I am onto a more 'competent' feeling as missing pieces coming together thru study, yeh though I miss that dream job, but I have added more to myself since the rejection. Such is life, failure is truly a step towards success, but here success is not something glamourous, rather something substantial within yourself as you become more from within. Thanks.
When it comes to "adult" relationships; romantic, business or otherwise, do not invest in people that are not invested in you. Ask yourself these two questions: Do you really want to be part of a team that does not want you to be there ? Do you really want someone on your team that does not want to be there ?
Rejection is a part of life. Maybe it was a good thing. People who made a massive impact got rejected loads of times. Suck it up and work harder. No name company, bro you need some Gary Vee. Google him. You only fail when you give up.
I think everyone should focus on what you want for your career, not what they want for a profit. I was rejected as a cloud engineer, I am now a cloud technical architect … take that world! Besides, when you are feeling down. Remember this - Yahoo! rejected Google, KFC rejected Jack Ma, and we wouldn’t have Star Wars today if George Lucas had given up on the 7th time. :)
Amazingly this video is just in time for me because I am trying to get a job really hard and getting a number of rejections already 😁 But I believe in myself and this video helps me to have more hope. The tips are great which is what I really need right now. Thank you mayuko!!
What should I do if I have sent over 100 resumes online and haven‘t even got one on site interview? I graduated from cs but without any industry experience. I got only 2 phone screens and one of them the recruiter thought I worked at Amazon before.
@mayuko Thanks for your motivation and. Good lessons in real life and thanks for giving more information and stuff to get success from failure .one best thing I got from your valuable speech is Trying something and getting back from failure is better and best than trying nothing 😆
I used to think that rejection was the worst thing that can happen to you, now I see it differently. After being turned down you must stand up even feeling badly and sad, but most important you have got to learn something, otherwise it would not worth at all if you didn't do it. Thank you for your advices
If you ever been ghosted or rejected, it ain't your fault. It's the company or the person that turned you down. They hating on you because of your face. It's as simple as that.
I wanted to be STEM person when I subscribed. Math has gotten too hard, and I despise it. It feels like being in stem and not doing math is not an option. I still love you videos because they are compatible with most jobs. Great vid!
I see rejection as blessing. I always question what kind of hell are you going to put my mental self through for money. Most likely turn out as japanese say "Karoshi". The best path. If I had choice why can't I live in the 1990s forever. LOLs.
Thank you so much for this video! As a Japanese person who moved to the States a year ago, this kind of advice on how to approach things more diplomatically/ what phrases to use is really helpful for me. Keep up the great work 💘
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Thumbs up for my long hair (RIP) and my doggo who napped the whole time I filmed this video ❤️
i hope that hair still on black color, cause we love the DARK MODE :D ..
Mayuko could you say hi to me please in one of your videos? Im from Mexico.
Sadenly I saw the dog and I was like ooooooh hhhh. Good video and I like your hair
Your videos legitimately irritate me, but I'm sure, for no reason I can name, that it's a cathartic irritation.
I love your video 😘😘 Thanks for advising us
I’ve been rejected for a year after graduating last year in computer science. I’m working in retail while I’m searching for my real job. I feel like I’m not good enough to be hired as a programmer. Living with a lower class family, I just want to be hired as a programmer and change my life financially and help my family out, too. I hope it gets better soon...
It will be OK, man.
@OzoneGamerStation: Continue to stay disciplined on your vision, because "If you can see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hands." -Steve Harvey
You got this fam, this too shall pass. I believe in you!
Why not work on open projects and get referrals from there ..
You have a CS degree, you won't be out of work for long. The best thing you can do in my own opinion is make yourself marketable. Take on personal projects (like making an app you always dreamed of even if it's a trivial one like making a soundboard) to show case your abilities. I got hired because on lead dev i interviewed with loved how I had done some work with the Unity Game engine and made a game!
I have a CS degree too, and it took me a while. But you WILL get that job.
Rejected by girls
Rejected by jobs
Rejected by app store
Rejected by compiler
such is developer life
real
Lol. Also rejected by App Store🤣
My compiler and my cat still love me.
@@cybersphere that's true love, compiler and cats never cheat 😢
I just got rejected today and this comment has cheered me up to the point I'm crying from laughter xDDD thx man
A+ for processing feelings 👏👏
I didn't realize that there is a dog on the couch until 6:28 😂
When the dog moved it scared the hell out of me... Reminded me of the alien movie where it was hiding in some pipes and some steam made it move
I just received my rejection of an Information Science intern at Apple Japan yesterday. Thanks for making this video on time!
@Jason Nataprawira: Only a matter of time now...you got this!! 👊
Ya just got to step back, calm your self down, and then ask those questions. Great video, will keep this in mind when I get rejected.
I also like how the end of the video relates to Spirited Away so well.
It took me so long to even get a interview, afterwards I got rejected a few times. All told me that I did very well but got someone with more experience. It seems the majority of these entry level job was my no experience. Now that I am getting experience I have more perspective on what to ask in interviews.
I really appreciate that you have the courage to talk about feelings as a software engineer. If we can't manage the feelings that come up as part of our work, I don't think we can do our best work. And, more importantly, sustainability in our career is going to be a lot harder. I don't think any of us can manage all the feelings well, but if we talk about it with each other and learn from each other, we'll get closer.
I've interviewed a lot of potential coworkers over the years. For a long time I found the other side of this very difficult. Who am I to judge this person after only 45 minutes together? At some point it occurred to me that there is alignment in the interview if we frame our thinking a certain way. What we (interviewer and candidate) want to do is to figure out together if the candidate will be happy and productive in the specific role being considered. If we both estimate that to be true, we both want it to happen. If not, we should be glad that we figured that out before it became much more painful to go our own ways. Then it's not about acceptance or rejection, it's about deciding if we're a good fit for each other. That doesn't mean it doesn't feel like rejection when there is disagreement about the fit!
I think finding the right framing in other areas can also help get past the feelings of rejection and onto the learning you talk about. For example, we can figure out as a team (engineers, PM, EM, etc.) whether we should do the project or not. We all have bits of the context that fit together to make a good decision. If it feels like rejection to me, that might be the indicator I need to seek out the context I'm missing (or is there context I have that others weren't aware of?). Ideally we can build enough trust with each other to feel that we're making good decisions as a team. Sometimes the "rejection" just means the team/product/customer isn't ready for the idea yet, but let's keep looking for the right time to consider it again.
This 1000%.
@Jimmy Retzlaff: 👏
Promise.reject().then(() => "everything is ok, you doing great")
@Mag Hicugi: That's the spirit!! 👏
When I was laid off from my internship earlier than I was supposed to be I was not able to ask any of those questions since it was a shock for me. I was not expecting that at all. Now I regret it since I don't know exactly know the reason why I was not "good enough" for them. I keep creating reasons on my own trying to figure it out what could be the reason but in the end it just hurts more.. Now I do feel better and I'm leaving this on the past and trying to see the good things that happened beacuse I had more time and stuff. But yeah. Anyway... Awesome video Mayuko :)
Can relate a lot with this :)
七転び八起き、まさにその通りですね！it’s very important not to give in easily and try again until you success.
I was trying to get a job overseas, I got rejected by like 20 companies, but now i have got a job.
Thanks so much. I was pushed out (fired) from my first job after university. It was a while ago and I took it pretty bad. but I learnt a lot from it. Your video has made me feel better. Thank you 😊
i seriously don't get why don't you get a lot of likes and thumbs up cause i ligetimately adore your content and it's really helpful and enjoyable as well big up to you girl keep doing the good job
I hate getting "no" for anything, this is one of my bad sides but also one of the good sides! It's good that I don't like getting rejected and I'm not discouraged, I get up and try even harder, but it's still bad :( even if I don't show it.
I interviewed for a SWE intern position at Google about two weeks ago. Got my rejection last week. It definitely sucks but I’ll continue doing what I can. Good timing, thanks 👍
@HWK: #OnwardAndUpward!!
Love your sense of humour.
I was rejected by Google when I applied for the Internship. That day was worst day in my life. I was kinda like a beast who broke everything in the house. Just I know how I dealt with the rejection. And the next year, with a great interview practice, I applied there again and successfully passed into Google. This is my rejection story.
*Lesson:* Try again and again against the failure
@Irresistible Tech: 👏
Rejection is a hard topic and you handle it very well. We need to acknowledge and process it in order to move forward.
Mayuko is definitely in the top 10 cutest female Japanese American software engineer youtuber with 251k subscribers
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I just got my confidence to apply for a Web Developer job after finishing online courses, and I am getting a lot of rejections.
This is a very nice video, very timely with what I am experiencing now.
@Ron Lambojon: Press forward in confidence!! Your time is coming. 👊
Thank-you for #THIS, @mayuko!! Also, could be nothing concerning you / outside of your scope, regardless of your input /output (lack there-of even), concerning rejection.
"Rejection is a re-direction." - Oprah Winfrey
The blanket moved (didn't notice the dog, at first 😆 lol)!! 😦
Congratulations on 250K subs, BTW!
Thanks girl. I needed this. I just got rejected for an internship and I was pretty sure that I got it. You said it right: sad, angry, not worth of the place, imposter syndrome.... It sucks big time.
Hello im new to your channel and i also started listening to your podcasts. I aspire to be a software engineer like you. I love your videos! I'm looking forward to watch more of your videos in the future ^^ have a nice day~
♥️♥️👨🏻💻🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 a uma pequena população no Brasil que acompanha você, amamos seu conteúdo obrigado por fazer o que faz!!
Hi just subscribed your channel. I am an SE student and your vids are quite helpful. 👍👍
There is a Chinese phrase ”失败是成功之母“ which means failure is the way to success.
I couldn't even begin to try pronouncing that lol.
哈哈哈哈我们的proverb也是🉑️
if my boss reject my solution i watch rick and morty
Hey Mayuko, thanks for the info and great content here! Although it would have been nice to have a bit more on the feeling side of things. As technical people, I think most of us generally gravitate towards finding out what they did wrong or how to solve this problem better next time. So I think in most cases, people will know what it is that they "have to do" to not get rejected next time. But what would have been an interesting topic is the "why" part. Why should we get up 8 times again to continue? How do we get the motivation to keep trying? We know the solution but when you are rejected and feel demotivated, how do you get the mental strength to actually attempt those solutions? It certainly helps to understand that we learn everything each time we fail, but the bad feeling is still there. I'm interested in hearing your opinion on that.
I’ve been receiving so much rejection from academics😭😭
This video made me feel so much better!! Thank you.
i think that rejected not only as about our skill or our product will buid it, but something on another reason maybe that is the cause. example the close ourselfe on the employer is not close so that project move to another person who more close ..
Why did that black pillow moved by itself 6:28...OMG THATS A PUPPPPY.
Ah very timely. Going thru some hard times right now. Been rejected a lot on interviews these past months as a dev. Oh well. Life.
@Jc Florendo: "Experienced sailors weather storms..." #OnwardAndUpward
Mayuko what’s your Myers Briggs? And could you make a video about it!
i'll guess ENFJ, INFJ, INFP
Hey Mayuko ! What about a coding session on a certain theme ? Like creating structure of an app or something. Thanks for your content
I saved every rejection email i got when i applied for jobs and internships. I dont know why I did, probably as proof to myself that I was at least trying. I have a dev job now for a management consultant firm so in the end, i guess it all worked out. But I sometimes wonder what i learned from each failure, if anything at all...it concerns me that I struggle with this.
The lesson is life is a numbers game. In school you are taught that if you get 90% of the answers right thats an "A", and that's success. Well in the real goddamn world an "A" is like getting 10% of the answers right.
Exactly what I needed to watch as I have a phone interview with Google tomorrow - I've received my fair share of rejections especially in terms of the job search and I have this fear that the same will happen after the interview tomorrow; this video made me realize that I'll be at peace regardless of the outcome and I know that I'll keep trying if I get rejected. Thanks Mayuko!
I see rejection as part of the hustle. I tried to break into other types of jobs before I even looked into programming (spoiler, failed to land many a "dream job" in unrelated fields). While working in the tech support, I got interested in programming. So, just kept practicing and grinding. I got really inspired when a co worker at the time showed me some cell phone game he made , it looked cool and it was the perfect kind of thing to show in a programming interview, very "look what I am capable of doing". I really hate the process of applying for jobs, hoping they call me back, and clenching my teeth in job interviews. I think I am just going to keep working unrelated jobs while I try to make apps in my free time. My ultimate goal is to have a programming side hustle. I will either becoming good enough at programming, I can just go into interviews / be recruited, or if I find one day my regular 9-5 does not work out, well, I have the programming skills to fall back on.
The way I see it, its not so much "rejection" you need to keep working hard and sharpening your skills, so that, you are valuable enough to always be in demand.
Thanks to your amazing channel I switched my major from Kinesiology to Computer Science to Statistical and Data Sciences 😀
Side project videos? Vibes from New Jersey!
Essentially this works for how to deal with rejection in anything :D
As I'm hustling to pass raise my D- to C- this will be encouraging!
You can't have this kind of mindset. If you're rejected it's because you're just not good enough and you need to improve yourself. Remember that most people do what's easy, and that's why their life is hard. If you do what's hard, then your life will be easy.
Greetings from Singapore.
Update from the last time you liked my comments : I am STILL in the midst of getting my certifications (albeit while my online professors are ghosting me) - I've been getting my assignments wrong... But I am still pushing through my assignments.
hello my name Rian I'm from Indonesia, by the way your video is my inspiration for doing next
Nice video, could you please make a tutorial to train a dog? That would be very useful since I'm getting a new family member probably a Husky or maybe I adopt one.
Actually, the process is often very chaotic. I had some interviews recently (before xmas) and didn't think about getting an offer from a huge outsourcer. But others? Ok. One day, I interviewed for dev position to make addons in odoo. I got an invitation after a phone call, which was called off after the weekend before another interview in Karlsruhe. Companies consist out of people who are making decisions. And a decision to hire someone is a business decision. Speaking now from the perspective of a former applicant, all rejections hurt, when you are in a tough place. But some decisions have nothing to do with you. Sometimes you might think: Better off without this company. One businessman rejected me and hurt me a lot. He told me to go to the labour department "for help". Seriously: Do you really want to work with such a person????? I used to work with a boss, who became toxic by day by day, because I wasn't behaving like a dev in his eyes. Some people really wake up with the idea how they literally screw others over.
So don't take rejections personally. They are opening doors for better opportunities. I used to take rejections very to my heart to depression and that in the video described feeling of not being "good enough".
I cried after getting rejected once
@Joshua Mpere: You're that much closer to joy, in being accepted!! 🙌
A little bit of tech
A little bit of self-help
And she's not hard on the eyes
RUclips algorithm working today
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I got rejected many times but still I am trying motivation
Everyone get rejected in life . It's will make u stronger
make your own thing.. what work become to much weird.. jump jump.......... don't waste time thinking .. company don't care employee.To quick respond , something wrong.To delay , something wrong.. if they reply one or two okay safe a bit work but not for long term.. jump2
This candle and pumpkins makes me feel like it will be video about magic xD
I was rejected by a reputed company and they did not bother to reply to my mail asking for a reason for rejection.
I interviewed with them in July. They told me that I am great and they will let me know in October as it was in internship role and they had to interview other candidates as well. The first week of October upon asking they replied that I was rejected. I thanked them for their time and asked about my areas of improvement. They did not reply.
Thank you for this 👏💙. First thing I was thinking, was how nice the environment (accessories and all looks 😅.
I am studying computer science for 1 year now and I am looking for a internship so I can get some experience in real life what working like a programmer is like. But all I get is rejections. Its starting to tear me up from the inside because I always feel really dumb after rejections. On top of that I am not the best student either it takes me longer to learn something than other people. All in all it leads me to believe that i am not destined to become a programmer.
@Mazlum97: Continue to learn as much as you...the journey you're on is a marathon; and you'll reap the benefits of it, by staying-the-course. I'm cheering you on!! 👏
Thank you Mayuko, I needed this.
god you really boost me up
5:52
I thought you were gonna say
"so that I'm helping you and you're helping me and we're just one big fa mi ly!"
My queen I hope you are well!
How to deal with hair lose as a software engineer?🤷🏻♂️
Thank you again for a very inspiring topic.. a very good start for my day
man these recommendation algorithms are getting really good these days
you´re awesome!! Mayuko thanks
Wow this was timed so well lol. Got rejected earlier today. Sent a thank you for considering me email and will just practice more.
@aheriwon003: Growing already!! Keep it up!! 👏
Her presentation style reminds me of Beat the Bush!
I love how she starts by sitting on the couch then just drops to the floor as if the couch just stopped existing lol
Thanks for making this video 🙂
Would love to see a what's on my phone/laptop video :)
Hi I’m from a shitposting group you may have heard of and just wanted to say hi 👋🏻
Been searching on the job market for 6 months now. Most of the time, there is no explanation.
@Dylan L: I'm rooting for you!
I think most recruiters will not give feedback due to legal reasons
Very cool sharing, yeh recently I was rejected at a job interview, which gave me great motivation and direction/areas to study on, and I am at it, from a rejection feeling now I am onto a more 'competent' feeling as missing pieces coming together thru study, yeh though I miss that dream job, but I have added more to myself since the rejection. Such is life, failure is truly a step towards success, but here success is not something glamourous, rather something substantial within yourself as you become more from within. Thanks.
i thought it was a black pillow, then it moved
Maybe you regret leaving your job now with this virus
When it comes to "adult" relationships; romantic, business or otherwise, do not invest in people that are not invested in you. Ask yourself these two questions: Do you really want to be part of a team that does not want you to be there ? Do you really want someone on your team that does not want to be there ?
this...
Man this comment section is so deep, literary.
I've stopped watching Mayuko and dived deep into the comments section. Swimming here for an hour.
Failure is a gift to make you a better version of yourself.
@jelinmscs: #THATPART!!
Thank you for this birthday present. ❤ :)
Happy birthday
Nigel
@@debojitbhattacharya4093 Thanks, daddy!
I instantly liked it for the hand expressions 😆
thank you, this really help me
Got opportunity to interview at a FAANG and got rejected so now have zero motivation to work at my no name company.
Rejection is a part of life. Maybe it was a good thing. People who made a massive impact got rejected loads of times. Suck it up and work harder. No name company, bro you need some Gary Vee. Google him. You only fail when you give up.
Getting an interview at aFAANG is already a sucess. No name? W/o no name companies, I wouldn't be at a better company.
I think everyone should focus on what you want for your career, not what they want for a profit. I was rejected as a cloud engineer, I am now a cloud technical architect … take that world! Besides, when you are feeling down. Remember this - Yahoo! rejected Google, KFC rejected Jack Ma, and we wouldn’t have Star Wars today if George Lucas had given up on the 7th time. :)
Thank you so much for this present 🎁
Konnichiwa from Canada!! :)
I had no idea there was a dog in video until he move at 6.28
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your husband! I pray that you holidays are great for you too! May God bless you two always!
( Getting told no ) it is 3rd time, 😩😩😩 JUNIOR
@Adham Muhammadjonov: You're that much closer to a "yes"...keep up the good works!! 👊
@@TravisGarnett Thanks, I am Now Junior Dev, even I have completed an app for android for client and Admin Panel on Web, All with Vuejs ;-)
@@adkhammukhammadjonov8335, congratulations!! Thank-you for the update too. (^_^)
Amazingly this video is just in time for me because I am trying to get a job really hard and getting a number of rejections already 😁 But I believe in myself and this video helps me to have more hope. The tips are great which is what I really need right now. Thank you mayuko!!
What should I do if I have sent over 100 resumes online and haven‘t even got one on site interview? I graduated from cs but without any industry experience. I got only 2 phone screens and one of them the recruiter thought I worked at Amazon before.
tell us ur daily routine as a sofware engineer
@mayuko Thanks for your motivation and. Good lessons in real life and thanks for giving more information and stuff to get success from failure .one best thing I got from your valuable speech is Trying something and getting back from failure is better and best than trying nothing 😆
I used to think that rejection was the worst thing that can happen to you, now I see it differently.
After being turned down you must stand up even feeling badly and sad, but most important you have got to learn something, otherwise it would not worth at all if you didn't do it.
Thank you for your advices
I thought only business degree got rejection and cs always got accepted, never been so wrong
If you ever been ghosted or rejected, it ain't your fault. It's the company or the person that turned you down. They hating on you because of your face. It's as simple as that.
I wanted to be STEM person when I subscribed. Math has gotten too hard, and I despise it. It feels like being in stem and not doing math is not an option. I still love you videos because they are compatible with most jobs. Great vid!
I see rejection as blessing. I always question what kind of hell are you going to put my mental self through for money. Most likely turn out as japanese say "Karoshi". The best path. If I had choice why can't I live in the 1990s forever. LOLs.
Thank you so much for this video! As a Japanese person who moved to the States a year ago, this kind of advice on how to approach things more diplomatically/ what phrases to use is really helpful for me. Keep up the great work 💘