Relationship Red Flags: Run from These, Ladies!

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024

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  • @innabalykina308
    @innabalykina308 8 лет назад +21

    Initial dating Red Flags(first 10 dates) are: cheap, overly sexual too soon, talks too much about themselves and doesn't try to get to know you, doesn't put the effort into making the date comfortable, romantic and enjoyable (the man should plan the first few dates). After the 10 first date period, there would have been enough time to determine the chemistry (i.e the "sexual energy" connection factor), as well as enough factual information on the person's actions etc. The biggest mistakes ladies do is get too relaxed right away and let down their guard too soon, especially if the man is smooth and knows how to wine and dine them. Ninety Day Rule from the Book of Steve Harvey MUST be applied, as should be Patti Stinger's advice of 2 drinks max and no sex before monogamy. Date ideas: If the man is seriously looking for a wife, dinner is a must. Coffee/tea are cheap dates and off the bat scream "I am not ready to become a provider for a future family!". These very casual encounters are ok for someone in their 20s who is just "looking around", "playing the field" or just wants to make friends, aquaintances, etc. In other words, NOTHING SERIOUS. For the first 10 dates, the man should feel comfortable to spend enough of his resources to feed you each time that you are together. Ladies, of course OFFER to pay, but know that if he expects you to pay for yourself more than 20% of the time, most likely he's not your man. Going 50/50 on the bill is more for married couple who are sharing their mutual income already anyways, or for platonic friends. In the romantic stages of the relationship, courting must take place to spark the flame of love. Eighty percent of women, generally speaking, dream of a Knight in Shining Armor, and the remaining twenty percent of the so called "strong, independent females of the new generation" are simply adapting to a difficult dynamic of trying to find a husband. The middle ground remains the same: Ladies, let your man pay and show you that he can take care of you and be a provider. Men, if you are not a millionaire, this is FINE. We ladies understand that love shouldn't cost you an arm and a leg. So, for example, take your lady someplace that you know you can afford. Even creative dates that may not cost you anything like hiking may count if you find a way to feed your date. Eating together is a very powerful bonding ritual and automatically brings people closer. Keep this in mind when dating! Do not expect the lady to put out on the first date. Getting to know a person takes time, the longer the better! Make sure you know the person inside and out before you hope into bed with them to "try things out", hoping that it will all somehow magically work out in the end. This is wrong thinking! Ladies, use your naturally strong sense of intuition. If the man thinks only with his penis, he's not the one for you! You don't want to be stuck with a men who values your worth in terms of sexual reciprocity only! Sex is very important, but not the major deciding factor in successful marriages. More points go to facts like communication, mutual understanding of one's needs, the feeling of safety and security, especially for women, the feeling of being loved and appreciated, and just generally naturally occurring feeling of LOVE and respect for one another.

  • @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933
    @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 4 года назад +1

    My husband was married at age 21 and he cheated in his first marriage. Hle was being high controlled, he was unhappy but had young children and he acted out. He told me about this, honestly and openly when we were dating and he explained that he had never done it since, with any girl he dated. He also deeply regretted having done it. i explain my take on this and I told him cheating was unacceptable, that if he ever cheated on me, he would be out the door - no second chances. We have been together 25 years now and he had never cheated nor given me a cause to question him. He is home every night with me, he is loving, kind and honest to a fault. I have never cheated on him as well.

  • @futuredoc1988
    @futuredoc1988 10 лет назад +2

    love the diversity of the panel. wasn't expecting these 3. i love it.

  • @monamohamud6439
    @monamohamud6439 9 лет назад +13

    Doesn't anybody else get really bothered when Bentheny gets in the audience way..

  • @opencase9903
    @opencase9903 8 лет назад +23

    The dark black lady in this is sooooo fine 😁

    • @10ksubswithonevid17
      @10ksubswithonevid17 7 лет назад

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    • @ritajames5468
      @ritajames5468 6 лет назад

      She is beautiful😍

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      @thomasdeanna7532 4 года назад

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  • @marykuball1167
    @marykuball1167 3 года назад

    I wished I would have stayed with the blind date I had. He was an awesome kisser!!!! I still think of him 30 yrs later. I think I would have had a wonderful life with him. I was married for 24 yrs and hated my marriage most of that 24 yrs.

  • @lynneaflores663
    @lynneaflores663 7 лет назад

    Bethenny!! Girl ! Please come back as a Talk Show Host ... Miss seeing your face .. and most importantly your strength and presence! Much love from WI

  • @caseyhardy8860
    @caseyhardy8860 10 лет назад

    Is it possible to watch the entire segment on relationship red flags? I was able to catch this portion on tv but missed some of it after this part...

  • @beijaflor1908
    @beijaflor1908 7 лет назад +1

    '...if someone is cheap? that's horrible. XXXXXX' lmao agreed of course.

    • @johnniehart3672
      @johnniehart3672 6 лет назад

      beija flor sadly most women are cheap

    • @goodliving2171
      @goodliving2171 6 лет назад +2

      Johnnie Hart
      Give some examples please, instead of just throwing an accusatory statement out there. I see women being careful with money, but not cheap.

    • @johnniehart3672
      @johnniehart3672 6 лет назад

      GOOD LIVING careful with money, how please explain. I say cheap because when a man gets a woman a gift he isn’t concerned about the cost he buys it to reflect how he feels about her. Women from what I’ve seen think just getting you something is okay. Case in point men will give a women, Roses, Teddy Bear and candy or chocolate covered fruit for Valentine’s Day. He will also take her out to dinner. Most men I know will receive a card from their lady. However, if she truly cares you would think she would get a man something he enjoys. I.E. certificate for a round of golf. Or time at the shooting range. Not all women are like this however the majority still feel like men should cater to them......There is a dating guru for women named Matt on RUclips. Even he said women make the mistake by acting like a man should be happy to have a woman’s time. They think that is the value to the relationship.

  • @michaelstarina9675
    @michaelstarina9675 4 года назад

    that man did not stop cheating once he got married. foh.

  • @MJ-vh3rp
    @MJ-vh3rp 6 лет назад +1

    The lighter skin lady kinda looks like Cardi B

  • @susanoneal2287
    @susanoneal2287 6 лет назад

    HAVE YOU EVER.......? Sadly, I have only experienced this once but THIS KISS actually brought me all the way HOME! (if you know what I mean) There was no additional body movements other than a deep, HEARTFELT and passionate kiss. WHEW! My opinion on whether someone is a good kisser...or whether you can teach someone to kiss: I think 100% that if the hearts are involved in the action...the kiss will be a good one. I suppose there are the rare saps who just have no clue, but...no. Even though I started to change my opinion...I'm not. If their heart is connected, their feelings will slow them down and the mouth will express the heart. CONNECTION...in tune with each other will cause both to follow each others lead all the way to a GOOD KISS!

  • @Ladonnnnnn
    @Ladonnnnnn 10 лет назад

    It was ok nothing special

  • @bubblypoppin733
    @bubblypoppin733 6 лет назад +2

    Tahiry stfu

  • @caseyhardy8860
    @caseyhardy8860 10 лет назад

    Is it possible to watch the entire segment on relationship red flags? I was able to catch this portion on tv but missed some of it after this part...