Jenna Fischer Discusses Her 'Office' Chemistry with John Krasinski
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- Опубликовано: 2 фев 2018
- Actress and author Jenna Fischer talks to Sam Jones about the chemistry behind 'The Office' and why the Pam and Jim duo was magic.
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The Chemistry Between Michael and Toby is what kept the show going
silismo ahaha as much funny as it could be true
I guess because in real life, everyone is kind of afraid, or at least politely distrustful of HRs. They are not there for you as an employee, but to prevent any potentional trouble to the company. Hence, the name - you are a resource. Michael treats his HR the way many of us would love to treat ours :)
Sometimes I even feel bad for Toby and the way that Micheal was so mean to him made me sympasize and like him.
Fun fact: Paul (Toby) is a Director so he wasn’t even trying out for a part but the producers saw that he would be a great character and because he is a shy actor, when he wasn’t directing he was Toby. And yeah lol
🤣🤣
😂😂
“They are TOTALLY hooking up ”
-Kevin Malone
Ellis Nutt *insert Kevin’s dirty face*
I thought it was they totally banged
"They are totally hooking up"*
I'm TOTALLY gonna bang holly
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!
"What is chemistry?"
"Chemistry is when you have to work the least to be the most authentic character."
The same can be said with relationships with people outside cinema. You dont have to try hard to figure out how to talk to this person, they're just open. Its the type of connection as if you've known them for years. People that are more reserved and closed off requires more time to get to know.
Heisenberg has a different opinion on the matter.
@@usmans6446 Heisenberg's uncertainty principle? Do elaborate on your point. Thanks.
@@irenechoe He's probably talking about Walter White, from Breaking Bad
@@brenosantos5579 that i am!
I love her definition of chemistry! That happens in real life, too. We all have acquaintances and friends with whom we have to TRY. But hopefully a few times in our lives we find a friend with whom everything is easy and natural. And those tend to become our best friends.
Jenn Hoff well said.
@@realplexent Why thank you! :D
This is true in sports as well. Sometimes you just click with someone and you play amazing together
Jenn Hoff goodness. I can see this statement being a very famous quote someday.
You said it🙂
“[John Krasinski] wasn’t just the best Jim - he was Jim,” Fischer says of the audition process. “I remember the day we met. As I was being shown to the actor’s holding room, he was just being called in to read with another potential Pam … As he passed by, he introduced himself, and we shook hands. It was if lightning struck through the center of the room.”
“John and I were walking out of an audition scene, and he suddenly turned to me and whispered, ‘You’re my favorite Pam. I hope you get this job,'” Fischer writes. “It was exactly as sweet and cute and supportive as anything Jim would say to Pam. I smiled really big and said, ‘I’m so glad you said that because you’re my favorite Jim and I don’t think anyone could do it except for you.'”
OMG that is so cute, this could have been the perfect jam story :(
This made me so emotional :') SOOOO CUTE!
Plot twist- he told everyone that
Gwynbleidd really?
LITTLE MAYUUN - Yes, really. Look up John Krasinki’s explanation to the try outs and the whole process they had to go to. There was even a video on RUclips where he explained it himself.
Pam : "Hi everyone my name is Pam and I wear glasses"
Michael: "Pretty disgusting"
“Pam has clearly given up trying”
Didn't Kevin have a librarian fetish or something? 👁👄👁
Italy :v “Can you say “These are due back by Thursday”” - Kevin Malone
“i can’t even hear you. it’s just noise coming out of an ugly scientist....” 👩🔬☺️
Fayeg
Jenna and John looked like they didn't need to act, they just were
exactly how isnt it real
that´s what she said
@@Fedama-lg9gl 😂
How come nobody is saying whether they had sex?
identity theft is not a joke jim.
Millions of families suffer every year!
MICHAEL
Oh that’s funny. MICHAEL
Marijuana is a memory loss drug
*Bears, Beets, Battlestar Galactica.*
"Omg she has aged"
Yes, yes she has. That is what life is.
Mark Palladino Jenna looks great
no she looks 20, smartass
John doesn't really look much older though. Bigger and more bearded, but not really older.
10/10 would still bang
And it sucks. I demand to see life's manager!
Jenna: we never liked each other in that way
Everyone: I recognize the council has made a decision but given that it's a stupid ass decision I've elected to ignore it
Gaming Bruh Moments so true 😂
I never believed it when they said they didn't like each other like that. I could definitely just be reading too much into things, but in behind the scenes footage and interviews, Jenna acts like a school girl with a crush when she's around John or talking to him. I think Jenna has always been attracted to John, but just doesn't want to admit it.
Jarod Smith who can blame her tho
BF2 Bruh Moments LMFAOO I hate to admit but this has been me the last several years since the office ended. Especially whenever Jenna and John would say they’re not together/never have etc in interviews. “Did y’all hear something?” 💀
I love you so much for this 😂
What she's describing as "chemistry" sounds like when you just "click" with someone. It's a great feeling.
@@andrew1983 Not necessarily. Chemistry between actors refers to as how credible and organic they can make their relationship. Laurie and Sean Leonard had great chemistry in House, one that he didn't manage with Lisa Edelstein
@@andrew1983 not at all. do you have any friends? usually people surround themselves with others who they have good chemistry with. sure you can love your friends, but you can also have great chemistry with a stranger. it's always just the dynamic. sometimes two people get in a room, and they share nothing in common, but they might think alike, and get along just based off of how good their dynamic is. how well they bounce off each other, how they bring one another at the top of their game.
(usually you'll both enjoy eachothers company, but even two people that hate each other can have good chemistry, and that can be entertaining to everyone else around them, except them lmao. think mathew mcconaughey and woodey harrelson in true detective. or a younger sibling you maybe didn't get along with but still always got up to trouble with, and had fun.)
love and chemistry often get mixed together because they're both kinda the same thing (a good relationship dynamic) but the relationship improves in different ways. or... maybe they both come down to love, but you don't always want to fu(make love)ck everyone you're in love with. hopefully that goes without saying... lmao. so your chemistry with a significant other has additional terms exclusive to your chemistry with family and friends.
at the end of the day you probably want good chemistry with everybody around you, but every relationship is unique. some of them might exclusively involve working together and propelling one another in your respective careers, others might exclusively involve bondage and whips.
@@andrew1983 You have no understanding what chemistry is. I have had chemistry with men I have no desire to sleep with. Our personalities just click and we get along great but there's no romantic feelings involved. There are just people you are going to click with in life.
I love the office, but it’s not their romance that made me stay. It’s Michael Scott and Dwight
There's something wrong with you.
They were great too 👍
Yup, those two guys made the show!
@@_haitham101 He's right. But Pam and John (and Karen) balanced the insanity of those two.
YES!!!!!!!!!!! Those two together made the office what it was.. HILARIOUS
Pb&j pam beesly and Jim..........what a waste
Jonathan Carbonell what a waste
Wait you don't think Woody did this to himself?
“I wanna be wined, dined and... 69ed”
I kinda know what its like to be in commercials My nickname in highschool was coolaid man
Pama-lama-ding-dong and big tuna!
FRANK AND BEEEEEEANS!
I was eating those beans
Yes
FRANKKKKKKLKK AND BEANSSSSSSSSSS
*fRaNk aNd BeAnS*
I was thinking about FRANK AND BEEANNS the whole time
I lost it on "casino night" when Jim told Pam "i'm in love with you I just needed you to know it once."
"If Pam wants to show more cleavage in the workplace, that is totally fine. I encourage it in fact."
-Michael Scott
"How much you can be yourself, is dependent on who you're with." So much wisdom in these words, that speaks not only to acting, but life itself.
wise...WISE words...............Wish i knew that years ago.
Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam
i heard it in Michael's voice
Pam. And her Pam-pams.
Paaaaaaaamola
And then you sneezed in my tee
Pamalama ding dong 😂
“I mean did he even see Pam? Or Karen from behind?”
Legendary Michael Scott quote
"I'm guessing Not." Kevin as he stares at Karens ass
FALSE, chemistry is the branch of science that deals with the identification of the substances of which matter is composed; the investigation of their properties and the ways in which they interact, combine, and change; and the use of these processes to form new substances.
-Dwight K Schrute
Ps I know he didn’t say that
Can totally see him saying that.
What kind of substances are we talking about, cuz?
-Creed Bratton
As soon as I saw "FALSE" at the beginning, I heard the whole comment in Dwight's voice as I read it.
actually, chemistry is the study of matter. But I prefer to see it as the study of change.
Ps is for letters
Still sounds like Pam
Xxlon3wolf117xX well, it is the same person...
People change, she definitely doesn't sound like how she was during the office
Xxlon3wolf117xX idk she seems totally different here
She still sounds human. Weird.
Everyone in this comment section is weird.
This comment section is the strangest thing ever. No, she doesn’t look the same as she did in 2005 and, yes, she will always be asked about this pairing. Get over it, people.
Ahseeuh she doesn’t look older though she just looks like a different person
thats youtube comment sections. Which, Im sad to say, is mostly kids and teens being "amazed" or "weirded out" by anything. Wait until they are 30-40 and they'll understand what "aging" means.
The best prank Jim Halpert ever played was pretending to be John Krasinski.
Gutenprank.
I just finished The Office today and it has to be the most amazing, emotional show that I have ever seen. I honestly believe that nothing will be able to top it off
I'll never finish it or want to
So... How many times did you rewatch it so far ?
Watch Breaking bad
Try New Girl, friend... I thought the same as you and here I am crying my eyes out over New Girl
Scrubs is better.
I had a crush on Pam watching the office , she looks so much older now but I think she’s still beautiful . I still hope one day I randomly get to meet her .
TheRAWOne I think she’s 4-5 years older than John K
Well she's 44 now. She's not in her 30s anymore
X it’s the filter on the video she doesn’t actually look this old I real life she ain’t that old
Christopher Gonzalez I think she looks as great as she did during the Office years. She is such a wholesome beauty
Wow people get older 😮😮😮😮😮
i don't understand why this channel doesn't have a million subscribers
this channel blows
T1J I don’t understand why this channel doesn’t have color
Because 1 mill people haven’t subscribed
Becauser the interviewer is gross
T1J Probably because it’s quite pretentious
honestly I respect Jenna sm bc she's probably so tired of ppl asking her this question
she answers honestly and gracefully but she's explaining it over and over
She is such an actor and I love it. She loves acting and talks so deeply about it and so succinctly about it. I feel like I learn something every time she speaks. Love these short interviews.
she is such a deep & subtle actor & so underrated
I wish they were married in real life buuuuut it’s okay
no it isn't stop lying to yourself
John is happy with Emily
I don't care who actors marry/date in real life as long as they have good chemistry on screen.
victor jo i dont really care either. But if i know two actors who play a couple in a series or movie are dating or martied irl i would be a bit more satisfied in a way
Sweaty Muscles it’s not okay
jenna fischer still looking like a snack
your opinion is irrelevant to me, who's that bothered to comment something like that?? lmaooo
still irrelevant to me, using gay terms isn't an insult, why are you mad though 😂
can't call me a dweeb if your name is somekindofmonster7 lmao you're nobody to me
somekindofmonster7 Shut up
somekindofmonster7 How are you supposed to call him gay when he's a male saying a female is cute. Shut the fuck up you sound really stupid
She's literally what a dream girl is in looks and personality.
Bro straight up bro
'Our pricers have never been lower...!!!! '
@@pradnyakshirsagar1338 that's what she said ? (Prostitute reference lmao)
we know its impossible
Pradnya Kshirsagar BUTTLICKER!
Chemistry to me just means that you naturally vibe really well with someone. Doesn’t need to romantic or sexual.
Exactly.
True, and I would say there are different kinds or levels of chemistry--all involve "vibing" and clicking in a more automatic way, but the sexual-romantic kind is more sizzling and in your face, and these two had that. You could tell that they wanted each other and badly.
@@justinw1765How can you know if they really wanted each other if you ve never met them
Their souls are connected, I'm convinced.
I agree
Jesus himself chose them to play the main characters of the office.
Talia soulmates except not as partners
@@inmysoul_TLH you can have multiple soulmates that are either romantic or platonic. def they were platonic soulmates
@@PaolaTheTimeLord not her decision though
Spamster! For real tho, adore her. Loved this insight.
The chemistry between Dwight and Jim is what kept the show going
Her wording is superb. I love how she described this.
This is still one of the greatest, most underrated shows on RUclips. KEEP IT COMING.
Pearl127 yepp
First video I watch and I don’t like the black and white
You guys are stupid if you think this show is underrated
It’s a rlly good show but honestly its overrated
It’s not just a yt show. It actually comes out on tv but I forgot what channel... I think it may be “Audience”
This is the most clicked part of the interview😂
The chemistry between Nate and Darryl is what kept the show going - Once Darryl gave Nate the scarf, I knew we were in for several more seasons.
Why did I get tears from hearing her explain her explanation of "chemistry"
They had amazing chemistry with the first few seasons. I felt like they started to drift in the later seasons. I think their chemistry was real and raw, but their real personal life changed and then their chemistry changed. You can really see it in the show.
So true
Agree agree agree
Absolutly true
Nailed it
I'm on s6 and I agree! The chemistry has definitely been muted.
We all know we're here to hear her confess it 😂
lol. confess what?
+TheJoker It was sarcasm on how we wanted to hear her say that she genuinely loved John but I was just joking 😅
Oh come on, I mean who wouldn't be in love with that guy
@@ntsempty1209 I used to be straight as an arrow then i saw John's face
Guys you should stop it with those jokes , she doesn't like them, she's happily married
Wow Jenna Fischer this is by far the best explanation of chemistry as actors I have ever heard. So spot on as people think its about real life desire to be together. It is a magical thing you cant create by familiarizing oneself with the other. It is the ability to transform into character with no effort. You can see that with John and Jenna as they are Pam and Jim effortlessly and we they are so real to us as a couple. I love that they are close years after the Office ended and that the bond they made working together for 9 years seems to be eternal. They will always be my fav TV couple!
After watching many interviews and vids of him, the honest question I have is how does anyone work with John Krasinski for ten years, play the love of his life, have milestone experiences with him as a character, kiss him, stare deeply into his eyes for many scenes and NOT fall totally in love with that man? I fall in love with him each time I watch a new interview. He's gorgeous and precious and who would blame her if she DID love him? I mean, how could she not? She's a healthy female presumably.
How could someone not love Jenna would be my question. Watch ruclips.net/video/Djs7pEZkOPk/видео.html 8:26
the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell
@Soupy Chang thats what she said
the unit of power of cell is Adenosinetriphosphate
Mitochondria is plural
Nigga, hows that relevant
O cmon
“You are the complete package Pam”
She’s absolutely adorable.
At 2:34 you can see she smiles almost like Pam would as she briefly recalls the feeling that chemistry she's talking about before gives her, before catching herself and continuing
I don't know why everyone asks this question. When I saw Pam I saw those same aged girls I know who are shy and nervous around guys they like. That chemistry worked because it was natural up to it's core. It wasn't like oh look you're here and I'm looking at you like I love you. It's more like I'm working now and I'm thinking of things to talk about with you and now that you're here I forget all that and I'm just nervous. That's the initial stages of love. You can never anticipate what's gonna happen.
Messy Studios. Well said
Where is the question?
The last of his kind video title
Messy Studios. I think that was the whole point of the relationship...
This comment is art.
Best description of chemistry I’ve ever heard - especially as it relates to acting and love how Jenna adds the important layer of possibilities entering the picture when true chemistry is present.
the chemistry in the first episode was amazing. and when they finally kissed it was like the best kiss scene I've ever watched. my heart broke and happy at the same time
Identity theft is not a joke Jim!
Bears, beets, Battlestar Gallactica
MICHAEL!!
Listen, I know it’s an Office joke and I love the Office as much as anyone but this exact comment thread has already been done on the same video. It’s been there for awhile and is one of the top comments.
@@aiden.117 so
Anderson Family - So it’s annoying.
The way she talks about how they worked together is so passionate, it almost makes you wonder if she had any feelings at the time. *At the time* , mind. If at all. It's more likely a strong but platonic connection they had. Either way their onscreen chemistry was definitely very good.
Beesly! Also, I understand what she means about chemistry. I feel the exact same around people I work with, am friends with, family, etc. and it dictates how strong our relationship is and how genuine it is.
They 100% had a crush on each other but probably never acted on it because they were worried it would interfere with work
maybe they were just good at acting
Dude it’s literally their job to make you believe that what they’re doing is authentic
100% based on what concrete evidence?
Dont say is acting, she's saying in the video that she didn't have to try at all.
@Arid What makes you think that? We can ASSUME they had a crush based on the endless moments together which I also would believe/think/assume/suggest they had a crush on each other. But (s)he said 100%. When you say that, you have to have proof.
I love her definition of chemistry! That's probably the best I've seen it defined! She really is a great actress.
When I was introduced to the show from I seriously thought jim and Pam were an actual couple outside the show.
I love herrr 😊🙌🏽
Dave R BRUHHH. Are there any articles about that.
Don't bro me if you don't know me.
Dave R I didn’t bro you. I said “bruh” which is sound. Onomatopoeia. I don’t understand why you’re offended by a sound but it sounds like a personal problem.
What the fuck are you going on about? This is why we need a goddamn wall.
Dave R The fact that you’re talking about the wall just shows how ignorant you are.
“Work the least to be most authentic”. That is such a powerful statement that relates to anything you are passionate about. Love it. ❤️
After all these years, Jenna is still so beautiful
I think I'm the only person who doesn't think she's that hot.
@@dannikats4995 she was during the show
@@dannikats4995 I'd wager Jenna as Pam has never been considered attractive for her hotness, I don't think of her as hot. She's incredibly beautiful and the character exudes charm like a mofo.
@@npc525 I feel like she was pretty but not hot.
@@Hoztyle619 I just don't see it but I guess it's just me.
love this! i will always love JAM
Pb&j* (Pam Beesly & Jim)
Could you just say... "These are due back Friday."
Jacob Smith no kevin
And it's Thursday
Thursday
Jim and Pam had amazing magic, much like George and Mary from It's A Wonderful Life....every guy wants to meet their Pam, but precious few ever do.
Sam jones is a wonderful interviewer. He asks all the right questions and gives the actors enough time to give wholesome responses.
She is beautiful
Extrodinarily well said. Best description of "chemistry" in acting that I've ever heard. Kudos!
0:39 ... That is a really wonderful definition of chemistry.
I am convinced that like in the first couple of seasons John and Jenna really had a crush on each other because I believe that it's fucking impossible to be so much good ad being in love with someone without actually being
francesco la pietra it’s called good acting
I love this youtube show the question he ask, the way actors open up to him is incredible. I want to become an actor one day and these interviews just opens up a whole world of opportunities for me because I get to see a glimpse of the genius in all of these actors. The way they think and prepare for a role. How this show or movie or play had change their entire lives. (This is the earliest I've been on a video and this is my first comment ever it's so cool)
John Garcia good luck man
The full show is on Audience network. And a whole bunch of seasons just got put on Netflix. You should check that out.
The interviewer kinda looks like Roy
I don’t see it
True
No
It’s like a mix of Roy and I forgot but the warehouse worker who attacked Pam and Brian saved her
Hooo snap😵
This was an excellent explanation of chemistry and he brought up an amazing point. Who you are really does have a lot to do with the person you’re with. I’ve got to see more of this. I love Jim and Pam. Imagine The Office without them. You can’t. One of my all time favorite shows and tv couples.
I don't know guys, there were many scenes where her/his eyes would literally light up,or she would blush, or just look smitten, but like, there were physical signs. I don't how an actor achieves that. The chemistry was electric.
Sad Pam and then Jim -Pam were the greatest contrasts thanks to the Jenna's perfect face!0
2018 and she's still soo cute!
Man such a good interviewer, lets the subject actually speak. Thanks Sam!
She’s so wise I love her
She’s so beautiful that it hurts
Happy little jowls
i know
@Bob Ross im, she is perfect, cant help it.
Yeah
Jenna killed that role, she was so integral too why this show is the Goat
It's so weird to me seeing this interview be posted so recently when I just finished watching The Office on Netflix for the first time yesterday
Well this might be late, and i'm not sure how you might feel about it, but as long as Google is on your PC, everything is going to come up based on what you recently did/watched on your computer. Google is watching us, yay ...
Where have u been. One of the best written shows of all time.
Punisher Castle
I’m just watching right now:) mid way through season 3 :)
Just awesome acting from her and John that chemistry was indeed something inbreakable!
Hey guys, I accidently turned on grayscale mode and can't find the "off" setting. How do I turn it off?
Sam is such a good interviewer.
Their chemistry was so damn good
I can watch these two fold paper and it would be satisfying. They are just so real and make me feel like life is good! I know I know this sounds pathetic but they have some it factor that I cant even put in words but when I see them I feel better!
That is an excellent definition of onscreen chemistry.
anyone else who gets super happy everytime jim and dwight get along
Blades of Glory was effort for Jenna but that might have been because her character was so broad as well
lol she be discussing this for 12 some years now
spritz Berry she was asked?
Every interview she has to bring him up lol. And I’ve seen tons of his interviews and he never mentions her. Like move on already. I feel like she thinks she’s actually Pam and that him and her have this real, magical connection no one is capable of understanding.
@@psychoslayer6808 oooohh shit 😂
@@psychoslayer6808 that's what i noticed too. I just posted a comment saying I have this huge feeling she is a bitch to her fans. She seems way too full of herself.
@@psychoslayer6808 if she's asked about it then obviously she's going to talk about it?? Maybe John doesn't get asked the same questions she does, so he doesn't talk about it. You're legit talking about her as if you know the whole situation lmao, when none of us do. You sound jealous.
that was so beautifully said wow she is amazing with words i felt each and every one of them just wow
She's been crushing on him all these years.
Sometimes I wondered if they really were in love, their chemistry was that real.
When you're too lazy to color-correct
Ksepastremenos there's a certain beauty in black and white that's to be desired. one benefit is it brings out the content of the video more, like for example a pureness to it.
I feel like it does a great job of taking away the distraction of aesthetics and making the content of interview the main focus.
its not that easy to achieve that specific black and white look you know
@@sergeymeshkov saturation = 0
@@M613M Not really
This is such a great point. In my experience, I so rarely have the chemistry with my personal life, on stage I don't give it out. And I know that's a problem for my colleagues.
The chemistry was electric. They looked utterly and wholly smitten, and it was a gorgeous watch!
I'm going to continue to romanticize pam and Jim and pretend it's real!
I'm with you, Liz
She was Jim‘s fictional and Johns literal working wife.
👍🏻
nah the chemistry between Steve Carrell and Bj Novak is what kept me on💀
The chemistry is so real between Jim and Pam that it’s my favorite thing about The Office. I still think they’re married and living happily ever after. ❤️❤️
She is so beautiful. Literally started watching the show because of her.
I'm watching The Office right now. Season 5 Episode 4.
I’ve always had a feeling Jenna was in love with John. In the last episode you see them kiss at the Dwight’s wedding and it looks like she knows this is gonna be her last time kissing him. It looked like she was going out of character to Jenna instead of Pam until Jim says something after the long kiss and she gets taken back a second, blushes seemingly embarrassed, and the scene ends instantly. Just a little thing I noticed!
You're the idiot. Read the interviews to where Jenna confesses that very thing.
She pretty much was in love with him, but I don't think she has hard feelings they didn't get together. She got married and had a baby with another guy while she was on the show.
what did she confess? was john in love with her too?
was john in love with her?
TheJoker no, and she didn't "confess to being in love with him". She was talking about how after playing a character for 9 years, a part of you IS that character. She said the part of her that was "Pam" and the part of John Krasinski that was "Jim" were "genuinely in love", meaning that the special place they had in their hearts for those characters were connected. People have spun it to sound like she said she was in love with John Krasinski, and she never ever said that. A reporter asked John Krasinski about that quote, and he said "she was taken way out of context, and her words were twisted, and I feel sorry for her for that." So.....even if there's a chance that Jenna was into John [which I just don't believe, as she was with Lee Kirk before John and Emily got together] John was clearly NOT into her.
Best chemistry between characters of any sitcom ever
I’m 28 and I haven’t been in a real relationship for 7 years. But it’s because I felt that chemistry once, and I can’t fathom being in a relationship with someone I don’t have that chemistry with!! Everyone I know are off getting married and having babies, and I’ll admit I sometimes think about settling because I want to be married and have babies soon, but I feel like I’ll end up resenting them if we don’t have chemistry, that specific and authentic spark.