Dr. Gabor Maté speaks about The Wounded Healer
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- Опубликовано: 17 сен 2018
- Short film from Dr. Gabor Maté's talk on The Wounded Healer and Training in Compassionate Inquiry, Victoria, BC, May 25--27, 2018.
"Not only is there nothing wrong with recognizing one's woundedness, it's actually essential to do so if you're going to help yourself and if you're going to help others."-Dr. Gabor Maté
Many thanks to the ANSWER Drummers--All Nations Strong Women for Education and Reconciliation
To find out more about Gabor Maté's work:
drgabormate.com/
To find out more about The Base Healing Community:
www.thebasehealing.com/
To find out more about training in Compassionate Inquiry:
compassionateinquiry.com/
Film Credits:
Teaching content: Dr. Gabor Maté
Film-maker and photographer: Ben Kerr
benkerr.ca/
Drummers: ANSWER--All Nations Strong Women for Education and Reconciliation
Music: Anne Schaefer
anneschaefermusic.bandcamp.com/
Venue: The Songhees Wellness Centre: www.songheesnation.ca/
I pray god leaves this man with us for as long as humanly possible.
I second that prayer.... We need him now more than ever
That's really beautiful I felt that ❤
Very well said! Amen!
Amen :)
Aameen
This man has the most healing voice.i wish he had a bigger platform .
That he can't quite make it onto a bigger platform in a consumerist society is a sign that he's good!
Wim hoff
And its FREE.
i do, check my channel c:
Yes, the healing voice! God bless him
Dr. Maté's got some moves!
This man speaks in a language that we can understand and how important healing is!!!
He helped me to understand how we can heal from our traumas.
And that it is possible to heal from traumas.
Send me the links, I would appreciate it! Pretty please and thank you.
Break everything that gives you pain n suffering into the smallest particle you can.
Such a wise and compassionate man. And what a privilege for him to be permitted to participate as as one of those who attend to the rhythms of the Heart-beat Drum. Huge...
I loved this. I som e reason never imagined him dancing. hahaha
Same I was surprised!
Me too
Did I get up and dance when everyone else did? Yes. Yes I did.
Hilarious, me too! Such a joy. Something the stick-in-the-muds can only disparage & never join in.
Awesome!
I have so much respect for this man, Gosh :')
An amazing man.
Gabor Maté is a gem, speaking truth to all who will listen with their heart and not just their ears. I am so grateful to find a healer who knows the mind-body connection is real and shares these great truths from a pure desire to help others. This is as good as it gets. Thank you, Dr. Maté. ❣️✌️🥀
This gentleman is an absolute legend 🙌
True always and forever. In this COVID 19 world consider this: these are not "messages". They are universal truths. That is, it is not brain-based, highly intellectual, or academic. It is just how it is. If wounded healers represented every language and culture on this earth, and found "their way" to convey, in their corners of the world, their own stories of how the healing takes place. . . . Imagine!
Now you're talking Mr Mate seeing you dance... A great example of being the culture, not consuming it... Cheers
A beautifully put together video. It does the subject justice.
Gabor is saving millions of lives
I am a nurse…have been a wounded person for soo long, like so many.
Dr. Mate you are Godsend!
Recently I was in a zoom meeting with families who share in having a lived one who is incarcerated.
At the end of the meeting the facilitator said ‘one has to be together before they can help others’ the meeting ended I was unable to respond. I will forward this to her.
Also the 12 disciples where anything but together when they were chosen.
That video alone healed a part of me. bless him
I was at this conference and learning.
Wow. It must have been amazing.
I love you Dr. Gabor Mate. You speak my language!!😇
Yes, understanding connection within as well as around. Heart, body, mind Connection without limits on healing.
Gabor Maté is actually a good dancer lol
Wow, talk about honesty
I love him
I absolutely LOVE AND ADORE THIS MAN!!!!!!!
"Responsabilidade não é culpa. Responsabilidade não significa que você fez algo errado.
Significa que você causou algo, significa que você pode responder no agora ao que quer que esteja acontecendo.
Então é uma habilidade de responder ao ambiente. É a habilidade de responder no momento presente."
Bless you Gabor
His work is amazing!!
I love the music in this.
Bless you Dr. Gabor Mate for the many truths you speak and for the dedication you give to humanity! 🙏✨🙏
I love this
beautifully crafted video!
Much love💜💜💜🧡🧡🧡🧡💜💜💜💜🧡🧡🧡💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
Love you so much
Dance therapy 💃 🎶💓Dr Gabor cutting a rug! 👑
Loved the dancing segment here.
I would love for he and Jordan Peterson to have a discussion sometime. Jordan is going through a hard time now with his wifes illness I think a good hear to heart with Gabor would benefit him.
Where can we watch the entire video of this session? Gabor Mate ... Hero!
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I love when they do ‘Elvis Church’ ... 😬
I was expecting him to talk about Chiron...
padswaggle same
haha me too
❤
how do I go about getting the entire video?
I want to know too...
Hard to hear him over the singing background.
the upbeat music with vocals is really distracting and makes listening to what he says harder.
The music is wonderful, some of Gabor's favourite. The music helps to make this video as special as it is
What the hell is this music crap in the background? So hard to watch without throwing up
His words are music to itself.
Nice short clips in between by the way. Namaste 🌷
To the admin. I would like to contribute with the Greek subtitles that I wrote for this video. Let me know how I can send them to you.
Music ?
Hello Body!
☺️😢😢😊😇❤️
The planet, is spiritual darker, then recarnations, that's why, there's, people going up / down
To help,. The planet, the water sign, ,,,, there many new, and a awaken
this music reminds me of cowboy bebop, and this talk reminds me about the characters in bebop- they kind of just let their trauma consume them and let the cosmos toss them around aimlessly into their deaths
...................so where are we men? and why so few????
it's like 99% women in the audience
Cause they're naturally drawn towards communal life, collectivism, consensus culture and cults that provide meaning structure in their life.
@@Rick-zw7zv sounds like communism. Are you saying women are communist?
@@mannysmandatories5595 I would say that their biological role as mother predisposes them to be more concerned with the safety and survival of their [potential] child, communal life and group protection plays a plays a large role in that. Women may experience a sense of commitment and safety in groups where there's no respect for personal boundaries.
The 'absent father' in many western families has created a situation where the mother has become like the Freudian 'devouring mother' unwittingly sabotaging the individuation process the child whose personality fails to develop beyond the primordial 'Ego-Ideal' or 'Pristine self'. This situation impacts the male child differently than the female child who has the option to autogenically raise her status and self esteem by emulating [what Freud calls] the 'Omnipotent Mother'. When a female child is hurt she can seek refuge in a mother role by playing with a doll, she becomes omnipotent by projecting her damaged self onto the doll. We see that this is not an option for men who have to earn their status from society and comfort from a woman so a non-competitive society does not help with that mission. A woman does not fear a matriarchal system like communism because she knows she can emulate the communist state (the archetypal 'devouring mother') and find comfort, strength and self esteem in her own role as an omnipotent and devouring mother as long as she finds some hold over someone.
@@Rick-zw7zv phenomenal insight. I've learnt a lot from your comment. Sorry but now I have to press you for your opinion on something. What is the role/antidote for men then, in today's society for radical mixing in the socio cultural sphere and work place? Where men aren't adept and managing the social nuances of fostering relationships nor are they any longer allowed to display forms of aggression which were previously common in all male environments? What stage do you sense our collective unconscious is currently at?
Do you think the natural allure and charm that women have puts them in a position of power and men's propensities towards dominance displays are now suppressed?
@@mannysmandatories5595 It's wrong to classify 'dominance' as a male trait when you look at shaming tactics, victim projection, gaslighting, virtue signaling and 'reputation destruction' you see that they are female attributes of violence. It's also wrong to identify 'female aggression' exclusively with females when we're talking about people who failed to individuate themselves from the 'devouring mother', what we're really talking about is conscience personality vs. ego-ideal personality which relates directly with narcissism. Male narcissists seek validation for their primitive ego-ideal (fantasy self image) and female narcissists crave validation that allows them to see themselves as an omnipotent mother. The male craves recognition for his superiority in a competitive sense whereas a female narcissist would crave recognition for her moral superiority. It's obvious that the male narcissist has a tougher time rationalizing failure than the female narcissist who is able to find dignity and self esteem even from a victim position. As more narcissistic type of personalities start to dominate the socio-cultural sphere in the work place you will find that the female narcissist will gain the upper hand mainly because they are infallible in their own eyes which allows them to be bold and take more risks. Culture supports her and a mafia of feminists ('the mother of mothers') are out there waiting to fight her case, providing her with all the safety and independence she needs.
The word wounded doesn't sit right with me. "Wounded" sounds too dramatic because you're not literally bleading to death. "Stressed" sounds like someone who's just having a bad day and needs to drive her son to football training. "Depressed" conjures up images of people in straight jackets..
There's no way to describe accurately and in a signifying way what's going on which makes this a very dificult topic..
Wounded does not imply one is bleeding to death. That's an interesting aversion to the word wounded.
Mars you sound like me…you THINK WAY TOO MUCH…can drive myself to ‘woundedness’…