Meet the Boys an Adoption Story - Part 1

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  • Опубликовано: 30 окт 2019
  • See the The Boys Part 2 update video: • Meet the Boys an Adopt... Eddy was volunteering with a mentoring program when a young man reached out to him with a desperate plea: "My brothers are getting evicted. Can you help?"
    At home, Benny, listened to her husband Eddy as he told her about the five Vasquez boys who were being neglected. She couldn't say no - and the pair welcomed five new children into their home. Two years later, the Sanchez-Berrios family shares their thoughts and feelings about their experiences.
    This is a story of a loving family.
    For Xavier, Aidan, Ethan, Peyton and Logan, it is the story of their future.
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    To help support families like these, please consider supporting our foster care nonprofit by donating at www.embrella.org/donate-now
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Комментарии • 2,5 тыс.

  • @Godzooky
    @Godzooky 3 года назад +517

    Imagine being able to come to this video and hit the dislike button... that takes a special kind of swamp rat.

    • @scottmiller6270
      @scottmiller6270 3 года назад +9

      92 of them? smh that's sad.

    • @deborahcheck3648
      @deborahcheck3648 3 года назад +12

      imagine actually how sad their lives must be for them if they project that kind of hate.

    • @scottmiller6270
      @scottmiller6270 3 года назад +9

      @@deborahcheck3648 Almost everyone in Foster care are sad and angry. Getting good parent(s) changes that. I speak from experience.

    • @rylee_l
      @rylee_l 3 года назад +10

      I dropped my phone and on the way down the dislike somehow got hit accidentally. Fixed that immediately though, this family is beautiful

    • @scottmiller6270
      @scottmiller6270 3 года назад +5

      @@rylee_l 😇 The Beauty of being human, things are going to happen and it's ok. Dang technology anyway lol Have a great day!!

  • @laurensutter2777
    @laurensutter2777 2 года назад +143

    the small smile the dad got when he said “we got 5 boys” he loves those boys so much

  • @JulesKz
    @JulesKz 3 года назад +12

    When the judge hugs the Mom 😢💕

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +5

      Thank you Julie, She truly is an amazing judge 😊

  • @eyebyte
    @eyebyte 2 года назад +33

    When a mother genuinely smiles when she says she’s exhausted, you know she’s amazing

  • @mbsbrown7838
    @mbsbrown7838 3 года назад +295

    Dad is a DAD and Mom is a MOM! Bless them all.

    • @burrage59
      @burrage59 2 года назад +5

      That's what I was thinking when dad talked about their roles. They've both worked very hard and alongside each other at their roles. Amazing and strong couple.

    • @jenniferglenn14
      @jenniferglenn14 Год назад

      100%!

  • @lokoloki9119
    @lokoloki9119 3 года назад +241

    Can't imagine the stress Xavier carried on his shoulders, holding his family together. Going out as a young child to find a better life for his little siblings. A 13 year old boy who should be enjoying youth and education and friendships, carrying the responsibility of the world on his shoulder. I really feel for him.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +41

      Hi, yes Xavier experienced things no kid at age 13 should experience. On a positive note these same experiences has made him such a humble young adult. Xavier is do great and is now thriving in college.

    • @lokoloki9119
      @lokoloki9119 3 года назад +6

      @@bennysanchez7104 Great to hear :D

    • @jesusliftsmehigh
      @jesusliftsmehigh 3 года назад +8

      @@bennysanchez7104 May GOD richly bless you!

    • @dicey8928
      @dicey8928 3 года назад +4

      I had my whole childhood as a mini mammy with my cousin and seven youngsters to care for and I still do I would have preferred them to have good homes 🏡 🙃

    • @dicey8928
      @dicey8928 3 года назад

      Yous are fantastic 👏 ❤ if I win lottery give Yous half 😀

  • @RaChElRoBiNsOn1555
    @RaChElRoBiNsOn1555 3 года назад +425

    I honestly respect the adoptive mum so much. I love how honest and strong she is! ❤️

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +12

      Thank you so much Rachel for these kind words.

    • @aivlis154
      @aivlis154 3 года назад +11

      @@bennysanchez7104 you are exceptional people to do what you did for these boys and I have so much admiration for you both

    • @emiliaescobar7652
      @emiliaescobar7652 3 года назад +5

      They are ALL Strong Individuals, What an amazing story, I hope they are all doing well and continue to be there for each other!

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +4

      @@emiliaescobar7652 Hi Emilia the family is doing good. The boys are thriving and happy. Thank you for your kind words

    • @suzanneroulston5299
      @suzanneroulston5299 2 года назад

      You are great people and a great thing your doing,god bless you all

  • @Palmina1960
    @Palmina1960 3 года назад +203

    Benny and Eddy literally saved these children's lives...God bless them

  • @leesher1845
    @leesher1845 3 года назад +278

    I like the husband; he’s obviously very sensitive.

  • @beckymesterhazi4624
    @beckymesterhazi4624 3 года назад +215

    For all the kids who called them smelly,Look at them all now!!! They are all so smart and handsome!!

    • @marys3127
      @marys3127 3 года назад +39

      Isn’t that sad, how cruel other kids can be? My kids would never poke fun at a child who smelled, they would come home and ask why or how we could help that child. Parents, raise your kids with empathy, please. Kindness is important. So are manners.

    • @esetamoors2226
      @esetamoors2226 3 года назад +4

      Yes they're handsome looking boys alright. God bless them.Thanks Xavier for keeping them together from the beginning. 🙏💝💖

    • @danip3270
      @danip3270 3 года назад +5

      It’s an important reminder to all of us that you never know what a person is struggling with at home. Empathy is so essential.

    • @raylenenielsen5943
      @raylenenielsen5943 2 года назад +1

      Never judge a book by its cover.

  • @Info-nh9qc
    @Info-nh9qc 2 года назад +511

    I love how quiet, humble but a powerful figure the father is like a Lion sitting back watching over his heard, then you have the beautiful mother who is unstoppable, just fights for her children like a lioness. This family is all class, no amount of money can buy what these two parents have. These kids are smart, good looking and grateful , I’ve watched it twice and it moves me every time.

  • @sunshinelizard1
    @sunshinelizard1 3 года назад +37

    Five lives saved, OMG, these parents these children, so amazing that they came together.

  • @nicholemaclean1888
    @nicholemaclean1888 3 года назад +833

    That adoptive mama is a fighter. I love her passion for her boys and their well being for change in the system. Her honesty is so inviting. She may have been reluctant to start foster care but she was definitely the right woman for these kids.

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +29

      She's so amazing!

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +41

      Thank you so much Nichole. I truly appreciate reading all these positive messages.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +17

      @@embrella Thank you.

    • @QuestionThingsUseLogic
      @QuestionThingsUseLogic 3 года назад +18

      @@bennysanchez7104 I loved your family's story. You two have so much love for your 5 boys. Thank you for seeing their needs and acting on that. Your husband is a very kind and caring Dad too. Much love from Australia. Mrs Kerry xx

    • @gloriahensley1740
      @gloriahensley1740 3 года назад +8

      May many graces and blessings continue to pour out upon you. You are doing the works of God and the boys are reaping the blessings. They will use what you have shown and taught them and pass it on.

  • @nataliepearson5295
    @nataliepearson5295 3 года назад +139

    Such handsome, well behaved and respectful boys! Amazing story!

  • @deborahfrancois714
    @deborahfrancois714 3 года назад +3

    To all the men and women who opened their homes and hearts to neglected children , I say may you prosper in everything. God is awesome.

  • @Hackbridge1963
    @Hackbridge1963 3 года назад +221

    You can watch a lot of stuff on YT but this has been one of the best! God bless this family.

  • @buildazihuwa5361
    @buildazihuwa5361 2 года назад +52

    This woman is so strong and wonderful. A real Role Model. The adoptive parents gave this kids a second chance. ❤️❤️

  • @xoxomeg2129
    @xoxomeg2129 2 года назад +16

    Wow these boys are so lucky to have such a loving family! Someone nominate this woman for a best Mother award. These type of Mothers are rare

  • @deliagarcia438
    @deliagarcia438 2 года назад +17

    Had me crying. I grew up poor with an abusive stepfather. Education was the key for me. I ended up becoming a physician. These boys are good looking and bright, and their new parents are ANGELS. Love is powerful, and they now have the loving family that every child deserves!

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 2 года назад +1

      Thank you Delia, I truly appreciate these words. Congrats on your achievements as well. I pray to god for the same type of achievements for all my children.

  • @tracyhazelton1878
    @tracyhazelton1878 3 года назад +120

    Those kids! I can't imagine how they've suffered. And to the husband and wife that adopted them, they should be knighted or canonized. Such incredible people to have opened their homes and their hearts!

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 2 года назад +3

      Thank you so much Tracy for your kind words ☺️

  • @jadegutierrez22
    @jadegutierrez22 3 года назад +117

    As someone who was in foster care , these foster parents now parents , are amazing . There’s shitty people out there

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +6

      Thank you so much for your kindness 🤗

    • @ethansoweird
      @ethansoweird 3 года назад +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jaimetorrez5432
      @jaimetorrez5432 2 года назад +2

      I'm sorry if you ever suffered by the hands of monsters... don't forget you are here for a reason & stay strong...the ppl who hurt you will pay one day...GOD BLESS U IN EVERY WAY❤️❤️ DON'T FORGET ONE DAY IF NOT ALREADY YOU WILL BE BLESSED VERY BLESSED GOD HAS NOT FORGOTTEN YOU😇

    • @chainamarie03
      @chainamarie03 2 года назад +2

      I was bounced around from one place to another but it wasn't considered 'foster care'. I was the youngest and the only girl who no one wanted or couldn't care for.
      It was a hell.

    • @theynot4u
      @theynot4u 2 года назад +1

      @@chainamarie03 I'm sorry this happened to you. Believe me, though I don't know you, there are kind and loving people in the world who would want you in their life. I pray you have found each other.

  • @kauser1239
    @kauser1239 2 года назад +104

    I love how the dad said he never had a father growing up yet he raised these 5 boys mashallah what a lovely person, so humble quiet and loving, just what the boys need x I’m going through fostering application and seeing this couple hope I can be as good as them one day

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 2 года назад +5

      Thank you for these kind words

    • @IamPINKIEDaniels
      @IamPINKIEDaniels 2 года назад +4

      plus he raised two children and 2 step children 💖💖

    • @jacobdouglass2951
      @jacobdouglass2951 2 года назад +1

      Mashallah. Much luck to you. You'll be doing a good deed

    • @amyrivers4093
      @amyrivers4093 2 года назад +1

      Kauser the fact that you recognise what it takes to foster/adopt means you are going to be great. I've fostered children who were hard to be placed due to anger filled behaviour. There will be hard times, times filled with smiles and laughter and they will test you to see where your boundaries are especially if they have already been in many temporary foster placements. They are trying to see if they will be moved on if they behave badly etc. There is a lot of psychology behind how abuse etc impacts a child (they tend to need to process what occured at each life stage) and I suggest you have a good understand on psychology before you complete the application for fostering. My advice would be to research it as much as you can and talk to parents who have fostered and adopted about their experience. I wish you all the best, trust yourself and make sure you have a good support system around you. In my country I was promised all sorts of help including a counselor for each child but the reality is they don't have the time or resources to do that. Xx

    • @namee.eemailh-s9729
      @namee.eemailh-s9729 Год назад

      @@bennysanchez7104 Dearest Benny, my heart hurts for you.... God is on your side and He can heal your hurting heart.... *The ENEMY of these children's soul has come in to kill, steal and destroy their stability.... John10:10 However God is a RESTORER.... His promise: He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.*
      ▪ I'm Praying for God's GRACE to strengthen you, as you move forward in your personal life and with the children.... May God's Blessings be upon you and your family!💙

  • @elaine3642
    @elaine3642 3 года назад +84

    The way he looks at his wife is everything

  • @bertrandmetral9612
    @bertrandmetral9612 2 года назад +38

    For all the evil and ugliness there is, it's so heartwarming to see this kindness and love, you are the embodiment of hope.

  • @HideandSeek11
    @HideandSeek11 3 года назад +481

    Benny and Eddy are true angels and the kids are so adorable.

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +13

      They are amazing people!

    • @ethansoweird
      @ethansoweird 3 года назад +12

      Thanks!

    • @schewitt1977
      @schewitt1977 3 года назад +6

      Exactly! Thank goodness they were able to help these boys. I do feel bad for their birth mother after Benny was talking about her.

    • @QuestionThingsUseLogic
      @QuestionThingsUseLogic 3 года назад +4

      @@ethansoweird hey Ethan, we watched this from Australia and loved it. May you continue to grow stronger every day! You boys are awesome. (Our son is Chooka Ethan.) 😊 Mrs Kerry

    • @deborahfrancois714
      @deborahfrancois714 3 года назад +2

      Ethan is going to be a millionaire.

  • @phyllismagunde5844
    @phyllismagunde5844 3 года назад +550

    I'm touched by the way Xavier grieved for his mother when she passed on, despite that she had abandoned her children. God bless you Xavier and your brothers. Make the best of the opportunity God gave all of you, to better your lives.

    • @blazefairchild465
      @blazefairchild465 3 года назад +15

      Maybe she never abandoned , just was too sick to take care of them any longer.

    • @dobdante
      @dobdante 3 года назад +10

      You might want to give some credit to the couple who took them in.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +72

      Hi this is Benny, unfortunately she did abandon the boys. These boys suffered a lot, but I have to say I have been with my sons for 4 yrs now and they are thriving 🖤

    • @scottmiller6270
      @scottmiller6270 3 года назад +12

      Forgiveness is a powerful tool.

    • @veronicaross3717
      @veronicaross3717 3 года назад +4

      Yòu are a blessmom tum up may the good lord blèss and keep ýou

  • @purtystephy
    @purtystephy 3 года назад +37

    The way he looks at his beautiful wife. The world is so blessed to have you in it🥰🥰🥰

  • @boogiedowngirl
    @boogiedowngirl 3 года назад +21

    WOW, foster parents are SUPER human beings. So patient, loving, giving...amazing people

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад

      Thank you for these amazing words Patty 🤗

    • @qoranbadal4626
      @qoranbadal4626 3 года назад +1

      @Benny Sanchez not all but this family is exceptionally special let’s not take that away from them!! Beautiful couple how could they not?

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад

      @@qoranbadal4626 Yes I agree with you. These after all are my sons. thank you.

    • @qoranbadal4626
      @qoranbadal4626 3 года назад +1

      @@bennysanchez7104 oh benny I didn’t know pray for me to adopt some on my own. GOD bless your family.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад

      @@qoranbadal4626 Oh so great to hear you one day want to also adopt. God bless you and I wish you nothing but the best in your adoption journey. I will keep you in my prayers.

  • @britishkashmiri169
    @britishkashmiri169 3 года назад +512

    This is what parenting is, these two are guardian angels in disguise. God bless them , they gave these handsome boys a second chance to have a bright future.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +7

      Thank you Shanaz

    • @frenchartantiquesparis424
      @frenchartantiquesparis424 3 года назад +4

      They are handsome!

    • @RealSnail3D
      @RealSnail3D 3 года назад +1

      I don’t think that’s what’s going on here

    • @britishkashmiri169
      @britishkashmiri169 3 года назад +7

      @@bennysanchez7104 I don’t think I have words for what you have done for these boys, made me cry tears of joy. You are a beautiful human being , inside out as only someone with pure heart and soul could take up such a challenging life changing task. You saved these boys and gave them a bright future and showed them someone cares and loves them & they are worth it. Stay blessed , sending you much respect and love, prayers and hugs from UK 🇬🇧

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +4

      @@RealSnail3D I am the boys mother Eric, what do you think is going?

  • @princessbalogun3946
    @princessbalogun3946 3 года назад +25

    When one of the boys said this is my home, I wept like a child

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +6

      Thank you Princess. The boys really do feel at home. We love them and they are doing great.

    • @adisha1605
      @adisha1605 3 года назад +4

      @@bennysanchez7104 god bless you & the whole family 😘

  • @susieusmaximus5330
    @susieusmaximus5330 2 года назад +36

    There are no words of praise sufficient to encompass what these parents have done. I've worked as a therapist with children in foster care. If we had more foster parents like this, it would be a very different system. Benny is absolutely right, the system deeply needs change. At least we can be grateful these boys found such a wonderful home.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for these kind words. Truly appreciate them.

  • @chalronbjork4766
    @chalronbjork4766 3 года назад +63

    I hope these boys realise how beautiful they are and how loved and wanted they are. These boys are going to go places and can be anything they want. Hats off to the family - how unselfish and loving they are to take these beautiful boys in.

  • @naDu4653
    @naDu4653 3 года назад +129

    My father and his brothers lived in an orphanage when they were little, my grandpa was away because of the war. Their biological mother didn’t take care of them at all. My father still have painful, vivid memories of that time. It shaped the man and father he became. This couple has changed these boys’ world. They are amazing. I’m so happy for everyone in this family.

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +10

      Support is so important. Thank you for sharing.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +15

      Thank you so much, and i understand exactly what you are saying. We definitely deal with triggers especially with the older boys. But I thank god everyday because the boys are thriving 🖤

    • @vanessahaslam1530
      @vanessahaslam1530 2 года назад +5

      @@bennysanchez7104 You are such an amazing woman !!! Bless your family 🌹 Thank you for stepping up so these kids would not be separated

  • @CreateAdrianaMiller
    @CreateAdrianaMiller 3 года назад +110

    I love How they dress the boys like young gentlemen, ❤❤❤

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +16

      Thank you so much Adriana. The boys are truly amazing. I am honor to called them my sons

    • @CreateAdrianaMiller
      @CreateAdrianaMiller 3 года назад +6

      @@bennysanchez7104 God Bless you for all do in Jesus Name❤❤❤

    • @ethansoweird
      @ethansoweird 2 года назад +2

      fr

  • @janellemargot4376
    @janellemargot4376 2 года назад +41

    I wish nothing but the best for those boys. They deserve it ALL!!!

  • @dalfinacampos7992
    @dalfinacampos7992 3 года назад +276

    Those parents deserve so much and pray God continues giving them the strength to keep strong

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +5

      Thank you Dalfina

    • @delorismcfarlane6848
      @delorismcfarlane6848 2 года назад +3

      I agree with foster mom i did the samethings she dose i always pleaded with DCF TO LET THE KIDSi have in my household to see there family, as she said if when they found out these parents need help try with them before removing them from their parents ,i have been doing foster parenting for 17 years + and i enjoy helping out these children, when they leave they always want to come back, which we have good relationships God bless this family,

    • @oneidavaldez9144
      @oneidavaldez9144 2 года назад +1

      May God continue to bless you

  • @LetsGoLetsGo-xu3ql
    @LetsGoLetsGo-xu3ql 3 года назад +42

    So awesome FIVE brothers were able to all stay together!!

  • @copperpenny7223
    @copperpenny7223 3 года назад +109

    Benny and Eddy are some if the most loving people I have ever come across. The children are so fortunate to have found so much love in your home.

  • @bcoull290
    @bcoull290 3 года назад +90

    Pls do a follow up on this family! I want to see how everyone is doing!
    ❤️

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +34

      Thank you Beth, we are planning to do an updated video soon 😊

    • @ladyzglamour3117
      @ladyzglamour3117 2 года назад +10

      @@bennysanchez7104 you are amazing I loved this story I am also from Washington heights.May God keep blessing ya in many ways

    • @Good-DaySunshine
      @Good-DaySunshine 2 года назад +8

      @@bennysanchez7104 do you have a p.o. box or address to send them something- Christmas maybe?

    • @eb9844
      @eb9844 2 года назад +3

      @@Good-DaySunshine that’s an amazing idea 💕🇨🇦

    • @eb9844
      @eb9844 2 года назад +2

      @@bennysanchez7104 I can’t wait for the follow up video 💕

  • @VancityViolinTeacher
    @VancityViolinTeacher 2 года назад +7

    who needs angels when there are humans like this? so inspirational

  • @edwardhannah
    @edwardhannah 3 года назад +263

    These kids were saved like in the nick of time l mean this is a miracle. The adoption in the courtroom at the end was really moving.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +15

      Our adoption day was full of so many emotions. It’s a day I will never forget 🖤

    • @edwardhannah
      @edwardhannah 3 года назад +8

      @@bennysanchez7104 you and your husband have the biggest hearts. God bless you and your husband and you’re family. And God bless that lady judge!

    • @maurionwyndham9304
      @maurionwyndham9304 3 года назад +3

      What happened to the eldest brother? The one that’s older than Xavier?

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +10

      @@maurionwyndham9304 Their older brother is doing well, he is working full time and lives with his girlfriend.

    • @maryannesimmons4068
      @maryannesimmons4068 3 года назад +4

      @@bennysanchez7104 what wonderful people you both are to be such great parents to children in NEED. May you all be blessed to have each other. Benny do you mind, (as a Mum and Grandma) if I could send some healthy reading material for the boys? (with your permission and contact).

  • @evaadams8298
    @evaadams8298 3 года назад +85

    How amazing are these parents!!! Even organising the mother’s funeral.... Wow.....!!!

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +14

      Thank you so much Eva. Organizing the boys biological funeral was very emotional for all of us, but I knew it was something that had to be done so that the boys would be able to visit their mom whenever they felt the need to.

    • @evaadams8298
      @evaadams8298 3 года назад +5

      @@bennysanchez7104 that’s just beautiful! Thanks for sharing 🙏

    • @arayishb
      @arayishb 2 года назад +6

      @@bennysanchez7104 that is the most selfless and loving thing to do for them, also the greatest example of giving their birth mother the dignity she lost with her addiction. These kids will never forget this example you taught them that everyone deserves dignity, even when it comes at the end. God bless you all.

    • @lisalanthai300
      @lisalanthai300 2 года назад +3

      Much respect for both of the parents. Handsome and respectful boys. God bless their family.

  • @chebyhocutt9055
    @chebyhocutt9055 3 года назад +28

    Benny And Eddy equally yoked! God will forever keep your hearts full with love, courage,and abundance! I thank God for y’all coming into these beautiful young men life!

  • @fayelazaridia7074
    @fayelazaridia7074 3 года назад +17

    When you see stories like this it gives you hope , compassion and humanity still exist in this world, this couple are the definition of heroes, we should all aspire to extend a hand to someone in need , loved this story

  • @lisaferrin362
    @lisaferrin362 3 года назад +107

    Wow! Thankyou Eddie and Benny for standing in the gap for these boys! Thank you for fighting for them and now for raising them all together!Beautiful family!

  • @phyllismagunde5844
    @phyllismagunde5844 3 года назад +645

    May you people never lack. May The Lord meet all your needs.

  • @annieb8984
    @annieb8984 2 года назад +20

    Yep exceptional parents who clearly wants the best for these boys. God bless you, boys enjoy your life with love.

  • @thonnaf
    @thonnaf 2 года назад +23

    Such a loving mother . I'm so happy they're getting the love they deserve. The Father🥺💖 really wear his heart on his sleeve. bless you all🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @disboygotdabeat
    @disboygotdabeat 3 года назад +127

    Absolutely the most inspiring adoption account I have ever witnessed!

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +7

      We think so too

  • @pamelayoung3496
    @pamelayoung3496 3 года назад +138

    This just breaks my heart. It's so sad to see children neglected and illtreated. Love when people adopt and take care of them ,the right way!!

    • @joanneapperson992
      @joanneapperson992 3 года назад +1

      Katie weaveingloom

    • @lindabonzon6833
      @lindabonzon6833 3 года назад +1

      Thank you for saving the lives of these boys bless you both and your family.

  • @alvarez0223
    @alvarez0223 2 года назад +3

    The older brother did the right thing by helping his younger brothers!

  • @lisannm95
    @lisannm95 2 года назад +19

    One of the best things I have ever watched and heard. God bless this family.

  • @chrismorgan9154
    @chrismorgan9154 3 года назад +136

    You will make those boys happy for the rest of their lives and good citizens. Thank you. What a wonderful true story. Eddy and Benny you are the best!

    • @gailhotaling2960
      @gailhotaling2960 3 года назад +3

      Wonderful

    • @judybabcock7591
      @judybabcock7591 2 года назад +1

      Yes yes yes GOD BLESS the parents and the five beautiful boys. I’m happy the boys have a chance to live a good life.

  • @Aritul
    @Aritul 3 года назад +199

    Bless these people for taking in these children and providing them with a home.

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +7

      They're amazing!

    • @judybrown1810
      @judybrown1810 3 года назад +5

      And love

    • @evakonya2167
      @evakonya2167 3 года назад +1

      @@embrella hu⁸9u3666 u89 try

    • @junebreeze5620
      @junebreeze5620 3 года назад +4

      This family (Dad, Mom, siblings, cousins) are all going to heaven. May God Bless you.

    • @judybrown1810
      @judybrown1810 3 года назад +2

      @@junebreeze5620 amen

  • @notmatt1762
    @notmatt1762 3 года назад +200

    crazy how i know ethan and aidan personally as friends… never knew his story until he sent me this

    • @ethansoweird
      @ethansoweird 3 года назад +52

      HIIII ITS ETHAN

    • @notmatt1762
      @notmatt1762 3 года назад +8

      @@ethansoweird b

    • @Info-nh9qc
      @Info-nh9qc 2 года назад +8

      Your very blessed boys to have these decent human beings do this, other kids would give anything for a family like this

    • @gigischultz5999
      @gigischultz5999 2 года назад +3

      sweet

    • @ainembabazisuccessor
      @ainembabazisuccessor 2 года назад +2

      @@ethansoweird hi

  • @Sssilentlaugh
    @Sssilentlaugh 3 года назад +3

    This world needs more women like this mom

  • @olyvoyl9382
    @olyvoyl9382 3 года назад +44

    This a remarkable story. Benecia and her husband have done an outstanding job. They deserve the respect and praise of the community and the families involved.

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +2

      They absolutely do!

  • @jppontat3909
    @jppontat3909 3 года назад +81

    It is still emotional... life is full of stories...and painful ones.Man you got a WIFE and a real one given you by GOD...

  • @demir1844
    @demir1844 3 года назад +30

    The fact that there’s so much support from the community is just beautiful. This was so touching😭❤️

  • @Lorraines633
    @Lorraines633 3 года назад +55

    I cried when I’m watching this , it’s so heartwarming that there are people like you who have a golden heart ❤️

  • @fayphillips3442
    @fayphillips3442 3 года назад +46

    Eddy is such a caring man and he was blessed with a loving wife God continue to bless them all im so happy the children found them 🙏🏻😊❤

  • @mondayswithmayra
    @mondayswithmayra 3 года назад +206

    Benny grew up in Washington Heights. Does this mean she’s Dominican? I am and I’ve adopted 11 kids and, in perfect health at age 79, will be soon adopting a teen from Bulgaria, the only country who doesn’t discriminate because of age. So proud of all you guys, Benny and Eddy and the whole family. I wish I could meet you. The guys who did the video did a great job, too. Thanks for sharing!

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +18

      Wow, you have an amazing story!!

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +35

      Yes I was born in the Bronx and raised in Washington Heights. You are correct I am Dominican 🖤🙌🏻

    • @oraidapretto897
      @oraidapretto897 2 года назад +10

      @@bennysanchez7104 you and your husband are truly angels God bless your family

    • @ana-bananainca790
      @ana-bananainca790 2 года назад +9

      @MayraFernandez, @BennySanchez
      People who do with less so that other’s can have more are the best people anywhere. May GOD bless and provide for you always. Thank you for sharing your Heart and home with kids in need ❤️🌟🍀

    • @dolorescheatom2419
      @dolorescheatom2419 2 года назад +4

      @@bennysanchez7104 And people say New Yorkers don't have a heart. We have to big of a heart 💕. Brooklynite here sending love 💞💕💕💕💕 your way Queen 👑 Benny

  • @user-td6fq7or8d
    @user-td6fq7or8d 3 года назад +3

    I found the adoptive mother to be so engaging when she spoke. She is very wise!

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад

      Thank you so much

    • @user-td6fq7or8d
      @user-td6fq7or8d 3 года назад

      @@bennysanchez7104 Does your family have a public social media where we can continue to follow you guys?

  • @BubbleGumzKorner
    @BubbleGumzKorner Год назад +5

    I love how they interviewed them separately so that the subjects/family would be more open to speak about their awkward/intimidating experience 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @zsuzsannabak1530
    @zsuzsannabak1530 3 года назад +88

    These stories make me believe in humanity. You are so much encouraging

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +1

      That's so sweet!! Thank you.

  • @TheRanaro
    @TheRanaro 3 года назад +70

    Eddy & Benny -- 2 very very very incredible people. GD Bless.

  • @mamachicken1548
    @mamachicken1548 3 года назад +25

    Wow, this video made me cry!! What a wonderful couple to adopt the whole sibling group is amazing!!

  • @NANotApplicable
    @NANotApplicable 2 года назад +2

    I love that she fought for their education and did her best and beyond to get them where they needed to be.

  • @MireyaPosada
    @MireyaPosada 3 года назад +32

    Keeping them together was the most amazing thing they could do for this kids. God bless this beautiful family 🙏🏼💖

  • @zaneatlas7141
    @zaneatlas7141 4 года назад +186

    Praise the Lord Above that these boys found a loving couple willing top give them a home. No one should ever question if they are loved. Much respect for you guys opening your hearts and homes for these gentlemen. .. I'm looking to foster/adopt myself

  • @fibiTeachingInAsia2
    @fibiTeachingInAsia2 3 года назад +45

    This story has really touched me. The boys and parents are truly blessed to have found one another. ♥️

  • @TK-ij2xi
    @TK-ij2xi 2 года назад +22

    They are all good looking, smart, resourceful, children - thank you for giving them a chance in this world.
    If everyone was loved - this would be a pretty cool planet. ❤️

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much.

    • @ginnycleary-zq2pu
      @ginnycleary-zq2pu 3 месяца назад +1

      Agree with you if ALL children had the LOVE their suppose to have, this planet earth would be so much better. All children really need & want is genuine "LOVE", not expensive toys, material things, but just true LOVE.

  • @MarieCooks
    @MarieCooks 3 года назад +92

    You are such compassionate parents. Thank you for giving of yourselves so unselfishly. May God bless you.

    • @susanhowe163
      @susanhowe163 3 года назад +5

      THESE PARENTS HAVE BEEN GUARDIAN ANGELS FOR THE 5 BOYS
      THANK YOU GOD FOR YOUR LOVE AND MERCY
      AND PROVISIONS FOR ALL
      OF CREATION.

    • @lilliancornelius669
      @lilliancornelius669 2 года назад

      Ikmuokk"

  • @madiemartinez7488
    @madiemartinez7488 3 года назад +41

    My heart melts seeing them living in a loving home with loving parents. ❤️

  • @lisag5670
    @lisag5670 2 года назад +32

    What a beautiful family. I laughed, I cried but I walk away feeling so good for these boys 🥰

  • @vegancherry5146
    @vegancherry5146 3 года назад +6

    Knee injury, bored, boom... insta-family!🤣 LOVE it!!!

  • @dennisjeffs4239
    @dennisjeffs4239 3 года назад +171

    Benny & Eddy you are fantastic parents, and to take on 5 wonderful brothers, and to make them part of your family is truly remarkable. Xavier kept his brothers together and made sure they weren't split up, so sad their birth parents were druggies who couldn't possibly look after the family. The boys won't ever forget their past, but the future is magical having a real family bond, which will last forever 👍!!

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +15

      They're an incredible family!

  • @junebreeze5620
    @junebreeze5620 3 года назад +62

    I am so thankful for all of the foster parents and adoptive parents.

  • @Terry-dl4nf
    @Terry-dl4nf 2 года назад +9

    What a fantastic, sensitive and beautiful nature Eddy (Dad) has. The boys were so lucky ... they couldn't have had a better masculine role model. He's also a very handsome man! Benny and Eddy are amazing parents ... no idea how they managed to get through it all. And there's no doubt going to be more to come as the boys grow up. I'm about to watch Part 2....

  • @amyrivers4093
    @amyrivers4093 2 года назад +1

    God bless these parents for keeping the five boys together. It is very rare that larger sibling groups are fostered/adopted together. Xx

  • @donnamontanarella2403
    @donnamontanarella2403 3 года назад +256

    This is such a loving couple. They are a perfect example of how Jesus wanted us to live. Wouldn't the world be a much better place if more people had such this kind of love? The way Benny treated the boys bio mom was incredible. Benny and Eddie are an inspiration. God bless their big, beautiful, family.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +11

      Thank you so much 😊

    • @grash4435
      @grash4435 3 года назад +1

      Specially becace Jesus had a lots of practice brining up family. Someone did not reached age of reason .

    • @angellehull7949
      @angellehull7949 3 года назад +4

      Yes! I couldn’t have said it better! The world would be a much brighter and happier place if ALL humans treated each other with kindness,respect, love and compassion as these parents did! I recently watched a news video regarding India and the tragedy that is unfolding. The comments I read was so heartbreaking and unsettling. People putting blame, pointing fingers, talking politics, but yet very little offered financial help. A lot offered prayers. Prayers are great. God is amazing. But as humans WE all should be digging deep and giving what we can to help others. Our world is sad and I’m sure the way humans treat each other, breaks Gods heart. Is it really that hard to show compassion, be compassionate! To give, to love, to show kindness, to help those in need. Those 440,000 children that need a loving foster home, id jump at the chance in a heartbeat to help as many of them as I can just as I would give to help those people in India. You are so right, our world would be so much brighter. Gods blessing to you and your family, and may Gods Angels wings protect and guide these boys and their wonderful (and brave parents lol) every day. What a happy ending for these young men.

    • @thegroovyhead
      @thegroovyhead 2 года назад +1

      Yes!
      If only all Christians would walk the talk such as these two parents.

    • @victoriadempster6728
      @victoriadempster6728 2 года назад +1

      @@bennysanchez7104 you young beautiful lady have got me sat here whilst admiring everything about you I'm also sat here feeling pretty guilty at the comparison between us. In my next life actually no from tomorrow or even right now I am going to try and be a fraction of the woman, mother and all round amazing human being that you are. So happy for the boys that they found you and you them. Good luck and much love to your amazing family from the 🇬🇧 UK 🥰💋

  • @vernelledouglas1801
    @vernelledouglas1801 3 года назад +84

    God bless these parents and all nine children.

    • @munchuiiu
      @munchuiiu 3 года назад +3

      thanks a lot bro! 🤍

    • @QuestionThingsUseLogic
      @QuestionThingsUseLogic 3 года назад +2

      @@munchuiiu are you one of the 5 boys? If so, may you continue to flourish and do well.

  • @arianamateo5089
    @arianamateo5089 3 года назад +26

    Every second of this video takes me to another emmotional journey. Very loving unselfish parents that God has given these boys. Now let that future shine brightly. Stay blessed

  • @lunarblack9379
    @lunarblack9379 3 года назад +21

    I love her empathy towards the biological mother, and how the system should change...

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Lunar for your kind words.

    • @lunarblack9379
      @lunarblack9379 3 года назад +2

      @@bennysanchez7104 ❤️ thank You😍
      We can all learn soo much from this entire family... " Kindess❤️"

  • @wildamaymi1650
    @wildamaymi1650 3 года назад +23

    This story bring me to tears, I have two adopted sisters and my parents raise seven of their own, and my parents were foster parents. I live with my parents when my sisters came to live with us, I wrote them a short story of two little girls needing a mother and father, and God send his angels to search a mother with room in her heart to love and raise another child.

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, Wilda

  • @jennieperez9402
    @jennieperez9402 3 года назад +64

    I’m crying happy tears. The mom is the strength of the family, bravo 👏🏼. I feel the dad’s pain as he himself was adopted. The kids blossom, thank you to the parents for being there and the kids grow into the beautiful personalities that they have. 💞💞💞💞💞

  • @likemeordont5951
    @likemeordont5951 3 года назад +14

    "I Need to do something about the whole system."
    If anyone can do it, this is the lady that can.
    What a great family. Each person in this video, will inspire so many people throughout their lives, and those people in turn will share that inspiration, and so on, and so on.

  • @callmeifyougetlost2079
    @callmeifyougetlost2079 3 года назад +5

    This is what you call thriving vs surviving. It’s beautiful to see

  • @KattEyl
    @KattEyl 3 года назад +55

    What a beautiful story. Five lives saved.

  • @colormelaay7522
    @colormelaay7522 3 года назад +24

    This family is so genuine I cried look at into her husband's eyes 💯👏🏽mom is so caring and thoughtful what they did for the boys biological mother is so meaningful and I think the boys are really appreciate it in the future !

  • @vincentmartin3034
    @vincentmartin3034 3 года назад +14

    Salute to eddy and Benny for being big heart for the five boys god bless your family 🙏❤️

  • @JozieY1
    @JozieY1 2 года назад +8

    What a beautiful couple. Blessed beyond words. 🙏

  • @lizv5392
    @lizv5392 3 года назад +48

    The couple have a good aura. Idk how to explain it . They got blessed with this kids

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +6

      They really do have a great aura! They made our filming team feel at home immediately.

  • @RJMD-bk1oz
    @RJMD-bk1oz 3 года назад +6

    I was adopted at the age of 6 and it took me a year and a half to fully trust

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +2

      My sons can completely relate, it took them a while to build trust with all of us. Thank god they were willing to open their hearts and accept all of us.

  • @juliegray7658
    @juliegray7658 2 года назад +8

    I am bawling my eyes out at the overwhelming love and kindness of Mom and Dad. Dad seems so kind and Mom is wonderful too. Wow! Glad I do not have to be measured by their stick. I would be found coming up short. Such love for the right thing and the joy these young men give and will give. Wow.

  • @donnawilkinson2151
    @donnawilkinson2151 3 года назад +18

    God brings people in and out of our lives for a purpose. Imagine God chosing you to care for these children. Well done.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +4

      I so agree with you Donna, even though I have changed these boys lives they have also changed mine in a great way. I truly love my sons. Thank you for your kind words

    • @OwlsEyelash
      @OwlsEyelash 3 года назад +1

      So I want to know why god did not give these boys good parents in the first place?

    • @donnawilkinson2151
      @donnawilkinson2151 3 года назад +2

      @@OwlsEyelash You will have to ask him. I don't know.

  • @thesleepingdog4061
    @thesleepingdog4061 3 года назад +67

    Kids Coming out of the system it’s always good to hear positive stories. I’m so glad this family took in all the brothers and not separated them🙏🏼🙌🏼

    • @embrella
      @embrella  3 года назад +9

      It's amazing that they all stayed together!!

    • @bcoull290
      @bcoull290 3 года назад +2

      Yes. These boys r so bonded. Separation would have been too much for them.

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 3 года назад +20

    Omgoodness...If this isn’t God at work, I don’t know who is! May you all continue to be blessed, May God provide you all with what you need, and I pray you all have the best future, your all amazing people!

  • @anakhan3150
    @anakhan3150 3 года назад +5

    The big brother is like a parent to his younger siblings. GOD bless him.

    • @bennysanchez7104
      @bennysanchez7104 3 года назад +2

      Hi Ana, yes Xavier did really take on the parenting role at a very young age. He is amazing. Xavier is now in college and he is thriving and doing amazing.

  • @suzanafernandes2067
    @suzanafernandes2067 2 года назад +11

    What a story! Five lovely boys got a new life. I hope they make these parents proud. May you all be blessed abundantly 💕