Off The Record: What Bad Habits Have You Overcome?

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  • Опубликовано: 17 янв 2025
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Комментарии • 123

  • @bennethbugna7795
    @bennethbugna7795 2 года назад +52

    This episode was mind opening and a really good motivation to reevaluate where I am in life. It's true that trauma during childhood leads to how we behave and perceive things as we grow up. For the longest time I was addicted to always putting people first before myself: people pleasing. Even when I was exhausting myself mentality and emotionally I would still keep putting myself last. I always had a problem of loving myself first, that I just started doing 110% efforts for people (both friends or strangers and everything in between) I'm glad I am now self aware of its effects, but it took a previous relationship to break me and put me in a state of major depression to make me realize. Right now, I'm still trying to figure out self care and focusing on myself, but I am glad I'm trying to change my way of doing things for the better :)

    • @justjo510
      @justjo510 2 года назад +1

      Just one step at a time, the more you do anything the easier it gets my dear, best of luck to ya! This Feb I'll be alcohol free for 3 yrs, best choice I ever made 👍🏽😉🌞

    • @bennethbugna7795
      @bennethbugna7795 2 года назад

      @@justjo510 Thank you, I really appreciate that :) and that's amazing! Congrats and keep moving forward like a champ! ^_^

  • @TimberlyJ
    @TimberlyJ 2 года назад +217

    JK is the worst habit I have.. and I ain't never givin' it up!

    • @courtsideplug
      @courtsideplug 2 года назад +1

      fax

    • @binxbugarin7022
      @binxbugarin7022 2 года назад +1

      Same here!

    • @smolsnek3835
      @smolsnek3835 2 года назад +5

      They inspired me to form a group of down ass people who are strong and real af & give a bunch of fucks about eachother above other random fucks who are dumb and aren't legit. Except I don't wanna start a business with friends really, just prioritize eachother and getting better and strong af together

    • @EdisonChau
      @EdisonChau 2 года назад

      Mine too.

    • @TimberlyJ
      @TimberlyJ 2 года назад

      @@smolsnek3835 woo shesh brother, keep on keepin on

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner 2 года назад +56

    My dad didn’t smoke around us because he didn’t want us to 1. See the bad example he was (his words) and 2. Secondhand smoke. Long story short his bestfriend died from smocking at a young age. He was in his early 50’s. So 2 years after his death his sons did their yearly memorial of their dad. I looked at my dad and said to him dad please I’ve been praying for you to stop. He looked at me and he said, hijita (daughter) I’ve stoped cold turkey since my friend died. I was shocked and happy but also sad because it took his friend to die for him to really see the affects of smoking. I hope this story helps another person quit and go towards a healthier lifestyle. God bless you all. ♥️

    • @-amosc.presley-7192
      @-amosc.presley-7192 2 года назад +2

      Thank you Sis! 💜😌❤

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner 2 года назад +1

      @@-amosc.presley-7192 ♥️

    • @SilentKnight234
      @SilentKnight234 2 года назад

      It sucks that it took something like that for your dad to stop, but be grateful that he did. Hug him and tell him you love him every other day!❤

  • @AL-it3cb
    @AL-it3cb 2 года назад +62

    I really like this one. Everyone opening up and speaking about their personal situations. its refreshing on this channel

  • @NicanorMercado
    @NicanorMercado 2 года назад +13

    So, I'm currently down to my last, few sticks of cigarettes, and I've been going back and forth about quitting this past month. It's probably naive to say out loud, but I needed a sign. Any sign. Then this video showed up in my notifications. After hearing Joe and the rest of the gentlemen discussing their addictions and how they overcame them, and all the comments I've read so far have been eye-opening. I went three months without a cigarette last year. I'm hoping to go the rest of my life without one. Wish me luck. Also, I hope everyone in the comments section overcome their battles as well.

  • @ConchitaxBonita
    @ConchitaxBonita 2 года назад +7

    awesome discussion guys!! i was having a shitty ass morning dealing with a drug addict uncle feeling so low about myself dealing with my own ideations; this is the conversation i needed to hear today thank you all for speaking so openly about your own tribulations. I have hope that we all can overcome and be greater than we were yesterday good today but hopefully not better than we are tomorrow!

  • @OKBYSDAstudios
    @OKBYSDAstudios 2 года назад +4

    Very wholesome ! Love this kind of openness with dudes

  • @Poorpixie
    @Poorpixie 2 года назад +7

    Im in rehab due to addiction. Needed this❤️ Thanks guys, great vid

  • @BerdFly
    @BerdFly 2 года назад +5

    Thats the truest thing about cigarettes and alcohol ive ever heard. You have to push yourself to actually liking those things

  • @sekiro3074
    @sekiro3074 2 года назад +7

    I'm the midst of quitting smoking..
    16 years. Gross!
    I just went out and bought a weight set. Had to make some changes in my life.
    Wish I listened to the people that were giving me good advice when I was younger.
    It's not too late.. but I could've already been in a better place if I had just listened.

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 2 года назад +2

      Good luck on your journey to better health and better habits.

  • @tinabeee7350
    @tinabeee7350 2 года назад +1

    I love what Bart shared about making small steps towards your goal. Really good advice!

  • @yarelybanuelos1004
    @yarelybanuelos1004 2 года назад +21

    So joe hid his cigarette addiction from us? He has never mentioned it before.

    • @EdisonChau
      @EdisonChau 2 года назад +5

      First time hearing it as well

    • @BlenderMountain
      @BlenderMountain 2 года назад +6

      He's talked about it before but never talked about when he quit

    • @jnightmare0
      @jnightmare0 2 года назад

      Nope he's talked about it before and even Bart mentioned it as well, I remember Bart saying Joe was out working them when training even though he smokes, this was around 4 years ago now

  • @vanuri69
    @vanuri69 2 года назад

    This episode is one of the ones I'm here for man. So wonderful to hear these men's stories. For them bieng vulnerable to admit and share.

  • @RevoZtuns
    @RevoZtuns 2 года назад +19

    i feel like Joe's cig addiction was a bit of a surprise to a lot of us... didn't know he only quit relatively recently (4 yrs ago)... thought it woulda been like 10+, but interesting nonetheless.

    • @jnightmare0
      @jnightmare0 2 года назад

      Not really he's mentioned it before a few times

    • @aquaviii
      @aquaviii 2 года назад +1

      I feel like Joe smokes weed

  • @SS-vt1hb
    @SS-vt1hb 2 года назад +5

    My worst addiction was sugar. I used to always have candy on hand because I'd get so antsy if I didn't get a sugar kick. In 2012 I went on an 8 month cold turkey no sugar kick. Only fruit. No sugars in food. After the 8 months if I had even a square of chocolate I felt sick. I don't like sweet things anymore. And alot less subcutaneous fat!

    • @Alex-cm9dd
      @Alex-cm9dd 2 года назад

      Oh wow Thats so interesting! I think a lot of us can relate to that addiction nowadays. What did you mostly eat when u quit?

  • @TheMyriyah
    @TheMyriyah 2 года назад +6

    I still have the very first cigarette I tried 😂 as a reminder never to try that shit again!

  • @ryanb1515
    @ryanb1515 2 года назад +5

    13:20 i’ve found binge purge disorders/eating patterns are super common in sports with weight categories
    speaking from experience 😂

  • @jigglwiggle
    @jigglwiggle 2 года назад +11

    eps been hitting different these days for me idk about yall

  • @Pupusa_power_
    @Pupusa_power_ 2 года назад

    Wow i been watching you guys for years and this episode really just opened my eyes to an issue I didn’t realize i had. Thanks for always being real ones yall. 🙏🏻

  • @vandannng528
    @vandannng528 Год назад

    These are all things I've read from books. Atomic habit talks about accomplishing small obtainable goals consistently. Power of habits talk about rewarding positive behaviors.

  • @mato_fato_ma-ah-fala-falafel
    @mato_fato_ma-ah-fala-falafel 2 года назад +2

    I needed this video

  • @YovaniBinuelo
    @YovaniBinuelo 2 года назад

    Definitely needed to hear this.

  • @lovinggossipgirl
    @lovinggossipgirl 2 года назад +1

    I love this episode. More fun life talks!!!!

  • @Jes-in-Simple
    @Jes-in-Simple 2 года назад +7

    “Some people they learn dance to get P, you learn dance to get away from P”
    😂 very funny end , but a really great episode and topic!

  • @KasheYan15
    @KasheYan15 2 года назад +2

    These have been some really 🔥 episodes

  • @JonathanAlexanderM
    @JonathanAlexanderM 2 года назад +2

    I’m grateful I don’t have an addictive personality started drinking at like 14 (22 now) cuz I’m Dominican but I now i never really drink. Did coke twice, in college. didn’t really get much no desire to do it again. Shrooms twice and also Acid once, I am looking forward to the next time I do that but I’m not in a rush to trip. Had a total of like 2 cigarettes didn’t like it. A whole lot of hookah in college, it was cool but I have no desire to set that up but if I were at something chill and one was there I may be around it. I do smoke weed really often but it’s nothing detrimental to myself and my interactions with society at large.

  • @sumi3girl
    @sumi3girl 2 года назад

    Needed this! :)

  • @DanielRamirez-es9np
    @DanielRamirez-es9np 2 года назад +1

    i just wanna say I love u guys, n I cry when i watch the old vids.

  • @OS2Jaypes
    @OS2Jaypes 2 года назад +2

    We need an episode of Nick giving us a Nutrition 101! Would love this

  • @GGLUISS
    @GGLUISS 2 года назад

    This helped me out a lot thank you guys for everything

  • @YovaniBinuelo
    @YovaniBinuelo 2 года назад

    Def need a pt2 ✌🏽

  • @richardbarba2736
    @richardbarba2736 2 года назад +4

    That's awesome! Joe has the best stories no cap

  • @Blessindisguise
    @Blessindisguise 2 года назад

    The trauma point was really interesting. Also the fact that people get the fix and go back to it later. It really makes you think wow there's a reason and dong this isn't worth it.

  • @acefaaace
    @acefaaace 2 года назад +3

    Quit cold turkey Jan ‘20 and haven’t touched a cigarette since. Glad I don’t do it anymore

  • @dethan221
    @dethan221 2 года назад

    what a dope episode

  • @janalifetrat6622
    @janalifetrat6622 2 года назад +3

    I quiet smoking in 2017 and have the same feeling towards cigarettes as jo

  • @depressionandanxiety4839
    @depressionandanxiety4839 2 года назад +2

    I use to do a lot of psychedelics like acid and shrooms and it fucked me up this happened 2 years ago and it mentally and physically fucked me up and I still have side effects

    • @LaddRusso91
      @LaddRusso91 2 года назад +2

      I was gonna ask what side effects, but then I read your profile name.

    • @depressionandanxiety4839
      @depressionandanxiety4839 2 года назад +1

      @@LaddRusso91 that stuff just made it worse
      Twitching of the face and limbs social anxiety
      Mini seizures all the fun things

    • @jeremystevens6640
      @jeremystevens6640 2 года назад +1

      @@depressionandanxiety4839 those are not fun things mate

  • @stevecobain5479
    @stevecobain5479 2 года назад +1

    My worst habbit is that whenever steve greene is on the show, I automatically puke.

    • @stevecobain5479
      @stevecobain5479 2 года назад +1

      Honestly it isn't a bad habbit, it's like when you eat something rotten and you shit watery shit, it's a signal telling you stay away from certain food/human.

  • @OrangeMDT
    @OrangeMDT 2 года назад +1

    Cris did not just say he was addicted to getting women XD
    Like not a sex addiction, just addicted to catching one night stands

  • @ASMRandrealubana
    @ASMRandrealubana 2 года назад +1

    Joe needs to go to that Costa Rican vegan Commune that was in Netflix's "Down to Earth". Joe could live like his ancestors and have a mud hut

  • @dorkievi
    @dorkievi 2 года назад

    We need an another episode for this topic as not everyone went!

  • @2XPWeeknd
    @2XPWeeknd 2 года назад

    Joe looking like kung lao from mortal kombat this episode haha

    • @pokiis3of10
      @pokiis3of10 2 года назад

      Im a huge kung lao fan and did not see it, noob

  • @nancymichellemorales9793
    @nancymichellemorales9793 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this episode 🙏🏼

  • @sxhxlzxb
    @sxhxlzxb 2 года назад

    My dad just stopped one day, from smoking cigs ever since he came to Canada to live w us (my family). He been smoking since 15

  • @joeinthanou7961
    @joeinthanou7961 2 года назад

    Windmill Away!!!

  • @mzkarma6751
    @mzkarma6751 2 года назад +1

    i rly needed this video from u guys i've been dealing with a cocaine addiction for 20 years

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 2 года назад +1

      May you get the help and healing you need and the strength and courage to overcome the addiction.

  • @ricac.2102
    @ricac.2102 2 года назад

    had a friend who was able to quit smoking when his baby was born bc he doesnt want to hold his baby while smelling like cigs
    then theres my uncle who freaking blew smoke at us as kids 😅

  • @SuperSlimshady1
    @SuperSlimshady1 2 года назад

    22:26 I wish I had your problem been alone already it's gotten old quick

  • @Zhcwu
    @Zhcwu 2 года назад

    I too have done a fair share of drugs..... Cigarettes by far the most addictive back in mind for a while you always think about it, it's terrible.

  • @fixietang92
    @fixietang92 2 года назад +1

    But our body's do know how to process meat.

  • @letsagreetodisagree3474
    @letsagreetodisagree3474 2 года назад +1

    joe is 30 omg 😳

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster 2 года назад +1

    Cigarettes is a legal drug. Hard to quit

  • @BikeShorts69
    @BikeShorts69 2 года назад +1

    I gotta get away from my hen's tie addiction so I can get real 🐱 man... 😔

  • @Pharaoh_The_Great
    @Pharaoh_The_Great 2 года назад

    Joe should let others chime in on the conversation lol

  • @davidyu6255
    @davidyu6255 2 года назад +1

    Cold turkey works - I cold turkeyed crack and cigarettes. Cigs was harder.

  • @-amosc.presley-7192
    @-amosc.presley-7192 2 года назад

    Ain’t gonna lie?
    But, all kinds of Beers isn’t nasty even though I doesn’t drank no more and I didn’t have to play Beer Pong to prove a point.
    Honestly, said

  • @diegoescarfuller5096
    @diegoescarfuller5096 2 года назад

    Sosa needs to be a regular

  • @mzkarma6751
    @mzkarma6751 2 года назад +1

    way to go joe proud of u ✊🏾

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten 2 года назад +1

    i was thinking about this earlier this week, how do you know something is a bad habit that you can overcome vs this is just your personality and who you are? for example, being too talkative or maybe clingy. like some people just like being around people. theres a balance but are you fighting against nature or nurture ?

  • @freddiebeltran8174
    @freddiebeltran8174 2 года назад

    Gangsta

  • @adhamgalal8719
    @adhamgalal8719 2 года назад

    Damn such a cool episode

  • @navis1831
    @navis1831 2 года назад +4

    fantasizing over joe, but thats not a habbit i wanted to break lol

  • @cusifeltlikeit
    @cusifeltlikeit 2 года назад

    I felt bro on the women thing

  • @alextaylor6755
    @alextaylor6755 2 года назад

    Joe is the number one roll model to everyone in the world keep it up

    • @jeremystevens6640
      @jeremystevens6640 2 года назад +1

      LOL Not really I am the number one roll model because I don't do stupid things smh 🤦

  • @SunnyJay479
    @SunnyJay479 2 года назад

    Damn joes 38 young looking nikka

  • @stevecobain5479
    @stevecobain5479 2 года назад

    That black guy is so uncomfortable with himself look at that clown, his body language is weird and tense as he'll. I don't like him already.

  • @upcyclesarah7439
    @upcyclesarah7439 2 года назад +1

    JKN PODCAST. You gotta do it

  • @ItsLGLOVER
    @ItsLGLOVER 2 года назад +3

    :D

  • @unit03
    @unit03 2 года назад

    Is that a Jojo reference!!??

  • @MasterHandles
    @MasterHandles 2 года назад

    ...

  • @solblaze77
    @solblaze77 2 года назад

    joe smokes weed sometimes tho lol

    • @JonathanAlexanderM
      @JonathanAlexanderM 2 года назад +1

      Weed and bogies are two different things. Sure smoking/ taking in anything isn’t the best but bud by far is the better substance

    • @jeremystevens6640
      @jeremystevens6640 2 года назад +1

      @@JonathanAlexanderM bud is not the better substance only oxygen is the better substance nothing else SMH 🤦

    • @JonathanAlexanderM
      @JonathanAlexanderM 2 года назад +1

      @@jeremystevens6640 if you read it again, slowly, you can see when I said “sure smoking/taking in anything isn’t the best” I’m well aware of that dude. It’s weird how a statement could be 2 sentences and somehow folks still zip past half of it
      All love tho🙏🏼 stay safe out here 🤝

    • @jeremystevens6640
      @jeremystevens6640 2 года назад +2

      @@JonathanAlexanderM I understood your comment perfectly mate apparently you didn't read my comment very well because if you did you would understand what I was talking about smh 🤦 it's all good though all love and peace to you mate stay safe 🙏✌️❤️ and lay off smoking anything mate

    • @vincentlaw6985
      @vincentlaw6985 2 года назад

      @@jeremystevens6640 poison differ in degree even a fool knows that.

  • @Osk33t
    @Osk33t 2 года назад +1

    Damn bro I thought joe was cool

  • @bennyeclavea6774
    @bennyeclavea6774 2 года назад

    F

  • @Yomommafoo22
    @Yomommafoo22 2 года назад

    Lets celebrate with joints

  • @smolsnek3835
    @smolsnek3835 2 года назад

    Cigarettes can't get me hooked for some reason, but I do enjoy em. Cigars and pipes are chad stuff though and they don't hurt ya

    • @jeremystevens6640
      @jeremystevens6640 2 года назад +3

      Actually they do hurt ya mate SMH 🤦

    • @smolsnek3835
      @smolsnek3835 2 года назад

      @@jeremystevens6640 no they don't

    • @jeremystevens6640
      @jeremystevens6640 2 года назад +1

      @@smolsnek3835 LOL ya they do they all do the same thing which is destroying the body and the mind mate the only thing we human was meant to breathe is oxygen sheep 🐑 LOL 😂🤣🤦 but hey keep breathing in that poison sheep 🐑 LOL 😂🤣🤦

    • @Shannonbarnesdr1
      @Shannonbarnesdr1 2 года назад +1

      @@jeremystevens6640 yeah i have known folks who only smoked a pipe who got the copd,the emphysema, mouth and throat cancers, granted some pipe smokers only do it on rare occasion, they dont tend to get sick, but your regular smokers, h yes, they do get sick, nicotine and tar, arsenic, etc. is still present in pipe tobacco

    • @jeremystevens6640
      @jeremystevens6640 2 года назад +1

      @@Shannonbarnesdr1 just do you and me a favor and don't smoke anything mate 😢😭✌️❤️

  • @Pupusa_power_
    @Pupusa_power_ 2 года назад

    Wow i been watching you guys for years and this episode really just opened my eyes to an issue I didn’t realize i had. Thanks for always being real ones yall. 🙏🏻