After my wife was diagnosed with cancer, she would sing this song to me when she thought I was asleep. Been just over seven years since she passed away. Still hard to listen to this song. But damn it if i don't love it. Today is the 9th anniversary of my wife's passing. Thank all of you kind and loving people for all your well wishing and love for the last year. All you interwebs strange have greatly improved my mental health and well being. Love to all who have read this and all that will. Another year. Still getting love and feels from a bunch of strangers on the interwebs. You are all awesome. I am thankful for all the support and kindness from you all. It's been a couple years now. Apparently I can no longer respond to everyone. Thank you to everyone that keeps commenting and sending your love and inspiration. You are all greatly appreciated Its been over 12 years now that my wife passed away. Going on over five years since I made the OG post about her singing this song to me and I'm still getting love and positive thoughts from a bunch of wonderful people. Everyone that has posted and taken time out of their days to make me smile and lighten up my day has been awesome and everyone that reads this and thinks of me, you are amazing.
I am so sorry about this. Cancer is a very frustrating disease to go through. My mom was diagnosed with it and she would yell at me a lot and then apologize.
I’m literally cryin’ right now. this was my favorite song when I was 11. I’m 26 today and I just wanna go back to living a simple carefree life as a kid
This is a love song about an abusive relationship sang from the perspective of the abuser. At least, that's how it kinda sounds. Poetic and pleading yet furious
@@easternoodles7058 she just acts. These songs are written by songwriters (the most famous one is max Martin), she didn't write one word by herself lol
I personally don't feel like Pink was as idolized as other female artists with such success. She deserves more. She's literally a Queen Edit: this comment was a year ago please stfu and stop commenting thx
So awesome of a message about codependency and abusive relationships. I'm 3 years clean and sober and free. Thank You so much for carrying the message ❤
I love this video. It shows how hard it is to get out of an abusive relationship, even if you're a man and your female partner is the abusive one. I know the video has some comedic direction, but still portraits how damaging the toxic and abusive relationship can be for both parts, the victim and the abuser. At the start they're both looking good and normal, but by the end they're both messy, covered in makeup and the guy has it worse with his bruises and eye damaged. There's no good for none of them! Great video and great message.
I love pink last time I watched music video on MTV I was crying and nothing about it I wish was my mother but everytime I cried I'll cried cried cried I watched it music video at night pink my hero I love that song called please don't leave me I love it 😢😢😢💗💗💕💕💔💘💘💘💘💕💕💕💕💕👍🌹💐
manipulation, anger, mood swings, different personas(self-image), impulsiveness, self harm or others, I don’t even need to talk about fear of abandonment this song is representing BPD for sure
Also female abusers and domestic violence against men, which is often not taken seriously and lacks represent. Good on her to bring awareness to all this stuff
Its crazy how every song from pink has a message - with a look to many relationships, where they don’t want to let each other go when its long over and they hurt each others soul again and again and get the worst out of each other. Really deep.
It’s 2024 this song is not getting old I never get tired to play even for how many years or decade will passed such a great masterpiece during my childhood days ❤
yes!!! i loved her missunadztood album way oh way back... and all music coming from this artist who first broke the mold established by the candy pop artist... she is my first lady gaga... my first katy perry... my weird kesha... and my power vocal and dancer rihanna. she set the standards of which all the daring artist took mold from... recall the music of early 2000s and know what pink laid b4 us...
Am I the only one that thinks this song is a very good representation of abusive relationships and how the other person will hurt you, wound and scar you then they will say that they love you and they need you. Very well done P!nk well done! *nods in approval*
Elements of yandere are also played with in this song. It starts out looking pretty normal, with the boyfriend packing his bags and P!nk trying to keep him from leaving... until the boyfriend slips on marbles at the top of the stairs. The robotic head tilt she does looking down on him just seals it. And from that, madness, violence, and cute little hats ensue. ;) ( I also love how "Harajuku goth" she is in this video. With so much pink, dolls, and stuffed animals. And all of the outfits, especially! )
Yes this song sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder or something similar. This song's lyrics tell a story definitely highlighting abusive relationship dynamics.
It's been ten years since I was in love, and after finally being diagnosed with BPD, I understand why this song used to be my favourite back then, any why she left me. This used to be me.
As a person with BPD..is was also me. Probably why I loved this song as a kid so much! a toxic relationship where both of us was emotionally and mentally abusive. Didn’t even realize i was also a problem.
HyuninSupremacy: You have great taste in music! I wish Pink was famous when I was a younger, she is so empowering & encouraging to Everyone! I had the worst self confidence in Middle & High School, Pink would've definitely helped. I'm so happy my twin daughters listen to her. Many many blessings to you and your Family💯❤
I just went to a Pink concert on Monday and I had to show my daughter (who went with me) how Pink's air stunts began. Pink is just a force guys. She is just...AMAZING. I feel silly how very much I care for a stranger but damn I love that women!
This song is so relatable to, I'm sure many people in a toxic relationship, but especially people with BPD. It's so hard to live with it and try to NOT be this way and to be healthy.
A comeback? She's been putting out songs like crazy and just released an album? :o No idea what you mean by comeback, she's been the queen all along :D
comeback?! she's been putting out music consistently, since 1999, she's the only "pop," star of the turn of the century who didn't have a falling out period ( even Britney and Xtina, who she was compared to so much, even had flops and fall outs for YEARS, Pink never has ) it's standard to put out music every 2-3 years, takes time to make albums
I was 3 years old when this song came out and I heard it when I was only 9 yrs old, now I'm turning 19 and going to college while playing this song when it's shuffled through my playlist, everytime I hear this song, I just remembered how much love I have for this masterpiece, my childhood was completed when I play this song without knowing the full meaning of the lyrics, I grew up listening to P!nk, she is remarkable. My childhood years was so memorable because of her songs, I really want to thank p!nk for always releasing her songs, I always relate to her songs, and I'm going to pursue nursing, and this song is always my go to. It boosts my confidence and serotin. ☺️☺️☺️
I believe this song and video represent a couple that is in a toxic relationship. How they fight and always go back together, but at the end one of them has had enough. They live in a rollercoaster of emotions with the other person. We can see that these type of relationships leave both hurt at the end. I can relate. We have all been in one of the psycho relationships once or twice in our lives. I am honest.
Every fucking Word..except "please don't leave me", because the game is not over until I m the one that got away, even if I know I will turn to God again and pray at night to give me strenght to not lose my mind over how bad it hurts 🎉
Wow I seen this in my feed this is ol skool brings back such memories 2010 I believe ...the world has changed so much i miss those days we can never get back God bless you all ❤
People obviously don't get the true message of the song, it's about having abandonment issues. I for example have this problem, so when i think someone is leaving me i try to hurt them. You get into a manipulative relationship this way, a lot of times the person will come back to you once you apologize. It's typical of people have have rough upbringings and were used to people they loved hurting them, so they repeat the same behavior. If you don't get that, be happy that it doesn't make sense to you.
How is it possible to be so strong, tough and self-sufficient, yet so vulnerable and human? What an impressive performance...her voice breaks my heart every time! She is FAR from perfect, and daring to show that is admirable...🥰⚒
@@Whiteboytherapper Yep. Really it was the singing and the way she performs that I was getting at, while still having personal reservations about a lot of things too. 👍
I believe this is a good portrayal of abusive relationships...and she portrays herself as the abuser. Showing how people will beg you to come back I don't mean it, oops it was an accident, and I nearly killed you but I still love you. It sends a positive message about a negative situation, especially by putting herself in the abuser's position.
Gaston Diaz It's not that males are the only abuser because that is definitely not true, however they are the more common abuser. They are also the ones most talked about in media so it is an interesting and uncommon choice to see the female in a hetero relationship as the abuser and not the victim.
actually it shows that women and men abuse each other at nearly the same rate. Most abuse goes both ways in where they abuse each other, 50% of cases show this. And in cases where the violence is uni-directional women have been shown to more likely be the abuser, than the victim at a rate of around 2-3% more than men.
I think the violence is just a metaphor. It shows how deeply actions and words hurt someone. To wound a persons heart is sometimes more painful then being hit with a golf club. Oh yea, and the thin line between love and insanity...
And it took me 35 yrs to Understand Need has Nothing to do with Love. Hopefully by my 37 B day this year imma say Farewell Forever to my Emotional Neediness. Time to Reinvent Oneself ✨🦋🧘♂️
She was also clearly inspired by 'Misery' which is another novel by Stephen King about a women who kidnaps a writer and breaks his legs and tortures him in other ways so he won't leave her. There is a film version with Kathy Bates in.
YESSSSS! & when he sprays her in the face w/ the dry shampoo (or hairspray whatever it was) @3:30 i think it might a reference to It when Eddie sprays Pennywise with his inhaler "this is battery acid you slime!!!" lol
i just love how shes trying to stop him from leaving her, because she doesnt rly want him to get hurt, but no matter what she says hes still trying to escape, so she has prepared all those traps...thats just too adorable, love this woman
Fun fact, while drafted into the army I listened to this song whild driving 3 hours at 4am omw to the base, lol. I just realized it 13 years later. Banger song, brothers.
I like how it acknowledges she's abusive but still is deseperate for him not to leave her.. it's really sad especially when she probably knows it's for the best if he does
@@Pegettisauce that contrast is what keeps me coming back to this song. Any time I catch myself identifying too much with it I know it's a warning sign that I need to reevaluate how I treat my partner.
Kuroshitsuji. You forgot the dress she wore towards the end. The pink one with the hat. Ciel Phantohive wore it in the anime Black Butler (Kuroshitsuji).
this hits different when you have bpd so every single day is a "how is she gonna be this hour and i truly hope this happiness doesn't sink into catatonic depression/fury after one little bad things happens/gets remembered" ---- the patience my partner has is astounding
When this video first came out, I was in high school. I was so mad that she was begging a guy to stay. Then at 24, I begged a jerk to stay with me. I am so happy he didn't listen to me. Life is so much better without him.
I relate to this so much. I haven't gotten to the stage of thinking I'm better off without him yet,I miss him so much. But our relationship was toxic :(
This music video is the gaslight anthem lol😂 I’m just realizing how wise pink was all the stuff we talk about now narcissism, toxic traits, law of attraction ,manifesting etc it’s hidden in her lyrics she is an earth Angel
Lyrics I don't know if I can yell any louder How many times have I kicked you out of here? Or said something insulting? (Da-da-da-da-da) I can be so mean when I wanna be I am capable of really anything I can cut you into pieces When my heart is Broken (Da-da-da-da-da) Please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da) Please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da) I always say how I don't need you But it's always gonna come right back to this Please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da) How did I become so obnoxious? What is it with you that makes me act like this? I've never been this nasty (da-da-da-da-da) Can't you tell that this is all just a contest? The one that wins will be the one that hits the hardest But baby, I don't mean it I mean it I promise (Da-da-da-da-da) Please, don't leave me, oh Please, don't leave me (don't leave me) I always say how I don't need you But it's always gonna come right back to this Please, don't leave me I forgot to say out loud How beautiful you really are to me I can't be without You're my perfect little punching bag And I need you I'm sorry (Da-da-da-da-da) (Da-da-da-da, da-da-da-da) (Da-da-da-da-da) Please, please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da) Baby, please, don't leave me (no, don't leave me) Please, don't leave me (I always say) I always say how I don't need you But it's always gonna come right back to this Please, don't leave me (yeah) Please, don't leave me (I) I always say how I don't need you But it's always gonna come right back to this Please, please, don't leave me Baby, please, please, don't leave me
In the music video pink acted crazy and seemed to enjoy what she did but i bet in reality she cried a lot when she wrote this song. I guess the core of the song isn't about an abusive relationship. It's about someone who has defense mechanism to pushed away people they love, act like they don't need them, being mean when actually they don't mean it. It's the opposite, they actually still very much love the person. People with trauma develop those self defense mechanism sometimes. An abuser never actually love you, they seems to love you but they actually doesn't. The music video just focus on the begging, they made it comical and exagerated and yeah if it goes that far it is pretty much an abusive relationship. In 2020 this music video won't happen. We have more sensitivity towards abusive relationship.
I never hit any person I was seeing. Ever... we all do not strike physically. I have been struck. So I became trained to protect myself and my children as well. To prevent it in event it ever halogens again. It also saved me from strangers who attacked me. Best investment. We all may verbally over react at times for sure. I usually 99% of time talked it out. Same with my other half.
Dear Hollywood, Would you please watch these videos and realize that Pink has more acting talent than 99% of the so called "A" listers you put in your films, and make some good movies with her before she's too old? You missed Stevie Nicks, don't miss Pink too.
My ex best friend used to sing this to me and tell it was how she feels about me and also about her then boyfriend. She was also a diagnosed narcissist. Sometimes I miss the friend I THOUGHT she was, but I listen to this song and remember why I no longer have anything to do with her.
After my wife was diagnosed with cancer, she would sing this song to me when she thought I was asleep. Been just over seven years since she passed away. Still hard to listen to this song. But damn it if i don't love it.
Today is the 9th anniversary of my wife's passing. Thank all of you kind and loving people for all your well wishing and love for the last year.
All you interwebs strange have greatly improved my mental health and well being. Love to all who have read this and all that will.
Another year. Still getting love and feels from a bunch of strangers on the interwebs.
You are all awesome.
I am thankful for all the support and kindness from you all.
It's been a couple years now. Apparently I can no longer respond to everyone.
Thank you to everyone that keeps commenting and sending your love and inspiration.
You are all greatly appreciated
Its been over 12 years now that my wife passed away. Going on over five years since I made the OG post about her singing this song to me and I'm still getting love and positive thoughts from a bunch of wonderful people. Everyone that has posted and taken time out of their days to make me smile and lighten up my day has been awesome and everyone that reads this and thinks of me, you are amazing.
I'm so sorry 😭😭😭
My wife also past away from cancer and I do agre with you that she will never will leave my side. Cheers
I am so sorry about this. Cancer is a very frustrating disease to go through. My mom was diagnosed with it and she would yell at me a lot and then apologize.
GRIM FIREHEAD omg 😭❤️😞
Keep going you can do it I’m sorry your wife passed
That "dadada dadada" at the beggining is sooo nostalgic😭😭😭😭❤️
Q
Yes 😂
YESSSS
Дадада!
Of course especially if you born in 2000
I’m literally cryin’ right now. this was my favorite song when I was 11. I’m 26 today and I just wanna go back to living a simple carefree life as a kid
Oh very sad for you
Not gonna lie, at 11 life was a lot worse than now. Sorry for you though.
Same same…I’m 26 too..and pink is still my favorite artist..
I was jamming out to this shit fr and now I have BPD 😂😭
Same, I don't know how I came here, but it reminds me My childhood
every video of pink is funny but has a deep message, that's genius yo
🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
🥊❤
You do knowbits a rip of if a Stephen King book and movie called Misery don't you?
Still very good but she should give Mr King a nod.
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Where's the funny??
I dont think pink gets enough credit for being such a great actress
Who says that's acting.?. xD
She's an ARTIST (very great 1,& there's a lot more to come,go girl,& ur a great actress x
Pink dose not act,
She sings from the Heart.
That man doesn't get enough credit for putting up with it😂
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I love her
This is a love song about an abusive relationship sang from the perspective of the abuser. At least, that's how it kinda sounds. Poetic and pleading yet furious
You hit the head on the nail cuz that's exactly wat she was trying to express, she's brilliant..
she makes alot of songs based off of it and it makes u wonder if shes ok
@@easternoodles7058 she just acts. These songs are written by songwriters (the most famous one is max Martin), she didn't write one word by herself lol
Eh turn it up..
@Jerry L. That IS an abusive relationship.
Pink is an artistic mix of fragile and unbreakable
Deep,... Sick video
I think the word you're looking for is "raw," far from fragile
Fragile ,like a bomb lol
here
Omg yes!!!!
She's always helped me through her music. I Thank the universe for ppl like her.
Just a random guy wishing you all the best and a brilliant day, good vibes may always be with u too! 😁😇
Sending you roses 🌺💐🌷... Are you single ?
Agree❤
Thankyou God, Not His creation ❤
"I can't be without, you're my perfect little punching bag
And I need you, I'm sorry"
That is the sincerest piece of writing.
Sad but true: too many relationships like this
Now think what would happen if a man sang this. Yeah ikr...
If this song speaks to you, get tested for Borderline Personality Disorder. You have it.
@@noahreson-brown8943 brain scans show they are really different.
I guess she wrote this when separated from carey hart..they separate for a short time during the early years of their marriage right..
I personally don't feel like Pink was as idolized as other female artists with such success. She deserves more. She's literally a Queen Edit: this comment was a year ago please stfu and stop commenting thx
Somehow, the fact that she was less idolized makes her even more awesome.
metaphorically
@@asura8495 literally
@@elig7087 metaphorically literally
She's idolised here in Australia as much as the other Queens. Australia loves pop more than the US or Canada does.
Does anyone else have a night, nostalgic marathon with P!nk too?💫
Me
Every single night
I have to play 18 wheeler,don’t let me get me, like a pill...p!nk is my bitch
Me
Totally doing that tonight
So awesome of a message about codependency and abusive relationships. I'm 3 years clean and sober and free. Thank You so much for carrying the message ❤
Just 1 year shy of the same thing 😊🎉going to dinner with my family and to celebrate the summer
May your sobriety be continued and blessed. 🙏🏽
I love this video. It shows how hard it is to get out of an abusive relationship, even if you're a man and your female partner is the abusive one. I know the video has some comedic direction, but still portraits how damaging the toxic and abusive relationship can be for both parts, the victim and the abuser. At the start they're both looking good and normal, but by the end they're both messy, covered in makeup and the guy has it worse with his bruises and eye damaged. There's no good for none of them!
Great video and great message.
johnny deep
I love pink last time I watched music video on MTV I was crying and nothing about it I wish was my mother but everytime
I cried I'll cried cried cried I watched it music video at night pink my hero I love that song called please don't leave me I love it 😢😢😢💗💗💕💕💔💘💘💘💘💕💕💕💕💕👍🌹💐
Jeremiah 17:9 KJV The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?
RoseThistleArtworks The Bible is a bunch of fairytales. None of that is real.
@@blueberrypitbull87 oh stfu, no one asked. Just let people believe what they want to.
manipulation, anger, mood swings, different personas(self-image), impulsiveness, self harm or others, I don’t even need to talk about fear of abandonment this song is representing BPD for sure
i have BPD and i see myself in this video
@@henrikek423 same :/
Me too :(
Also female abusers and domestic violence against men, which is often not taken seriously and lacks represent.
Good on her to bring awareness to all this stuff
@@music2012pink yeah i thought so too i was tryin to see what was so wrong based on the amount of dislikes,,
Its crazy how every song from pink has a message - with a look to many relationships, where they don’t want to let each other go when its long over and they hurt each others soul again and again and get the worst out of each other. Really deep.
Exactly 💯
that's because she writes about her real life experiences
@Kelsey Christianson the song is about her and her husband, the music video I'd say is probably just her having fun with it.
2023💖
Talking about her own relationship
Pink's voice is a gift.
Yes. Not s pop music fan here but she's got some set of pipes...what a voice.
2024 Has Anyone
Yes❤
God gave it to her
Before 'thank you, next' and 'blank space' we got 'please dont leave me'
Celestia Yashida 83299797401
Spot on
And before this we had pretty baby by vanessa carlton
And, let's be friends? And let the whole world go to hell!
Those are the crazy ones!! I've been with one...kinda miss her but,she was actually a he....
I grew up listening to Pink. Me being 34 now, she's even more relevant than ever. What a fucking GODDESS.
So u must`ve been 13, while gettin' ur party startin' then......😉😆.
Feel you on those facts!
@@ingobund730 I was definitely very young when she first came out! Partying...not so much. 🤣
Same I used to listen to it as a kid because my mum loved her but now I understand the lyrics so much more
This, 35 now. Pink got me through high school with her Misunderstood album. She and Linkin Oark saved my life. The world needs more relatable artists.
I remember not liking this song when it was new, but growing up and understanding the lyrics and living through it. Changes your whole perspective
I remember that song when I watching a music video I was about to cry because this song looks heartless
After like 20 years i realized i love almost every Pink song :O
This yes!!!
Same here hon. All my love hope you have all you deserve now!
Literally sitting here thinking the same thing!!!
It’s 2024 this song is not getting old I never get tired to play even for how many years or decade will passed such a great masterpiece during my childhood days ❤
Awwww that's so sad you'll get a link on trust fall. My love xxxxx
❤
I'm currently going through it && remebered this song😂
🖤
🎉😢😮😮😮😮😢
I remember when this first time I watched this, I was around 5 years old, and I starting crying watching the video, the memories
Same
When I first saw kt I fell in love with it and the song. I can't remember how old I was though. At least under 10 is all I know.
+Irene The Queenn mmmm you made me feel old
Same
same
Let's all agree that this song is a masterpiece, it did not fail to make us happy
I remembered it from 12 years ago, I was 7 years old then
True, but if the roles had been reversed?
This is depressing lmfao
She's fuckin amazing
No she isn’t
*When your happy you enjoy the music, when your sad you understand the lyrics.*
So true ........😘😘😘😘
Wow I never saw it like that
I feel you perfectly well.
I do so too
Facts
They just don’t make pop music like this anymore, it actually had meaning and substance and still managed to be beautiful and bouncy
When you're grown up and finally understand the lyrics of the song you heard as a kid. :(
So true😂😂😂😂😂
EXACLY
I'm 7yrs old
You ok?
I know what he mean, when u r (for exemple me) french and u were have 13, and now 24, life it not the same 😭
Anybody else just watching over old P!nk videos since her new one dropped. She's such a gem.
yes!!! i loved her missunadztood album way oh way back... and all music coming from this artist who first broke the mold established by the candy pop artist... she is my first lady gaga... my first katy perry... my weird kesha... and my power vocal and dancer rihanna. she set the standards of which all the daring artist took mold from... recall the music of early 2000s and know what pink laid b4 us...
Yep
My god this is exactly what the dj said the first time I heard her on the radio
2023 I'm still listening this because this song never gets old.
@@jakekeil7715the dj was saying hes watching old p!nk videos from way back?
Billie Eilish: I make creepy music videos
P!nk: *wHeRe'S mY aXe?*
Billie is trash.
Lol
Yes
Billie seems cool but no, not my type.
@@Liberal_From_Prairies689 not as P!nk
I love how when p!nk sings you can hear the emotion in her voice
Grateful I Never Actually Fell In Love..
I'm Safe Now..
Celibate Rights 101!
2024 Never Stop Listening This
same❤
This has got to be inspired by Stephen Kings books, the entire video is basically Misery with a touch of The Shining
I saw that too! :D hahahhaha
yeah the video is based on Misery, or more likely the vid was inspired by Misery
Its more of misery then the door scene is from shining
bed of roses
I was thinking Misery and the Dresden Dolls. This has Amanda Palmer written all over it.
The way she looked at him when he fell😂😂😂
yeah lol
Like "Seriously. You f***ing idiot."
Nah & Dray yj
Nah & Dray Love
Nah & Dray like "Wat"
Best song about accountability, humility and forgiveness.
I want her back in 2022
Her voice and genuity is solid gold! ❤
2024 Anyone
P!nk's voice😘👍
Am I the only one that thinks this song is a very good representation of abusive relationships and how the other person will hurt you, wound and scar you then they will say that they love you and they need you. Very well done P!nk well done! *nods in approval*
Elements of yandere are also played with in this song. It starts out looking pretty normal, with the boyfriend packing his bags and P!nk trying to keep him from leaving... until the boyfriend slips on marbles at the top of the stairs.
The robotic head tilt she does looking down on him just seals it.
And from that, madness, violence, and cute little hats ensue. ;)
( I also love how "Harajuku goth" she is in this video. With so much pink, dolls, and stuffed animals. And all of the outfits, especially! )
that actually sounds like it might be true
Yes this song sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder or something similar. This song's lyrics tell a story definitely highlighting abusive relationship dynamics.
Ah the memories... I was like 12 when I first heard this... Still love this song.
Mr. A I was like eighth when I saw this video. I absolutely loved it
Vanessa Riveria ?
Mj
six dude. good song
Mr. A I was 10. 💚
This my favorite song then 14years again I still come back in 13 09 2024 to listen to this song when I’m acting anyhow to my wife I fell like crying 😅
It's been ten years since I was in love, and after finally being diagnosed with BPD, I understand why this song used to be my favourite back then, any why she left me.
This used to be me.
Can we talk? I have some questions...Thank you!
As a person with BPD..is was also me. Probably why I loved this song as a kid so much! a toxic relationship where both of us was emotionally and mentally abusive. Didn’t even realize i was also a problem.
Ive been looking for a bpd comment… same
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lol this the BPD anthem
Is someone to listening this song - 2019 ??
Yas💕
Yes sometimes I miss old songs
Io
Of course, it does not grow old!
Hell yeah that's good music
Omg, i miss my childhood.. I grew up listening to her😭✨
Me too.. I loved her first album Can't Take Me Home ❤️💜❤️
Literally same
HyuninSupremacy: You have great taste in music! I wish Pink was famous when I was a younger, she is so empowering & encouraging to Everyone! I had the worst self confidence in Middle & High School, Pink would've definitely helped. I'm so happy my twin daughters listen to her. Many many blessings to you and your Family💯❤
same here
I just went to a Pink concert on Monday and I had to show my daughter (who went with me) how Pink's air stunts began. Pink is just a force guys. She is just...AMAZING. I feel silly how very much I care for a stranger but damn I love that women!
This song is so relatable to, I'm sure many people in a toxic relationship, but especially people with BPD. It's so hard to live with it and try to NOT be this way and to be healthy.
Rachel K I love Pink...
Your exactly right 🤘🏻
@E.K. with BPD, it's harder to not be that way. It has nothing to do with psychopathy.
I don't have BPD but I have alot of similar issues
You hit in the point
How did I forget pink had so much hits?? She needs to make a comeback asap
A comeback? She's been putting out songs like crazy and just released an album? :o No idea what you mean by comeback, she's been the queen all along :D
Freddie Bierner are you that unaware of the music scene? lol. you're an idiot
They mean they black pink
Um? Beautiful Trauma.. and Hurts2b Human? Lol, I’m appalled.
comeback?! she's been putting out music consistently, since 1999, she's the only "pop," star of the turn of the century who didn't have a falling out period ( even Britney and Xtina, who she was compared to so much, even had flops and fall outs for YEARS, Pink never has )
it's standard to put out music every 2-3 years, takes time to make albums
P!nk plays psycho killer way too well lol its awesome
Lol Ikr!
***** Lol!
lol true
Kyana BLUM kamsutra open
I was 3 years old when this song came out and I heard it when I was only 9 yrs old, now I'm turning 19 and going to college while playing this song when it's shuffled through my playlist, everytime I hear this song, I just remembered how much love I have for this masterpiece, my childhood was completed when I play this song without knowing the full meaning of the lyrics, I grew up listening to P!nk, she is remarkable. My childhood years was so memorable because of her songs, I really want to thank p!nk for always releasing her songs, I always relate to her songs, and I'm going to pursue nursing, and this song is always my go to. It boosts my confidence and serotin. ☺️☺️☺️
2024
I believe this song and video represent a couple that is in a toxic relationship. How they fight and always go back together, but at the end one of them has had enough. They live in a rollercoaster of emotions with the other person. We can see that these type of relationships leave both hurt at the end. I can relate. We have all been in one of the psycho relationships once or twice in our lives. I am honest.
So true Mike.
I have borderline personality disorder and this song resonates with my soul.
i just think the sameeeeeeee
I agree me 2 😢😅😂😮😅
Every fucking Word..except "please don't leave me", because the game is not over until I m the one that got away, even if I know I will turn to God again and pray at night to give me strenght to not lose my mind over how bad it hurts 🎉
me too sweetie and its a living nightmare :( stay strong much love x
I fully concur...BPD sucks i swear
This song never gets old even after 12 years😌
Blows my mind it's been 12 years 😭❤️
FACTTTT
2023💫
@@blessing291 this song comes out in July 21st 2010 by pink 💗 💕 💖 💓 😍 ❤️ this song by pink 💕 from 2010
2024
Anyone else here in 2024?
No way !
Here!
,✋
Wow I seen this in my feed this is ol skool brings back such memories 2010 I believe ...the world has changed so much i miss those days we can never get back God bless you all ❤
Yuhhhhh
She is so beautiful and crazy and talented and so crazy beautifully talented and I love her 🙃
i love pink so much so is so pretty smart loving caring and has a great voice she makes people have such a good feeling i love pink
This was before American Horror Story Omg Pink would be such a cool character.
I agree
She still could
They can still apply it shit if they continuing american horror store
Concordo kkkkk
@PINKHATER PINKSUCKS so you watched her old ass music video to hate on her in the comment section? Damn you're miserable.
I love Pink but she makes a great villain.
Shannon F-PA yeah!
As someone with BPD, I really feel this song.
Tojiiii
Same and yet they always leave bcz they can't handle my intensity😅
Sorry to hear that. My friend has it but she can't understand and I lost hope 😞Would you have time for a short chat please?
@@MrTiomanisland who r u talking to?
It shows how crazy love can make you and how you would do anything for the person you love.....even if it means losing yourself and going crazy
I agree
yes for real...
What this video and song is saying isn't about healthy love it's a toxic abusive relationship
Oh hell yes.
You're spot on Nina.
Am I the only one who cry listening to this song?
me too
The song was sad but the video was scary as in pink trying to kill him.
Isadora Luiza yes, you psycho
***** ;-;
I do too because this was my grandmothers favorite song of hers, and my grandmother passed away last December.
You can never listen to only one of pink's song. When you start you always find yourself jamming to an entire album
Literally what I’m doing right now
@@dakotahowat Guys I’m in your club right now 🫱🏻🫲🏾
So true
Какая талантливая актриса. Голос-сладкоголосой сирены. Эта девочка-просто бриллиант! ❤❤❤❤
Even though this song is over 13yrs old it never gets old ly so much merry Christmas everyone❤
Merry Christmas Rachel ❤
Из России С Любовью!!!)))
I love that it's emotional and had a story. I miss that
😭
I love this song and I love pink
3:26 HERES PINK
+adryan mackenzie hahahahah xD
I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thought that
+adryan mackenzie psycho pink is coming, to town!
I thought the same! XD
LOL thought the exact same thing when I saw that part
People obviously don't get the true message of the song, it's about having abandonment issues. I for example have this problem, so when i think someone is leaving me i try to hurt them. You get into a manipulative relationship this way, a lot of times the person will come back to you once you apologize. It's typical of people have have rough upbringings and were used to people they loved hurting them, so they repeat the same behavior. If you don't get that, be happy that it doesn't make sense to you.
Yep, bpd
Yes I can relate as I was in a relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder.
This song is about BPD! P!nk is a great singer ❤
How is it possible to be so strong, tough and self-sufficient, yet so vulnerable and human? What an impressive performance...her voice breaks my heart every time!
She is FAR from perfect, and daring to show that is admirable...🥰⚒
As a man, this video and the support for it scares me.
@@Whiteboytherapper Yes, I understand that sentiment.
@@rooramblingon895 yeah man. But regardless, shes a great artist and I hightly respect her for her talent and outspokenness
@@Whiteboytherapper Yep. Really it was the singing and the way she performs that I was getting at, while still having personal reservations about a lot of things too. 👍
@Roo s racing rambles.Yep,freaks me out when ppl get honest like that.
I was like 8 when this was released and I remember it because my mum is like her biggest fan
That is so f**ing scary to read comment like this to the fav song you consider to be pretty new.
AlexaOrchid what do you mean? this was released 7 years ago
I a big fan a big fan
I know. Just time goes by so fast:)
dito!
Her music is always such a spiritual experience for me. I am more grateful to her than she'll ever know.
This song never gets old In 2023 for Pink
@cravahope25
Oh I Definitely Agree!!!!
This song will forever be a comfort. ❤ I feel this song more than anything now that I'm an adult
I believe this is a good portrayal of abusive relationships...and she portrays herself as the abuser. Showing how people will beg you to come back I don't mean it, oops it was an accident, and I nearly killed you but I still love you. It sends a positive message about a negative situation, especially by putting herself in the abuser's position.
I agree with your comment. Trust me I really do agree. She was also portraying the role in Misery.
I hope you are not saying this as if only the male in every heterosexual relationship can become the abuser.
Gaston Diaz It's not that males are the only abuser because that is definitely not true, however they are the more common abuser. They are also the ones most talked about in media so it is an interesting and uncommon choice to see the female in a hetero relationship as the abuser and not the victim.
actually it shows that women and men abuse each other at nearly the same rate. Most abuse goes both ways in where they abuse each other, 50% of cases show this. And in cases where the violence is uni-directional women have been shown to more likely be the abuser, than the victim at a rate of around 2-3% more than men.
I think the violence is just a metaphor. It shows how deeply actions and words hurt someone. To wound a persons heart is sometimes more painful then being hit with a golf club. Oh yea, and the thin line between love and insanity...
And it took me 35 yrs to Understand Need has Nothing to do with Love. Hopefully by my 37 B day this year imma say Farewell Forever to my Emotional Neediness. Time to Reinvent Oneself ✨🦋🧘♂️
Finding myself exactly where you are 😓
Sometimes love is a drug and sometimes drug can kill you.
Happy to see you got out of the danger zone 😉
I remember I was watching this when I was little (p!nk was one of my favorite artists, still is) and my brother got scared of her from this video😂
Melaniesky 318 🤣🤣😂😂
Lol
he will probably join the navy or work at the wal mart
Give to your brother another song from her 😁😂 FUNHOUSE
Why do you listen and make comments. Let everyone listen that like her.
I heard this during a stay at a mental hospital(5150) in 2009. It was so many years ago, but it's so clear in my mind.
Was it BPD? I just experienced that from my "best" friend.
I dedicate this song to all the people out there who's favorite show has been cancelled.
geez I love you dude 😂
Or takes forever for a new season *cough cough, Sherlock*
🌚
Desperate Housewives...
I really wanted to watch Desperate Housewives, seemed like a good show.
I love the reference to the The Shining movie and how this video can mix romance and horror at the same time.
She was also clearly inspired by 'Misery' which is another novel by Stephen King about a women who kidnaps a writer and breaks his legs and tortures him in other ways so he won't leave her. There is a film version with Kathy Bates in.
I love misery!!!!!!
Nice
Clearly based on Stephen King's Misery
Yeap
PINK HAS SOME OF THE BEST MUSIC AROUND 🎶 AND SHE'S STILL PUTTING OUT THE GREATEST HIT'S!!
2023 I'm still listening this
2024 Cant Get Enough Of Pink ❤
I love this song great guitars great drumming great words great chorus great voice and I've been through six music decades.
It's probably one of those songs I never stopped listening to from 2009 til now. Everyday on repeat.
@@ghjh56ich liebe dieses Video und das Lied ❤❤❤❤
Pink is so beautiful. She is beyond bold with words.
Her music is with very emotional lyrics with a lively tones ...rock this world with your beautiful songs
Pink is the real Harley Quinn
+weezy Huss yeah and those puppets in the background are fucking creepy!!!
YESSSSSS!!!
Hussein AB SO TRUE :o
really I thought that u loved dolls
Hussein AB, shortli yea!🔊
Love the Stephen King references in this video.
Elias Mertens is this a Stephen king reference?
Britty's Journal yeah to misery, dolores and shining.
YESSSSS! & when he sprays her in the face w/ the dry shampoo (or hairspray whatever it was) @3:30 i think it might a reference to It when Eddie sprays Pennywise with his inhaler "this is battery acid you slime!!!" lol
Elias Merte
LEIK
Me: bored in quarantine
Pink: hey pink marathon?
Me: YES
Also Me: but it's 3am
Pink: well ?
And well that's how I ended up here
check please me 2
Mood
Literally me right now
@@indigourbanczyk8406 errr same what??
same now
This was my favourite song as a 10 years old kid.Damn.
i just love how shes trying to stop him from leaving her, because she doesnt rly want him to get hurt, but no matter what she says hes still trying to escape, so she has prepared all those traps...thats just too adorable, love this woman
Paula Daylight you're sick
Paula Daylight if the roles reversed would you still think the same?
Paula Daylight adorable or creepy?😂😂
domestic violence... awww how adorable
Paula Daylight your a very sick woman and your a feminist
Catchy song, I really like some of Pink's tunes. I'm glad she has a happy family life.
Fun fact, while drafted into the army I listened to this song whild driving 3 hours at 4am omw to the base, lol. I just realized it 13 years later. Banger song, brothers.
I have loved Pink's songs ever since in my teenage life and now in my early 30s, they still rock🔥🔥
Now I really feel old 😂
this dong describe how obsessed people act on a relationship.they act bad,abuse you n then expect you not to leave them....this is painful
I like how it acknowledges she's abusive but still is deseperate for him not to leave her.. it's really sad especially when she probably knows it's for the best if he does
I
Is this how you are with dudes? Have you been guilty of this?
@@Pegettisauce that contrast is what keeps me coming back to this song. Any time I catch myself identifying too much with it I know it's a warning sign that I need to reevaluate how I treat my partner.
@@elizabethterlinden3078 also, reevaluate how they're treating you to.
Movie References:
Misery
Cujo
The Shining
What Ever Happened To Baby Jane?
LMAO!
book reference the bible GOD and US
And also the entire video reminds me "Roses against Roses"....
Anyway....she s a genious
...and Loved ones
Kuroshitsuji. You forgot the dress she wore towards the end. The pink one with the hat. Ciel Phantohive wore it in the anime Black Butler (Kuroshitsuji).
Relistening to old Pink musics makes me realize I'm getting old, 11 years ago, I can't believe it is from so much time ago
yep
I still got that song
I know
Música boa e outra história, pode passar o tempo que for que continua perfeita ❤
Caraca esse Drive que ela tem na voz é a coisa mais linda que existe ....
Vocal perfeito..
Magnífico.
this hits different when you have bpd so every single day is a "how is she gonna be this hour and i truly hope this happiness doesn't sink into catatonic depression/fury after one little bad things happens/gets remembered" ---- the patience my partner has is astounding
Oh, boy! It resonates with me, another BPD
Do yall want a group chat? Im really trying all resorts to find friends who struggle like me and understand how hard it is.....
@@destinymaxson6113 hey thereeee
When this video first came out, I was in high school. I was so mad that she was begging a guy to stay. Then at 24, I begged a jerk to stay with me. I am so happy he didn't listen to me. Life is so much better without him.
The SAME happened to me, I feel you girl, now I’m thankful of being without him 🥰
Yes. Like that Garth Brooks song; Sometimes I Thank God For Unanswered Prayers! So true! Like they say: hindsight is 20/20!
I relate to this so much. I haven't gotten to the stage of thinking I'm better off without him yet,I miss him so much. But our relationship was toxic :(
@@ruthlessxo99 it will get better! Be strong, sending good vibes 💞
@@Sol-zx9zh thank you so much 💖 I really hope it gets better soon, heartbreak is the worst thing
This music video is the gaslight anthem lol😂 I’m just realizing how wise pink was all the stuff we talk about now narcissism, toxic traits, law of attraction ,manifesting etc it’s hidden in her lyrics she is an earth Angel
I love this song as i feel that pushing people away is the only way to be truly happy. I am always wrong. Thank you Pink ❤️
Lyrics
I don't know if I can yell any louder
How many times have I kicked you out of here?
Or said something insulting?
(Da-da-da-da-da)
I can be so mean when I wanna be
I am capable of really anything
I can cut you into pieces
When my heart is
Broken
(Da-da-da-da-da)
Please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da)
Please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da)
I always say how I don't need you
But it's always gonna come right back to this
Please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da)
How did I become so obnoxious?
What is it with you that makes me act like this?
I've never been this nasty (da-da-da-da-da)
Can't you tell that this is all just a contest?
The one that wins will be the one that hits the hardest
But baby, I don't mean it
I mean it
I promise
(Da-da-da-da-da)
Please, don't leave me, oh
Please, don't leave me (don't leave me)
I always say how I don't need you
But it's always gonna come right back to this
Please, don't leave me
I forgot to say out loud
How beautiful you really are to me
I can't be without
You're my perfect little punching bag
And I need you
I'm sorry
(Da-da-da-da-da)
(Da-da-da-da, da-da-da-da)
(Da-da-da-da-da)
Please, please, don't leave me (da-da-da-da-da)
Baby, please, don't leave me (no, don't leave me)
Please, don't leave me
(I always say) I always say how I don't need you
But it's always gonna come right back to this
Please, don't leave me (yeah)
Please, don't leave me
(I) I always say how I don't need you
But it's always gonna come right back to this
Please, please, don't leave me
Baby, please, please, don't leave me
She's got some acting skills
I agree she should b in a movie
@@PrettyNicky50 She's actually been in a movie. And she was great.
Que nostalgia. Essa música fez parte da minha adolescência. Saudades desse tempo. Pink sempre servindo música.
Same ❤❤❤
In the music video pink acted crazy and seemed to enjoy what she did but i bet in reality she cried a lot when she wrote this song. I guess the core of the song isn't about an abusive relationship. It's about someone who has defense mechanism to pushed away people they love, act like they don't need them, being mean when actually they don't mean it. It's the opposite, they actually still very much love the person. People with trauma develop those self defense mechanism sometimes. An abuser never actually love you, they seems to love you but they actually doesn't.
The music video just focus on the begging, they made it comical and exagerated and yeah if it goes that far it is pretty much an abusive relationship. In 2020 this music video won't happen. We have more sensitivity towards abusive relationship.
I agree, 100%
Duhh
@Meaghan Kelly True
No
Well said
well uhh.. loved the song since release, first time watching the music video tho.. wasnt expecting that..
I know right!?!
It's the lyrics which mean a lot in this song!we all strike out and we all must listen too this when we're unable too say sorry
I never hit any person I was seeing. Ever... we all do not strike physically. I have been struck. So I became trained to protect myself and my children as well. To prevent it in event it ever halogens again. It also saved me from strangers who attacked me. Best investment. We all may verbally over react at times for sure. I usually 99% of time talked it out. Same with my other half.
Julho de 2023 e continuo assistindo esse clipe Icônico da Pink!💕🇧🇷
Dear Hollywood,
Would you please watch these videos and realize that Pink has more acting talent than 99% of the so called "A" listers you put in your films, and make some good movies with her before she's too old? You missed Stevie Nicks, don't miss Pink too.
she was in one of my movies I have
alexis johnson Thanks. More and better would be nice.
F*cking-A right.
maybe she's not acting?
P!nk had some acting jobs. Catacombs is one, Charlie's Angels 2, Gloria-voice role on Happy Feet 2, and Thanks for Sharing.
My ex best friend used to sing this to me and tell it was how she feels about me and also about her then boyfriend. She was also a diagnosed narcissist. Sometimes I miss the friend I THOUGHT she was, but I listen to this song and remember why I no longer have anything to do with her.
I'm sorry to hear that bro. I truly am.
I relate to this.