@beer for breakfast.... anyway guys have you eaten all the sweets or kuih?.... i forgot to tell you that the wajik has to be kept in the fridge, it can stand out of the fridge for a few days then it will grow moldy.... so check first before you ate them.....
During the solemnisation, other than the father of the bride, there must be 2 witnesses to witness what the bride say, it must loud and clear. As for the presents, it is always given in 5, 7 or 9 or 11 or in uneven numbers and the bride has to match by giving xtra 2. Example if the groom gives 7 than the bride must match it by 7
Hi Mischa and Christina!! Thank u so much for coming to our solemnization!! It was our honor and pleasure having u girls during the ceremony..please do keep in touch! By the way, are guys still in Malaysia on the 23rd March? If yes, we are inviting you to "Majlis Bertandang" to the house of family groom in Sungai Petani, Kedah. Will DM you thru IG
Malaysia is multicultural ,malay, Chinese,indians.I noticed and seems you get along with malay culture our blood cousins,malay race .Im from the Philippines.
erza scarlet ,we ,in the Philippines are generally are of malayan race .Our ancestors came mainly from Indonesia ànd Malaysia thousand years ago.Im 25 percent chinese maternal side.
of course we were and are related from now and then especially those from Borneo and territories surrounding it..the only thing that divides us is geographical location and other few stuffs..
wow..that is truly traditional Malay wedding, with traditional music and clothing materials..its rare to have a wedding like this now. both of you are lucky.
I reckon they must be from a well to do family. The residential area of the bride family looks like a middle-class housing complex. The whole arrays of 'hantaran' or wedding gifts look expensive. The decoration, arrangement and design inside the house for the 'nikah' or solemnisation ceremony is quite elaborate. The aesthetics presented is Malay in essence. It seems that the family still care for the Malay customs, traditions and heritage with all the Malay style of embroidery on the wedding ornaments and 'songket' weaving on the traditional Malay dress, 'kebaya' and 'baju Melayu' attire, 'tanjak' or 'tengkolok' (the male headgear) complete with the traditional Malay musical troupe - it's really charming and refine. The music played is what traditional Malay melody essentially sounds. It's beautiful and amazing because even though the family is obviously from a Malay middle-class, urban and modern family but they still manage to keep the Malay customs, traditions and heritage intact. Thumbs up for the family and congratulations to both the beautiful bride and groom.
it's my first time to see a malay wedding and it looks beautiful. thank you for the video and it allowed me to peek into the culture of other nations that said, i would like to say congratulations to the bride and groom. 👰 🤵 best wishes🎉🙏
Traditionally, for a Malay wedding you can have up to three parties 😂 The solemnisation, the reception from the bride's side, and the reception from the groom's side. Nowadays most newlyweds just have one reception, mostly to save costs 🙂
Congratulations to the couple. Also congratulations to both of you two, with how comfortable the locals are inviting you to something as auspicious and private as these and how you blended in, it's huge recognition to both of you, you're one of us Malaysians now through and through. Welcome back to Malaysia by the way, you're always welcomed here. :)
Weddings are not a private event (for malays). We normally invite all of our relatives, neighbours, colleagues and friends (of both parents' and bride/groom). The invitation card sent out usually around 1000/1500 and the expected guest around 3000 people. This is for the reception. The solemnization (as in the video) is normally for family n close friends (around 80-100guests)
Anna, thank you so much for inviting us to your families wedding through the lens, it was beautiful. Congrats to the bride and Groom many blessings to you both, GOD bless you Anna and your family, girls thank you GOD bless you both
so glad to have u girls back in Malaysia! and i love how the bride's cousin explained about the solemnisation ceremony to you guys. It's very clear and hope you guys learned something new :D
Heck we malaysians invite a lot of people. We invite our neighbours,friends and family that we know and it could come up to more tham 1000++ people. This is the spirit of collectiveness that we always do
The day they're married, we called the bride and the groom as "Raja Sehari" or "King/Queen of the day". That's why they wearing like a king and a queen and on that special day all their needs will be served as a king and a queen. They will sit on the cinema or "pelamin" and all guest will celebrate them with joy... u guys was so lucky enough for the invitation on their solemnisation because that occasion usually for the family's members only or special person. On the day of wedding then they will invites everybody to come to their wedding celebration. Loves to see both of you girls back to Malaysia...
Vincent Chin, yes tongkat ali i found it in chinatown (inside petaling street) somebody offered it to us and we love it. I’m lucky now bcoz almost all supermarkets in Kuwait have 5 in 1 Ali Cafe from Malaysia and in it with tongkat ali and ginseng. Very addictive. 😍❤️🤤😋 and the aroma will kill the Nescafé . Lol 😂 sorry Nescafé
Vincent Chin, yes tongkat ali i found it in chinatown (inside petaling street) somebody offered it to us and we love it. I’m lucky now bcoz almost all supermarkets in Kuwait have 5 in 1 Ali Cafe from Malaysia and in it with tongkat ali and ginseng. Very addictive. 😍❤️🤤😋 and the aroma will kill the Nescafé . Lol 😂 sorry Nescafé
Thanks for this. A new way to educate about the culture of other nation is to experienced it by yourself. Immerse yourself. I have fun watching you guys. Hope you could attend also a Filipino traditional wedding. So other nations could also educate about our culture. Cheers 🥂
Don’t have any at this moment 😅Preferably attend wedding in the province or in a tribe because it is much more traditional and the culture are still rich while wedding in the cities were already influenced by the westerners. Instead of wearing the traditional national clothing for special occasions (Barong and Maria Clara dress), they rather wear tuxedos and gowns.
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Majority of malay race are Muslims, Malaysia, Indonesia, Singapore and Southern Thailand and brunei whith the exemption of the Philippines ,roman catholic majority with muslim minority concen trated in southern Philippines in Mindanao island.Im a Catholic from the Philippines from the island of Luzon,i love my malay brothers and sisters.
Right nico.. Before spanish invaded Filipina , the philipines were Muslims, after the spanish colonial rule which had been demolished and aspotasy by the colonists. The only southern philippines were excluded from being demobilized and aspotasy because of the opposition of the mindanao society. However, our Malay affiliation will not be cut off.
You both are invited to a perfect Malay wedding/solemnization. Colourful decorations, traditional music and setting. Very beautiful ceremony. You both did very well to capture the feel of it and I'm happy you girls enjoyed yourselves. From a fellow Malaysian
Where the lady stated the Bride will sit is called "Adat Bersanding".The myrad "Gifts" is called "Hantaran" it must be sent in non even numbers.If a man send 11 a lady must give back 13.Always more never lesser
That's interesting... Here in Singapore, we Malays don't have a set amount of "hantaran" to give. Both bride and groom can give as many as they want (don't have to be odd numbers). Maybe that tradition was lost over the years?
Solemninastion aka "Bernikah"= Where the Man and Girl becomes husband and wife.The next day is "Kenduri" its where the feasting begins..basically people eat and get to see who is marrying whom.Qadi is the person conducting the marriage.In Christianity..basically a priest will do that.But oh my......bernikah has that many people and you guys are invited? They honoured you
Lol. The word ‘honored’ is just sound so exaggerated. This family just being nice by inviting them to the ceremony. Plus they’re foreigners, so why not invite them to a Malay wedding so that they can experience the Malay culture themselves? But the invitation is sure not to ‘honored’ them. There is no way you invited two strangers (well, not completely stranger since they know each other before) to your Akad Nikah but not your close friends? ykwim?
Liked before watch. Haha. Congrats to the newlyweds! What an honour for both of u girls to witness the nikah ceremony where only the closest are being invited. Lovely experience once again!
for all restaurateur in malaysia.....they already mentioned they want to taste a malaysian food...please to obey..(kau bagi sekali asam pedas kat depa....sambal tempoyak ka).......trust me they will love it
tu lah...... feeling like asking them out to lunch this wknd, saturday morning would be nice.... we can go to the farmer's market first, then cross the road to sample negeri sembilan fare at the raso omak den restoran, they can also sample mee rebus and rojak , nasi ayam, also johorean food then to sample murtabak or maybe go into a tea room and having some cakes.... what say you @beer for breakfast???
i miss wedding 😭😭 btw, i like to call the Solemnization as the original "Akad Nikah" . actually it's equivalent to Exchange Vows .. and ..i must say.. it's so special to be invited to the Akad Nikah ceremony. usually family members & close friends only. ♥️👍 after than got receptions . celebration / feast by bride side. then groom side
Congratulations to the bride and groom, and you guys did an amazing job with this video! However i just wanted to point out in case someone takes offence to this because of incorrect wording. Wali does not actually mean an elder person who 'previously owned the girl'. It means the person who was previously responsible for the woman before the groom agrees to take on that responsibility. So the wali can be the father, grandfather, brother, uncle, etc. Anyway, you girls are gorgeous and the video is great. Cheers!
Hey beautiful ladies! I love your contents as always! I can say your topics are much more interesting if compared to the rest not just by simply reviewing on the food etc. What I like about your vlog is because you also blend well with the locals that's what makes your vlog as refreshing as ever something that most vloggers won't be able to do so. Keep it up for the good work both of you muaaaah !
Thanks so much !!! We think that locals and our interactions with them is just inseparable part of our daily lives and it’s our favourite aspect of travelling ♥️
I usually don't watch youtube videos till the end....but this one, i must say my eyes were glued to my handphone screen till the end!! Your videos are interesting and very informative too! Thanks for showing the world how beautiful and blessed Malaysia is!
During every wedding I had with my cousins(Malay weddings also), I always ends up being the one to wash the dishes and clean up the dining area. Heh, at least I get paid all the time(even though I would've worked for free)
Very informative video and its one of the best!!! Im happy for you girls finally be able to attend Malay wedding ceremony, i think this can consider a rich family wedding....correct me if im wrong....looking forward next one....😘😘😘
You girls remind me of my sisters wedding. She married a guy from UK. A week prior to the wedding the whole family from UK came and we had so much fun especially 2 days before the ceremony. We were so excited..more excited than the bride and the groom. We were busy looking for the perfect outfit during the day. That was such a memorable event for me, my sister and the whole family..have a good time girls and take care.
Wow congratulations to the couples and your first experience of Malay wedding.. in any case you may find some variation of Malay wedding differ by states and local traditions.. the one you attended is the simplest version mostly done by all new couples nowadays which is akad/solemnization/recital of vows and afterwards a simple wedding service with buffet dinner... the wedding service traditionally are done on different days on 2 separate occasions whereby there will be one done by the bride side and the other by the groom side.. some Malay wedding may have ceremonies for days (up to 7 days) with berinai (painting of hands-the red coloured henna),flower bath and different change of clothings.. the food varieties will differ if a more localised menu is served and in some area (in kampung/village) people gather up to cook the wedding meals together.. and on the way to the house the group of wedding reception will do the ber-arak/family and relatives walking together with kompang to the bride house and on arrival some groom are challenged with poetry/pantun before being allowed to enter the house of the bride during wedding service.. afterewards during the wedding service you can observe the bersanding/where the bride and bridegroom sit together at the decorated altar/pelamin and the parents and close relatives (usually the family elders) will meet the bride and groom at the pelamin to give blessing by sprinkling rose water (merenjis).. then there will be makan beradab where the bride and groom sits together to dine with the family elders at one long table while the rest of the guests eats with family and friends either buffet or served.. some modern version of cake cutting is also common but usually there is pulut kuning/ yellow glutinous cake served.. entertainment wise you can see the silat/ a form of Malay martial art, traditional dances and joget, traditional music karaoke, traditional instruments played like ghazal (like the one on this ceremony).. hope you really enjoyed the wedding receptioan and perhaps more wedding invitation in the future
So cool! Most malays are Muslims so it was really nice of you to attend the religious segments as well even though it might have been awkward for u guys! ❤️
The solemnisation looks amazing! The use of songket in her dulangs looked beautifulll! We all love wedding foods 😂 Cliché but we’ll never get bored! just to let you guys know, solemnization is to officially marrying the couple while reception is for the “real” celebration, we invite not only our friends but pretty much everyone we know 😂 reception can go up to 1000-2500 people 🤣
The songket petal containers ( 5 pcs left, the bride took 4 pcs for memento) are for rent, so are the trays (9 pcs).... have silver plastic trays (7 pcs) too...... if interested dm/pm me, ig- @trianaweddingbelles fb- Ashtriana Hamzah / Triana Wedding Belles..... thanks....also accept order for hantaran flower arrangement, fresh or artificial......
Wow...nice to see u both came for malay wedding..i hope u stay here until ramadhan soon and fasting with us..its more intereting..thanks for sharing this video with us..love u 👭👭👭
Ibu2 malaysia ini pinter banget ngomong English. Mungkin orang Malaysia saban hari cakap inggris. Aku yg belajar bahasa Inggris 10 tahun di sekolah di Indonesia pun tak mampu speaking sama native speakers hehehe. salut sama malaysia... ada pengaruh British
It's great that u were invited to THIS wedding because it shows a proper traditional wedding. i am a Malay too, when i was younger, i thouht of if I ever got married, i would just buy my clothes online and do the ceremony in McDonald's. My family thinks i'M nuts
Impressive.. i also choose malaysia because they live peacefully with another races, respect each other, nice and helpful.. we feel comfortable.. unique country..
You know what's the best part of having different religions in your family? You get to experience different wedding culture. I love my family's Muslim part wedding. Although I still need to help them out but I always get to eat a lot of food. Like a lot a lot.
In Islam, the “wali” is the guardian of the bride 👰 (father, uncle, brother, grandpa). In the case of the muslim converts bride that non in the family are muslims.... the imam will be the wali(guardian).
2:55 Correct, the person who gives away the bride is "wali". But the cousin's explanation of "wali" as the one who owned the bride was off the mark, quite understandable on the spur of the moment. "Wali" is borrowed word from Arabic which literally means "guardian". The heirarchy for guardian is father, paternal uncle and brother. If no guardian available (due to death or being untraceable), the guardian is the state authority represented by the wedding priest. 10:15 Do I hear right, from 8:30 am to 10:30 pm? Most unusual, never heard of it. The ones I attended, quite a few, or heard of went on for six hours at most.
Thanks so much!!! We've been back for over two weeks now! SO excited! Do you have an instagram? Feel free to follow us there too: beerforbreakfastvlogs to keep up to date with us!
It's said that on the wedding day, the bride and groom are king and queen for the day. That's why the bride and groom sit on the grand looking chair on the dais.
Im impressed ...those baju kurungs fit you both so well you both look so gorgeous....im not so lucky then perhaps it's my shape @ out of shape hahahaha
Hi Mischa n Christina, thanks for the video. Hope you njoy the Malay's wedding. I hope you can pay a visit in kedah and lot of place you can visit if you are a food hunter.
If we missed any important points about the ceremony, please comment down below so other viewers can be informed too! Thanks!
I was gonna comment "when's the main feast?" & then you said it at the end..
Looking forward to that video..
@beer for breakfast.... anyway guys have you eaten all the sweets or kuih?.... i forgot to tell you that the wajik has to be kept in the fridge, it can stand out of the fridge for a few days then it will grow moldy.... so check first before you ate them.....
U should experience the kampong's malay style wedding if u get any chances to do so..
During the solemnisation, other than the father of the bride, there must be 2 witnesses to witness what the bride say, it must loud and clear. As for the presents, it is always given in 5, 7 or 9 or 11 or in uneven numbers and the bride has to match by giving xtra 2. Example if the groom gives 7 than the bride must match it by 7
malay wedding is unique.its a combination of hindu and islam culture.in case you dont know
Hi Mischa and Christina!! Thank u so much for coming to our solemnization!! It was our honor and pleasure having u girls during the ceremony..please do keep in touch! By the way, are guys still in Malaysia on the 23rd March? If yes, we are inviting you to "Majlis Bertandang" to the house of family groom in Sungai Petani, Kedah. Will DM you thru IG
Your wedding ceremony is nice.... The wedding bride cloth is so beautiful... But can i know if you collect the barbie doll?
Wahh.. selamat pengantin baru sis
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Malaysia is multicultural ,malay, Chinese,indians.I noticed and seems you get along with malay culture our blood cousins,malay race .Im from the Philippines.
Hey Nico! Thanks for your continued support! 💙
Kumusta!😊 love from Malaysia 🇲🇾
Bakri Halim , kumusta din ,ola from the Philippines
erza scarlet ,we ,in the Philippines are generally are of malayan race .Our ancestors came mainly from Indonesia ànd Malaysia thousand years ago.Im 25 percent chinese maternal side.
of course we were and are related from now and then especially those from Borneo and territories surrounding it..the only thing that divides us is geographical location and other few stuffs..
Thanks for sharing the malaysian wedding, I never seen one before. Its so colourful !
Thanks for your continued support!!! 💙
you should joint them next
wow..that is truly traditional Malay wedding, with traditional music and clothing materials..its rare to have a wedding like this now. both of you are lucky.
Thanks so much darling! ♥️
Just majlis akad nikah...but the majlis persandingan not traditional anymore...
I reckon they must be from a well to do family. The residential area of the bride family looks like a middle-class housing complex.
The whole arrays of 'hantaran' or wedding gifts look expensive. The decoration, arrangement and design inside the house for the 'nikah' or solemnisation ceremony is quite elaborate. The aesthetics presented is Malay in essence.
It seems that the family still care for the Malay customs, traditions and heritage with all the Malay style of embroidery on the wedding ornaments and 'songket' weaving on the traditional Malay dress, 'kebaya' and 'baju Melayu' attire, 'tanjak' or 'tengkolok' (the male headgear) complete with the traditional Malay musical troupe - it's really charming and refine. The music played is what traditional Malay melody essentially sounds.
It's beautiful and amazing because even though the family is obviously from a Malay middle-class, urban and modern family but they still manage to keep the Malay customs, traditions and heritage intact. Thumbs up for the family and congratulations to both the beautiful bride and groom.
it's my first time to see a malay wedding and it looks beautiful. thank you for the video and it allowed me to peek into the culture of other nations that said, i would like to say congratulations to the bride and groom. 👰 🤵 best wishes🎉🙏
Beautiful wedding and beautiful bride - I love Malaysia the people are the so kind
So so true!!! 💙
@@GajahMengaumTheBruce FYI, driving issues and individual actions in socmed happens in EVERY COUNTRY.
Nice Baju Kurung both of you. ❤️
Thank you Anna for sharing our Malaysian hospitality. You're fabulous.
Traditionally, for a Malay wedding you can have up to three parties 😂
The solemnisation, the reception from the bride's side, and the reception from the groom's side. Nowadays most newlyweds just have one reception, mostly to save costs 🙂
I've always wanted to visit Malaysia. Beautiful people, beautiful food, beautiful culture mashallah.
Yesss! Please do! You won’t regret it!
The kuih in the goodie:
1. Kuih Loyang
2. Bahulu
3. Wajik (some region call pulut kacau or pulut sirat)
Congratulations to the couple. Also congratulations to both of you two, with how comfortable the locals are inviting you to something as auspicious and private as these and how you blended in, it's huge recognition to both of you, you're one of us Malaysians now through and through. Welcome back to Malaysia by the way, you're always welcomed here. :)
Weddings are not a private event (for malays). We normally invite all of our relatives, neighbours, colleagues and friends (of both parents' and bride/groom). The invitation card sent out usually around 1000/1500 and the expected guest around 3000 people. This is for the reception. The solemnization (as in the video) is normally for family n close friends (around 80-100guests)
didn't expect to see the 'kadhi'!! turn out he was my teacher! what a coincidence
Glad to see other cultures and traditions. Thanks for taking me with you! You guys are the best!
Anna, thank you so much for inviting us to your families wedding through the lens, it was beautiful. Congrats to the bride and Groom many blessings to you both, GOD bless you Anna and your family, girls thank you GOD bless you both
u r most welcome.... sorry can bring you to a true blue malay wedding... this is a mordenise version of a wedding... we
so glad to have u girls back in Malaysia! and i love how the bride's cousin explained about the solemnisation ceremony to you guys. It's very clear and hope you guys learned something new :D
Absolutely! Incredible experience!
Exactly! She had explained the ceremony in a simple way just to make this 2 girl understand the process.
simple and easy to understand what a good explanation
You got invited to solemnization? Nice. Usually it was just close family and friends. Everyone else is invited to the feast.
Heck we malaysians invite a lot of people. We invite our neighbours,friends and family that we know and it could come up to more tham 1000++ people. This is the spirit of collectiveness that we always do
Crunchy Beatsia no, that is the "kenduri" of course la kenduri everyone would be invited, nikah mana ada ajak ramai ramai.
Ntah nikah bende jemput sampai 1000 org
@@nonymike5015 this is not nikah and sanding as well?
Crunchy Beatsia in this video , it’s obviously showing the nikah event only not sanding.
It's hard to believe that I still learnt something from your video eventhough I attended Malay wedding so many times. Thanks Micha and Justina.
The day they're married, we called the bride and the groom as "Raja Sehari" or "King/Queen of the day". That's why they wearing like a king and a queen and on that special day all their needs will be served as a king and a queen. They will sit on the cinema or "pelamin" and all guest will celebrate them with joy... u guys was so lucky enough for the invitation on their solemnisation because that occasion usually for the family's members only or special person. On the day of wedding then they will invites everybody to come to their wedding celebration. Loves to see both of you girls back to Malaysia...
I missed the Malaysian foods. My favorite is the nasi lemak with fried fish and kue kue desserts served with tongkat ali coffee...the best 👍. 😋 🤤 🤤
Tongkat ali coffee?? :)
@@vincentchin88 yeah you can search it i think.. it's very good hahaha
Vincent Chin, yes tongkat ali i found it in chinatown (inside petaling street) somebody offered it to us and we love it. I’m lucky now bcoz almost all supermarkets in Kuwait have 5 in 1 Ali Cafe from Malaysia and in it with tongkat ali and ginseng. Very addictive. 😍❤️🤤😋 and the aroma will kill the Nescafé . Lol 😂 sorry Nescafé
Vincent Chin, yes tongkat ali i found it in chinatown (inside petaling street) somebody offered it to us and we love it. I’m lucky now bcoz almost all supermarkets in Kuwait have 5 in 1 Ali Cafe from Malaysia and in it with tongkat ali and ginseng. Very addictive. 😍❤️🤤😋 and the aroma will kill the Nescafé . Lol 😂 sorry Nescafé
@@TitaMariamLovesfoodandtravel glad to hear that🤣come to Malaysia again.. we always welcome tourist to come our country
Thanks for this. A new way to educate about the culture of other nation is to experienced it by yourself. Immerse yourself. I have fun watching you guys. Hope you could attend also a Filipino traditional wedding. So other nations could also educate about our culture. Cheers 🥂
Thanks so much Lorna! We'd love to! Do you know who's getting married this year by any chance? 😃
Don’t have any at this moment 😅Preferably attend wedding in the province or in a tribe because it is much more traditional and the culture are still rich while wedding in the cities were already influenced by the westerners. Instead of wearing the traditional national clothing for special occasions (Barong and Maria Clara dress), they rather wear tuxedos and gowns.
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Nasi minyak = "oily rice". Good one girls. Hahaha.
Majority of malay race are Muslims, Malaysia, Indonesia, Singapore and Southern Thailand and brunei whith the exemption of the Philippines ,roman catholic majority with muslim minority concen trated in southern Philippines in Mindanao island.Im a Catholic from the Philippines from the island of Luzon,i love my malay brothers and sisters.
Right nico.. Before spanish invaded Filipina , the philipines were Muslims, after the spanish colonial rule which had been demolished and aspotasy by the colonists. The only southern philippines were excluded from being demobilized and aspotasy because of the opposition of the mindanao society. However, our Malay affiliation will not be cut off.
Chenta Strawberry ,indeed we are blood related
Yes ,islam was the dominant religion of the Philippines till the spaniards came and colonized us for 300 years,we became roman catholic.
Not Majority but every Malay is a Muslim
In Malaysian Law every Malay is need to be Muslim
You both are invited to a perfect Malay wedding/solemnization. Colourful decorations, traditional music and setting. Very beautiful ceremony. You both did very well to capture the feel of it and I'm happy you girls enjoyed yourselves.
From a fellow Malaysian
Where the lady stated the Bride will sit is called "Adat Bersanding".The myrad "Gifts" is called "Hantaran" it must be sent in non even numbers.If a man send 11 a lady must give back 13.Always more never lesser
where the bridal couple will sit for their "Adat Bersanding" is called Pelamin (wedding dais)
That's interesting... Here in Singapore, we Malays don't have a set amount of "hantaran" to give. Both bride and groom can give as many as they want (don't have to be odd numbers). Maybe that tradition was lost over the years?
Loving the outfits beautiful girls! Thank you for sharing your travel adventures :)
Solemninastion aka "Bernikah"= Where the Man and Girl becomes husband and wife.The next day is "Kenduri" its where the feasting begins..basically people eat and get to see who is marrying whom.Qadi is the person conducting the marriage.In Christianity..basically a priest will do that.But oh my......bernikah has that many people and you guys are invited? They honoured you
Too many people eh? What to do we are a large family.....
@@ashtriana1 too many was stated since usually, only the immediate family members are around.I take it aunties/uncles/cousins were invited too?
@@sanir6 yes aunty uncles and first cousins of the bride......
Lol. The word ‘honored’ is just sound so exaggerated.
This family just being nice by inviting them to the ceremony. Plus they’re foreigners, so why not invite them to a Malay wedding so that they can experience the Malay culture themselves?
But the invitation is sure not to ‘honored’ them.
There is no way you invited two strangers (well, not completely stranger since they know each other before) to your Akad Nikah but not your close friends?
ykwim?
@@chientabritchie Its called being courteous in language.I guess youre not familiar with the old ways in communicating?
Wow amazing malaysian wedding and dish so delicious and both of ur very beauty dress with baju kurung,have a nice day!!!
Liked before watch. Haha. Congrats to the newlyweds! What an honour for both of u girls to witness the nikah ceremony where only the closest are being invited. Lovely experience once again!
hi. im razi n i am malaysia.. try to go to a "village area".. its going to be even more interesting experience for both of you..
for all restaurateur in malaysia.....they already mentioned they want to taste a malaysian food...please to obey..(kau bagi sekali asam pedas kat depa....sambal tempoyak ka).......trust me they will love it
tu lah...... feeling like asking them out to lunch this wknd, saturday morning would be nice.... we can go to the farmer's market first, then cross the road to sample negeri sembilan fare at the raso omak den restoran, they can also sample mee rebus and rojak , nasi ayam, also johorean food then to sample murtabak or maybe go into a tea room and having some cakes.... what say you @beer for breakfast???
i miss wedding 😭😭
btw, i like to call the Solemnization as the original "Akad Nikah" . actually it's equivalent to Exchange Vows ..
and ..i must say.. it's so special to be invited to the Akad Nikah ceremony. usually family members & close friends only. ♥️👍
after than got receptions . celebration / feast by bride side. then groom side
Congratulations to the bride and groom, and you guys did an amazing job with this video! However i just wanted to point out in case someone takes offence to this because of incorrect wording. Wali does not actually mean an elder person who 'previously owned the girl'. It means the person who was previously responsible for the woman before the groom agrees to take on that responsibility. So the wali can be the father, grandfather, brother, uncle, etc.
Anyway, you girls are gorgeous and the video is great. Cheers!
Hey beautiful ladies! I love your contents as always! I can say your topics are much more interesting if compared to the rest not just by simply reviewing on the food etc. What I like about your vlog is because you also blend well with the locals that's what makes your vlog as refreshing as ever something that most vloggers won't be able to do so. Keep it up for the good work both of you muaaaah !
Thanks so much !!! We think that locals and our interactions with them is just inseparable part of our daily lives and it’s our favourite aspect of travelling ♥️
I usually don't watch youtube videos till the end....but this one, i must say my eyes were glued to my handphone screen till the end!! Your videos are interesting and very informative too! Thanks for showing the world how beautiful and blessed Malaysia is!
hey there! Oh wow, thank you so much !!! Really appreciate you watching our video!
During every wedding I had with my cousins(Malay weddings also), I always ends up being the one to wash the dishes and clean up the dining area. Heh, at least I get paid all the time(even though I would've worked for free)
Very informative video and its one of the best!!! Im happy for you girls finally be able to attend Malay wedding ceremony, i think this can consider a rich family wedding....correct me if im wrong....looking forward next one....😘😘😘
From my observation as a malaysian perspective.. They were a middle class or upper middle class family.
@@dariusz501 true we are a middle class family.... the father is a retired policeman and her mother was a retired government officer
not very rich... if not the wedding will be held in a hotel or if it was held at home the decoration will be more lavish than this
@@ashtriana1 hi ana.. Thanks for confirming it.
Btw, you were really an excellent host to justina and micha. 👍👍👍
You girls remind me of my sisters wedding. She married a guy from UK. A week prior to the wedding the whole family from UK came and we had so much fun especially 2 days before the ceremony. We were so excited..more excited than the bride and the groom. We were busy looking for the perfect outfit during the day. That was such a memorable event for me, my sister and the whole family..have a good time girls and take care.
lemak manis ala amboi amboi.... i love this song 11:04
lagu Roslan Madun = Lemak Manis...best lagu tu 😊👍🏻
Wow congratulations to the couples and your first experience of Malay wedding.. in any case you may find some variation of Malay wedding differ by states and local traditions.. the one you attended is the simplest version mostly done by all new couples nowadays which is akad/solemnization/recital of vows and afterwards a simple wedding service with buffet dinner... the wedding service traditionally are done on different days on 2 separate occasions whereby there will be one done by the bride side and the other by the groom side.. some Malay wedding may have ceremonies for days (up to 7 days) with berinai (painting of hands-the red coloured henna),flower bath and different change of clothings.. the food varieties will differ if a more localised menu is served and in some area (in kampung/village) people gather up to cook the wedding meals together.. and on the way to the house the group of wedding reception will do the ber-arak/family and relatives walking together with kompang to the bride house and on arrival some groom are challenged with poetry/pantun before being allowed to enter the house of the bride during wedding service.. afterewards during the wedding service you can observe the bersanding/where the bride and bridegroom sit together at the decorated altar/pelamin and the parents and close relatives (usually the family elders) will meet the bride and groom at the pelamin to give blessing by sprinkling rose water (merenjis).. then there will be makan beradab where the bride and groom sits together to dine with the family elders at one long table while the rest of the guests eats with family and friends either buffet or served.. some modern version of cake cutting is also common but usually there is pulut kuning/ yellow glutinous cake served.. entertainment wise you can see the silat/ a form of Malay martial art, traditional dances and joget, traditional music karaoke, traditional instruments played like ghazal (like the one on this ceremony).. hope you really enjoyed the wedding receptioan and perhaps more wedding invitation in the future
pertama kali saya datang kenduri khawin orang melayu di province of satun thailand, 90% orang melayu kedah, dia layan dengan gulai batang umbut pisang
So cool! Most malays are Muslims so it was really nice of you to attend the religious segments as well even though it might have been awkward for u guys! ❤️
nice video hope to see more. if you can go to langkawi have even LIMA 2019.
So glad you got to experience this. Cheers, Ladies!
Hey Marcel! How many Malay wedding have you attended yourself? 😍
@@BeerForBreakfast maybe about 5. One involved an entire village.
4:56 - BB-8 and Poe Dameron's Resistance X-Wing Starfighter!
The solemnisation looks amazing! The use of songket in her dulangs looked beautifulll! We all love wedding foods 😂 Cliché but we’ll never get bored!
just to let you guys know, solemnization is to officially marrying the couple while reception is for the “real” celebration, we invite not only our friends but pretty much everyone we know 😂 reception can go up to 1000-2500 people 🤣
The songket petal containers ( 5 pcs left, the bride took 4 pcs for memento) are for rent, so are the trays (9 pcs).... have silver plastic trays (7 pcs) too...... if interested dm/pm me, ig- @trianaweddingbelles fb- Ashtriana Hamzah / Triana Wedding Belles..... thanks....also accept order for hantaran flower arrangement, fresh or artificial......
Thanks for sharing guys. Enjoy!
Wow...nice to see u both came for malay wedding..i hope u stay here until ramadhan soon and fasting with us..its more intereting..thanks for sharing this video with us..love u 👭👭👭
Sending our love back to you, Daniel ♥️
@@BeerForBreakfast yeah..love u too....
Ibu2 malaysia ini pinter banget ngomong English. Mungkin orang Malaysia saban hari cakap inggris. Aku yg belajar bahasa Inggris 10 tahun di sekolah di Indonesia pun tak mampu speaking sama native speakers hehehe.
salut sama malaysia... ada pengaruh British
Malaysia still preserved their culture and traditions👍👏👏👏
This video is sooooooo cute 😍😍😍😍
It's great that u were invited to THIS wedding because it shows a proper traditional wedding. i am a Malay too, when i was younger, i thouht of if I ever got married, i would just buy my clothes online and do the ceremony in McDonald's. My family thinks i'M nuts
Impressive.. i also choose malaysia because they live peacefully with another races, respect each other, nice and helpful.. we feel comfortable.. unique country..
So sweet both of you,wearing traditional baju kurung
Love your baju kurungs. You two look very beautiful
Love! Love! Love! Congratulations to the bride and groom. Such a lovely event. To my two sistah, you guys rock! #missyou 😄😄😄
Really enjoyable vid. Thanks, ladies.
You girls really made my day with your video!
awww, great to hear that! 💙
Very nice experience 👍😁 Can't wait for the next video. Btw, welcome back to Malaysia again 🇲🇾
Yehhh....!!! Amazing food.. enjoy food Malaysia.. 👍❤️🇲🇾
Fun fact: The groom & the bride are considered the King & Queen of the day in Malay culture !!
Awww you guys really Make me Hungry with the food 😢 wish you guys stay happy and free ♥
You guys look good in the Malay dresses. The green Kebaya esp looks stunning.
Congratulations to the newlywed.. thanks to the bride aunt for showing them a great hospitality
Great video from all of you guys. I really enjoy ur work. Good job!
The priest you referred to is imam in Islam
They said Khadi which means Judge in arabic. But then again i suppose the Imam too can be a Judge.
You know what's the best part of having different religions in your family? You get to experience different wedding culture. I love my family's Muslim part wedding. Although I still need to help them out but I always get to eat a lot of food. Like a lot a lot.
exactly! We love Malaysia as it's so diverse and everyone lives in harmony 💙
Terima kasih..rindunya malaysia
I love the Malesian People They are So frendly and have A good heart.
That's right, Malaysians are super nice people!
You look great in your Malay traditional dress.
First time to watch a Malay wedding. Nice! Cheers from Manila.
Appreciate your feedback! 💙
welcome back misha and justina :)
Welcome back guys!
Very very nice video. I was smiling throughout the video seeing both of you experiencing and enjoying the ceremony.
Awww thanks so much, Kamil! Appreciate your feedback!
God! you guys are back!!!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
In Islam, the “wali” is the guardian of the bride 👰 (father, uncle, brother, grandpa). In the case of the muslim converts bride that non in the family are muslims.... the imam will be the wali(guardian).
good explanation from the malay lady 👍💯
Welcome back you two :)
Thanks so much!
You're back 😄
2:55 Correct, the person who gives away the bride is "wali". But the cousin's explanation of "wali" as the one who owned the bride was off the mark, quite understandable on the spur of the moment. "Wali" is borrowed word from Arabic which literally means "guardian". The heirarchy for guardian is father, paternal uncle and brother. If no guardian available (due to death or being untraceable), the guardian is the state authority represented by the wedding priest.
10:15 Do I hear right, from 8:30 am to 10:30 pm? Most unusual, never heard of it. The ones I attended, quite a few, or heard of went on for six hours at most.
ah.... that is the word i was searching for.... sorry ran out of words at the time
for this wedding the length of two hours are the official time... it goes on to 1am for the families......
@ashtriana1
I thought so, that's why I said quite understandable on the spur of the moment.
Terbaik ...Good
Hey, that's my college senior playing the string instrument!
Hey Justina....and mica beautiful looks
Wedding foods is simply the best😽
So proud to both of you. You both so blend with local.
Thanks so much!
Hi friends beautiful video nice to see beautiful wedding thank you sharing
Can I cry already? You guys are back in Malaysia yeay
Thanks so much!!! We've been back for over two weeks now! SO excited! Do you have an instagram? Feel free to follow us there too: beerforbreakfastvlogs to keep up to date with us!
Hi you Guys you are back to again to malaysia nice to see you again GUYS LOVE YOU...
Aww this is so sweet, lovely people surrounded by lovely people :)
You guys so polite👏👏👏
It's said that on the wedding day, the bride and groom are king and queen for the day. That's why the bride and groom sit on the grand looking chair on the dais.
welcome back. mizs you both
14th Viewers guys 😍😍😍😍😍😍....Beer for Breakfast and have a great day guys!!!..
Loved your video very nice.. keep it up guys..
Greeting's from Kedah, Malaysia
thanks so much!!! appreciate it 💙
Im impressed ...those baju kurungs fit you both so well you both look so gorgeous....im not so lucky then perhaps it's my shape @ out of shape hahahaha
ohhh thank you and trust, you could find something suitable for you hehe!
@@BeerForBreakfast thanks for the kind words....
Welcome back 😍
Hi Mischa n Christina, thanks for the video. Hope you njoy the Malay's wedding. I hope you can pay a visit in kedah and lot of place you can visit if you are a food hunter.
Thanks darling!
Micha & Justina here ♥️
Wow.. good experience