I agree with Caiah's second strict rule. I don't want anyone to know about our relationship😂I don't want to meet your mom or cousins unless we are engaged. That's valid
Well first ( correct me if I'm wrong pls) it is against the bible to have a partner who's not christian when you are Christian.( 2 Corinthians 6:14) It is just not good for your spiritual life and will eventually bleed into all aspects of your life but I'm glad you recognize that Caiah. Also thank you for being a Christian girly who's so real and relatable, it's so refreshing. I agree with Mpho about the example of a Christian who is addicted to pornography correcting other christians on lust because for the fact that you would be aware of their addiction it means they are seeking help and like Paul they are dying to their flesh everyday as long as they are correcting you and not judging you, you can both help each and hold each other accountable. Great episode as always guys. Very knowledgeable and eye opening ❤
I'm so glad that Caiah is being honest and transparent about being a Christian and dating a Muslim. I'm not for it but coming from someone who asked the question last week, thank you for answering and addressing the topic and being so transparent about it.
This channel has beautiful conversations! Thought digest and Seated are beautiful shows. I always learn and reflect almost every episode! Love, love the content Thato!❤️❤️
Ugh man, this walk is so difficult. And I want nothing more than to be an example that God carries us through it ALL. No matter how difficult, confusing or destabilising a season is. I’m so glad you received this❤️
I also agree but I had a situation with my bf where he introduced me to his family, I told him that let it be us for now before anybody else because i don't want pressure for either of us but he said he felt the need to in order for me to see that he is serious about me and his parents told him that he should only come with a girl only when he sees a future with them...
I love how you've represented Christ without fear or shame, I enjoy listening to your update and progression on your relationship with God. On Caiahs' relationship with a Muslim, I think the bible is clear on being equally yoked and the reason you're finding it difficult to post as usual could be a conviction from the Holy Spirit. Being with a Muslim is difficult since the basis of Christianity is Jesus being the saviour and that's what they don't agree so their faith discredit everything about your faith. Talk to God about it though, He will guide you as always😊
Mpho is so smart, I agree with her on the genetics part about substance addiction and one being susceptible to it if let's say a fam member was or is addicted
As a gent that pour a bit too much when I'm with a partner I can relate to where Thato is rn and I'm also on that journey of loving and appreciating myself lately. It's always tough at the beginning because of limerence but it gets easier as you go. Big s/o to you bro and s/o to the ladies dope pod, keep em coming.
If someone is going to cheat on you they will, it doesn't matter if you have rules, have access to their devices, curfews, etc. Unfortunately a relationship is a risk, can't runaway from that🤷♂️ some risks pay off and some don't 😊
What an interesting conversation. And I feel you Caiah on struggling to encourage people in the faith while you are struggling, fighting for your life 😂😂. I can relate. And we will only be perfect in the next life so by that thinking we will never be fit enough to spread the gospel. The honesty and taking what you're struggling with to Christ are key (in my opninion). However, it is in fact in the bible that we should not be unequally yoked with non believers (and believing being believing Jesus Christ is Lord). It sucks. It's hard. It's hurt dying to myself and picking up that cross more than once because I have to choose between love and Jesus, it has to be Jesus every time. And they were great guys.
My addiction is that I am always on my phone form the time I open my eyes till I close them.The reason for that is like I am always on my thoughts which result in getting sleepless nights so I am on my phone till I get tired and also my phone is my bestie cause that's where you will find me laughing and happy cause I can't stay with people for too long
Same 😢 and for me it's because I stay alone most of the time. I'm unemployed and depressed and I treat my phone as as escape goat from reality . It's not good but that's just my life 🥺
@loideuuzigo697 I hope you find a job that you will be excited about and also find some podcast or show in RUclips space that can keep you laughing and help you in a way❤️love and light
Caiah with the friends and family chat? She cooked. I don't want to love your family too much, then when it ends I'm attached to your family because I come from a toxic and now you've introduced me to your healthy family. Now I find reason to stay in a toxic relationship. No thank you
This was really dope i really enjoyed it ,mostly the part about addiction And its sad that as gents we dont talking about how detrimental porn addiction can be to our mental health
First of all I loooove this podcast and this is constructive criticism coz I love y’all. Mami, I think you interrupt people when they try to get their point across, it used to happen to me a lot when I was talking to my friends and it’s a habit that I’m working on letting go and I think you should too. I get it , sometimes we’re so passionate within a conversation that we wanna add something immediately but I still think it’s good to learn the habit of controlling that❤️❤️
Thato is right, sometimes the opposite company is great even if you not dating.. Guys stop being too hard on yourselves! Sometimes as ladies when we go to clubs then guys just come chill with us we have a good time,part away after ,no messing around!thats how life is!
@mammi dearest please try to give others an opportunity to fully express their points before interjecting them. Otherwise this was an amazing episode, I learnt a lot❤️
One thing about Caiah, she is always comfortable and cozy here. What a healthy work environment. Big ups to the big boss Thato🎀
Thato is the best boss ever !
I’ve got my feet on his couch and everything 😂😂😂
We want Lebo with the girls too please🥲🥲🥲
Editor please THE PINK SPARKLES 😭
Broo😭😭
I agree with Caiah's second strict rule. I don't want anyone to know about our relationship😂I don't want to meet your mom or cousins unless we are engaged. That's valid
liked how Mpho was so appreciative of her healthy relationship and how she is proud to have a partner 👌
Well first ( correct me if I'm wrong pls) it is against the bible to have a partner who's not christian when you are Christian.( 2 Corinthians 6:14) It is just not good for your spiritual life and will eventually bleed into all aspects of your life but I'm glad you recognize that Caiah. Also thank you for being a Christian girly who's so real and relatable, it's so refreshing.
I agree with Mpho about the example of a Christian who is addicted to pornography correcting other christians on lust because for the fact that you would be aware of their addiction it means they are seeking help and like Paul they are dying to their flesh everyday as long as they are correcting you and not judging you, you can both help each and hold each other accountable.
Great episode as always guys. Very knowledgeable and eye opening ❤
Wonderful❤
i high high high key miss the pink shining stars when a new topic is introduced😪
We’re gonna confront the editor fr fr 😭😭
Caiah is in the coziest outfit. 🥰😂
Well I tell you I was COMFORTABLE 😭😭😂
I'm so glad that Caiah is being honest and transparent about being a Christian and dating a Muslim. I'm not for it but coming from someone who asked the question last week, thank you for answering and addressing the topic and being so transparent about it.
Is the guy knownnn?
@@florencemoyo499 Isn't King Omar?
Caiah Is such a smart girl, she really knows how to speak, her body language, posture, everytime she speaks I immediately want to listen.
This channel has beautiful conversations! Thought digest and Seated are beautiful shows. I always learn and reflect almost every episode! Love, love the content Thato!❤️❤️
I love Caiah so much, she debunks so many religion norms ! She is ssooo open about how ones real walk with God truly is
Ugh man, this walk is so difficult. And I want nothing more than to be an example that God carries us through it ALL. No matter how difficult, confusing or destabilising a season is.
I’m so glad you received this❤️
Caiah is just like me. As my partner, I don't want to meet/know your friends or family until we're going to be engaged to marry.
Yebboooo💃🏾💃🏾
I also agree but I had a situation with my bf where he introduced me to his family, I told him that let it be us for now before anybody else because i don't want pressure for either of us but he said he felt the need to in order for me to see that he is serious about me and his parents told him that he should only come with a girl only when he sees a future with them...
I love how you've represented Christ without fear or shame, I enjoy listening to your update and progression on your relationship with God. On Caiahs' relationship with a Muslim, I think the bible is clear on being equally yoked and the reason you're finding it difficult to post as usual could be a conviction from the Holy Spirit. Being with a Muslim is difficult since the basis of Christianity is Jesus being the saviour and that's what they don't agree so their faith discredit everything about your faith. Talk to God about it though, He will guide you as always😊
I so want a seated with lebo and thato rampedi please thatoooo!!!
This is a tough pod to listen to, this is a very uncomfortable but extremely necessary conversation, thank you guys for this
I love the way Mpho reasons and the way she's such an open minded person, I love it🤍
Caiah, your bravery and openness to talk about real issues and relate them to yours is so inspiring❤.........you go in girl
This was such a good episode !!!! Thato must come back
Mpho is so smart, I agree with her on the genetics part about substance addiction and one being susceptible to it if let's say a fam member was or is addicted
As a gent that pour a bit too much when I'm with a partner I can relate to where Thato is rn and I'm also on that journey of loving and appreciating myself lately. It's always tough at the beginning because of limerence but it gets easier as you go. Big s/o to you bro and s/o to the ladies dope pod, keep em coming.
Thank you for joining us this week Thato, thank you for being so open and transparent.
Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Also learned a few things. Thanks guys!
I hear the friends chat. But truth be told, seeing your man with his friend reveals a lot about him, I am 50-50 with that one😅
Actually🤔🤔
this was such a wholesome episode . thank you ladies 💕💕
Caiah dont switch..i know its easier said than done..praying for you❤
Mr editor sir, please give us our sparkles hle😢
I do think the equally yoked chat wasn’t mentioned when Thato asked the question of dating outside of Christian faith
First-time watcher here. I'm definitely coming for more, very informed and informative convo👌👌
This episode was incredible! I loved it and found it so educational and relatable. Thank you much!
Finally, yall uploaded on time. I was soo excited when i saw the drop ❤
I learn so much from this channel 🥺, i love and appreciate you guys soo much❤
Smart young group of people, my heart is full ❤
Every week I am here. This podcast is everything and more
Your outfits are jelling together guys🔥🔥❤
Unplanned too😂😂
Caiah's Second strict rule used to be my number 1 strict rule. 😭😭 very reasonable though!!!
This was such an amazing episode man i loved it ♥🥰
Thee best Thought Digest episode ever!!! By far!
Neeeee❤
Word
Very informative and delightful episode❤ got to learn a few things about myself and also I took away quite a lot of things.you guys are an inspiration
I love you Caiah and Mpho❤
We love you too !!
If someone is going to cheat on you they will, it doesn't matter if you have rules, have access to their devices, curfews, etc. Unfortunately a relationship is a risk, can't runaway from that🤷♂️ some risks pay off and some don't 😊
First time I’ve sat through an entire episode cause I mostly watch seated.. equally an amazing time🤞🏿
Enjoyed this,thank you guys!❤
Beautiful episode guys! 🙏🏻❤️
This is one of the best episodes touched down 😭♥️
This is a great show! 😆I enjoyed this, especially the part when Mammi dearest looked at the camera on the "God and singleness" question part. 😄
very informative on addiction❣i will definetly FORGIVE myself💓💓💓💓💓💓
This was super informative as always ofcourse ❤
I thought I was crazy for not wanting to meet family and friends while I’m still a girlfriend 😭😭, there is NO need
No need whatsoeverrrrr😭
Then I get super attached unnecessarily
I'd love to hear the three of you talk about attachment styles
Finally made the time to come watch 😊❤
I love the bond 🥺❤️
What an interesting conversation. And I feel you Caiah on struggling to encourage people in the faith while you are struggling, fighting for your life 😂😂. I can relate. And we will only be perfect in the next life so by that thinking we will never be fit enough to spread the gospel. The honesty and taking what you're struggling with to Christ are key (in my opninion).
However, it is in fact in the bible that we should not be unequally yoked with non believers (and believing being believing Jesus Christ is Lord). It sucks. It's hard. It's hurt dying to myself and picking up that cross more than once because I have to choose between love and Jesus, it has to be Jesus every time. And they were great guys.
My addiction is that I am always on my phone form the time I open my eyes till I close them.The reason for that is like I am always on my thoughts which result in getting sleepless nights so I am on my phone till I get tired and also my phone is my bestie cause that's where you will find me laughing and happy cause I can't stay with people for too long
Same 😢 and for me it's because I stay alone most of the time. I'm unemployed and depressed and I treat my phone as as escape goat from reality . It's not good but that's just my life 🥺
@loideuuzigo697 I hope you find a job that you will be excited about and also find some podcast or show in RUclips space that can keep you laughing and help you in a way❤️love and light
@@KwaneleSikhosana.... thank you so much ☺️
Caiah with the friends and family chat? She cooked. I don't want to love your family too much, then when it ends I'm attached to your family because I come from a toxic and now you've introduced me to your healthy family. Now I find reason to stay in a toxic relationship. No thank you
Thank you guys for putting me on. Now I know to keep my data off for find my iPhone hun let it slip that she tracks me "sometimes"
and is like "iyoo"😂😂😂❤i love Thato so much!!
the way i was so excited and expectant to see the pink sparkles
It's my first time here and I'm loving this❤❤❤
Thato is very diplomatic, the way he answers
Nah that's enough seated with. I'm a Though Digest broer now 😭 I'm healed.
That addiction topic got me like “Hi, I’m Kevin. I’m an addict.” 😅
FIRST THINGS FIRST, YOU GUYS LOOK GOOD AND THE COLOURS ARE COODINATING😍
When Mpho said “Thank God”😭❤️
This was really dope i really enjoyed it ,mostly the part about addiction
And its sad that as gents we dont talking about how detrimental porn addiction can be to our mental health
I truly relate to Mpho's addiction, Nd it's something that I need to work on because I'm always on my phone
First of all I loooove this podcast and this is constructive criticism coz I love y’all. Mami, I think you interrupt people when they try to get their point across, it used to happen to me a lot when I was talking to my friends and it’s a habit that I’m working on letting go and I think you should too. I get it , sometimes we’re so passionate within a conversation that we wanna add something immediately but I still think it’s good to learn the habit of controlling that❤️❤️
Still no sparkles 😭
Appreciate this Episode ❤
please bring back the pink sparkles for the topic intro🥲
Thato is right, sometimes the opposite company is great even if you not dating.. Guys stop being too hard on yourselves! Sometimes as ladies when we go to clubs then guys just come chill with us we have a good time,part away after ,no messing around!thats how life is!
I'm not a podcast person but I'm enjoying this❤
On the live location part, Caiah and I are literally the same please 😭🤣
😭😭we know ourselves. We’ll drive ourselves crazy
Damn this is powerful. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I LOVED THISSS
When are the gents gonna get Seated with Lebo and Thato though❤🤲?
Great episode ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
27:55 Thato: ‘A lot of people say, in different places, that I have a lot of female friends’.
SPREADING HUMOURS come on here and catch your subbbbb😭
I was like Chile spreading humors is now 'a lot of places'😂
Lovely episode
Mpho's phone addiction is me😫👍🏽
I have not watched this in long time and it's like I was in therapy thato must come back more for bros please and bring Lebo also
I love Mpho so much
Loved this one.🌻Could someone please plug me with the name of the song that plays at the end of the videos(chat) here.
Very informative and interesting episode
Great work ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦
"that's a real thing because our alcohol problem is deep" 🤣🤣 Mammi nhe
Can we have Lebo next😊
Yoh I also love kissing hle I've dumped a lot of people because of that issue
Seated is the top on the list❤❤
Does this mean we are getting an episode of seated with ?😭😭😭 it's been a month Thato
No because watching this came up with some life lessons ❤
Caiah, can we please talk about how you couldn't hold it in about " I always date people who are nonchalant "😭😂
😂😂I was instantly concerned
This was beautiful!!!
Thato must visit more often
Wisdom dropped ❤️
🥹 sound track title?
Its always Mphos giggle for me 🤣🤣
Editor was like, “I ain’t doing that”😭😭😭
Let's talk about the video quality 👌 ❤❤
@mammi dearest please try to give others an opportunity to fully express their points before interjecting them. Otherwise this was an amazing episode, I learnt a lot❤️
57:00 am glad there's such thing as personal opinion in this life.
Ngl and not that my opinion has value because I’m literally a stranger but when I saw Caiah date a Muslim…I found that a bit questionable.