There is nothing wrong with this arrangement. He is a decent human being. I am happy that there are still human beings like. Guys being intimate is not everything. There is life after this all this.
It's good to co-parent with your ex, who turned to be ur best friend. My friend you are the sweetest and open minded person ever❤. Such a strong lady keep it up you are not bitter at all
This is so true IV had multiple men tell me about this maburu really do this ,at first I couldn't understand but they made me understand why they do that n it's perfect for structure SA bana
I think monna asa tsogelwa or the performance is very poor or he's 2 minutes... But she can't leave the stability and the man has accepted that ona le bothata even if akreya motho it'll be same issues.... That's why she say's he'll never. Brothers ona le problem 😊
Oh i never saw it that way. But the lady looks 40 or so and remember the man is 3 years older. I dont want to believe he has those problems already🙆🏽♀️
I like the peace u both have, en pls don't hurt the guy he is genuinely a gud man. Continue to do yo thing but stay respecting him. Perhaps 1day feelings will come bek en ull b in love again.
The arrangements seems civil enough, i just wonder what psychological effects it will have on the child when it comes to commitment and romantic relationships....
If you watch my brothers keeper you will understand this arrangement as Mr. Shabalala Senior and Wife they sleep in different beds, and they live in the same house with their kids and grandchildren.
the difference with those they are still in a relationship even though they sleep in different beds. but the guest arrangement seem like these something she doesnt mention. again why will she have a problem when the guy decide to move on , suddenly her mum will "turn in her grave"
Nah, she's not taking advantage of him. Mlungu doesn't want to find a partner. He is happy with this situation. He can at any time find a woman if he wishes. Lerato has her own place incase mlungu decides to date again.
@@mahlohonololebuso741 I was with her until she said her mom would turn in her grave if he ever found someone. That for me shows that she is happy exploiting him and she knows she would not be able to do that if he found someone.
I feel sorry for mlungu. It is clear that he still loves her.The fact that he still want to stay with her it means a lot.Remember she is the one who initiated break up coz mlungu is boring lately. There is no normal man who can be okay with a baby mama who dumped him,to go out and date then comeback home.Men a jealous by nature.It hurts him unfortunately he can't control the situation.Put uaself in his shoes.Being so certain that he will not date,it's questionable...
I remember Lerato… our daughters went to the same pre-school at our residential complex… I could always tell that the home setup was a bit different… I hope Mikie is doing well❤
I feel like this is commended simply because the partner who cheated was the wife and the husband handled it well. i don't think the situation would have been the same had it been the husband who cheated because he felt suffocated in the marriage. I also don't think she would understand this kind of setup if her boyfriend was the one in it. Maybe I am over-anyalysing this I don't know.
Ey. I am not at ease with this story of this man and how he now uses his daughter as an escape to not date? Nah. Absolutely not. I know people will make it seem like I’m weird but there is absolutely nothing right with that
Is it a coincidence that she experiences similar situations with both baby daddies? It sounds to me like she’s taking advantage of the second baby daddy, he’s probably still hoping for a normal relationship
People will say ke boloi bevause they're mot used to such things working out for the good. Even if the guy says he's not dating, we dont know if he's sexually active, casually so. I have a brother who is divorced and staying with the ex wife but their situation is opposite to this one. She doesn't want to move out, they dont share anything except space. They have shared custody of the two teenage boys and as a result are co-parenting. He gave up on having her out of the house. My brother is in a relationship, the ex has also been in and out of relationships.
Lerato tell us about your partner 's sexual status ,what is said here is unbelievable in a normal circumstance, especially sleeping in the same bed aowa 😒🤔
2,020 views but 180 likes thohellang boloi tuu
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That's RUclips for you😂
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The part where she acted like a metro fm presenter😭😭 to trick the side chick...pure gold 🥇
😭🤣🤣🤣Relationships will make you a psychopath, She became a Radio Host🤣🤣🤣
And to think that 2nd Baby Daddy didn't want to have a Child, but now he's a great Dad.❤
There is nothing wrong with this arrangement. He is a decent human being. I am happy that there are still human beings like. Guys being intimate is not everything. There is life after this all this.
I love their living arrangements, as long as the kids grow up in a loving and peaceful space.
Actually this setup has a psychological impact on the kids now and future, it's better to separate .
@AkiM357 you are so beautiful, can you be my wife?
She doesn’t want to let go when she said her mother will turn in her grave. I pray mlungu finds a loving and understanding woman
That got me worried too. I hope everything is fine😅
One of my favourite, favourite episodes! Thank you❤
Lerato has soo much peace and I love her
This is so interesting shem😂😂😂 when I thought I've heard it all in life...Lerato comes along😭😭💀💀
Beautiful setup, I don't think I would do it but its great that you are civil and happy. ❤
THE ONLY EPISODE THAT MAKES SOOO MUCH SENSE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's good to co-parent with your ex, who turned to be ur best friend. My friend you are the sweetest and open minded person ever❤. Such a strong lady keep it up you are not bitter at all
Thank you, my sister ❤
i commend the fathers for continuing to stay present even when the relationship did not workout with the mother🙂
The story is definitely unique but beautiful ❤God bless those baby daddies.
This is a healthy arrangement as long as everyone is happy...especially the child.
I love Lerato hle bathonh🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 this flower is to u and prudyyy girl
Thank you, my sister 😘
This is my best episode ever loving their set up.
Aosi lerato you are blessed with baby daddies
@mbalenhlekhaba Thank you, skat 🙏
This is a beautiful story, love it!
A wonderful conversation, We thank God for the grace and peace in this woman s life , much over her children ❤🎉
I LOVE THIS LADY
when she said she called the lady as metro FM, hai she is brave. I love her so much
She became a Radio host 🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥♥️
The bright studio is back! Thank you, Sent studio 💃💃🕺.
Ur blessed in your unique way
This is so true IV had multiple men tell me about this maburu really do this ,at first I couldn't understand but they made me understand why they do that n it's perfect for structure SA bana
If that man was the one dating around the comment section would totally be different
The reason why this arrangement works, it’s because of her personality, she is such an Open minded woman
Even the ex partner, maturity on some top level❤
I think monna asa tsogelwa or the performance is very poor or he's 2 minutes... But she can't leave the stability and the man has accepted that ona le bothata even if akreya motho it'll be same issues.... That's why she say's he'll never. Brothers ona le problem 😊
You have a point
Girl I was about to say that but ke tshaba 😂😂😂 big up to you for saying it loud 👏
Oh i never saw it that way. But the lady looks 40 or so and remember the man is 3 years older. I dont want to believe he has those problems already🙆🏽♀️
I ran straight to the comment section 😂😂😂
There’s nothing wrong with this living arrangement. It sounds logical
It’s the confidence for me🙃
The set up is working for them and I love it, but I hope she keeps an open mind for when baby daddy decides one day to give love a chance…
I just hope that white guy finds himself a decent woman who’ll make him a happy husband. . .
Why is she not decent?
I like the peace u both have, en pls don't hurt the guy he is genuinely a gud man. Continue to do yo thing but stay respecting him. Perhaps 1day feelings will come bek en ull b in love again.
U guys still love each other
Some people are better off as friends than lovers. This is the case
The arrangements seems civil enough, i just wonder what psychological effects it will have on the child when it comes to commitment and romantic relationships....
If you watch my brothers keeper you will understand this arrangement as Mr. Shabalala Senior and Wife they sleep in different beds, and they live in the same house with their kids and grandchildren.
the difference with those they are still in a relationship even though they sleep in different beds.
but the guest arrangement seem like these something she doesnt mention.
again why will she have a problem when the guy decide to move on , suddenly her mum will "turn in her grave"
I learnt nothing out of this lady😢
Lv always !! Mogatxaa Mokone.
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Bathong, poor Mlungu. She is taking advantage of his kind heart. I hope he finds someone who will love him and accept him as he is.
Nah, she's not taking advantage of him. Mlungu doesn't want to find a partner. He is happy with this situation. He can at any time find a woman if he wishes. Lerato has her own place incase mlungu decides to date again.
@@mahlohonololebuso741 I was with her until she said her mom would turn in her grave if he ever found someone. That for me shows that she is happy exploiting him and she knows she would not be able to do that if he found someone.
@@matanato01that part confused me , it didn’t sound like the guys choices anymore 😮
I feel sorry for mlungu. It is clear that he still loves her.The fact that he still want to stay with her it means a lot.Remember she is the one who initiated break up coz mlungu is boring lately. There is no normal man who can be okay with a baby mama who dumped him,to go out and date then comeback home.Men a jealous by nature.It hurts him unfortunately he can't control the situation.Put uaself in his shoes.Being so certain that he will not date,it's questionable...
@@matanato01 also the way she is so SURE that he will never move on , haibo that raise eyebrows
Good parenting..
All ur baby daddies end up not dating, i sense a spirit there😢
Spirit sani? Yoh niya khuluma shem😂😂😂
Me too there's something wrong here 😂
@@mmabatho136 😂😂😂
I remember Lerato… our daughters went to the same pre-school at our residential complex… I could always tell that the home setup was a bit different… I hope Mikie is doing well❤
I wonder what you picked up at that time coz we never had issues when we were staying in that complex. Mk is doing just fine 😊
You are blessed my friend, tṣ̌e ntṣ̌hi ke maka
Actually the sweet man loves you. I mean seeing you happy is all that matters to him. Nna I understand him Shem. And I understand the setup❤
Ijooh what a unique story
I still can't understand why women bring children in an unstable relationship, and afterward, they start to want stability.
Good point
Why is she saying "her mom will turn in her grave if he finds a girlfriend"? He managed to date her so he can find another one
Ke ngwanyana wa Limpopo 😂😂😂, Promise was shocked too
It came out very wrong, my sister, I think I lacked a better word to describe it😂😂
@@BontleCarol😂😂😂
He sounds like he is an avoidant man.
@@Lee_mo1o strong shame. I met someone like your baby daddy I m struggling to let go and he is just an avoidant
I live in a same arrangement, coz parenting but staying together
What did you do to him
They sound like an old married couple. So what does the new boyfriend think of the arrangement?
My thoughts as well
😂In my town you won't find such things 😂 it's either uyagana or you run away bcs wow😩ungafa fiiii
I feel like this is commended simply because the partner who cheated was the wife and the husband handled it well. i don't think the situation would have been the same had it been the husband who cheated because he felt suffocated in the marriage. I also don't think she would understand this kind of setup if her boyfriend was the one in it. Maybe I am over-anyalysing this I don't know.
I think you're not overthinking it, however it is how you see it.
Wow! 😂😂😂 I'd love such arrangement without the need to date someone.
Mokone wa lekgowa, bakone ba tletse naga, anyway I relate, there is a point where we out grow dating, he probably is in that phase and its okay.
Ey.
I am not at ease with this story of this man and how he now uses his daughter as an escape to not date? Nah. Absolutely not. I know people will make it seem like I’m weird but there is absolutely nothing right with that
Muthi muthi muthi
Is it a coincidence that she experiences similar situations with both baby daddies?
It sounds to me like she’s taking advantage of the second baby daddy, he’s probably still hoping for a normal relationship
Also Co-parenting in the same house it’s just easier
Same. I thought I was the only one in this kind of situation
i love this
Lol metro fm presenter😅😅😅
Them women every quiet about the cheating part because it has been done by a fellow woman,if it was the man,it was going to be a taboooooo.
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As for Limpopo girl😂
Nagana feela Bongs😂😂that means I'm capable of boloi😂
Iyooo a e a nthabiṣ̌a taba eo lenna
Lerato wa loya 👀
You reckon 😅
😂😂😂 A ke tsebe le sehlare sa go opisa hlogo😂😂
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Hebanna 😂😂😂
I suspect too,why are both men not in a relationship whereas she is dating?
Bathong lona😮
Beautiful 👓 its giving, ica
The lady must just fix things with her man clearly they love each other some of the things she can't tell but something is going on here
Legowa lena sexual problems n has accepted it. there's no way a healthy man can accept this 😅
Never say never am just saying😊😊
Yho I feel for the people they are dating, if they are dating
People will say ke boloi bevause they're mot used to such things working out for the good.
Even if the guy says he's not dating, we dont know if he's sexually active, casually so.
I have a brother who is divorced and staying with the ex wife but their situation is opposite to this one. She doesn't want to move out, they dont share anything except space. They have shared custody of the two teenage boys and as a result are co-parenting. He gave up on having her out of the house. My brother is in a relationship, the ex has also been in and out of relationships.
Doesnt he have family???
He has his mother and 2 sisters, and they're in the country.
Ntate wabatho
Mlungu is not gonna kill you the person who will kill you is your boyfriend why don't you fix things with your mlungu
There's couple that is very close to me that live like that. They are fine staying co pareting in the sane house
Marriage jot jeans for everybody.
Hi Lerato
Hello skat, long time
Atle le land 😂😅
48:59 ledi siblings now
Platonic relationship
Lerato tell us about your partner 's sexual status ,what is said here is unbelievable in a normal circumstance, especially sleeping in the same bed aowa 😒🤔
That "he will never" is not make sure 🫣
I got scared 😅
Bathong story se ke mohlolo,all the baby daddies never had other kids after hers 😳🫣🤣.Ikhona into e off la.
Something is not make sure here…