I’m glad you brought up the proximity effect. That effect us more than we realize especially in a small town, for those of you who do probably have a little bit of an idea of what I’m talking about.
I got this 17 year old colleauge basically preparing me for when she turns 18 this month. Literally everybody we work with are saying we’re flirting eith each other but she 17 still and i’m 21 plus its work stuff so i don’t really budge
A) depends on your location and how many women you have in your area B) it depends on your age & what you are looking for C) depends on how attractive you are and what you have to offer BUT MOST IMPORTANT YOU HAVE TO BE OUT THERE... NOT SETTING AT HOME GAMING OR WATCHING NETFLIX ON THE COUCH... YOU HAVE TO GET OUT THERE & MEET THEM.. AND TALK TO THEM
Exactly, However part of the problem is. Even if we put ourselves out there. The women seemingly don't. I talk with a variety of women online in the age bracket I'd date in but they all admit they never leave their house except to work and get groceries. And when I am out and I see women, they're almost always with their boyfriend or husband. It's rare to see a few women out by themselves. In my age bracket anyway, which is late 30s and 40s.
@@scottverge938 Valid point Sir... The powers that be have caused this Sociological problems and the Powers that be that I speak of ARE DARK... have you seen the movie: "Eyes Wide Shut"
I've lived in 2 different countries, and for me there was a big difference between the women I got in one and the other. I'd say for sure proximity plays a part
Bonus tip once you get comfortable talking to girls make it a part of your day the anxiety lessens and you always have that practice 👍 don’t force yourself but Try to strive for it
This sounds like a passive form of cold approaching, and as we all know, for most men that doesn't work. Also in reality, those situations where you talk to random girls barely happen so the numbers game won't work either. Dating apps don't work, clubs or bars are dead too.
I lost my sex drive after starting an anti-anxiety medication a couple years ago. At first I thought it was a negative side effect. But soon realized, I was FREE from my libido. I no longer have lust for women. I see a beautiful women walking in front of me...I don't even give it a second thought. It's allowed me to be more productive, content, happier, energetic and confident. Some of my male buddies say it's sad but I don't view it that way. All my single male buddies are under a spell...seeking the next woman for fulfillment. I'm just not that way anymore. When you don't lust for women, you have clear head. I can only see stopping this medication at some point cause without libido, the desire, enthusiasm and or drive to pursue the opposite sex is not even there. Without libido, our species would not continue.
This isn't "freedom" or strength, you've effectively chemically castrated yourself. That's at least as bad, if not worse than, wasting time lusting all the time. You THINK you're energetic, but if you're not even attracted to other humans, you ain't energetic. You feel content because the pharma drugs have killed any natural desires, but you're not actually content or fulfilled, you're numbed. Anxiety, depression, discomfort. These are all things that your brain/body causes you to feel to ACT and change your environment and situation. If you're not acting due to being numb to things, you may very well come off of the meds and be in an even worse position in regards to any of the things that made you feel that way in the first place.
This is cope. It's our biological urge to reproduce with women. Sedating yourself so much that you don't feel basic urges is not a good thing. Get your T levels checked, lift weights, start improving your life. I've been in your position where I couldn't care about women and whilst it's okay for a short period you don't want to waste your entire youth like that. One day, at 40/50/60/70 years old you'll regret it all. Peace brother and wish you all the best.
@@scottverge938 Yeah it definitely has its perks. I've been led around by my libido for decades. I was always on the chase. It seems I have more woman showing interest in me lately. Probably because they can sense my take it or leave it attitude. And they are right. I'm still dating but it's tough to muster up the desire too. I've also noticed I have a much easier time if a woman decides to date other people or if they are flirting with another guy at a party. I just don't care about the outcome and it seems to make the woman want me even more. I may try and lower my medication dose slightly as without libido, I cannot really see myself wanting a new serious relationship one day and or having a child. It's probably a good thing nature instilled libido in us, otherwise our species would not procreate and continue.
In ski town 10 to one guys to girls average age in town 65 and rich ..I don't see girls my age most days single or married..sometimes I don't see a human after 5pm till 9am ..crazy isolation
@sergio_ra can't in a work environment that requires me here or I will make half the cash ..woman are not worth leaving this town am OK being single ..
Ha buzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, ratatatat, thucka thucka thucka! I am from Baytown, Tx. when we were kids we rode our bikes all over town of about 20k back then, I was never afraid, after all I was just a kid. Who would hurt a kid? Things have certainly changed now though I would never let a child ride off miles away today!
Bro when i was 15 a squirrel went in my moms house she screamed and made me catch it and throw it outside. That thing attacked me and bit me so hard it was insane its teeth ripped through my finernail and hurt like a mf those squirrels can go crazy man they are not cute and peaceful
Dude! So true and important and I fucking hate it! As a blue collar guy who's never had a job where women are around I've lost out many times to the loser Co worker. They get what I call "free exposure" all they gotta do is not fuck it up. Here I am out there "on my grind" making almost 200k a year I work 2 weeks on 2 weeks off, Im gone half the time but still manage to build chemistry with lots of girls but still keep losing out to Co worker.
What kind of job are you doing? Could you change to a job where there are more women? Or maybe have a simple job to the side where you meet women? Like becoming a part-time bartender or someth..
TBH guys have a bad habit of flexing on their homeboys or male coworkers. It's not worth it. Not saying you're doing that, but something as simple as them knowing you're interested in a particular girl can motivate them to try. Even if they can't get with her, they'll still ruin it for you. Just last week I had a male coworker spaz off because I refused to take his "advice". I knew he was trying to infiltrate. He threw insults, but I didn't care. Another one today told me straight up he doesn't care I got a man. It's just mad disrespectful. Unless your girl is a brick wall, you're screwed. It's best to keep information to your chest & move in complete silence. They all have an agenda, no different than females. If not, worse because they're more desperate. They're used females crying on their shoulder & complaining about their man. And I'm like y'll are never catching me slipping. I'll catch them in their own trap 😂They know nothing & I've seen how they behave. Not everyone will be happy for you. That's life. Wish you well though.
@@-glitch-8195 Good response, true, lots of jealousy out there, I was the jealous one as well once... Interestingly the secret service does not allow me to see my own reactions a day later... Guess they put a block on me, because I go into real conversations and that's a big threat to them (ugh, Dj*kovic..)
@-glitch-8195 Facts. My homeboys ruin it for me on accident! Check it my homie is a GM at a restaurant and there's always some baddies workin there that have crushes on me...I go there to eat n stuff...he tells them how great of a guy I am and tries to set me up but he's kind of a hopeless romantic, basically makes them think I'm gonna ask them to marry me on the first date. Based on what he says and who he is, guilty by association kinda thing. They always end up gettin with the brokie Co worker who gets "free exposure" to interact with them when I'm out working a high paying career. Only geta see um a couple times a month. It's happened a few times. I'm not some lamo I build chemistry with these girls.
The power tools kicked in when I had a paid consultation with someone. The power tools kicked in when I had a job interview. The power tools kicked in when we had to listen to some wisdom from the LFA.
Attractive women go to College and get Scooped up pretty fast. Some places are much better - I would try S. Fl, Aspen + Bolder CO, , Texas Coast. Cali has so many homeless and is So expensive now . We keep Losing our friends in the USA if we do the usual. like grow up in suburbes, go away for College, everybody splits and we start over again. kind of difficult, sad. and competitive world.
@@MagnyCoors Univ Was Great . A Lot of High Class Babes for Free. Money for Nothen Chics 4 Free. --- U learn alot about them . I traveled and Went to Grad School -- so did they . They Get Scooped up By Big Money. I'm OK. not having to Slave away to pay their bills. Not Sad about it -- Would like to get a vacation apartment in South America and have a couple GF's part time . Marrage is a Trap for men.
I get you LFA. I live in Florida right now and to put it shortly. I hate it here. Some of the beaches are nice and fishing is fun but everything else sucks. It’s hard to find women and other people here in general that actually take care of themselves.
This is absolutely my problem I think. I can attract women in general but I simply don't meet many women so the numbers game doesn't work out. I work by myself in cleaning and trades work so there's little opportunity there. I've never been a bar kinda guy and it's practically dead here. I do get out and play open mic with my guitar once every month or so but even that doesn't present a ton of opportunity because it's just a small bar and not crazy busy. It's likely one of my best chances though and at least I stand out by playing and singing. I haven't a clue where else to go locally to meet more women. I'm certain if I did I'd totally find someone I vibed with.
Our situation sound similar. I too work on my own in the trades, not a bar guy and play music sometimes. The times when I have done OK are mostly when I was into salsa dancing and met some hot women there.
Im hoping that with each new video, u will add a new bar to that intro music, it grooves. THe wisdom tooth shouldnt affect your face, watch out for infection. rinse with warm salty water.
What supplements do you use LFA to improve testosterone? I used tongkat Ali and fadogia, and I have to admit the effect was too good . For one month. Aggressiveness , motivation and libido to the roof. I just saw a woman in the streets and wanted to do crazy things with her hahaha. However, in the second "cycle" the effect was nowhere close to that.
Im in Reno Nevada and the selection here is really bad, I rarely even see attractive girls. Whats crazy if you go About 100 miles away to Sacramento they are everywhere!
See anger is an angry it can fuel good as you know: 0:42 I am extremely restrained* like you by nature like you & like those like us.. & your response is perfect here .. but if there is only one thing on this god sent earth that fills me with potentially violent rage... (internal rage not violence, solent rage & useful if it is in defense of ones self or others but of course to never be projected upon the gas blowers) it is gas blowers..... my RAGE at them for all the same reasons you are thinking of *is how my sympathy for the complex absurdity fuels my almost 6 years strong chemical free wild life sanctuary green velvety nice smelling wild strawberry raven haven property having hiked on the Gillson dunes & preserves with my neighbors at bahai & Evanston mimicking the golf course with my constantly extremely short sexy lawn Ask long as all my neighbors keep loving me & my lawn & all the wildlife that lives on my lawn says hello to me & the blue jays cardinals yellow jackets squirrels bunnies ravens crows foxes coyotes crickets & more are happy & it is visually stunning compared to al the other gas chemical lawns MY RAGE IS SATISFIED & turned into heaven
So true. Im from New York city and I've moved to a small town a few years ago. There are terrible options here. Im moving back. Thanks.
Great advice.
Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder.
I can't believe the ebook Magnetic Aura from Borlest isn't a hot topic. It's an incredible read
Is this your book?
I’m glad you brought up the proximity effect. That effect us more than we realize especially in a small town, for those of you who do probably have a little bit of an idea of what I’m talking about.
Thanks for the more recent uploads. You’re great to listen to.
The problem is when there are women about but either too young or too old !😂
I got this 17 year old colleauge basically preparing me for when she turns 18 this month.
Literally everybody we work with are saying we’re flirting eith each other but she 17 still and i’m 21 plus its work stuff so i don’t really budge
Summertime Shaggy
Gotta love the power tools😂
Strong message as usual regardless lol
Prayers for healing my prostate cancer. ❤
Keep fighting man!
U ll be healed soon❤😊
Have faith and do the works. You will be healed 🙏🏿
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I Love this personality, when you don't give a F!!!!!!!!
Hot women wouldn’t wanna be caught dead at a planet fitness😂 took me a while to figure this out
My current pf is filled with guys, but the last town I was at was filled with college aged babes.
A) depends on your location and how many women you have in your area B) it depends on your age & what you are looking for C) depends on how attractive you are and what you have to offer BUT MOST IMPORTANT YOU HAVE TO BE OUT THERE... NOT SETTING AT HOME GAMING OR WATCHING NETFLIX ON THE COUCH... YOU HAVE TO GET OUT THERE & MEET THEM.. AND TALK TO THEM
Exactly, However part of the problem is. Even if we put ourselves out there. The women seemingly don't.
I talk with a variety of women online in the age bracket I'd date in but they all admit they never leave their house except to work and get groceries.
And when I am out and I see women, they're almost always with their boyfriend or husband. It's rare to see a few women out by themselves.
In my age bracket anyway, which is late 30s and 40s.
@@scottverge938 Valid point Sir... The powers that be have caused this Sociological problems and the Powers that be that I speak of ARE DARK... have you seen the movie: "Eyes Wide Shut"
@4:18 Your retention energy level is getting to the point of attracting animals again. Haha 😂
I've lived in 2 different countries, and for me there was a big difference between the women I got in one and the other. I'd say for sure proximity plays a part
Stay in OK you wont get squirrels walk up to you like that
That intro gets me every time😂
Pow chiki wowow
Bonus tip once you get comfortable talking to girls make it a part of your day the anxiety lessens and you always have that practice 👍 don’t force yourself but Try to strive for it
Why? They're usually not worth your time
This sounds like a passive form of cold approaching, and as we all know, for most men that doesn't work. Also in reality, those situations where you talk to random girls barely happen so the numbers game won't work either. Dating apps don't work, clubs or bars are dead too.
Tulsa is my least favorite place in Oklahoma. OKC is alright, I like the smaller towns like Ponca, Shawnee, Enid and pawhuska
Good chat brother
Vegas is wild man come on down. Alot of good looking girls in Arizona
Solid video brother!
LFA, so what you’re saying is that your proximity currently has a bunch of rabid squirrels?
I lost my sex drive after starting an anti-anxiety medication a couple years ago. At first I thought it was a negative side effect. But soon realized, I was FREE from my libido. I no longer have lust for women. I see a beautiful women walking in front of me...I don't even give it a second thought. It's allowed me to be more productive, content, happier, energetic and confident. Some of my male buddies say it's sad but I don't view it that way. All my single male buddies are under a spell...seeking the next woman for fulfillment. I'm just not that way anymore. When you don't lust for women, you have clear head. I can only see stopping this medication at some point cause without libido, the desire, enthusiasm and or drive to pursue the opposite sex is not even there. Without libido, our species would not continue.
Hop off that shit man, change your diet and routine
That honestly does sound pretty freeing. I wish I didn't give a shit about women or relationships sometimes.
This isn't "freedom" or strength, you've effectively chemically castrated yourself. That's at least as bad, if not worse than, wasting time lusting all the time.
You THINK you're energetic, but if you're not even attracted to other humans, you ain't energetic. You feel content because the pharma drugs have killed any natural desires, but you're not actually content or fulfilled, you're numbed.
Anxiety, depression, discomfort. These are all things that your brain/body causes you to feel to ACT and change your environment and situation. If you're not acting due to being numb to things, you may very well come off of the meds and be in an even worse position in regards to any of the things that made you feel that way in the first place.
This is cope. It's our biological urge to reproduce with women. Sedating yourself so much that you don't feel basic urges is not a good thing. Get your T levels checked, lift weights, start improving your life. I've been in your position where I couldn't care about women and whilst it's okay for a short period you don't want to waste your entire youth like that. One day, at 40/50/60/70 years old you'll regret it all. Peace brother and wish you all the best.
@@scottverge938 Yeah it definitely has its perks. I've been led around by my libido for decades. I was always on the chase. It seems I have more woman showing interest in me lately. Probably because they can sense my take it or leave it attitude. And they are right. I'm still dating but it's tough to muster up the desire too. I've also noticed I have a much easier time if a woman decides to date other people or if they are flirting with another guy at a party. I just don't care about the outcome and it seems to make the woman want me even more.
I may try and lower my medication dose slightly as without libido, I cannot really see myself wanting a new serious relationship one day and or having a child.
It's probably a good thing nature instilled libido in us, otherwise our species would not procreate and continue.
Always noises follows you
Hell is a leaf blower running 24/7 and you are stuck in the hell.
Thank you for the video LFA ❤
The powertools! LOL so good
In ski town 10 to one guys to girls average age in town 65 and rich ..I don't see girls my age most days single or married..sometimes I don't see a human after 5pm till 9am ..crazy isolation
Move
@sergio_ra can't in a work environment that requires me here or I will make half the cash ..woman are not worth leaving this town am OK being single ..
Ha buzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, ratatatat, thucka thucka thucka! I am from Baytown, Tx. when we were kids we rode our bikes all over town of about 20k back then, I was never afraid, after all I was just a kid. Who would hurt a kid? Things have certainly changed now though I would never let a child ride off miles away today!
I think if you're in a town of 20k population or less it would still be om even now
thanks
Bro when i was 15 a squirrel went in my moms house she screamed and made me catch it and throw it outside. That thing attacked me and bit me so hard it was insane its teeth ripped through my finernail and hurt like a mf those squirrels can go crazy man they are not cute and peaceful
Love ya brother
I'm in Romania in a city of 100k inhabitants. Pretty depressing. Everybody knows everybody. The good women are taken. Im thinking to move to Germany
Dude! So true and important and I fucking hate it! As a blue collar guy who's never had a job where women are around I've lost out many times to the loser Co worker. They get what I call "free exposure" all they gotta do is not fuck it up. Here I am out there "on my grind" making almost 200k a year I work 2 weeks on 2 weeks off, Im gone half the time but still manage to build chemistry with lots of girls but still keep losing out to Co worker.
What kind of job are you doing? Could you change to a job where there are more women?
Or maybe have a simple job to the side where you meet women?
Like becoming a part-time bartender or someth..
TBH guys have a bad habit of flexing on their homeboys or male coworkers. It's not worth it. Not saying you're doing that, but something as simple as them knowing you're interested in a particular girl can motivate them to try. Even if they can't get with her, they'll still ruin it for you. Just last week I had a male coworker spaz off because I refused to take his "advice". I knew he was trying to infiltrate. He threw insults, but I didn't care. Another one today told me straight up he doesn't care I got a man. It's just mad disrespectful. Unless your girl is a brick wall, you're screwed. It's best to keep information to your chest & move in complete silence. They all have an agenda, no different than females. If not, worse because they're more desperate. They're used females crying on their shoulder & complaining about their man. And I'm like y'll are never catching me slipping. I'll catch them in their own trap 😂They know nothing & I've seen how they behave. Not everyone will be happy for you. That's life. Wish you well though.
@@-glitch-8195 Good response, true, lots of jealousy out there, I was the jealous one as well once...
Interestingly the secret service does not allow me to see my own reactions a day later...
Guess they put a block on me, because I go into real conversations and that's a big threat to them (ugh, Dj*kovic..)
@-glitch-8195 Facts. My homeboys ruin it for me on accident! Check it my homie is a GM at a restaurant and there's always some baddies workin there that have crushes on me...I go there to eat n stuff...he tells them how great of a guy I am and tries to set me up but he's kind of a hopeless romantic, basically makes them think I'm gonna ask them to marry me on the first date. Based on what he says and who he is, guilty by association kinda thing. They always end up gettin with the brokie Co worker who gets "free exposure" to interact with them when I'm out working a high paying career. Only geta see um a couple times a month. It's happened a few times. I'm not some lamo I build chemistry with these girls.
The power tools kicked in when I had a paid consultation with someone. The power tools kicked in when I had a job interview. The power tools kicked in when we had to listen to some wisdom from the LFA.
Attractive women go to College and get Scooped up pretty fast. Some places are much better - I would try S. Fl, Aspen + Bolder CO, , Texas Coast. Cali has so many homeless and is So expensive now . We keep Losing our friends in the USA if we do the usual. like grow up in suburbes, go away for College, everybody splits and we start over again. kind of difficult, sad. and competitive world.
💯 Not taking action in the early days counts for a lot.
@@MagnyCoors Univ Was Great . A Lot of High Class Babes for Free. Money for Nothen Chics 4 Free. --- U learn alot about them . I traveled and Went to Grad School -- so did they . They Get Scooped up By Big Money. I'm OK. not having to Slave away to pay their bills. Not Sad about it -- Would like to get a vacation apartment in South America and have a couple GF's part time . Marrage is a Trap for men.
Facts most attractive women are locked down before 25
I hope your wisdom tooth swelling feels better Professor Chad!! =D tak for keeping it real for the mathematics & physics we all love!!
Watch out for those squirrels their pretty strong.
Good advice. Plus this reminds me of 'finding your tribe'
I get you LFA. I live in Florida right now and to put it shortly. I hate it here. Some of the beaches are nice and fishing is fun but everything else sucks. It’s hard to find women and other people here in general that actually take care of themselves.
Where are you in Florida? My experience is more people are in better shape in Florida.
@@HighValueDMD Daytona Beach. It’s all old people and rednecks here
The whole US is like that
@@HighValueDMD My last reply got deleted but Daytona Beach
@@austingray6885 if you can't find women in Florida there is no hope
The elements were coming for you this video
Squirrels don't get rabies
That squirl is in your proximity 😅 👍 Tanks for the advice
Where you from ?
This is absolutely my problem I think. I can attract women in general but I simply don't meet many women so the numbers game doesn't work out. I work by myself in cleaning and trades work so there's little opportunity there. I've never been a bar kinda guy and it's practically dead here. I do get out and play open mic with my guitar once every month or so but even that doesn't present a ton of opportunity because it's just a small bar and not crazy busy. It's likely one of my best chances though and at least I stand out by playing and singing. I haven't a clue where else to go locally to meet more women. I'm certain if I did I'd totally find someone I vibed with.
Our situation sound similar. I too work on my own in the trades, not a bar guy and play music sometimes. The times when I have done OK are mostly when I was into salsa dancing and met some hot women there.
@@hellofromdave I'd consider learning to dance if they had any classes near me but I don't think they do. I'm in a pretty small city of 50k
LFA couldn’t hold masculine frame in front of that squirrel 🐿️
That sound triggered you
8:00 That is reasonable the squirrel probably likes you :D 'the secret squirrel' :D* hahahahahah
Im hoping that with each new video, u will add a new bar to that intro music, it grooves. THe wisdom tooth shouldnt affect your face, watch out for infection. rinse with warm salty water.
I literally spent my whole life in a proximity with average women. No doubt I married one😂
What supplements do you use LFA to improve testosterone?
I used tongkat Ali and fadogia, and I have to admit the effect was too good . For one month. Aggressiveness , motivation and libido to the roof. I just saw a woman in the streets and wanted to do crazy things with her hahaha. However, in the second "cycle" the effect was nowhere close to that.
I have a whole channel dedicated to that sort of stuff.
@@LFA DAMN!!! I am a subscriber for almost 4 years and still havent checked the other channels!! thanx!!!
My gym is all guys. Where are the women? I never see any anywhere I go.
Im in Reno Nevada and the selection here is really bad, I rarely even see attractive girls. Whats crazy if you go About 100 miles away to Sacramento they are everywhere!
Let's shoot the $hit and talk about the weather!!! 😂👍
i've lived in dallas all my life and there's opportunity every, also i'm noticing alott more ppl are moving here too
I live in downtown Chicago. It's ok.
Chiraq?
@@香料國境 On the southside.
All we need now is an helicoptere
I wish you long life , peace , health and consistency
Kind regard
Lol can't catch a break , always someone making noise
there is no point to dating the modern western woman.
See anger is an angry it can fuel good as you know: 0:42 I am extremely restrained* like you by nature like you & like those like us..
& your response is perfect here
.. but if there is only one thing on this god sent earth that fills me with potentially violent rage... (internal rage not violence, solent rage & useful if it is in defense of ones self or others but of course to never be projected upon the gas blowers) it is gas blowers.....
my RAGE at them for all the same reasons you are thinking of *is how my sympathy for the complex absurdity fuels my almost 6 years strong chemical free wild life sanctuary green velvety nice smelling wild strawberry raven haven property having hiked on the Gillson dunes & preserves with my neighbors at bahai & Evanston mimicking the golf course with my constantly extremely short sexy lawn
Ask long as all my neighbors keep loving me & my lawn & all the wildlife that lives on my lawn says hello to me & the blue jays cardinals yellow jackets squirrels bunnies ravens crows foxes coyotes crickets & more are happy & it is visually stunning compared to al the other gas chemical lawns
MY RAGE IS SATISFIED & turned into heaven
Why don’t you sell everything and move to Texas everybody moved to Texas
Don't come to Texas this people is awful terrible traffic try Denver Montana lowa big dog
Always can flirt with waitresses at restaurants, they are usually very cute
JOhnny from Hotel Transylvania?????
Weed wackers
I live in Manhattan (New York City) and my proximity is there are no beautiful women here.
I live in New York you must be looking in the wrong places New York had beautiful women you just in the wrong place
@@Almneur blue states = ugly as hell
Aww. You're tryin to find a wifey.
wool socks to bed = best sleep quality possible contrary to what you think🟫
no sox = better quality