Brent Morgan - The Fixer (Lyric Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • The official lyric video for "The Fixer" by Brent Morgan
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    Big shoutout to Jay Webb for the beautiful horns and the amazing Jake Hartsfield for mixing this on such short notice!
    #BrentMorgan #TheFixer

Комментарии • 5 тыс.

  • @amandaharper5681
    @amandaharper5681 3 года назад +2498

    I absolutely adore this song. This is the empath anthem I've always needed. People don't really understand what its like to feel others pain so deeply it brings physical pain to yourself.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 года назад +100

      thank you so much

    • @rebeccapetersen5613
      @rebeccapetersen5613 3 года назад +9

      Indeed it is

    • @johnchavez410
      @johnchavez410 3 года назад +23

      I understand I try to stay away from people because of it

    • @gracechristensen6355
      @gracechristensen6355 3 года назад +42

      I too am a empath. And a healer... No one understands the physical pain and the emotional pain. Thank God for this song......

    • @susancarver3977
      @susancarver3977 3 года назад +33

      I put everything into others because it takes focus off my needs and pain. Its actually selfishness on my part to be this way cause sometimes i hurt so bad my soul starts to grieve. This song seemed to be calling me out. Ive just cried and cried over this song

  • @cuminurdadsass
    @cuminurdadsass 3 года назад +288

    Reminds me of a Mother going through a hard time being a single mother

  • @1234Colormepink
    @1234Colormepink 3 года назад +2640

    So I decided to write a response to it... Here y'all go. Same tune different words. I also just did a video of me singing this, vocals only, since there were many requests to do so. Thank you! - ruclips.net/video/u9D1HcZ3-Tw/видео.html
    I’m a fixer who found my fixer
    I’m a lover being loved in return
    My heart’s shattered and dazed from all the pain
    But this fixer has a fixer herself.
    I’m a fighter with people behind her
    In a corner they ensure my health.
    He pulls me away from a terrible place.
    He’ll fix every scar he can find.
    Oh, She fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke.
    Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most.
    Cleaning the wounds and fighting her hell
    This fixer found a fixer herself.
    I’m a liar, alive with a fire
    Shamed that I burden you
    But he whispers my name, and I am saved.
    No more lies, I’ll be honest and true.
    Oh, she fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke.
    Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most.
    Backed with persistence, fighting the hell.
    This fixer found a fixer herself.
    I’m a handful
    A whole lot to handle.
    But he says it’s no trouble, he’s fine.
    He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place
    He’s fixing the fixer each night.
    He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place
    He’s fixing the fixer each night.
    Hope you enjoy and thank you for this glorious song and inspiration!

    • @shanw.2948
      @shanw.2948 3 года назад +38

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @hazelfabricante1337
      @hazelfabricante1337 3 года назад +44

      Whooaah! Hand's up to you! 👏👏

    • @ksorangeeee840
      @ksorangeeee840 3 года назад +81

      I'm crying to this. I always believe no one is gonna fix this fixer. I hope someone will be willing to as I will fix that person too. I am glad you found yourself one 👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @1234Colormepink
      @1234Colormepink 3 года назад +30

      @@ksorangeeee840 As am I! I think you'll find someone eventually, give it time.

    • @1234Colormepink
      @1234Colormepink 3 года назад +8

      @@hazelfabricante1337 Thank you!!!

  • @aprille1927
    @aprille1927 8 месяцев назад +162

    I'm dedicating this song to my past self-the old me.
    Hang in there, sweetheart. You are going to get through this, I promise, and things will get so much better.
    I love you. ❤

    • @Godisfirst21
      @Godisfirst21 8 месяцев назад +6

      Thank you for the hope.

    • @matthewjames5598
      @matthewjames5598 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Godisfirst21
      I almost killed myself. A small part reached out. Not even my parents realized what was going on. Everyone thought I had it together and was so happy. The cutting was 5 years ago.
      Hold on friend. You don't have to do this alone. Let someone in.
      It helped me.

    • @Godisfirst21
      @Godisfirst21 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@matthewjames5598 Thank you. I hope you have a great day today.

    • @lorraineanne7821
      @lorraineanne7821 6 месяцев назад +1

      Your beautiful ❤ take care of you beautiful soul ❤

    • @gingercats1067
      @gingercats1067 3 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤ for you~

  • @ytownsend918
    @ytownsend918 3 года назад +218

    Fixers cant fix themselves because they are to busy fixing others. And maybe they are like me and run away when people try to help. This song hits home for me

  • @AuraNetworkVision
    @AuraNetworkVision 3 года назад +518

    I'm in love with this song 🥺💖

  • @TheFlacapreciosa
    @TheFlacapreciosa 3 года назад +102

    My soul is naked and spirit is broken. This song was able to rip tears out of my eyes that I didn't even know I'd been holding back.

  • @mrsperfectlyimperfect6363
    @mrsperfectlyimperfect6363 2 года назад +213

    As a fixer, I always focus my energy on those who need me. Focusing on myself only causes me pain and anxiety of the past and present that haunt my thoughts when I am alone. This is a beautiful song that has put perspective on my emotional health.

  • @chelhartzell8254
    @chelhartzell8254 Год назад +18

    The tears won't stop. This is my life in a nut shell.

  • @muthoninjauyah3968
    @muthoninjauyah3968 Год назад +27

    I am a fixer who now prioritizes fixing myself first, and I now only fix people who ask for it, and appreciate my energy. We are learning 💪🏾.

    • @Anna.21.
      @Anna.21. Год назад +1

      How did you start?

    • @muthoninjauyah3968
      @muthoninjauyah3968 Год назад +1

      @@Anna.21. I started by no longer allowing those who abused my kindness into my energy, or space. I completely cut them all off.
      It is now my fundamental rule to only give where I am appreciated, where my kindness is reciprocated
      💖🦋🙂🦋💖.
      I wish you all the love and wisdom in caring for your beautiful fixer souls 💯❤️🌹.

    • @jennymoser9750
      @jennymoser9750 Год назад +1

      SO proud of you! It sounds simple, but most of us fixers understand how much fight it takes to get to where you are now. Good for you.

    • @muthoninjauyah3968
      @muthoninjauyah3968 Год назад

      @@jennymoser9750 💖💝🌺💓💞💖

    • @janejuliet1
      @janejuliet1 11 месяцев назад +1

      I could've written this! ❤️

  • @rainebeaumeyers8743
    @rainebeaumeyers8743 3 года назад +108

    I never knew this song existed and now that I am sitting here raw, broken, and frustrated I feel like I just learned alot about myself. Thank you. -A fixer

  • @bubbletea6617
    @bubbletea6617 3 года назад +65

    its like when you hold everyone up to realize that your drowning and there's no one to hold you up.

  • @flathanger
    @flathanger 2 года назад +9

    This song found me. I've been listening for months. It's my go to when I need that reminder to fix myself before trying to help others.

  • @stephanieharrington4710
    @stephanieharrington4710 2 года назад +6

    Wow!!!!! I'm in tears listening to this beautiful truth!

  • @leeeeemon4148
    @leeeeemon4148 8 месяцев назад +4

    I almost forgot about this song. Thank you for recommending this to me randomly.

  • @tenshi_senpai9854
    @tenshi_senpai9854 2 года назад +5

    It really does get tiring comforting others because you dont want them to feel the pain you've been feeling but no ones doing the same for you

  • @sweetmanggo4070
    @sweetmanggo4070 Год назад +7

    Thanks to Brent Morgan, whenever I feel like there's no room for me anymore, I come to his channel, and feel better in the end. God bless you because you may have saved many lives0

  • @tarau8695
    @tarau8695 Месяц назад +3

    Somebody DOES understand !! Thank you for this song !!

  • @saptarshilalalzlalal
    @saptarshilalalzlalal 2 года назад

    Just yesterday I got a letter from one of my dear ones that I need to take care of myself also. I need to be careful with myself, i need to stop caring and solve problems of others. And I think he is the one who is a fixer. Who gave me that touch of compassion which melts the 29 years of hell made of ice.

  • @mariposa9676
    @mariposa9676 3 года назад +18

    who agrees he makes the most relatable music ever...

  • @summeraugust9846
    @summeraugust9846 3 года назад +19

    This made me cry. After all these years of fixing others I finally realized a few weeks ago that I'm the one who needs fixing. This song is so relatable. Kinda freaked out about how accurate it is as this came in my recommended. I love this so much omg

  • @emilyclaire5907
    @emilyclaire5907 3 года назад +5

    I love how this song how legit been made and how I can relate so much... 🥲 but so grateful that someone understands the pain I go through

  • @rianarose3718
    @rianarose3718 3 года назад +5

    HOLY
    CRAP
    BRENT
    YOU
    ARE
    A
    LEGEND!!! You are such an inspiration man. This song is so touching. God bless you Brent 😇❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @erfinadeby3308
    @erfinadeby3308 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for making this beautiful song 🙏🏼 I found this beautiful song after listen Gonna be okey... I cried out loud 😭🙏🏼

  • @kymkelly6071
    @kymkelly6071 3 года назад +355

    My bf sent this to me and said “your my fixer and I will try to fix you in anyway I can” I started crying 😅❤️
    Omg that’s a lot of likes, thank you!
    Currently my bf and me are hitting our one year, it passed by so fast and I love everyday I get to spend time with him

    • @TheWinningNadz
      @TheWinningNadz 3 года назад +16

      Keep that boyfriend🥺

    • @kymkelly6071
      @kymkelly6071 3 года назад +5

      @@TheWinningNadz I will 🥺

    • @SoundForest
      @SoundForest 3 года назад +2

      @@kymkelly6071 :)) SO CUTE ^-^

    • @kymkelly6071
      @kymkelly6071 3 года назад +3

      @@SoundForest he’s the sweetest and I couldn’t ask for anyone better 😊❤️

    • @colorado1love4life55
      @colorado1love4life55 3 года назад +2

      Don't ever let that boy go!!!

  • @shaynepagtacunan1029
    @shaynepagtacunan1029 6 месяцев назад +1

    I dedicate this song to my mom.. she is really a fixer.. i love her and i miss her so bad.

  • @AmandaElle1
    @AmandaElle1 Год назад +4

    Brent, this is heartbreaking and beautiful. A "Killing Me Softly" moment. A (my) deep, uncomfortable letter read aloud. And your voice. Nothing in the song is predictable. I love your bluesy "setting" for desolate words. Interestingly, the strongest emotion you expressed was, "But she's worth every thorn in my side." Is it possible that someone could feel that way about me? So happy to discover you. 🛠️ (tools, for fixing)

  • @jaxsup
    @jaxsup 2 года назад +1

    I love this song so much. I have for a while. Thanks. This song has saved my life more times than you know.

  • @jazmynmallette4604
    @jazmynmallette4604 3 года назад +7

    I'm in a not so bright place in my life at the moment, and this describes me so well!!
    It's just so soothing and equally sorrowful at the same time; your voice is melodious and the lyrics are beautifully heartbreaking, once you can relate to them.
    Thank you for creating such a masterpiece!!
    Much love xx

  • @OconMom7
    @OconMom7 3 года назад +8

    A song that I can 100% relate too

  • @itsthelinazandershow9568
    @itsthelinazandershow9568 4 месяца назад +2

    I'm a wife and mom of 2 and this made me cry I am now obsessed

  • @adelinamohorea7002
    @adelinamohorea7002 2 года назад +4

    Frumoasă melodie !🥰

  • @kennedytaylor3822
    @kennedytaylor3822 3 года назад +5

    I feel this, I'm the friend who always checks on people but no one ever checks on, I'm the one who's always forgot about. I feel like I'm living life for everyone who would be sad if i wasn't alive but never for myself

    • @nim_bubbles
      @nim_bubbles 3 года назад +2

      Hey, you won't be forgotten anymore and you're not alone 💜

    • @kennedytaylor3822
      @kennedytaylor3822 3 года назад +1

      Thanks so much, this honestly made my day🥰

    • @nim_bubbles
      @nim_bubbles 3 года назад

      @@kennedytaylor3822 I'm happy to hear that 😊💜

    • @kennedytaylor3822
      @kennedytaylor3822 3 года назад +1

      How about you, how are you in life?

    • @nim_bubbles
      @nim_bubbles 3 года назад +1

      @@kennedytaylor3822 I'm okay, getting better again I guess so that's good and I know that if I need it I can reach out to people even when it sometimes scares me

  • @Samantic2332
    @Samantic2332 Год назад +1

    When I found this song, it brought me out of some Dark nights.
    It still comforts my Soul. Reminds me of who I am.

  • @MoondustManwise
    @MoondustManwise Год назад +3

    Huge fixer here, i like to say I was raised to be a fixer, fix everyone else's problems, be everyone else's rock, but I'm horrible at accepting help or advice when I keep trying to fix myself. I overcorrect so hard sometimes it's like strangling myself, neurodivergencey undiagnosed and strictly squashed into as close a box as everyone else was in. I'm getting better, it turns out loosening my own reins and trusting that I won't immediately fall apart was a big step towards not being fixed, maybe, but being truly happy at least.

  • @fadyadhea0
    @fadyadhea0 2 года назад +1

    still have that 'feeling' everytime I listen to this song. 🥺

  • @05-8forgotten
    @05-8forgotten 3 года назад +12

    Looking forward seeing an alternate lyric that goes for men 😁
    But still, what a fantastic song indeed

  • @207LW
    @207LW 3 года назад +5

    I found this song by mistake tonight. I don’t know how...the broken fixer is me.

  • @GrainneScarlett
    @GrainneScarlett 3 месяца назад +1

    I found this song 2 mins ago via the algorithm gods. It landed at just the right time.

  • @vibemusiclyrics525
    @vibemusiclyrics525 2 года назад

    It's January 2022 😘 Lets see how many legend and fans are still listening to this masterpiece 💯

  • @charlenessfxjourney6208
    @charlenessfxjourney6208 2 года назад +3

    Came straight over from tiktok to hear the whole song every word is so true absolutely amazing dong love it

    • @mkm226
      @mkm226 2 года назад +1

      me too, I thought it's latest as in days ago, but it's already MONTHS!!! WHY I DIDN'T HEAR IT SOONER!!!

  • @allisonf2160
    @allisonf2160 Год назад +1

    Most beautiful and true song I've heard in my whole life!!! Wow! Amazing... I LOVE it!

  • @amruthavalli1260
    @amruthavalli1260 3 года назад +7

    I was sad as i didn't do justice to responsibility given, idk why i came here, now i can't stop crying. I wish there was someone who would comfort the same like I do to others without me saying my problem, silently watching over me.. That'll just be an unfulfilled dream

    • @sylviavangerven2608
      @sylviavangerven2608 3 года назад

      I feel the same way. Hang in there. I hope that dream will come true for the both of us 🧡

  • @meooooowerz
    @meooooowerz 8 месяцев назад

    I heard this song on the midst of breaking down. It hurts bigtime stumbling upon a song that describes who you are. But after listening on repeat it became really comforting, knowing that somewhere out here, there's a song that understands what I'm going through. I can't believe I'm only finding out about this song right now, on random, whilst breaking down. It's like a healing song I never knew I needed. Brent's voice is so comforting and his songs are a masterpiece of their own. 💖💖💖

  • @gheeciana1028
    @gheeciana1028 6 месяцев назад

    Amazing song...heartwarming and touches everyones core..❤❤❤❤

  • @AL-fi2us
    @AL-fi2us 2 года назад

    To all the fixers and who always plays the role of helpers and who never receive help from anyone, you guys are amazing.

  • @kaitlynmorales7332
    @kaitlynmorales7332 3 года назад +9

    Where are my selfless empaths at? 🤗😅💖

  • @nicollecox4380
    @nicollecox4380 2 года назад

    The way he came for me with this song was just too much 😩

  • @glitterfairy4696
    @glitterfairy4696 Год назад +1

    This song and Some days by the same artist represents me and Some days is how I feel

  • @peggybise8595
    @peggybise8595 Год назад

    What a wonderful song. So true

  • @ericahewlett8528
    @ericahewlett8528 10 месяцев назад

    I’m still listening to this song one year later . Love all your songs Brent

  • @kristinjohnson8736
    @kristinjohnson8736 3 месяца назад +1

    Great song ❤

  • @DancingHeart67
    @DancingHeart67 Год назад +1

    How did RUclips know that I am an empath and I work in the mental health field? It suggested this song, so I clicked and listened. Tears flow. This is so true!

  • @maryqueenhiyao1520
    @maryqueenhiyao1520 Год назад +2

    Damn relatable, your songs are my companion whenever emptiness strikes in. Thank you for the existence. 🖤

  • @violalalinor9934
    @violalalinor9934 8 месяцев назад

    I rarely cry to songs, I've cried to Christina Perri's "Mothers" and "In the stars" by Benson Boon, but now this one is also on the list. Thank you for a beautiful and relatable song!

  • @lotuspocus76312
    @lotuspocus76312 Год назад +1

    I wonder why people who dont know us know us the best and write beautiful songs about it. ✨️✨️✨️

  • @madhuriverma5898
    @madhuriverma5898 2 года назад

    Cudnt find much relatable lyrics before... Thn these.... Love to all fixers ❤️❤️❤️

  • @chris03cha
    @chris03cha 2 года назад

    I love you for singing this beautiful song! I had to dedicate it to my grandma who passed away and to all the beautiful women in this world who fixes and forgets herself. I told them it’s time they gave themselves permission to heal. To honor their spirit and their wounds. I love them to the stars, the moon, the sun, and all the way back to earth!
    This is truly an amazing song, I cannot believe I just heard it today! It is such an honor 🥰💪🙏🏼 Thank you Brent and team! 😘😘😘

  • @christyhiatt4383
    @christyhiatt4383 2 года назад

    Thank you for this. So true.

  • @jeniferwood4586
    @jeniferwood4586 2 года назад

    Was not expecting this. Had never heard this before and every line was renewed shock.

  • @christinagarcia691
    @christinagarcia691 Год назад +2

    As soon as I heard it, I thought of a few people I could and did send this song to. It’s beautiful 💚💚 ..

  • @rosacostea5760
    @rosacostea5760 Год назад

    I see myself in this song
    Thank you for the song and maybe oneday we gone take more of us

  • @MeG-yp8ul
    @MeG-yp8ul 2 года назад

    Oh my this brought tears 😪🥴 this is my life 💔♥️🙏🏾😍

  • @aashnakhanna4096
    @aashnakhanna4096 Год назад

    This gave me goosebumps...beautiful thoughts wound into enchanting words.

  • @rosemayor9703
    @rosemayor9703 4 месяца назад

    Love this so much....it hit's me so deep.....

  • @SofieNielsen-wb4dk
    @SofieNielsen-wb4dk 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for the reminder 🙏💙

  • @yvknaga
    @yvknaga 2 года назад

    It's 2022. Coming back to this song💜

  • @alyssasherman7702
    @alyssasherman7702 2 года назад +1

    This is a belt it out while driving alone kind of song.

  • @Dark_Angel2600
    @Dark_Angel2600 Год назад +1

    This feels so real when I listen more and more. It feels I need to fix myself now.

  • @Teaganansley1304
    @Teaganansley1304 Год назад +2

    As a fixer this hits deep
    I push everyone away when it comes to my own emotions but when someone needs help im right there

  • @ccscreations3263
    @ccscreations3263 2 года назад

    Wow does this hit home!

  • @cassandrapralle965
    @cassandrapralle965 2 года назад

    This cut deep. Describes how I feel most of the time.

  • @petsfamilylgbtidk5113
    @petsfamilylgbtidk5113 2 года назад +2

    When it says "but worth every thorn in my side" I always tear up a bit!

  • @elizabethdarlong3456
    @elizabethdarlong3456 2 года назад

    Addicted to this song🌻

  • @dee-tx5jd
    @dee-tx5jd 3 года назад +3350

    She's addicted to fixing others, so she doesn't have to face and deal with her own brokeness.
    Saving other people is a coping mechanism. It's escapism. It's running away from a victim mentality by escaping into it.

  • @cesardanielgatuno969
    @cesardanielgatuno969 3 года назад +4835

    I dont care if I'm a man, I'm dedicating this to myself. Beautiful song.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 года назад +281

      💚💚💚

    • @Brian-ph6of
      @Brian-ph6of 3 года назад +97

      Same, bro. Same.

    • @catlynnnounoute8953
      @catlynnnounoute8953 3 года назад +103

      This is the energy I want. A start to "fixing" myself.

    • @debbieoneal3371
      @debbieoneal3371 3 года назад +148

      @@catlynnnounoute8953 please do fix yourself. My sister was always the fixer until she took her life last year. I only wished she told me she needed fixed. She hid it so well. We all thought she was happy and she was always there fixing all our problems. I miss her so much.

    • @cesardanielgatuno969
      @cesardanielgatuno969 3 года назад +36

      @@debbieoneal3371 Sorry to hear that.

  • @kellinhell
    @kellinhell 3 года назад +1801

    All I did was click on this suggested song and now I’m crying

  • @chickachickie
    @chickachickie 3 года назад +1602

    As a fixer, I've never heard a song more true to my mentality. You don't feel like you're worthy to be fixed. So to ignore yourself breaking apart, you fix others. Hoping one day you'll care about yourself as much as you care about others. At least that's what I do.

    • @michellealexander2365
      @michellealexander2365 2 года назад +35

      I can't relate more. I like to ignore the fact that I'm hurting to help others. I forget that I need help too and when I meet that breaking point I realize that I'm the one that needs fixed.

    • @hippiechickie5320
      @hippiechickie5320 2 года назад +23

      I'm finally fixing myself & it's tough and it's beautiful and it's a wake up call,my wish is for all the fixer's is to know your worth, don't wait till your 60 years old

    • @BeatersRus
      @BeatersRus 2 года назад +5

      so there with you.

    • @altwreck127
      @altwreck127 2 года назад +6

      I don't think I've ever agreed with a sentence more

    • @rebeccaweller8616
      @rebeccaweller8616 2 года назад +4

      Amen! Right there with you

  • @JuliaKyi
    @JuliaKyi 3 года назад +1939

    “Fixers never fix themselves”
    It hit hard...

  • @ochiochimi
    @ochiochimi 3 года назад +865

    this songs hits you when you’re always by your friends side but they’re not on yours.

  • @justtop4786
    @justtop4786 3 года назад +1612

    I didn't search for it ,I found this song by coincidence. what a lovely coincidence

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 года назад +32

      💚💚💚

    • @justtop4786
      @justtop4786 3 года назад +13

      @@katerigolden2838 a lucky coincidence

    • @skrip_skrip4814
      @skrip_skrip4814 3 года назад +9

      I normally don't click on song suggestions but this one seemed like it called out to me. It sings to my soul

    • @btsworlddomination5069
      @btsworlddomination5069 3 года назад

      Same :')

    • @shawnashuman4847
      @shawnashuman4847 3 года назад +2

      @@skrip_skrip4814 same someone sent me another song to listen to and this was a suggestion and like you said it felt like it was callin me

  • @maryph4255
    @maryph4255 3 года назад +399

    When youtube recommendations know you better than your friends.

  • @muguure_1
    @muguure_1 2 года назад +779

    To all the fixers out there…Here’s a guy who has us figured out.
    this song is deep🥺

  • @joyegbunu1838
    @joyegbunu1838 3 года назад +1325

    Who told Brent my life's story!!! Such a comforting song just cause someone else feels our pain!

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 года назад +108

      love you!

    • @haleylemaire2262
      @haleylemaire2262 3 года назад +40

      I know how you feel. My relationship is on the rocks. I am giving birth this Friday. I don't feel myself anymore. I always try to help everyone else... but I forget I need to heal my wounds as well

    • @karlahansen4976
      @karlahansen4976 3 года назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing!!!!

    • @strrwbrryjamjam2191
      @strrwbrryjamjam2191 3 года назад +2

      Tell me about it💕

    • @darlenenelson364
      @darlenenelson364 3 года назад +13

      @@haleylemaire2262 Congratulations on your new arrival. God bless you and your bundle of joy, and know that no matter what your never really alone. We are strong because we must be, but call on the Lord and JE will raise you up dearest new mama. Your in my prayers Darlene Marie

  • @Lylia9000
    @Lylia9000 3 года назад +2391

    Admit it, you didn’t look for this song. It just found you and now you get to cry by yourself cuz it’s probably not the best that you relate lol. ;w;
    Edit: Whoa that's a lot of likes...

  • @AlpacaLegion
    @AlpacaLegion 3 года назад +2205

    Smart choice of words!

  • @saronh1488
    @saronh1488 2 года назад +327

    I cried when i heard this song for the first time. it felt like someone finally understood what i am going through 😟 and how on edge i am. thank you for this song💛

    • @jojodouglas8468
      @jojodouglas8468 Год назад +8

      Exactly how I’m feeling

    • @MeJanukaitis
      @MeJanukaitis Год назад +1

      Praying for you my dear❤❤

    • @davidpotgieter4513
      @davidpotgieter4513 Год назад +1

      Kept in my tears till i saw your comment. Then the watrerfall started rolling down my cheeks

    • @aliyahadaanni
      @aliyahadaanni 11 месяцев назад +1

      True . Me too 😢

    • @warriormom-ub6lr
      @warriormom-ub6lr 10 месяцев назад +1

      I just broke down myself. I needed this

  • @xiins1923
    @xiins1923 3 года назад +432

    YT is doing a fucking good job with the recomandations. Why am I crying, again?

  • @lilithrosewood6829
    @lilithrosewood6829 3 года назад +495

    Talked with a friend and we started talking about what each others theme songs would be. I sent him his theme song and then he took almost 10 minutes going through his history to find this song. And right after he sent it he said, "Just in case you thought nobody noticed what you've done for everyone around you.", and then he said he had to go. After the call ended I listened to this and I nearly cried. My heart you guys, it feels.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 года назад +21

      💚💚💚

    • @zety4228
      @zety4228 3 года назад +7

      i think this comment suits to the book i just fished reading week ago😭❤️😊

    • @alpacakira6899
      @alpacakira6899 3 года назад +5

      Did you two date? 🤗he appreciates you

    • @lilithrosewood6829
      @lilithrosewood6829 3 года назад +24

      We are officially dating now! And I couldn't be happier, he is super caring about everyone he meets and makes sure to take extra care to help me when I'm nervous or upset.

    • @Jessica-nh7fo
      @Jessica-nh7fo 3 года назад +3

      @@zety4228 what book was that

  • @courtneygahan551
    @courtneygahan551 3 года назад +240

    I have never felt more personally attacked by a song in my life.
    And never had a song put my feeling into words better than this.

  • @gitangiie8634
    @gitangiie8634 3 года назад +774

    "She's lover who won't love herself" damn, it stabbed me

  • @gracealexandrea2150
    @gracealexandrea2150 3 года назад +181

    "Lies aren't a fix for the truth" Yes thats true but it sure makes a great bandaid.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 года назад +5

      💚💚💚

    • @gracealexandrea2150
      @gracealexandrea2150 3 года назад +1

      @@BrentMorganMusic Thank you for the like and comment. I hope you are doing well and have an amazing night/day!

  • @nanananna9667
    @nanananna9667 3 года назад +318

    "Buried in bandages
    Hiding the hell"
    Guys I'm 7 days free! I know it's not much but I'm very proud of myself!

    • @krizzannegayatgay3084
      @krizzannegayatgay3084 3 года назад +5

      I’m proud of you☺️❤️

    • @randomperson9961
      @randomperson9961 3 года назад +5

      THATS AMAZING IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!! :D

    • @msmsmarissa
      @msmsmarissa 3 года назад +6

      How is it going? Hopefully life is getting better every day for you!

    • @nanananna9667
      @nanananna9667 3 года назад +6

      @@msmsmarissa Honestly things were a lot better!But last night I did it again..I really hate myself for this...

    • @msmsmarissa
      @msmsmarissa 3 года назад +15

      @@nanananna9667 it's only one day..you didn't throw everything away! Don't hate yourself, just try again

  • @brinsley4599
    @brinsley4599 3 года назад +256

    As an empath, I really don't know how to feel about this song. I always reach out to people who are sad and I offer an ear when I think people need it cuz I love helping, but it's astronomically hard for me to open up about myself because I feel so misunderstood. I feel like a liar and an entitled person though, for relating to this...

    • @gingerjones5931
      @gingerjones5931 3 года назад +5

      It's all good but you sound relatable to me.
      We do need healthy boundaries.

    • @cmubabe07
      @cmubabe07 3 года назад +6

      Observe others feelings and issues, don’t absorb them. You can’t help anyone when the weight of the world drowns you.

    • @luna-jj4cw
      @luna-jj4cw 3 года назад +5

      I do to and as a fellow empath I can say that we need to realize we give everything and get nothing it’s not selfish to won’t help and praise or even some emotional stability its natural. Put yourself first it’s not selfish.

    • @ghanacryptogurl3574
      @ghanacryptogurl3574 3 года назад +5

      You explained how i feel so badly, thank you for putting it in words

    • @tyleraaron2776
      @tyleraaron2776 3 года назад +4

      I totally feel you, but try to understand that the way you feel is valid and just because you may not be able to help yourself with your problems yet doesn't mean you a lair just means you haven't figured out the puzzle quite yet.

  • @munkyzzb7504
    @munkyzzb7504 3 года назад +160

    I'm always trying to help ppl probably cause I can't help myself..

  • @southerncross5360
    @southerncross5360 3 года назад +237

    I became the Fixer early in life, I was as a child when I was powerlessness over my mother’s mental and emotional health. When I was young the stigma of mental health problems meant my family survived by learning to hide the truth about the hell we were living behind closed doors. My mother was institutionalized many times, all her breakdowns and outbursts, being present or finding her after multiple suicide attempts, I was the daughter who learned to carry the burdens of others. Our family was about rescuing my mother in order to save our whole family. Over time I was conditioned to fix problems. So I’d respond to certain things like when I heard "I can't" that meant they can't, so I assumed the role that "I can". I saw my father as Superhero who always helped our family. I wanted to be like him so I helped him, I was the little superhero I assumed that role costume and all. It meant I was good and worthy for helping my family like my father. I spent many years in chaos where I learned to believe that’s what families, especially parents do, they help one another. Marriage meant in sickness and in health but that meant sacrificing my needs and myself. I was conditioned to carry the weight of others, and their problems. It takes a toll over the years as it became too heavy at times making me angry, and resentful when I couldn’t help the people I loved. I thought being needed was being loved. I placed the needs of others above myself sacrificing time and energy from my own life to help others on their path forgetting my own since I was a young child. I did like fairytales but I learned quickly the stories many girls are told are lies. People who become fixers learn that the only real way to connect with others is to rescue them and or fix them not realizing the cost is too much to carry and heartbreaks too many. I lived this life for over 40 years. The hardest thing I did was something nobody in my family had done before, I divorced my husband of 20 years, he became an alcoholic, and his anger grew with age. I believed for years if I did this or that he would change, but he didn’t want to change.
    I couldn’t make him care about me or our children, that was his job. It’s exhausting watching your family fall apart. I even felt guilty when he got in trouble, lost his job, went to jail, he had girlfriends who harassed me and my children. That wasn’t my mess to fix nor clean up so i quit helping him. The mess was his, he made that choice when he didn’t want to fix anything when he had that choice or he had to leave. He chose to leave our family behind. He looked for women like me, anyone to take care of him. I learned the hard way that it wasn’t my job to make him better. It’s hard to know my children suffer with the fact he left and the choices I made that kept him around too long. I know now that what he does is his choice and his problem. There’s times i feel the need to watch from afar and say it’s about our children but I know it’s me. Truth that’s hard to accept is that if he loved me or our children he would have stayed. His choices are not mine, his burdens of his choice aren’t mine either. I hope others realize their self worth and their identity is not found in someone else, and free themselves from a life in chains. I spent too many years caring for people who didn’t care for me. It’s hard to comprehend and heal the brokenness caused by giving your all to love someone and it’s not returned. Do not be a doormat or assume your own identity in someone else. If this is you know you’re drawn to unhealthy relationships, attracted like a magnet for anyone needing a rescue, it’s a vicious cycle, a cycle that has to be broken. You must love yourself before you can love someone else. Most important message I’ve heard in a song, thank you!

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 года назад +20

      Thanks for this comment!! Much love 💚

    • @emillyanyango805
      @emillyanyango805 3 года назад +11

      😊your strong and I got a lot from you

    • @Riverstar03
      @Riverstar03 3 года назад +4

      I’m sorry you’ve had to go through so much, and I know it’s hard to carry other people’s burdens and feel like they are more important than what you go through. It makes me glad to know there is more people that deal with the same things as me, and I’m glad you’ve kept going, even through all of that. I love you and you are so strong, I hope you find something and someone that makes you happy💕

    • @veronica1689
      @veronica1689 3 года назад +1

      How are you? Hope you’re well and taking care of yourself

    • @deeanaholyoak3127
      @deeanaholyoak3127 3 года назад +4

      You have found a way to so eloquently reach me with your story. Validated me in ways I didn't even know I needed. It is times like these that I love the internet. 🎶 " I guess you're just what I needed!" 🎵 - she sang in her head. 😊 Thank you. ❤

  • @saltywisdom
    @saltywisdom 2 года назад +110

    She's a fixer with no one to fix her
    She's a lover who won't love herself
    She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a fighter with no one beside her
    In a corner alone on the ropes
    She's a let down away from a terrible place
    She'll fix every scar but her own
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most
    Buried in bandages, hiding the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a liar, a calm to the fire
    Shamed when we all follow suit
    She's a whisper away from a dangerous place
    'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who need fixin' the most
    Packed with prescriptions, disguisin' the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a handful
    A whole lot to handle
    But worth every thorn in my side
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight

  • @paruparo9750
    @paruparo9750 3 года назад +182

    to anyone who's listening to this with me, i hope you know that you are loved. you are enough. you are worthy of being loved and you should be kind to yourself, too. you can do that. when you feel that no one's there to fix you, you can come back to this song and remember that you are your own fixer... and you don't have to fix others.

  • @Sparklescooby93
    @Sparklescooby93 2 года назад +167

    Some songs just hit you so hard that all you find yourself doing is crying to them at almost 4am…thank you for this beautiful masterpiece!

  • @amyedison8780
    @amyedison8780 3 года назад +118

    Lyrics:
    She's a fixer with no one to fix her
    She's a lover who won't love herself
    She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a fighter with no one beside her
    In a corner alone on the ropes
    She's a let down away from a terrible place
    She'll fix every scar but her own
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most
    Buried in bandages, hiding the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a liar, a calm to the fire
    Shamed when we all follow suit
    She's a whisper away from a dangerous place
    'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who need fixin' the most
    Packed with prescriptions, disguising the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a handful
    A whole lot to handle
    But worth every thorn in my side
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight