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  • @montgomerymulti3594
    @montgomerymulti3594  4 года назад +350

    TRIGGER WARNING
    Please do not watch this video if it will trigger any negative memories of a situation that you have unfortunately been in. A lot of you have chosen to share your stories on here so I ask you all to support eachother and if anyone feels that I should take this video down please let me know and I will but I want you all to know that this video was made as a support for those who have gone through anything as horrible as the situations represented in this video ❤️

  • @indianajonas5565
    @indianajonas5565 4 года назад +1972

    I was 7... now im 18 and ive never told anyone, cuz im a boy and "boys dont get raped"

    • @raynyxx
      @raynyxx 4 года назад +145

      Stay strong ❤️❤️❤️

    • @EmmalynGarcia24
      @EmmalynGarcia24 4 года назад +91

      If you ever need anyone to talk to I know you dont know me but I'm here for you

    • @aigoodeku1483
      @aigoodeku1483 4 года назад +46

      I'm sorry to hear that, I'm also here for you.... I suffer through tha is too even if i don't know you I'm here if you wanna talk

    • @Toria724
      @Toria724 4 года назад +28

      I’m so sorry that happened to you

    • @aigoodeku1483
      @aigoodeku1483 4 года назад +21

      It's still happening but thank you so much for caring

  • @claynine1266
    @claynine1266 4 года назад +1342

    There is one thing and one thing only that men and woman should know:
    *_No is No._*

    • @jadewu111
      @jadewu111 4 года назад +11

      its claynine Or any children

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад +1

      often her mouth says ''no'', but her eyes say ''yes''
      then you know what to do :)

    • @jadewu111
      @jadewu111 4 года назад +25

      Reek Stfu

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @@jadewu111 exactly, when she says ''no'', you must shut her up, often by force

    • @samm.6625
      @samm.6625 4 года назад +47

      @@reek4062 I really, really hope you're just a troll and trying to get a reaction out of people by using very dark humor. But just in case:
      That is a terribly sick and twisted mindset which caused too many people to suffer already.
      No means no. It doesn't matter if you want it that badly. Or if you think they actually mean yes.
      If they say no, then that means no. You do not get to decide that for them. You do not know what they want and you do not deserve to take that decision away from them. Even if they said yes in the beginning but change their mind halfway through. If they say stop, you stop.
      Simple as that.

  • @lilybordon9380
    @lilybordon9380 4 года назад +355

    People do not get that when somebody is raping/sexually assaulting you, you’re frozen in fear.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад +4

      If a woman is frozen then it ain't much fun anymore :(

    • @firstbornunicorn07
      @firstbornunicorn07 3 года назад +30

      @@reek4062 wtf

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      Lily Bordon. I'm sorry that happened to you.

    • @kaylee42508
      @kaylee42508 3 года назад +8

      @@reek4062 what the fuck is wrong with you

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад +1

      @@kaylee42508 I don't like frozen women. I like 'em warm and spicy

  • @Chaos_Rose
    @Chaos_Rose 4 года назад +490

    Almost got raped at 13
    He was 30
    He sat in front of me
    I could smell the alcohol.
    He whispered in my ear
    "You are beautiful"
    He sat down next to me
    His hand went into my jeans
    He tried to kiss me
    I turned away.
    He tried again.
    I said no
    He asked me why not
    You are 30 pls stop it
    He said age doesn't matter.
    I stood up as fast as I could.
    Grabbed my shoes and my drunk sister and told her that I want to go home
    He followed me
    Asked me why I wanted to go so suddenly
    I said my mom told me to be back at 10 pm
    He brought us to the train station
    I cried on the way back

    • @btsandblackpinkislife8731
      @btsandblackpinkislife8731 4 года назад +21

      I'm sorry this happened to you...❤

    • @Chaos_Rose
      @Chaos_Rose 4 года назад +16

      @@btsandblackpinkislife8731
      It's fine
      I was shocked and disturbed but in the end, nothing bad happened I've never seen him again I'm fine now

    • @Nana-xm3pp
      @Nana-xm3pp 4 года назад +10

      Chaos Rose I’m soooo sorry that happened

    • @Chaos_Rose
      @Chaos_Rose 4 года назад +8

      @@Nana-xm3pp
      It's ok

    • @klee.w
      @klee.w 3 года назад +10

      No teenager or child should be having to go through this. nor adult. if u went through something this serious talk too an adult or someone u trust or someone close like ur best friend or a friend. stay safe and strong girls and boys.

  • @violadamanzo
    @violadamanzo 4 года назад +461

    The worst feeling is when you can still feel his hands on you after years 💔

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад +3

      isn't that the best part?

    • @baldjungkook1947
      @baldjungkook1947 4 года назад +36

      @@reek4062 just stop commenting triggering things

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад +2

      @@baldjungkook1947 what triggering things?

    • @Heyguhh
      @Heyguhh 4 года назад +14

      Reek shut yo bitch ass up

    • @ryobaaishi9968
      @ryobaaishi9968 4 года назад +8

      @@reek4062 the.. memories.. the.. pain.. like me..

  • @tastytapeworms
    @tastytapeworms 4 года назад +1279

    I’m so disgusted by how he smiled at me

    • @user-ke7jb9gl1i
      @user-ke7jb9gl1i 4 года назад +32

      U okay?

    • @tastytapeworms
      @tastytapeworms 4 года назад +28

      ana d actually not, but I’m getting better. thanks for caring🥺 wbu?

    • @user-ke7jb9gl1i
      @user-ke7jb9gl1i 4 года назад +15

      @@tastytapeworms im fine but if u wanna talk with someone im here💓

    • @4zenk
      @4zenk 4 года назад +10

      letsfuckkappa glad you’re alright, dear. 💕

    • @friendlystoryphantom2043
      @friendlystoryphantom2043 4 года назад +5

      letsfuckkappa You’ll find that place where you’ll be safe again and you’ll find people who truly care about you.

  • @nevaeh5299
    @nevaeh5299 3 года назад +142

    That episode with Cheryl in Riverdale was so sad. Her mother kept saying nothing happened at the end of the day and then took hush money from her would-be rapist parents. This happens in real life which is the sad thing. Seeing all your stories are making me cry...Stay strong everyone

    • @juliapaardekooper1335
      @juliapaardekooper1335 3 года назад

      My mother didn’t believe me she still doesn’t no one believes

  • @bethzayda3775
    @bethzayda3775 4 года назад +400

    I’m still scared something I can’t forget...💔

    • @user-ke7jb9gl1i
      @user-ke7jb9gl1i 4 года назад +2

      Are u okay?

    • @stefanny8577
      @stefanny8577 4 года назад +3

      pls, stay strong. u are not alone💞

    • @charliec5603
      @charliec5603 4 года назад

      You okay I mean maybe not but I’m here and I know what it’s like to feel alone and I’m not trying to just say this I mean it ,I’m here if you need anything 💞💞 hope you’re okay in this time

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад

      I'm so sorry!

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      did you enjoy it?

  • @chelseamae8424
    @chelseamae8424 5 лет назад +836

    every day i co to classs and think he gonna do it again

    • @montgomerymulti3594
      @montgomerymulti3594  5 лет назад +83

      chelsea mae Stay strong ❤️

    • @chelseamae8424
      @chelseamae8424 5 лет назад +38

      @@montgomerymulti3594 thank you i am trying

    • @onlineextrovert5842
      @onlineextrovert5842 5 лет назад +34

      chelsea mae Can't imagine what you're feeling, you need to tell someone, he needs to get what he deserved. Stay strong DM me on insta if you need to @georgie.05_

    • @chelseamae8424
      @chelseamae8424 5 лет назад +11

      @@onlineextrovert5842 thatnk you

    • @chelseamae8424
      @chelseamae8424 5 лет назад +10

      @@onlineextrovert5842 hey i dont know what you wanted me to add u on but add me on hangouts chelse.mae200215gmail.com

  • @s1nful479
    @s1nful479 4 года назад +328

    When he touched me it was so... some type of pain turned into real feeling inside me. After that i've only one mood - pain. He didn't raped me, but i felt like The most dirty person on the world. He was so close...
    That feeling will never be understandable to anyone. The worst type of feeling.

    • @ely1528
      @ely1528 4 года назад +5

      Eliza Budynkiewicz - Montana Stay strong 🖤

    • @charliec5603
      @charliec5603 4 года назад +4

      I’m sorry here if you need someone

    • @lovelysukaina1722
      @lovelysukaina1722 4 года назад +3

      I’m so sorry if you need to talk I’m here

    • @anastasiahunick6565
      @anastasiahunick6565 4 года назад +4

      Is it ok if I talk about my experience I just want to get it off my chest

    • @12x.kendall
      @12x.kendall 4 года назад +4

      I relate all 5 times it hurt even worse when no one believed me

  • @yvonnesophia2203
    @yvonnesophia2203 3 года назад +317

    "she didn't say no. "
    nor did she say yes.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад +1

      she didn't say no

    • @abbs0.
      @abbs0. 3 года назад +21

      @@reek4062 But she didn't say yes either, which gives him no permission to do this to a woman.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@abbs0. but more importantly, she didn't say no

    • @abbs0.
      @abbs0. 3 года назад +18

      @@reek4062 If she doesn't say no, then that also doesn't give him consent, okay?

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@abbs0. If she doesn't say no, she doesn't deny him consent

  • @Chloe-sl3mv
    @Chloe-sl3mv 4 года назад +344

    My dad never believe it happened to me 💔

    • @Sophie-kf1bf
      @Sophie-kf1bf 4 года назад +7

      Chloe 11763 what are u talkin about? What do you mean? Is everything ok?

    • @user-ke7jb9gl1i
      @user-ke7jb9gl1i 4 года назад +8

      Are u okay? Is everything fine?

    • @sarahfox4868
      @sarahfox4868 4 года назад +7

      I no nothing is okay but please stay strong for you your loved ones and even though you don't know me for me

    • @paulinagomez385
      @paulinagomez385 4 года назад +3

      We are here to talk

    • @ana.williams
      @ana.williams 4 года назад +6

      My dad did it.

  • @zoeedits2211
    @zoeedits2211 6 лет назад +380

    This is so sad the music is soo good! You're such a good editor ♡

    • @montgomerymulti3594
      @montgomerymulti3594  6 лет назад +5

      zoe edits; Aw thank you so are you xoxo

    • @HEYBESTFRIENDHEYYY
      @HEYBESTFRIENDHEYYY 4 года назад

      I too was beating and nearly raped😓 I'm just starting RUclips🤞 and really need everyone😌😌 and I'm counting on everyone on RUclips right now🙏 to subscribe to me...I'm 🙂🙂a fresh voice at the table ...I promise to not let you down, 😘to listen 👂and to have integrity 🧐in every story that I bring you.... Come on, let me show u my page😘😘😘🤞🙆

  • @madison4191
    @madison4191 4 года назад +99

    I was molested by my step dad two years ago.. age 16. It went on for months and I was unsure what was wrong or right.. til it was to late, and then I had him arrested. He never stayed in jail, he took our money and evicted us. We lived on the streets and then a bad neighborhood for two more years.. he still is free, my case is still going on. Just two months ago I got out of a abusive relationship, he raped me.. and then trapped me. But I fought and I was able to leave but took awhile. I just want anyone who’s going thru what I did any type of abuse to put an end to it. You’re stronger than you know. You can do this talk to someone, tell them what’s happening... YOU GOT THIS:) you are beautiful
    Update: he was released.. they didn’t even look at my evidence they just said fuck it we are not taking your case

    • @onceinatwice2895
      @onceinatwice2895 4 года назад +5

      hope you are ok sweetheart❤️

    • @madison4191
      @madison4191 4 года назад +4

      randomgirl Thank u.. I was lost for awhile after it but I’m doing better. Just wish I got justice after all he put me thru

    • @afterhrs8389
      @afterhrs8389 4 года назад +2

      i'm here for you, sister. i know what it's like. how are you?

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад +1

      @@madison4191 I hope u ok I’m sorry that trash dude is out of jail pls be safe

    • @madison4191
      @madison4191 3 года назад +1

      @@sabiriinnur7890 ty im doing better just a lot going on. Thanks for the concern

  • @blackwidow5105
    @blackwidow5105 2 года назад +23

    I’m extremely close to my dad and in all my 26 years I’d never seen him cry. However last month while watching the news there was a story about a woman who had spoken out about being sexually abused by a celebrity.. anyway it prompted my dad to say “scum if the earth!! She stayed quiet for so long I can’t imagine how she must have felt keeping it in for so long.”
    I took a deep breath and asked if he remembered back when I was at school (I was a well behaved student) but went through a phases of skipping classes. He said he did and given the conversation that brought this up I could see the fear in his eyes. I told him I had started to skip that particular lesson because if I had it I had to sit in front of a boy who would sexually harass me, and that one day I excused myself to go to the toilet (to get away from him.) and he followed me shortly after. I finally told my dad that after he followed and found me. He had raped me.
    As I say my dad is a tough guy although he has a heart of gold. He started of strong and told me he was proud of me for telling him and said he would listen etc. I could see he was hurt and he couldn’t hold it in he started crying.
    Like I say I’ve never seen him cry, I started to apologise, he hugged me and told me “Don’t you ever apologise for what happened!” He has been my rock throughout it all. I love him so much

  • @meowmeowhi
    @meowmeowhi 3 года назад +23

    raped by a girl throughout elementary school
    raped by a guy i loved at 13 that was 27
    raped at 14 by one of my good friends
    rape is not something you can forget. its not something you can overcome so easily. it takes time to heal and find yourself again, and even then will some things haunt you no matter how strong you are. xooxo

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      And did you like it?

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @vaibhavseetharaman1221
      @vaibhavseetharaman1221 2 года назад

      I am sorry for asking this, but how can a female rape another female

    • @CrybabyPityParty
      @CrybabyPityParty 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@reek4062 what the hell do you mean?! Of course they didn't!

  • @blake7461
    @blake7461 3 года назад +85

    I’m disgusted by how I felt her smile on my lips when she felt my tears.

    • @Yourmom-wf6wo
      @Yourmom-wf6wo 3 года назад +5

      im so sorry about what happened to you. Stay strong

    • @xrsx_x
      @xrsx_x 3 года назад +3

      I‘m so sorry this happened to you. You’re a survivor

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +1

      Your a survivor! Stay strong❤

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      her smile confirms she enjoyed it, m'kay

    • @Yourmom-wf6wo
      @Yourmom-wf6wo 3 года назад +12

      @@reek4062 she did but he didn’t you sicko🤨

  • @Dizzy_Dezzy
    @Dizzy_Dezzy 3 года назад +41

    I was 17 he was my boyfriend I said ok in the beginning then I told him to stop I begged him I tried to push him off I was crying but he didn’t stop and when it was over he asked why I was crying and didn’t understand why I flinched every time he touched me and to this day no one believes me I only told one person and she told me to report it but I didn’t he knows what he did and I know what he did and I’ll never be able to forget it. I didn’t know that I could classify that as rape I thought it was my fault for agreeing in the first place but consent can be withdrawn at anytime and when it is you stop no matter what

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад +1

      I’m sorry that happened you’re very strong I hope u feel better 🥺

    • @Dizzy_Dezzy
      @Dizzy_Dezzy 3 года назад +1

      @@sabiriinnur7890 thank you💙

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад +1

      @@Dizzy_Dezzy your welcome have a amazing day 🥺

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry! Remember, however we dress, wherever we go, yes means yes and no means no. You did not deserve what happened to you❤ Stay strong!

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      you said ok in the beginning, so you have responsibility, m'kay

  • @Yourmom-wf6wo
    @Yourmom-wf6wo 3 года назад +19

    Im sorry that this has happened to you guys.... i can't even imagine the pain, stay strong queens and kings. If you need someone to talk to i'll always be here

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      Maybe they enjoy it?

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +5

      @@reek4062 WHAT THE HELL? THEY DID NOT ENJOY IT? RAPE IS A SERIOUS ISSUE! DO YOU KNOW WHAT CONSENT IS YOU WORTHLESS PIECE OF TRASH?

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@fnafgirl8874 I'm only suggesting they enjoy it. There's nothing wrong with that, is there?

    • @nevaehharris9562
      @nevaehharris9562 2 года назад

      @@reek4062 everything thing is wrong with that comment you made. No fucking girl asks to be raped. Men are evil Todo that to a women. Or even for a women to rape men. It disgusting.

  • @jacharychev_besson3353
    @jacharychev_besson3353 4 года назад +55

    ⚠️girls listen to what I have to say...u have a voice and it will be heared...u aren’t alone...u will get threw with whatever the problem is..but u have a voice SPEAK UP!⚠️

  • @neverlie3467
    @neverlie3467 4 года назад +17

    I was 8 and I was touched by another girl and I've never told anyone because I don't wanna be that person that ruins another's life and there family's because they Did something to me, I'm not like that so I will continue to keep it to myself. This helped me a lot along with other videos like this that I watch because I haven't been in a good place lately and this lockdown stuff going on hasn't helped at all I understand why we're on lockdown though of course but for anyone who's reading this I hope you know that it's ok to cry and it's ok to pity yourself because Today I had a meltdown worse than I've ever had it I'm currently crying while typing this if that says anything and well I just want you to know you are loved so don't ever think that because somebody thinks they can destroy your life doesn't mean you should let them. Honestly if I would've I wouldn't be here today. ❤️

    • @intelligentrock4379
      @intelligentrock4379 4 года назад +1

      This also happened to me by a girl when i was 6 and other times but i forced myself to forget. I absolutely hope you're feeling better now and are in a safe place 🌻🌻

    • @neverlie3467
      @neverlie3467 4 года назад +1

      intelligent rock thankyou so much. I'm feeling a lot better now, I hope your doing ok too!! The fact that you've shared that information I really respect your bravery! ❤️ stay safe xxx

    • @charliec5603
      @charliec5603 4 года назад

      intelligent rock I’m here for you

    • @chaterbox1239
      @chaterbox1239 3 года назад

      This happend to me around the same age and she only stopped when I was 12. I tried to forget but then found out that she did the same to my best freond and is still doing it to people I'm close to. I tried to come forward because I know that she won't stop, I've talked to others she did it to but still can't come forward to any adults.

  • @btslove9398
    @btslove9398 4 года назад +74

    I was molested by a boy in my class . Ppl watched did nothing laughed . Wow...

    • @btslove9398
      @btslove9398 4 года назад +3

      @@charliec5603 Ty i really appreciate it💖💖

    • @5EL0N3
      @5EL0N3 4 года назад +7

      same in middle school my spanish teacher saw too and didn’t do anything and i didn’t know what to do so i just got up and switched seats

    • @Ljenna9276
      @Ljenna9276 4 года назад +1

      @@5EL0N3 much luv, 💕💕

    • @juliequeen8603
      @juliequeen8603 4 года назад +2

      I was molested by a boy in my classroom and bathroom. He put his hand inside my pants and I was afraid to tell. The tecaher was reading us a book, and I didnt want to yell stop. I was 5. Now I know when someone says something innapropiate and touches me I tell the teacher.

    • @NotTheGodOfWar
      @NotTheGodOfWar 4 года назад +2

      That’s so fucked up. I hope you’re better now 💜

  • @hanayoo1959
    @hanayoo1959 4 года назад +49

    When I was little cant remember my age my cousin touched me twice in my private part he told me not to scream cause first time I screamed I dont remember exactly but there was my other cousin in the room but he was unpacking so he didn't see it. my aunts were taking that he harassed some other girls before i didn't tell anyone but hearing the story my aunts were talking about made me so scared about him I hated him and was scared. I was so young but what he done to me I knew it was so wrong everytime I see him I remember the disgusting thing he done to me yet I acted comfortable around him. I still remember the day when he touched me and told me not to scream I was so young I only told one friend what he done to me

    • @amilk1948
      @amilk1948 4 года назад +1

      Hey
      Give a look to this it is about rape..
      That channel helped me a lot
      ruclips.net/video/zaU_mO8wMhU/видео.html

  • @Noon460
    @Noon460 4 года назад +59

    Yeah they never said no but they never said yes either

  • @koonovel
    @koonovel 4 года назад +23

    I was 8...he was my brother actually all my brother's did it, and no one did something about it i can't keep pretend that nothing happened cuz it's still in my mind when i go back home i see them happy and smiling... YAS I HAVE MEMORIES!

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      Nice 👌

    • @officialbarbb3430
      @officialbarbb3430 3 года назад +2

      @@reek4062 shut up bozo

    • @sofivasquez9062
      @sofivasquez9062 2 года назад

      you are a survivor❤

    • @tanaenae2032
      @tanaenae2032 Год назад

      Same it was my little brother im the oldest i am afraid bc since im tje oldest i would be looked at wrong but he use to creep in my room and do stuffD

  • @jashintag59
    @jashintag59 4 года назад +14

    it happened a few years ago but i never told anybody. i think it’s because we were friends and i was drunk so even if i did they would say that it was my fault. if i had the choice i would report him immediately but sadly i don’t. honestly what hurts most is the fact that his friends covered for him. they stopped talking to me because i wasn’t “helping a bro out”. i still don’t get how someone does something so terrible to someone else.

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +1

      Remember, him being drunk is NEVER an excuse. Please try to tell someone you trust! If you need help with that, feel free to email me. My email is in my bio❤

  • @selfproclaimedsinger9407
    @selfproclaimedsinger9407 2 года назад +8

    It still breaks me and makes me scared. No one should have to go through it. His touch never really fades.

    • @nevaehharris9562
      @nevaehharris9562 2 года назад

      I went through this in November 8th 2021.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      Did you like his touch?

    • @selfproclaimedsinger9407
      @selfproclaimedsinger9407 2 года назад +1

      @@reek4062 Do you like being an internet troll who has nothing going on in his/her life?

  • @irenexjustme
    @irenexjustme 5 лет назад +78

    this is so good and so sad

  • @hopeh666
    @hopeh666 4 года назад +55

    Getting rapped is one of the worst things which can happen in life..
    it’s the reason why my best friend is not alive anymore..
    If you ever rapped someone I wish you nothing but that you meat someone who does this to you.
    My ex best friend rapped me multiple times and I hope I’ll forget it one day..

    • @5EL0N3
      @5EL0N3 4 года назад +4

      i pray for everything positive in your future

    • @alexakuwata5923
      @alexakuwata5923 4 года назад +2

      God bless you and your friend.

    • @idkidc2290
      @idkidc2290 4 года назад +8

      Mr Mackey stop! You have triggered me into a severe panic attack okay? You are hurting people badly

    • @idkidc2290
      @idkidc2290 4 года назад +2

      Hope Schmidt I hope your doing better. I’m really sorry that ever happened to you

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@idkidc2290 m'kay

  • @jasminaguirre1331
    @jasminaguirre1331 4 года назад +81

    Is it just me or Because I would. listen to this videos on a daily bases and now it’s just one or two because I’ve made process from my depression but I’m scared to move on basically I lived my life in dark I can’t even go out without thinking something or saying something about depression I’m just scared to trust

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      consent is boring

    • @jasminaguirre1331
      @jasminaguirre1331 4 года назад +6

      Reek no means no

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @@jasminaguirre1331 double no means yes

    • @idkidc2290
      @idkidc2290 4 года назад +3

      Jasmin Aguirre I’m so sorry he commented on your post I really hope your doing better

    • @idkidc2290
      @idkidc2290 4 года назад +4

      Mr Mackey I don’t care honestly if your joking no means no! You are literally the reason I’m scared of most men and it sucks okay so stop!

  • @melinatsilira7030
    @melinatsilira7030 4 года назад +13

    A friend of mine, a victim told me:
    I blamed myself for things I don’t understand... I could rap my head around the fact that someone could do this... I told myself that I was at the wrong place the wrong time

    • @melinatsilira7030
      @melinatsilira7030 4 года назад +1

      hana magadova you’re not crazy... you’re hurt, probably sad but more importantly you’re stronger! I haven’t met many survivors like my friend. I remember her recovery from the incident was very difficult and I was there with her every step of the way. Court was even harder because she had to face her abuser again but I remember in her speech before they sent him away to jail she said that if I hadn’t reminded her that it wasn’t her fault and if she didn’t try to also remind herself that and to believe that she was not at fault then she wouldn’t have survived. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. YOU ARE NOT CRAZY. PEOPLE CAN BE THAT EVIL....

    • @melinatsilira7030
      @melinatsilira7030 4 года назад

      hana magadova I understand your situation is different and I know how much it hurts every time you think about it. You still have the chance to send speak up. You can at least try with the help of these friends you mention to really understand what happened or fail trying... I don’t think you are crazy. I think you have suffered something so traumatic that you alone can not process. Talk to your friend if you are not ready to talk to your parents yet (but they need to also know about it later) You don’t have seek justice if you don’t want to or feel unprepared to do so. But never forget there’s always a way out of this and that is either justice for him or love and support for you until you are ready

    • @melinatsilira7030
      @melinatsilira7030 4 года назад

      hana magadova I really hope you do :) take care of yourself okay ❤️

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      In most cases it is the woman's fault

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @@hanamagadova5262 It was your fault. I hope you enjoyed it

  • @vampedits3727
    @vampedits3727 5 лет назад +39

    This is so emotional. I love it

  • @beccagregory3586
    @beccagregory3586 4 года назад +30

    I was almost touched inappropriately by someone in middle school, he kept trying to run my hand his hand down my thigh, I stabbed him in the hand with my pencil.
    Then when I was older, just graduated my family and I were at a football game, it was raining, like pouring, and we were trying to get our stuff from a locker and my mom told me and my sister to get under this tent that all these people were under, and this older guy kept looking at me creepily, well, a few minutes later I felt something touch my butt I look over and that dude was by me. I knew exactly what happened...

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      good for you 👌

    • @jaymie-leacollingwood6046
      @jaymie-leacollingwood6046 4 года назад +1

      Nice job for standing up for yourself! There are too many women (and men) who feel like somehow they're doing something wrong if they demand that their no is taken seriously and the person actually backs off. More people need to learn it's actually appropriate to respond as you did.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @@jaymie-leacollingwood6046 women shouldn't say no to their masters

    • @jaymie-leacollingwood6046
      @jaymie-leacollingwood6046 4 года назад +1

      @@reek4062 😂😂😂

    • @juliequeen8603
      @juliequeen8603 4 года назад +5

      Good for you. When you said you stabbed him in the hand with a pencil I started laughing. You go girl!

  • @millielach545
    @millielach545 4 года назад +65

    I’m here for anyone in these comments who need someone to care for them I am here and I care
    Edit:comment on this if you need someone to talk to

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      Once I slapped a woman on her butt and then she called me disgusting and harassed me :(

    • @annaliinepahklemae3375
      @annaliinepahklemae3375 3 года назад +3

      @@reek4062 why did u did this ? what is wtong with u?

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@annaliinepahklemae3375 she wore tight pants, so I thought it was ok

    • @marinabajwa7365
      @marinabajwa7365 3 года назад +5

      @@reek4062 did she fucking ask u to do that?? obv not, no matter what someone is wearing- you DO NOT TOUCH THEM WITHOUT CONSENT

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад +1

      @@marinabajwa7365 well, she wore tight pants. I could see the form of her behind. I thought her clothes were an unspoken invitation

  • @nicolegray3978
    @nicolegray3978 Год назад +2

    I was sexually assaulted for the first time when I was 10 years old, by someone who was the same age as me
    Then I was raped at 16 by a boyfriend who didn’t take no for an answer.
    I was then coerced into things when I was 17 by a different boyfriend.
    I was sexually assaulted and raped countless times between the ages of 20 and 26 by my at the time boyfriend.
    I’m now 29 and I have only started to recover from it all. I’ve had horrible realisations and I’ve struggled greatly. I am a survivor and even though it’s in the past some nights it’s still really hard. I have panic attacks where it’s happening all over again. The first lot don’t affect me as much as my boyfriend from the ages of 20-26…I still struggle with it. It’s better but it’s never gone. They all walk free because the justice system doesn’t support survivors. So few get prosecuted and I’m sick of people saying “oh if they do it again then it’s your fault for not reporting it…you could have stopped it!” I can’t go through the trauma of it all…for the tiny chance of prosecution. I have no evidence…

    • @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000
      @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 8 месяцев назад

      I am sorry for what happened to you... for all the trauma you've been through... you are so strong and brave for sharing your story... you deserve hapiness, you deserve to be loved. It's not your fault, it's not. It's on him and him alone. I hope you are doing better, I hope you are ok. Sending you my love ❤

  • @dreamerforever5396
    @dreamerforever5396 4 года назад +59

    I was 8 and when i was 16 I was able to tell anyone

    • @zoemerrick8523
      @zoemerrick8523 4 года назад +4

      I was also 8 and I only came out and told one friend now, I’m 13

    • @the.a.royal.s.g6295
      @the.a.royal.s.g6295 3 года назад +4

      I was also 8 and now I'm 15 still not able to tell anyone

  • @adventureswithgigi7744
    @adventureswithgigi7744 3 года назад +11

    every time i see him he smiles at me knowing what he did to me affected me so bad

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      lol

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +2

      @@reek4062 WTF IS FUNNY ABOUT THIS YOU ASSHOLE?

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@fnafgirl8874 I meant 'Lady of licking', m'kay

  • @melodyb6502
    @melodyb6502 3 года назад +5

    I sat there and let the flashbacks flood, they come every once in a while anyways, but this, this hit different. The fact that he smiled and thought i was joking or something, and the fact that he told ALL of his friends that im lying, i "purley wanted it" its fucked up...

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000
      @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 2 года назад

      I am so sorry for what happened to you... you are so strong and brave, that guy is a monster, you deserve happiness. I hope you are doing better, and if not, I'm sending you my love ❤. You are awesome.

  • @lilyxx3773
    @lilyxx3773 4 года назад +10

    I have a fear I will get raped. I'm so scared of every man in public its like I have to pull up my jeans, make sure no skin is showing to feel comfortable around any man in public. I'm so sorry for anyone who ever hot raped. No matter what anyone says get help. You are beautiful ❤💗

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      Just wear a miniskirt in the middle of the night in a black or muslim neighbourhood and you'll be fine

    • @officialbarbb3430
      @officialbarbb3430 3 года назад +7

      @@reek4062 MF YOU’VE BEEN AT THIS VIDEO FOR 7 MONTHS !?! GO DO SOMETHING ELSE WITH YOUR LIFE AND STOP BEING A DISRESPECTFUL PERSON

  • @valeriasalcedo3724
    @valeriasalcedo3724 3 года назад +14

    No means No.
    "She/he/they didn't say no"
    Yes, she/he/they may have not said no, but did she/he/they say yes?
    She/he/they may have not said anything perhaps because you were assaulting them. They were scared. Petrified. They may have been frozen in fear. So they may not say no, but that doesn't mean yes.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      sometimes No means Yes

  • @etereo7465
    @etereo7465 4 года назад +11

    i was a just 5 year old,i let this guy touch me,i didn't even know what was happening,i always think that i was just over acting,that it was not a big deal because i didn't said no,i thought that i was just being paranoid about being sexually assaulted cause i just let him touch me,but what the hell do i know back then?i was just a fucking kid.

    • @nocelorlnocelotl6234
      @nocelorlnocelotl6234 4 года назад +1

      ... Dont worry ur not alone

    • @damiesapphire2643
      @damiesapphire2643 4 года назад +4

      it happened to me way too many times
      i feel like a toy i freeze i dont know how to react maybe its my fault maybe its really my fault the doctor ask me "do you enjoy it?" i mean i don't even know it hurts and i dont like it when when he's on top of me i can't breath and im still under 12

    • @jazmin10208
      @jazmin10208 4 года назад +2

      I felt this . Except I don’t even remember when it started , I just know it lasted for more then a year . And it was around 3rd or 4th grade.

    • @intelligentrock4379
      @intelligentrock4379 4 года назад +2

      @@damiesapphire2643 Omg girl literally please keep yourself safe, what a fkn sick fk that doctor is. Hopefully you will never see him again .

  • @stfu1479
    @stfu1479 4 года назад +8

    I was 6. He touched me before, but I didn’t understand. I said no, and I nearly screamed but he choked me. I couldn’t breathe. I told him to stop, and that it hurt, but he didn’t. He kept doing it until I was 8. I started ignoring him and staying away from him. My parents... my parents forced me to talk to him, to let him kiss me on the forehead and the cheeks, to let him hug me, and he touched me. They didn’t know. I hated it. That was 5-7 years ago. Im now 13, and I hate sleeping bc that is all I dream about.

    • @baldjungkook1947
      @baldjungkook1947 4 года назад +1

      I'm so so sorry that something like this happened to you.... If you ever need someone to talk to, my IG is: xxamexliexx or taekookxvkook
      Stay strong 💜

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад

      Stay strong! You are a survivor!

  • @35yoglenmckenna31
    @35yoglenmckenna31 4 года назад +7

    The first thing they ask/guess is if it was consensual.... they think it’s easy to report something like that ? To even talk about it ? And the first thing they do is blaming the victim
    That is sick

  • @SamxWorldo
    @SamxWorldo 4 года назад +19

    I told my brother what happened I didn’t know what to do and my brother didn’t do anything the guy is still in my life and I am terrified of what will happen the next time I see him and no one listens no one ever does anything I’m afraid but I remember when it was happening the fear and I couldn’t do anything I’m not strong so I couldn’t do anything I’ve only told like 5 people who didn’t do anything but I’m still in this situation and I’m terrified because I know I have to see him every summer this happened when I was 10

    • @onceinatwice2895
      @onceinatwice2895 4 года назад +3

      You are stronger than you think💓hope ur doing well

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад

      Your very strong bb I’m sorry that happened I hope u feel better 🥺

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад

      I'm so sorry! Stay strong❤ My email is in my bio of you need anyone to talk to❤

  • @Kep1ermoazen
    @Kep1ermoazen 4 года назад +5

    It’s disgusting how manny encounters I’ve had with rapists even though I’m only 13

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад

      Sweetie I'm so sorry! Have you told anyone?

  • @angel2k2k63
    @angel2k2k63 3 года назад +9

    I was 13 when it happened I helped him clean his room I tripped and he helped me up, then his lips attached to mine I didn't kiss back I tried to fight, next thing I knew I was waking up in allt of pain meaning only one thing could have happened to me...

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry! If you need anyone to talk to, my email is in my bio❤

  • @sofivasquez9062
    @sofivasquez9062 2 года назад +3

    to every survivor, you are amazing, you are worth of happiness, what that monster did to you does not define who you are, i'm so happy you are here, you are loved, keep going❤ pd: there is a troll called Reek, it's disguting, i hope he gets banned🥴

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      Is there a troll hijacking my name? This is outrageous, it's unfair!

    • @selfproclaimedsinger9407
      @selfproclaimedsinger9407 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, it's disturbing and disgusting

  • @arayahenderson3750
    @arayahenderson3750 3 года назад +7

    Rape is rape, if she doesn’t say the word “yes” then stop what you are doing and ask.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      If she doesn't say ''yes'' then you should make her say ''no'' twice

  • @fidocks3125
    @fidocks3125 3 года назад +2

    this is so sad. This makes me cry. people of our own kinds can do such a thing to someones life. Its never okay. It hurts. Its trauma, and it haunts you. its more common then u think.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      this is sweat. It turns me on very much.

  • @user-bo7pt4ug6v
    @user-bo7pt4ug6v 3 года назад +14

    I didn't even know when it started before i even knew what anything was i was so young and something so important happened that i didn't speak about to this day he said that it's normal and all girls have it happen to them and I was his baby doll he smiled at me i can still see everything that happened it was so rough i would just bleed and bleed i haven't talk to him in a week i can't get away it's been 16 years of hell i just want to turn 18 and leave him how could a father do that I'm sorry that i can't and never will speak up i just can't I'm nasty what I've done is nasty I'll probably never have children I'm always bruised and people ask and i tell them its from working out or i hit my leg on something I've told one person a boy i really trusted he laughed about it and made p0rn jokes like it was some kinky thing he said i was nasty he's probably told all of his friends i just want to get away move far away change my name and my looks I'll never be my old self and forget everything that ever happened

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад +1

      You want some free candy?

    • @AnureetD
      @AnureetD 3 года назад +4

      hey girl, u doing okay? I'm in the same position and I'm also 16. But girl you got this, idk how long it will take but it will get better. sadness doesn't last forever. When you're 18 leave. It will take time but sis it'll get better. You got this and I believe in u. All these people will get what they deserve

    • @marinabajwa7365
      @marinabajwa7365 3 года назад +4

      im so sorry this happened to u and how no one understood, people r arseholes. stay strong queen ❤️

  • @aspenfall4001
    @aspenfall4001 4 года назад +6

    My own foster brother did it to me. He said if I told anybody my family wouldn't love me anymore.

    • @aspenfall4001
      @aspenfall4001 4 года назад

      @Elise Eggers thank you 💜

    • @aspenfall4001
      @aspenfall4001 4 года назад

      @Elise Eggers what's your snap I need to thank you personally.

    • @charliec5603
      @charliec5603 4 года назад

      I’m here for you if you need anything or anyone

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад

      I’m sorry that happened I hope your ok🥺

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      I'm sorry that happened to you

  • @sxtaru
    @sxtaru 4 года назад +3

    One year and a half is how long I went through it. I was always sleeping then I always woke up to the bed shaking greatly and a massive weight on me. The only way I could get him to stop was if I stiffened my body and he’d finish with using my body as a tool. For his own pleasure. I couldn’t tell my mother, I was only 8, I didn’t know how to. I felt like no one could save me, the only guardian I felt like I had was his dog. His dog was the light of my life, that animal made me happier then ever. I always loved animals and still do to this day. Because I know that they’re not like humans at all. They’re different. Charlie took care of me and loved me, safeguarded me when my mother couldn’t. And most of all made me forget about everything. I loved him so much.

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад

      Awe babe! I'm so sorry! Please...Tell your mom. If you need any help, my email is in my bio❤

  • @jasminaguirre1331
    @jasminaguirre1331 4 года назад +12

    People like me wont find love I love him and he can’t trust me 😔 because he’s scared

  • @angel.ryan11
    @angel.ryan11 3 года назад +3

    I was 11...he didn't do it because I very very luckily escaped. I didn't want to experience anything further at such a young age. Even when I was like 5 it almost happened. He did it to my cousin in front of my eyes. I was so scared but when he touched me I pushed him and bit his arm and ran and screamed for my mum. Good luck to everyone struggling out there. I'm here for you all. I'm so sorry that you had to experience that. 😔🙏

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      he didn't know how to use the Force :(

    • @selfproclaimedsinger9407
      @selfproclaimedsinger9407 2 года назад

      @@reek4062 I hope you realize how problematic you are once the excitement of trolling wears off. You need help.

  • @theshortangrylesbian
    @theshortangrylesbian 10 месяцев назад +1

    I wasnt raped but my step dad forced me to touch him and for him to touch me.
    That is why in both Riverdale and The Fosters i broke. Especially when Nick went after both Cheryl and Veronica.
    Im so glad neither were raped. Glad Veronica was clear minded enough to get out of her situation, and for realizing Cheryl had been drugged. More than anything, it was what Cheryl's mother said.
    As for The Fosters, I'm broken. I cant say anything else.

  • @montgomerymulti3594
    @montgomerymulti3594  5 лет назад +63

    Please leave any video suggestions here ❤️

  • @yetisnow9425
    @yetisnow9425 2 года назад +1

    Anyone else binging these and watching them everyday trying to fully understand what happened to you and to feel less alone?
    Just me?

    • @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000
      @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 2 года назад +1

      You are not alone. Everyone here is with you. Don't forget you are awesome ❤

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      I watch them cause they excite me

    • @yetisnow9425
      @yetisnow9425 2 года назад

      @@reek4062 I’m sorry for whatever happened to you in your life, that makes you feel like you need to be a jerk, and to make other peoples lives worse, but I hope that your life gets better, and that you find Jesus Christ in your life. I’ll be praying for you.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      @@yetisnow9425 My uncle made me wear women's clothes and sit on his lap

    • @yetisnow9425
      @yetisnow9425 2 года назад +1

      @@reek4062 I am very sorry that happened to you. That’s horrible. I wish you well

  • @carrieanne3306
    @carrieanne3306 4 года назад +7

    When I was 3 my brother and sister touched me. I showed my mom what happend she believed me. I showed my dad and he didn't believe me. I don't have the same mom as them, she thought someone touched them because my brother was 13 and my sister was 9. My sister confessed she did it, my brother didn't. I'm 12 now and my sister 17 and I'm allowed to see her and we're good now. But my brother I can't see and haven't for 9 years.

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад

      I’m sorry that happened I hope u feel better 🥺

  • @cerealkiller527
    @cerealkiller527 4 года назад +2

    Why does this just scar us forever. Everything we do we can’t heel. I’m only 13 and this happened to me 2 months ago it’s hard to feel happy again. More hard to tell I didn’t

  • @katiemartin5183
    @katiemartin5183 4 года назад +4

    my own cousin😭😭 BROKE ME ! and i was only 13. i thought family was supposed to love each other but NOT IN THAT FUCKING WAY💔💔. i’m never going to be the same ever again , everytime my boyfriend lays on me i can never breathe. DID I EVER GIVE HIM PERMISSION? NO 🥺🥺 i begged him to stop and things never ended until he was satisfied

    • @humanbeing253
      @humanbeing253 4 года назад

      i feel the same way my own dad took my innocents i am 13 yrs old
      the sad part is it still happens

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      Katie I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      @@humanbeing253 I'm sorry that happened to you

  • @trinitywilloughby6458
    @trinitywilloughby6458 2 года назад +1

    16 years old now 20 and I still have not told anyone. I just feel like if I dont talk about it maybe the pain will go away.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      It may never go away. Have you considered to talk with other people aboot your experience? You can talk with me if you like. Would you like to share anything with me?

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 2 года назад +1

      I'm sorry that happened

    • @angrybutgoodbosniak9128
      @angrybutgoodbosniak9128 2 года назад

      It breaks my heart that many girls told me i am ugly and that is not even my fault to begin with,trust me i am desperate and wanting some xxx........i CAN understand GUYS who FORCE it with a girl i can and i do but......i do not have the heart to do that!!!!!!! It tickles me how i do not get to fu...while other dudes do......this is not fair...........

  • @Chill_lxrd
    @Chill_lxrd 3 года назад +5

    Bro, I swear to got rape is my most hated crime
    This is extremely sad....

  • @basseyvictory5600
    @basseyvictory5600 2 года назад +1

    I was just 7 when my brother’s friend touch me..it’s been yrs but it feels like yesterday..i have been suffocating for years because it’s not going away😭

  • @KeilyShhh
    @KeilyShhh 3 года назад +4

    And yet, these stories are never heard until they are PROVEN... but sadly, no one feels that a woman's word is proof enough...

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      A woman's word is heavily influenced by her twisted perspective and is therefore often deceptive

  • @kendrafraize9025
    @kendrafraize9025 5 лет назад +26

    Send me link to first clip

    • @montgomerymulti3594
      @montgomerymulti3594  5 лет назад +3

      Sorry I don’t actually have one , I download all of my clips from RUclips so just search it up ❤️

  • @tessathorpe316
    @tessathorpe316 4 года назад +33

    I was Hannah and Jessica I was rapped four times 😭😭

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      😂😂😂😂🥳🥳🥳🥳

    • @jasminaguirre1331
      @jasminaguirre1331 4 года назад +2

      I’m so sorry

    • @jasminaguirre1331
      @jasminaguirre1331 4 года назад +4

      So many times it’s horrible

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @@jasminaguirre1331 🥳🥳🥳🥳

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @Ashanty Ortega 🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @lafee6615
    @lafee6615 3 года назад

    GUYS BE STRONG!!!!
    ALL OF YOU ARE QUEENS/KINGS
    👸🏻👸🏼👸🏽👸🏾👸🏿/🤴🏻🤴🏼🤴🏽🤴🏾🤴🏿
    YOU CAN DO IT
    YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!!❤️

  • @cluelessdusk
    @cluelessdusk 3 года назад +3

    I was 7 when my cousin 19 years old did this to me he said we are playing and don't tell anyone I haven't told anyone till this date I am now 16 and have a strange fear inside me because I have to see him at every family gathering.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      what did he do to you? did he put something in you?

    • @cluelessdusk
      @cluelessdusk 3 года назад +1

      @@reek4062 no he couldn't do that as my body was not supporting as I remember

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@cluelessdusk too bad. Did he try to put something in you?

    • @Airborneworms
      @Airborneworms 3 года назад +1

      @@cluelessdusk i'm so sorry, you had to go through that ihope youre doing well now.

  • @Katherine-vv3dq
    @Katherine-vv3dq 3 года назад +1

    I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more
    no one knows about it. it happened while i was in relationship with another man. i was so scared to tell him about scared that he will say that was my fault
    i really dreaming about someone tell me "i believe u". That I was the victim.
    i can't stop crying, I don't know how i can live with this

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      how did he rape you? Can you explain the sweet details to us?

  • @emmavincent5135
    @emmavincent5135 4 года назад +3

    Everyone called me a slut because I said yes, but he was 16 I was barely 13 and he could see I was uncomfortable my eyes were watering because I was terrified of him

  • @Xx_Rawr_X3
    @Xx_Rawr_X3 3 года назад +5

    Belive me i understand you
    My teacher touches me and my friend
    😔😔😔😔
    But i can't do anything about that,
    He kidnapped my friend
    He said if I tell it the police
    Than will he kill my friend
    😔

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад +1

      I’m so so sorry is your friend doing ok does their parents know he or she is missing

    • @Xx_Rawr_X3
      @Xx_Rawr_X3 3 года назад

      @@sabiriinnur7890 yes

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад

      @@Xx_Rawr_X3 im so sorry i dont know what to say does your teacher go to school?

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад

      @@Xx_Rawr_X3 does any teacher know whats going on

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад

      @@Xx_Rawr_X3 when did your friend went missing?

  • @12x.kendall
    @12x.kendall 4 года назад +7

    I hated every second of what happened they didnt hear no no matter how much i said it

    • @charliec5603
      @charliec5603 4 года назад

      Kendall Tucker I’m here for you

    • @12x.kendall
      @12x.kendall 4 года назад

      @@charliec5603 thanks

    • @sabiriinnur7890
      @sabiriinnur7890 3 года назад

      I’m sorry that happened I hope u feel better bb🥺

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      I'm sorry that happened to you

  • @cinthiamelendez2887
    @cinthiamelendez2887 3 года назад +1

    It was a year ago he is my older cousin by a year. It went on for 6 months he tried to rape me but I got away I was scared even now when i think about it i can feel his hands on me. Feel what he was doing and I wish I could have stopped it. My family knows now and they told me I let him do it that I wanted it or I would have stopped it. They dont know I was terrified I couldn't stop it but i wished so bad to. Then 2 months ago, a guy in the Walmart parking lot tried to get me to go to his car with him, and I froze my mother said that I was talking to him and that's why he did it, I didn't stay a word to him but he still did it. I'm a 14 asexual year old boy, I didn't want it. I got diagnosed with PTSD and I'm getting help, I wont forget it it will always be with me but I can get better and I will, one day I will get better

  • @paulabenitez6685
    @paulabenitez6685 3 года назад +3

    I'm 12.....my brother when I was younger we showered together and I thought nothing of it bc he was my brother and we played around with toys and stuff I think I was 6 and he was 10-11. this one day when we showered together I got inside and he told me to get ontop of him...I did because I thought it was a game he tried putting his....inside me and I felt uncomfortable he would let me get off I tried and tried but nothing happened he wouldn't let me. i got out after he finally let me go and I felt so wierd with myself I felt as if I just got destroyed and my innocence left. my own brother and yk apart from that I cried to him I saw him as my dad bc my dad was never with me. a couple days ago he asked for nudes and I sent some bc I felt the need too bc he said things would be okay if I did nothing bad would happen. he keeps asking for them I just ignore them he knows that day was wrong but he still brings it up

  • @oliviapotter1390
    @oliviapotter1390 4 года назад +1

    Hannah baker and Jessica Davis hit different 🥺🥺

  • @user-jc9ef9gi5n
    @user-jc9ef9gi5n 5 лет назад +17

    I'm crying

    • @simonrouge3470
      @simonrouge3470 5 лет назад

      Please don’t cry

    • @addi.-.5897
      @addi.-.5897 4 года назад +1

      I can't cry I feel emotionaless all the time

  • @Urrmum
    @Urrmum 4 года назад +1

    Being taken advantage and abused by the person who you thought you was going to spend the rest of your life with is fucking painful, I’m scared to fall for another woman thanks to her, I’m too scared to even press charges against her

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      abuse is the cornerstone of every successful relationship

    • @Urrmum
      @Urrmum 4 года назад +1

      Reek what??

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @@Urrmum I said that abuse is the cornerstone of every successful relationship

    • @Urrmum
      @Urrmum 4 года назад +2

      Reek are you fucking serious?

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      @@Urrmum why wouldn't I be serious?

  • @thesimpcalledhollie1273
    @thesimpcalledhollie1273 4 года назад +3

    I love that riverdale is in here ❤

  • @liminalgamer935
    @liminalgamer935 3 года назад +1

    You will be ok, I promise. - another survivor

  • @kimfashionista4012
    @kimfashionista4012 5 лет назад +6

    Love your vids

  • @shadowzzzz8733
    @shadowzzzz8733 3 года назад

    My assaulter is my cousin, and his mother and my mother are sisters, and are very close. I was forced to go camping with them about a year ago, and I was terrified the entire time. luckily nothing happened. I was assaulted by him when I was 8 years old, and im 16 and a half now. Still never told my parents. It still haunts me to this day.. and I wish I never have to see him again.

  • @paytonjordan8885
    @paytonjordan8885 4 года назад +7

    I thought it was love...

  • @eveballard3154
    @eveballard3154 3 года назад +1

    I was 10. It was my best friends Father. I haven’t told anyone. I still get nightmares and I jump when people touch me.
    I’m sorry for anyone who has been through the same thing.

    • @nildoruk7089
      @nildoruk7089 3 года назад

      I’m so sorry for you stay strong and don’t be sad for that bastard u r truly amazing💕💞❤️❤️

    • @eveballard3154
      @eveballard3154 3 года назад

      @@nildoruk7089 Thank you for your kind words. It means a lot to me ❣️

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      I'm sorry that happened to you

  • @gray5953
    @gray5953 3 года назад +3

    i told him no he asked why
    i pushed him away he asked why
    i don’t have to give anyone a reason
    no means no that’s it

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      sometimes no means yes, m'kay

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад

      I'm so sorry! No means no!

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +3

      @@reek4062 However we dress, wherever we go, yes means yes, and no means no

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@fnafgirl8874 sometimes no means yes, m'kay

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +3

      @@reek4062 no means no. Burn in hell

  • @kylaelliott6901
    @kylaelliott6901 3 года назад +1

    The thing that hurt most was when I told my mom she didn’t do anything, she had me go to that house over and over and let it happen again for 2 years.

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      Did this just happen recently?

    • @kylaelliott6901
      @kylaelliott6901 3 года назад

      @@bensmith8957 5 years ago

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      @@kylaelliott6901 oh that sucks it would probably be pretty hard to prove now. How old are you now?

    • @kylaelliott6901
      @kylaelliott6901 3 года назад

      @@bensmith8957 I’m 14, I heard it has to be less than 5 years or else you can’t prove anything.

  • @jenpascarella5811
    @jenpascarella5811 4 года назад +6

    When we were in the relationship, he would always touch my thighs, grab my butt, just touch me. I thought that this is what I want, so I kept telling him it’s okay. Sometimes I still try to make myself believe I liked him touching me but sometimes I realize I didn’t.

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад

      I'm so sorry! If you are still with him, cut off that relationship. I know, it might be hard, but you have to let go

  • @tacosanonymous8440
    @tacosanonymous8440 3 года назад +1

    I was assaulted by my ex boyfriend and never told anyone because I didn’t think anyone would believe me

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry that happened to you

  • @chilecq548
    @chilecq548 4 года назад +3

    This has been happening for 10 dreadful years of my life

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 4 года назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @idkidc2290
      @idkidc2290 4 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @LunaWolfiePaw how not?

    • @fnafgirl8874
      @fnafgirl8874 3 года назад +2

      @@reek4062 how is rape funny? Give me 30000 reasons.

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      @@fnafgirl8874 you think rape is funny?

  • @adoptme_andmore7697
    @adoptme_andmore7697 3 года назад +1

    i was 10 im 12 now and i still rember them on top of me

  • @leahcarroll7216
    @leahcarroll7216 3 года назад +3

    It happened when I was 16 he was 15 but no one believes be because he’s younger there’s no way that could happen :/

    • @ramyam.r6552
      @ramyam.r6552 3 года назад +1

      It happen to u ooo no be sad i well be with u we can be friends 😊

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @ramyam.r6552
      @ramyam.r6552 3 года назад

      @@bensmith8957 yaa i am also so sad

  • @lunabuhmn281
    @lunabuhmn281 4 года назад +1

    This hurts so much

  • @iloveamymarch848
    @iloveamymarch848 4 года назад +6

    i was at a sleepover with friends. having fun. when he came to me when i was sleeping.

  • @ameliaflynnhayes
    @ameliaflynnhayes Год назад +1

    If any man does this to any girl they are a sick.

  • @paolarodriguez8024
    @paolarodriguez8024 3 года назад +4

    I was 12 and im 13 i was scared it was my stepfather my step dad left i havent seen him 😔

  • @nooneimportant4712
    @nooneimportant4712 2 года назад

    The worse feeling is still feeling his hands on your body or every time you close your eyes it's all you see, everyone says it'll get easier, it'll get better but it truly never does

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 2 года назад

      That's hot; he must have known his trade

    • @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000
      @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 2 года назад

      I am sorry for what happened... I hope you are ok. If you need someone I'm here for you.

  • @h.m.3875
    @h.m.3875 4 года назад +9

    1:07 what is the episode

  • @JesUSking17
    @JesUSking17 2 года назад +1

    When polyamory and sexual freedom takes on a criminal disposition shite gets real, so sad for the victims. Abhorrent. Many of us have been "groomed" at some point in our lives. The sooner people realize this and join the truth and exposure, healing will come easier. Unfortunately sexual abuse is often a hideously well kept pervasive secret. Do your part to help stop the crazy in someone's life. Tough honesty is needed, that requires bravery. 🙏 Do it Q...stop the circle of abuse n0w.

  • @MarinaScapini
    @MarinaScapini 3 года назад +4

    i was heavily drunk in a party, he was drunk
    but still i feel like i can’t say it was an assault because i didn’t say no
    i said that i wasn’t feeling comfortable but i let him touch me, i touched him too, i and when i said that i didn’t want anymore he said that he would find another girl and left me lying on the floor
    but i still feel like i was used, like i am dirty and that i can’t feel bad about it because it was my fault...

    • @reek4062
      @reek4062 3 года назад

      🤤🤤🤤

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад

      I'm sorry that happened to you

  • @cluelessdusk
    @cluelessdusk 3 года назад

    If it was the one-time thing I would have forgotten but that feeling never go and I can't forget what happened .

    • @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000
      @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 2 года назад +1

      I am so sorry for what happened... You are so strong and brave... and I wish you the best because you deserve the best ❤