🏃 🏃 🏃 💨💨💨. Say what you mean & mean what you. Don't be giving people a license to continue to mistreat or cheat on you. When a person show you who they are "BELIEVE THEM"
Dude came off like a Drill Sergeant , it was crystal clear he never had any intentions of putting her on a pedestal , GOD BLESS HER, FOR REFUSING TO CONTINUE BEING PLAYED, LIKE A BRAND NEW SET OF DRUMS!!!!!
@@SiNCERELYTAYY1 ...just Keep on Hitting-it-''TiL''...it ''DRY''...out ...Like ...WORN-OUT-PANTies''...''ELASTIC is ...GONE''...Then...Toss''...''em...out''''
And the young sistah is one of those people who listened and bought what he had to say, far too long and to her own detriment. She enabled him and is even more responsible for the disrespect and hurt that she experienced.
Women have really set such low standards for men. No wonder I'm still single. It's crazy how he talks about being raised by grandparents, which implies having old school values. But clearly he picked and chose which values of theirs to adopt!
Don't give up hope. There are good men out there. I got one. Set your standards to what you want. But don't worry about being single either. Too many women base their value on if they have someone or not. Don't do that. Be happy whether you are single or with someone.
A lot of men are good for being selectively traditional. They're here for the "old school" values that say they should be submitted to as the head of household. Then they go blind and deaf to the ones that say they should be faithful, provide for their woman etc.
Sorry sis but when they can’t make up their mind you supposed to help him out and set his ass free like a 🦅. As soon as you knew he had other options or offers on the table that’s a deal breaker. You teach people how to treat you. If you put up with mess like that it’s your own fault. I’m not throwing shade because I been there before. You deserve someone better.
A nice looking sister like that accepting bullshit from this jerk nobody. Here he go...Talking about we have our responsibilities and she not pulling her weight...He tired of feeling like I have to make an instruction manual on life... He don't even have a car and don't want to pay bills.
Judge is like a second mom to me. Her wisdom is so nurturing and it’ll get me a long way. This woman has changed the way I view things and I appreciate that more than anything.
Her family tole her he is a loser yet she want to prove them wrong . Instead of using birth control she starts a family when all along she knew he was a jerk.
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel ...BUT THe LIGHT-SKIN-BROTHER with the DARK-SKIN...sista''...suppose o WORK...WHAT HAPPENED ...here''..its opposites ATTRACT like ...magnetism...w.t.f.'''...my mom-& dad since HIGH-SCHOOL''''Like Bill-&-Camille*-Cosby''... RUBY-DEE-Ossie-DAVIS''''''
You have to learn how to love yourself and be content with being alone. Then you won’t settle for less than you deserve from anyone. Know thyself. Love yourself.
@@cuzzitsmee ...no...argument i just HEAD for My CLUB-BASEMENT...BIG-SCREEN-CAT-& DOG all ...company i ...need ''''+ i just put in a SHOWER no-need to even come BACK Up stairs ...DRIVEs HER STOCK RAGING'''...Mad'''
Because she has been taught that to have a piece of a man is better than not having any man at all. She's like that Apple laying on the ground, desperate and begging to be picked up instead of being the Apple high up in the tree where it takes effort to get to. My sisters! Know your worth. Don't put out, love yourself more than you love anybody else!
Exactly I drove up on you the first time with some other women in my mom car it's not about to be 2 or 3 more time I'm about to have a family member come with me before I ride up on you take the car and u stay where your ass at with who ever u with
You don’t get into a relationship expecting the person to change or fix themselves for you, you get what you picked but some women think if they’re patient enough or allow their men to cheat for a decade one day he’s gonna stop and change his ways. But you already taught him that you’ll accept 💩 so why should he work hard or change. If you start as the side chick or share your man with another woman you’ll forever share him because you never had a partner in the first place.
I was a side chick to a guy who basically was telling me for months he'll break up with his girlfriend. I left and he came back saying they'd broken up, we ended up getting together but I couldn't ever really trust him because of all the lies he'd told and I couldn't shake the feeling he would do the same to me. This comment really hit home.There were red flags so a year into the relationship I ended things. I'm just glad I got out when I did. Don't feel ashamed if you were ever once a side chick. We're human and we all make mistakes and more than likely you were being manipulated by somebody you cared about. Not that I don't know there are some women out there who take pride in being sidechicks but that's usually far from the case. Own it and the decisions that led you there so you don't repeat it. Here's to an amazing 2020!
12 years??? See he is trifling, but she is crazy for putting up with his mess for 12 years. She should've walked away years ago. That right there is 12 years worth of anger and rage.
I married my ex because I wanted to lift him up. I saw he needed someone in his life to love him and wipe away the hurt he had suffered. Not realizing that because he was hurting he would hurt me in return. He took the help and when he got to feel like somebody he left to be with someone whom he would love. If I knew then what I know now that sucker wouldn't have seen the colour of my eyes, however I congratulate myself for seeing a meagre dog and helping it to get strong. He is an ungrateful fool. Girl move on because the minute he is able to get it right he would find a woman whom he wants to love. Right now you're the doormat as he is working to be a man.
I'm in a similar situtation with the father of my son. I have helped this man time and repeatedly and taken him back on several occasions when he has left me for other women. But l am done. Something inside of me is telling me its time to release him for good. He has no good intentions for me. And before its too late l need to let go. He's never been faithful to me and respected me not just as a woman but, as the mother of his child. And l am tired.
After 12 years and 2 children the issue is the lack of respect that she has for him really based on his early infedility,but she kept accepting it,really speaks about the whole relationship structure.
As the judge i would have kicked him to the curb the first time he left and tried to come back, wether he cheated or not. The minute you disrespect me you are going to lose my respect and im not into the toxic relationships...
...And the lack of respect he had for her to cheat in the first place. The foundation was on quicksand from the start. Hopefully they both learn from their relationship with one another.
I never fails to amaze me how serial cheaters (usually men) go on about how their wives have no trust and are always checking up on them like it's her fault the marriage failed. Dude, ANY woman would have no trust for you, you're a cheater! What were you expecting her to do??
@@LethaLong-vr8rh ...BUT WHAT DID I SASY MY OLD LADY LET ME BACK IN WE GOT TOWNHOUSE TOGETHER WITH MARSHA-& kEITH AND LATER ON WITH MARY & DARRELL BUT HE WENT BACK IN STAIONED @ '''FORT-GEORGE-G-MEADE BRAND NEW FACILITY BASTARDS TOLD ME I WAS TOO '' OLD---'''
...can''t stand that...ALWAYS END UP ...in our CLUB-BASEMENT ...with DOG-&-CAT-...and BIG-SCREEN ...she''s Oh ..no you don''t Better not GO DOWN There ''''''' did you HEAR ...me '''''
It wasn't about the kids. If he said he wants to break up. Why? did he have her 🚗, Why? was she chasing him? Running up on him and letting him come back. Let him stay!!
He claims they weren't together at the time, even though he was still living in her house, not paying any bills (because he was moving out) and driving HER mother's car!
I miss the old divorce court when people were actually married or seriously want to get married. These “before the vows/situationships” are exhausting and so predictable. They need Iyanla not Judge Lynn.
They are yelling too much... Because they don't even Heard themselves again. The communication is too angry and LOUD. You people are stressed. Choose &do the best for you both. Thanks Brother for admitting and recognise the Trauma killing some emotional intelligences. Oh Judge Toller 😍♥️♥️♥️♥️
Men who cheat on their women & disrespect them and have girls. You are showing your daughters how a man is suppose to treat her. She will meet a man just like you.. ain’t nothing you can do about it either..PERIOD!
I had to pause the episode just to comment about her co constantly saying “what you not gone do” yet he has done it...for 12 years might I add 😂😂 girl goodbye with all that talk just to hear sound
IF YUH FEDUP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND LET HIM GO AM NOT EVEN WITH HIM AND AM TIRED HE TREATS YOU THE WAY YOU ALLOW HIM TOO JUDGE SO BEAUTIFUL AND WISE EVERYONE HAVE A GREAT LIFE
I'm not surprised at all that they are not together why would he be with her she has allowed him to do whatever he wants and still take him back used your mama car to go see another woman really know your worth please ladies my mom is resting in God's arms now I miss her so much she told me a man will treat you the way you allow him to and this is a prime example I will be praying for this young lady
Isn't it about NOT being Disrespected and Lowering Your Standards?.... Homeboy is strictly one night stand while you are drunk and whatnot material! Please Philicia... LEARN!
All I'm saying is that, if you say you broke up with her, please pack your bag before you make the goodbye speech so that you leave after. Don't stay in her house and use her car to date other female.
Everywhere you go now, you're being tracked by IPhone's , GPS on the car, Surveillance Cameras or Someone running a Background Check on you!!!! Technology is being taken too damn seriously today in dating, and relationships what the hell ever happen to respecting someone's privacy????
My opinion is hat it's a safety issue-many people are victimized and especially if you are considering having a person around your kids -if you have them - unfortunately a background check needs to be done.Too many scammers who are high key scammers and pedophiles out here .Now as far as GPS tracking ,phone tracking and all that ? Hell naw- I don't have time to be tracking down a damn body! If we are together and I have to do that - it's time to go ✌✌
...BUT she TOLd Me i could ...stay ...Until after ...''HER DOCTOR's DEGREE-''...14...1/2...years ...Later'' Damn-it- ''Bitch''...can''t Keep '' BecKy''...waiting'''...shit...my DicK-is...''HARDDDDDDDDDD''''''
Personally I’m glad that they decided that it wasn’t going to work and split up instead of most couples come on here with relationships worst then there’s and stay together knowing it’s not a good idea. Sometimes you just have to know when to let go
Me too but gurl he left like 8 times he’s full of shit and keeps hurting she probably feel like she has given too many years and I can see him coming back after he’s done playing the field again she needs to really take Judge Toler’s advice and cut her losses because she’s losing too much and I know from experience
He's hella fidgety, talks dodgy...& he's just started talking...😂😂😂 Ok let me continue watching.... OooooooK well he eventually grew on me in a weird way & I understand both sides.... But personally I wouldn't have accepted his BS, she has herself to blame for allowing him to go back n forth...
Poor Fluffy... He still doesn't know where he belongs! 😂😂😂 The judge said that there would be no recovery in the matter so I guess she decided to let him keep the dog by default!
Who else is here for the wisdom of judge Lynn Toller???
That's partly the reason why I watch
Yes.😉
Gerdy Ithamar Pierre-Louis I’ve learned sooo much
🙌
Always
Wait... if y’all not together why are you in her house and using her mama’s car?????
Cause she allowed it.
kerrywhite5253 Precisely🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Right!? I was steady listening for "the story behind that" he referenced with all that talking he put down 🤭
And then think he gonna see other bitches lol
Asha F. Yeah he sure did 😂 never got back to a lot of things
She's should have been leaving him a loooong time ago, not him leaving her.
She should of listen to her mama when she told her this guy is a jerk.
I saw the picture of them two and decided he has an attitude ... , let's see ...
3.30 yep, attitude 😆
🏃 🏃 🏃 💨💨💨.
Say what you mean & mean what you. Don't be giving people a license to continue to mistreat or cheat on you.
When a person show you who they are
"BELIEVE THEM"
He leaves all the time, they honestly have an open situation, we are not sure why they even went on this show! #bullshit #lies #shitshow
@@mrypllw What you allow continues!!!
The truth you know will set you free. Some folk don't want to be free. They love the Drama💯✔✔✔
I clocked out after she said he lives with her and doesn't pay any bills AND he doesn't have his own transportation!! #byesir
She should have tried adoption.
@@JohnSmith-db1qi 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
No money no car and they fighting over a dog.
Everybody doesn't have a car.
@@lawranew5125 Down south you need a car. New York ,Boston ,DC and many of the cites you don't. They sound like they from the south
Dude came off like a Drill Sergeant , it was crystal clear he never had any intentions of putting her on a pedestal
, GOD BLESS HER, FOR REFUSING TO CONTINUE BEING PLAYED, LIKE A BRAND NEW SET OF DRUMS!!!!!
I really enjoy seeing your commentary everyday ❤️
@@MajesticLove= Thank you
Dwahn Denson I knew she was not important when he referred to her as “this” I said uh oh red flag he sees u as a object for use not a life partner
*Sergeant
@@juantubey = Thank you spell-check I mean Juan lol thought I had screwed that up
He just doesn’t want her and she doesn’t get it. He’s trying to call her slow, but mean while he can’t even finish a complete thought.
Once he said he not attracted to her sexually cause of her mentality then it is over.
I think he just was confused because why come on the show to better the relationship if your attracted to her sexually
...right don''t LOOK ...surprised when you see him with '' BecKy'''
@@SiNCERELYTAYY1 ...just Keep on Hitting-it-''TiL''...it ''DRY''...out ...Like ...WORN-OUT-PANTies''...''ELASTIC is ...GONE''...Then...Toss''...''em...out''''
He wants her to take care of him but don't like her?
he's one of those people who talk alot but say nothing at all.
Clown...
Sounds like TI
The judge should not even of wasted her time to hug him. He is full of bullshit.
And the young sistah is one of those people who listened and bought what he had to say, far too long and to her own detriment. She enabled him and is even more responsible for the disrespect and hurt that she experienced.
@@baderinwa1 All she had to do was go home and say mama your were right and should have listen.
He’s that person you can’t stand but you also can’t help liking 😂 He kept me laughing
ShaunJackson09 me too lol...he is charismatic
...yep...He GOT That GooD...'' DicK '''
He dropped the kids off because she said she didn’t want the girl friend around his kids 🙄
He does have a way with words.
I know right
Women have really set such low standards for men. No wonder I'm still single. It's crazy how he talks about being raised by grandparents, which implies having old school values. But clearly he picked and chose which values of theirs to adopt!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Don't give up hope. There are good men out there. I got one. Set your standards to what you want. But don't worry about being single either. Too many women base their value on if they have someone or not. Don't do that. Be happy whether you are single or with someone.
A lot of men are good for being selectively traditional. They're here for the "old school" values that say they should be submitted to as the head of household. Then they go blind and deaf to the ones that say they should be faithful, provide for their woman etc.
Lauren Kindred that’s not why you’re single. Tell the truth
Jezebel spirit. 😖
Sorry sis but when they can’t make up their mind you supposed to help him out and set his ass free like a 🦅. As soon as you knew he had other options or offers on the table that’s a deal breaker. You teach people how to treat you. If you put up with mess like that it’s your own fault. I’m not throwing shade because I been there before. You deserve someone better.
This right here 💯💯
Yess
A nice looking sister like that accepting bullshit from this jerk nobody. Here he go...Talking about we have our responsibilities and she not pulling her weight...He tired of feeling like I have to make an instruction manual on life... He don't even have a car and don't want to pay bills.
That part!!!
I agree 💯
Judge is like a second mom to me. Her wisdom is so nurturing and it’ll get me a long way. This woman has changed the way I view things and I appreciate that more than anything.
Maybe I watched too many episodes....but I dont feel sorry for people who allows disrespect for so many years.
Me too like wtf
I agree. People get caught up in "not wanting to waste all those years". The sunk cost fallacy.
Her family tole her he is a loser yet she want to prove them wrong . Instead of using birth control she starts a family when all along she knew he was a jerk.
I don't either. They deserve it for allowing it.
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel ...BUT THe LIGHT-SKIN-BROTHER with the DARK-SKIN...sista''...suppose o WORK...WHAT HAPPENED ...here''..its opposites ATTRACT like ...magnetism...w.t.f.'''...my mom-& dad since HIGH-SCHOOL''''Like Bill-&-Camille*-Cosby''... RUBY-DEE-Ossie-DAVIS''''''
You have to learn how to love yourself and be content with being alone. Then you won’t settle for less than you deserve from anyone. Know thyself. Love yourself.
...Damn...Shame...sounds like my ex-Holy-roller-wife'''''
Thank u
Amen
“ We bout to get there, we bout to get there...and hell nah!” I screamed🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
He is a fool😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
@@82laina A whole fool.
Now that 💩 was funny af
He’s too hyper and it’s making me dizzy and she talks too loud.
My head hurts now I could imagine the arguments behind closed doors
😂😂😂
Aren't they allowed to be a little nervous on TV like most people would be????
@@cuzzitsmee ...no...argument i just HEAD for My CLUB-BASEMENT...BIG-SCREEN-CAT-& DOG all ...company i ...need ''''+ i just put in a SHOWER no-need to even come BACK Up stairs ...DRIVEs HER STOCK RAGING'''...Mad'''
@YugotSwaqedd ...TWO BAD APPLES in same BASKET see WHICH One GETS The ...''' Worm'''
Judge lyn is so short and cute. I didn’t realize how tiny she is lol
She's fine too or 5'2
Great observation. Keep up the great work
She is adorably beautiful 😩
...5'3''...and now has a WIDE-Ass...BUt those ''Tina-Turner -LEGS are just ...sweet...looking'''
...5'3''...same as my OLD-LADY-- and GOT THAT SAME BROWN-SUGAR--- ***
Don't understand why she's with him: He's short, moves around like a gnat, and flies the coop when he wants.
Because she has been taught that to have a piece of a man is better than not having any man at all. She's like that Apple laying on the ground, desperate and begging to be picked up instead of being the Apple high up in the tree where it takes effort to get to. My sisters! Know your worth. Don't put out, love yourself more than you love anybody else!
😂😂😂
Moved around like a gnat broooo so accurate 😭
I’m not mad at him at all. He literally showed who he was and she chose to stay. He left and came back and she still stayed. So now I blame her.
There is no way u driving my car meeting up with women
He was driving her mom's car so it's ok...
...right DROP HEr OFF @ ...next ...intersection'''
And dropping my kids off
Exactly I drove up on you the first time with some other women in my mom car it's not about to be 2 or 3 more time I'm about to have a family member come with me before I ride up on you take the car and u stay where your ass at with who ever u with
The wisdom that the Judge dishes out is outstanding!!
That is why I tune in to her shows!!!
You don’t get into a relationship expecting the person to change or fix themselves for you, you get what you picked but some women think if they’re patient enough or allow their men to cheat for a decade one day he’s gonna stop and change his ways. But you already taught him that you’ll accept 💩 so why should he work hard or change. If you start as the side chick or share your man with another woman you’ll forever share him because you never had a partner in the first place.
I was a side chick to a guy who basically was telling me for months he'll break up with his girlfriend. I left and he came back saying they'd broken up, we ended up getting together but I couldn't ever really trust him because of all the lies he'd told and I couldn't shake the feeling he would do the same to me. This comment really hit home.There were red flags so a year into the relationship I ended things. I'm just glad I got out when I did. Don't feel ashamed if you were ever once a side chick. We're human and we all make mistakes and more than likely you were being manipulated by somebody you cared about. Not that I don't know there are some women out there who take pride in being sidechicks but that's usually far from the case. Own it and the decisions that led you there so you don't repeat it. Here's to an amazing 2020!
We sometimes learn the hard way. I hope she learn her lesson well to know how to choose the right man the next time.
@@swenett1308 💯
Call a ♠ a spade. When you fall in love 💘 you have a distorted vision.
People in a relationship never really think about so many things until they start having children and years later,then act surprised.
mogul mayz damn right!!
right
A#s backwards
...Then The KIDS ...Hate Their ...GUTS'''
Jazz Man Facts‼️‼️‼️
At the end of the day....she ALLOWED this....no pity for a fool!
...''' Mr.-'' T - ''...i/m...out...Damn...Shame...
This dude....lol.. I wouldn't stick with him but he hella funny
Good friend to have but dating Hell no
A lot of psychopaths or abusers/users have a charm to them. That’s why a lot of women have difficulty leaving them.
..Looks like KaTt-Williams...a 1/2...pint'''LoL'''
Watching him gave me a headache.
12 years??? See he is trifling, but she is crazy for putting up with his mess for 12 years. She should've walked away years ago. That right there is 12 years worth of anger and rage.
I married my ex because I wanted to lift him up. I saw he needed someone in his life to love him and wipe away the hurt he had suffered. Not realizing that because he was hurting he would hurt me in return. He took the help and when he got to feel like somebody he left to be with someone whom he would love. If I knew then what I know now that sucker wouldn't have seen the colour of my eyes, however I congratulate myself for seeing a meagre dog and helping it to get strong. He is an ungrateful fool. Girl move on because the minute he is able to get it right he would find a woman whom he wants to love. Right now you're the doormat as he is working to be a man.
And a Narcissist are u a Hebrew? I am too I had one who had the Bible and used the shit out of me and threw me too the curb
SoniYah Yisreal also I believe in. The laws of the Most High but u cant be that type of women now because u can get hurt real bad by wicked men
I'm in a similar situtation with the father of my son. I have helped this man time and repeatedly and taken him back on several occasions when he has left me for other women. But l am done. Something inside of me is telling me its time to release him for good. He has no good intentions for me. And before its too late l need to let go. He's never been faithful to me and respected me not just as a woman but, as the mother of his child. And l am tired.
@@kimberlybarry6286 Listen to your gut and drop that bum!!
Tontyanna thank u I will now but had to learn the hard way
Hey is it me or dose this guy sound like TI when he's talking.
Yesss I was thinking the same thing how ironic is that?
Its not just you. I was saying the exact same thing!!
Like an off brand T.I. lol
T.i more country but he do😂
I said the same exact thing!
After 12 years and 2 children the issue is the lack of respect that she has for him really based on his early infedility,but she kept accepting it,really speaks about the whole relationship structure.
As the judge i would have kicked him to the curb the first time he left and tried to come back, wether he cheated or not. The minute you disrespect me you are going to lose my respect and im not into the toxic relationships...
@th1smomentisfate ..BUT it Keeps re-peating ...itself ...more like ..pair of SHOEs or-...3-piece-pin-striped -suits Keeps coming ...' BACK...every ..Ten...years''''
...And the lack of respect he had for her to cheat in the first place. The foundation was on quicksand from the start. Hopefully they both learn from their relationship with one another.
He didn’t deserve respect & she was dumb.
😂that’s one hell of a roller coaster 😂😂😂😂!!!.... “and hell nah”!
...right only GOOD for One...''Go-around'''...or Merry-'' Go-''round-'''
He don't want you, your convenient. Let his co-worker have him.
Judge refers to him as 'this dude' . Listen up girl !
I never fails to amaze me how serial cheaters (usually men) go on about how their wives have no trust and are always checking up on them like it's her fault the marriage failed. Dude, ANY woman would have no trust for you, you're a cheater! What were you expecting her to do??
Leave! Either leave me or leave me alone about it.
...BUt she WAs checking Up on Him ...there He WAs over His UNCLE''s HOUSE''...me''''
@@FalaqX why wouldn’t you just leave? You want someone else, just go.
@@FalaqX ...BUT DID WINNIE MANDELLA WAIT AROUND FOR NELSON MANDELLA''S WRINKLE DICK
@@kalimbaayinde25 ...JUST GO AND GET '''U''' A WHITE WOMAN
He should be a comedian, his name can be Light Williams
...right ''cause He''s -...'' Light''-Skin'''...BUt opposites'' ATTRACT ...w.t.f. Happened ...HERE''''''
Light Williams 😂😂😂
Or Half Pint
The both of them are very immature and childish
...right they BOTH..need to GO across my ...Knee''...OLD-SCHOOL-...DUDE i/m...outta-...Here''''
@@PedalToTheMetal61888 that would be him because he made her that way she on the one that let him back in my main problem
@@LethaLong-vr8rh ...BUT WHAT DID I SASY MY OLD LADY LET ME BACK IN WE GOT TOWNHOUSE TOGETHER WITH MARSHA-& kEITH AND LATER ON WITH MARY & DARRELL BUT HE WENT BACK IN STAIONED @ '''FORT-GEORGE-G-MEADE BRAND NEW FACILITY BASTARDS TOLD ME I WAS TOO '' OLD---'''
@@PedalToTheMetal61888 nope!!!! I wouldn't never let no man back in my house
Lol he's personality 😂😂 😂 making me laugh
I love this one. Judge Lynn you’re a remarkable woman 💜💜💜 xx
...LOVE HEr sweet Tina-TURNER''Legs''
Her voice is loud and annoying 🙄
That was bothering me too
Turn your tv down then
...can''t stand that...ALWAYS END UP ...in our CLUB-BASEMENT ...with DOG-&-CAT-...and BIG-SCREEN ...she''s Oh ..no you don''t Better not GO DOWN There ''''''' did you HEAR ...me '''''
omg yesss smh ughhh i thought it was just me
HE SAID: THANK YOU 😂😂
But y u answer if he was hitting u up and u know he WID other ppl.... that's on u
lol 5:30 he dont listen to her about cheating but he listens about not having the kids around his side chic 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Cause he don't want to be with her.
It wasn't about the kids.
If he said he wants to break up. Why? did he have her 🚗, Why? was she chasing him? Running up on him and letting him come back.
Let him stay!!
...'cause side CHICK''s a BETTER''..''Match'''
He claims they weren't together at the time, even though he was still living in her house, not paying any bills (because he was moving out) and driving HER mother's car!
@@fancybrooks3156 ...LIAR-,,,,LIAR,,,,PANTS-ON-FIRE...- (-JUDGE-JUDY-)...and i/m...out---**
I miss the old divorce court when people were actually married or seriously want to get married. These “before the vows/situationships” are exhausting and so predictable. They need Iyanla not Judge Lynn.
...BUT''...' lyania'' is a ...porn ...STAR'''
SAAAAAYYYYY THAAAATTTT!!!
This man radiates of crackhead energy
Zainab 😂😂😂 it’s something! He about as bad as my 6 yr old child, 🗣 “stay still dang”! 😂😂😂
RichDenee 😂😂
He prolly jus a high energy person, my brother the same way and he doesn’t do any drugs at all, he doesn’t even really drink or smoke
R A D I A T E S 👏🏼🤣 He could not stop movingggg.
LOL
I LOVE JUDGE TOLER!! Her advice is on point!
It's like a Keye and Peele skit come to life.
...& ..Beevis- and shitHEAD''...i mean ...BUTTHEAD''..he...he...he...'''
I'll admit the roller coaster analogy had me cracking up 😄😄🎢😄 🎢
Did anyone else hear them say he dropped his kids off with the neighbor so he could go be with his new chick or am I tripping 🤔
Dude is cracking me up! I can’t be mad at him. Lmao
That dude said the rollercoaster and then HELLLLLLL NAWL
They are yelling too much... Because they don't even Heard themselves again. The communication is too angry and LOUD. You people are stressed. Choose &do the best for you both.
Thanks Brother for admitting and recognise the Trauma killing some emotional intelligences. Oh Judge Toller 😍♥️♥️♥️♥️
They have a lot of personality, i enjoy their delivery especially Mr. McQueen.
I so truly live Mrs Lynn Toler. I mean that SERIOUSLY. She's just such a beautiful person.
If this is how she communicate, I couldn't deal!! Yell yell yell
...This is why WE NEED ...The ESCORT''...Services''...for 'D.N.A.'' That's DicK-& Attention'' ''
This is why you don't give out samples for years without a ring, marriage and never have kids for someone who does not value you.
Awwww hell no, let Katt Williams go...he comes off quite annoying.🙉😬
More like TI
Girl if he would have said Grand Hustle, I wouldve died. Lol.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Katt Williams.
Drama,idiot couples.
He says a lot of words but doesn't really say anything. He's not even a good bullshitter. Annoying as hell though.
Men who cheat on their women & disrespect them and have girls. You are showing your daughters how a man is suppose to treat her. She will meet a man just like you.. ain’t nothing you can do about it either..PERIOD!
His personality reminds me of a street dude, ex-convict..hustler! smh hope he does better in life before his children are old enough to date!
He the type be ready to kill someone if they did it to his daughter.
...like ...Dirty-DicK-Rodney-( snoop-DOGG-)...in '' Baby-''BOY'''..!?
I had to pause the episode just to comment about her co constantly saying “what you not gone do” yet he has done it...for 12 years might I add 😂😂 girl goodbye with all that talk just to hear sound
Is it just me or are they yelling every single thing they have to say? Lol
And yet you kept putting up with this for twelve years.
That is a long time to put up with bs.
The d must be that good 👀 but still not worth ur esteem. There other fish in the sea
LOLA G. And had TWO kids...mind-blowing!
@@tumama030 ...BUT i did...for...14...1/2...years since High-School...thought she WAs ...it Until i MET ''BecKY''...he...he...he...!
@@PedalToTheMetal61888 glad you found someone new!
He's lik a mini version of Ti or something lol
I expected her to say something along the lines of "let's see why he keeps coming back" but she said "let's see why she sleeps letting him in" 👏🏾
IF YUH FEDUP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND LET HIM GO AM NOT EVEN WITH HIM AND AM TIRED HE TREATS YOU THE WAY YOU ALLOW HIM TOO JUDGE SO BEAUTIFUL AND WISE EVERYONE HAVE A GREAT LIFE
I'm not surprised at all that they are not together why would he be with her she has allowed him to do whatever he wants and still take him back used your mama car to go see another woman really know your worth please ladies my mom is resting in God's arms now I miss her so much she told me a man will treat you the way you allow him to and this is a prime example I will be praying for this young lady
Omg when she said if you was my daughter I woulda had in a headlock doin like this 🤜🏾😂😂😂
Wow I really thought they were going to stay together. Again on point advice Judge Lynn.
When she was handing the books out and realized she was going the wrong way...she's used to Joe being to her left...we all miss Joe
this guy needs his owb special 😂😂😂😂
He said that he's old school that raise is grandparents 🤔I can't anymore dying with laughter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This man is making my head hurt. I still don't know what he's talking about. They both are loud
I definitely couldn’t get it went over my head
OMG ..BREAK TF UP ALREADY DAM!
...Tell ''em...AGaIn They BOTH...silly''''
Minx Doll 😂😂😂😂😂 bro I be feeling like this with a lot of relationships
Yaaasss please & thank you!!😂😂💯
That moment when Judge Lynn Toler is trying to pass on the books to Joe and realises, l'm with Nick now :))))
Amazing advice
He act way too animated for me. He bouncing all around. 😂😂
Isn't it about NOT being Disrespected and Lowering Your Standards?.... Homeboy is strictly one night stand while you are drunk and whatnot material! Please Philicia... LEARN!
He would not even get a one night stand with me, ew no
She is the definition of Loyal
And stupid
All of that and it went straight into they are no longer together! Everyone has a breaking point....
At 3:26 when the little guy said, “she come in there tryin to find something small to do,” I died! The irony 😂🤣🤣🤣
...BUT HOW DOES ...Ugly ass ...1/2...pint- FLAVOR-FLAV ( clock wearing nigga )...Have Woman on EACH ...arm''''
She's foolish for tolerating his bullshit. Don't get mad at him sis, get mad at yourself!
This guy is a funny dude...I like how he presents himself.
Why do some women permit this mess to go on and on and on?
These short guys are something else
Lili Roro y’all ones are too! Sometimes worse
Funniest dude so far 😂😂😂🙏🏿
All I'm saying is that, if you say you broke up with her, please pack your bag before you make the goodbye speech so that you leave after. Don't stay in her house and use her car to date other female.
Everywhere you go now, you're being tracked by IPhone's , GPS on the car, Surveillance Cameras or Someone running a Background Check on you!!!! Technology is being taken too damn seriously today in dating, and relationships what the hell ever happen to respecting someone's privacy????
My opinion is hat it's a safety issue-many people are victimized and especially if you are considering having a person around your kids -if you have them - unfortunately a background check needs to be done.Too many scammers who are high key scammers and pedophiles out here .Now as far as GPS tracking ,phone tracking and all that ? Hell naw- I don't have time to be tracking down a damn body! If we are together and I have to do that - it's time to go ✌✌
She had a tracking device in her car
@@misstinahamilton5714 4 REAL!!!!
@@ddnquestion1 You won't get my password to a damn thing!
@@misstinahamilton5714Lol now what did I do to deserve your distrust????
"If you've done all that work, then cash the check" I hear you Judge Lynn !
make no mistake old boy is trash, but you’re kinda goofy to keep letting him back in.
...BUT she TOLd Me i could ...stay ...Until after ...''HER DOCTOR's DEGREE-''...14...1/2...years ...Later'' Damn-it- ''Bitch''...can''t Keep '' BecKy''...waiting'''...shit...my DicK-is...''HARDDDDDDDDDD''''''
_12 years?!_ 🤣🤣 Could NEVAAAAAA!
He sounds like TI and it sounds like he’s good with word play Jedi mind tricks too like him
"They thought he was a goner, but the cat came back!"
Personally I’m glad that they decided that it wasn’t going to work and split up instead of most couples come on here with relationships worst then there’s and stay together knowing it’s not a good idea. Sometimes you just have to know when to let go
Me too but gurl he left like 8 times he’s full of shit and keeps hurting she probably feel like she has given too many years and I can see him coming back after he’s done playing the field again she needs to really take Judge Toler’s advice and cut her losses because she’s losing too much and I know from experience
Jazmine unfortunately I know from experience as well with my daughter father smh
KiddRogers that’s not true I went through that and when she fed up she will leave his ass for good
I know these two as friends and coworkers! I didn't really know all of this was going on behind closed doors!!
We already know why he is still there...*insert big purple vegetable emoji*
poshpearls23 lol yes they say short men have big 🍆 😂😂😂
It CANT be all that in 2021
That was such a good insightful episode.
He's hella fidgety, talks dodgy...& he's just started talking...😂😂😂 Ok let me continue watching....
OooooooK well he eventually grew on me in a weird way & I understand both sides.... But personally I wouldn't have accepted his BS, she has herself to blame for allowing him to go back n forth...
He grew on me too!
She been taking care of him. The thing is she gives me the vibe she ALWAYS takes care of the dudes she "dates" .....
As much as he needs a lesson on 'life', he's as funny as heck!
The first time he left I would not have let him come back. People will do to you what you allow them to do to you.
Did she even mention the dog or did i completely miss it?
Damn you are right. There was no dog mentioned at all!
Oh, the dog ... , you're right !
Poor Fluffy... He still doesn't know where he belongs! 😂😂😂 The judge said that there would be no recovery in the matter so I guess she decided to let him keep the dog by default!
She really likes them when she hugs them. Sigh wish them all the best
Omg!!! He is funny 😂
Darn... too bad they couldn’t figure that stuff out. Trust is so hard to build back
...BUT i TRUSTED That REDHEAD i was ...with ...shall i Try a ...BLONDE'''' if so Hollar '..2157293878...'' see-ya'''''