Thats True pero the reality sa atong communities daghan batang on babae mabuntis maski dili pa ready unya magkaroon ug daghan anak unya dili kaya mosuporta. Si Fake Ash nag empower ayaw gyud ug walay kuarta kay gutom. Tinuod gyud bitaw unsaon man ng loving loving gugma gugma unya walay kuarta. Sadly, daghan mga bata sa pilipinas nga wala gyud supporta.. Dapat isa na sa tutukan sa DEPED nga itudlo sa mga kabatan onan ang dakong responsibilidad ug magrelasyon unya dili diay ready🙄🙄🙄
I hope that everyone can do this, breaking the chain coz its really hard if we are not able to do it and it will lead us to continue the life we have, struggles,miserable and unsuccessful. She's tough, I admired her from that. Thanks to Ms. Amy as well for being there for her.....God bless. Lets continue fighting and praying for our lives. Be happy and Be kind.
Chitchat is becoming one of the most comforting channels na for me. As a bisaya myself nya listening to the stories of fellow bisaya vloggers/social media artists makes us know the real person behind the screen.
Kahilak ko kay nilayas pud ko sa amo kay non supportive pud akung parent tungod kay bayut ko, gipa skwela pud naku akung self until nag graduate ko and now teacher naku, naga patukod naku sa akung sariling house... I hope wala nay mga bata na ma ingun ani kay dili jud lalim. Dili jud lalim mag inusara... So laban lang japun kay mao naman ang reality but I am still looking forward for a better future.
i know her personally and her childhood trauma is one of her struggles, we should not invalidate her feelings and perceptions bc in the first place sinabi nia naman na baka di din nila sinasadya
Sir chito ito iyong segment na napaiyak ako Ng sobra,.relate jud ko nimo ma'am fake ash,.not because of my family but some of my relatives, and some people n na encounter ko sa trabaho.
Sos ignan lang panget truama na?..waman gani ning uban na truama na ginabitay pag desiplenahon sa ginikanan..kaluoy sa ginoo nia man nuon mo sa deserto nagdaro😂😂
This episode made me realized dapat open kos akong parents of how i feel and what are my battles within. Dli dapat ipahungaw sa socmed ang mga hinanakit towards family esp sa parents. Pobre sab sila nga nag atubang og mas greater battle pra matawid mis pag adlaw adlaw.
Relate MUCH!! 😢 Working student for 4 years consistently Kay ang hugot giingnag BUGO! sa Lola ug mama, wala damha 1st degree holder sa pamilya and the fact that I'm the youngest, and by the help and grace of God. ❤❤ Grabe jud si Lord mutabang ug gaan ka niyag mga instrumentong buotang tao para makuha imong mga pangandoy sa kinabuhi, Stay tough Ma'am 💪💪 And to Kol Chito I really wanted to see you and take a picture with you one of this days, unta puhhooooon. Love lots po❤😘3
despite people telling her na pangit syag batasan, you can see it in her na she is a genuine person. thank you Ash ❤ thank you for inspiring us. thank you kaaayoooo ❤ gwapa kaaa, period.
No girl, she's not genuine. "kung unsa inyu makita sa social media dili na ang tinuod na ako" sa iyaha na mismo gkan, simply means, she's doing all of these for views and popularity. Periodt. She's full of arrogance, there's really something off with her, well maybe because of the "trauma" she chooses to be arrogant. and ungrateful sa iyaha parents.
@@XyzaGarcia-le9rh Wala yata nimo nasabtan ang context sa ingon niya nga "kung unsa inyong makita sa social media, dili na ang tinuod nga ako". She meant nga kung very vocal ug assertive siya sa socmed, dili siya ing-ana in real life. Gi-emphasize pa gani niya nga the more siya masuko, the more siya hilom (and ka-relate ko kay ing-ana sad ko. Kay i-refrain nga makabungat og mga salita nga basin mahayan later tungod lang kay nadala sa feelings ana nga moment). Kung nasabtan lang jud unta nimo ang tibuok message sa entire interview. Of course, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and yours is also valid. But it doesn't mean nga abi kay mao na'y pamati nimo, mao na na. Just like what Miss Ash said, what her parents did might not have been intentional, but it does not negate the fact that it gave her emotional trauma.
@@XyzaGarcia-le9rhkabalo ka noh you need to know and learn nga usahay kanang “off” nga makita/mafeel nimos ubang tao ky imo nang own self projecting towards others. Naa kay problema dai na finding fault in others unya mu pasa na dayun kag judgement with that fault na imong nakita. You even invalidated her experiences by quoting the word trauma, as if saying nga di angay tawgon iyang na agi-an as trauma.. kinsa man ka? Who made you queen/king of anything?
8:17 "I am not valued because I don't look pretty" These words have had a profound impact on me, as I can somehow relate to them. Growing up, I was skinny, didn't consider myself pretty, and had curly, frizzy hair, which often led me to wonder if I was adopted. My family members and relatives would ignore me and treat me unfairly, and my mom wouldn't bring me to family gatherings because I didn't resemble my sisters who were considered pretty and outgoing. As a child, these experiences affected me deeply, making me become quiet, shy, and causing me to constantly question why I was different from others. My friends also making fun of me for how I look and I noticed that they always exclude me in group photos. I'm now 22 years old, and those insecurities from my past still haunt me. I lack the confidence and courage to express myself freely, as I'm constantly afraid of facing judgments and criticism from others. It's sad that we are experiencing things like this in our day-to-day lives. Sending my warmest virtual hug, everyone! Kaya natin to. 🤍
Hello. I really don't know who you are ma'am but I want you to know that you are worthy to be love. You are special and you are valued by someone else out there. Sending prayers that in time you will overcome all those pain. ❤
I have meet her a couple of times since Diego and my daughters used to go to the same special school. I know this lady has a lot of story to share. But what makes her beautiful is how she was able to see the beauty of special children. She is also specially made for specials. Much love ❤️❤️❤️ for you Liezel and praying for your healing. 🥰
MAkahilak man sad ta og monggos Ani oyy... Parents parents always love to ur kids what ever looks like . . . Soss kmi mga OFW halos mamatay mi sa kamingaw sa mga anak para lang mhtg nila Ang needs.. naa diay ingon ana nga parents, but anyways thank you saqng mama permi mo ingnon sauna gwapa mo maskin di ko jud🤣😆
This woman is great👏👏. That is why I am working to be the BIGGER PERSON, not for MYSELF but for my father. Who experienced bullying before by his relatives.
Now that we are adults and we understand better, we also need to realize that parents like them grew up with the same parents. There are a lot of factors but it’s a gift to break the generational trauma.
"You did not raise an obedient child but a tough one." , this made me cry. Salamat Kol Chito for this interview it is very enlightening, very idk basta Chitchat is the best.
Same...paningkamot and paningtiil jud during college..Kay sarili ra jud Ang maasahan...good thing naa koy igsoon na nagadunol2 jud panagsa...working student jud para maaka graduate
childhood trauma really hits hard. I felt the same way. I felt I was never good enough for them, I build this strong walls and until now I had a hard time connecting with others because of these walls. Sending hugs to all who experienced the same.
Finally! Naay Fake Ash nag-open about love gikan sa parents. Different story pero grabe din yung trauma ko. Na feeling ko di ako kayang mahalin ng iba kc di ko maramdaman yung love from my mother.
Kani gyud Ang nagpatulo sa akong luha sa tanan nga interview ni chito samontina. Because 70 percent sa experience sa kinabuhi ni fake ash , same sa akoa. Actually , mas lala pa akong na experience sa pamilya kumpara sa iyaha. Gayunpaman, tuloy Ang bubay and looking forward that one of this days malimtan Ang tanang kasakit nga na angkon sa pamilya.
This is the very first time mag comment² kog mga ing ani, but this one really hit so hard, really really hard. Pinakasakit jud nga mismo ato family maoy mo discourage sa atua. Labaw na naay favoritism.
as for me, you cannot blame parents that are also brought the same mentality like how they are also brought up, good for Ash because she works hard to get her Diploma and see the other side of the world, the mentality in the bukid . . . you know what I mean 🙂
Good thing c Ask open ang isip pg ingon na her parents didn't mean that. Tru kaau k sis mostly in anai mentality bsta sa primitive areas sa ato ug lisud kaau ba balion na stigma sato ui. Khilak kog apil ui
True... Akong mama ingon ana pod sa amoa pero wala man namo gi dibdib kay nakita man nako sa among parents ilang kalisod para mabuhi mi... Ingnan mi nga.. Mabuntis ra daw mi.... buhion ra daw mi sa lalaki... Bati daw kog nawong... Pero okay raman sa akoa kay parents na nimo.. taas lang jud kag pride bantog ingon-ana ka...
"The ones closest to you are the ones that hurt you the most." Sad to say that this quote is so accurate. I feel you miss ash. Not with the bullying part but with money issues. My parents were not that well off, but l can say they built a life for us to live comfortably. Back then I was so loved by everyone because my father supports our relatives both his and my mom's side, most especially with education. Sad to say, when both of my beloved parents passed away, all those who showed attention and love before have totally forgotten/isolated me. Now that I am doing well, they are starting to recognize me after years of belittling and abandonment. Now, I am the one isolating myself from them. Trying to keep my peace in confinement and I feel better this way. Always alone but not lonely anymore.🥰 I pray miss ash that you too would find peace in whatever means you can reach it. God bless to you both.
I felt her pain. We have different childhood traumas. I pray that she releases genuine forgiveness towards her family. Always remember that you are beautiful and you are worth it..
Sir, salamat sa imong preview before mag start ang video. As a BS Psychology major, this means a lot to us. Not every one know the true depth of these sad things such as trauma, depression and abuse. They are real. Very real.
The way fake Ash shared her life story is honest, we cannot blame someone's behaviour or attitude. She build that for a purpose to be strong and to fight for her sanity. And now, she deserves everything she got❤. Hugs for you ma'am🤗
As a mom whose daughter was bullied, I felt short thinking wa nako naprotektahi ako anak fully, but watching this made me realize, I can only do so much, and while I was feeling that, naa diay isa ka tao wala nakaexperience or feel nga valued siya. Thank you for such an inspiring story Ms. Ash and for this ChitChat sir Chito. God bless you both and praying for your healing, Ms. Ash.
I wanna hug her and tell her that its all worth it ash and the past version of yourself is so proud of who are becoming. We may all healed from all of our traumas guys. xoxo
It’s my first time watching chitchat due to Fake Ash. I’m curious all about her because somehow I can relate with her. Thank you Chitchat for being an awesome platform for sharing and inspiring life story.
I really like this channel. This gives opportunity to people to talk about and open up things spontaneously. It’s a therapy. To Ash- your feelings are valid and I am so happy that those traumas made you a stronger person. Talk is a therapy and whether you like it or not talking about it to your parents will help you heal that trauma in your own and right time. Thank you for this content. This is an eye opener that never judge people according to what they look like or show to people because everyone of us are facing different situations or battles or traumas. Just smile to people and be kind.
same to my situation right now😢, walay parents at family but I'm very thankful because nakatagpo ko og second family and turning 8 years na ako sa kanila, I felt valued and loved, totoo talaga yung sinabi nila na "family is not related by blood"🥰
I can relate to her as a working student. I am a houseboy at the same time a student and I am very thankful to the people who helped me a lot to mold me in reaching my goals in life. But in terms of family, relatives and friend's support I am very thankful for their 101% support and I am very blessed with them. For you ms. Ash be strong and I know time will come to heal all your deep wounds from the past..God Bless💖💖💖
Grabe Ash! You amaze me karon sa imong sharing. You are an inspiratio to many. Unlike you, I hated my parents for that very same mentality. Like, wala sila naghunahuna og hatag og good life sa amo coz sila man gud pod ing-ana ang upbringing. It takes real courage jud to cut ties sa family nga wala sad gahunahuna sa imoha. Kol Chito, keep this up. Grabe, nice kaayo imong platform jud.
She is so brave to voice this out. Even I have experienced kanang bullying from the family. Basta taga BUKID that is their norm jud kung kunuhay waka kapasok sa ilahang BEAUTY STANDARD pulutan kag storya and shame you and even your parents will criticize you.
There's no words can discribe her. I relate to her because I am also a working student. A full time worker and a irregular students which battling my insecurities and my personal problem. Additionally dealing my family problems. They never supported me in my studies right now. Watching this video it seems to be empowering. Love you Fake ash and chito❤❤❤. To people who read this, soon we will conquer our dreams and goals in life. Keep on fighting and always move forward❤.
You can reach your goals. Don't worry that you're progressing slowly. Take care of your mental health. Someday, the world will smile to you. And you'll find people who are worthy of your love to them.
😢 Grabeehh ! Same ta mindset miss fake ash..tanang pang tamay nga akong ma received ako gyud na gi take as a positive one. Ako ibutang gyud permi sa akong mind nga " ing-ana ilang gpanulte ky ila kong gihagit mga mo abot sa akong pangandoy." And now I'm almost there to my goal with the help of my almighty God 🙏🥺♥️ " LAYO PAKU,PERO LAYO NASAD KO"
natandog aqng gahi nga kasing² churr, mitulo akong luha at some point nga dapat ang parents maoy protector and pinaka supportive in all decisions you've made in your life but,sila pa ang mo down sa imoha. sakit kaayo siya pamalandungon,pero proud kaayo ko nimu maam ash, you're very tough and even tougher and strong person despite all that you've been through..
One of the reason why i like her personally cause there's something in her that tells a lot of story. You're so brave ma'am to face the problems the life throws at you.
Waaah, relate jud kayko ani. Nidako pod ko na gina lantaw nako akoa self as "ugly or pangit" jud. To the point na ultimo genuine compliment, dijud nako tuohan. Until now.. I can still remember when I was a child, dili ko ipa headband kay mu lapad daw ug samot akoa nawong ug dili daw ko angayan. Mao nang until now, dili japon ko naga suot ug headband. Sakto jud si Ms. Fake Ash mas sakit kaayo ang "istorya" gkan sa pamilya. Same saiya, nidako jud ko na always gina ignan ug bati ug nawong. Mao nang bahalag karon na 18 years old nako, gi claim jud nako ako self as batig nawong. How I wish I was born with a pretty and angelic face. But this is life, harsh jud but we have to accept it. Right now, I am still learning on how to love my self more despite of every hurtful words I received in my whole life. Laban!
Maybe your parent's also had their own struggles during that time specially if they have a lot of kids to attend to. There is no perfect parents as there are no perfect child. Through your experience your like a gem polished by heartaches perfected by challenges. I salute you Mam Liezel.
Having “a lot of kids to attend to” is not an excuse to neglect or verbally abuse your child. Wala gi pili sa bata i-anak sya, labaw na sa pamilya nga daghan ra kaayo tuga2 ug anak ang parents di diay dapat tawgon na parents to begin with. It’s best to stay single than make another human being struggle his/her entire adult life from the traumas parents made.
I'm really happy that she open this to the public. I hate her and even judge her before because of her attitude in social media. But she really hits my heart after knowing her story. I'm so sorry for your traumatic childhood. I know it's very hard for her but I'm praying for her healing.
Such an inspiring and courageous soul! 💪 It takes true strength to embrace your past, laugh it off, and grow from it. Kudos to her for being so resilient and brave!
Wow. Thats a very heart wrenching but yet a heart warming story. It exploded like a lesson for all of us who were bullied then and made it to the Top. More Power Chito.
Relate kunti sa imong kinabuhi ms ASH kay ako pud gusto gyud ko mu skwela pero tungod sa kawad on sa akong mga parents.mao nga wala ko kapadayon pero ang kalahian lang nato kay wala man ko gilait sa akong mga parents kung unsa akong looks.pero bisan wala ko nasuportahi sa akong pag eskwela,wala ko nalain or nalayo akong buot sa ilaha.maaga din akong lumayo sa mga magulang ko para hanapin ko ang aking bukas.sa akong mga duol nga relative naka experience ko ug dili maayo nga mga words about me pero gihimo nako to nga motivation naningkamot ko para mapakita sa ilaha nga dili tama ang ilang gipang estorya sa akoa.karon kalooy sa ginoo ang naglait sa akoa sauna diri sila nako karon gahangad.praise GOD.
What a very inspiring story. I've learned a lot as a parent na dapat 101% at pantay ang support, tiwala at pagmamahal sa mga anak. God bless you @The Fake Ash and Sir @Chito Samontina
Sometimes if someone has been through a lot in life and made it through and survived alone, it is normal to be like showing other people that you are tough and like having your shield ready everytime for other people‘s judgements and criticisms. Its normal to defend ourselves in a way that we know how. Sometimes it is just so sad knowing that so many people reacts into something that they don’t even know deeper than what they really heard and see …just a thought🙂
its almost 5 months ago na pinalabas tong video with fake ash and now ko lang sya napanood , i really touch subra .. naka relate jud ko 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 grabi ang tibay mo ate girl .. i love u and god bless thank u kua chito sa mga nakakainspired na videos 🥰 god bless u poh always we love u kua chito
Miss, you are so beautiful in God's sight. Wala mn nahigugma ang imong parents pero hinumdomi nga love kaayo ka sa Ginoo that He gave a person nga nkatabang sa imoa in all aspect. He loves you at your darkest moments. He is with you always. God bless you!
This ep made me cry. Mao nging-ana si Maam Ash today kay tungod sa iyang kaagi. And maayo gyud gihapon ang Ginoo kay naa juy tao mutabang nimo despite sa kalisod sa kinabuhi. Stay Strong Maam Ash 🥰🎉
This is the most painful ep so far. I can really relate to her experience. Pretty privilege, discrimination, cancellation and discouragement tanan or mostly sa mga "maot" nawong experienced that. Mga promdi kids who grew up in a crucial envi became warriors. Kapoy but mao ni result sa impact sa trauma satoa.
lahi pud ubang mindset sa mga parents sauna... bisan gani karon naa pa gyoy parents nga ingon ana gihapon ang mindset... unta sa mga parents ug mahimong parents mahimong ning lesson sa atoang tanan... Thank you kaayo Ms. Ash
This is so heartbreaking 🥺 I totally understand her. We have different experiences and it is so strong for her to be this vulnerable to tell all these things. This is so difficult and knowing that she's teaching kids that's definitely a great opportunity for her to open her mind to other reasons why she needs to understand what's going on with her life. Proud of her and I salute her bravery for this.❤️
Lived with an extended family for 16 years. Grabe jud ka toxic na over jud ang childhood trauma na nahatag sa akoa. Naa pay parents na dili ka tuohan. Lisod kaayo. Pero makaya ra lage nato ni especially na aware na ta, and ang panahon karon is dili na ingana ka grabe ang stigma sa mental health awareness. Kudos ChitChat! 🎉 Nindot kaayo ni nga episose. We love you Ms. Ash! Thank you for being an inspiration to us!
perfect example of "pain makes you stronger" .... relate ko ani kay sa kadaghana sa akong naagian nga rejection ug disappointments kalooy sa Ginoo nkabarog ko nga nag inusara.
My God I cried so hard.I am grateful to be raised and well loved by my parents and felt very lucky. But I never expected how somebody this strong(Ash) was denied wirh the comfort and compassion parents should provide for her. Tight hugs for you. Healing is a process and it can never be firced.Gid bless you.
angkol!!! mao lng jud ni na episode nmo nkapahilak nko oi....same kaau cla sa akoa husband...bullied by family but worked hard to be a chf engr now.....mka proud ang mga tao ma dli ngpadala sa sitwasyon baglos ng hatag ug kakusog na mulaban sa lyf ug maging triumphant....sa tinuod krn ra nko ni mailhan c yhe fake ash....ill follow her page na....hugsss sa mga tao na smae nmo ug sitwasyon❤❤❤
kasakit ba miss Fake Ash😭😭😭keep on fighting,find your purpose and still believe in yourself.Keep on praying na soon enough mag heal raka og maka forgive raka sa tanan tao na nakasakit nimo🙏🙏🙏very inspiring imong story,I salute you👏👏👏salamat angkol chito for sharing the story of miss Fake Ash makatulo jud og luha🥺🥺😭😭😭
One thing we need to accept is to accept our flaws so they could not use it against you😌 I knew how you feel and where you are coming from- cheers Fake Ash- just be the simple version of urself.✅
Thank you for this Angkol.I'd ben healing for 8 yrs hoping Nga one day maokay nako because as u said-TIME HEALS-peru dis time di pagyud diay makaya gihapon from my traumatic experience from a very close relatives(yes daghan sila)😢ang na experience ni Ash has something relative to my experience (peru to my very close relatives).di man ko ka succesful ni Ash but I earned something for my Own wid out them napod. Laban gihapon ta bisan in ato ang experience . May the Lord will bless and guide everyone nga in healing pa karun ..
She's really a fighter. I really love her lifestory. Naay lesson pra sa tanan nga hopeless, nga dli dyod magpawala ug paglaum. God bless sa imo maam ash.🙏💕
Bullying is never fun, it's a cruel and terrible thing to do to someone. Being bullied can leave you feeling helpless, humiliated, depressed, or even suicidal 💔 I feel you ash , I’ve been bullied before Kay lage sa pinas pag itom ka matik PANGET naka !
na love na tikag samot karun after watching your story, 😭😭😭 ga iyak ko while watching. di jud nako ma imagine, na imuhang parents pa mismo ang nag caused sa imuhag trauma, deep wound. you are truly blessed. you really deserved all the happiness. stay tough and makaproud kaau ka as in...😘❤️❤️❤️
This episode had a big impact on people, especially working students. I can relate to some of the experiences of Miss Ash because I was also a working student before. I need to stop schooling for two years and work in different food chains as a crew member and customer assistant in the Malls of Tagum City and Davao City. I was also bullied in my family and at school. But those negative experiences inspired me to continue and finish my studies with flying colors. Now, I still strive, even though I worked in government and tried to live life with a purpose, despite the many trials that I encounter nowadays. Aja! Ug laban lang gyod sa life. 😢😅😊
Tinuod ng pretty privilege. I was once bullied because of my teeth (rabbit). Pag trabaho na nako, ayha pa ko nakapa braces, and ni gwapa intawn pud ko. Napansin na ko sa uban, tagdon na sa mga relatives, lahi rajud. Anyway, nakahilak ko kay maka relate jud ko ni Ash. The difference lang is that akong family very supportive jud kaayu. Naa lang jud pud me childhood experience kami sa akong mga siblings nga dili namo makalimtan (how we were treated before). Thankful kaayu me sa amu parents nga nagpa glow jud namo. Kudos to you sir Chito for this show, and to you Ms. Ash. Time heals jud, pray lang pud. Maabot rana ang panahon
I pray you heal very soon Ma'am..Nalipay ko kay wala ka mi-give up maski wala'y gasuport nimo ug wala jud pud ka pasagdai sa Ginoo..Na-inspire ko sa pagka vast sa imong patience ug understanding labi na sa imong parents 🙂 Keep on inspiring people! Ang Ginoo muhatag pa nimo ug dugang kusog..God Bless You!
After nako nakita ang live nimu kol 3 days ago pa diay toh. Gisearch nako thru fb ang post sa sister ni ash then karon pa nako gitanaw ni nga ep tungod sa ako pagkaintriga sa imung live. I can say nga im with ash kay when she said bullied and not gained support by her parents does not mean about financial support. Sakit lang hunahunaon nga ingana ka mabaw ang tanaw sa iya ate nga about kwarta lang iya pagsabot when she said support. Dako kaayo og impact growing up nga walay support emotionally and mentally. Im happy nga c ash nibreak sa hindrance og niresult og maayo nga future for her. Unta makita og masabtan ni siya sa mga parents kay daghan parehas og situation kay ash and sadly nagpakalunod nalang pud sa kawad.on sa kinabuhi. Shout out kol from Carmen, AdN.
This proves that not all parents has a emotional bond with their children. As the bible says "bond is stronger than the wombs water". I can relate to miss ash. I'm always misunderstood by my family because I have my own principles that they don't agree with. But I'm still thankful that I have a husband that will always understand and love me. I also have children that adore me. I'm complete even though I have already distanced myself from the family I grow up with.
Isa sa pinaka ganahan nku na interview... kay in reality daghan suicide sa mga tawo tungod kay di maka express sa ilang tinood nga ginabati..wowww salute to maam fake ash.. very tough for revealing her story
Not all, but kasagaran sa 1980’s and 1990’s parents, ingon ana jud.. swerte kaau ang mga bata karon ky ang mga parents sa new generation nkalearn na… Like me, up until now unsa akong talent ky akong Parents di musugot if naa koy apilan na mga events or activities sa school coz gastos lng.. knowing nga kami ang naay dako na tindahan sa amo place before.. and cla pa una mosulti nako na tambok ka, reason nga until now naa koy insecurities sa akong body.. not really fat but dako lng jud ko sako mga kaedad, for them tambok ko and bati ang tambok so di ko dapat manambok.. and the way nila isulti, mkahurt. It takes a strong person para evoice out ni ky dili raba ta sure sa reaction sa tao, but u are so strong @Fake Ash para maopen ni.. Thanx to u.. for sure dghan mkarelate.
Hoiii ka hawod nim0 mam ash Thanks to the spirit nga nag guide nim0 para ma open up nim0 tanan ka aligotgot sa imong family...dili lalim e share sa social media labi na parte sa atong family kay maulaw ta or masakitan sila...per0 dili pud lalim maghilaka mag inusara tungod kay ma recall nat0 tanan mga kasakit nga kita ra nakabalo.,.nasay0d ko nga mohilak ka mag inusara sa im0ng kwarto para maibsan ang kasakit...tan aw sa tao wala kay problema kay grabe man ka ka strong dili pahalata nga weak di ka pag ikaw na usa...😢 Na unlocked najud nim0 ang pain na gidala dala... Keep going mam praying na makuha nim0 ang closeness sa imong parents dili man dali per0 c God na bahala sa paghupay sa imong kasingkasing... Ma feel pa naku ang hate per0 ampo ko na mapulihan nana ug love ❤... Amping kanunay.. I feel you 💞
Every child deserves to be loved, understood and cared by parents❤️ Salute to this woman for making them us motivation. Indi porket anak mali kung ilabas ang saloobin. Tao lng po tyo, nasasaktan.
This should be an eye opener to everyone especially to parents on how to deal with their children because often times we utter words without thinking the effects of these words to the receiver.
I can relate you Ash, your past is the same of mine. We're on the same boat. But those bad experienced makes us stronger, empowered,and discovered ourselves of who we are today. Thank you Chito, for this interview, it gives more lesson to all of your audience, an eye opener to the new folks of the SOCMED COMMUNITY.God bless you Chito.
I experienced the same.dili lalim magdako na wala na met imo MGA emotional needs... Walay support .. d Jud nmo pwede no ipang underestimate ang importance ani og ang mahimong effect. Mao Ng Karin na na identify nako nganu ING ani KO Kung unsa Ko now.. dako kau factor ang akong childhood trauma and abuses na naagian. Pero SA kalooy SA Ginoo . Healing na. Ash, Ginoo Rajud maka help SA atoa na ma heal.. no matter how much we try in our own. Praying na ma heal naka. God bless you.
Sa kadugay na naku galantaw sa mga interviews nimu uncle Chito,karon rajud ko nag comment ky nakahilak jud ko sakit kaayo sa dughan oi,stay strong Maam Ash your pretty inside and out❤❤❤ but it really sad ky mismo sariling pamilya gayaguta sa imuha😢😢😢
Every child deserves a parent. But not every parent deserve a child. I'm proud of her for breaking the chain. ❤
Thats True pero the reality sa atong communities daghan batang on babae mabuntis maski dili pa ready unya magkaroon ug daghan anak unya dili kaya mosuporta.
Si Fake Ash nag empower ayaw gyud ug walay kuarta kay gutom. Tinuod gyud bitaw unsaon man ng loving loving gugma gugma unya walay kuarta.
Sadly, daghan mga bata sa pilipinas nga wala gyud supporta..
Dapat isa na sa tutukan sa DEPED nga itudlo sa mga kabatan onan ang dakong responsibilidad ug magrelasyon unya dili diay ready🙄🙄🙄
I hope that everyone can do this, breaking the chain coz its really hard if we are not able to do it and it will lead us to continue the life we have, struggles,miserable and unsuccessful. She's tough, I admired her from that. Thanks to Ms. Amy as well for being there for her.....God bless. Lets continue fighting and praying for our lives. Be happy and Be kind.
True
Pareha me scapegoat sa narcissistic family
Indeed
Chitchat is becoming one of the most comforting channels na for me. As a bisaya myself nya listening to the stories of fellow bisaya vloggers/social media artists makes us know the real person behind the screen.
I agree
Ay sa kani nga interview murag dili. Kay for the views namakak siya.
Kahilak ko kay nilayas pud ko sa amo kay non supportive pud akung parent tungod kay bayut ko, gipa skwela pud naku akung self until nag graduate ko and now teacher naku, naga patukod naku sa akung sariling house...
I hope wala nay mga bata na ma ingun ani kay dili jud lalim. Dili jud lalim mag inusara... So laban lang japun kay mao naman ang reality but I am still looking forward for a better future.
“You raised not just an obedient one but a very tough one”😭❤️
*You did not raised an obedient child but a tough one. hehe
"KUNG KINSA PA TONG DILI NIMO KADUGO MOO PA TUY MO TABANG" This is 100% so accurate maka relate jd ko ay. "WATER IS THICKER THAN BLOOD" 💯
True
Ky dghana mga abusado Basta parente ky magsalig tungod ky kadugo
So true 💯 The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.
im touch, naiyak ako sa last part.
So true best on my experience most better pa lain tayo motabang pa
From an agony turns into a great testimony. From a mess now become a beautiful message. Time heal all wounds in Jesus name. ❤
i know her personally and her childhood trauma is one of her struggles, we should not invalidate her feelings and perceptions bc in the first place sinabi nia naman na baka di din nila sinasadya
You will never know the pain of a person until she/he speak😢 I can feel your pain Miss Fake ash🥺childhood trauma is never easy.
Now I am 32.. still healing my inner child. So, to whoever’s reading this, I hope and pray for you too. ❤
Turn to God mam, I know hindi easy but surrender all to God, life is short just be happy and forgive
Same
God bless you.
Childhood trauma is real! I hope everyone who experience this kind of challenges will heal soon. Kapit lang mga besh magiging okay din tayo. ❤❤❤
True, feelings nako mas pabor pa akong kuya compare sa akoa. Thats what i felt jud ai
Sir chito ito iyong segment na napaiyak ako Ng sobra,.relate jud ko nimo ma'am fake ash,.not because of my family but some of my relatives, and some people n na encounter ko sa trabaho.
Ambot lng.
Sos ignan lang panget truama na?..waman gani ning uban na truama na ginabitay pag desiplenahon sa ginikanan..kaluoy sa ginoo nia man nuon mo sa deserto nagdaro😂😂
Yesssss childhood trauma is real na real😭
This episode made me realized dapat open kos akong parents of how i feel and what are my battles within. Dli dapat ipahungaw sa socmed ang mga hinanakit towards family esp sa parents. Pobre sab sila nga nag atubang og mas greater battle pra matawid mis pag adlaw adlaw.
Relate MUCH!! 😢 Working student for 4 years consistently Kay ang hugot giingnag BUGO! sa Lola ug mama, wala damha 1st degree holder sa pamilya and the fact that I'm the youngest, and by the help and grace of God. ❤❤ Grabe jud si Lord mutabang ug gaan ka niyag mga instrumentong buotang tao para makuha imong mga pangandoy sa kinabuhi, Stay tough Ma'am 💪💪
And to Kol Chito I really wanted to see you and take a picture with you one of this days, unta puhhooooon. Love lots po❤😘3
Same with me 1st degree holder sa family ❤ laban lang jud ta in life 😢
@@carlamaelebosada8516 lagi ma'am, dili sya Dali pero kayanon🙏😇
despite people telling her na pangit syag batasan, you can see it in her na she is a genuine person. thank you Ash ❤ thank you for inspiring us. thank you kaaayoooo ❤ gwapa kaaa, period.
May mga kapatid na sila mismo mag down sa iyo.may favourite pa yun ibang magulang
No girl, she's not genuine. "kung unsa inyu makita sa social media dili na ang tinuod na ako" sa iyaha na mismo gkan, simply means, she's doing all of these for views and popularity. Periodt. She's full of arrogance, there's really something off with her, well maybe because of the "trauma" she chooses to be arrogant. and ungrateful sa iyaha parents.
@@XyzaGarcia-le9rh Wala yata nimo nasabtan ang context sa ingon niya nga "kung unsa inyong makita sa social media, dili na ang tinuod nga ako". She meant nga kung very vocal ug assertive siya sa socmed, dili siya ing-ana in real life. Gi-emphasize pa gani niya nga the more siya masuko, the more siya hilom (and ka-relate ko kay ing-ana sad ko. Kay i-refrain nga makabungat og mga salita nga basin mahayan later tungod lang kay nadala sa feelings ana nga moment). Kung nasabtan lang jud unta nimo ang tibuok message sa entire interview. Of course, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and yours is also valid. But it doesn't mean nga abi kay mao na'y pamati nimo, mao na na. Just like what Miss Ash said, what her parents did might not have been intentional, but it does not negate the fact that it gave her emotional trauma.
@@XyzaGarcia-le9rhd mo na gets
@@XyzaGarcia-le9rhkabalo ka noh you need to know and learn nga usahay kanang “off” nga makita/mafeel nimos ubang tao ky imo nang own self projecting towards others. Naa kay problema dai na finding fault in others unya mu pasa na dayun kag judgement with that fault na imong nakita. You even invalidated her experiences by quoting the word trauma, as if saying nga di angay tawgon iyang na agi-an as trauma.. kinsa man ka? Who made you queen/king of anything?
8:17 "I am not valued because I don't look pretty" These words have had a profound impact on me, as I can somehow relate to them. Growing up, I was skinny, didn't consider myself pretty, and had curly, frizzy hair, which often led me to wonder if I was adopted. My family members and relatives would ignore me and treat me unfairly, and my mom wouldn't bring me to family gatherings because I didn't resemble my sisters who were considered pretty and outgoing. As a child, these experiences affected me deeply, making me become quiet, shy, and causing me to constantly question why I was different from others.
My friends also making fun of me for how I look and I noticed that they always exclude me in group photos. I'm now 22 years old, and those insecurities from my past still haunt me. I lack the confidence and courage to express myself freely, as I'm constantly afraid of facing judgments and criticism from others. It's sad that we are experiencing things like this in our day-to-day lives. Sending my warmest virtual hug, everyone! Kaya natin to. 🤍
Hello. I really don't know who you are ma'am but I want you to know that you are worthy to be love. You are special and you are valued by someone else out there. Sending prayers that in time you will overcome all those pain. ❤
@@laraliztaculod7803 thank you so much! xoxo 🥺🤍
I have meet her a couple of times since Diego and my daughters used to go to the same special school. I know this lady has a lot of story to share. But what makes her beautiful is how she was able to see the beauty of special children. She is also specially made for specials. Much love ❤️❤️❤️ for you Liezel and praying for your healing. 🥰
Realization strikes VERY HARD as I watched this whole episode. So far, kini akong pinakaganahan sa tanan interview session ni kuya Chito.
MAkahilak man sad ta og monggos Ani oyy... Parents parents always love to ur kids what ever looks like . . . Soss kmi mga OFW halos mamatay mi sa kamingaw sa mga anak para lang mhtg nila Ang needs.. naa diay ingon ana nga parents, but anyways thank you saqng mama permi mo ingnon sauna gwapa mo maskin di ko jud🤣😆
This woman is great👏👏. That is why I am working to be the BIGGER PERSON, not for MYSELF but for my father. Who experienced bullying before by his relatives.
Now that we are adults and we understand better, we also need to realize that parents like them grew up with the same parents. There are a lot of factors but it’s a gift to break the generational trauma.
"You did not raise an obedient child but a tough one." , this made me cry. Salamat Kol Chito for this interview it is very enlightening, very idk basta Chitchat is the best.
Im crying while watching this video cause I can really feel what’s in the inside of her heart the struggle and the pain she’ve experienced.
Same...paningkamot and paningtiil jud during college..Kay sarili ra jud Ang maasahan...good thing naa koy igsoon na nagadunol2 jud panagsa...working student jud para maaka graduate
childhood trauma really hits hard. I felt the same way. I felt I was never good enough for them, I build this strong walls and until now I had a hard time connecting with others because of these walls. Sending hugs to all who experienced the same.
Finally! Naay Fake Ash nag-open about love gikan sa parents. Different story pero grabe din yung trauma ko. Na feeling ko di ako kayang mahalin ng iba kc di ko maramdaman yung love from my mother.
Kani gyud Ang nagpatulo sa akong luha sa tanan nga interview ni chito samontina. Because 70 percent sa experience sa kinabuhi ni fake ash , same sa akoa. Actually , mas lala pa akong na experience sa pamilya kumpara sa iyaha.
Gayunpaman, tuloy Ang bubay and looking forward that one of this days malimtan Ang tanang kasakit nga na angkon sa pamilya.
me too😢
Me too🥺
Me tooo😢😢😢😢😢😢
Rooting for your inner healing Fake Ash. You deserve the world. 🙏
This is the very first time mag comment² kog mga ing ani, but this one really hit so hard, really really hard. Pinakasakit jud nga mismo ato family maoy mo discourage sa atua. Labaw na naay favoritism.
as for me, you cannot blame parents that are also brought the same mentality like how they are also brought up, good for Ash because she works hard to get her Diploma and see the other side of the world, the mentality in the bukid . . . you know what I mean 🙂
Kol, si telma apila pag inteview
NOOOOOOOOO
Good thing c Ask open ang isip pg ingon na her parents didn't mean that. Tru kaau k sis mostly in anai mentality bsta sa primitive areas sa ato ug lisud kaau ba balion na stigma sato ui. Khilak kog apil ui
True...
Akong mama ingon ana pod sa amoa pero wala man namo gi dibdib kay nakita man nako sa among parents ilang kalisod para mabuhi mi...
Ingnan mi nga.. Mabuntis ra daw mi.... buhion ra daw mi sa lalaki...
Bati daw kog nawong...
Pero okay raman sa akoa kay parents na nimo.. taas lang jud kag pride bantog ingon-ana ka...
@@MaryJoyPaalisbo-gu1ui tanan taw naay pride dzae
"The ones closest to you are the ones that hurt you the most." Sad to say that this quote is so accurate. I feel you miss ash. Not with the bullying part but with money issues.
My parents were not that well off, but l can say they built a life for us to live comfortably. Back then I was so loved by everyone because my father supports our relatives both his and my mom's side, most especially with education. Sad to say, when both of my beloved parents passed away, all those who showed attention and love before have totally forgotten/isolated me. Now that I am doing well, they are starting to recognize me after years of belittling and abandonment. Now, I am the one isolating myself from them. Trying to keep my peace in confinement and I feel better this way. Always alone but not lonely anymore.🥰 I pray miss ash that you too would find peace in whatever means you can reach it. God bless to you both.
The true definition of a self-made-woman.
I felt her pain. We have different childhood traumas. I pray that she releases genuine forgiveness towards her family.
Always remember that you are beautiful and you are worth it..
Pero dili diay tanan iyaha gi sulti nasaktan iyaha pamilya
Sir, salamat sa imong preview before mag start ang video. As a BS Psychology major, this means a lot to us. Not every one know the true depth of these sad things such as trauma, depression and abuse. They are real. Very real.
The way fake Ash shared her life story is honest, we cannot blame someone's behaviour or attitude. She build that for a purpose to be strong and to fight for her sanity. And now, she deserves everything she got❤. Hugs for you ma'am🤗
As a mom whose daughter was bullied, I felt short thinking wa nako naprotektahi ako anak fully, but watching this made me realize, I can only do so much, and while I was feeling that, naa diay isa ka tao wala nakaexperience or feel nga valued siya. Thank you for such an inspiring story Ms. Ash and for this ChitChat sir Chito. God bless you both and praying for your healing, Ms. Ash.
I wanna hug her and tell her that its all worth it ash and the past version of yourself is so proud of who are becoming. We may all healed from all of our traumas guys. xoxo
It’s my first time watching chitchat due to Fake Ash. I’m curious all about her because somehow I can relate with her. Thank you Chitchat for being an awesome platform for sharing and inspiring life story.
I really like this channel. This gives opportunity to people to talk about and open up things spontaneously. It’s a therapy.
To Ash- your feelings are valid and I am so happy that those traumas made you a stronger person. Talk is a therapy and whether you like it or not talking about it to your parents will help you heal that trauma in your own and right time.
Thank you for this content. This is an eye opener that never judge people according to what they look like or show to people because everyone of us are facing different situations or battles or traumas. Just smile to people and be kind.
Our mindset often driven by our personal struggles in life. I adored how she overcome her situation and be it as motivation to strive sucess
same to my situation right now😢, walay parents at family but I'm very thankful because nakatagpo ko og second family and turning 8 years na ako sa kanila, I felt valued and loved, totoo talaga yung sinabi nila na "family is not related by blood"🥰
I can relate to her as a working student. I am a houseboy at the same time a student and I am very thankful to the people who helped me a lot to mold me in reaching my goals in life. But in terms of family, relatives and friend's support I am very thankful for their 101% support and I am very blessed with them. For you ms. Ash be strong and I know time will come to heal all your deep wounds from the past..God Bless💖💖💖
It's my favorite interview by far. Authentic and truly inspiring.
Nag sakit akong dughan peru grabeh ka positive ang impact sa akoa ang kini nga interview.
Grabe Ash! You amaze me karon sa imong sharing. You are an inspiratio to many. Unlike you, I hated my parents for that very same mentality. Like, wala sila naghunahuna og hatag og good life sa amo coz sila man gud pod ing-ana ang upbringing. It takes real courage jud to cut ties sa family nga wala sad gahunahuna sa imoha. Kol Chito, keep this up. Grabe, nice kaayo imong platform jud.
She is so brave to voice this out. Even I have experienced kanang bullying from the family. Basta taga BUKID that is their norm jud kung kunuhay waka kapasok sa ilahang BEAUTY STANDARD pulutan kag storya and shame you and even your parents will criticize you.
There's no words can discribe her. I relate to her because I am also a working student. A full time worker and a irregular students which battling my insecurities and my personal problem. Additionally dealing my family problems. They never supported me in my studies right now. Watching this video it seems to be empowering. Love you Fake ash and chito❤❤❤. To people who read this, soon we will conquer our dreams and goals in life. Keep on fighting and always move forward❤.
You can reach your goals. Don't worry that you're progressing slowly. Take care of your mental health. Someday, the world will smile to you. And you'll find people who are worthy of your love to them.
I really admire her from the beginning. The way she spoke, her perspective ang the way she lift people up especially women, so amazing.❤️
😢
Grabeehh !
Same ta mindset miss fake ash..tanang pang tamay nga akong ma received ako gyud na gi take as a positive one.
Ako ibutang gyud permi sa akong mind nga " ing-ana ilang gpanulte ky ila kong gihagit mga mo abot sa akong pangandoy." And now I'm almost there to my goal with the help of my almighty God 🙏🥺♥️
" LAYO PAKU,PERO LAYO NASAD KO"
This show is so underrated. Thanks for bringing this show to us Chito 😊❤
natandog aqng gahi nga kasing² churr, mitulo akong luha at some point nga dapat ang parents maoy protector and pinaka supportive in all decisions you've made in your life but,sila pa ang mo down sa imoha. sakit kaayo siya pamalandungon,pero proud kaayo ko nimu maam ash, you're very tough and even tougher and strong person despite all that you've been through..
One of the reason why i like her personally cause there's something in her that tells a lot of story. You're so brave ma'am to face the problems the life throws at you.
Waaah, relate jud kayko ani. Nidako pod ko na gina lantaw nako akoa self as "ugly or pangit" jud. To the point na ultimo genuine compliment, dijud nako tuohan. Until now..
I can still remember when I was a child, dili ko ipa headband kay mu lapad daw ug samot akoa nawong ug dili daw ko angayan. Mao nang until now, dili japon ko naga suot ug headband.
Sakto jud si Ms. Fake Ash mas sakit kaayo ang "istorya" gkan sa pamilya. Same saiya, nidako jud ko na always gina ignan ug bati ug nawong. Mao nang bahalag karon na 18 years old nako, gi claim jud nako ako self as batig nawong.
How I wish I was born with a pretty and angelic face. But this is life, harsh jud but we have to accept it. Right now, I am still learning on how to love my self more despite of every hurtful words I received in my whole life. Laban!
Maybe your parent's also had their own struggles during that time specially if they have a lot of kids to attend to. There is no perfect parents as there are no perfect child. Through your experience your like a gem polished by heartaches perfected by challenges. I salute you Mam Liezel.
Having “a lot of kids to attend to” is not an excuse to neglect or verbally abuse your child. Wala gi pili sa bata i-anak sya, labaw na sa pamilya nga daghan ra kaayo tuga2 ug anak ang parents di diay dapat tawgon na parents to begin with. It’s best to stay single than make another human being struggle his/her entire adult life from the traumas parents made.
I'm really happy that she open this to the public. I hate her and even judge her before because of her attitude in social media. But she really hits my heart after knowing her story. I'm so sorry for your traumatic childhood. I know it's very hard for her but I'm praying for her healing.
Such an inspiring and courageous soul! 💪 It takes true strength to embrace your past, laugh it off, and grow from it. Kudos to her for being so resilient and brave!
I feel you ash.. I'm 38 and I still feel exactly the same way.. until now.. I'm so proud of you that you were able to get out of that feeling..
Wow. Thats a very heart wrenching but yet a heart warming story. It exploded like a lesson for all of us who were bullied then and made it to the Top. More Power Chito.
Relate kunti sa imong kinabuhi ms ASH kay ako pud gusto gyud ko mu skwela pero tungod sa kawad on sa akong mga parents.mao nga wala ko kapadayon pero ang kalahian lang nato kay wala man ko gilait sa akong mga parents kung unsa akong looks.pero bisan wala ko nasuportahi sa akong pag eskwela,wala ko nalain or nalayo akong buot sa ilaha.maaga din akong lumayo sa mga magulang ko para hanapin ko ang aking bukas.sa akong mga duol nga relative naka experience ko ug dili maayo nga mga words about me pero gihimo nako to nga motivation naningkamot ko para mapakita sa ilaha nga dili tama ang ilang gipang estorya sa akoa.karon kalooy sa ginoo ang naglait sa akoa sauna diri sila nako karon gahangad.praise GOD.
What a very inspiring story. I've learned a lot as a parent na dapat 101% at pantay ang support, tiwala at pagmamahal sa mga anak. God bless you @The Fake Ash and Sir @Chito Samontina
Sometimes if someone has been through a lot in life and made it through and survived alone, it is normal to be like showing other people that you are tough and like having your shield ready everytime for other people‘s judgements and criticisms. Its normal to defend ourselves in a way that we know how. Sometimes it is just so sad knowing that so many people reacts into something that they don’t even know deeper than what they really heard and see …just a thought🙂
What a strong woman. Bless u ma'am. Hope one day u will find peace and forgiveness ❤
its almost 5 months ago na pinalabas tong video with fake ash and now ko lang sya napanood , i really touch subra .. naka relate jud ko 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 grabi ang tibay mo ate girl .. i love u and god bless thank u kua chito sa mga nakakainspired na videos 🥰 god bless u poh always we love u kua chito
Miss, you are so beautiful in God's sight. Wala mn nahigugma ang imong parents pero hinumdomi nga love kaayo ka sa Ginoo that He gave a person nga nkatabang sa imoa in all aspect. He loves you at your darkest moments. He is with you always. God bless you!
Still healing our inner childhood problems. Not the same situatuon but the same feelings. Thank you for thia video, im not alone diay.
This ep made me cry. Mao nging-ana si Maam Ash today kay tungod sa iyang kaagi. And maayo gyud gihapon ang Ginoo kay naa juy tao mutabang nimo despite sa kalisod sa kinabuhi. Stay Strong Maam Ash 🥰🎉
This is the most painful ep so far. I can really relate to her experience. Pretty privilege, discrimination, cancellation and discouragement tanan or mostly sa mga "maot" nawong experienced that. Mga promdi kids who grew up in a crucial envi became warriors. Kapoy but mao ni result sa impact sa trauma satoa.
You did not raise an obedient one but you raise a tough one. 😭❤️
lahi pud ubang mindset sa mga parents sauna... bisan gani karon naa pa gyoy parents nga ingon ana gihapon ang mindset... unta sa mga parents ug mahimong parents mahimong ning lesson sa atoang tanan... Thank you kaayo Ms. Ash
This is so heartbreaking 🥺 I totally understand her. We have different experiences and it is so strong for her to be this vulnerable to tell all these things. This is so difficult and knowing that she's teaching kids that's definitely a great opportunity for her to open her mind to other reasons why she needs to understand what's going on with her life. Proud of her and I salute her bravery for this.❤️
Lived with an extended family for 16 years. Grabe jud ka toxic na over jud ang childhood trauma na nahatag sa akoa. Naa pay parents na dili ka tuohan. Lisod kaayo. Pero makaya ra lage nato ni especially na aware na ta, and ang panahon karon is dili na ingana ka grabe ang stigma sa mental health awareness.
Kudos ChitChat! 🎉 Nindot kaayo ni nga episose. We love you Ms. Ash! Thank you for being an inspiration to us!
perfect example of "pain makes you stronger" .... relate ko ani kay sa kadaghana sa akong naagian nga rejection ug disappointments kalooy sa Ginoo nkabarog ko nga nag inusara.
My God I cried so hard.I am grateful to be raised and well loved by my parents and felt very lucky. But I never expected how somebody this strong(Ash) was denied wirh the comfort and compassion parents should provide for her. Tight hugs for you. Healing is a process and it can never be firced.Gid bless you.
angkol!!! mao lng jud ni na episode nmo nkapahilak nko oi....same kaau cla sa akoa husband...bullied by family but worked hard to be a chf engr now.....mka proud ang mga tao ma dli ngpadala sa sitwasyon baglos ng hatag ug kakusog na mulaban sa lyf ug maging triumphant....sa tinuod krn ra nko ni mailhan c yhe fake ash....ill follow her page na....hugsss sa mga tao na smae nmo ug sitwasyon❤❤❤
kasakit ba miss Fake Ash😭😭😭keep on fighting,find your purpose and still believe in yourself.Keep on praying na soon enough mag heal raka og maka forgive raka sa tanan tao na nakasakit nimo🙏🙏🙏very inspiring imong story,I salute you👏👏👏salamat angkol chito for sharing the story of miss Fake Ash makatulo jud og luha🥺🥺😭😭😭
One thing we need to accept is to accept our flaws so they could not use it against you😌 I knew how you feel and where you are coming from- cheers Fake Ash- just be the simple version of urself.✅
Bisag kabalo ko na imposible kaayo,pero unta ma chitchat ni angkol si JONAXX 🥰 . Isa mga pride sa mga bisaya when it comes to writing ❤
Huy bitaw. Yes please, Jonaxx. 🙏🏽
Omg! Yessss 🙌🏻👄
Trueeee!!!
Jonaxx please......
True. Jonaxx please, kol chito.
I dont exactly understand each word pero grabe... sobrang ramdam ko. 😢 You made it this far, Ash! Your strength is truly an inspiration. ❤
Thank you for this Angkol.I'd ben healing for 8 yrs hoping Nga one day maokay nako because as u said-TIME HEALS-peru dis time di pagyud diay makaya gihapon from my traumatic experience from a very close relatives(yes daghan sila)😢ang na experience ni Ash has something relative to my experience (peru to my very close relatives).di man ko ka succesful ni Ash but I earned something for my Own wid out them napod.
Laban gihapon ta bisan in ato ang experience .
May the Lord will bless and guide everyone nga in healing pa karun ..
Grabe gyud ang mga revelation kini nga chitchat. You should be proud of yourself ash sa tanan nimo naagian, u survived❤
Maka sakit sa dughan ang reality but looked at you now Ash ❤Praying na maging okay na ang tanan para sa imuha😊
I don't know her even in social media, but I think now this interview. I WILL FOLLOW HER ❤
She's really a fighter. I really love her lifestory. Naay lesson pra sa tanan nga hopeless, nga dli dyod magpawala ug paglaum. God bless sa imo maam ash.🙏💕
Bullying is never fun, it's a cruel and terrible thing to do to someone. Being bullied can leave you feeling helpless, humiliated, depressed, or even suicidal 💔 I feel you ash , I’ve been bullied before Kay lage sa pinas pag itom ka matik PANGET naka !
maka relate ko aning dle pa skwelahon kay maburosan ra giapun 🥺
Ug mao to nag working giapun ko and naka graduate Salamat sa diyos 🙏❤
Same. 🥹🥹
na love na tikag samot karun after watching your story, 😭😭😭 ga iyak ko while watching. di jud nako ma imagine, na imuhang parents pa mismo ang nag caused sa imuhag trauma, deep wound.
you are truly blessed. you really deserved all the happiness. stay tough and makaproud kaau ka as in...😘❤️❤️❤️
Same here 😢
This episode had a big impact on people, especially working students. I can relate to some of the experiences of Miss Ash because I was also a working student before. I need to stop schooling for two years and work in different food chains as a crew member and customer assistant in the Malls of Tagum City and Davao City. I was also bullied in my family and at school. But those negative experiences inspired me to continue and finish my studies with flying colors. Now, I still strive, even though I worked in government and tried to live life with a purpose, despite the many trials that I encounter nowadays. Aja! Ug laban lang gyod sa life. 😢😅😊
Tinuod ng pretty privilege. I was once bullied because of my teeth (rabbit). Pag trabaho na nako, ayha pa ko nakapa braces, and ni gwapa intawn pud ko. Napansin na ko sa uban, tagdon na sa mga relatives, lahi rajud. Anyway, nakahilak ko kay maka relate jud ko ni Ash. The difference lang is that akong family very supportive jud kaayu. Naa lang jud pud me childhood experience kami sa akong mga siblings nga dili namo makalimtan (how we were treated before). Thankful kaayu me sa amu parents nga nagpa glow jud namo. Kudos to you sir Chito for this show, and to you Ms. Ash. Time heals jud, pray lang pud. Maabot rana ang panahon
I pray you heal very soon Ma'am..Nalipay ko kay wala ka mi-give up maski wala'y gasuport nimo ug wala jud pud ka pasagdai sa Ginoo..Na-inspire ko sa pagka vast sa imong patience ug understanding labi na sa imong parents 🙂 Keep on inspiring people! Ang Ginoo muhatag pa nimo ug dugang kusog..God Bless You!
After nako nakita ang live nimu kol 3 days ago pa diay toh. Gisearch nako thru fb ang post sa sister ni ash then karon pa nako gitanaw ni nga ep tungod sa ako pagkaintriga sa imung live. I can say nga im with ash kay when she said bullied and not gained support by her parents does not mean about financial support. Sakit lang hunahunaon nga ingana ka mabaw ang tanaw sa iya ate nga about kwarta lang iya pagsabot when she said support. Dako kaayo og impact growing up nga walay support emotionally and mentally. Im happy nga c ash nibreak sa hindrance og niresult og maayo nga future for her. Unta makita og masabtan ni siya sa mga parents kay daghan parehas og situation kay ash and sadly nagpakalunod nalang pud sa kawad.on sa kinabuhi. Shout out kol from Carmen, AdN.
super lungkot ng story nya pero super strong nya...super talino nya... hoping and praying for inner peace and pag hilom ng sugat🥰🥰🥰
This proves that not all parents has a emotional bond with their children. As the bible says "bond is stronger than the wombs water". I can relate to miss ash. I'm always misunderstood by my family because I have my own principles that they don't agree with. But I'm still thankful that I have a husband that will always understand and love me. I also have children that adore me. I'm complete even though I have already distanced myself from the family I grow up with.
Isa sa pinaka ganahan nku na interview... kay in reality daghan suicide sa mga tawo tungod kay di maka express sa ilang tinood nga ginabati..wowww salute to maam fake ash.. very tough for revealing her story
Not all, but kasagaran sa 1980’s and 1990’s parents, ingon ana jud.. swerte kaau ang mga bata karon ky ang mga parents sa new generation nkalearn na… Like me, up until now unsa akong talent ky akong Parents di musugot if naa koy apilan na mga events or activities sa school coz gastos lng.. knowing nga kami ang naay dako na tindahan sa amo place before.. and cla pa una mosulti nako na tambok ka, reason nga until now naa koy insecurities sa akong body.. not really fat but dako lng jud ko sako mga kaedad, for them tambok ko and bati ang tambok so di ko dapat manambok.. and the way nila isulti, mkahurt.
It takes a strong person para evoice out ni ky dili raba ta sure sa reaction sa tao, but u are so strong @Fake Ash para maopen ni.. Thanx to u.. for sure dghan mkarelate.
Hands up to you Ash, you are inspiration to everyone else who go through tough times.
We had the same childhood and experiences, and you somehow validated my feelings and reasons. Thank you
This episode is worth the wait! So inspiring! Lavarn ta mga anak nga gipadako sa kuwang ug seminar nga parents😅
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Maka relate man ems 😢🤣
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Hoiii ka hawod nim0 mam ash
Thanks to the spirit nga nag guide nim0 para ma open up nim0 tanan ka aligotgot sa imong family...dili lalim e share sa social media labi na parte sa atong family kay maulaw ta or masakitan sila...per0 dili pud lalim maghilaka mag inusara tungod kay ma recall nat0 tanan mga kasakit nga kita ra nakabalo.,.nasay0d ko nga mohilak ka mag inusara sa im0ng kwarto para maibsan ang kasakit...tan aw sa tao wala kay problema kay grabe man ka ka strong dili pahalata nga weak di ka pag ikaw na usa...😢
Na unlocked najud nim0 ang pain na gidala dala...
Keep going mam praying na makuha nim0 ang closeness sa imong parents dili man dali per0 c God na bahala sa paghupay sa imong kasingkasing...
Ma feel pa naku ang hate per0 ampo ko na mapulihan nana ug love ❤...
Amping kanunay..
I feel you 💞
Every child deserves to be loved, understood and cared by parents❤️
Salute to this woman for making them us motivation.
Indi porket anak mali kung ilabas ang saloobin.
Tao lng po tyo, nasasaktan.
This should be an eye opener to everyone especially to parents on how to deal with their children because often times we utter words without thinking the effects of these words to the receiver.
Salamat ani nga episode sa Chitchat, naa jud koy mga realizations and dapat bag-ohon as person 😇 Salamat ChitChat Salamat Kol Chito and Team ❤️
I can relate you Ash, your past is the same of mine. We're on the same boat. But those bad experienced makes us stronger, empowered,and discovered ourselves of who we are today. Thank you Chito, for this interview, it gives more lesson to all of your audience, an eye opener to the new folks of the SOCMED COMMUNITY.God bless you Chito.
I experienced the same.dili lalim magdako na wala na met imo MGA emotional needs... Walay support .. d Jud nmo pwede no ipang underestimate ang importance ani og ang mahimong effect. Mao Ng Karin na na identify nako nganu ING ani KO Kung unsa Ko now.. dako kau factor ang akong childhood trauma and abuses na naagian. Pero SA kalooy SA Ginoo . Healing na. Ash, Ginoo Rajud maka help SA atoa na ma heal.. no matter how much we try in our own. Praying na ma heal naka. God bless you.
Sa kadugay na naku galantaw sa mga interviews nimu uncle Chito,karon rajud ko nag comment ky nakahilak jud ko sakit kaayo sa dughan oi,stay strong Maam Ash your pretty inside and out❤❤❤ but it really sad ky mismo sariling pamilya gayaguta sa imuha😢😢😢