Hiiii my friends!!!! REALLY excited about this video today! I get questions about confidence ALL THE TIME. I felt like I really needed to make this video and also just wanted to have a cozy chat about it. Hope you enjoy! :)
Carrie Rad what is your take on depression? Bc no matter what I do trying to keep a positive mind set is difficult bc this feeling usually takes over and it’s hard to tame it. I find myself fighting for happiness and it sometimes gets exhausting to fight a smile and pretend I am happy when I’m not bc I think if fake it enough I’ll actually be happy. Anyway hope you read this. I’d like to know your answer.
Self Care Summer videos are so awesome. I’m learning to be more confident. For a long time I wouldn’t leave comments on my favorite RUclips videos or Instagramers because I thought they would think I was weird. I want people to feel appreciated when they talk to me. I’m all about energy, so if I talk to someone who may feel a little down, I want to be that person who cheers them up!
I'm someone who can really struggle with initiating conversations with new people, but if someone friendly/warm comes up to me I find it so easy to talk and get along. I would love to really make people feel that comfortable :)
I want people to feel at ease, at PEACE, cared about. And I loved your tip about finding your passion. I want to help new moms and especially moms who are in sobriety to have tools to be a great parent - and a HUGE part of that is self-care. Love you Carrie (and Alex!)
I want people to feel comfortable when they’re in my presence. I want to be in a conversation where it just comes naturally with no anxiety on either side. Confident and comfortable conversations are freeing. ❤️
I love the idea of thinking about how you want others to feel when they're talking to you. That's a really inspiring way to go from obsessing about what others think about you to actually presenting the type of person you want to be in the world. Really love that.
I think about this all the time and have been a lot more lately!! I personally want people to feel the way I love feeling around MY favorite people: comfortable, trusting of me, listened to, genuinely cared for, and excited/happy to be in my company! 🙂💖
Well, I would want people to feel comfortable when talking to me. Like if they just met me, I don’t want it to be awkward, like an immediate friend they can count on. I also would also like for them to feel like they can say whatever they want and smile because I love seeing people comfortable and smiling! I love these homeworks! Thank you and love you, Carrie!❤️
I am loving this series so much!! I hope that people feel comfortable and happy when I am talking to them & I love when I can have a conversation about something I am passionate about and can share that passion with someone else! Allowing myself to show the world who I am without being nervous of what others will think is so hard but I am trying new things every day to be my truest self ❤️
This series came in such a right time for me. For me, I want people to feel at ease when talking to me. I dont want them to worry about what to say or how to phrase things. I want them to say things the way they come to mind and feel comfortable sharing how they truly feel, are they having a good day, a bad day? have they been going through rought times? because i know i personally hate putting on a smile on times that i dont feel like smiling. I want people to talk to me and think "I can share that thought thats been bugging me all day with her"
This video came at the best time! I am going through such a strange confusing time in my life at the moment, I am trying to find myself, I have always just tried to just be like the people around me. It's got to the point where I'm not sure what just being myself feels like. Am I going to be accepted? Are people going to think I'm weird? I need to stop hiding behind a mask.
WOW I agree with everything you said one hundred percent! I used to have a lot of social anxiety and I totally agree that the more you put yourself outside of your comfort zone the more confident you are. Even though it might be uncomfortable at first, over time you learn to overcome the stress and develop skills to improvise and navigate the situation. Then after a while you realize that the things that used to scare you don't anymore! For the homework, I have really been working on being fully present when I am talking to people. I want people to feel comfortable and know that I value what they are saying when they talk to me. Thanks for another great vid Carrie!
Your passion about this topic really comes across. Your eyes really do sparkle. When I’m talking to others I want them to feel that I’m fully 100% present. We live in an age of a million distractions and I know I’m very appreciative when I feel others are fully focused on me and our conversation. Love from Vancouver 🇨🇦
Omg Carrie! You are so in time! I have been struggling with being not confident enough to be myself. I thought I have too chubby face, my face is round, I am too high, etc. Thank you so much!♥ Homework: I want people to feel involved in what I am talking about. I want them to be really interested in the topic and to be open to me.
Ugh public speaking is the worst! I would take a failing grade when I was in school because I refused to do presentations in front of the class. We have huge meetings at work with like 150 people in them and sometimes they make us go in front and speak. I literally feel like I’m about to have a panic attack. I get so nervous I can’t think. They will ask me a question and my mind just goes blank. It’s so embarrassing because of how obvious it is that I’m extremely nervous. I’m the same way with job interviews. Not quite to that extent but I get more nervous than the average person would. I’ve turned down jobs at work because they involved giving presentations to groups of people. I thought that I would grow out of this but I’m 27 and I haven’t yet! I actually think it might be getting worse. I just hate attention being on me! I watched a recent video of Kalel Cullen and she talked about the same thing. She said having a wedding would be her worst nightmare because all the attention is on you. I totally relate to that! Thanks for the advice though. I’m going to make more of an effort to work on it!
This is only the third video I've seen of yours but I'm loving them so far. You have such a soothing voice. I like for people to be calm and comfortable when I'm talking to them and I try my best to do the same for others.
Have been loving checking back and watching this series! Your energy on camera is so authentic and you can tell this is what you are like in person and I love that! Thank's for the tips beauty looking forward to future videos! xo
I love these videos so much Carrie! Thank you so much. I want people to feel light and happy and loved when they're talking to me; I want them to feel like I care and that I'm passionate
I think the nicest thing any one can do is just be nice in general, in all situations where you can. I think finding love will give you lots of confidence, as this is the happiest thing you can do (fall and be in love) Be ready to smile at any time, not in a weird way, but naturally and try to think of the most greatest things you have experienced or done while going about when times are a bit dull helps confidence so much. Always walk about head not down but slightly up naturally ..oozes confidence! Taking control of your health and being a great citizen is just out of this world, and attracts really nice confident people. I have a hobby in the UK which is a typical English garden growing flowers and pottering about gardening makes me so confident with life, and people love what they see always wanting to talk about flowers which makes me feel so good and confident about my self. I got into the fragrances, and also looking after my body oils of nature and feel so good about my self, all these things I do dont blow the bank but work hard and always thinking of what can I do to make life better, and anything else for the future brings out the best of me.I love to tell the odd joke to people and love making people laugh when ever I can to my friends and family. I am a citizen of the world, I learned to love life, listen to people, and respect others, which will reflect on myself catapults confidence from a very high magnitude. Thanks for the video,..Carrie I must say you are an angel and a credit to your country, cheers and love from England.
I would love for people to feel relaxed and that they are not being judged. I seem to be like you in that I always want to help people with solutions to overcome any hurdles or issues that may be going in their lives. I know EXACTLY what you mean when you say you used to hold back as you didn't want them to feel like you were weird. I used to worry people thought ''oh god.. here she goes again with her ideas!!'' So yeah, I guess for people to not feel judged is really important. Anyway.. great video! Thank you, you are awesome! x
I want people to feel comfortable, I want them to have the space to speak their truth at all times! I don't want anyone to feel embarrassed about anything, you know! You can sense how so many of us hold back because we might feel embarrassed or insecure. I tend to do this as well. It's not healthy. Too much suppression. We are meant to express. No one should ever feel ashamed. Cheers to being true to our own nature! Blessings to everyone! ❤️✨
When people are in my presence, I want people to sense admiration, comfort, and positivity. Cause I’ve fallen so many times and I’ve gotten myself back up every time. I have a lot more strength than I give myself credit for
I loved this video! Every day I'm always struggling with anxiety. I care so much on what others think about me, and because of this, I've always been terrible at public speaking as my heart races fast and I stutter the entire time. I hope I will soon gain much confidence in myself! I want people to feel comfortable around talking to me or feeling as if they want to be engaged in these conversations with me. :)
This video was so helpful! I particularly loved the tip about saying what’s on your mind, that’s something I really struggle with! When people are talking to me I want them to feel comfortable and at ease to be able to say what’s on their minds without being judged or criticised :)
I want people to feel that I am real, warm, and a listener. I wrote it on my makeup mirror vanity to remind myself daily. Thank you for this video, Carrie. 😊
Another great video! Thank you so much for this series--freshly graduated from college with no job on the horizon, I've definitely needed some self care. I want people to feel supported and understood when they talk to me! :)
Loved loved LOVED this video! The past year and a half has been really about cultivating my confidence and these methods you shared are totally some I've used and will use! When people are talking to me, I hope that they feel heard and understood. I hope that they feel relaxed and comfortable enough to have a genuine conversation, whether it be serious or silly! :) I know that my confidence builds when I'm speaking to someone who provides those feelings to me.
I am so grateful for your channel, really 💛 like, you are empowering and such a positive person, but in the same time, you have been through the same things as so many sad people, and yet you came out stronger! ✨ That's very inspiring and I really hope that I will finally get over my anxiety and low self esteem. When people talk to me I feel like I can manage to make them instantly happier and more confident. I'm not sure, but i hope I'm right
Thank you! ♥️ I like to think I'm a confident person, I go to karate and have a positive attitude most days. Listening to your video has opened my mind to me speaking my mind.. like just to get shit off my brain.. 😜 As I do think about what the other person would respond to what I'm going to say so I hold back.. not always negative but By the time I've prodded it I don't actually day it.. and the moment has passed.. even if it was so thing I thought was funny. Which is really sad.. Cos I'm not projecting the true me... Im sure I used to speak out more, I'm someone who will talk to a stranger waiting in a que or ask for help in a shop when needed. But I lately find myself hesitating! And it's really crap, why? You have re opened my eyes, I will take away your info and put to good use 😘
Thank you so much for making this series💗 One of my goals this summer is just to build more genuine love for my true self and you are helping me do that🤗
I just discovered your channel and it’s awesome! Your self-help video is real and not too bubbly like others youtuber. Also you are an adult (same age as me) so I feel like I’m listening to my friend. Please keep it up. :)
Love it! when people talk to me I want them to feel trust that I know what I'm talking about. I'm a licensed aesthetician and I'm all about educating my clients about great skincare habits, tips, and tricks. Sometimes I feel like a walking skincare encyclopedia, like I'm giving too much info, that's where my confidence starts to diminish. I have to find the right amount of info to share.
Honestly when you started talking about how great it is when people talk about their passions I got a bit teary eyed, maybe i'm just an emotional human... haha. Also, i'm really passionate about mindfulness and my college is putting on a free 8 week course about it. I had put off sending them an email to express my interest but your video inspired me to do it this morning, before I head to class!
Hi Carrie! Thanks for this inspiring video :) When people are in my presence, I want them to feel free to share their deepest truths without fear of judgement. I also want them to feel welcomed and engaged.
I love this series Carrie! I feel like your videos are the convos I have with some of my friends! I am passionate about all the same things and these videos helped me realize that :)
When people are in my presence, I would like for people to feel comfortable, happy, at ease, and filled with joy. I want the person to feel even better after being in my presence.
I am that person in people's lives that people tell everything to immediately, but darn sometimes keeping everyone's secrets is a lot, especially when you know they need to do something about it (sometimes talk to a third person, sometimes even therapy). They probably feel relieved, but I would prefer them to just feel more confident in themselves and brave after talking to me, and do something about those heavy feelings they are carrying, find something cathartic to do with it or 'solve' them. Maybe I should look into motivational speaking, it's just tough to see people going round in circles with the same stuff over and over.
Good morning, loved this video you are so darn passionate in this one in particular. Your awesome! When people are talking to me I want them to feel like wow she's really easy to talk to and has genuinely interesting things to say. So basically I want them to feel engaged and valued. 🥑🌻🐢
This series has been amazing so far. I think people should feel they are interested in what I have to say and I’m engaging with them one on one. That top is a fabulous color on you btw. Have a great day Carrie.
I want people to feel comfortable with me & that I'm honest but in a loving helpful not brutal judgey way. I want them to feel uplifted from me & encouraged. ☺💫💕
I want people to see me and feel inspired and motivated . If someone sees me working hard and moving forward with my goals and studies, and thinks to themselves something like: "if she can do it, I can do it too", I'd be very happy, because, its not impossible to get where you want or need to be.
I just want them to feel comfort with me, they should feel that I understand that I won't judge, that I can help and just listen to their story. I want them to feel calm. And if they want I won't even say a word, I want them to feel through my energy that everything is ok. And again thank so much for #SelfCareSummer you say really good and important things and I am sooo in love with everything. I just feel myself differ, super cool!
Hi, Carrie, great video and very useful for me, indeed. As you started talking about taking care for oneself, I stopped the video and booked a dental hygiene appoitment that I'd been putting off for quite some time. Thank you! Keep it up and have a great day :)
When people talk to me I want them to feel cared for. When people open up to me and are vulnerable, I want them to know its okay and I will always be there to listen
Hi Carrie!!! Well, that’s a very interesting question because I’ve never thought about that. But I would like to be the type of person that when people talk to me they know I am really there to listen and to help that they can count on me for the best and the worst. Big kiss from Portugal 😘😘
I want people to feel at peace and feel that wow this girl is so confident and so comfortable in her own skin, I want them to respect me and not walk all over me and view me as someone who is smart and can handle things in her life. But ukw I have to view myself this way first
I really want them to feel comfortable and trusting. I hope that friends and family know that they can tell me anything and don't hold back. So, comfortable and trusting 😊❤
I want people to feel at ease and comfortable when they talk to me, regardless of how well I know them. Regardless of who they are or how well I know them, I want them to feel like they have a friend in me ♡
Hi Carrie, love your self care summer. Would you be able to do a video on different relationships and how they affect us. Example with my family it is non existent and makes me feel like outsider. Love your videos, and I love your top it looks so fuzzy.
Such great information here :) I've always been super bad at public speaking but writing is one of my best qualities. So I started a blog but put off making videos for like.....8 years now? So I decided to finally just get started and do it anyways. It wasn't nearly as bad as I thought. (Thank you editing haha). But I would still love to learn how to do public speaking. I like the idea of it, but the thought terrifies me. I even took 3 speech classes when I was in college and they were epic fails haha
OMG you're adorable, speaking is your talent) i'd like to speak like that on the spot without these ughhs etc. with this self-dought. Thanks for your videos.
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Hiiii my friends!!!! REALLY excited about this video today! I get questions about confidence ALL THE TIME.
I felt like I really needed to make this video and also just wanted to have a cozy chat about it. Hope you enjoy! :)
Carrie Rad what is your take on depression? Bc no matter what I do trying to keep a positive mind set is difficult bc this feeling usually takes over and it’s hard to tame it. I find myself fighting for happiness and it sometimes gets exhausting to fight a smile and pretend I am happy when I’m not bc I think if fake it enough I’ll actually be happy. Anyway hope you read this. I’d like to know your answer.
Self Care Summer videos are so awesome. I’m learning to be more confident. For a long time I wouldn’t leave comments on my favorite RUclips videos or Instagramers because I thought they would think I was weird. I want people to feel appreciated when they talk to me. I’m all about energy, so if I talk to someone who may feel a little down, I want to be that person who cheers them up!
Kadiyah Lodge It took me awhile to leave comments on my favorite RUclips videos and Instagram posts as well. I’m really glad I made that step though!
Kadiyah Lodge I'm so glad you are becoming more confident:) keep spreading positive energy ❤
IM LOVING THIS SERIES. All of the things you say are so genuinely helpful and not just trendy things to say. I just adore your personality💓
that means a lot - thank youuuu
I want people to feel safe and relaxed when they are talking to me. I want to make sure I am present and giving them my energy ☀
I'm someone who can really struggle with initiating conversations with new people, but if someone friendly/warm comes up to me I find it so easy to talk and get along. I would love to really make people feel that comfortable :)
I want them to feel accepted, uplifted, calm
I never asked myself how I would want people to feel in my presence, that is interesting.
I want people to feel at ease, at PEACE, cared about. And I loved your tip about finding your passion. I want to help new moms and especially moms who are in sobriety to have tools to be a great parent - and a HUGE part of that is self-care. Love you Carrie (and Alex!)
you. are amazing.
thank you for sharing this
I want people to feel comfortable when they’re in my presence. I want to be in a conversation where it just comes naturally with no anxiety on either side. Confident and comfortable conversations are freeing. ❤️
so trueeeee!!! love this!! :)
I want people to feel inspired so they can be confident about themselves and to be able to do whatever they want to.
I want people to feel at peace when they're talking to me, and to walk away feeling better than they did before.
I love the idea of thinking about how you want others to feel when they're talking to you. That's a really inspiring way to go from obsessing about what others think about you to actually presenting the type of person you want to be in the world. Really love that.
I think about this all the time and have been a lot more lately!! I personally want people to feel the way I love feeling around MY favorite people: comfortable, trusting of me, listened to, genuinely cared for, and excited/happy to be in my company! 🙂💖
Well, I would want people to feel comfortable when talking to me. Like if they just met me, I don’t want it to be awkward, like an immediate friend they can count on. I also would also like for them to feel like they can say whatever they want and smile because I love seeing people comfortable and smiling! I love these homeworks! Thank you and love you, Carrie!❤️
I am loving this series so much!! I hope that people feel comfortable and happy when I am talking to them & I love when I can have a conversation about something I am passionate about and can share that passion with someone else! Allowing myself to show the world who I am without being nervous of what others will think is so hard but I am trying new things every day to be my truest self ❤️
When I’m talking to people, I want them to feel deeply understood and loved :)
This series came in such a right time for me.
For me, I want people to feel at ease when talking to me. I dont want them to worry about what to say or how to phrase things. I want them to say things the way they come to mind and feel comfortable sharing how they truly feel, are they having a good day, a bad day? have they been going through rought times? because i know i personally hate putting on a smile on times that i dont feel like smiling. I want people to talk to me and think "I can share that thought thats been bugging me all day with her"
This video came at the best time! I am going through such a strange confusing time in my life at the moment, I am trying to find myself, I have always just tried to just be like the people around me. It's got to the point where I'm not sure what just being myself feels like. Am I going to be accepted? Are people going to think I'm weird? I need to stop hiding behind a mask.
WOW I agree with everything you said one hundred percent! I used to have a lot of social anxiety and I totally agree that the more you put yourself outside of your comfort zone the more confident you are. Even though it might be uncomfortable at first, over time you learn to overcome the stress and develop skills to improvise and navigate the situation. Then after a while you realize that the things that used to scare you don't anymore!
For the homework, I have really been working on being fully present when I am talking to people. I want people to feel comfortable and know that I value what they are saying when they talk to me.
Thanks for another great vid Carrie!
Your passion about this topic really comes across. Your eyes really do sparkle. When I’m talking to others I want them to feel that I’m fully 100% present. We live in an age of a million distractions and I know I’m very appreciative when I feel others are fully focused on me and our conversation. Love from Vancouver 🇨🇦
I want people to not feel judged by me. Loving this series Carrie.
Omg Carrie! You are so in time! I have been struggling with being not confident enough to be myself. I thought I have too chubby face, my face is round, I am too high, etc. Thank you so much!♥
Homework: I want people to feel involved in what I am talking about. I want them to be really interested in the topic and to be open to me.
I'm so happy to hear this video came at a good time for you! Hope it helps you feel good about who you are and helps you learn to embrace itttt
Ugh I just love this series so much, came at a perfect time when I’ve been feeling overwhelmed with work
Ugh public speaking is the worst! I would take a failing grade when I was in school because I refused to do presentations in front of the class. We have huge meetings at work with like 150 people in them and sometimes they make us go in front and speak. I literally feel like I’m about to have a panic attack. I get so nervous I can’t think. They will ask me a question and my mind just goes blank. It’s so embarrassing because of how obvious it is that I’m extremely nervous. I’m the same way with job interviews. Not quite to that extent but I get more nervous than the average person would. I’ve turned down jobs at work because they involved giving presentations to groups of people. I thought that I would grow out of this but I’m 27 and I haven’t yet! I actually think it might be getting worse. I just hate attention being on me! I watched a recent video of Kalel Cullen and she talked about the same thing. She said having a wedding would be her worst nightmare because all the attention is on you. I totally relate to that! Thanks for the advice though. I’m going to make more of an effort to work on it!
ccap3211 - same here😳
This is only the third video I've seen of yours but I'm loving them so far. You have such a soothing voice. I like for people to be calm and comfortable when I'm talking to them and I try my best to do the same for others.
Have been loving checking back and watching this series! Your energy on camera is so authentic and you can tell this is what you are like in person and I love that! Thank's for the tips beauty looking forward to future videos! xo
I'm so glad I rediscovered your videos! This self care summer series is just what I needed at this point in my life
Yayyy!! Happy you rediscovered my video too! Can I ask you what brought you back or how you found me again?
Carrie Rad I was watching a lot of vagabrothers videos during my study abroad trip!
& congrats on 180K! So well deserved ♡
Feel understood, not judge, happy to share, inspired, amazed, in touch with themselves and the universe.
I love these videos so much Carrie! Thank you so much. I want people to feel light and happy and loved when they're talking to me; I want them to feel like I care and that I'm passionate
I think the nicest thing any one can do is just be nice in general, in all situations where you can. I think finding love will give you lots of confidence, as this is the happiest thing you can do (fall and be in love) Be ready to smile at any time, not in a weird way, but naturally and try to think of the most greatest things you have experienced or done while going about when times are a bit dull helps confidence so much. Always walk about head not down but slightly up naturally ..oozes confidence! Taking control of your health and being a great citizen is just out of this world, and attracts really nice confident people. I have a hobby in the UK which is a typical English garden growing flowers and pottering about gardening makes me so confident with life, and people love what they see always wanting to talk about flowers which makes me feel so good and confident about my self. I got into the fragrances, and also looking after my body oils of nature and feel so good about my self, all these things I do dont blow the bank but work hard and always thinking of what can I do to make life better, and anything else for the future brings out the best of me.I love to tell the odd joke to people and love making people laugh when ever I can to my friends and family. I am a citizen of the world, I learned to love life, listen to people, and respect others, which will reflect on myself catapults confidence from a very high magnitude. Thanks for the video,..Carrie I must say you are an angel and a credit to your country, cheers and love from England.
I would love for people to feel relaxed and that they are not being judged. I seem to be like you in that I always want to help people with solutions to overcome any hurdles or issues that may be going in their lives. I know EXACTLY what you mean when you say you used to hold back as you didn't want them to feel like you were weird. I used to worry people thought ''oh god.. here she goes again with her ideas!!'' So yeah, I guess for people to not feel judged is really important.
Anyway.. great video! Thank you, you are awesome! x
I agree with your content! Thank you for sharing!
I want people to feel comfortable, I want them to have the space to speak their truth at all times! I don't want anyone to feel embarrassed about anything, you know! You can sense how so many of us hold back because we might feel embarrassed or insecure. I tend to do this as well. It's not healthy. Too much suppression. We are meant to express. No one should ever feel ashamed. Cheers to being true to our own nature! Blessings to everyone! ❤️✨
When people are in my presence, I want people to sense admiration, comfort, and positivity. Cause I’ve fallen so many times and I’ve gotten myself back up every time. I have a lot more strength than I give myself credit for
Self care summer! love your vids
I loved this video! Every day I'm always struggling with anxiety. I care so much on what others think about me, and because of this, I've always been terrible at public speaking as my heart races fast and I stutter the entire time. I hope I will soon gain much confidence in myself! I want people to feel comfortable around talking to me or feeling as if they want to be engaged in these conversations with me. :)
I want people to feel calm and like they can say anything without judgement while always giving back honesty responses.
I want people to be open n feel like I am engaged and actively listening to them.
At ease and comfortable !!! ❤️
I want people to feel at ease and that I'm truly interested in what they are saying! Another amazing video in this series, love you Carrie!!!
This video was so helpful! I particularly loved the tip about saying what’s on your mind, that’s something I really struggle with! When people are talking to me I want them to feel comfortable and at ease to be able to say what’s on their minds without being judged or criticised :)
I want people to feel that I am real, warm, and a listener. I wrote it on my makeup mirror vanity to remind myself daily. Thank you for this video, Carrie. 😊
I love that 🙏🏽♥️
Another great video! Thank you so much for this series--freshly graduated from college with no job on the horizon, I've definitely needed some self care. I want people to feel supported and understood when they talk to me! :)
Loved loved LOVED this video! The past year and a half has been really about cultivating my confidence and these methods you shared are totally some I've used and will use!
When people are talking to me, I hope that they feel heard and understood. I hope that they feel relaxed and comfortable enough to have a genuine conversation, whether it be serious or silly! :) I know that my confidence builds when I'm speaking to someone who provides those feelings to me.
You're my favorite person/channel on YT
Carrie, thank you so much for this series, I am experiencing a lot of anxiety lately and your videos really help! Plus I love how sweet you are
I am so grateful for your channel, really 💛 like, you are empowering and such a positive person, but in the same time, you have been through the same things as so many sad people, and yet you came out stronger! ✨ That's very inspiring and I really hope that I will finally get over my anxiety and low self esteem.
When people talk to me I feel like I can manage to make them instantly happier and more confident. I'm not sure, but i hope I'm right
I appreciate your captions being correct!!!
Love this video! I needed this from somebody
This is such a beautiful video! Thank you Carrie ❤
I want people to be comfortable and engaged and feel that I am funny , honest , secret keeper when they are listening to me 😉❤
# How I want people to feel in my presence! Thought of! Comfortable! Loved & important!
absolutely perfect timing! thank u for this. i really needed it💓❤️❤️
Thank you! ♥️ I like to think I'm a confident person, I go to karate and have a positive attitude most days. Listening to your video has opened my mind to me speaking my mind.. like just to get shit off my brain.. 😜 As I do think about what the other person would respond to what I'm going to say so I hold back.. not always negative but By the time I've prodded it I don't actually day it.. and the moment has passed.. even if it was so thing I thought was funny. Which is really sad.. Cos I'm not projecting the true me... Im sure I used to speak out more, I'm someone who will talk to a stranger waiting in a que or ask for help in a shop when needed. But I lately find myself hesitating! And it's really crap, why? You have re opened my eyes, I will take away your info and put to good use 😘
Thank you so much for making this series💗 One of my goals this summer is just to build more genuine love for my true self and you are helping me do that🤗
I just discovered your channel and it’s awesome! Your self-help video is real and not too bubbly like others youtuber. Also you are an adult (same age as me) so I feel like I’m listening to my friend. Please keep it up. :)
Love it! when people talk to me I want them to feel trust that I know what I'm talking about. I'm a licensed aesthetician and I'm all about educating my clients about great skincare habits, tips, and tricks. Sometimes I feel like a walking skincare encyclopedia, like I'm giving too much info, that's where my confidence starts to diminish. I have to find the right amount of info to share.
Honestly when you started talking about how great it is when people talk about their passions I got a bit teary eyed, maybe i'm just an emotional human... haha. Also, i'm really passionate about mindfulness and my college is putting on a free 8 week course about it. I had put off sending them an email to express my interest but your video inspired me to do it this morning, before I head to class!
In conversation I want people to feel the ability to be honest about whatever it is that we are discussing.
I really needed this video so thank you! 💕✨
Youre so cute lol. I love your bun and your tips. I want people to UNDERSTAND and feel comfortable with me.
haha da bun - my go-to :)
Hi Carrie! Thanks for this inspiring video :) When people are in my presence, I want them to feel free to share their deepest truths without fear of judgement. I also want them to feel welcomed and engaged.
I love this series Carrie! I feel like your videos are the convos I have with some of my friends! I am passionate about all the same things and these videos helped me realize that :)
When people are in my presence, I would like for people to feel comfortable, happy, at ease, and filled with joy. I want the person to feel even better after being in my presence.
I am that person in people's lives that people tell everything to immediately, but darn sometimes keeping everyone's secrets is a lot, especially when you know they need to do something about it (sometimes talk to a third person, sometimes even therapy). They probably feel relieved, but I would prefer them to just feel more confident in themselves and brave after talking to me, and do something about those heavy feelings they are carrying, find something cathartic to do with it or 'solve' them. Maybe I should look into motivational speaking, it's just tough to see people going round in circles with the same stuff over and over.
I love this video! It's exceptional
Yaaay!! These videos are amazing!!
omgggg thank youuu
Good morning, loved this video you are so darn passionate in this one in particular. Your awesome! When people are talking to me I want them to feel like wow she's really easy to talk to and has genuinely interesting things to say. So basically I want them to feel engaged and valued. 🥑🌻🐢
Passionate about that confidence yanno? Haha! Glad you enjoyed this video
This series has been amazing so far. I think people should feel they are interested in what I have to say and I’m engaging with them one on one. That top is a fabulous color on you btw. Have a great day Carrie.
You are so amazing...Thank you for this video
Love this channel 🥰 just found it!
I want people to feel comfortable with me & that I'm honest but in a loving helpful not brutal judgey way. I want them to feel uplifted from me & encouraged. ☺💫💕
I want people to see me and feel inspired and motivated . If someone sees me working hard and moving forward with my goals and studies, and thinks to themselves something like: "if she can do it, I can do it too", I'd be very happy, because, its not impossible to get where you want or need to be.
I want people to feel like I'm hearing them and that I am comfortable in their presence. I want them to feel listened to and at ease talking freely.
Such great tips, love this! ✨
I just want them to feel comfort with me, they should feel that I understand that I won't judge, that I can help and just listen to their story. I want them to feel calm. And if they want I won't even say a word, I want them to feel through my energy that everything is ok. And again thank so much for #SelfCareSummer you say really good and important things and I am sooo in love with everything. I just feel myself differ, super cool!
AMAZING love you carrie xx
Hi Sophie!! Sending you all the love right back xx
Happy, comfortable and connected :) xxx
Your video was really helpful, I really needed this!
Please keep up with the great work, you are amazing! 💕💕
Hi, Carrie, great video and very useful for me, indeed. As you started talking about taking care for oneself, I stopped the video and booked a dental hygiene appoitment that I'd been putting off for quite some time. Thank you! Keep it up and have a great day :)
When people talk to me I want them to feel cared for. When people open up to me and are vulnerable, I want them to know its okay and I will always be there to listen
Hi Carrie!!! Well, that’s a very interesting question because I’ve never thought about that. But I would like to be the type of person that when people talk to me they know I am really there to listen and to help that they can count on me for the best and the worst. Big kiss from Portugal 😘😘
Carrie, I actually do think you're a little weird. BUT that's one of the main reasons I watch your videos. All love!! :)
I want people to feel at peace and feel that wow this girl is so confident and so comfortable in her own skin, I want them to respect me and not walk all over me and view me as someone who is smart and can handle things in her life.
But ukw I have to view myself this way first
i really love this video ♡♡♡ really helpful Want more like this ♡♡♡♡♡
I really want them to feel comfortable and trusting. I hope that friends and family know that they can tell me anything and don't hold back. So, comfortable and trusting 😊❤
I want them to feel empowered.
I want them to feel inspired and at ease.
I want people to feel at ease and comfortable when they talk to me, regardless of how well I know them. Regardless of who they are or how well I know them, I want them to feel like they have a friend in me ♡
I want people to feel important and cared about. I want people to feel like they can lean on me and be themselves❤
Hi Carrie, love your self care summer. Would you be able to do a video on different relationships and how they affect us. Example with my family it is non existent and makes me feel like outsider. Love your videos, and I love your top it looks so fuzzy.
I want people to feel like they are next to a fire in a cold day. They would be present, radiated with joy and comfort.
8:22 yaaaaas 🙌
Such great information here :) I've always been super bad at public speaking but writing is one of my best qualities. So I started a blog but put off making videos for like.....8 years now? So I decided to finally just get started and do it anyways. It wasn't nearly as bad as I thought. (Thank you editing haha). But I would still love to learn how to do public speaking. I like the idea of it, but the thought terrifies me. I even took 3 speech classes when I was in college and they were epic fails haha
i want people to feel free of say whatever they are feeling or thinking, i want people to see me as a person who trust on
When people see me, or even glance in my direction, I want them to think I am a person who they can easily talk to
I want others to feel welcomed, amazing, appreciated, valued, and confident! I am a HS teacher ❤️
I love u Carrie and that u are weird and live your videos!!!!! I always enjoy your videos all the time
OMG you're adorable, speaking is your talent) i'd like to speak like that on the spot without these ughhs etc. with this self-dought. Thanks for your videos.