I think men should be helped financially by their wives. So they can retire early. Telling someone's daughter to stay at home is a burden to the man. And there are rich men who are financially abusive and reckless with their lives. If he is happy he will give you money if he is not then he will degrade you. It's better for the wife to work and keep the money as pocket money then. And even when the husband dies at least the wife has her own money. Because some inlaws are wicked they will take everything your husband bought.
Somebody's son can not even dream of saying i should resign because he met me working on a rig and he knows I love my job and profession just like he does his. We talked about it before we got married and my family told him too.
Hmmm… can we take a moment to talk about the death of a woman’s career when she unfortunately has a special needs child? Especially when the family relocates abroad and she has to become the primary caregiver? The husband works but lacks the motivation to earn more than the minimum wage, while the wife wants to go back to school so as to better her lot in life. Would sending the child that has special needs back home to family be a better option? Please Aunty Flo weigh in on this matter. Soon to be 40 year old and utterly lost. God bless you ma’am
Can he provide me with all these experiences like yours in this video? Will I not resent him if he doesn't meet all of my tastes, that might even change with time? Sometimes in life we also want to be able to accomplish some things by effort and not be gifted them. I think I would prefer blaming myself if I don't meet my desires than blaming another human being. Except I don't fancy my job, but for all these reasons I'll pleasantly say "No, thank you"....😅
Being financially independent should be a must for every woman. That is one of your many powers , can't rely on someone else's pockets for all your needs and desires.
@@anthonywilly8756 all the more important. Many women are stuck in bad marriages because they are financially dependent on the man who use money to abuse them. Every woman must have a handywork. MUST!!
@@anthonywilly8756What makes you think she's single? Did they use marriage to swear for you? I'm sure people like you don't even know what marriage means, otherwise you will support your wife's dreams
I cannot quit my job for no one. Like you said this should be discussed even before going into marriage. I don't care id hubby is rich..You are a super industrious woman Flo!❤
I’m newly married & working while my husband stays home to look after our infant son because we relocated abroad for my new job. I’m very much interested to see a video on the different conversations & topics that you & your husband discussed before you got married.
I love that you are facing your career and your dynamics works for you. Sometimes it’s hard and very difficult cos every family dynamics, situation etc is different and women have to step down and care for the kids for a little especially when they are younger. When this has to happen, the parent with the higher earning power, job in demand and experience takes the lead and as kids grow, the woman who decided to slow her own career can ease back into a full time career. While doing this, make sure you are retraining or getting some type of certifications as a boost for your come back.
We keep adapting as we live life. I've had to adapt a lot too. I used many nannies. Staying home is not always the only solution. And for someone like me that can't stay at home, I will always explore numerous other options first. The thing is that in addition to the Mum guilt we feel, if a bad partner adds to that with their bad mouth, we would be defeated. But a loving partner will be brainstorming with you to find another solution if you really do not want to stay home. My own Mum left us to go to school and my Dad took care of us while still working. This was in the 70s ooo. In a lot of cases, nobody needs to stay home. It's not written on stone that it is only women that can take care of children. Everybody needs to step up.
Flo, thanks you for the video. Please we want to know the different conversations you had before marriage. I love seeing you free to do your job as a petroleum engineer and yet enjoying your marriage and children. You're a true inspiration.
Our in-law is a supportive hubby so we know that this will never be an option for you. The fact that you are representing African women in this special field is a great honour. May God continue to bless you and always keep you safe.🙏🏾
I really consider you to be such a brave woman. You’re a true example of a Virtuous Woman! Keep doing you! All your efforts are definitely yielding fruit. And you’re blessed to have such good children who are not stressing you and your husband out! That alone makes it all worth it.
This is MASSIVE thank you for taking me to work with you adi'm blown away!!!! May GOD bless your hustles!!!!!! Am proud of you nne! Am sure your hubby do ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this video. It’s a source of inspiration and motivation for me. I travel 16 hours by plane ✈️ to work and return home after a few months.
Please ma,I will like to hear the discussion ooo Aunty, if you leave content creation, how do you want us to learn from you, especially people like us that dream big but with no support Pls don't leave us You don't know how happy I am watching all your videos By the way, I'm number 1 in the queue for the beach front house
Thanks you so much. I smiled from start to the end watching your work lifestyle. Your kids have grown. So inspiring and looks adventurous too. My favourite part of the vessel is the gym.
❤I zuru ezu na nwanyi. You are complete. This is just the kind of life I desired growing up and I was trained as an Electrical/Electronics engineer too. Well, I don't know. Maybe the convo I didn't have was a cause , or Nigeria happened. Keep representing, darling. I love you dearly.
I did miss you Aunty Flo. Super woman 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 It's 2:18 AM here in the U.K., right after the Hallelujah Challenge. I saw your notification and knew I had to check it out before heading to bed. That beach house has to become a reality, and I'm first in line! You inspire me so much, ma'am
So interesting watching this adventure. Please what's the name of your career and what course did you read to be doing this Job? I'm curious to know. Thank you
Wow! very inspiring. Thank God too for an understanding and supportive husband. This is what a good and happy marriage should be. Taking care of the home front and still accomplishing your career dreams makes you happy and the family happy too. BALANCE!
Nne, kedu maka taa? Yes I want to hear about the topics you and your husband discussed pre marriage. This is a great insightful video. Chukwu gozie gi na ha Jesu Kristi. Imela. Kachifo nu.
So Happy to See you Flo. Exciting to see the Flame is still there between you & your Hubby. I married My Delta Ibo husband when I was 20, we have been married for 34 years, the flame dun burn out ohhh. We Will be happy to see you in your Spanish Beachfront home. ❤ 🖤 💚👍🏼
You're such a spectacular person. Many other people with your experience, talent and opportunities would be so pretentious. Even me o! I learn a lot from you.
My husband and I love watching this video. He is just like you always traveling. It is not easy..Is your son now in University? I always thought he was close in age with my first daughter .
Awwww😅, this is truly an adventure, at 13:00, I so love the rest room fittings, so cute. The house keeping art of deco is on point 😊. Makes your journey a memorable one
You are very inspiring Flo. I looooove this video and I especially like what you said about one's job being certain of a salary for your time (sure banker) as against RUclips that may trickle in. Why did I think you were based in Canada? Thanks for showing us around. ❤
Ladies, what will you do if somebody's son tells you to quit your job?
I think men should be helped financially by their wives. So they can retire early. Telling someone's daughter to stay at home is a burden to the man. And there are rich men who are financially abusive and reckless with their lives. If he is happy he will give you money if he is not then he will degrade you. It's better for the wife to work and keep the money as pocket money then. And even when the husband dies at least the wife has her own money. Because some inlaws are wicked they will take everything your husband bought.
Somebody's son can not even dream of saying i should resign because he met me working on a rig and he knows I love my job and profession just like he does his.
We talked about it before we got married and my family told him too.
Hmmm… can we take a moment to talk about the death of a woman’s career when she unfortunately has a special needs child? Especially when the family relocates abroad and she has to become the primary caregiver? The husband works but lacks the motivation to earn more than the minimum wage, while the wife wants to go back to school so as to better her lot in life. Would sending the child that has special needs back home to family be a better option? Please Aunty Flo weigh in on this matter. Soon to be 40 year old and utterly lost. God bless you ma’am
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can't quit....
Can he provide me with all these experiences like yours in this video? Will I not resent him if he doesn't meet all of my tastes, that might even change with time?
Sometimes in life we also want to be able to accomplish some things by effort and not be gifted them.
I think I would prefer blaming myself if I don't meet my desires than blaming another human being.
Except I don't fancy my job, but for all these reasons I'll pleasantly say "No, thank you"....😅
Being financially independent should be a must for every woman. That is one of your many powers , can't rely on someone else's pockets for all your needs and desires.
Remember we are talking from the prospect of Marriage. Not as a single lady.
@@anthonywilly8756 all the more important. Many women are stuck in bad marriages because they are financially dependent on the man who use money to abuse them. Every woman must have a handywork. MUST!!
Very very true oh!
@@anthonywilly8756What makes you think she's single? Did they use marriage to swear for you? I'm sure people like you don't even know what marriage means, otherwise you will support your wife's dreams
I gree.
I cannot quit my job for no one. Like you said this should be discussed even before going into marriage. I don't care id hubby is rich..You are a super industrious woman Flo!❤
I’m newly married & working while my husband stays home to look after our infant son because we relocated abroad for my new job. I’m very much interested to see a video on the different conversations & topics that you & your husband discussed before you got married.
@@itzfonzx3719 keep up with the team work. 🙌
Sis Chi please don't quit o, you are an inspiration to upcoming girls who want to be like you
I affirm and claim the beach front property along with you, this is also my dream for my retirement by next year IJN, Amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾
I love that you are facing your career and your dynamics works for you. Sometimes it’s hard and very difficult cos every family dynamics, situation etc is different and women have to step down and care for the kids for a little especially when they are younger. When this has to happen, the parent with the higher earning power, job in demand and experience takes the lead and as kids grow, the woman who decided to slow her own career can ease back into a full time career. While doing this, make sure you are retraining or getting some type of certifications as a boost for your come back.
We keep adapting as we live life. I've had to adapt a lot too. I used many nannies. Staying home is not always the only solution. And for someone like me that can't stay at home, I will always explore numerous other options first. The thing is that in addition to the Mum guilt we feel, if a bad partner adds to that with their bad mouth, we would be defeated. But a loving partner will be brainstorming with you to find another solution if you really do not want to stay home.
My own Mum left us to go to school and my Dad took care of us while still working. This was in the 70s ooo. In a lot of cases, nobody needs to stay home. It's not written on stone that it is only women that can take care of children. Everybody needs to step up.
May the Lord go with you and comfort your family in your absence. You are one tough lady in your chosen career.
I like Flo, because you're so real. That's a rare gem we rarely find around on the Internet
Flo, thanks you for the video. Please we want to know the different conversations you had before marriage. I love seeing you free to do your job as a petroleum engineer and yet enjoying your marriage and children. You're a true inspiration.
Thank you! ❤❤❤ We have uploaded some of those videos. You've probably seen them.
Our in-law is a supportive hubby so we know that this will never be an option for you. The fact that you are representing African women in this special field is a great honour. May God continue to bless you and always keep you safe.🙏🏾
Amen, thank you!
Flo, that North sea is really dangerous. May the Lord keep you safe in Jesus name. Amen.
Amen!
Nene is so grown.
She is so pretty
I am here in line for the beach house vacation 😂. Please no one should argue with me. The line starts here and every other person is behind me 😂😂😂❤❤
Wow! Ada Igbo! So proud of you. Welcome! ❤
I really consider you to be such a brave woman. You’re a true example of a Virtuous Woman! Keep doing you! All your efforts are definitely yielding fruit. And you’re blessed to have such good children who are not stressing you and your husband out! That alone makes it all worth it.
The kids are all grownup. I really wanted to see Kam Kam’s face. You are so freaking hardworking. You inspire me.
Thank you ❤❤❤ Kam Kam showed face in this one👇
ruclips.net/video/oIAgUT31FOQ/видео.html
Please share the conversations you had before marriage. There will be a lot to learn.
Great to know what are entails in those conversations
Thanks for sharing the clip of the Vessel.I am reminiscing on my years Offshore ,many years ago.❤❤❤❤Love it.
This is MASSIVE thank you for taking me to work with you adi'm blown away!!!! May GOD bless your hustles!!!!!! Am proud of you nne!
Am sure your hubby do ❤❤❤
Thank you. ❤
You're so industrious, fearless and strong ❤❤❤
It is so nice to have you back FLO, you were missed
Thank you so much for this video. It’s a source of inspiration and motivation for me. I travel 16 hours by plane ✈️ to work and return home after a few months.
Your job is really an adventure! Welcome back madam Flo!
Please ma,I will like to hear the discussion ooo
Aunty, if you leave content creation, how do you want us to learn from you, especially people like us that dream big but with no support
Pls don't leave us
You don't know how happy I am watching all your videos
By the way, I'm number 1 in the queue for the beach front house
Aww Vickie. I also enjoy hanging out with my people here. I will try. 🙏❤
Thanks you so much. I smiled from start to the end watching your work lifestyle. Your kids have grown. So inspiring and looks adventurous too. My favourite part of the vessel is the gym.
Thought Flo left RUclips haven't seen her channel in a long time!!❤🙏🌍.
I always love your Offshore videos. You are indeed motivating other women to be hardworking.
It’s good to see you again aunty ❤ hardworking woman, I admire you Nne
I realy missed your lovely videos, was watching the old ones, so glad you made this video. 🥰🥰
I love you so much. You've really inspired me a lot. ❤❤
Stay safe. 🙏🏽
Well Done Flo Chi, your Daughter's hair is beautiful.
Sis Flo,You are simply amazing. You're an inspiration to women. Keep doing the good work.
May the Lord preserve you Aunt Flo❤❤
❤I zuru ezu na nwanyi. You are complete. This is just the kind of life I desired growing up and I was trained as an Electrical/Electronics engineer too. Well, I don't know. Maybe the convo I didn't have was a cause , or Nigeria happened.
Keep representing, darling.
I love you dearly.
❤❤❤
Wow! Thank you for taking us on a tour inside the vessel. I enjoyed every bit of it. May God keep and preserve you as you're there.
Amen! Thanks Udy.
Very Very interesting content. Pushing the boundaries of women at work. Thanks.
I did miss you Aunty Flo.
Super woman 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
It's 2:18 AM here in the U.K., right after the Hallelujah Challenge. I saw your notification and knew I had to check it out before heading to bed. That beach house has to become a reality, and I'm first in line! You inspire me so much, ma'am
Aww Ifeoma. ❤😘
Wow this is so amazing and so lovely sister ❤️
Well-done super woman . God will continue to protect and uplift you in Jesus name.
You're a hard working woman. May Almighty God continue to bless and keep your family ! Blessings Always !
Amen, thank you. ❤
I always enjoy your offshore videos. I admire your job and your work ethics. I'm interested in that convo between you and hubby before marriage.😂
Thanks for the exposure
Please Share your pre-marital discussions with hubby. I’ve been married 18 years but always open to learning.
Awe Welcome back!!! No time to watch the video in entirety yet but so happy to see this Flo C post pop up!!!!!u were surely missed!!!!
Good to see you again, have a safe trip.
Your best video to date. Nice contrast between home and work.
Aunty Flo!!!! Is good to see you after awhile!!! I am here pressing the Calculator with you... At the beach house
Please follow me press o. 😅😂
So interesting watching this adventure.
Please what's the name of your career and what course did you read to be doing this Job?
I'm curious to know. Thank you
Flo nwaanyị oma🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 welcome back. Please make a video about important conversations to have before marriage.
Aunty Flo welcome back! Yes we would love to hear that conversation, some of us can learn from it.
Namesake i like the one you said ""if somebody's son tells you that you won't work na divorce straight "".
Wow this is like a movie, I so much enjoyed it
Good job Engr Flo! Biko if vacancy for instrumentation and control system, I am readily available. Nwa nne di n'mba. Remain blessed.
I enjoyed it! You are doing well ma and inspiring ❤
Wow! very inspiring. Thank God too for an understanding and supportive husband. This is what a good and happy marriage should be. Taking care of the home front and still accomplishing your career dreams makes you happy and the family happy too. BALANCE!
You are such an inspiration to us women thank you so much ❤❤
Great job. Keep up the good work👍🏽
really enjoy this vlog..
Thankyou for the glimpse into offshore living.
Nne, kedu maka taa? Yes I want to hear about the topics you and your husband discussed pre marriage. This is a great insightful video. Chukwu gozie gi na ha Jesu Kristi. Imela. Kachifo nu.
Gozikwaa gi. Daalu.
Welcome back Ma❤, is not easy ooh well done. I can't wait to hear the conversation 😂😂
Amazing. You look extremely tired thou. Take care of your health.
I missed you Mama Flo, I'm happy to see your vlog your content is always interesting and brings joy❤
Well done Aunty Flo. I definitely want to hear what you and your husband discussed before marriage. Very important.
So lovely and speechless, thank you for sharing.
I love you madam. This is what I’ve been praying for. career fulfillment and independence. I love what you do. Gods protection over you and yours
Glad to have you back ❤️❤️❤️❤️. Totally enjoyed the video. And yes would like to hear the conversations 😊
So Happy to See you Flo. Exciting to see the Flame is still there between you & your Hubby.
I married My Delta Ibo husband when I was 20, we have been married for 34 years, the flame dun burn out ohhh.
We Will be happy to see you in your Spanish Beachfront home.
❤ 🖤 💚👍🏼
This was really beautiful to watch!!
Than you for sharing this
Very informative video.
Helloo Flo❤❤❤❤❤ missed you mainly because you make me laugh so much! I love your videos!!! ❤❤❤❤
I am there already Flo nwanyioma. God is your strength ❤
I love your job ma, and the fact that you are a woman doing the job, I have a male friend that does this type of job
Is she a petroleum engineer?
I am so inspired.. Thank you. We, your online in-laws, will never allow such division to happen😊
You're a huge source of inspiration to me aunty Flo, God bless you abundantly
You're such a spectacular person. Many other people with your experience, talent and opportunities would be so pretentious. Even me o! I learn a lot from you.
Pretentious for what kwanu? Earthly achievements that can end in a twinkle of an eye? That's at best delusional. 😂
I love when you make videos like this; I love it when you are out in the ocean.
❤❤❤
Nne please we need more of this videos from north see please.
My husband and I love watching this video. He is just like you always traveling. It is not easy..Is your son now in University? I always thought he was close in age with my first daughter .
🎉 fabulous sister Flo Chi you are living the best life
Enjoy your lovely work , looks like an adventure 😍👍👍
It is! Thank you.
@@FloChinyere Thank you sister 🥰 for inspiring us all
Always love your work videos. It's an adventure indeed. 🎉
Flo baby, you are sacrificing so much, you will definitely reap so much more 🙏. Journey mercies.
Amen! Thank you. ❤
God bless my sister for creating this video for many married women to see and learn from you I believe it wll help alot of women outside their
OMG, the babies are so big now. She's so pretty.
It's good to see you again. Interesting video too. Wish you more strength to own that beach house ❤
You're beautiful inside out. God's blessings from Ireland. First time commenting, but i have been following for years.
Flo your work life is interesting..welldone
I don dey queue since o. Our hair is representing ❤❤.
hehehe This hair na me and am. Ma ọchọlụ ya ma ọchọrọ ya. 😂 A na m amụ ya ka akwụkwọ. Daalụ.
Enjoy your career and your life, my sister ❤️ Onye ube ruru, olachaaa!
Welcome back aunty Flo, we have missed you o. Thanks for sharing words of wisdom. 💖💖🙏🏾
Awwww😅, this is truly an adventure, at 13:00, I so love the rest room fittings, so cute. The house keeping art of deco is on point 😊. Makes your journey a memorable one
Yes o.
I am interested in that conversation.
I want to hear the conversations you both had Aunt Flo❤
Interesting to watch! Keep doing you ma
Yes oooooooo madam GLO 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 welcome back o
Good morning, Aunty Flo. I have not even watched halfway, and I love the video already. Thank you.
Good evening sister Florence: nice to hear you came to our country🇳🇴:
Bergen and Kristensund: are both nice place❤️👍🏾
You are very inspiring Flo. I looooove this video and I especially like what you said about one's job being certain of a salary for your time (sure banker) as against RUclips that may trickle in. Why did I think you were based in Canada? Thanks for showing us around. ❤
Good morning Flo, well done 👍
I love ❤️ your energy.
The Lord is your strength
Hi Flo, i love your vlog. Looking forward to hearing what you discussed with hubby b4 marriage
Well done, in the queue to visit o, God will daily strengthen you