Yes all young woman should aspire to be so desperate they take back a cheater and be glued and obsessed with said cheater all while hes a junky 💀💀💀💀 girls do NOT be a Ashley! Try loving YOURSELF first. Something this chick clearly has never felt. Its giving desperate for life vibes.
This is one of those relationships where she’s not just staying because he’s her baby daddy. She genuinely loves him and wants to see him grow. It’s a beautiful thing if he’s open to it and recognizes that growing and setting goals is an important part of life. There’s real love here so I’m wishing them much success.
Yeah of course another Black girl being the “ride or die chick” while dealing with an abusive felon. I hate her lack of self esteem. This relationship is dangerous and shouldn’t be glamorized on TV. There’s no way he doesn’t pop her still. They hit you once they ALWAYS do it again.
Ashley just wanted him to grow and mature for her. And to actually see Bar transform into a better man is so beautiful 🧡 you can tell they’re connected on a deeper level and didn’t want to give up on that soul connection ❣️
I understand Ashley as a black woman it's hard to be vulnerable and feel protected because we have to be there for EVERYONE and nobody else takes care of us!
I hate when someone wants passion for someone else. Bar going to work, coming home, cooking dinner and running a bath might be what he is passionate about; providing for his family and being stable. His passion doesn’t have to be this big thing, it could be a normalcy thing. Passion don’t look the same on everyone.
Thank you for saying this because I’m not really passionate about big things and sometimes I look at myself and wonder if there’s something wrong with me. Like I see people going to school because they want to be something and I’m still trying to figure it out at 24
💯 you can be happy af and just be a simple person - our generation has been brainwashed to think being aspirational is the only positive state to be in …
Ashley and Bar make a beautiful couple. I’m rooting for them. The way Ashley also walked off stage to not be involved with the negativity, when they we’re talking about Kail was classy AF.
“He’s not the person I need to protect myself against”. Such true words. Been with my husband ten years (married for 4.5). Watched my mom make bad choices in men and then it was toxic. I thought toxicity and heavy heated arguments were the only way to communicate during a disagreement. What Ashley said speaks volumes! It’s so so true. I cried and I’m not the biggest Ashley fan. This 6 min video really showed her growth And made me realize I don’t care for the old Ashley but the new, married Ashley is evolving beautifully
The way he slowly get closer and closer to her on the couch, especially when she’s emotional, regardless of them trying to be spaced apart due to Covid, just shows the love and bond their relationship has. 🥰
Very true but she wasn’t saying it in a negative way I just feel like she wants him to have something to look forward to other than the family like his own thing something that makes him happy maybe like a hobby or a sport or a game.
She’s got a stable man if he’s going to work, cooking, & tending to her. Not all men are like that. A lot of men aren’t. Maybe that’s what Bar is passionate about at the moment. He doesn’t have to have some big goal for the future. Maybe what truly fulfills him at the moment is just being stable and happy with a women
Wow, I’m impressed by how she articulated this … I hope she knows that maybe he’s passionate about his family and that’s just as beautiful as any other passion!! ❤️
Not everyone needs the “passion,” to do more with their life. Having a stable career, relationships, etc. is in itself a success. Being content with what you have in life is a success. You can be passionate about something that is not related to financial gain.
Yesss agreed like her alot she may have started off young and pregnant but she down to earth she works has a regular house /car ..Throw Holly a normal birthday party. She has Holly all the time and I love how she speaks her mind is not scared of anyone . Love her
@@michellebaumgarner2396 I think that her husband need to file for divorce that's what he needed to do was focus on himself and his daughter but the same time Ashley is not ready to be married she not rarity she keep pushing him away and that's not cool and I hope they can be co-parenting with their daughter that's all I was saying
@@michellebaumgarner2396 but at the same time I wish her husband the best of luck I hope things will work out between them too I just don't want them to break up I know they going through hard times but relationship is not that perfect Ashley is a beautiful woman and she need to stop entertainment with him because all you want to do is trying to hurt her she need to find somewhere else and you know stuff like that so I hope her daughter stay safe and the rest of the family bar is going to do better this time
I totally understand where Ashley is coming from my husband is the same way as Bar kinda just floating through life with out passion .. and I’m trying to ignite a fire in him with out pressuring him at the same time 😕
Some people are just simple people and want simple things. I’m totally like bar. I don’t have a big passion. I just want to be a good mom and enjoy family time.
I’m ssoooooooo happy for these two!!!!!! They actually putting in that work for their marriage and family! I’m also super proud of Ashley! Her mental and emotional growth is beautiful to watch.
I know she wants Bar to be passionate about something because I used to be that same way with my boyfriend. but I came to the realization that what he wants is just to go to work, and make a stable normal income and come home to me and chill. Nothing big at all! Not everyone needs to be passionate about something!! I feel like now a day everybody wants to be famous and make big coin but in reality some people just want to live normal comfortable lives.
I have no idea who she is abs haven’t watched teen mom stuff in years but I felt the need to click on this video. So proud of her for her awareness, honestly, and vulnerability. Imagine if all of us humans reflected like she has, how would the world and humanity shift?
I really love the authenticity of Ashley and how she's beautiful literally inside and out so intelligent a great mom really smart really something special I love this girl my favorite Teen Mom right now
It's best to vent to a professional about everything... sometimes family don't give you advice without trying to atleast work it out first sometimes they go straight to break up. Therapy individually & together helps.
I’ve known Ashley since she was a little girl. Her paternal grandmother and my mom are close friends. Ashley has come a long way! I’m happy to see her growth and emotional maturity. I pray this young couple continues on a positive path 🙏🏾
I think she’s like a lot of us women. We want something but this person doesn’t have it and have a hard time accepting they just probably will never have it. He might be a simple guy and she might be somebody with intense passions and wanderlust….and she just gotta find somebody at her level. And he find somebody at his. We can’t force anybody to be anything they’re not. Took a LONG time for me to understand
I love Ashley and Bar I hope to see so much from them in the future! I hope they highlight more of there positive next season because I love seeing them
It’s bittersweet. I realise, life may just be about developing and choosing to share that experience with someone else. Yet, such experiences may also be designed to reach an inevitable change or end (sometimes) in order for either person to grow into the person they want to be. It feels sad but also encourages me to make the most out of the moment, so long as we both choose to be with each other.
I'm not an Ashley and bar fan, but I try to comment on all videos of them because I'm really proud of them for working out their relationship just being mature through all of it.. I hope that bar gets his stuff together and continues down the right path, I think that he and Ashley will be just fine
Ashley I hope this is the real you. I wasn't sure you had what it takes to grow but you sounded so mature when you talked about what you were doing that tore Bar down. I am impressed and hope that you will continue to grow. Best of luck.
@@rachelrabb He smokes weed lol that could be why. Ik many ppl who smoke a lot leads them to weight loss. BUTTT it could be the stress from his mom being sick. Probably taking a toll on him
I know it makes me really uncomfortable that they act like that wasn’t happening and she’s all buddy buddy with his family especially after she alleged that when she spoke to his mother to let her know her son was abusive his mom told her to take off her clothes and suck his d when he gets like that. There’s something very wrong in that family and you can tell by the way his mom acts with him that something is off.
@@Yezel93 I don’t know if you watch the show regularly but most couples on it have dealt with drug issues that’s kind of what they look for because they want to profit off of other people struggles and he does have a prior drug charge. The teen mom producers love catching drug addicts at their lowest for ratings.
I didn’t really like Ashley in the beginning off maybe judgement from her attitude but watching her more and understanding her she is a really good person and I wish her nothing but the best.
I actually really started to like these 2 on the family vacation. There is genuine love between this couple and i wish them all the best all marriages have bumps u can get thru the bad patch if their is love on both sides
My boyfriend has Bars same bday and year and communication is our area of work as well. He felt seen seeing Bar in his nature on tv. Understood . It’s a journey/process for sure
At first before I knew about ashley and Bar and only went based off what I seen on youtube I was like ugh i don't like them. But I've been watching them since she has came on TM and i absolutely like her the best.
I like that they were able to fix things instead of having another bbymama/ddy around.. Not saying its not ok but its nice to be able to fix a relationship with the first babydad/mom
I get what Ashely is saying, Bar looks a bit dead, like his soul n energy is just on low vibrations, you can see through his eyes, like he is not excited about anything in life, a person like that can be draining... That's what she wants for him to be excited even about life or taking a walk, thts the passion she's speaking of 🤷🏽♀️
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Ashley is soooooo inspiring the way she carries herself, reflects on herself, and just the way she goes about things at her age.
💯
Yes all young woman should aspire to be so desperate they take back a cheater and be glued and obsessed with said cheater all while hes a junky 💀💀💀💀 girls do NOT be a Ashley! Try loving YOURSELF first. Something this chick clearly has never felt. Its giving desperate for life vibes.
Did you see her fighting with the other girls ta the reunion? She is trash
This is one of those relationships where she’s not just staying because he’s her baby daddy. She genuinely loves him and wants to see him grow. It’s a beautiful thing if he’s open to it and recognizes that growing and setting goals is an important part of life. There’s real love here so I’m wishing them much success.
What love? The cheating? The drug use? Shes just obsessed with her baby daddy and staying not matter how much he embarrasses her. Its desperate.
Bar is very fortunate to have Ashley.
She's extremely mature for her age and seems very driven and independent.
Yeah of course another Black girl being the “ride or die chick” while dealing with an abusive felon. I hate her lack of self esteem. This relationship is dangerous and shouldn’t be glamorized on TV. There’s no way he doesn’t pop her still. They hit you once they ALWAYS do it again.
Ashley just wanted him to grow and mature for her. And to actually see Bar transform into a better man is so beautiful 🧡 you can tell they’re connected on a deeper level and didn’t want to give up on that soul connection ❣️
He needs a J O B!!!!!!! why some real money.
I understand Ashley as a black woman it's hard to be vulnerable and feel protected because we have to be there for EVERYONE and nobody else takes care of us!
I hate when someone wants passion for someone else. Bar going to work, coming home, cooking dinner and running a bath might be what he is passionate about; providing for his family and being stable. His passion doesn’t have to be this big thing, it could be a normalcy thing. Passion don’t look the same on everyone.
Thank you for saying this because I’m not really passionate about big things and sometimes I look at myself and wonder if there’s something wrong with me. Like I see people going to school because they want to be something and I’m still trying to figure it out at 24
I totally agree!!
💯 you can be happy af and just be a simple person - our generation has been brainwashed to think being aspirational is the only positive state to be in …
I fucking love your comment !!
Exactly, I'm a stay at home mom and I love taking care of the house , kids and my husband. Is that wrong? NO!
Ashley and Bar make a beautiful couple. I’m rooting for them. The way Ashley also walked off stage to not be involved with the negativity, when they we’re talking about Kail was classy AF.
“He’s not the person I need to protect myself against”. Such true words. Been with my husband ten years (married for 4.5). Watched my mom make bad choices in men and then it was toxic. I thought toxicity and heavy heated arguments were the only way to communicate during a disagreement. What Ashley said speaks volumes! It’s so so true. I cried and I’m not the biggest Ashley fan. This 6 min video really showed her growth And made me realize I don’t care for the old Ashley but the new, married Ashley is evolving beautifully
The way he slowly get closer and closer to her on the couch, especially when she’s emotional, regardless of them trying to be spaced apart due to Covid, just shows the love and bond their relationship has. 🥰
I love Ashley so much, so much growth,she's so articulate, they're both passionate and I'm happy to see them healing together.
Ashley needs to realize his family is his passion. His daughter and her is his passion.
Girl, maybe his passion is going to work and making sure his family is good. Not everyone has to have a crazy dream or goal.
this is well perfectly said!
yes!!!!
She might know something that we don't that's why she said what she said.
@@terynb4407 That's a valid point!
Very true but she wasn’t saying it in a negative way I just feel like she wants him to have something to look forward to other than the family like his own thing something that makes him happy maybe like a hobby or a sport or a game.
She’s got a stable man if he’s going to work, cooking, & tending to her. Not all men are like that. A lot of men aren’t. Maybe that’s what Bar is passionate about at the moment. He doesn’t have to have some big goal for the future. Maybe what truly fulfills him at the moment is just being stable and happy with a women
Ashley and Bar have definitely come a long way. They were able to get better for themselves and for each other. Rooting for them!
I love how mature Ashley is overall. She’s really done the work and it shows. Many blessings to her and her family. ❤️
I love these two together. I wish the utmost best for their family!
Wow, I’m impressed by how she articulated this … I hope she knows that maybe he’s passionate about his family and that’s just as beautiful as any other passion!! ❤️
Not everyone needs the “passion,” to do more with their life. Having a stable career, relationships, etc. is in itself a success. Being content with what you have in life is a success. You can be passionate about something that is not related to financial gain.
Ashley is a queen and deserves the world
Yesss agreed like her alot she may have started off young and pregnant but she down to earth she works has a regular house /car ..Throw Holly a normal birthday party. She has Holly all the time and I love how she speaks her mind is not scared of anyone . Love her
@@michellebaumgarner2396 I think that her husband need to file for divorce that's what he needed to do was focus on himself and his daughter but the same time Ashley is not ready to be married she not rarity she keep pushing him away and that's not cool and I hope they can be co-parenting with their daughter that's all I was saying
@@dashawnalong6144 I didn't think of this I so agree with you.
@@michellebaumgarner2396 but at the same time I wish her husband the best of luck I hope things will work out between them too I just don't want them to break up I know they going through hard times but relationship is not that perfect Ashley is a beautiful woman and she need to stop entertainment with him because all you want to do is trying to hurt her she need to find somewhere else and you know stuff like that so I hope her daughter stay safe and the rest of the family bar is going to do better this time
@@dashawnalong6144 so agree with you 💯❤ I think they both could use therapist. I love them both and Holly beautiful family Holly is sweet girl
I totally understand where Ashley is coming from my husband is the same way as Bar kinda just floating through life with out passion .. and I’m trying to ignite a fire in him with out pressuring him at the same time 😕
Trust me , let him enjoy life.
Some people are just simple people and want simple things. I’m totally like bar. I don’t have a big passion. I just want to be a good mom and enjoy family time.
@@chrissywilsonn I understand what you mean. I think we make too big of a deal out of “passion” when people just enjoy being and living.
Find a new husband
Ashley is the most relatable to me on the show
I’m ssoooooooo happy for these two!!!!!! They actually putting in that work for their marriage and family! I’m also super proud of Ashley! Her mental and emotional growth is beautiful to watch.
I was once told if you don’t heal your wounds, you’ll bleed on those who didn’t cut you. It sounds like Ashley is there.
The growth and development and maturity is so refreshing to see Ashley is such a beautiful person she always loved bar and just wanted more from him
I honestly really enjoy ashley so much. She’s grown a lot
I know she wants Bar to be passionate about something because I used to be that same way with my boyfriend. but I came to the realization that what he wants is just to go to work, and make a stable normal income and come home to me and chill. Nothing big at all! Not everyone needs to be passionate about something!! I feel like now a day everybody wants to be famous and make big coin but in reality some people just want to live normal comfortable lives.
Ashley doesn't understand how it's difficult for black men in society they're comfortable with feeling safe.
I'm learning that now with my boyfriend ☺️
@@kthename08 I wish y’all the best!
they really have great self awareness and it’s really amazing to see
I am very proud of you Ashley. You are growing up. 💛
I have no idea who she is abs haven’t watched teen mom stuff in years but I felt the need to click on this video. So proud of her for her awareness, honestly, and vulnerability. Imagine if all of us humans reflected like she has, how would the world and humanity shift?
Ashley spoke so well. So proud of her 🤞🏼🧡
Ashley & Bar have GROWN so much 👏
THAT IS WHAT YOU CALL GROWTH!!
I really love the authenticity of Ashley and how she's beautiful literally inside and out so intelligent a great mom really smart really something special I love this girl my favorite Teen Mom right now
You go Ashley black girl magic everywhere, love her.
Nah I’m proud of these two! I really hope they have a long, successful and happy marriage
It's best to vent to a professional about everything... sometimes family don't give you advice without trying to atleast work it out first sometimes they go straight to break up. Therapy individually & together helps.
His passion is her! His family
Some peoples passion is their family…and that’s just fine.
I’ve known Ashley since she was a little girl. Her paternal grandmother and my mom are close friends. Ashley has come a long way! I’m happy to see her growth and emotional maturity. I pray this young couple continues on a positive path 🙏🏾
Lies
@@CocoaPuff01 grow up
@@babeitst you grow up
I think she’s like a lot of us women. We want something but this person doesn’t have it and have a hard time accepting they just probably will never have it. He might be a simple guy and she might be somebody with intense passions and wanderlust….and she just gotta find somebody at her level. And he find somebody at his. We can’t force anybody to be anything they’re not. Took a LONG time for me to understand
I love Ashley and Bar I hope to see so much from them in the future! I hope they highlight more of there positive next season because I love seeing them
To see their growth is beautiful and inspiring 😭❤️
Bar be so happy with Ashley
People who stick it out through good and bad deserve their transformation and love❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
It’s bittersweet. I realise, life may just be about developing and choosing to share that experience with someone else. Yet, such experiences may also be designed to reach an inevitable change or end (sometimes) in order for either person to grow into the person they want to be. It feels sad but also encourages me to make the most out of the moment, so long as we both choose to be with each other.
I'm not an Ashley and bar fan, but I try to comment on all videos of them because I'm really proud of them for working out their relationship just being mature through all of it.. I hope that bar gets his stuff together and continues down the right path, I think that he and Ashley will be just fine
I AM ASHLEY.. ASHLEY IS ME.. I’m bossy with my other half and that’s just because I love him and want him to win.
Happy for them wish these comments were more uplifting lol
Ashley I hope this is the real you. I wasn't sure you had what it takes to grow but you sounded so mature when you talked about what you were doing that tore Bar down. I am impressed and hope that you will continue to grow. Best of luck.
Aww seems like they’re on the right track. Ashley is such a beautiful girl
I Iove Ashley!!! So graceful and beautiful. Truly a great mother❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Ashley is such a wise young woman. Self awareness will change your life people 🙌🏾
i love how mature they’ve become so beautiful to see ♥️♥️ i hope they really work it out!
Ashley is beautiful - inside and out 🥺 She's an amazing wife, and Mother 💓 She's very self aware!
Hmm I’m not buying it. I think it’s weird that people ignore the DV arrests and stan them 💔
Yep
Also looks like bar is on drugs right now he looks unhealthy
@@rachelrabb He smokes weed lol that could be why. Ik many ppl who smoke a lot leads them to weight loss. BUTTT it could be the stress from his mom being sick. Probably taking a toll on him
I know it makes me really uncomfortable that they act like that wasn’t happening and she’s all buddy buddy with his family especially after she alleged that when she spoke to his mother to let her know her son was abusive his mom told her to take off her clothes and suck his d when he gets like that. There’s something very wrong in that family and you can tell by the way his mom acts with him that something is off.
This is so amazing to see! I'm rooting for them& thier family 💞✨
Proud of their progress so far 🙏🏼
Does anyone else think bar looks unhealthy here? Skinny and malnourished? He looks like he's using or has medical issues
Maybe depression or stress.
Yup
Because drug users look malnourished after using g drugs. That's why.
Did you see the before and after of Sean? And them speaking about supporting each other
@@Yezel93 I don’t know if you watch the show regularly but most couples on it have dealt with drug issues that’s kind of what they look for because they want to profit off of other people struggles and he does have a prior drug charge. The teen mom producers love catching drug addicts at their lowest for ratings.
Ashley has always been my favorite 😍
I didn’t really like Ashley in the beginning off maybe judgement from her attitude but watching her more and understanding her she is a really good person and I wish her nothing but the best.
I actually really started to like these 2 on the family vacation. There is genuine love between this couple and i wish them all the best all marriages have bumps u can get thru the bad patch if their is love on both sides
Chey and Zach were my fav but now it’s Ashley and Bar bc literally I’ve been through the same with her with my guy and she’s truly inspiring 💕💕
Ugh i love her response.. Acknowledging her defense mechanisms werent ok
i’m loving Ashley’s outfit!!
Dr. Drew mad af he can’t make Ashley look bad. He was trying from every angle.
My boyfriend has Bars same bday and year and communication is our area of work as well. He felt seen seeing Bar in his nature on tv. Understood . It’s a journey/process for sure
I know Ashley is an Aries but is bars an pisces cuz Aries and pisces will never work it's very TOXIC..
Ashly you are very wise for your age the way you think about the whole situation.
At first before I knew about ashley and Bar and only went based off what I seen on youtube I was like ugh i don't like them. But I've been watching them since she has came on TM and i absolutely like her the best.
God Ashley is so pretty when she cry’s you can’t tell lol
You guys are my favorite celebrity couples.❤💜
They are both trying to put the effort into their marriage. & I love that for them. Marriage is not easy but they are willing to work through it.
I love them together!! Ughhh I’m so happy they fixed what they needed and work out their problems definitely not easy
Glad to see this growth in both of you. Wish you both the best as you journey through life together. We hope Bar is ok health wise.
bar please start working out and drinking protein shakes 🥺
🙏 please
I feel like they didn't have an issue. Their segment had nothing going on so they tried to act like they were going to separate.
I love Ashley! real raw marriage aint easy! stay foreverrrrrr
The devil really was trying hard to destroy their marriage, but by the grace of God it looks like they’re doing a lot better!!!❤️
True 🙏🏽
NOT A SINGLE TEAR.
I like that they were able to fix things instead of having another bbymama/ddy around.. Not saying its not ok but its nice to be able to fix a relationship with the first babydad/mom
I love how grown ash is
im glad they are back together!!!!
Ashley cries but doesn’t cry at the same time lol
I get what Ashely is saying, Bar looks a bit dead, like his soul n energy is just on low vibrations, you can see through his eyes, like he is not excited about anything in life, a person like that can be draining... That's what she wants for him to be excited even about life or taking a walk, thts the passion she's speaking of 🤷🏽♀️
She chastised him so quickly but when it's time to embrace him love she staggers Damm Ashley give him a fuckin hug and kiss
I love, Ashley and Bar 😘❤💯 Congrats to them 💓 Ashley is so beautiful
Growth 🥰🙏🏾
He cook and runs the bath for you after work? Baby girl YOU ARE his PASSION.
Marriage is alot of hard work
They live where I currently live right now. Does anybody know where I can catch with all these episodes and seasons for free???
She's the most mature team mom on this season
Aww Ashley and Bar. 💕
I love Ashley n Bar ❣️ Happy for them 💙
Bar looks so run down...
Ashley is so beautiful
Iam happy for them they have gone through so much wish them the best
He’s like a handsome beetlejuice
Keep putting in the work💚
Not one tear came out lol
Y they still have nessa as host? Where dr drew.
I am so Happy for you both ❤
Now why would y’all use this pic of Ashley? 🤨