These women are just trying to keep there family together, some of these men might change, but some will just keep going back.poor children there the ones that suffer mist.🤧
You've done something wrong as a mother, partner, and person when you say, "It's his 3rd time in prison since our child was born, but family is family." Umm, NO.
Agree, EVERYONE makes mistakes! But when you CONTINUE & CONSTANTLY make the same ones it’s NO longer a mistake it becomes HABITUAL. I thought you’re supposed to THINK about what you’ve done and NOT to make the same choices that put you in there in the first place. I just hope some of these women realize that and PUT THEIR CHILDREN FIRST!!
At least they could stop having kids if they wanted to stay in this relationship. It’s not fair to bring more kids into this situation, I have to agree with you on that.
This is probably going to sound very simple and shallow but if the men keep going in and out of prison, why keep having kids with them?! If it hurt you before kids then why would you voluntarily inflict that on a child. It just makes no sense to me.
No. Esp remain faithful? No. But there are women who remain faithful to pen pals from prison. Like someone they never met on the outside, but just became a pen pal of. They will put money on their books, visit, and be faithful to someone who has murdered people. There is a strange obsession some women have over serial killers, esp.
I'm not judging you. Please get your son some counseling. He's only 8 and doesn't really understand it all. Boys have more trouble expressing themselves, he needs someone to vent too. It only gets harder to counteract the aggressive issues as he gets older. My 34 year old son struggles with anger issues, I wish I had done more when he was little.
No sympathy here…they chose to live this way, they sure weren’t forced to. Sticking with their significant other in prison one time, I maybe could understand. Four times, no way. Females aren’t forced to stay to survive anymore, we have tons of options today for us and our babies.
FINALLY. This is the first time I’ve ever seen anything about this situation. I was one and I was so upset about nobody providing information for “ Prisoners Wives”. Yes it’s ridiculous how strict the prison guards are about the rules to visit a prisoner. 😢It’s true folks . 😢 ** I had 2 teenagers to continue parenting while on Welfare . Thank God for my parents for helping us in every way.❤ Then I got a housing voucher. It was horrible compared to the life we had. I stuck it out for 13 years. I should have moved on in retrospect.😢 He’s not the same at all. It’s getting a little better every day, but, it’s still hard . I pray for all prisoners wives.🙏♥️ ** Advice, MOVE ON ! Sorry for going on but, I had my kiddos in therapy. Medicaid (state government insurance) paid for it. I made them go. I would say , “ You’re going, I don’t care if you just sit there for an hour, you’re going “. Of course they ended up loving it, and their counselors.
Move on indeed. Long term prisoners are mentally abused in prison and will not come out without PTSD or other horrible mental illnesses. Very heart breaking these women are blind and want the best for their kids.. not realizing they’re giving them the worst possible option. Sucks these women have no other options (so they feel) :(
Divorce them and move on. Prison is a giant red flag prison is their problem not yours protect your kids it's child abuse to take them into a prison. Work on your self esteem.
I dont feel sorry for any of them. They chose loosers and choose to stay with them. There is no way i would take my kids to prison to see their looser fathers and put them through that stress. They are teaching their kids this is normal behavior.
anyone who stays married to a man in prison suffers from low self esteem. she and her children deserve more in life.. they deserve a better dad and a better husband. any woman who says her husband sold drugs to provide a better life for them is an idiot. selling drugs wasnt just illegal it was dangerous to her and her family. surely he could have gotten 2 part time or even 2 full time jobs. i didnt start out at the top i worked my way up with low paying jobs until i finally had a good job that paid well. it made me wonder how many of them are married to abusive men and think that being beaten or even raped is the norm. after all if being in prison is the norm what else is? being in prison is a form of abuse.
I was married for 10 years with him for 11 had 4 kids with him. Had a beautiful life. He messed it up. I didn't stay with him. Absolutely not. He made his choice and left me to pick up all the pueces. After incarceration hes no longer attentive at all to his kids. I took them to Visit him 4xs in 13 years. That's alot of emotional pressure for their kids.
Well you sure aren’t being a good role model for your 13 yr old daughter now are you? You don’t want her to end up with someone who is in and out of prison you claim. Yet you are showing her that it is acceptable for her to put up with. Do these people even hear themselves?
Your family is your family??? That’s it??? No man that loves you and his kids would not be in and out of jail like it’s vacation. These men should be embarrassed to have their children see them behind bars. Women do better.
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢
An ancient and famous temple Mother Kamakhya temple in Guwahati city (India) / Every day 2 / 3 thousand people visit in this temple / Even English people visit
Dear women with men in prison, THEY HAD PTSD AND TRAUMA, it is selfish of you to expect him to come out and be healthy. You need to protect yourself and your kids! God forbid you actually find a partner who loves you and is there for you! You deserve better!!!!
So how do you live with someone and spend the money they bring home without knowing you are benefitting from crime? Then they get arrested and you moan and complain. Then they continue to be dysfunctional in prison and you are appalled at their selfishness. My word!
@@bernadettemarietavendale7055 stupid, “ nope” response. You are desensitized to “ think” that these children aren’t vulnerable, and shouldn’t be exposed to this PREDATORY world!
Sorry for the wife and kids. But why does she have the dog in a cage??? That's not good for the dog. Broke my heart to see. Her man is in prison but why the dog?? Looked so 😢
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢
These women are just trying to keep there family together, some of these men might change, but some will just keep going back.poor children there the ones that suffer mist.🤧
You've done something wrong as a mother, partner, and person when you say, "It's his 3rd time in prison since our child was born, but family is family." Umm, NO.
Agree, EVERYONE makes mistakes! But when you CONTINUE & CONSTANTLY make the same ones it’s NO longer a mistake it becomes HABITUAL. I thought you’re supposed to THINK about what you’ve done and NOT to make the same choices that put you in there in the first place. I just hope some of these women realize that and PUT THEIR CHILDREN FIRST!!
At least they could stop having kids if they wanted to stay in this relationship. It’s not fair to bring more kids into this situation, I have to agree with you on that.
If you messing around in there....I'll messing around out here😮😮😮what 😂😂😂
This is probably going to sound very simple and shallow but if the men keep going in and out of prison, why keep having kids with them?! If it hurt you before kids then why would you voluntarily inflict that on a child. It just makes no sense to me.
Not simple nor shallow…its called common sense and fem@les putting a man before themselves and their children. It’s plain stup*d*ty.
Not shallow at all. You are spot on!👏
True but we don’t always plan pregnancies. I just try to see both sides.
I couldn’t agree more. I wonder the same thing.
@@heathercschafer Birth control is a thing. They are 99% effective.
Consider if the roles were reversed would the man wait ? Would he visit ? I doubt it .......
It varies Case by case most American women Cheat even when their men aren't in jail.
Never
Loyalty is Loyalty No matter the Gender.
💯 % 👍!
No. Esp remain faithful? No. But there are women who remain faithful to pen pals from prison. Like someone they never met on the outside, but just became a pen pal of. They will put money on their books, visit, and be faithful to someone who has murdered people. There is a strange obsession some women have over serial killers, esp.
I'm not judging you. Please get your son some counseling. He's only 8 and doesn't really understand it all. Boys have more trouble expressing themselves, he needs someone to vent too. It only gets harder to counteract the aggressive issues as he gets older. My 34 year old son struggles with anger issues, I wish I had done more when he was little.
No sympathy here…they chose to live this way, they sure weren’t forced to. Sticking with their significant other in prison one time, I maybe could understand. Four times, no way. Females aren’t forced to stay to survive anymore, we have tons of options today for us and our babies.
I thanked my dad this fathers day for never going to prison.
FINALLY. This is the first time I’ve ever seen anything about this situation. I was one and I was so upset about nobody providing information for “ Prisoners Wives”. Yes it’s ridiculous how strict the prison guards are about the rules to visit a prisoner. 😢It’s true folks . 😢 ** I had 2 teenagers to continue parenting while on Welfare . Thank God for my parents for helping us in every way.❤ Then I got a housing voucher. It was horrible compared to the life we had. I stuck it out for 13 years. I should have moved on in retrospect.😢 He’s not the same at all. It’s getting a little better every day, but, it’s still hard . I pray for all prisoners wives.🙏♥️ ** Advice, MOVE ON ! Sorry for going on but, I had my kiddos in therapy. Medicaid (state government insurance) paid for it. I made them go. I would say , “ You’re going, I don’t care if you just sit there for an hour, you’re going “. Of course they ended up loving it, and their counselors.
Move on indeed. Long term prisoners are mentally abused in prison and will not come out without PTSD or other horrible mental illnesses. Very heart breaking these women are blind and want the best for their kids.. not realizing they’re giving them the worst possible option. Sucks these women have no other options (so they feel) :(
Divorce them and move on. Prison is a giant red flag prison is their problem not yours protect your kids it's child abuse to take them into a prison. Work on your self esteem.
I dont feel sorry for any of them. They chose loosers and choose to stay with them. There is no way i would take my kids to prison to see their looser fathers and put them through that stress. They are teaching their kids this is normal behavior.
anyone who stays married to a man in prison suffers from low self esteem. she and her children deserve more in life.. they deserve a better dad and a better husband.
any woman who says her husband sold drugs to provide a better life for them is an idiot. selling drugs wasnt just illegal it was dangerous to her and her family. surely he could have gotten 2 part time or even 2 full time jobs. i didnt start out at the top i worked my way up with low paying jobs until i finally had a good job that paid well.
it made me wonder how many of them are married to abusive men and think that being beaten or even raped is the norm. after all if being in prison is the norm what else is?
being in prison is a form of abuse.
A good dad doesn't go to prison. Why is a 12 year old wearing make-up
And yet another generation being put in jeopardy. 😢
BS a Great Dad Can go to Prison it Only takes 1 mistake.
She looks more 20 then 13 yrs. old!
@@miloruby8259 to weirdos.😂
Car wreck can send you to prison
I was married for 10 years with him for 11 had 4 kids with him. Had a beautiful life. He messed it up. I didn't stay with him. Absolutely not. He made his choice and left me to pick up all the pueces. After incarceration hes no longer attentive at all to his kids. I took them to Visit him 4xs in 13 years. That's alot of emotional pressure for their kids.
Their choice…
Move on ladies, find your own way.
Well you sure aren’t being a good role model for your 13 yr old daughter now are you? You don’t want her to end up with someone who is in and out of prison you claim. Yet you are showing her that it is acceptable for her to put up with. Do these people even hear themselves?
The saying if you do the crime do the time
A choice they made and are making. No pity.
Jesus Christ would forgive them are you a Christian?Go to Church.
little lee 😭😭😭 big lee better be a good ass man
Your family is your family??? That’s it??? No man that loves you and his kids would not be in and out of jail like it’s vacation. These men should be embarrassed to have their children see them behind bars. Women do better.
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢
An ancient and famous temple Mother Kamakhya temple in Guwahati city (India) / Every day 2 / 3 thousand people visit in this temple / Even English people visit
Dear women with men in prison, THEY HAD PTSD AND TRAUMA, it is selfish of you to expect him to come out and be healthy. You need to protect yourself and your kids! God forbid you actually find a partner who loves you and is there for you! You deserve better!!!!
So how do you live with someone and spend the money they bring home without knowing you are benefitting from crime? Then they get arrested and you moan and complain. Then they continue to be dysfunctional in prison and you are appalled at their selfishness. My word!
Children’s faces should be blurred.
Nope only children of victims of crime deserve privacy
@@bernadettemarietavendale7055 stupid, “ nope” response. You are desensitized to “ think” that these children aren’t vulnerable, and shouldn’t be exposed to this PREDATORY world!
ffs
Looks like your ALREADY taken care of your little family needing no help from a "MAN"!!!!
Ridiculous
They're not forgotten the tax payer pays for the criminal dads and they criminal dads family
Who cares about the families of the incarcerated I only give a toss & full sympathy for the families of victims of crime
>90% of all prisoners don’t need to be in jail.
they dont ?? oh you want criminals on streets
@calar7568 back that up with data
@@ShopStylebyme prove that non violent criminals belong in jail.
@@valar7568 you said 90% of people don’t belong in prison. What statistic and or data show that 90% of people are in prison for non-violent offenses.
@@ShopStylebyme I meant non violent or non dangerous offenders, whatever the “percentage” is.
Duh
Sorry for the wife and kids. But why does she have the dog in a cage??? That's not good for the dog. Broke my heart to see. Her man is in prison but why the dog?? Looked so 😢
I swear women will believe anything... Just tell them a bunch of sweet nothings, and it's good enough. My God, this is awful!
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢
😅if I was married an my husband went to prison once fine but 2 times I gone me an the children no wating you choose that life I would choose a better life for me an my children😢😢