HOW LENDING MY FRIEND MONEY DESTROYED OUR FRIENDSHIP 😥

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @labelle65
    @labelle65 Месяц назад +9

    I am exactly like you. I don't mind lending money if a friend is in need and promised to pay me back by a certain time. Don't let me have to ask you back for it. That is when we're going to have a BIG problem!! I had a friend when we were in our early 20s who would always chose my payday to be borrowing money. When she got her pay the following week, she would NEVER pay me back my money without me reminding her. In the end I had to have very STRONG words with her and NEVER lent her money again!! That was the only way we managed to remain friends. That bad habit of hers used to really get on my nerves!!!!😡

  • @BeautifulBellaDiana
    @BeautifulBellaDiana 22 дня назад +5

    ONLY lend what you can afford to lose.

    • @Blessings-zq2ck
      @Blessings-zq2ck 10 дней назад

      True but I don’t have anything to loose.

    • @zion291
      @zion291 3 дня назад +2

      Well to be honest I cannot afford to loose not a dime in this hard times .so I cut out lending lending moneys to anyone .I prefer to give what ever I can afford without expectations of getting anything back .

  • @zion291
    @zion291 4 дня назад +2

    Its not good to lend family & friends your money, let them go and face the bank . When they want your money to borrow the pleading and begging, when time to pay back it's hide and seek. And you can see the fixing up all them other business. They even pretend like they vex more than you .

  • @Mrnw10
    @Mrnw10 20 дней назад +1

    Facts! ... Lost a good friend to this exactly. Borrowed money then was distant posting pictures in clubs partying. Absolute scumbag behavior! ... you don't know somebody until you lend them some money trust me!

  • @JacquelineMeikle-y7k
    @JacquelineMeikle-y7k 19 дней назад +3

    My aunt is of a particular age and she has to be suing her church sister for her money 💰💰💰 in Jamaica. She even got the pastor involved. Church sisters . This is a lot of money I don't know if she will ever get it back, even in church don't trust no one

    • @janetwhite6731
      @janetwhite6731 8 дней назад

      Trust, she's NEVER going to get that back

  • @dawncoleman4503
    @dawncoleman4503 Месяц назад +3

    I've found my self into the same situation leading money I doesn't recién back until it's started issues mostlikly the person whoever borrow the money doesn't paying back seemingly liked I'm the person whoever borrow this money from the person because haven a kindness within us we are suffering from this because we need this money for our own purposes I've learning my lessons not to loan money because it' will be our biggest mistakes even the person become our biggest enemy the simple answers are we doesn't having this money to loan nooooooo nooooooo noooooo and nooooooo thank you for sharing this video with us bless you always 🇱🇷

  • @karenleach6427
    @karenleach6427 Месяц назад +8

    So so so true they don't want to pay back and you should not ask them for your money then hem vex more than you

  • @annettec5229
    @annettec5229 Месяц назад +4

    I have been burnt so many times with lending money. People know how to find you when they want to borrow, but you have to hunt them down to get it back. One rule don't borrow what you can't pay back. The funny thing is I have been in situations where the people get attitude when you asking back for YOUR money. No attitude when they are borrowing, but attitude when time come to give it back. Them quiet like church mouse when time come to give it back.

  • @Juliem27
    @Juliem27 Месяц назад +1

    The lesson I’ve learnt if you have a plan or relying on that money, you don’t have money to lend!

  • @debbiecollington8989
    @debbiecollington8989 Месяц назад +4

    I lend someone some money almost year ago.I never get back my money , that person never mentioned nothing about the money never again. I rather give than lend out my money

  • @JacquelineMeikle-y7k
    @JacquelineMeikle-y7k 19 дней назад +3

    My aunt church sister robbed her partner money

  • @ss5482yy
    @ss5482yy 7 дней назад

    I don't lend money anymore,if I have, I would rather give it. I am not into lending anything due to pass experience. Blessings JP.

  • @VinceRK
    @VinceRK Месяц назад +5

    Real talk mi general, big up yourself

  • @donnaherman3876
    @donnaherman3876 Месяц назад +1

    Good morning, JP. I can relate to this story. I made the mistake of sending a church brother some funds, and to this day, I can't get it back. The number of stories i get him could write a book.

  • @paularitchie3224
    @paularitchie3224 Месяц назад +4

    Its always an emergency to borrow but an attitude when they have to pay back. Family is worse! Pick the friends you know will pay back, and dont loan the friends that have the "don't pay back" character 😂. When they stop being your friend, then you know whats up

    • @JAYY-PRO-WORLD
      @JAYY-PRO-WORLD  Месяц назад

      🤣 Yuh so right... emergency to borrow and delay to pay

  • @richardjoan959
    @richardjoan959 Месяц назад +2

    Mi a one a dem len family mi money 6 years now jayy and all now mi no here back from dem mi call it a day

  • @Blessings-zq2ck
    @Blessings-zq2ck 10 дней назад

    I nah lend a ting to nobody!! If I have it, I will give it but no lending period!!!

  • @caralindsay70
    @caralindsay70 13 дней назад

    GM Jay I lend a friend my cementoney seven years now not paying me back so true one love❤❤❤

  • @love-bt1rh
    @love-bt1rh Месяц назад +2

    Money make friend and money break friend 🇨🇦

  • @karenleach6427
    @karenleach6427 Месяц назад +5

    Who love to borrow na like to pay back dont ask them for it they want to borrow more from you untop of what them owe inexperienced that

    • @JAYY-PRO-WORLD
      @JAYY-PRO-WORLD  Месяц назад

      That's the worst thing... they don't pay you back but still looking for more to barrow

  • @CarolSamuels-p8c
    @CarolSamuels-p8c 6 дней назад

    True that!!

  • @jenniferlenny9107
    @jenniferlenny9107 Месяц назад +1

    real talk. any fool can borrow money but paying back is not always easy.

  • @LadyJ-and-usotameblinkersoooo
    @LadyJ-and-usotameblinkersoooo Месяц назад +1

    Bless up

  • @annemarieedun
    @annemarieedun Месяц назад +1

    Blessings to u Jay Progress. Learn to say no. When u are a yes yes man people take advantage.🙏

  • @karenleach6427
    @karenleach6427 Месяц назад +2

    So true i run my husband bar elders trust and they pay but young people ah hide when time come to pay

  • @Sharon-x7n
    @Sharon-x7n Месяц назад +1

    Real talk big up your self.

  • @Deborah-c7b
    @Deborah-c7b Месяц назад +1

    Yessssssss

  • @paulinewright8635
    @paulinewright8635 Месяц назад +1

    I went through that same thing for almost 3 years my co work borrowed 3.000 dollars, and all now I can't get it back every day is a different story. When I get stronger in my body, i will be going to court to fight for it. 3 years too long.

    • @janetwhite6731
      @janetwhite6731 8 дней назад

      Then they walk past you like YOU have done them something!

  • @nats2976
    @nats2976 13 дней назад

    I only lend what i can an afford to give away. When you don't pay me back. Don't ask me ever again.

  • @sandraclarke6534
    @sandraclarke6534 Месяц назад +3

    Big up yourself jp

  • @JAMESLOONEY-kd1nu
    @JAMESLOONEY-kd1nu 15 дней назад

    Shakespeare said it don't lend or b9rrow money😅

  • @myafricarockmission
    @myafricarockmission Месяц назад +1

    Real talk JP.

  • @florentinenisbett4517
    @florentinenisbett4517 28 дней назад

    Give it too them in writing. I lend a friend some money and I only get back half. She borrow the money to fix her house after the hurricane. But God send another hurricane and that was it.

  • @Sleedhurt
    @Sleedhurt Месяц назад +1

    have being watching you in and out but lately I rush home to try and get the live feed boi u bad with real talk keep it up pal ❤

  • @mazcontrol3589
    @mazcontrol3589 Месяц назад +2

    Don’t ever len money to friend or family. Yep tell them go to the bank. I lost a few friends, never see the money nor the friends them, they all malice me off. No problem , learn mi lesson.

    • @JAYY-PRO-WORLD
      @JAYY-PRO-WORLD  Месяц назад +1

      Once you want back your money you have problems

  • @beckyl.6958
    @beckyl.6958 Месяц назад +2

    JP
    The worst thing a person can do is to loan money to your friend ,
    I don’t know what kind of mind set that person have, especially if they call you friend,
    A good friend would not let money come in between the friendship, that means they were a dam thief.

  • @mr.dweetnicetv5610
    @mr.dweetnicetv5610 Месяц назад +1

    That guy wasn't a good fren bro,him full a bad mind

  • @mr.dweetnicetv5610
    @mr.dweetnicetv5610 Месяц назад +1

    Keep up the good work mi bredda

  • @carmelasandy
    @carmelasandy Месяц назад +1

    Blessup

  • @caralindsay70
    @caralindsay70 13 дней назад

    ❤some people not paying back money. Malice u

  • @donnafable-balmir209
    @donnafable-balmir209 Месяц назад +2

    A friend mine loan money to some one and they didn't give it back. Time passed by and she went back to the same person and borrow from them and that's how she got back her money 😂

    • @JAYY-PRO-WORLD
      @JAYY-PRO-WORLD  Месяц назад

      They will never stop coming if they know you will give

  • @DeniseandPatrick
    @DeniseandPatrick 21 день назад +1

    Don't lend big mistake 😢.

  • @paularitchie3224
    @paularitchie3224 Месяц назад +3

    Hey Jay❤

  • @andreamdennis9407
    @andreamdennis9407 Месяц назад +1

    Jayy the amount of money I lend out I should be a millionaire and now I'm in a position and I need my money back and I'm calling them and they won't pick up their phone. Lesson learned.😢. They will never get a penny out of me again.

  • @owengriffith1
    @owengriffith1 Месяц назад +2

    Hello jayy

  • @cliffordelliston3444
    @cliffordelliston3444 Месяц назад

    People will try and test you to see if they can use you and it is always about money.

  • @veronicareid1387
    @veronicareid1387 Месяц назад +2

    Ronnie Bee USA, That's A Fact JPro

  • @DeneseWalsh
    @DeneseWalsh 10 дней назад

    Good morning j

  • @nataliesamuels5213
    @nataliesamuels5213 Месяц назад +1

    That is so true it happen to me

  • @galenenedd5404
    @galenenedd5404 Месяц назад +1

    Big up self J p🇧🇧🇧🇧

  • @janetwhite6731
    @janetwhite6731 8 дней назад

    I HAVE STOPPED LENDING!

  • @mariered6998
    @mariered6998 Месяц назад +1

    Tune

  • @lisacoombs263
    @lisacoombs263 Месяц назад +1

    Miss the live Jay watching the rerun. 👍

  • @janetwhite6731
    @janetwhite6731 8 дней назад

    Greetings BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE 😍

  • @sandraclarke6534
    @sandraclarke6534 Месяц назад +3

    My sister trust her friend her chicken and when she must get her money one long drawout thing when she do pay she vex with her all now and they were socall best friend.

    • @JAYY-PRO-WORLD
      @JAYY-PRO-WORLD  Месяц назад

      A Yuh dem stay... that's why Yuh nuh trust them

  • @JasminJOHNSON-b9r
    @JasminJOHNSON-b9r Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @carolazille2847
    @carolazille2847 Месяц назад +1

    Jay, I lent a friend $700.00 Canadian bout twenty years ago, whenever I asked for my money, there's always an excuse, up to now, me nah get back me money

  • @evertonporter7887
    @evertonporter7887 Месяц назад +1

    Fool me once, shame on you.
    Fool me twice, shame on me.
    I've learned that lesson the hard way. Saying no is hard but you have to stick to your guns.

  • @eshekadouglas5401
    @eshekadouglas5401 Месяц назад +1

    Big up J pro

  • @lynfoster7870
    @lynfoster7870 26 дней назад

    Don't lend they have strength like u

  • @Deborah-c7b
    @Deborah-c7b Месяц назад +1

    FUNNYMAN. JAYYYYY. YOUR. SO. FUNNY.

  • @Sharon-x7n
    @Sharon-x7n Месяц назад +1

    U don't get back from family but u can get back from a friend I no about it

  • @silvadiva65
    @silvadiva65 Месяц назад +1

    Hello Jay, love your channel. When someone borrows money from you it changes the relationship.
    “Neither a borrower nor a lender be; For loan oft loses both itself and friend, And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry” A line from Hamlet by William Shakespeare.

  • @sandraclarke6534
    @sandraclarke6534 Месяц назад +1

    Yes i have a litte shop when i trust them neighbour yea they don't want to pay the little money, so if it little pay it back.

    • @JAYY-PRO-WORLD
      @JAYY-PRO-WORLD  Месяц назад

      Them glad fi trust but not to pay..a suh them stay

  • @mazcontrol3589
    @mazcontrol3589 Месяц назад +1

    Don’t don’t don’t do it. Warning. Noh sweet.

  • @Cameegoodas
    @Cameegoodas 25 дней назад

    U ain't lie one bit me granny always tell me don't lend wat u can't afford to loose. Neva know wat she meant till me big. Loose nuff frens cause they borrowed my money even me babyfather I don't talk to cause him borrow me money. So anytime me see phone ring me stop answer

  • @karenleach6427
    @karenleach6427 Месяц назад +1

    As my old God mother told me them always have a SAD STORY"????

  • @andreagrant6567
    @andreagrant6567 Месяц назад +1

    👍🏽💕💕💕💕

  • @DoxieCameron
    @DoxieCameron 4 дня назад

    When you loose Friend lend money doxle

  • @lynfoster7870
    @lynfoster7870 26 дней назад

    U ask her u working she say she never wants to bruck her interest

  • @mariered6998
    @mariered6998 Месяц назад +1

    So turn

  • @FC-xc3zy
    @FC-xc3zy 11 дней назад

    Don't mix business with friendship. . I learned my lesson. No need to lend to any Jamaican. Access and other micro lenders are there. Don't do it

  • @audrelynberrick2321
    @audrelynberrick2321 6 дней назад

    👍🏻🇨🇿🇨🇿

  • @altheawilkie5592
    @altheawilkie5592 Месяц назад +1

    Before the person give you back vexing face first

  • @cliffordelliston3444
    @cliffordelliston3444 Месяц назад

    Better you have a credit card so people dont know your business so you wont have to borrow from people.

  • @altheawilkie5592
    @altheawilkie5592 Месяц назад +1

    That's not a good look

  • @janetwhite6731
    @janetwhite6731 8 дней назад

    Listen, that is bad, but image you are running a partner, the person BEG you for the first draw, her man is stuck in America after being stabbed and she wants to bring him back! She beg, she beg, she beg! She was in a previous partner and she paid ontime etc! So I said okayyyyyy! People, this was about 2/3 years ago! ALL now she has not paid back that money! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢So you know I had to replace that $60,000! I still run partner, but new persons do not get until the end! I have big trust issues! All people like that, I DONT want them at my funeral 😕

  • @Deborah-c7b
    @Deborah-c7b Месяц назад +1

    FUNNYMAN. JAY. I'M. LOL. AT. YOU.
    BECAUSE. YOU. HAVE. A. LOT. OF. TUREFUL. WISDOM. FROM. ALL. THE. THING'S. YOU'VE. BEEN. THROUGH. WITH. WICKED. HEARTED. PEOPLE.
    YOU. ARE. VERY. VERY. TURTHFUL.
    IN. YOUR. TOPICS. YOUR. TEACHING. TO. US. ALL. OF. YOUR. RUclips. BUSINESS. CHANNEL. SUBSCRIBERS. AND. SUPPORTERS.
    MYSELF. HAVE. BEEN. DOWN. THIS. WICKED. ROAD.
    WITH. WICKED. HEARTED. PEOPLE. AND. IT. WAS. SOMEONE. FROM. JAMAICA.
    I. LOANED. THIS. WICKED. HEARTED. PERSON. OVER. 6,000. USA. MONEY.
    AND. THEY. WORK. FOR. BIG. BIG. MONEY. EVERY. WEEK. HE'S. DRIVING. BIG. 18. WHEEL. TRUCK. DRIVING. ALL. OVER. THE. USA. AND. DON'T. GET. HOME. UNTIL. SATURDAY'S. THEN. HE'S. GONE. AFTER. CHURCH. AND. DINNER. ON. SUNDAY.
    THEN. HE'S. GONE. BACK. TO. WORK. FOR. THE. NEXT. WEEK.
    BUT. THIS. TURN. OUT. TO. BE. A. BIG. BIG. MESS.
    BUT. I. LEARNED. THE. HARD. WAY. TRUST. ME. I'VE. LEARN. A. VERY. VERY. VALUABLE. LESSON. FROM. THIS. HELL. I. WENT. THROUGH. JUST. BECAUSE. I. BELIEVE. I. WAS. GOING. TO. GET. MY. MONEY. BACK.