Why Narcissists Ruin Special Occasions: Understanding the Patterns and Motivations
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Mine ruined my baby shower, picked a huge fight with me over nothing. It was to be a surprise, but I knew , had a feeling. I remember thinking, wow, you can't even give me one day of happiness.
Thank you for the insight. Very helpful.
Spot on! I have been with (off and on) for 20 years and he has ruined every special occasion I could have had. Absolutely horrible. He now has a new girlfriend and I am finally getting some relief. He still manages to be part of my life but minimally. I could never figure it out.
I noticed this pattern in a family member with narcissistic tendencies, never understood why, but this makes sense. Other people’s birthdays, holidays are not about them so they make it about them. Solid explanation, thank you.
You’re absolutely right! He did cause trouble during special occasions that involved me or our children. I can definitely relate to everything you mentioned in your podcast. I had attributed his behavior to a midlife crisis, as it started showing up later in his life. We used to dress alike, often wearing the same tracksuits, hoodies, and even matching running shoes. We didn’t argue or fight much either. Once a month, we would sit down and write out our irritations or ways we could help each other more, and that was enough for us. So, this late change in his behavior just doesn’t seem normal to me. Wishing you a wonderful day or evening with your family. Take care and stay safe, wherever you all are! 🍀🍀
My ex husband was not like ruining everything for everyone but the part that he ruined everything for me is spot on. He just couldn't stand me being happy.
6:00 corect!!
Bingo!
Yup, my wedding. They had a separate party night before my wedding-same time as mine-had to try and take the attention away from me god forbid!
Instead of buying me a gift for giving birth to our twins (children number 3@4), he made me cry all the way to the clinic and after labour he didn't visit me at all because he had to stay at home and take care of our older kids although there were other people who could babysit...
I have a question about this, before i understood my ex girlfriend was a narcissist, she said she had only got less then 5pressents for Christmas in her life, so i wanted to make it special for her, so i bought a few "big" presents, and then i bought like 10 key-chain toys and stuffed animals and cheap clothes and wraped everything separerat.
I had been up since 5 in the morning fixing everything and said i needed a power nap before we open the presents and start Christmas.
When i woke up 1h later she had open 2 of my presents without me after i specifically told her to wait...
I was so so so F close to take all of the presents and throwing them in the fireplace Infront of her for the disrespectful behavior
How could she ruine her own Holliday?
Just because narc dont give a F about you?
You sound like the narc, excuse meeeeee
Let me try and remember her birthday : was arguing till 6 in the morning. Next one was guilting me to pay for $20k boob job after leaving the hotel for hours with her bag. 😂
Can’t make This stuff up
Do narcissist children do this? I would really appreciate it if you could describe yourself as a kid and what was going on in your head.❤