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@@MarvelX42 From a filmmaker/commercial production background, research shows that a calm quiet environment is less inclined to cause people to perk up and take notice. Action grabs attention, and in this case, he is communicating by both precept and example....which delivers his message on more than one level. Plus, people would be wary of such advice coming from an out of shape individual. Thus his shirtless presentation gives evidence to him having put into practice what he is preaching. He is visually providing a "goal" while explaining how to achieve it.
The first one about anger issues is literally so dangerous to people in abusive relationships and are trying to understand why someone who is supposed to care about them is angery all the time.
Georgia: “We do like to hear our own name” Me: “Huh? I hate hearing my name called, feels like I’m in trouble 😅 Georgia: “Unless they have social anxiety” Me: “There it is.”
I may have said this before but it bares repeating: youre doing a public service with these videos. Anything that helps people be more aware of psychology and themselves is sorely needed. Thank you Georgia.
As a psychology student... Damn it's so frustrating to look at all these "small talk psychology", both from people who don't know what they are talking about and from people that actually think they've studied it a lot. For example, I hate these TikToks, and I hate all those "I'll teach you to detect lies like a human scanner" people who've read Paul Ekman's book ONCE taking it as TRUEST SCIENCE POSSIBLE. Mostly micro-expressions just show how much anxious or nervous you are when talking with people, not straight up wether you are lying or not, what the fuck... And I fucking hate all those Andrew Tate's clones.
Appreciate your willingness to even deal with this, Georgia. The very fact that random people, most likely with no psychological degrees or knowledge at all, just sell their subjective opinions as psychological “facts” on social media is worrying. Besides, your reactions to some of these are golden. 😂
"People who like being alone can be very good friends" is about as much of a non-statement as "people who like being alone might occasionally get an itch in a hard to reach spot." Seriously, some people still talk about introverts like we're some kind of weird animals at the zoo.
I love that expression, “Save nothing for the swim home.” Unless like… you’re swimming into the ocean and want to live. But other than literally, it’s a motivating sentiment.
I think Tiktok needs a doctor not a therapist.. cause it's pretty much devolved into cancer at this point. In all honesty and fairness though, I love that videos like yours exist. You're doing an amazing job!
omg YES!!! I am SO fed up with people going "yeah all my negative traits just show I am good person. deep down. DEEEEEEEEEEP down..." 2:41 does that mean you are good-hearted and care a lot? 😛
One of the issues I have with Jayus and that whole brand of pop psychology content is that it promotes manipulative behavior. It isn't presenting the information as for the development of social skills, how to be more attentive and engaging with other people, etc., but how to appear more attentive and engaging to elicit a desired response in another person.
i saw this psychology "fact" tiktok once that made me really sad and angry and worried. sadly cant find it for a link, but it was whis very confident guy telling that mentally ill people like depressed people should not date other people because they will hurt their partners cheat on them and so on. What made me so mad about it was that he was charismatic and so confident in saying clearly false things that i was worried that someone alone and depressed like I am would belive him and think they dont deserve love
Feels like the therapist equivalent to a radiologist exposing themselves to radiation so that people can learn to tell when it's genuine and when it's bs
My mom is quick to anger and to forgive 😅 I, myself, am probably too forgiving because of her example 😬 but on the whole it's been beneficial. It's the repeat offenders you gotta look out for. I'm super glad I didn't get her temper. The world should be glad 😏😌
At 4:10 you look more done with this madness than I've ever seen you look. Great job debunking this stuff!!! It worries me that people will see this kind of thing and believe it.
Please so more of these, i think most of those tend to be bogus, and it helps to know which are more accurate and which are made by content bots that dont know anything.
The first tiktok was made by someone who has anger issues and who can't admit that they have hurt people and need to change and instead want to gaslight everyone around them to tolerate their asses.
'If you're perfectionistic it's better to do less' - ty ... I very nearly drowned swimming without reserving strength, which brought me to the lowest I have every been. These generalisations in 'motivational' videos can have devastating outcomes for some people.
0:28 - 0:36 Well,this is accurate *for me personally* ;-3 but I'm not sure that's the case _in general..._ 1:19 - 1:27 For me personally this is a bit of contradiction because 1)if I dislike you _with passion_ I don't think I'll be able to _ignore_ you...I can't"ignore someone with passion"what does that even mean??😅And 2)it depends...it happened to me to dislike some people with burning passion initially and then changing my mind and starting to like them or even getting a crush on them and about the opposite,if I like you and you hurt me it's more likely that I will remain hurt rather than starting to _hate_ you and/or _ignore_ you.💔 1:54 - 1:59 Nah. I'm an awful friend. _I wish_ I was good,but I just think of my own buisness the whole day all days and even when I _do_ think of some of my friends and I wanna call them and stuff I usually procrastinate till I don't do it anymore. 3:17 - 3:23 I agree. Years ago I started to make a list of all the fictional characters that I consider soulmates and several couples _were_ platonic relationships/friendships.💞💕 4:19 - 4:28 Only if you *LIKE* your own name. Not going too deep into why,but there's been a long period of my life in which I used to hear people saying they would get offended if someone called them:"Hey!"when they didn't remember their name and I was thinking:"I would _PREFER_ to be called"Hey"rather than with a name I *hate* this much!X-((( I *WISH* people just called me Hey!"
as someone who has an obsessive/addictive personality, when i heard of tiktok, i put my foot down and decided never to download it. best decision of my life xD
I just finished watching Monster, the 2004 psychological thriller anime, and I absolutely loved it. I feel like there’s soooo much to be unpacked and I’d be curious to hear your take on the show!
that first video.... WHOOO BOY. reads like an edgy tumblr post or some kinda "aesthetic" twitter. anyone else? like early 2010s internet angst-posting. "They'll do it with passion and ignore your entire existence." LMAO
Definitely wary about following the last advice as a perfectionist, especially when coupled with a harsh over-critical inner voice. "Have I done enough today" sounds benign but pushes one to overwhelm thyself and then negative self talk to "beat you up" for not being able to handle the work. A trap to avoid!
Georgia you should analyze the psychology found in video games as well such as the silent hill games or the layers of fear games. As well as other visual novels
Seems like Jack Handey wrote these. 2:42 - at least we know you have a good and kind heart... I was waiting for the "This is gonna hurt me more than it hurts you Psychology Fact". A little surprised you didn't go after the word "soulmate".
The look on your face you had before you gave your commentary on those first two “psychology facts” definitely gave the impression that you were thinking in the back of your head “This’s dumb-fuckery on a level so high, I don’t even really know how to respond to it.” 😂😂😂
4:11 this girl has been full of crap for years but she speaks with such confidence people like her....I mean, some of her videos are probably accurate to an extent. But other things are just so not true💀
Awesome video. I like how you debunk the misinformation and the insights you provide (both for the inaccurate and more accurate statements). This is great and I too would like to see a part 2. Have a nice day.
I always wonder with these things if the people making them actually believe it themselves, if they are starting misinformation they received, or if they are just making it up.
This is probably the first time I have seen Georgia get a bit fiery at something. And while I am at it, this is probably a good time as any to say that TikTok is probably not the best place to find solutions to your mental health problems. Seek professional help, people.
Would absolutely love you to keep debunking little videos like that. I see so many of them on SM and am always thinking No... Just no, where the heck are you getting these "facts"??? The worst ones are ones about neurodivergancy, they over simplify symptoms so much that they become normal everyday things everyone has on occasion rather than an actual fact about the psychological symptoms of ADHD, or OCD, or Autism, or whatever
Even though these videos do not get the same amount of views compared to your reactions they are just as good 🙂 Only for a smaller group of people? Please keep making them
Off topic, but could you do an advice video for future/starting therapists? I'm an LCSW-A starting my outpatient therapy journey and am just looking for tips, advice, encouragement, etc
Try out different theraputic ways and see which you enjoy the most. i would say start in a place with other therapists you can talk to as it is very helpful to have a team around you or supervision. And have fun it is an amazing field
Only take I don't agree with is the one about the "grindset" mentality at the end. World wide we have the access to enough resources so that increasing your station in life should be a desire, not a necessity. We throw away enough food to end world hunger, we have enough homes to house the homeless, we have come far enough in technology that we could get rid of some of the more mundane jobs and allow people to just exist. We should be fighting for that instead of telling people to overwork themselves for the current system in place to make a small percentage of what the population with insane wealth have and that they and their future lineage could never spend. The "grindset" should be focused on making yourself a better person instead of getting yourself to point of money where you no longer have to work to survive. And almost everyone trying to push the grindset mentality is trying to profit from it. They're usually called Grifters. That said, I love your content, and I just think the clip you used felt very Grifter-like but your points around it are still great for people, if we're using them for self improvement instead off financial gain.
I think he WAS talking about making yourself a better person. And Georgia was too. Resilience is required for that. You can't truly improve spiritually, mentally, emotionally or physically without it. How hard can you figuratively or in actuality "get hit" or experience massive setbacks, and get up and keep moving forward. As for helping others? There is the parable of the Good Samaritan, who nobody would have remembered if he didn't have the "tool" of money to be able help out. So...I do believe this is not about grindset mentality as you have described it.
(smiles) Georgia...you DO remind me of me. I have been doing much debunking myself of late. (sighs) But with more...and less classy...Grrrr!...than you. = ) And yes my blood type has, over the years, been replaced by Type RESILIENCE. If what does not kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press domestic vehicles. From the sixties. Oh. Right. I actually did do that...once. The other time was a car from the nineties. The first was dealing with a broken tail pipe/muffler and I wanted to snap it completely off so it would stop dragging.Twisted the tailpipe off to the side, got underneath it and shoved up. It didn't snap off, but the car lifted.
What? I hate hearing my name. Means someone is speaking directly to me. Means they actually know who I am. Means they want something. I was minding my own business thinking my own thoughts and now I'll have to take time and focus with someone watching me and try to process what they want and attempt to respond appropriately without becoming entangled in whatever social snare they have in mind... What if they say, "How are you?" When they don't REALLY want to know? Where do I go with this? Or worse, they have a specific topic to speak about and they honestly expect me to be able to answer accurately in real time. Sorry, I need time to think about what you said. Text me and we''ll be in business. Of course, as long as I can form a sentence, no one will believe it's that hard to form the right sentence. I'm tired of explaining so just stop saying my name. I don't have the energy for your little nonverbal head games. Also, little miss social discombobulation can fry in Hell. How about you engage with a person as an equal and see what develops instead of toying with them?
Ahem...did you note what she said after - people like hearing their name? She said UNLESS they have social anxiety. Also...I think I may have missed something too: Who is this "little miss social discombobulation" ?
A Short at 4:11 attributed to @mr.psychology1289 should be attributed to @onlyjayus. We were not aware that @mr.psychology1289 was using her content. We apologize for any confusion.
@@MarvelX42 From a filmmaker/commercial production background, research shows that a calm quiet environment is less inclined to cause people to perk up and take notice. Action grabs attention, and in this case, he is communicating by both precept and example....which delivers his message on more than one level. Plus, people would be wary of such advice coming from an out of shape individual. Thus his shirtless presentation gives evidence to him having put into practice what he is preaching. He is visually providing a "goal" while explaining how to achieve it.
The first one about anger issues is literally so dangerous to people in abusive relationships and are trying to understand why someone who is supposed to care about them is angery all the time.
Georgia: “We do like to hear our own name”
Me: “Huh? I hate hearing my name called, feels like I’m in trouble 😅
Georgia: “Unless they have social anxiety”
Me: “There it is.”
I may have said this before but it bares repeating: youre doing a public service with these videos. Anything that helps people be more aware of psychology and themselves is sorely needed. Thank you Georgia.
I can't say it better
Absolutely agreed!
As a psychology student... Damn it's so frustrating to look at all these "small talk psychology", both from people who don't know what they are talking about and from people that actually think they've studied it a lot.
For example, I hate these TikToks, and I hate all those "I'll teach you to detect lies like a human scanner" people who've read Paul Ekman's book ONCE taking it as TRUEST SCIENCE POSSIBLE. Mostly micro-expressions just show how much anxious or nervous you are when talking with people, not straight up wether you are lying or not, what the fuck... And I fucking hate all those Andrew Tate's clones.
Appreciate your willingness to even deal with this, Georgia. The very fact that random people, most likely with no psychological degrees or knowledge at all, just sell their subjective opinions as psychological “facts” on social media is worrying. Besides, your reactions to some of these are golden. 😂
"People who like being alone can be very good friends" is about as much of a non-statement as "people who like being alone might occasionally get an itch in a hard to reach spot."
Seriously, some people still talk about introverts like we're some kind of weird animals at the zoo.
We don't normally get to see your fiery or exasperated side, Georgia, and that makes it all the more amusing.
I love that expression, “Save nothing for the swim home.” Unless like… you’re swimming into the ocean and want to live. But other than literally, it’s a motivating sentiment.
From my knowledge it's from the movie Gattica and it was in the ocean. Great scifi movie.
Good movie.
I'm so glad I never fell into the tik tok craze because some of the stuff I see that comes out of that app is atrocious.
I think Tiktok needs a doctor not a therapist.. cause it's pretty much devolved into cancer at this point. In all honesty and fairness though, I love that videos like yours exist. You're doing an amazing job!
omg YES!!! I am SO fed up with people going "yeah all my negative traits just show I am good person. deep down. DEEEEEEEEEEP down..."
2:41 does that mean you are good-hearted and care a lot? 😛
One of the issues I have with Jayus and that whole brand of pop psychology content is that it promotes manipulative behavior. It isn't presenting the information as for the development of social skills, how to be more attentive and engaging with other people, etc., but how to appear more attentive and engaging to elicit a desired response in another person.
i saw this psychology "fact" tiktok once that made me really sad and angry and worried. sadly cant find it for a link, but it was whis very confident guy telling that mentally ill people like depressed people should not date other people because they will hurt their partners cheat on them and so on. What made me so mad about it was that he was charismatic and so confident in saying clearly false things that i was worried that someone alone and depressed like I am would belive him and think they dont deserve love
Feels like the therapist equivalent to a radiologist exposing themselves to radiation so that people can learn to tell when it's genuine and when it's bs
I find your reaction not just helpful but also very sympathetic, would definitely enjoy more of that. Educational + entertaining = win-win 😊
I wanna make an account that’s just “people who get angry easily get angry easily.” And “people who like to be alone, like to be alone”
Wow, she really got mad with those fist vids... She must have a good and kind heart
I used to believe that people with short tempers were quick to forgive. I still believe that’s true… but only in some cases. It depends on the person.
My mom is quick to anger and to forgive 😅
I, myself, am probably too forgiving because of her example 😬 but on the whole it's been beneficial. It's the repeat offenders you gotta look out for.
I'm super glad I didn't get her temper.
The world should be glad 😏😌
"save nothing for the swim home" she definitely watched Gattaca. any Gattaca-ers here?
Loving The Debunking Content!
2:40 "I'm getting too firey." It's OK, it's only because you care too much.
This is actually some really good content. I'd love for this to become a longer running series.
At 4:10 you look more done with this madness than I've ever seen you look. Great job debunking this stuff!!! It worries me that people will see this kind of thing and believe it.
Please so more of these, i think most of those tend to be bogus, and it helps to know which are more accurate and which are made by content bots that dont know anything.
The first tiktok was made by someone who has anger issues and who can't admit that they have hurt people and need to change and instead want to gaslight everyone around them to tolerate their asses.
'If you're perfectionistic it's better to do less' - ty ... I very nearly drowned swimming without reserving strength, which brought me to the lowest I have every been. These generalisations in 'motivational' videos can have devastating outcomes for some people.
I want a part 2
When I watch a tiktok video like these I never know they say really useful things or just something stupid
So yeah... part 2!
The perfectionism thing at the end is something I really need to reflect on.
I am burnt out right now. Wondering if I should do less?
0:28 - 0:36 Well,this is accurate *for me personally* ;-3 but I'm not sure that's the case _in general..._
1:19 - 1:27 For me personally this is a bit of contradiction because 1)if I dislike you _with passion_ I don't think I'll be able to _ignore_ you...I can't"ignore someone with passion"what does that even mean??😅And 2)it depends...it happened to me to dislike some people with burning passion initially and then changing my mind and starting to like them or even getting a crush on them and about the opposite,if I like you and you hurt me it's more likely that I will remain hurt rather than starting to _hate_ you and/or _ignore_ you.💔
1:54 - 1:59 Nah. I'm an awful friend. _I wish_ I was good,but I just think of my own buisness the whole day all days and even when I _do_ think of some of my friends and I wanna call them and stuff I usually procrastinate till I don't do it anymore.
3:17 - 3:23 I agree. Years ago I started to make a list of all the fictional characters that I consider soulmates and several couples _were_ platonic relationships/friendships.💞💕
4:19 - 4:28 Only if you *LIKE* your own name. Not going too deep into why,but there's been a long period of my life in which I used to hear people saying they would get offended if someone called them:"Hey!"when they didn't remember their name and I was thinking:"I would _PREFER_ to be called"Hey"rather than with a name I *hate* this much!X-((( I *WISH* people just called me Hey!"
Very much agree with the name thing!
as someone who has an obsessive/addictive personality, when i heard of tiktok, i put my foot down and decided never to download it. best decision of my life xD
I love it when you do these pop-psych takedowns. Thanks for keeping at it.
I just finished watching Monster, the 2004 psychological thriller anime, and I absolutely loved it. I feel like there’s soooo much to be unpacked and I’d be curious to hear your take on the show!
that first video.... WHOOO BOY. reads like an edgy tumblr post or some kinda "aesthetic" twitter. anyone else? like early 2010s internet angst-posting. "They'll do it with passion and ignore your entire existence." LMAO
Definitely wary about following the last advice as a perfectionist, especially when coupled with a harsh over-critical inner voice. "Have I done enough today" sounds benign but pushes one to overwhelm thyself and then negative self talk to "beat you up" for not being able to handle the work. A trap to avoid!
TikTok... what we used to fear RUclips was going to turn into. Thank you for taking the time to respond to and debunk this rubbish...
I loled when Goggins came up as a psychology video
Georgia you should analyze the psychology found in video games as well such as the silent hill games or the layers of fear games. As well as other visual novels
That'll be interesting but she doesn't seem like a gamer so she might have to watch a game movie or something.
@@thebillionthuser she could use let’s play footage of games (with permission)
Check out her video list - she did The Last of Us game version before she did the TV show.
@@thebillionthuser a) She is a gamer b) She is also deep into D&D
Thanks for sharing. I do enjoy your psychological themed videos. Blessings on your day!
I just love 1:48 sound 😂😂😂😂
Seems like Jack Handey wrote these.
2:42 - at least we know you have a good and kind heart...
I was waiting for the "This is gonna hurt me more than it hurts you Psychology Fact".
A little surprised you didn't go after the word "soulmate".
The look on your face you had before you gave your commentary on those first two “psychology facts” definitely gave the impression that you were thinking in the back of your head “This’s dumb-fuckery on a level so high, I don’t even really know how to respond to it.” 😂😂😂
4:11 this girl has been full of crap for years but she speaks with such confidence people like her....I mean, some of her videos are probably accurate to an extent. But other things are just so not true💀
Georgia, I've been watching your videos for awhile, and I just LOVE the way you style your hair.
Awesome video. I like how you debunk the misinformation and the insights you provide (both for the inaccurate and more accurate statements). This is great and I too would like to see a part 2.
Have a nice day.
Obviously these are facts. Can’t you hear the inspirational music?!? Nothing says ‘facts’ like epic, inspirational music
i wonder ... could u do a vid on the dangers of delving to deep into psychology stuff and labeling ppl without having a degree on the matter ?
I always wonder with these things if the people making them actually believe it themselves, if they are starting misinformation they received, or if they are just making it up.
This is probably the first time I have seen Georgia get a bit fiery at something.
And while I am at it, this is probably a good time as any to say that TikTok is probably not the best place to find solutions to your mental health problems. Seek professional help, people.
Would absolutely love you to keep debunking little videos like that. I see so many of them on SM and am always thinking No... Just no, where the heck are you getting these "facts"???
The worst ones are ones about neurodivergancy, they over simplify symptoms so much that they become normal everyday things everyone has on occasion rather than an actual fact about the psychological symptoms of ADHD, or OCD, or Autism, or whatever
Even though these videos do not
get the same amount of views compared to your reactions they are just as good 🙂
Only for a smaller group of people? Please keep making them
Off topic, but could you do an advice video for future/starting therapists? I'm an LCSW-A starting my outpatient therapy journey and am just looking for tips, advice, encouragement, etc
Try out different theraputic ways and see which you enjoy the most. i would say start in a place with other therapists you can talk to as it is very helpful to have a team around you or supervision. And have fun it is an amazing field
It was an interesting video. Thanks, Doc!
Leave it to Georgia Dow to pick the pieces of gold out of a pile of garbage
As a someone that likes to be alone, sure? I guess I could be a good friend, but it's certainly not cus I like to be alone LOL
Epic, the whole video glad to see it hope you had fun looks like you did 😅😂
Perfect debunking
Only take I don't agree with is the one about the "grindset" mentality at the end. World wide we have the access to enough resources so that increasing your station in life should be a desire, not a necessity. We throw away enough food to end world hunger, we have enough homes to house the homeless, we have come far enough in technology that we could get rid of some of the more mundane jobs and allow people to just exist. We should be fighting for that instead of telling people to overwork themselves for the current system in place to make a small percentage of what the population with insane wealth have and that they and their future lineage could never spend. The "grindset" should be focused on making yourself a better person instead of getting yourself to point of money where you no longer have to work to survive. And almost everyone trying to push the grindset mentality is trying to profit from it. They're usually called Grifters.
That said, I love your content, and I just think the clip you used felt very Grifter-like but your points around it are still great for people, if we're using them for self improvement instead off financial gain.
I think he WAS talking about making yourself a better person. And Georgia was too. Resilience is required for that. You can't truly improve spiritually, mentally, emotionally or physically without it. How hard can you figuratively or in actuality "get hit" or experience massive setbacks, and get up and keep moving forward. As for helping others? There is the parable of the Good Samaritan, who nobody would have remembered if he didn't have the "tool" of money to be able help out. So...I do believe this is not about grindset mentality as you have described it.
Barnum effect go brrrr
Typical David Goggins W here. Gotta love it.
(smiles) Georgia...you DO remind me of me. I have been doing much debunking myself of late. (sighs) But with more...and less classy...Grrrr!...than you. = ) And yes my blood type has, over the years, been replaced by Type RESILIENCE. If what does not kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press domestic vehicles. From the sixties. Oh. Right. I actually did do that...once. The other time was a car from the nineties. The first was dealing with a broken tail pipe/muffler and I wanted to snap it completely off so it would stop dragging.Twisted the tailpipe off to the side, got underneath it and shoved up. It didn't snap off, but the car lifted.
Thanks for exposing how silly these videos are
Is it wrong that I’m hysterically laughing at how your face changes the moment the text changes.
TikTok is where the brain goes to die
What? I hate hearing my name. Means someone is speaking directly to me. Means they actually know who I am. Means they want something. I was minding my own business thinking my own thoughts and now I'll have to take time and focus with someone watching me and try to process what they want and attempt to respond appropriately without becoming entangled in whatever social snare they have in mind... What if they say, "How are you?" When they don't REALLY want to know? Where do I go with this? Or worse, they have a specific topic to speak about and they honestly expect me to be able to answer accurately in real time. Sorry, I need time to think about what you said. Text me and we''ll be in business.
Of course, as long as I can form a sentence, no one will believe it's that hard to form the right sentence. I'm tired of explaining so just stop saying my name. I don't have the energy for your little nonverbal head games.
Also, little miss social discombobulation can fry in Hell. How about you engage with a person as an equal and see what develops instead of toying with them?
Ahem...did you note what she said after - people like hearing their name? She said UNLESS they have social anxiety. Also...I think I may have missed something too: Who is this "little miss social discombobulation" ?
4:32 she made sure to mention ppl that don't like having their name heard
If the content comes from Tiktok then yes it is stupid
Funny how these are made up by immature teenagers for teenagers wanting to be more mature
Those first 3 sound ai-generated
❤
So badass 👑🥰🙏
all right, hear me out: next time you respond to tik-toks make sure to film and publish vertically.
That way we can all share the pain!
Daily Facts Worth : pseudo-AI generated nonsense? Maybe?