RL - Good Man (Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 24 окт 2009
  • Music video by RL performing Good Man. (C) 2002 J Records LLC
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  • @mbaliemncube4513
    @mbaliemncube4513 3 месяца назад +147

    You're a G if you here in 2024❤

  • @Jessica-eu3ch
    @Jessica-eu3ch 3 месяца назад +40

    Can we just bring the 90s and early 2000s music back? This generation needs it!!

  • @louisbusingye743
    @louisbusingye743 4 года назад +442

    This song didn't get the credit it deserves. One of the best R&B tracks of all time.

    • @NorthPhilly-zr7xc
      @NorthPhilly-zr7xc 3 года назад +12

      it sounds like dru hill theses are the times

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +8

      Gunnel Gainey. IDC. Where. This Song is. From. But. I. Give. My. Props. To. RL. For. Doing. This Song. I. Love. This Song.

    • @SF-sl7fi
      @SF-sl7fi 2 года назад +6

      Lazy @$$ record label most likely

    • @kendralatta4530
      @kendralatta4530 Год назад +6

      I feel in love with this song the first time I heard it he did better singing solo

    • @louisbusingye743
      @louisbusingye743 Год назад +1

      @@NorthPhilly-zr7xc Thought so too!

  • @charismatic9904
    @charismatic9904 6 лет назад +568

    This goes out to the love of my life. My wife. Thank you for loving me. I miss you everyday. Its been 4 months since you and our son passed away but I think of you both everyday. I miss you. I love you. Thank you for showing me I can love again.

  • @Phrankleen13
    @Phrankleen13 8 лет назад +1368

    Music is no longer like this :(

  • @raymondmitchell1730
    @raymondmitchell1730 9 лет назад +1227

    I remember singing this song in my high school talent show wasn't even the song I auditioned for changed the song because the one female that knew me best asked me to after I sang it to her in my car. But the week before the talent show her dad and her was killed by a drunk driver so a few of her and my friends made a slide show that played behind me while I was singing and I turned around too look at the picture at the end and it was our prom pic together I couldn't even finish the last few words of the song I just broke down that was 10 years ago this coming April wow

    • @chrisyroche7633
      @chrisyroche7633 9 лет назад +47

      Raymond Mitchell :( that's really sad,

    • @Katerinburg
      @Katerinburg 9 лет назад +34

      Raymond Mitchell am so sorry :(.

    • @Biscuitplease
      @Biscuitplease 8 лет назад +45

      that a beautiful visual that relates to the song so much.

    • @ladyinyellow9574
      @ladyinyellow9574 8 лет назад +56

      +Raymond Mitchell I cried reading this. I'm so sorry , that must have been very difficult. I never experienced losing someone that way but I l've experienced losing my parents to disease. It's not the same pain but it is pain we can both relate too.

    • @mahogonysilhouette2939
      @mahogonysilhouette2939 8 лет назад +24

      God bless your heart.

  • @Listen_To_Old_School_Gospel
    @Listen_To_Old_School_Gospel 15 дней назад +10

    I’ve been that guy so depressed and alone sitting in a nasty motel room with a loaded gun under my chin asking myself if I wanted to make it to the next day. I got on my hands in knees and cried out loud in prayer rebuking the devil and praying for Jesus to remove anything that was not of him. I made it out of that motel alive, and with continued prayer and due diligence I am 100% a believer and saved.

  • @Juan_E_Dewitt
    @Juan_E_Dewitt 2 года назад +16

    You would have seen a grown man cry when this video first dropped. Thought he was going to his wedding... Then the plot twist

  • @TaishaM06
    @TaishaM06 10 лет назад +493

    The first time I saw this, I surely thought he was getting married... Then ...He walked into that church... and there was a casket... STILL get saddened at that part!

    • @nigahiganumber1dfjef
      @nigahiganumber1dfjef 10 лет назад +7

      yep same here

    • @hurstyhurst7971
      @hurstyhurst7971 6 лет назад +9

      I actually thought the same thing when I first listened to this, which makes me just like the song even more

    • @brandonblue5190
      @brandonblue5190 5 лет назад +14

      Yes exacklty. But as soon as I saw the people dressed in black it hit like a ton of bricks.

    • @arisegriffis6920
      @arisegriffis6920 5 лет назад +8

      That's when really broke down

    • @tonairodriguez4648
      @tonairodriguez4648 5 лет назад +6

      I love this video and im sad about this video

  • @modelgang4life922
    @modelgang4life922 2 года назад +67

    Damn this song makes me think of my long lost love she was in a head on collision she died on impact it’s been 3 years and I still cry 😢 when I hear this song ,EVERYONE take care and I wish u the best in LIFE ✌️✌️

  • @angelmcknight4365
    @angelmcknight4365 Год назад +127

    I have never ever stopped listening to this song. It runs on my playlist every day for the past 10 years plus. Very very underrated vocalist and song.

    • @jblvxk
      @jblvxk Год назад +5

      was such and still is one of the best RNB tracks. cant beat old school RNB!!

  • @charkitahood2532
    @charkitahood2532 Год назад +70

    This song and video are sooo beautiful. All these years later and I still love it.

  • @audiodopebeats
    @audiodopebeats 8 лет назад +649

    One of the best runs I've heard on a bridge. RL is hella underrated.

    • @shantaejenkins3080
      @shantaejenkins3080 7 лет назад +4

      amen!!!

    • @porschaverdun8927
      @porschaverdun8927 7 лет назад +4

      u r so right

    • @sundrallmcgriff2309
      @sundrallmcgriff2309 7 лет назад +3

      +Porscha Verdun exactly

    • @denisethompson6898
      @denisethompson6898 7 лет назад

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    • @marysterling2685
      @marysterling2685 6 лет назад +2

      Sunshine🌞I 💘 this

  • @bfiasco7318
    @bfiasco7318 9 лет назад +368

    over 10 years later, and the plot twist still and will always have me in tears

  • @brandonbonner4535
    @brandonbonner4535 4 месяца назад +11

    If I could sing I would bring this type of music back

  • @fauzianalwoga1002
    @fauzianalwoga1002 2 месяца назад +9

    Grown up listening to such music because of my now late mum 😢. Hurts knowing she would have been here celebrating her 45th birthday

  • @lilmo1205
    @lilmo1205 8 лет назад +517

    I really wish R.L. would have made more music. I love his voice!! Not to mention how sexy he is!!😩😍

    • @portiaverdun2718
      @portiaverdun2718 7 лет назад +9

      he is a good looking black donot CRACK and he has a pretty baby girl

    • @TitaSim
      @TitaSim 7 лет назад +12

      he's mine sister back off!!...lol lol since day one i still love this man's voice and yes so damn sexy.

    • @lilmo1205
      @lilmo1205 7 лет назад +2

      tita sim LOL!!😂

    • @ashleynic956
      @ashleynic956 7 лет назад +3

      rittte

    • @purposebehindthepen
      @purposebehindthepen 6 лет назад +1

      Lil Mo Very sexy indeed

  • @charmeciaaustin26
    @charmeciaaustin26 9 лет назад +146

    this along with aaron hall's "i miss you" are some of the saddest music videos i have ever seen. especially at the end of the video. Man ....brings tears to my eyes.

    • @PoppTv23
      @PoppTv23 6 лет назад +2

      Charmecia Austin indeed and agreed

    • @lai7034
      @lai7034 3 года назад +1

      True story

    • @antinatalistwitch111
      @antinatalistwitch111 2 месяца назад

      There i go to that good classic too. 😂

  • @NatruelKeKe
    @NatruelKeKe 4 месяца назад +6

    90s baby here and Yes! Yes! Yes! The difference between "raising a man" and pouring into a man with potential.

  • @817phatbae
    @817phatbae 3 месяца назад +12

    I love RL❤2024

  • @NaraV
    @NaraV 6 лет назад +7

    I remember crying my ass off when I first saw this music video back in the day

  • @MT-yx5cu
    @MT-yx5cu 3 месяца назад +59

    When was this made? How did I miss this beautiful song and I'm an 80s baby😮? This was definitely slept on.
    Who's here in 2024?

    • @El_Finesse
      @El_Finesse 2 месяца назад +4

      I'm here too released in 2002 gets me everytime I listen to this song

    • @CallmeachildofGod
      @CallmeachildofGod 2 месяца назад +3

      90s Baby here and just found this masterpiece, not understanding how I haven't heard this and I love me some RL!!

    • @antinatalistwitch111
      @antinatalistwitch111 2 месяца назад +1

      Here... i remember watching this come on BET as a child and feeling emotional 😊

    • @user-ex3cb7up1q
      @user-ex3cb7up1q Месяц назад

      Me

  • @neorichard7202
    @neorichard7202 2 года назад +11

    i dedicate this song to my wife who past away yesterday

  • @phyllisblive7614
    @phyllisblive7614 2 года назад +14

    To everyone who has lost someone close especially throughout covid. My thoughts are with you

  • @delightgeraldmatare9756
    @delightgeraldmatare9756 7 лет назад +26

    Miss my wife. Was never really a bad guy but I reached a new different level of manhood because of her. I understand now how to be a man a good man. I will be the best father to our son also train him to be the best version of himself, a good man. I will love you always Mel death parted us but it did stop me from loving you.

  • @leeluulee4301
    @leeluulee4301 9 лет назад +124

    when he put the ring on the casket, i was done, eyes watering instantly

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +2

      That. Probably Made. Him. Cry. Also

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +2

      I. Started Crying. At. That. Part. Also

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +2

      You. Are. Makes Me. Cry. Also.

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 Год назад +2

      The. Best Man I Can. Be. Makes. Me. Cry. Also. And. We. Can’t. Be. Friends Makes. Me. Cry. Also

  • @AbsoLucci
    @AbsoLucci Год назад +7

    If you’re still playing this in 2022.. you’re a fucking legend 💯🫡 Love You Ruthy

  • @antinatalistwitch111
    @antinatalistwitch111 2 месяца назад +3

    Here in 2024, for all the chills, goose bumps, emotions, and nostalgia! ❤❤❤

  • @mahogonysilhouette2939
    @mahogonysilhouette2939 8 лет назад +142

    My goodness R.L is so fine. I loved him when I was little.

  • @MrElite_01
    @MrElite_01 3 года назад +10

    Ugh, the ending always makes me cry!!!!!

  • @ashe5085
    @ashe5085 5 лет назад +26

    This video just made me think of Lauren & Nipsey😭😭😭😭

  • @zphib2003
    @zphib2003 4 года назад +188

    Still listening in 2019 and this song still makes me cry..

  • @chrisyroche7633
    @chrisyroche7633 9 лет назад +220

    It makes me sad to say that good music like this doesn't exist anymore, I wish that someone would come along and bring the feel of 90's r&b back

    • @PhillipConleyJr.
      @PhillipConleyJr. 9 лет назад

      PREACH!!!!!

    • @Biscuitplease
      @Biscuitplease 8 лет назад +7

      My heart is with you... they don't make songs you can sit down think, dance, grind and cry too. I dont know where that music went but it missed.

    • @moeatroche10
      @moeatroche10 8 лет назад

      i love that comment you made

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13 8 лет назад +7

      +Christina Sings well said!

    • @maryjohnson5088
      @maryjohnson5088 7 лет назад +2

      Lamar Dorsey it sure is missed

  • @wudaddy
    @wudaddy 8 лет назад +129

    This video messed me up when I first watched back then. Even now it's hard to watch. It has you thinking "wedding," but he's going to a funeral.

    • @arielthomas1317
      @arielthomas1317 8 лет назад +13

      agreed...I actually cried

    • @rudeleonard3516
      @rudeleonard3516 7 лет назад +12

      He thought he was gonna marry her, she's not really dead. The relationship Dead

    • @wudaddy
      @wudaddy 7 лет назад +6

      Ah, never saw it that way. Thanks.

    • @loyalbeaugard4387
      @loyalbeaugard4387 7 лет назад +1

      Rude Leonard relate to it

    • @vivianmugoha6193
      @vivianmugoha6193 7 лет назад +6

      wudaddy I know right... at first when I watched the video I was like, "awww " then I be like, "wait a sec.... whaaaat??" RL is sweet, I feel in love with this song first time I heard it.

  • @marlaaaron0715
    @marlaaaron0715 10 месяцев назад +3

    I've been playing this today my brother died yesterday morning 9/6/23 I l9ve you n I miss you so much you loved me like a brother suppose to I'll miss you n our talks and going to store and little crazy arguments thank you John Grant live you bro yr sis Marla my heart breaks

  • @kojohayford3691
    @kojohayford3691 3 года назад +7

    Wasn't expecting such an ending

  • @kayekieable
    @kayekieable 7 лет назад +123

    Still makes me cry... the emotion behind this song is crazy. This is what R&B is missing today. Its nothing but garbage out today w the exception of a very small scale of artists....RL

  • @aboutmillions
    @aboutmillions 10 лет назад +275

    They really dont make songs like this no more....or videos for that matter.....both go hand in hand

  • @mbongisenikhumalo3067
    @mbongisenikhumalo3067 3 года назад +11

    Still waiting for a woman who will give me the same love and meaning of life.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 года назад

      I hope you truly find a good woman some day! It's not easy out here but I wish you all the best.

    • @user-yk7wz3fe9t
      @user-yk7wz3fe9t Месяц назад

      Me too bro.its ruff out here

    • @francesgonzales6548
      @francesgonzales6548 24 дня назад

      I'm waiting for a good man 🙏🤞

  • @paulhermeya2468
    @paulhermeya2468 6 лет назад +170

    All time favorite for sure. Anyone else felt like they had to look this song up in 2018?

    • @87lillyv
      @87lillyv 5 лет назад +3

      I just spent 1 hour trying to find this song! All time favorite

    • @brandonblue5190
      @brandonblue5190 5 лет назад

      yup. Crazy!

    • @latoyakelly3683
      @latoyakelly3683 5 лет назад +1

      Paul Hermeya yes!

    • @da1uCrave
      @da1uCrave 5 лет назад +2

      Every time i think about a certain individual. Can not get get out my mind even though it's been years since we been together. This and sisqo's incomplete

    • @blackistheshitboyy5597
      @blackistheshitboyy5597 4 года назад +3

      Nov 15, 2019 I lost my baby sis and she was our strength and I had to come here

  • @lilkim3443
    @lilkim3443 2 года назад +10

    Good Lord RL is gorgeous!! 🥰🥰

  • @clauzellblackshear2057
    @clauzellblackshear2057 Год назад +36

    I was a kid when this came out I didn't really understand but now that I'm grown this song shows a message treat your lady right because life is precious 💯. I had a female friend back when I was in my 20s and I never knew she passed away it still hurt until this day.

    • @calvinhouston5015
      @calvinhouston5015 7 месяцев назад +3

      I was 7 years old when I first heard this song on the radio and saw the video on BET.

  • @mattprescott4191
    @mattprescott4191 Год назад +36

    I remember seeing this music video for the very first time YEARS ago and cryin like a baby
    Randomly thought of this song again today and it’s still pretty gut wrenching

  • @MARYSSON22
    @MARYSSON22 2 месяца назад +4

    This song always hits home 4 me smh I had an ex pass away in 2009 from pneumonia and then ANOTHER 1 pass away in 2023 and both of them died without me even knowing until I looked in the paper and saw their names in the obituary 😢 2 great amazing women that I'll 4ever miss so when I hear this song, I sing my fuckin' heart out 2 both of them!! R.I.P Akorfa Jackson 1976 to 2009 and Brandi Jones 1979 to 2023 🙏🏽🕊🙏🏽🕊

  • @corvettetillman7808
    @corvettetillman7808 8 лет назад +688

    makes me miss Midnight Love on BET

  • @Heeeey_Mr.DJgames
    @Heeeey_Mr.DJgames 10 лет назад +95

    This song and video will make u change yo ways in yo relationship no matter what if u love yo man or woman this will make u think twice. You won't know what u had till it's gone

  • @steffiehickey8937
    @steffiehickey8937 3 года назад +18

    😭😭😭😭😭cant even explain how this song makes me feel!!! Men better appreciate a good woman and vice versa!!!

  • @JestInCase
    @JestInCase 3 года назад +49

    Anyone notice how similar it sounds to Dru Hill - These are the Times? Especially the chorus?

    • @darealistmynizzle3421
      @darealistmynizzle3421 2 года назад +3

      I just noticed that 😳

    • @tempesthenry
      @tempesthenry 2 года назад +3

      Yesss

    • @DanielRandB
      @DanielRandB 2 года назад +5

      And also Kevon Edmonds 24/7 As Well

    • @officialernestbonilla
      @officialernestbonilla 2 года назад +4

      I literally looked up this video just to find a comment noting the similarities. Yours is the only one I've found so far.

  • @ebonynowlin9329
    @ebonynowlin9329 8 лет назад +134

    REAL R&B THAT MADE YOU FEEL ALL TYPES OF EMOTIONS! 😘😘

  • @ganonatosha1
    @ganonatosha1 4 года назад +37

    They don't make music like this no more!! Forever a vibe ❤️

  • @kyronrogers8847
    @kyronrogers8847 2 года назад +32

    This is my favorite song from RL. The video hit home. Appreciate the people ypu live and love them with everything you got because time waits for no one , it's nor promised. Make the best of it.

  • @pearli717
    @pearli717 2 года назад +4

    Omgosh. JUST hearing this for the 1st time in 2022. What a beautiful song. I really was NOT prepared fir the ending though. Took me out. I actually thought this was Teddy Riley. Can't believe this song has been out that long. Good music. Really miss this type of singing.

  • @Bigmelle19
    @Bigmelle19 8 лет назад +234

    this song brings me to tears because this song is true about me because my girlfriend now has made me into a better man and I cant see myself with anyone else but her and being in this relationship has truly made man a man and not a boy

    • @alexzarmmckenzie6023
      @alexzarmmckenzie6023 5 лет назад +4

      Bro respect big time I to relate to this song. I was in true darkness untill I found my lady. she has truly guided me and showed me the way... I'm am grateful to no ends... I hope you've sealed the deal.

    • @Jarrod2024
      @Jarrod2024 3 года назад

      thats my dream..well,i did,i had,its hard..:(

    • @queenc8280
      @queenc8280 2 года назад +1

      Hope you Married her

    • @mbongisenikhumalo3067
      @mbongisenikhumalo3067 2 года назад +1

      Happy for you my brother.Keep it and protect it.

    • @charkitahood2532
      @charkitahood2532 Год назад

      Are y’all still together? ❤

  • @tee3135
    @tee3135 4 года назад +8

    This video had a bigger twist than when I finally saw the video to Aaron Hall's "I Miss You" ..after hearing the song numerous times. I wasn't ready!! Lol

  • @jumaineadams9152
    @jumaineadams9152 4 года назад +3

    This is dedicated in loving memory of Kenya Andrea Pinkett August 8th,1988-October 23rd, 2007. 12 years later and I'm still missing you.

  • @camillebracy5366
    @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +5

    RL. You. Are. Underrated. Also. God. Bless. You. 💐❤️

  • @reiignkiingentertainment2737
    @reiignkiingentertainment2737 6 лет назад +13

    This is real R&B

  • @howdydoody9
    @howdydoody9 2 года назад +108

    Love this song. But just a friendly reminder ladies…You can’t make a man “good” and don’t ruin yourself trying to do so. 🖤 A good man is a GOOD man. Whether you’re there or not.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 года назад +3

      So true!!

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +3

      I. Agree With. What. You. Just. Said

    • @williammckee8913
      @williammckee8913 2 года назад +13

      Not necessarily… most men don’t know the man the are meant to be until they have God and a good woman.. btw age doesn’t make a man a man nor does it does to a woman

    • @titanrhama9068
      @titanrhama9068 Год назад +3

      Obviously you didn't listen to the song......believe it or not a woman can make a man good, and vice versa!

    • @mrjron01
      @mrjron01 Год назад

      Wrong miss a women can easily change a man. It's the ones that try to make a man change that for what they want not what he wants will get rejection n resistance each time

  • @SEXYDCGIRL84
    @SEXYDCGIRL84 6 лет назад +34

    Rl was a great group singer and solo singer. He was also an incredible writer.

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +1

      What. Do. You. Mean. Was. He’s. Still. Writing. Songs.

    • @nobantum8216
      @nobantum8216 Год назад +1

      It’s 2023 this song kills me in tears coz I dnt know this kind of love I wish I can experience it 😭😭 I believe true love exist and he keeps reminding me every time I listen to Thisbe song. Moves my honest ! Whoooaaaaa

  • @mrsk5039
    @mrsk5039 3 месяца назад +6

    Thank you Jesus I love you

  • @DolceMateo
    @DolceMateo 10 лет назад +200

    This video always gets me watery eyed 😢

  • @icuhaternumberone3048
    @icuhaternumberone3048 5 лет назад +3

    Wow! Was NOT expecting that! What a twist.

  • @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen
    @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen 4 года назад +56

    A pure song and a clean video, thanks RL!

  • @InGodWeTrust822
    @InGodWeTrust822 6 месяцев назад +3

    Im still listening in 2023 i cried th first time i saw the video still cry lol. He had the ring i thought he was going to get marrid n then i seen that casket sheesh i balled. 💔💔 love what u have before u haveto love what u had 😭

  • @hannahahle
    @hannahahle 2 года назад +5

    Never seen the video to this song before - crying at the heart breaking ending 💔

    • @user-yk7wz3fe9t
      @user-yk7wz3fe9t Месяц назад +1

      Me neither and I'm just seeing and hearing it and it's 2024

  • @Champion2414
    @Champion2414 9 лет назад +6

    Tears every time I picture myself in his shoes smh don't see how guys can miss treat a woman they love well say they love what if something like this happen what would you say or could you say better treat her like gold while she's alive and here today

  • @wakezandrewz203
    @wakezandrewz203 2 года назад +7

    U truly changed me for the best .. into a Good Man ....I appreciate u ... It's all because of u🙏🙏

  • @chanellerenee5928
    @chanellerenee5928 3 года назад +55

    Still listening in 2020. R&B just ain’t the same. This song is so beautiful ❤️

    • @eminencerecords7080
      @eminencerecords7080 3 года назад

      Hey Chanelle, we just released his new single and it's pretty damn awesome, hope you go check it out!

  • @RJMusiq
    @RJMusiq 8 лет назад +28

    They don't make songs like this anymore!!!
    There's no heart and soul in today's music!!!
    Really sad!!!

  • @anasatekolu5523
    @anasatekolu5523 9 лет назад +89

    can't wait until someone feels like this about me..

    • @treasurecarelli488
      @treasurecarelli488 8 лет назад +6

      I know what you mean. ...I kinda gave up on it but hopefully you'll get your wish

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 5 лет назад +2

      Anasa Tekolu I wish someone could feel that way about me too but at the same time I feel like Treasure, like probably no one will feel that way about me.

    • @fightingspirit8150
      @fightingspirit8150 5 лет назад +1

      Sisters sorry we are out here. Dam shame you'll feel that way real talk real brothers love you stay strong shalawam

    • @jumaineadams9152
      @jumaineadams9152 4 года назад +2

      @@treasurecarelli488 don't give up. There's someone out there who will love you for who you are

    • @tynekayoumens7757
      @tynekayoumens7757 4 года назад +3

      I've been waiting a long time for this type of love

  • @blacknproud.podcast
    @blacknproud.podcast 4 года назад +6

    Mr. Robert Lavelle Huggar,
    .. I remember this song & album because it showed me that the man that was my best friend all this time was my husband all this time .. 18yrs & 3 grown daughters later we are still together for this song alone! Thank you for allowing a friendship to blossom into a forever love that is 4ever, 4always, 4love! #iAmMrsMiller🥰❤😘💋💯

  • @kiaallen9459
    @kiaallen9459 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hes such an underrated artist even to this day,he has wrote n produced some music as well

  • @aaroncorn983
    @aaroncorn983 9 лет назад +229

    This song touch my soul

  • @purelove9410
    @purelove9410 7 лет назад +121

    this is when men know the had to step up to making a woman a wife and not a side chick/baby mama. love u

    • @fallonrucker4101
      @fallonrucker4101 6 лет назад +1

      yesssss

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 лет назад +5

      when women were worth wifing up!

    • @jazkarena9876
      @jazkarena9876 3 года назад

      Or juss a fling/flunky🙄

    • @MikeLowry488
      @MikeLowry488 2 года назад +1

      Only a woman can make herself a side chick! Maybe one day y’all will take accountability😂🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @purelove9410
      @purelove9410 2 года назад +3

      @@MikeLowry488 what accountability are you talking about when lies will get you in situation that makes you feel like he is working making u his one and only.

  • @geraldinepollard9407
    @geraldinepollard9407 3 года назад +22

    Makes you cry and smile at the same time...every one should feel this kind of love at least once

  • @camillebracy5366
    @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +5

    We. Need. Some. Tissues. Here.

  • @mrglenn
    @mrglenn 7 лет назад +132

    very underrated artist. Being and R&B artist myself I can truly say this style of music is what we are missing in the R&B game today.

    • @tiffanyferebee6043
      @tiffanyferebee6043 7 лет назад +8

      You are absolutely correct. Music has definitely changed, children these days will never know how to fall in love with music.. the proper way

    • @itsthatatm8345
      @itsthatatm8345 7 лет назад +4

      Lol, ain't no such a thing as RnB anymore, this was the last of it, smh...

  • @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329
    @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329 3 года назад +13

    He use to play games with the one he really was in love with. But continue to be a player. Now she gone. He missed her

  • @ajroberts728
    @ajroberts728 3 года назад +17

    I sung this song to my lady as a introduction of my love and proposal to her 💖

  • @cgaston0514
    @cgaston0514 29 дней назад +2

    This songs hits hard . My kids mom just past away 6/3/2024 🕊️. Thank you for showing me what love is and giving me our sons that we both love and raised 😭🙏

    • @mso9584
      @mso9584 28 дней назад +1

      Continuous comfort n strength from God to you and your sons...

  • @shanicebeckles1476
    @shanicebeckles1476 6 лет назад +136

    Its not that she as a peraon died. Its like she came into his life for a reason to make him into the man he became and he believed marriage was where they were heading but truly being with her shaped him and what they had and their relationship is gone almost like a death but the lessons he learnt while being with her will continue to live on in him and his future relationship

    • @fitzgeralde1983
      @fitzgeralde1983 5 лет назад +8

      I like that

    • @williegoldsmith43
      @williegoldsmith43 4 года назад +7

      Well said my lady

    • @samuelmays8968
      @samuelmays8968 4 года назад +8

      So true everything happens for a reason

    • @renaissancelight4971
      @renaissancelight4971 4 года назад +16

      It's sad when you make someone better for the next person when you wish they could have been that way with you 😢

    • @nirvarene25us
      @nirvarene25us 3 года назад +4

      @@renaissancelight4971 Ain't that the truth

  • @paulsmith778
    @paulsmith778 4 года назад +29

    Definitely the best thing that RL has done! Absolute great song!

  • @hermitvr3773
    @hermitvr3773 3 года назад +9

    This has got to be the saddest thing next to losing a child. Finding love then losing them before you get to enjoy having them.

  • @natrulbutee
    @natrulbutee 3 года назад +3

    I can remember stayn up for 12a.m,Midnight Love was life for me... Miss my B.E.T 😪😪... Bring back the good old days plz

  • @kjmom2749
    @kjmom2749 2 года назад +8

    Been my song since high school. Still bumping in 2022

    • @kjmom2749
      @kjmom2749 Год назад

      Same here! Graduated in 05

  • @Curlifyable1
    @Curlifyable1 6 лет назад +5

    This video and song stills brings tears to my eyes.

  • @IamParker662
    @IamParker662 4 года назад +2

    Man I use to sing the hell out this song back in junior high. Man I remember the first time I saw this video brought tears to my eyes.

  • @shadowrc0721
    @shadowrc0721 3 года назад +3

    This video threw me for a loop when I first saw it. It had the making of a wedding at first... still great song to sing to that special girl.

  • @roderickburden1270
    @roderickburden1270 9 лет назад +4

    That song had me crying

  • @RoseRose-ui5eb
    @RoseRose-ui5eb 7 лет назад +5

    This song alway breaks my heart whenever I see the video!

  • @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen
    @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen 3 года назад +2

    I hope you had a GREAT GOOD FRIDAY Birthday RL. Thanks for all you do, King.

  • @taylorcameronvfl
    @taylorcameronvfl 2 года назад +15

    Glad I rediscovered this song. I’ve had on repeat since

  • @Angedoescoversongs
    @Angedoescoversongs 9 лет назад +32

    I though I was the only one crying but you crying and you crying and men evening getting emotional so glad I'm not alone in this we can all cry together :"( :")

  • @mbongenimakhathini5144
    @mbongenimakhathini5144 8 лет назад +38

    Times have changed, so has the music and meaning behind it.

  • @wendyholmes6647
    @wendyholmes6647 3 года назад +19

    His voice is phenomenal!

  • @sefanjatjin7684
    @sefanjatjin7684 3 года назад +23

    Back then when music had a meaning. I miss the old generation that I grew up in cause this one don't know anything

    • @termellgriffnitermellgriff2752
      @termellgriffnitermellgriff2752 3 года назад

      EATING FRIDAY 💙💚😍💋 and And Family Really good Luck with

    • @justme7641
      @justme7641 3 года назад +3

      Agree. All they do now is talk disrespectfully about females and males in majority of the songs. This is the disrespectful generation coming up

    • @brianharris1988
      @brianharris1988 2 года назад +1

      Lol! You are exactly right. All the music today is all ignorant & hard to figure out what was it recorded for? I guess for giving migraines or headaches

  • @Fifia234
    @Fifia234 7 лет назад +14

    RL, Sisqo, Wanye...singers of the 90s...need to make a come back. Just need the right song. I can count on one hand the talented singers we have out now.

  • @michaelcloete271
    @michaelcloete271 3 года назад +4

    my new favorite song thank you RL.
    I am married, and work away from home a lot listening to this song kept me in line.
    i will honor you my lovely wife (Xuros)

  • @ThinkPIONEERing
    @ThinkPIONEERing 2 года назад +4

    @3:02 if the human heart could sing and cry at the same time… thats what it would sound like. I felt this one RL, forreal.

  • @Chii9000
    @Chii9000 9 лет назад +62

    This song came out when I was in middle school. I fell in love with this song and video the first time I saw it on BET. It's truly one of my favorite songs.

    • @loyalbeaugard4387
      @loyalbeaugard4387 7 лет назад

      Chianya I did too

    • @sirrenanelson7797
      @sirrenanelson7797 7 лет назад

      Vick Vick the whole song is emotional it just sad he lost his girlfriend he was in love with her so much when she passed it seemed like he could love anyone else but her

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +1

      Yes. The. Whole. Thing. Was Emotional. And. When. He. Walked. Up. In. The. Church. For. His. Girl Friend. Funeral. Was. The. Sadist. I. Was. Crying. Also.

    • @camillebracy5366
      @camillebracy5366 2 года назад +1

      I. Felt. His. Emotionanl. Pain. When. The. Pastor. Told. Him. To. Come. Up. And. Show. His. Respect. Everyone. Was. Looking At. Him. Why’s. He. Here. Everyone. Was. Also. Crying. And. I. Believe That. He. Was. Crying. Also.

    • @clauzellblackshear2057
      @clauzellblackshear2057 Год назад

      Me too wow