Lonnie is such a wonderful young man. I feel so bad for him. He got his heart broken all over again. I pray he and Anna will have a relationship too. God bless them all, and I pray for healing for all of them.❤
Happy that she got the results. And that the 2 men were keeping it civil to each other. It wasn't their faults at all. It was the woman, that gave birth to her.
Seriously!!! I’m like why is Ruth so damn hype right now? She was triggered so easily. Kinda wondering what that’s all about. Seems she hasn’t come to terms that she f’d up. Just own it lady with the finger tattoos lol reminds me of Gemma from Sons of Anarchy lol
Ray is immature AF. He's still mad about an affair that happened 18 years ago. Lonnie had a right to question paternity because of what he was told. I feel bad for the girl because she has an immature father and a mother who plays victim. Lonnie would've probably been the better option in regards to the maturity level of each adult that young lady has to deal with.
That's how it is the alot of mother's want you to believe it's the only the father's fault when you legit fault with the mother 9/10 times they act like that mother in the video.
Yes! She is the reason this girl doesn't know who her father is and had to grow up in care because she was removed. But the mother is bogged down in her own need to not feel guilt
Some people just like being the victim. No matter how much someone apologizes or says they are sorry or tries to do better that person just wants to be mad about something. This girl needs to stop and realize how much her mom tried to be there and do the best she could regardless of her mistakes.
I’m happy she has 2 father figures in her life. She’s a bit annoying/too grown but then again she’s probably had to grow fast dealing with grown kids around her
There is something about Karamo; he’s intuitive (is that the word?), and he’s so much more, like a great therapist everyone should have. Ana is very lucky; she has a bio dad (RAY) & (basically) a step father (Lonny)! I hope they can all stay connected; as it would be great for each of them; but, overall I hope they each get therapy! I’m so happy for Ana! ❤❤❤❤❤
Im so happy for the siblings coming complete after being spearated. So happy for them. The married couple i hope can work on Their communication because they seem so concerned about the environment around their child and clearly love each other. Happy to see a couple consider their child 1st. 💜
I think the girl needs to be ready to accept her mother's apology and she is obviously not. I felt the mother's frustration. YES I know she lost her child, but she really has been open and is TRYING.
wait another 18 yrs for your daughter to understand better.she is still a kid.if by some chance she has a child with an irresponsible guy,then she will understand how it feels being a single mom especially at a very young age. what do you want your mother to do?she has accepted and take responsibility for her actions.that is enough to at least sooth the pain.mom don't beat yourself up.she will understand later
If these so called men wanted to see HIS CHILD !! HE WOULD MOVE MOUNTAINS OVER HELL TO FIND HIS CHILD !! YOU BOTH LOST YOUR KIDS NOT JUST THE MOTHER !! I believe this mother she was on drugs JUST LIKE THE DAD WAS !! But ohhh it’s the mother’s fault !!?? I can fully understand the mother the mother AND HER HURT !! She apologized to her daughter!!HOW MUCH MORE CAN SHE DO ??? SHE SHOULDNT HAVE TO SUFFER & PUT UP WITH HER DAUGHTER DISRESPECTING HER !!! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!! If I was the mother U either except my apology and move on with life OR I GOT TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE !! The pass is the pass!!!! ❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦
You're right to a point. However, When a man feels betrayed about paternity, it's very hard for them to want anything to do with the kids. It's just the way it is. The woman is most definitely at fault for causing mistrust on paternity. She was the main ingredient in the chaos that followed her daughter
@@lyavule360Degrees @ But the father is still WRONG !! HE DONT GRT NO FREE PASS !!! Men are constantly leaving their kids behind & having nothing to do with their child /children.. two wrongs DONT MAKE A RIGHT !!! They got dead beat dads and they gif dead beat mothers … 🤷🏽♀️ITS ALWAYS THE KID/CHILDREN THAT SUFFER … hopefully everyone can forgive & move on in life, life is too short to be stuck on this for forever… ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦
@pamelastates5600 I'm not saying he's right. It's the doubt he had after he was told the child isn't his 🤷🏾♀️ You can't expect him to be fully vested then the real dad turns up 🤷🏾♀️ also if it wasn't a proper relationship, manz is ready to run for any excuse
This girl needs to get a grip. She likes being the victim. I am 78 & I still have vivid memories of bring 5 & taken to an orphanage & left because my parents were divorcing. I was in orphanage for 3 years, then with my dad & stepmother…she beat me for years. No one helped. I ran away at 14, went to live with Sisters of the Good Shepherd. My dad lived 4 miles from the convent. I didn’t see him. I graduated high school at 17 & was emancipated. I went to live with maternal, hit a job, kept educating myself & life went on. No self pity. Just determination. Now at 78 I’ve raised 2 kids, 3 grandchildren & have a great grandchild. I never felt sorry for myself, just determined not to let anyone stop me from living my life. I have few regrets because I learned my own strength & I survived in spite of those who would stop me. The morale is…..don’t wallow in self pity. Believe in yourself. Don’t look back, just forward. Don’t whine. Fight.
Girl your confused. You tell your mom to respect your space but then in the same breath say you need answers then get mad because your mom won't tell you. 🤔🤷🤷🤷🤷
i can respect that the daugter is hurting right... but shes asking questions and getting answers the mum is accepting her wrong doings and taking accountability and its almost like she wants more (maybe blood) she says shes wants space but also wants her mum to talk or do something more.... she is a bit to whiny needy and i think the daugter is milking it at this point ....watching this annoyed me alot....even karamo asked what do you want because i can her your mum taking accountabilty....im confused.
This was a beautiful episode in so many ways....i knew her dad was really the father.....coming out looking like a little smurfette😂🎉❤......hopefully its not werid but i just loved her little ears😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
Gd! She’s telling you what the fuck it is and she’s mad it’s not the answer she wants! She just said her mom say her down when she was young and told her wtf it was! But then turns around and says she didn’t tell bad tf you want her to do ?
@pamelastates5600 totally agreed!! The mother is ALWAYS the one to blame the worst even though the child gets taken from BOTH parents but you see the mom was trying so hard to make things right and this girl just couldn’t understand it. It’s almost like she’d rather her mom really not give a shit
She had to do a lot of growing up on her own. Her mother felt no self worth....hence she put her daughter down. I am thrilled she held her ground & not let her mother, play the " I am your mother" crap on her.
Very sad the man who went through the pregnancy and the birth was denied by the mother of the daughter. This what happen when mother sleep around. I wish the mother left the daughter with the husband who she denied him as his daughter. He could look after thus girl
Naw Karamo got this one a little bit wrong. The mother was taking full accountability for her mistakes. She clearly expressed her need and want to be in her childs life. The daughter wants to hold on to the hurt and pain from the past.
A lot of women blame these men they end up in jail paying support for no reason just because someone’s name is put on the birth certificate have proof first before u end them to jail
Young lady you are a great person and you are growing into a strong woman, i would be proud of you if you was my daughter and so would dad's all over the world be, keep your chin up high and God bless you.💪🌟
But she is attacking her mom you’re not talking to her you’re coming out and it’s so clear Omg I’m I the only one that sees it. Communication goes both ways no matter how hard the topic is.
Yes, her mom screwed up by having a drug addiction in the first place and losing her kids, but the daughter needs to still be a little thankful because there are still way worse mothers out there.
Great fun because it could be worse??? BS!! Only because her mother was “only” halfway bad she shall be happy and say thanx?? No, the mom is bad and the kid does not to have to think that it could be worse. A kid having a bad mom is allowed to be angry!!!! It s like if someone hits you and you shall be grateful because he could have killed you????!!!
Agreed. People are being too hard on Mom. She also had her life experiences. We don't know her story and what she has experienced in her life. Mom acknowledged Ona's experience. Should Mom be punished for the rest of her life? GRACE is needed on both sides...not just one side. 🌿✨
And also...I don't like how Karamo handled the interaction between Mom and Ona. His focus was not on mending the relationship. It was more about villianizing the Mom. I wish them forgiveness, healing and peace.
Lonnie is such a wonderful young man. I feel so bad for him. He got his heart broken all over again. I pray he and Anna will have a relationship too. God bless them all, and I pray for healing for all of them.❤
I know, my heart was aching for him. She messed up his life.Tragic 😢 Drugs
Why is it so hard for a Mother to be truthful to their Children about their father.
Shame and embarrassment
@@nachemiagape9564Yep and that’s partially why they feel attacked when men request paternity tests. Some moms need to get over themselves.
I knew he was the dad, they look so alike. Poor Lonny though. All of this anguish because of that woman!
Happy that she got the results. And that the 2 men were keeping it civil to each other. It wasn't their faults at all. It was the woman, that gave birth to her.
Why
@@veronajohnson1270why what
Lonny deserves so much better
Anyone else kept screaming at Ruth that she's not the victim??
Yes!!!
Seriously!!! I’m like why is Ruth so damn hype right now? She was triggered so easily. Kinda wondering what that’s all about. Seems she hasn’t come to terms that she f’d up. Just own it lady with the finger tattoos lol reminds me of Gemma from Sons of Anarchy lol
@@nyladj4510we’re all victims of victims but you’re right, in this case it wasn’t about her.
All it took was one toxic woman to set *decades* of turmoil into motion. 🤦🏽♀️
She is a beautiful woman inside and out. I so wanted to just reach out and hug her.
She's so emotionally mature.. that's why her mum can't deal with her. So happy for her
I pray Lonny starts his own family. He was sooo betrayed! Heal Lonny! You are now free to move on. ❤
The best episode. I’m so happy that she has these two men who are in her corner. I pray there relationships continue to get closer.
I felt bad 4 Lonny 😭😭😭
I knew who her father was the second the camera showed him!
these two mature men actually broke my heart...full respect..the love is real and consistent here.wonderful fathers
Ray is immature AF. He's still mad about an affair that happened 18 years ago. Lonnie had a right to question paternity because of what he was told. I feel bad for the girl because she has an immature father and a mother who plays victim. Lonnie would've probably been the better option in regards to the maturity level of each adult that young lady has to deal with.
I agree
Ray turned it around though and they even hugged
@@GQ-zg5zcthat fake ass hug!
@@Star24088 yo negative ass you must be black
It seemed sincere@@Star24088
Hey woman, DON'T YOU DARE CRY... you don't deserve to cry...
That's how it is the alot of mother's want you to believe it's the only the father's fault when you legit fault with the mother 9/10 times they act like that mother in the video.
I see no tears 😂
Yes! She is the reason this girl doesn't know who her father is and had to grow up in care because she was removed. But the mother is bogged down in her own need to not feel guilt
Some people just like being the victim. No matter how much someone apologizes or says they are sorry or tries to do better that person just wants to be mad about something.
This girl needs to stop and realize how much her mom tried to be there and do the best she could regardless of her mistakes.
Pain will shape you to be great or bad. The only two options out there
This was a beautiful story; I’m so grateful for a result for this young lady!!
Ruth (Parents) have feelings also. She acknowledged her wrongs. She laid herself vulnerable. But parents have parameters also.
I’m happy she has 2 father figures in her life. She’s a bit annoying/too grown but then again she’s probably had to grow fast dealing with grown kids around her
I never have been so annoyed during a Karamo episode like this one 😅 she was definitely annoying to me.
I caught a weird vibe between her and Ray
yea agree. but i was her once, and I'm still growing out of it. stages
There is something about Karamo; he’s intuitive (is that the word?), and he’s so much more, like a great therapist everyone should have.
Ana is very lucky; she has a bio dad (RAY) & (basically) a step father (Lonny)! I hope they can all stay connected; as it would be great for each of them; but, overall I hope they each get therapy!
I’m so happy for Ana! ❤❤❤❤❤
She's very fortunate to have to dads
WHY WAS THIS 7 YR OLD ON FACE BOOK AT THE AGE OF 7 !!! SMH . That’s crazy !! Wowwww
Im so happy for the siblings coming complete after being spearated. So happy for them. The married couple i hope can work on Their communication because they seem so concerned about the environment around their child and clearly love each other. Happy to see a couple consider their child 1st. 💜
I think the girl needs to be ready to accept her mother's apology and she is obviously not. I felt the mother's frustration. YES I know she lost her child, but she really has been open and is TRYING.
Agreed that girl pissed me off.. idc how mature they say she is.
EXACTLY! Dear Lord Karamo is a saint for being able to deal with that cause I know I would’ve been lost it! 😅
wait another 18 yrs for your daughter to understand better.she is still a kid.if by some chance she has a child with an irresponsible guy,then she will understand how it feels being a single mom especially at a very young age.
what do you want your mother to do?she has accepted and take responsibility for her actions.that is enough to at least sooth the pain.mom don't beat yourself up.she will understand later
If these so called men wanted to see HIS CHILD !! HE WOULD MOVE MOUNTAINS OVER HELL TO FIND HIS CHILD !! YOU BOTH LOST YOUR KIDS NOT JUST THE MOTHER !! I believe this mother she was on drugs JUST LIKE THE DAD WAS !! But ohhh it’s the mother’s fault !!?? I can fully understand the mother the mother AND HER HURT !! She apologized to her daughter!!HOW MUCH MORE CAN SHE DO ??? SHE SHOULDNT HAVE TO SUFFER & PUT UP WITH HER DAUGHTER DISRESPECTING HER !!! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!! If I was the mother U either except my apology and move on with life OR I GOT TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE !! The pass is the pass!!!! ❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦
You're right to a point. However, When a man feels betrayed about paternity, it's very hard for them to want anything to do with the kids. It's just the way it is. The woman is most definitely at fault for causing mistrust on paternity. She was the main ingredient in the chaos that followed her daughter
@@lyavule360DegreesI totally agree
I totally agree with you
@@lyavule360Degrees @ But the father is still WRONG !! HE DONT GRT NO FREE PASS !!! Men are constantly leaving their kids behind & having nothing to do with their child /children.. two wrongs DONT MAKE A RIGHT !!! They got dead beat dads and they gif dead beat mothers … 🤷🏽♀️ITS ALWAYS THE KID/CHILDREN THAT SUFFER … hopefully everyone can forgive & move on in life, life is too short to be stuck on this for forever… ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦
@pamelastates5600 I'm not saying he's right. It's the doubt he had after he was told the child isn't his 🤷🏾♀️ You can't expect him to be fully vested then the real dad turns up 🤷🏾♀️ also if it wasn't a proper relationship, manz is ready to run for any excuse
This girl needs to get a grip. She likes being the victim. I am 78 & I still have vivid memories of bring 5 & taken to an orphanage & left because my parents were divorcing. I was in orphanage for 3 years, then with my dad & stepmother…she beat me for years. No one helped. I ran away at 14, went to live with Sisters of the Good Shepherd. My dad lived 4 miles from the convent. I didn’t see him. I graduated high school at 17 & was emancipated. I went to live with maternal, hit a job, kept educating myself & life went on. No self pity. Just determination. Now at 78 I’ve raised 2 kids, 3 grandchildren & have a great grandchild. I never felt sorry for myself, just determined not to let anyone stop me from living my life. I have few regrets because I learned my own strength & I survived in spite of those who would stop me. The morale is…..don’t wallow in self pity. Believe in yourself. Don’t look back, just forward. Don’t whine. Fight.
She looks just like him
She also look like her MOTHER
Girl your confused. You tell your mom to respect your space but then in the same breath say you need answers then get mad because your mom won't tell you. 🤔🤷🤷🤷🤷
Literally she pissed mf tf off the entire episode.
@@Star24088she is
Very annoying 😅
The crazy part is her mom did tell her. I was confused to. She admitted to her wrongs so I wasn’t sure what else Ona expected to get
Agreed. She annoyed me.
Your not that smart
Lannie is a darling I respect him
i can respect that the daugter is hurting right... but shes asking questions and getting answers the mum is accepting her wrong doings and taking accountability and its almost like she wants more (maybe blood) she says shes wants space but also wants her mum to talk or do something more.... she is a bit to whiny needy and i think the daugter is milking it at this point ....watching this annoyed me alot....even karamo asked what do you want because i can her your mum taking accountabilty....im confused.
What an amazing young woman!!! 🙏✌️❤️
THOSE NOSES 😂😂
This was a beautiful episode in so many ways....i knew her dad was really the father.....coming out looking like a little smurfette😂🎉❤......hopefully its not werid but i just loved her little ears😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
All was on drugs. However it seems like their all some what clean. Both men tried over the years to reach out to you but you blocked them. That's you.
RIGHT! Like girl get it together.
Yes me as a mother can relate to the child
Gd! She’s telling you what the fuck it is and she’s mad it’s not the answer she wants! She just said her mom say her down when she was young and told her wtf it was! But then turns around and says she didn’t tell bad tf you want her to do ?
😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 Lonny raised Ona her entire life as a father, but at least she has 2 men to support her
@pamelastates5600 totally agreed!! The mother is ALWAYS the one to blame the worst even though the child gets taken from BOTH parents but you see the mom was trying so hard to make things right and this girl just couldn’t understand it. It’s almost like she’d rather her mom really not give a shit
She had to do a lot of growing up on her own. Her mother felt no self worth....hence she put her daughter down. I am thrilled she held her ground & not let her mother, play the " I am your mother" crap on her.
Very sad the man who went through the pregnancy and the birth was denied by the mother of the daughter. This what happen when mother sleep around. I wish the mother left the daughter with the husband who she denied him as his daughter. He could look after thus girl
Naw Karamo got this one a little bit wrong. The mother was taking full accountability for her mistakes. She clearly expressed her need and want to be in her childs life. The daughter wants to hold on to the hurt and pain from the past.
Nobody is perfect.
The mother the mother the mother!!!!! The pain you caused something's you can't undo you may forgive but you don't forget nawwww 😔😞🌌🙏🏽
The mom resembles and reminds me of actress Ellen Barkin from the show Animal Kingdom
im sorry but it felt like the daughter was enjoying the mum and lonnie slander from a Bio-dad she was pissing me off 🙄😒
They fighting to be the father of this annoying ass child lol😅
A lot of women blame these men they end up in jail paying support for no reason just because someone’s name is put on the birth certificate have proof first before u end them to jail
Girl, Ruth has already told you everything.
Why did it take so long to get a DNA test?? So much unneeded drama... wtf?
Mom's bottom jaw has a mind of it's own 🤔🧐
I was pregnant riding 3 buses and a train.... ma'am, why were you pregnant AGAIN?
Why are they both trying to fake cry????
This whole
Episode was annoying af lol
Her mom destroyed so many life's
She has 2 dads
She’s luck as hell and still has a messed up attitude
Thanks God ❤
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Young lady you are a great person and you are growing into a strong woman, i would be proud of you if you was my daughter and so would dad's all over the world be, keep your chin up high and God bless you.💪🌟
38:07 DNA outcome
This is one of the saddest episodes I've watched. I can't come up with any other comment.
This is so one side, he picking side
Y'all see how this is not a culture thing? C
This family needs JESUS
Anyone else annoyed by this girl and her fake crying
Me! It’s giving borderline personality disorder, fake crying and attention seeking
"We're gonna figure out who you are together" when I tell you I started SOBBING 🥺😭
Dude it’s obvious who the dad was lmfao this was pointless
But she is attacking her mom you’re not talking to her you’re coming out and it’s so clear Omg I’m I the only one that sees it. Communication goes both ways no matter how hard the topic is.
Yes, her mom screwed up by having a drug addiction in the first place and losing her kids, but the daughter needs to still be a little thankful because there are still way worse mothers out there.
Agreed!!
Great fun because it could be worse??? BS!! Only because her mother was “only” halfway bad she shall be happy and say thanx?? No, the mom is bad and the kid does not to have to think that it could be worse. A kid having a bad mom is allowed to be angry!!!!
It s like if someone hits you and you shall be grateful because he could have killed you????!!!
I don't think you'll should be so hard on the mom.. they all were young..
She is not young anymore and still putting her feelings before her daughters.
Agreed. People are being too hard on Mom. She also had her life experiences. We don't know her story and what she has experienced in her life. Mom acknowledged Ona's experience. Should Mom be punished for the rest of her life? GRACE is needed on both sides...not just one side. 🌿✨
And also...I don't like how Karamo handled the interaction between Mom and Ona. His focus was not on mending the relationship. It was more about villianizing the Mom. I wish them forgiveness, healing and peace.
Agreed.
the mother like she still on drugs cause her thought process and me me me thinking is wayyy off
Called
She kinda remind me of amber heard 🤦🏼♀️
I don’t like this girl
At all 😂
Walk a mile in her shoes before you criticize.
We walked almost 40 minutes in her shoes and she’s still annoying as hell 😅