Mama Dede anaongea sana hadi hata Haacht Njambi time ya kuongea..mngepea mama Dede part yake na Njambi part yake..sorry aki Njambi that you had to go thru all that😭😭you have peace now and God will give you a right person at the right time ❤️
I dont think this is an interview its a conversation between friends is just that its on camera coz in reality mki discuss an incident mkiwa na friends its normal mkiongea wote...aki Kenyans mnakuwanga petty.this is not Mungai eve's or Lyn ngugi's interview mcheeeew!
Lynn ngugi please come for our girl.. she need space to pour her heart out... Cry n laugh Lynn will do this better..Njambi 😭😭😭 please do its a healing process...
I can feel your pain Behind that Laughter Njambi. Honestly, let's not even laugh about it.! I have been there and I know how DEEPLY hurtful this is..Glad you walked away, God will turn all that Pain into Happiness 💞💞
As bizarre as it may sounds....when you're in it, even though you feel something is wrong and you've been neglected, taken for granted, ignored, invalidated, manipulated, and unheard constantly, you DO NOT realise that is EMOTIONAL ABUSE. Bravo!! I commend your courage and strength to voice what so many of us secretly would love to do…expose the person who gets pleasure from dimming our light and making us question who we are.
And a kind request....to all those watching and you've not subscribed please do, let's support her and make her feel loved 💗 ndio pia aweze kutaftia tutoi...
Narcissism is pretty common nowadays, lets kindly educate ourselves on that topic to avoid falling prey to their traps. They do not have a perfect partner, their motive is that of the satan, to steal your joy, kill you or your spirit and destroy one completely. Follow Benjamin Zulu he has great insights on that, also Njambi therapy would really do you good, you will be able to know what made you a target or you might keeping attracting them. I for example had poor boundaries, but i am now working on them. I love that you came out with this story because you are going to save so many people by raising awareness. Power to you bossbabe.
Wueh I feel you Njambi... My experience too, alafu mnaulizia why single motherhood is rising. Marriage nowdaiz isn't easy😭. Congratulations for stepping out
I commend you for the courage you had to come out and give your story.. glad you making some of us get the courage to walk out of the abusive relationship we have been stuck in for a while.. sending hugs your way mamie❣️
As you guys said if you experience any form of abuse whether physical, mental even spiritual..please see yourself out. There’s no giving any second chance!!
Sometimes you have to walk away for the sake of peace n ur kids ,glad u chose ur self love 😍 but one thing for sure you will never lack God got you❤️❤️❤️❤️
True. Njambi is masking a lot of pain behind that Laughter. Lynn does come with a councilor sometimes that can help the victim overcome what she's been through
We need an independent interview ya Njambi she needs space to tell her story well that will also help another disturbed soul somewhere, wishing you the best Njambi
Thanks mama Dede for being there for Njambi...you are a rare friend. .but please take several seats somewhere and let Njambi tell her story.tutakuita tukitaka kuskia your side( which i doubt we Will) Njambi you are a strong woman..You will be alright. Trust the process
Naa....si muache Njambi ajiongee cause it will help with healing... anyways Njambi it's not,what you've gone through and it's gonna be okay someday soon.....I love you personally,juu olyou one strong woman I know....be strong,hang in there.....but therapy will do you some good @ Lynn Ngugi find Njambi and have a conversation with her cause she holding a lot inside
Am extending grace and hoping all goes well 🙏 you're so brave for leaving go to therapy when you're ready nobody should teach you how to heal give it time you will get there ...perpetrators rarely change it takes alot of therapy and a firm decision to change, Mama dede don't advocate for women to go back to their abusers do you know how many people have died because they were told to go back ?if someone abuses you no amount of good they did in the past should make you go back "ati anapenda mtoto wangu "lol if he really loved your child he wouldn't beat you up infront of her ...
We need a conversation on this idea especially among men and young couples that when a man provides that's what should define a relationship, can this be used as a barometer to gauge how relationships are to survive ?
Pretty Njambi. May God see you through this moment, give you wisdom and guide your path. I know what this feels like. God bless you forever. On the other hand Sasa Kim😊
I used to see the red flags in this marriage from the day you introduced him here....I never liked that guy 🙄🙄🙄..the way he used to treat you hata on RUclips pthoo...thank God you left
As a person who works in the criminal justice field I have to say that once you have left please do not go back. Unfortunately the consequences of going back could be fatal. Statistics show that the period of time when a woman leaves an abusive relationship can be a very dangerous time due to the person wanting retaliation. Please be mindful and keep yourself and family safe. Thank you for being so transparent and open. If possible please seek therapy in order to start healing.
Sorry Njambi, you are in pain therapy would do for you. You are off to a better start. I knew something was up, thank God for strength to take that step, you deserve better
Domestic violence is never ok, it’s good you walked away. Mama Dede will lead you astray what works for her will not necessarily work for you. Njambi moving forward punguza sherehe wacha pombe mingi cigarettes and weed. Your mind will be so clear and you will make better decisions. Good luck to you.
Yes let's call it as it is, huyu mama dede ni very very bad influencer pombe na kilabu is her favorite hobby, njambi wacha pombe na huyu rafiki kimbia kabisa.
Kwani unapeana stori yangu aki... especially hiyo part ya ukimshow umepata gig haiwezi go through🤦🤦.I was once there but today am happy,you too will be happy ❤️
Dear Mama Dede, Having a friend like you is dangerous in many ways! Too much talk and noise mob! Njambi, I love this part of you the real deal! Hopefully by now you are okay!
Perpetrators never change, that is why homicide happens to victims. Mama dede or whoever you call yourself, stop advocating for victims to return to their abusers because the abuser loves a stepchild. Please read on domestic violence and the theories behind it before you take the role of an advisor 😐
How come every time a relationship is not working every body always sees the cracks except the one inside. Right from young blended family it was clear you are the one who was in love and you are the only one who wanted that marriage to work
Njambi, pole for what you have been through! You are beautiful 🥰 u deserve the best Meanwhile I don't want my best friend to be this MOUTHEDD, even if I have opened up to you, leave me to tell my story when I get a chance to!
I came here to say the exact thing!She's doing too much!Like let her tell HER story!It's like for every sentence Njambi puts it,madam has to one up her!
Am Soo sorry njambi. Nakutambua,and I Know God will guide you. Please be a prayerful mother and claim your marriage back. Pray for him he'll change and heal. Hakuna kisicho msinda mungu. Do it for the sake of your children.
Mama Dede anaongea sana hadi hata Haacht Njambi time ya kuongea..mngepea mama Dede part yake na Njambi part yake..sorry aki Njambi that you had to go thru all that😭😭you have peace now and God will give you a right person at the right time ❤️
This other girl 🤦🤦 it's not your story mamii...it's not about you 🤦🤦🤦
Njambi, it is well. Sending you love and light 💛💛💛💛
👍
That is what bestie mean
No it's not but she is her rock.
Every girl needs a best friend like that... the one you can laugh at life with.
A true bestie indeed❤️❤️
I wish njambii could narrate the story herself
Same
Mama Dede this is not your time surely..nyamaza kiasi let the girl talk it out!!!!
Aqy anaongea sana 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Anaogea Sana aki ata anaboo
I dont think this is an interview its a conversation between friends is just that its on camera coz in reality mki discuss an incident mkiwa na friends its normal mkiongea wote...aki Kenyans mnakuwanga petty.this is not Mungai eve's or Lyn ngugi's interview mcheeeew!
😂😂😂😂ata the interviewer haongeii juu hapati time ya kuuliza maswalii😂😂😂😂
true she is talk over her ‘ next do better
Kindly this is njambi story but I felt like her friend took the show she explained everything for her😏
Aki yeye ndo alikua ana bonga sana
Someone give Njambi a platform to pour out.. It is as if the story is about the friend, hampei chance 😉
It's hard to follow up this story juu best friend anaongea Sana.
Lynn ngugi please come for our girl.. she need space to pour her heart out... Cry n laugh Lynn will do this better..Njambi 😭😭😭 please do its a healing process...
Lynn will definitely do justice to her story and open avenues to seek counseling that she really needs
Let's tag Lynn
She doesn't need Lynn she already has her channel and she's also influential.
@@africangirl189 i know.... But she needs somebody to listen to her.
@@mercymulandi5102 she has friends and family that have been there for her and will continue being there for her.
Please let Njambi pour her heart out! It would be better without endless interceptions! Mimi ningependa kiskia Njambi pekee
Cograts Njambi for moving on, you couldn't never go anywhere with such a person.
I can feel your pain Behind that Laughter Njambi. Honestly, let's not even laugh about it.! I have been there and I know how DEEPLY hurtful this is..Glad you walked away, God will turn all that Pain into Happiness 💞💞
This other woman anaongea sana let Njambi share her story in peace ,you keep interrupting her
Ukirudi soko uende Syd ya apples...May God c u thru...u made a brave move...thnx for stayin alive for tha kids...
I love her courage, your very strong mama keep pushing, all will be well. Just keep focus God will be with u
Woiye it's great you moved on, that is the 1st step to healing. Self love comes first always
As bizarre as it may sounds....when you're in it, even though you feel something is wrong and you've been neglected, taken for granted, ignored, invalidated, manipulated, and unheard constantly, you DO NOT realise that is EMOTIONAL ABUSE. Bravo!! I commend your courage and strength to voice what so many of us secretly would love to do…expose the person who gets pleasure from dimming our light and making us question who we are.
I have learnt a lot from this,much love from 🇶🇦
And a kind request....to all those watching and you've not subscribed please do, let's support her and make her feel loved 💗 ndio pia aweze kutaftia tutoi...
Cry the sad tears away and create room for happy tears....
I thought this was Njambi story to tell , Mama Dede talks too much ....
Narcissism is pretty common nowadays, lets kindly educate ourselves on that topic to avoid falling prey to their traps. They do not have a perfect partner, their motive is that of the satan, to steal your joy, kill you or your spirit and destroy one completely.
Follow Benjamin Zulu he has great insights on that, also Njambi therapy would really do you good, you will be able to know what made you a target or you might keeping attracting them.
I for example had poor boundaries, but i am now working on them.
I love that you came out with this story because you are going to save so many people by raising awareness.
Power to you bossbabe.
Wueh I feel you Njambi... My experience too, alafu mnaulizia why single motherhood is rising. Marriage nowdaiz isn't easy😭. Congratulations for stepping out
I'm 21 and this is so Heartbreaking I swear 😭😭💔Literally shed a tear Receive Virtual Hugs Bernice♥️
Lynn Ngungu kindly reach out to Njambi so that she can talk about her story.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Moral lesson:Lets date the right person and take time to know someone very well before marrying them.
True friendship... just love their vibe 😂😂😂
Whoa!,I just recalled such an abusive relationship I was in it took me time to heal but I moved on weuh pole
Njambi you did the right thing ,Itauma But take one day at a time . Let go and Let God 🙏🏻
I commend you for the courage you had to come out and give your story.. glad you making some of us get the courage to walk out of the abusive relationship we have been stuck in for a while.. sending hugs your way mamie❣️
As you guys said if you experience any form of abuse whether physical, mental even spiritual..please see yourself out. There’s no giving any second chance!!
Its okay to cry n its ok to breakdown!You have r bold to walk out.All is gonna be well.
Sometimes you have to walk away for the sake of peace n ur kids ,glad u chose ur self love 😍 but one thing for sure you will never lack God got you❤️❤️❤️❤️
this si so sad,,, just concentrate on giving us content,,we are here to support you.don't give up.
Lynn Ngugi can handle this better someone to tag her 🙏
I second you
Couldn't agree more...I hope she finds Njambi and interviews her
U are right miriam
@Lyn Ngugi
True. Njambi is masking a lot of pain behind that Laughter. Lynn does come with a councilor sometimes that can help the victim overcome what she's been through
Mama dede is a true friend,without her in the show Njamby angejitoa inje sana
Am so sure alot of pple are also facing the same thing God gave you the grace
I resonate ,it's good you left
Glad you're talking about it, painful as it may be
Mama Dede learn how to give the other person chance to talk!!
Beautiful people on the channel. Njambi you will prosper.
Njambis laughter is a cry for help. I hope she gets through this. Praying for Darrell too 💕💕
If am not wrong, they started living together after just 1 week of knowing each other...I now believe it's important to know someone very well first
Yeah
You may know each other for 5yrs and end up kupigana for me i only dated my husband for 6days and am 4yrs in marriage and we're happy
Don’t be full of yourself
No one knows the other person better
But since your judge and jury
Mimi nafunika KOMBE mwanaharamu apite
Went through the same in marriage once I got strength to leave he denied his daughter. She's 16 now God is good.
Thank you for saying things how they are …
We need an independent interview ya Njambi she needs space to tell her story well that will also help another disturbed soul somewhere, wishing you the best Njambi
This is so sad😢Am glad you are okay now 🥰
Times heals all wounds. Take it easy all will be well.
Thanks mama Dede for being there for Njambi...you are a rare friend. .but please take several seats somewhere and let Njambi tell her story.tutakuita tukitaka kuskia your side( which i doubt we Will)
Njambi you are a strong woman..You will be alright. Trust the process
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They went about this all wrong,njambi needs encouraging words,as a friend apa unafaa uangalie na macho and support her in her decision
Kweli anaongea sana
🤣🤣🤣🤣💔💔💔
She's talking too much nkt
I thought i'm the only person going through hell. Same thing happened to me. May God give us strength as women because we really go through alot.
Pole mum
@@missmoraa4160 asante dear
@@missmoraa4160 gwa you are my name sake as in Moraa Onyancha..
More power to you girl
You guys wachaneni na dede. Thats her talking nature.they are both narrating their experiences..
Naa....si muache Njambi ajiongee cause it will help with healing... anyways Njambi it's not,what you've gone through and it's gonna be okay someday soon.....I love you personally,juu olyou one strong woman I know....be strong,hang in there.....but therapy will do you some good @ Lynn
Ngugi find Njambi and have a conversation with her cause she holding a lot inside
Am extending grace and hoping all goes well 🙏 you're so brave for leaving go to therapy when you're ready nobody should teach you how to heal give it time you will get there ...perpetrators rarely change it takes alot of therapy and a firm decision to change, Mama dede don't advocate for women to go back to their abusers do you know how many people have died because they were told to go back ?if someone abuses you no amount of good they did in the past should make you go back "ati anapenda mtoto wangu "lol if he really loved your child he wouldn't beat you up infront of her ...
We need a conversation on this idea especially among men and young couples that when a man provides that's what should define a relationship, can this be used as a barometer to gauge how relationships are to survive ?
Pretty Njambi. May God see you through this moment, give you wisdom and guide your path. I know what this feels like. God bless you forever. On the other hand Sasa Kim😊
Take 2 with Njambi and the gentleman.let Njambi tell her story then the friend to tell his side ikue a part 2 story.Iam struggling to shikanisha.
14 mins in and I thank God I just left my last relationship.
I'm sorry Njambi, you gonna be well
Wueh 🥺 that's so sad.I cried watching this.Sending you love njambi🥰
All I can say is I understand.
You will find love one time your still young people get married even when you not expect
I used to see the red flags in this marriage from the day you introduced him here....I never liked that guy 🙄🙄🙄..the way he used to treat you hata on RUclips pthoo...thank God you left
Plus,he had two kids from the previous marriage...She never investigated more about his previous marriage.
Same I didn't like him..too ghetto
What is the purpose of this other woman? She keeps interrupting Njambi!
Anashinda "my man" "my man"
heri hangekuwa hapo hii story ingenice
I feel like she was her support system all through the way ....njambi asked her to be there amsaidie kuongea ...
I feel for Darell i hope the father will allow him to come stay with you 💔
He wont
Sorry for what you've been through. You're beautiful, you deserve the best.May God give you strength in your healing process ❤️❤️❤️
As a person who works in the criminal justice field I have to say that once you have left please do not go back. Unfortunately the consequences of going back could be fatal. Statistics show that the period of time when a woman leaves an abusive relationship can be a very dangerous time due to the person wanting retaliation. Please be mindful and keep yourself and family safe. Thank you for being so transparent and open. If possible please seek therapy in order to start healing.
great advice
I disagree with you njambi going back to him just shake I dust and step on it
Njambi you have a good friend.I want such a friend
i can relate weeee.... hugs mama
Sorry njambi for what you've gone through, Usijali mamaa it's now a past you are now in a better place, All will be well mummy, much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sorry Njambi, you are in pain therapy would do for you. You are off to a better start. I knew something was up, thank God for strength to take that step, you deserve better
Well done njambi, you made the right decision
Domestic violence is never ok, it’s good you walked away. Mama Dede will lead you astray what works for her will not necessarily work for you. Njambi moving forward punguza sherehe wacha pombe mingi cigarettes and weed. Your mind will be so clear and you will make better decisions. Good luck to you.
Yes let's call it as it is, huyu mama dede ni very very bad influencer pombe na kilabu is her favorite hobby, njambi wacha pombe na huyu rafiki kimbia kabisa.
Mama dede unaongea sana....it's not your story
Kwani unapeana stori yangu aki... especially hiyo part ya ukimshow umepata gig haiwezi go through🤦🤦.I was once there but today am happy,you too will be happy ❤️
It shall be well Njambi walking out was the best decision your future is bright
It's hard to narrate of the experience with a narcissist without tearing up. Njambi take time, heal, acknowledge your part in all this too. \
Please don't ever go back. I pray you heal and get loved the way you deserve.
I used to admire Njambi alot, i wish you the very best
So sorry baby girl,, all is well,, take heart.. From the stories I have heard concerning marriages, am afraid,, let me stay alone...
Exctaly the pain i am goin through.haki i swear,your story its my story.still waiting for my freedom too..i know God will come through..
Wah! pole sana Njambi. That guy was dimming your star! God is great you're free.
This lady should allow njambi to talk
Mama Dede uko na kiherehere mbaya .....it's not your time to talk .....jamby it shall well sending you hugs and love
Umeona eeeh
She is so so annoying
Mama Dede peana space ya kuongea
She gonna heal and have a better progress🌹🌹
Yani I thought of njamby on sato n here she is today
i feel her pain she’s holding all the pain inside
I love how njamb is I wish on my sid of marriage I could speak up early and move out
Akh hio part ya Darren kukuliiza akh uliniacha nayo nimelia😭😭😭😭😭😭
So heart breaking domestic violence should be a thing of the past
This is really bad...I hope you heal from all that.
Mama dede si uwache njambi atuambie story...eeeish
Woiye seeing you cry made me cry too woiye 🥺😭😭😭 pole sana mummy.
Dear Mama Dede,
Having a friend like you is dangerous in many ways! Too much talk and noise mob!
Njambi, I love this part of you the real deal!
Hopefully by now you are okay!
Perpetrators never change, that is why homicide happens to victims. Mama dede or whoever you call yourself, stop advocating for victims to return to their abusers because the abuser loves a stepchild. Please read on domestic violence and the theories behind it before you take the role of an advisor 😐
Exactly
This mama dede is bad character, hawa ni bad infuencers.
Mama Dede is protection her friend, don't know why you have a problem with her.
I feel anachocha stori saaana.
@@teshmasii5441 hujui
How come every time a relationship is not working every body always sees the cracks except the one inside. Right from young blended family it was clear you are the one who was in love and you are the only one who wanted that marriage to work
Comments pia zimenimbamba sana its all about the other lady amezuiya tupewe chai yote 😂😂😂
Njambi, pole for what you have been through! You are beautiful 🥰 u deserve the best
Meanwhile I don't want my best friend to be this MOUTHEDD, even if I have opened up to you, leave me to tell my story when I get a chance to!
True, it's not in your place as my friend to tell my story in any way
I came here to say the exact thing!She's doing too much!Like let her tell HER story!It's like for every sentence Njambi puts it,madam has to one up her!
Waah i felt so! she is even talking like story ni yake... mpaka mwenye story hana time ya kuongea!
I agree
Find what gives you peace and what makes you happy, be you , do you
Stop taking shit to mama dede she their as a friend ,,,Mama dede good job for standing with njambi 🥰❤️
I feel her friend wanting to narrate....when your best friend is in pain you feel like you have been in the pain together
Am Soo sorry njambi. Nakutambua,and I Know God will guide you. Please be a prayerful mother and claim your marriage back. Pray for him he'll change and heal. Hakuna kisicho msinda mungu. Do it for the sake of your children.
Please the friend keep quiet tafuta Lynn so that we can get the full story. We love you Njambi