The Attachment Theory & Nervous System Connection with Sarah Baldwin | The Mark Groves Podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 24 апр 2022
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    Themes:
    Relationships, Attachment Theory, Polyvagal Theory
    Summary:
    I know you're going to be pumped about today's guest because her last appearance on the podcast was one of my most listened to episodes ever! Back by popular demand is Sarah Baldwin, a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma Coach trained in Polyvagal interventions and on the training team at the Polyvagal Institute.
    In Sarah's previous episode, she brilliantly broke down Polyvagal theory (i.e. how the autonomic nervous system works) and briefly touched on the intersection of Polyvagal theory and attachment theory. Today, Sarah's back to dive deeper into how these two theories work together subconsciously to inform the way we relate to and connect with others.
    Discover:
    * How a lack of a secure attachment with our primary childhood caregivers results in the development of insecure attachment styles in order to cope and find safety
    * How the Autonomic Nervous System works and becomes dysregulated as a brilliant and beautiful way to self protect
    * The relationship between who you choose as a partner as an adult and how you were related to in your childhood experiences
    * Steps to regulate your nervous system and create secure attachment within your adult relationships
    Links:
    * Listen to Sarah's first episode: The Nervous System Explained: www.kite.link/sarahbaldwin
    * Follow Sarah on Instagram for regular supportive teachings: / sarahbcoaching
    * Sarah offers small group programs, online courses and workshops. Visit her website at www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com.
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Комментарии • 27

  • @aidarodriguez19
    @aidarodriguez19 2 года назад +10

    literally 10 times during this podcast, i burst into tears and needed to practically pull the car over. this is mind blowing. stuff i never considered before or connected the dots. THANK YOU!!! i need to dive deeper into all of this!!!

  • @lorna197
    @lorna197 Месяц назад

    So so good! Thank you! The clarity this has created for me is profound! 💜

  • @maazkhan4853
    @maazkhan4853 6 месяцев назад +1

    why does this video has less than 10 milllion views??? Super Super amazing.. made me connect the dots from childhood till now...

  • @jasminnobari8069
    @jasminnobari8069 Год назад +1

    WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW ! This video should go up to millions and millions of views. Sarah´s work is so incredibly important! Thanks to both of you!

  • @jenniferjones9834
    @jenniferjones9834 2 года назад +2

    Mind blowing! Pulls so many trauma healing pieces together, creating a clearer view of the bigger picture!

  • @jillt.3195
    @jillt.3195 2 года назад +4

    I love that we can also watch these Podcasts now! Thank you!

  • @Be1More
    @Be1More 2 года назад +3

    you say things in a way that makes all these relationship aspects more clear.... thank you

  • @Nutz4Lutz3624
    @Nutz4Lutz3624 Год назад +1

    i have been so so so anxious in my life. i literally developed stomach issues because my anxiety shows up mostly in my stomach and i ruined my pelvis. but ive done a lot of work. just got out of a relationship with a disorganized avoidant, we broke up bc of conflict. and i have learned to not take his actions personally bc i know i was a good partner and i tried to work it out and even though i was definitely codependent, i did manage to regulate myself often and always spoke without demand or intense need. im trying to learn compassion for self bc i had so much for him. and a big part of this is not blaming myself for his own inability to show up. its also removing the blame on him bc i felt the genuineness of his being and can understand his reactions to his own wounding and that it really wasnt about me. even tho i couldve handled certain situations better

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 Месяц назад

      That's the beauty of observing without absorbing.
      With genuine love❤

  • @TheMakeupballerina
    @TheMakeupballerina 2 года назад

    This episode! Was so amazing! I had to take notes :) Will come back to it for sure
    Thank you Sarah and Mark for your amazing, lifechanging work!

  • @galvinsgarden
    @galvinsgarden 2 года назад +1

    This is such a helpful episode. Thank you! This explains so much.

  • @SAMMYPLAYZ8
    @SAMMYPLAYZ8 2 года назад +1

    I appreciate the value you bring to my life through your work, Mark. Thank you sir.

  • @jadalee6508
    @jadalee6508 2 года назад +10

    And just think all those babies that are left to cry themselves to sleep for sleep training to sleep thru the night. Smh

    • @BlueBlue23
      @BlueBlue23 4 месяца назад

      Me😢

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@BlueBlue23🎼🎶🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🎶💃🐦🎵💙
      Fear not.
      The best is yet to come.

  • @Amy-Rose141
    @Amy-Rose141 Год назад

    Thankyou so much!!! Absolutely brilliant 🙏🌟

  • @DanielaRosenrot
    @DanielaRosenrot 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for explaining it with examples. We as listeners need lots of examples because we think our experiences were normal. When I watch videos about trauma and they only explain the issues without explicit situation examples its too abstract for me.

  • @josephashenofsky8266
    @josephashenofsky8266 4 месяца назад

    You guys are incredible!!!!

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 Месяц назад

      Even "impossible", becomes "i'm possible" ❤
      Have a YAHsome Day

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 2 года назад

    So very interesting.

  • @anabellelefebvre7059
    @anabellelefebvre7059 2 года назад

    AMAZING💐💐💐💐💐

  • @Star5dg
    @Star5dg 11 месяцев назад

    I dont think nervous system regulation is enough to heal severe childhood trauma?

    • @markgroves
      @markgroves  11 месяцев назад +2

      Working with a skilled somatic therapist trained in healing trauma is actually exactly what we need to do when our nervous system is stuck in fight/flight/freeze/fawn. Combined with other modalities that may work for you, nervous system work is essential in healing trauma.

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 Месяц назад

      What do you think?