Ordering Chinese Takeout Then Tipping $5,000 to Struggling Restaurants

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  • Опубликовано: 24 фев 2021
  • The first 1000 people to click the link will get a free trial of Skillshare’s Premium Membership: skl.sh/xiaomanyc11201 So this week I tipped $5,000 at some of my absolute favorite Chinese takeout spots in New York City. The whole restaurant industry in New York City has been devastated by COVID and Chinese restaurants have been particularly hard-hit. So I wanted to give them a nice tip to show them how much we love and support them here at Xiaomanyc! Especially because it's Chinese New Year and it's a perfect time to give these restaurants some nice red envelopes. If you would like to get out there and support these NYC restaurants yourself, here are links to their pages on Yelp. Most are located in NYC’s Manhattan Chinatown. They are all awesome and highly recommended!
    Spicy Village for utterly delicious spicy noodles: www.yelp.com/biz/spicy-villag...
    S Wan Cafe for the best Cantonese / Hong Kong breakfast food in town: www.yelp.com/biz/s-wan-cafe-%...
    Lucky House Kitchen for some seriously good old school Chinese American food: www.yelp.com/biz/lucky-house-...
    Teado for the best bubble milk tea and other drinks in Chinatown (and that’s saying a lot): www.yelp.com/biz/teado-tea-sh...
    Chang Lai Cheong Fun Cart for some superior Cantonese rice roll street food: www.yelp.com/biz/chang-lai-fi...
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Комментарии • 23 тыс.

  • @xiaomanyc
    @xiaomanyc  3 года назад +12290

    Thank you to these awesome restaurants & of course Skillshare for making the vid possible. And if you want to learn Chinese with check out: www.streetsmartlanguages.com/chinese

    • @gdepa741
      @gdepa741 3 года назад +35

      So wholesome!

    • @conorbergan4843
      @conorbergan4843 3 года назад +89

      Next headline “Man forces woman to take his money”

    • @knightsofaltier9628
      @knightsofaltier9628 3 года назад +34

      Keep up the great work man! Your videos are truly inspirational and I've really enjoyed watching your channel. You got a sub from me! I'll keep practicing and maybe one day I'll speak as well as you. Thanks again and happy Chinese new year.

    • @eliperlov9713
      @eliperlov9713 3 года назад +25

      thats so fax this has to be one of the best vids on the channel so far

    • @zhefeng2266
      @zhefeng2266 3 года назад +9

      Awesome!!!

  • @MusicforMe123
    @MusicforMe123 3 года назад +10170

    The first lady broke my heart, she stated that she cannot cover her expenses but still took the time to give extras to her customers, which in itself says a lot about her as a person. I encourage everyone who lives close by to support businesses like hers through the tough times so that they can continue to serve the community. Save the businesses who care about customers over profit and we will all win as a result of that. This pandemic brought out not only the worst but the best in people and it is clear this lady deserves a fighting chance. Kindness is also infectious, pay it forward. Life is good, share it with good people!

    • @LukeSmithXD
      @LukeSmithXD 3 года назад +176

      I agree! Here in the UK I've been avoiding the big food chains and focusing on smaller business, firstly out of personal preferences but also to help out. Let's just say I'm addicted to one cake shop 😊😭

    • @sunpacplussoftware5948
      @sunpacplussoftware5948 3 года назад +73

      Totally agree, that lady has an exceptionally generous heart!

    • @thepowerofyourvoicepodcast
      @thepowerofyourvoicepodcast 3 года назад +65

      I completely agree, many times these restaurant owners do things that the locals are not aware of. While staying in San Diego I was looking for restaurants that would donate food for the homeless and met a gentleman who owns a Chinese restaurant, he and his family make meals (large soup, rice, protein, vegs, and drink) and feed about 50 people 5 times a week. I have no idea how they do it, but they do, and just thought that was incredible. What incredible people with such a huge heart.

    • @MikePhoTravelVlogs
      @MikePhoTravelVlogs 3 года назад +5

      Awesome Video 📸 Keep it up 💯💯

    • @weldog71
      @weldog71 3 года назад +6

      Please visit her!!

  • @DerekFizzey
    @DerekFizzey 3 года назад +96242

    The First Lady deserves every single customer in the world.

    • @sethj7071
      @sethj7071 3 года назад +3714

      She was super sweet and kind

    • @Acxelly
      @Acxelly 3 года назад +572

      Customer*

    • @johnmorpheus120
      @johnmorpheus120 3 года назад +2625

      God blessed that woman with a beautiful heart of gold that she freely gives to everyone she meets. May she be even more prosperous in the coming years of her life and she receive the honor she deserves.

    • @Bladeofwar94
      @Bladeofwar94 3 года назад +495

      @@Acxelly Yes spelling is VERY important. Gotta slip it in real quick.

    • @Grahmps
      @Grahmps 3 года назад +830

      It almost put a tear to my eye while also making me laugh at the same time for the fight as to them wanting to give back the money with xiaoma insisting they keep it. I lived in China for 10 years and it’s so wholesome.

  • @litebrite8993
    @litebrite8993 Год назад +3969

    The fact that the last guy didn't think he was really giving him the money "ok you got your footage you can take the money back" was really heart breaking. So sad to think that there are people out there doing fake 'give aways' so sad, glad our guy is the real deal, a gentleman through and through

    • @mjisurdad
      @mjisurdad Год назад +258

      It’s cause that’s what a lot of influencers do. They offer them 20 bucks to pretend to get 10k or some absurd amount of money. Glad he was able to actually help them.

    • @VincentGroenewold
      @VincentGroenewold Год назад +48

      It's because he's right about it. I'm totally not a fan of just handing out money for YT content, also not in this case. 5000 is ofcourse great, but it doesn't cover much in a business. Ergo, it's for the content.

    • @hariranormal5584
      @hariranormal5584 Год назад +26

      People like Mr beast are exactly like this and one day the truth will be revealed

    • @trekkiejunk
      @trekkiejunk Год назад +62

      Well, most are not fake, i don't think. Still, that doesn't mean they don't do it for the views. Xiaoman could have just donated without the camera on at all, and never tell us. He could have just shown footage of the restaurant, and encouraged people to patronize them while they struggled during the pandemic, while giving money off-camera. But he chose to record it. The last guy was on to something. While Xiaoman gave a real donation, he also did it for the views, and the tea guy was well aware of this. They all do it for the views. If they didn't, they wouldn't record it.

    • @typhlosionproductions5970
      @typhlosionproductions5970 Год назад +110

      @@VincentGroenewold a thousand dollars does cover a decent amount. It covers 1000$. If your running a restaurant struggling to get customers that could be a week of sales

  • @haxonprime1243
    @haxonprime1243 Год назад +1598

    My wife and I did this a few years back at a small mom and pop Chinese restaurant. It was around Christmas and we wanted to do something nice for them as they work harder then most restaurants in the area and their food is always amazing, so my wife suggested we make their holiday a wonderful one. I went to the bank before we headed to the restaurant, withdrew $4000 and we gifted it to them after we finished our meal. They tried to give it back as most of these wonderful people did, but we explained that it was for them and their many years of kindness and amazing food. They eventually accepted the money. Come spring time, they used the money to re paint the front of their restaurant, and they had an artist hand paint their businesses name in Chinese with a beautiful Koi fish right under the name. They still to this day express their gratefulness every time we enter through those doors. We are happy we made them happy. I wish more people spread this kind of love and joy for people like them.

    • @justagrrl1981
      @justagrrl1981 Год назад +75

      Bless you and your wife

    • @rudytheduck4776
      @rudytheduck4776 11 месяцев назад +33

      That is so heartwarming! Great kindness from you and your wife to help them, I'm sure they are very happy!

    • @MKultraInstinct
      @MKultraInstinct 10 месяцев назад +23

      Damn ok Mr Beast 👏🤣

    • @ryanolsen294
      @ryanolsen294 10 месяцев назад +13

      you are so kind ,love what you do

    • @msdustismith8919
      @msdustismith8919 8 месяцев назад

      You and your wife are absolutely wonderful.

  • @MMASulu
    @MMASulu 3 года назад +6245

    You can tell the food truck guy is a traditional dad how he hides his emotions. We all know he was crying on the inside

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 3 года назад +151

      😭😢you're so right ❤️

    • @Sexybabe629
      @Sexybabe629 3 года назад +145

      Definitely a hard working man 👍🏼

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 3 года назад +11

      @@Sexybabe629 👏👏👏💪💪💪💪

    • @HardSprinkle
      @HardSprinkle 3 года назад +372

      I knew he was a dad when he texted Xiaoma “get your ass back here and take this money back” 😂

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 3 года назад +9

      @@HardSprinkle hahahahahhahaha

  • @Chidra217
    @Chidra217 2 года назад +5817

    The way she didn't answer when he asked if she had a chance to rest, just told him to sit and drink the tea. What an amazing, humble, hardworking lady.

    • @singingwolf3929
      @singingwolf3929 2 года назад +155

      That was a cut in the video. Willing to bet her response was that she never rests. Either that or, because of the pandemic, she had the time to take a long rest. (This is no judgement on her. I took nearly a month off when the first lockdowns happened). The only other thing possible, is that the conversation Either got too personal or not interesting for viewers.

    • @ahmadnajmiroslan
      @ahmadnajmiroslan 2 года назад +83

      Nah,you can see that she shaking her head that's mean no rest before the cut

    • @soul4real620
      @soul4real620 2 года назад +4

      Amazing work my friend 👏👏👏

    • @janeames1513
      @janeames1513 2 года назад +12

      the thing i have noticed is in this country so many immigrants struggle to make it then get hate when they finally do make it...this is the land of the free and the melding pot of the world ..let's all try to boost our neighbors and support local shops..as for her getting rest?..nah you can see it in her face that she is busting her ass to barely keep her shop open..sad what this country has come to with the whole covid thing..so many businesses closing and families going bankrupt

    • @1996Pinocchio
      @1996Pinocchio 2 года назад +6

      She shook her head for a split second.

  • @AR_119
    @AR_119 Год назад +2498

    In all honesty you most likely saved more than one business/ family from disaster here. This is a perfect example of why I love watching your channel. It's about spreading love and connecting with people.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 Год назад +5

      1k is nothing

    • @AR_119
      @AR_119 Год назад +120

      @@dot1703 he gave them each $5k. That's a lot. Even $1k is a lot. To a struggling business, it would help a ton.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 Год назад +3

      1k bro and its nothing compared to 2 years of bad earnings

    • @AR_119
      @AR_119 Год назад

      @@dot1703 well if he gave them nothing it wouldn't do anything. Stop being an ass and just piss off. It was a good deed and helped a lot of people.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 Год назад +2

      ​@@AR_119 i just dont agree with the "helped a lot of people" thing. He atleast earned double the money, that he gave away, with his video. He should be in shame giving only 1k each

  • @dawgfacesoldier
    @dawgfacesoldier Год назад +893

    I'm a grown ass man (52 y/o), but I almost shed a couple of tears when the first lady tried to put the money into his bag. I love genuine people and she's one of them.

    • @kendraabbatoy5935
      @kendraabbatoy5935 Год назад +2

      ok boomer

    • @Sofi_5staar
      @Sofi_5staar Год назад +33

      @@kendraabbatoy5935HEY 😡

    • @SMFH999
      @SMFH999 Год назад +1

      Ok boomer

    • @Sofi_5staar
      @Sofi_5staar Год назад +16

      @@SMFH999 hey, not nice 😡

    • @gottlicherhammer
      @gottlicherhammer Год назад +13

      @@kendraabbatoy5935 There's another word that starts with B that suits you perfectly.

  • @andrewcarr2023
    @andrewcarr2023 2 года назад +6730

    The first woman is making me cry honestly. She's so upbeat and generous, offering him the complimentary tea and new-years candies, making conversation with him. She admits she is struggling, but tries to refuse the gift before she even knows how much it is, and then even more once she sees the amount.

    • @RedIce202
      @RedIce202 Год назад +122

      She is very humble and hard working

    • @cashkhang5705
      @cashkhang5705 Год назад +61

      Hard working Asians don't take handouts.

    • @Naturaleza000
      @Naturaleza000 Год назад +16

      She talk about her husband it’s gonna kill her because some Chinese people are very strict with their wife and families and abusive

    • @ZoeMuller80
      @ZoeMuller80 Год назад +9

      I think 99% of people would refuse the gift but give away almost everything they have to others

    • @actionfigureshi
      @actionfigureshi Год назад +9

      Reminds me of my friends mom Mrs. Chen. Thank you for all the food you cooked for us Mrs. Emy Chen!

  • @AxerionxX
    @AxerionxX 3 года назад +26316

    Damm she told him that business is not going well and next thing she packing extra stuff and candy's omg that's how you know she does this with her heart. She deserves everything

    • @cagnazzo82
      @cagnazzo82 3 года назад +1598

      And she's fighting to give the money back. That's how you know she really deserves it.

    • @antimono
      @antimono 3 года назад +206

      And $15 in China is actually $3 in Aussie dollars your know, like $2 in US bucks (btw i am saying that USD is worth more than AUD)

    • @cagnazzo82
      @cagnazzo82 3 года назад +318

      @@antimono It's actually kind of in reverse. USD is worth more than AUSD, but I think I get what you mean.

    • @ComfyChaos
      @ComfyChaos 3 года назад +348

      For real! I cried when she said she couldn't accept the money. The amount of love and humility in her heart...if I lived in NYC, I'd be going to her restaurant every day just to support her. ♥

    • @StudiosUntold
      @StudiosUntold 3 года назад +47

      @@antimono They’re in NYC lol

  • @lttlejordan23
    @lttlejordan23 Год назад +405

    That first woman deserves a million more red envelopes! She was genuinely happy to see one customer walk through the doors and even though she said business hasn't been good, she still packed extra stuff in the bag. Doing it all with a smile. I hope this video brought some business her way. All of them really, but especially her. I just appreciate genuinely kind people.

  • @deviousbread
    @deviousbread Год назад +975

    Went to spicy village, it was so damn good! Saw the person you gave the $5000 too, she was such a hard worker, the place is packed, business is still booming. Came here from Hawaii, I don’t regret it, we don’t have “real” Chinese food. I love the culture in New York. Thanks for not being biased, and when I was done I went to a couple local places, told them where i ate, they said that was an amazing place and great choice. Thanks 🙏 would of never found this place without you. Also the soup dumplings are so good.

    • @epicfail1060
      @epicfail1060 Год назад +67

      thanks for the update on Wendy. i was verry curious on how shes been doin. Nice to hear shes doin good!

    • @scappel
      @scappel Год назад

      thanks for the update! i wish them all well in free america! never again a fake news pandemic to ruin lives of these hard working folks!

    • @Anonnermoose
      @Anonnermoose Год назад +25

      It was 1K not 5K

    • @mjisurdad
      @mjisurdad Год назад +6

      @@Anonnermoose 🤡

    • @Anonnermoose
      @Anonnermoose Год назад +1

      @@mjisurdad learn to count

  • @HorizonMelt
    @HorizonMelt 2 года назад +7745

    Wendy is talking about how she's worried about covering expenses and things are looking bleak, and yet her more driving force was to make sure you had hot tea and special things to take home to your wife. Love this. She's proof that we don't need to look to Hollywood, professional sports or Washington DC for role models on how to treat each other.

    • @ProcesareVideo
      @ProcesareVideo 2 года назад +6

      Do you see in marxist government in US some role model?

    • @JustS0meK1dd
      @JustS0meK1dd 2 года назад +135

      @@ProcesareVideo What does this even mean?....

    • @jenkins5265
      @jenkins5265 2 года назад +181

      @@ProcesareVideo it's a sad day when Americans see a small business owner being kind and say that's marxist. I wonder if you even understand the definition of marxist...maybe go back to school, if you ever went in the first place to be putting this kind of filth out on the internet.

    • @TheOriginalBijamist
      @TheOriginalBijamist 2 года назад +5

      @@jenkins5265 He is talking about the US government

    • @quasarkid
      @quasarkid 2 года назад +34

      @@TheOriginalBijamist the very NON marxist US government lmao, moderate social policies are called communism over here, marxism would go over very poorly

  • @Oswald_Thatendswald
    @Oswald_Thatendswald 3 года назад +1953

    That first lady is TOO nice. Over there struggling to survive and giving out jugs of tea and a bunch of candies lol The world doesn't deserve a soul as sweet as her.

    • @tonyswe9463
      @tonyswe9463 3 года назад +29

      Sweet lady

    • @vecspace
      @vecspace 3 года назад +69

      Chinese restaurant tend to do that for their regular customer, notwithstanding she is definitely a very nice ans genuine lady.

    • @hajinata
      @hajinata 3 года назад +6

      YAAA SHES SO CUTE

    • @dennisbergkamp640
      @dennisbergkamp640 3 года назад +6

      There’s lots of people like her

    • @MotoFishingAdventurer
      @MotoFishingAdventurer 3 года назад +4

      We need more sweat souls like here! This will make the world a better place!

  • @itiscujo
    @itiscujo 8 месяцев назад +57

    The fact that EVERY SINGLE ONE of the people you gave money to adamantly denied the money you gave them at first humbles me more than I can describe.😊

    • @nsebast
      @nsebast 5 месяцев назад +5

      As Chinese we were taught as children never to accept free things that we didnt work for.

  • @sallydope6743
    @sallydope6743 Год назад +301

    The $1000 is cool, but free advertising on Xiaoma's channel is definitely better! I hope these restaurants/owners are doing well.

  • @naomiburn8386
    @naomiburn8386 3 года назад +7357

    This man is living proof of the idea: learning a language opens whole worlds to you.

    • @barefootbooks69
      @barefootbooks69 3 года назад +88

      Absolutely.

    • @helexable
      @helexable 3 года назад +148

      Definitely, i started learning Spanish to better connect with people at work and even after just a week of learning you its a while new world. i can understand about 80% of whats being said if i have context and it makes it so much easier to communicate and truly understand people

    • @dustsans9859
      @dustsans9859 3 года назад +51

      I learned English, that gave me huge new opportunity, very cool

    • @progamertom7878
      @progamertom7878 3 года назад +26

      @@dustsans9859 (learnt*) there you go. One more slice of English you have learnt :)

    • @Alex-vk3mu
      @Alex-vk3mu 3 года назад +3

      This comment is 100% true

  • @jordangroff8978
    @jordangroff8978 3 года назад +3852

    I'm not Asian, but I can tell from this video that in the Asian culture people are taught that they need to work for their money and not expect it to be given to them. Respect that for sure.

    • @YourUserNameSucksx10
      @YourUserNameSucksx10 3 года назад +225

      That's true brother
      Being Asian that's one of the earliest thing I could remember my mother and father teaching me. Don't take things that don't belong to you and work for what you got.

    • @Jennifer-jv3rg
      @Jennifer-jv3rg 3 года назад +63

      A lot of cultures are like that I’ve seen . It’s awesome

    • @chronocross85
      @chronocross85 3 года назад +140

      Not just asian culture but alot of immigrants have that mindset when they come to America

    • @Rachelsyy
      @Rachelsyy 3 года назад +24

      This is Chinese culture.

    • @thecourageousorange
      @thecourageousorange 3 года назад +17

      and they are good at feeding guests. my bf's family is asian and they feed me well when I stay there.

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess Год назад +71

    I was a US flight attendant who flew the Beijing route. One Thanksgiving, years ago, I was on a layover and we decided to go to a restaurant whose specialty was Peking duck. It was NOT in an area tourists went to. We tried to leave a tip. The waitress wouldn't take it. We hid the tip money under a plate and ran for the door. She chased us down the street and returned it. Happy memories in China.

    • @zoetayloor7774
      @zoetayloor7774 8 месяцев назад +1

      Where’d you go? Cuz I actually need peking duck restaurant recommendations

  • @GIGroundNPound
    @GIGroundNPound Год назад +317

    Ooof, Wendy and her business are precious and an AWESOME example of the INCREDIBLE everyday hardworking American. That food looks amazing.....

  • @Yamikuri
    @Yamikuri 2 года назад +3009

    I cried when the first lady was saying she couldn't accept the money, she was obviously so taken aback by your generosity, she deserves every penny, hug, and customer

    • @theLoveInUrEyes
      @theLoveInUrEyes 2 года назад +13

      Yes and she said her husband will kill her lol. She is so sweet. To be honest Asian people ( I am one of them) very friendly but some of the Chinese ladies I love so much and there are a couple of them are so rude and short when doing restaurant business. I would go to that lady's restaurant in New York city and tip her handsomely and the guy on the street. Can I have their address or locations.

    • @ev1677
      @ev1677 2 года назад +6

      Made me teary too and I haven't cried in years.

    • @441meatloaf
      @441meatloaf 2 года назад +10

      Chinese people that work and humble don't wanna take so much red pocket money because they have to regift some day and they don't know how to give back the pleasure. So yes from a cultural stand point, we try to avoid big tips like this because the person receiving it feels like they will owe you.

    • @zacharylortie2786
      @zacharylortie2786 2 года назад +4

      Same here, breaks my heart seeing someone so nice and humble have to struggle. It’s not like she’s taking it easy either, she has to work hard everyday. Wish these people the best

    • @jstone9462
      @jstone9462 2 года назад +1

      I cried too

  • @seanvarian4578
    @seanvarian4578 3 года назад +1390

    I honestly nearly started crying with that First Lady. Please if you are in the area give her a visit and help her out. She is truly a beautiful soul. And the fact she didn’t even know she was being filmed

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      @jackthecommenter2768 3 года назад +2

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    • @TheSammoness
      @TheSammoness 3 года назад +34

      @@jackthecommenter2768 click on his profile and you'll see its a fake account

    • @jessbacchi
      @jessbacchi 3 года назад +2

      @@thestradman2926 shut up

    • @gaaraman312
      @gaaraman312 3 года назад +3

      I literally did cry from that. It was so beautiful!

  • @kodij
    @kodij Год назад +177

    The enjoyment of this video is the fact that all of these people are so honorable that they don’t want to take the money because they believe they don’t deserve. Be grateful be a human and love each other.

  • @bobp4
    @bobp4 Год назад +95

    Wendy in the first video (and the others) show how good and hard working people around the world deserve our respect. The way she tried to give it back and then we have billionaires who would put the envelope away so fast the camera wouldn't catch it even in slo mo.

  • @keithepstein2812
    @keithepstein2812 2 года назад +6870

    Xiaoma, please go back to these restaurants and let us know how they're doing a year later. I'm not sure why, but I found this video quite moving and re-watch it often.

    • @aprilvillada1707
      @aprilvillada1707 2 года назад +100

      I hope he goes back ☹️

    • @topofthecircle
      @topofthecircle 2 года назад +129

      Yes! I hope they all are doing OK, especially the mobile carts.

    • @zbychulatara
      @zbychulatara 2 года назад +84

      Year ago he said covid will end soon. And its even worse. I hope one day people stop care about it and live like before

    • @maximuslongrod6361
      @maximuslongrod6361 2 года назад +27

      @@zbychulatara many countries are, Canada is fighting for it right now.

    • @adrianegley8551
      @adrianegley8551 2 года назад +9

      totally agreed lets hope he sees your comment and does a video

  • @MK-11111
    @MK-11111 3 года назад +3543

    The last one broke me.. "You already have the footage, so you can take it back". It speaks to how you can get so accustom to being abused, taken advantage of, and hurt that you cannot even believe a genuine act of kindness. That amount of pain and hurt is unbearable. Thank you for sending that support and kindness

    • @mqegg
      @mqegg 3 года назад +89

      Nah, they just feel bad for taking money.

    • @WaywardVector
      @WaywardVector 3 года назад +187

      That’s not what it’s about HAHAHA! You are so ignorant! Let me educate you. When I was 10 my Asian mother did her Asian friend a favor, and said friend tried for 15 minutes to pay my mother back, throwing money at each other saying “no no, it’s unnecessary!” There’s no abuse. It’s just culture. Chill.

    • @JohnSmith-li6mn
      @JohnSmith-li6mn 3 года назад +55

      @@WaywardVector i mean getting footage for "giving" away 5$ isn't a favor though. I agree the original comment is very enthusiastic about the video but in Nyc i bet they've seen a lot of shit and think that they might not understand fully how much it helps. As he said you have the footage so you can leave now and take it back meaning someone has done that before i wouldn't call it abuse but definitely ignorant

    • @_ryanc
      @_ryanc 3 года назад +52

      @@WaywardVector that would be the case if it was only “you can take it back”; the comment about footage suggests they’re disillusioned by or have encountered “influencers” who give away money for internet points rather than out of kindness and they suspect him of being the same.

    • @Qopa
      @Qopa 3 года назад +22

      From what Ive heard from a lot of Asians, even on the news, some people in America are actively looking for Asians to harrass for covid daily. There was even recently a black women who attacked 2 Asian women with a hammer, telling them to take off their mask and all. Then we got people harrassing koreans and saying shit like "fucking chinese" in their faces. The blaming culture is real.

  • @vaybor
    @vaybor Год назад +25

    i love how every single person immediately said 'nope, too much, cannot accept this,' just further proves how deserving they really are. incredibly hard working, these folks are clearly not used to taking any kind of hand outs. makes my heart swell to know some of these businesses may be able to continue just because of your kindness.

  • @EdgarLopezInk
    @EdgarLopezInk 8 месяцев назад +11

    Damn 36 yr old Mexican you got me in tears i can't believe your kindness god bless you brother

  • @beomgyungi
    @beomgyungi Год назад +3668

    THE LAST GUY OH MY GOSH 😭
    I wish the best for him he's probably so thankful for it I find it so sad how he thought you were going to take it back that just shows how horrible some influencers are and what a impact they make

    • @sage2500
      @sage2500 Год назад +288

      I know right. It makes me think that someone has done that very thing to him before

    • @fmjkevlar
      @fmjkevlar Год назад +53

      its an awful world we live in sometimes 😣

    • @joshz3788
      @joshz3788 Год назад

      It is not about influencers. It is not in the Asian culture to accept hand outs, like it is so readily in the West. Do you see Asian Beggers on the street? They don't beg, they work for their money. Whether or not you think that's a good thing, that is the Asian Culture.

    • @ijustreallylikeramenokay7626
      @ijustreallylikeramenokay7626 Год назад +66

      heh, being Chinese, I am reading it as that's just how they assume influencers work because we're all cynical as hell (and to be fair, I'm sure it is how a lot of influencers are)

    • @derplololol9717
      @derplololol9717 Год назад +8

      Assuming makes an ass out of U and I. So we're both an ass cuz I think that's how most of them are rn haha.

  • @iBeSupicious
    @iBeSupicious 3 года назад +2710

    My dude walks into the second spot and they already know what he wants. THAT is fucking precious. My corner store does that shit every day and I love them for it.

    • @allyma3
      @allyma3 2 года назад +85

      Thats when u know that they value u alot, like they probably get so many customers but they remember you. I lovr it too bcuz it shows that they actually acknowledge that you care about them too

    • @callboxib1661
      @callboxib1661 2 года назад +21

      That's what happens when you go somewhere daily and they remember exactly what they want. I work at a grocery store and we sell cigarettes. There's this guy that comes in everyday and he always comes through my line because he knows that I know what kind he wants. And I don't even have to ask him if he needs them.

    • @amaloliesque
      @amaloliesque 2 года назад

      It’s the place he went to for the video with the best Chinese food in NYC! Love how he still goes back and is on a first name basis with owner now

    • @928musket
      @928musket 2 года назад +1

      My local chinese buisiness used to do this, they went out of business recently though.

    • @jadd.9355
      @jadd.9355 2 года назад

      Probably the best feelings you can get in the world

  • @cptwojciech6396
    @cptwojciech6396 Год назад +31

    7:00 lady just started flexing the money, LOL😭😂😂😂

  • @CaymenLeP
    @CaymenLeP Год назад +11

    “Ya know, since you have the footage, you can just take the money back.”
    Legitimately humble people bring a tear to my eye

  • @fit_pharmd4830
    @fit_pharmd4830 2 года назад +2803

    Bc of the first lady’s generosity caught candidly on camera, I guarantee her business not only survived but thrived during the pandemic. Remember what you give comes back to you 3-fold.

    • @brandyhernandez61
      @brandyhernandez61 2 года назад +128

      I know right, I find myself wanting to dine in her resturant once I get the chance to go to NY for New Years.

    • @markekar6021
      @markekar6021 2 года назад +34

      i wish that last statement were true

    • @fit_pharmd4830
      @fit_pharmd4830 2 года назад +10

      @@markekar6021 She's still around right?

    • @KF22TV
      @KF22TV 2 года назад +3

      @@markekar6021 ?

    • @mariotheundying
      @mariotheundying 2 года назад +4

      The guy saying something about that last sentence he's probably talking about himself guys

  • @shahana_style
    @shahana_style 3 года назад +1994

    I'm smiling so hard with that first lady she's so extra extra sweet it hurts my cheeks. And she only kept it once she realized she could give it away. THAT'S the kind of person she is. It's just so wholesome.

    • @GeraltOfNvidia
      @GeraltOfNvidia 3 года назад +31

      Same here, it really makes my ass cheeks hurt

    • @marker52
      @marker52 3 года назад +6

      @@GeraltOfNvidia ok then

    • @BatGear.
      @BatGear. 3 года назад +9

      @@GeraltOfNvidia it truly does give us the clap

    • @Essence02
      @Essence02 3 года назад

      @@GeraltOfNvidia 🙃

    • @datageekz8446
      @datageekz8446 3 года назад +13

      She is just a typical Chinese lady. They are sweet. You always need to fight to give money to Chinese lol

  • @friedpicklezzz
    @friedpicklezzz Год назад +17

    The first woman is so kind and so caring. People like her, businesses like hers, are incredibly important cultural and societal pillars, and they should get all the support they deserve.

  • @Lacheddar1990
    @Lacheddar1990 Год назад +30

    generosity is a virtue. Seeing others as human beings is a virtue.

  • @jessejames6157
    @jessejames6157 3 года назад +2334

    good lord.... that first lady just up lifted me out a 3 month depression..... god bless her soul. really just got me feeling good again from spending so much time in the dark. Thanks to you too for uploading this big dog.... great vibes my guy

    • @briansaleemberry2686
      @briansaleemberry2686 3 года назад +66

      Life isn't easy. I'm there now. Keep pushing on.we got this

    • @3RACHASUPREMACY
      @3RACHASUPREMACY 3 года назад +34

      this was so sweet! I hope you keep moving forward! Currently on the low end now but seeing stuff like this definitely helps me feel better about the world and the human experience ❤️

    • @cel.este933
      @cel.este933 2 года назад +48

      Someone said if you rearrange the letters in "depression" you get "I pressed on". Never give up even if you have to crawl! You haven't seen the best day of your life yet. Sending positive energy your way ❤

    • @adis1709
      @adis1709 2 года назад

      Hey Jesse, hope you're doing well.

    • @FabiolaPugliese
      @FabiolaPugliese 2 года назад +1

      I know what you mean, she made my month!!

  • @12HitCombo
    @12HitCombo 2 года назад +2163

    I want to buy a ticket to New York just to go to Wendy's restaurant. That was the sweetest most humble lady ever, and deserves more customers

    • @KickingAssDaily
      @KickingAssDaily 2 года назад +50

      But there weren't any Old Fashioned Hamburgers in this video.

    • @seanm660
      @seanm660 2 года назад +11

      @@KickingAssDaily that took me a second 🤣🤣

    • @paulngo4946
      @paulngo4946 2 года назад +8

      lol. I read that fast and for a second, I was like, do you not have a Wendy's fast food in your state?

    • @fiercecloud3871
      @fiercecloud3871 2 года назад

      Same

    • @HorizonMelt
      @HorizonMelt 2 года назад +22

      Seriously.. I feel the exact same way. I realized that about four minutes in that my heart was breaking a little because these are the wonderful people who need to thrive. The covid Hysteria has claimed so many victims.

  • @Howling-Mad-Murdock
    @Howling-Mad-Murdock Год назад +5

    Beautiful. That First Lady made me cry. Such a nice person, I hope her business is thriving.

  • @radekplodzien263
    @radekplodzien263 10 месяцев назад +10

    You are awesome. You have built your channel purely based on your talent and hard work, no stupid pranks, no controversy. World needs more people like you. Keep up good work!

  • @pluto587
    @pluto587 3 года назад +2743

    It's amazing to see people who are struggling always willing to give. She just kept wanting to give you extra items and didn't want to even accept the money. You can tell she is a good person

    • @kiaderham
      @kiaderham 3 года назад +73

      I wish she would have gotten the whole $5000. So sweet ❤

    • @ayuubabdirahman5275
      @ayuubabdirahman5275 3 года назад +15

      She was soo humble and nice

    • @whome6415
      @whome6415 3 года назад +10

      Glad to see the coronavirus people reaching out to each other!

    • @SM-ge7ee
      @SM-ge7ee 3 года назад +3

      Lol my parents are like this when my aunt gives me 100 dollars when we meet after a long time

    • @channelpolitica1364
      @channelpolitica1364 3 года назад +25

      This is normal asian culture. Its called a “polite fight”.

  • @trwwn3804
    @trwwn3804 3 года назад +3843

    They re hurting financially but honor and humbleness prevails.
    Can't put a dollar value on that.

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 3 года назад +41

      Values over cash !

    • @FuzzyWuzzyBear89
      @FuzzyWuzzyBear89 3 года назад +41

      I wish more people would do this. There are many that can afford to. Is there any better feeling than helping someone (or some animal) in need?!?

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 3 года назад +8

      @@FuzzyWuzzyBear89- that’s a very lovely comment. Even your wish to benefit others is noble and will bear fruit.

    • @wildeasage
      @wildeasage 3 года назад +9

      Pro tip - “humbleness” gets the idea across, but there is a word for that: humility! Try it out.

    • @jamilitary07
      @jamilitary07 3 года назад +3

      I believe the word you were looking for is ‘humility.’ But I feel what you’re saying though.👍🏾

  • @katastrofygames
    @katastrofygames 10 месяцев назад +9

    Hey man. Thanks for helping out my community. A lot of times Chinese family businesses struggle, especially with increasing gentrification and the rise of hipster immigration into cheaper neighborhoods.
    Its heartbreaking to see a family breaking their backs… mothers, fathers, grandmas sweating and bleeding to try and compete with big pharmaceutical companies or something like a Whole Foods/Starbucks.
    Thanks for taking the time to understand, connect with, speak with, and help these people. Some say Chinese is a race, but the truth is there is a lot of philosophy and kindness in the culture that it could almost be a lifestyle.
    I am glad you showed that side of my people and my culture.
    If you ever get a chance, and if you haven’t already, I’d recommend a dumpling store on Hester and Allen street. There is an old man there and his family who hand makes dumplings to order. They aren’t struggling, in fact they are doing pretty good and are popular with the new hipster immigrants. But he is a legend that’s been feeding CTown in NYC since I was a kid (over 20 years) and still does the same back breaking work to give kids affordable school lunches. I am sure he’d make for a great video.

  • @TheAmericanIdol
    @TheAmericanIdol Год назад +2

    What strikes me as the most awesome part of this: every single person robustly refused. It speaks to the proud culture of the Chinese people while others would just accept it (and yes say thank you) but the instance on all of them reufsing, saying they cannot do this....that is not only what Chinese culture is about, but alsoooooo part of the American Dream. Chinese-Americans/Chinese folks in general work their butts off; and I am truly heartfelt to see that people who were in a need (because YOU know these businesses) genuinely were grateful and not wanting a dang thing in return. Thank you Xioma!!!

  • @cassierole1620
    @cassierole1620 3 года назад +2933

    It’s crazy how they all wanted to just give him back the money, shows the culture

    • @matthewhirschhorn8060
      @matthewhirschhorn8060 3 года назад +171

      Even with the pandemic causing businesses to struggle to the point of bankruptcy. It really is amazing they still would not accept considering the circumstances.

    • @xLatinAssazzin
      @xLatinAssazzin 3 года назад +19

      Cause China is the reason the whole shit started

    • @sushisabi5368
      @sushisabi5368 3 года назад +303

      @@xLatinAssazzin why you gotta go in that direction

    • @Disify
      @Disify 3 года назад +165

      @@xLatinAssazzin stfu

    • @choby8555
      @choby8555 3 года назад +238

      @@xLatinAssazzin sure, the virus may have started in china, but do you really believe so many innocent are at fault for this? Let alone these people living in NYC. Cmon dude show some class

  • @blackvelvet1350
    @blackvelvet1350 2 года назад +2569

    The last guy, "If you've already got your footage you can just take it back now" 🥺 I wonder how many RUclips or other so called influencers have, actually, done that to him...thanks for being awesome...

    • @mohamed_khoudjatelli9349
      @mohamed_khoudjatelli9349 2 года назад +154

      I don't thing that he had similar experiences that made him say that, he just wanted to return the money so bad that he has no problem if he's giving him the money just to promote himself.

    • @capnfoo
      @capnfoo 2 года назад +88

      When you record your good deeds it's impossible for others to tell whether you are doing it out of generosity or just to convince people you're generous and build up a channel.

    • @EduardoHernandez-di8kl
      @EduardoHernandez-di8kl 2 года назад +14

      Wow 😳 you got a point 😐🤔😏 at least our guy is the real deal 🤩🥳😏 much respect for him ✊✌️peace!

    • @shirosflower
      @shirosflower 2 года назад

      capnfoo exactly

    • @SerDunk
      @SerDunk 2 года назад +2

      Yeah..he said it as a joke...

  • @Akgn_
    @Akgn_ 11 месяцев назад +10

    This is what true philanthropy is. Intrigrating yourself into a community and respecting them as people then ultimately giving back into that community. Not just giving out money for views for more gain like some certain content creators on this site (when was the last time you saw a video on youtube of someone going to this much effort for others as a genuine human being?)

  • @Ryuty_
    @Ryuty_ 11 месяцев назад +13

    After 2 years and a few months I wanna know how these restaurants are going, mostly the first one! that lady deserves all the love and costumers she can get

  • @KaylaRoseCampbell
    @KaylaRoseCampbell 3 года назад +2863

    In a world full of Tik Tok and big asses, I really appreciate content like this.

    • @HumanCarBomb
      @HumanCarBomb 3 года назад +26

      Why this doesn't have 4k likes is beyond my comprehension! 👍👍

    • @tujmedia5403
      @tujmedia5403 3 года назад +18

      True, I enjoy both

    • @lloydymk2013
      @lloydymk2013 3 года назад +88

      I'm not gonna lie, I appreciate the big asses too!

    • @robrfoster
      @robrfoster 3 года назад +4

      @@lloydymk2013 😂😂😂

    • @izumiofficial1589
      @izumiofficial1589 3 года назад +1

      92

  • @comeandspeak408
    @comeandspeak408 3 года назад +1828

    The first woman was just so humble. The last guy seemed so defeated by the economy because of the pandemic... he was probably waiting the "gotcha" moment - as if it were a prank.

    • @phajeb001
      @phajeb001 3 года назад +63

      I like it that he was willing to give the money back to him after he took the footage.

    • @sparkymularkey6970
      @sparkymularkey6970 3 года назад +126

      I got that feeling, too. It was almost like he has PTSD, like he was just completely shutting down. He is grateful, relieved, ecstatic, and can't believe his luck, but it was like it was all trapped inside from the months and months of stress and trauma and struggle. I hope he and all these other business owners are doing well.

    • @jonestasha901
      @jonestasha901 3 года назад +34

      Wow milk tea in NYC China Town is cheap unlike here in California where boba or milk tea starts at 3.50

    • @iSenbon
      @iSenbon 3 года назад +20

      @@jonestasha901 yeah they have to be with so many tea shops on a very small area, you have to be competitive with pricing especially since business is slow as well :/

    • @robvasquez5628
      @robvasquez5628 3 года назад +12

      Support every small business. Otherwise, when the dust finally settles from coronavirus... we'll all be homeless.

  • @errickflesch5565
    @errickflesch5565 Год назад +4

    The level of self respect trying to not take the money.......is admirable and honorable. There is no victim card to a person that has integrity at this level. She is the very type person who deserves this type gift. She is a breath of fresh air.

  • @celestialorb649
    @celestialorb649 Год назад +9

    Checking the links to these businesses 2 years later and it looks like they're all still in business. That's so good to see!!!

    • @cubanipad
      @cubanipad 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for this info!

  • @DarrellC.
    @DarrellC. 2 года назад +3891

    It’s crazy how every single one of them wanted to give it back. Great people, great culture.

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon 2 года назад +54

      It truly is a great culture

    • @rylangston
      @rylangston 2 года назад +76

      @MilkyAsks those are sad people who don't know any chinese. Chinese folks are the most humble in the world

    • @ww7271
      @ww7271 2 года назад +19

      @@rylangston and they are hard workers too

    • @marc615
      @marc615 2 года назад +39

      They are just scared that someday he'll come to ask for a big favor,like employing a friend. Their (modern) culture is based on bribery, that is what communists brought to Chinese people.

    • @c.o.r.n.
      @c.o.r.n. 2 года назад +1

      Culture is amazing

  • @jisooya7878
    @jisooya7878 2 года назад +3271

    The last guy telling "If you've already got the footage, you can just take the money back" had me laughing...xD

    • @craigcrissman4651
      @craigcrissman4651 2 года назад +233

      Not gonna lie that would have really hurt

    • @jadea.558
      @jadea.558 2 года назад +448

      I do understand him though, it can come across as doing something for views as a lot of people do these days. I dont think he wanted to hurt him but he was maybe just not 100% trustful because of how everyone does things for the internet and popularity these days.

    • @thunderfire741
      @thunderfire741 2 года назад +168

      It's a harsh reality that there exist videos on the internet based around it being just for the recording

    • @generalsociety9607
      @generalsociety9607 2 года назад +23

      @@thunderfire741 Well, I don't really think it's all that harsh since you are indeed giving away money and helping them regardless of whether it's being filmed or not. Yes, it's not 100% altruism, but does it really need to be?
      It's only truly selfish when these videos are staged or faked (like the last restauranteur thought it would be.)

    • @urgae9125
      @urgae9125 2 года назад +20

      @@generalsociety9607
      That's what they were talking about. People faking it for the views.

  • @fluidexpressions6856
    @fluidexpressions6856 Год назад +39

    this video brings me to tears ! thank you so much for being so generous for the business that work so hard and received so much loss in business during the pandemic

  • @MainelyCannabis
    @MainelyCannabis Год назад +9

    You'r doing Gods work my brother. These are people who are really trying to do their best, but it's just hard to push past and pay bills. They work their fingers to the bone to feed their loved ones. You give them, and many around their community, hope. Not just hope for success, but hope for humanity.

  • @SlyFrostPaw
    @SlyFrostPaw 2 года назад +4117

    what really hits me is how clear it is just how much these people mean to you, it wasnt just a random restaraunt. you were directly giving back to your local community. thats beautiful

    • @Civerius
      @Civerius 2 года назад +26

      Supposively that's what everyone should be doing in general lol

    • @Cris-em9tn
      @Cris-em9tn 2 года назад +30

      @@Civerius It really surprised me too though, because I go to one restaurant. I've tried them all but stuck with the same one for 8 years now. (If I want true Chinese, I have only one restaurant for that too and it's an hour away.) So I think it's mainly just that he frequents all these places so regularly that they know him personally, down to the one guy having given him a red envelope a few days earlier.

    • @adambent9574
      @adambent9574 2 года назад +10

      100% agree. Giving this to your friends that you know personally just makes this hit differently for me. Not to say that I don’t also the anonymous ones as well, just in a different way. Keep spreading the good vibes, we need it

    • @jeffl1484
      @jeffl1484 2 года назад +2

      Exactly this.

    • @djaiko7268
      @djaiko7268 2 года назад +1

      @@Civerius supposedly*

  • @patrickmurphy9186
    @patrickmurphy9186 3 года назад +727

    The first woman has a heart of gold....You can tell that she’s really a good person.

    • @sequoia3711
      @sequoia3711 3 года назад +4

      Second woman just ..

    • @jonchal5561
      @jonchal5561 3 года назад +5

      Chinese people are beautiful people

    • @blepmeme2496
      @blepmeme2496 3 года назад +7

      @@PassportBro_ it’s not a competition no need to compare.

    • @PassportBro_
      @PassportBro_ 3 года назад +2

      @@blepmeme2496 your right. I deleted my comment.

    • @Rin_Nya762
      @Rin_Nya762 3 года назад

      Ikr, melted my heart

  • @sagewarren8431
    @sagewarren8431 Год назад +3

    The first woman made me tear up. She's so humble and lovely

  • @AotearoaChef
    @AotearoaChef 10 месяцев назад +2

    I hate kindness content channels but this guy just seems like he wanted to help out his fav places cause he can financially. Plus the videos would make back money anyway. Solid dude.

  • @HonestCoach-us1ed
    @HonestCoach-us1ed 2 года назад +3908

    The fact that all of them expressed they could not take the money just shows how humble and amazing these people that own these businesses are

    • @weatherstationlytovchenko4794
      @weatherstationlytovchenko4794 2 года назад +5

      So this means no one took a cent, how refreshing.

    • @HonestCoach-us1ed
      @HonestCoach-us1ed 2 года назад +93

      @@mikesmithey4882 never mentioned race, the fact you did says everything 🤷‍♂️

    • @eggmanyes8024
      @eggmanyes8024 2 года назад +13

      @@mikesmithey4882 Where did you get that from? They were just mentioning how kind these people were.

    • @grok8211
      @grok8211 2 года назад +3

      Not sure what you mean. It is a very common reaction.

    • @maxalmonte14
      @maxalmonte14 2 года назад +15

      That's the way Asian people are educated.

  • @williamnahed575
    @williamnahed575 3 года назад +881

    That last dude deserves respect 😂😂 he actually told him u got the footage now get the money back😂😂😂 I’m dead

    • @daniellee6912
      @daniellee6912 3 года назад +91

      That kinda hurt to watch

    • @puffinonbooties
      @puffinonbooties 3 года назад +23

      @@daniellee6912 yea like he expected that he want gonna get the money, happy that he did get it tho,xiaoma such a good person

  • @_WeDontKnow_
    @_WeDontKnow_ 3 месяца назад +1

    wow she really wasn't tryna just "look like" she was tryna give the money back. she genuinely wanted you to have some of it. great lady

  • @BalefireBombshell
    @BalefireBombshell 2 года назад +4542

    In case anyone was wondering, all the restaurants appear to still be up and operating according to Yelp as of November 16th, 2021.

    • @bigazTV
      @bigazTV 2 года назад +29

      @Gonçalo Gomes they are

    • @lostcause7072
      @lostcause7072 2 года назад +257

      Business better be booming for Wendy.

    • @RunRistaStudios
      @RunRistaStudios 2 года назад +21

      Thanks, I had that thought midway!

    • @fatnesstofitnessthereandback
      @fatnesstofitnessthereandback 2 года назад +17

      Let’s keep them alive!!

    • @ondank
      @ondank 2 года назад +117

      I did not expect to feel such relief about the fortunes of 5 small business on another continent, and yet that felt like a weight off my chest.

  • @ungratefulbastard3816
    @ungratefulbastard3816 3 года назад +2008

    At this rate, Xiaoma has become a true family to the Chinese people in his neighborhood

  • @ScenicEarth365
    @ScenicEarth365 7 дней назад

    I watched this video 3 years ago, and watching it again today. Thank you Xiaomanyc for your kindness to those folks. They work so hard to earn a living and provide outstanding food. It warms my heart to see them being recognized. Thank you Sir.

  • @shajalynvelendriin3403
    @shajalynvelendriin3403 Год назад +2

    Her giggle at 3:50 is so heartwarming. Shows what kind-hearted person she is.

  • @xJabro
    @xJabro 2 года назад +4450

    My god Wendy is the nicest human ever she even said she made that tea FOR him and her giggles while she's packing every little gift is adorable.

  • @jesusisc0mings00n3
    @jesusisc0mings00n3 3 года назад +2993

    This is why the Asian culture is so great. So much respect, so much hard work, so much honesty. America needs more Asian culture.

    • @watdafak666
      @watdafak666 3 года назад +91

      @Pepito that may be true at the micro level but from a macro perspective some races have better cultures than others

    • @skylarkesselring6075
      @skylarkesselring6075 3 года назад +19

      There is no asian culture

    • @skylarkesselring6075
      @skylarkesselring6075 3 года назад +35

      @@watdafak666 that's literally impossible to measure

    • @watdafak666
      @watdafak666 3 года назад +25

      @@skylarkesselring6075 Of course its not impossible. In the United States, home of the Diversity and Inclusion(TM), you have statistics, based on race that directly correlate to how good someone's culture is, what drives success, etc. For example, Asians are a very small minority, yet statistically are one of the top earning races in the US. Meanwhile, some other races score a lot lower in all kinds of metrics. Many white liberals love to make excuses for these races shortcomings but anyone willing to see past their politically correct lense can see its culture based. Just look at youtube trending lmao, literally the epicenter of pop culture is represented there, and you can see the cultural divide by race very clearly.

    • @jesusisc0mings00n3
      @jesusisc0mings00n3 3 года назад +22

      @@skylarkesselring6075 There are many cultures within the Asian community. Probably one of the dumbest comments I've read today.

  • @MrHotshot1995
    @MrHotshot1995 Год назад +7

    honestly warms my heart seeing this and them not wanting to take it shows genuine people dont want handouts but thats so kind of you dude

  • @michaelyaaaaskings3172
    @michaelyaaaaskings3172 10 месяцев назад +1

    all the people in this video so hardworking and humble, all trying to give the money back, amazing. and the first lady is a sweetheart.

  • @erickandrewp
    @erickandrewp 3 года назад +832

    My first impression with the first lady was honestly, she had that mother aura around her. She's like what a concerned and caring mom would do to her son who just visited her for a moment.

  • @etherealeuphoria111
    @etherealeuphoria111 3 года назад +1937

    someone should set up a gofundme or something for the first restaurant, she was so selfless and whole. i wish i could donate to her business :(

    • @elizabethlizziemcelheney6821
      @elizabethlizziemcelheney6821 3 года назад +13

      Me too!!

    • @chriseckhoff3273
      @chriseckhoff3273 3 года назад +23

      Create a Venmo account and link it in a comment! No need for a gofundme

    • @AT-ks2fw
      @AT-ks2fw 3 года назад +2

      I would too!

    • @EternalResonance
      @EternalResonance 3 года назад +7

      what happened in the video after 10:00 ? the video cuts off. did he get mad he was being filmed and given a gift?

    • @freshair9133
      @freshair9133 3 года назад +24

      Exactly mrbeast should go to China and do this. All his reactions are bland and he dropping big money so imagine mrbeast giving her like 10k

  • @mattvanvleck1272
    @mattvanvleck1272 10 месяцев назад

    This is amazing and I love how they all say they can’t accept it. Thanks so much for spreading joy and helping these businesses in such a time of need. This is so heart warming. He even said you already got the video at the end and tried to give it back. You are such an awesome person.

  • @Jixxor
    @Jixxor 2 года назад +3518

    10:58 "You've already got the footage, you can take the money back" it's sad how many people do exactly that. Absolutely crazy how the guy suggests it himself tho, as if he wouldn't even be mad if someone pulled that shit on him. Very nice gesture, I hope it helped them all stay afloat.

    • @solala1312
      @solala1312 2 года назад +382

      I was in shock when he said that. it must happen more than we are aware of. I was so happy to see the worker got the money for real!

    • @tanah6962
      @tanah6962 2 года назад +160

      @@solala1312 yeah I know! My jaw dropped like I always knew those types of videos must be fake like where did all that money come from.and the millions of views?? Damn!

    • @Rorther
      @Rorther 2 года назад +92

      And let's be honest. No one goes around giving this much money if they are not filming. Broke my heart

    • @NikkiKNuvo
      @NikkiKNuvo 2 года назад +72

      No way someone would be able to take money back from me after giving it to me on camera. They'll have to file a civil lawsuit lol

    • @Rezzmari
      @Rezzmari 2 года назад +18

      Damn, that's sad. Some people will do anything for views unfortunately.

  • @OftenAlwaysFresh
    @OftenAlwaysFresh 3 года назад +2762

    As a Chinese Canadian, whose uncle had to close his restaurant because of the times. Thank you for appreciating the underappreciated. Our community just raised 50$k for them this last month and he'll likely be able to restart in a couple months

    • @voton.w.b.8584
      @voton.w.b.8584 3 года назад +22

      That’s amazing, much Love from Latin America...

    • @maehwa9746
      @maehwa9746 3 года назад +13

      That’s amazing, much love from northeast America!

    • @bettynewberry1
      @bettynewberry1 3 года назад +14

      Tell him to come to Texas. No state taxes. Friendly folks and Texans love Chinese food.

    • @damon6126
      @damon6126 3 года назад +6

      @@bettynewberry1 I can confirm this. Texan my whole life and it's my favorite food. 🙂

    • @tradesmith_yt
      @tradesmith_yt 3 года назад +1

      What a blessing! Wish him a happy new year for me! He will be back and better than ever! Bless you guys. Stay strong.

  • @eeliahsetab7153
    @eeliahsetab7153 Год назад +3

    The first woman deserves a award even after a year I’ve came back to watch this amazing video

  • @yuxiang3147
    @yuxiang3147 Год назад +6

    Such a great moving video, especially the first lady, she's such a nice warm-hearted person despite having a difficult time, I almost cried...

    • @jawsstech
      @jawsstech 2 месяца назад

      UH. yeah. I ALMOST cried, too. Grown men don't cry.

  • @pigstick132
    @pigstick132 3 года назад +2874

    I love how unselfish they are, if they didn’t earn it they don’t want it.

    • @xLatinAssazzin
      @xLatinAssazzin 3 года назад +7

      No there stupid I would have taken it free money

    • @whatsupguys1670
      @whatsupguys1670 3 года назад +433

      @@xLatinAssazzin they aren’t stupid they just have common human decency

    • @jaimegonzalez7286
      @jaimegonzalez7286 3 года назад +225

      @@xLatinAssazzin you're ridiculous. That's the problem, we dont understand or respect echothers cultures.

    • @nattan119
      @nattan119 3 года назад +109

      Culturally I would say its a feeling of shame. To be given handouts. like a feeling that there viewed as poor. Which they offset that by pride of working hard for what they earn

    • @zero604
      @zero604 3 года назад +132

      @@xLatinAssazzin that's because there are honest hard working decent people, then there's you

  • @nickywilks7928
    @nickywilks7928 Год назад +1

    What an amazing genuine kind lady.

  • @alexavila1825
    @alexavila1825 Год назад +10

    I seen this video two years ago when it had aired and sometimes I think about just watching them again because it makes me feel so humble and so happy that you’re able to spread your love and appreciation to them when I am states away and I can’t… they work so hard and they all deserve it💕

  • @bigsexybear
    @bigsexybear 3 года назад +5668

    So humble. Means a lot to them and it clearly shows. Wish more people were so humble and thankful.

    • @elusivelectron
      @elusivelectron 3 года назад +41

      I love this video. Selfish people suck.

    • @dipstickjamming5532
      @dipstickjamming5532 3 года назад +95

      Because they know hardships and appreciate being in America, land of opportunity. I came to USA with my parents in 1988, we were refugees if still Soviet then Latvia. We slept on floor and only furniture we had was stuff my Stepdad and I found in trash drop offs on curb in Brooklyn. Now my parents have traveled the world and live in a nice condo in New Jersey. All from working hard and striving for better life in Freedoms this country offers. Many born here dont know how fortunate they are. I made sure to teach my children that so now as teenagers they know that they can be anything their hearts desire.

    • @lafondawilliams
      @lafondawilliams 3 года назад +2

      yup love the video guy tapes a bunch of money to him and tells people to take what they need and rich people steal it all

    • @riri_rmrz
      @riri_rmrz 3 года назад +10

      @@dipstickjamming5532 Same my mom and grandma came from communist Vietnam

    • @spirit_shadow9590
      @spirit_shadow9590 3 года назад +9

      I went to my local chinese buffet on their new year and wished them a happy new year in their language. I love them so much

  • @BabyBlondie311
    @BabyBlondie311 3 года назад +421

    "If you've already got the footage, you can just take it back." That's seriously so heartbreaking, like how many people actually do this just for likes?

    • @david.jr.
      @david.jr. 3 года назад +41

      It almost made me cry. It was like he was used to it.

    • @noon6708
      @noon6708 3 года назад +12

      That’s sad some people only do it for likes and not from the heart

    • @SalmanAlghazali
      @SalmanAlghazali 3 года назад

      @UC1mMZM-jwL66-6cRu2eQJtg well that's not what she meant

    • @bandaqueenlove9134
      @bandaqueenlove9134 3 года назад +1

      thats so sad :(

  • @tupacalypse88
    @tupacalypse88 Год назад +1

    this made me cry. Kindness like you realize regardless what TV shows it's still a beautiful world

  • @nfapeng187
    @nfapeng187 Год назад +2

    Happy to see this, struggling is tough. I been in this cycle myself for the last year! Beyond thankful for pll like yourself doing these hard-working Chinese Americans what they truly deserve!

  • @nmmccrea
    @nmmccrea 3 года назад +887

    First lady was so nice that she was ready to fight this man if he didn't take his money back

    • @gracemontalvo8535
      @gracemontalvo8535 3 года назад +39

      😂😂😂 Right!! Only when he told her she could share it with the employees did she accept. ❤️

    • @danielsgonzales4884
      @danielsgonzales4884 3 года назад +8

      @@gracemontalvo8535 yeaaa, i noticed that too, it was such a sweet scene, I hope I can go there when Im in NYC

    • @antimono
      @antimono 3 года назад +1

      And $15 in China is actually $3 in Aussie dollars your know, like $5 in US bucks

    • @doloresalexander2030
      @doloresalexander2030 3 года назад

      @@antimono be

    • @paulinemagala1497
      @paulinemagala1497 3 года назад

      Lol

  • @tkhotatia1163
    @tkhotatia1163 2 года назад +2090

    "So many of your fans came here after your last video"
    And this is why I love Xiaoma. Makes wholesome entertainment for us, and actively supports his local businesses in the process!

    • @brooksysdead
      @brooksysdead Год назад +9

      Support local small business for a healthier economy👏

  • @solitudeguard5688
    @solitudeguard5688 Год назад +3

    Dude you are unbelievably generous and cultured, I wish more people were like you. What a truly wonderful human being you are. I hope we can give you back the kindness and love that you give by supporting you on your RUclips journey for many more years to come.

  • @alanmacvean2053
    @alanmacvean2053 Год назад +4

    My favorite video , just the hard work and dignity of these people , trying so hard and not wanting anything for it , truly a wonderful thing you've shared , thank you !

  • @RichSmithson
    @RichSmithson 3 года назад +2173

    We employ a Chinese guy sometimes to do work for us and when he finishes a job and I give him a little extra money he refuses to take it. I have to spend 10 minutes begging him to take it before he does and even then he doesn’t want too.
    Really humble people. It makes me want to learn Mandarin.

    • @laardhavemercy807
      @laardhavemercy807 3 года назад +102

      Even if you learned just a little bit, I bet you would make that guys day 👊🏼

    • @thestainless6289
      @thestainless6289 2 года назад +6

      Why do you want to give him him extra money?

    • @yotacharapone5341
      @yotacharapone5341 2 года назад +103

      @@thestainless6289 he might’ve done a really good job

    • @DarkSithBarbie
      @DarkSithBarbie 2 года назад +42

      I love the Chinese culture in that you are taught that humility is the greatest attribute. Accepting gifts, compliments, and speaking about yourself is always from the perspective that others are greater than yourself.

    • @GATOxNORTE
      @GATOxNORTE 2 года назад +1

      Cantonese*

  • @ivy8606
    @ivy8606 3 года назад +1889

    i cant express how heartwarming this gesture is for asians especially. for me, it’s typical to give gifts and not receive them (well, not without a quarrel or two). i bet each one of them went home that day and cried just because of your kindness.

    • @ItsBlu0
      @ItsBlu0 3 года назад +9

      True :)

    • @benvasilinda1540
      @benvasilinda1540 3 года назад +52

      I was lucky growing up in a pretty well to do family in the nicest areas in Florida. I had neighbors who were Asian and they were the best neighbors, they were very respectful of American Christian holidays and they even joined in stuff like Halloween and Easter egg hunts. I shocked my family by joining the military and it's caused a horrible friction between them and I for many years. Mostly because of my privileges afforded to me growing up but it was something that was meaningful to me because I felt I owed my country my service because of what our country offers us. I served with several Asian guys that I even went to combat with. Those guys were as patriotic as the best of us and I still stay in contact with one of them to this day. I play a game on my iPad called Boom Beach and I'm even in an all Chinese clan and I've been with them for about a year now and I've been playing for about 4 years total. I learn so much from them about their culture and what it's like over there. It's a 50 person clan so we're all pretty active. With all the talk about racism and slavery that we had here in the US, people never mention the slavery that the Asians went through here in our country when they were first here. They were forced into mining, building railroads and agricultural. They have risen up from those days and have been loyal Americans ever since and I'm happy to have been lucky my enough to called some of them my friend.

    • @ItsBlu0
      @ItsBlu0 3 года назад +1

      @@benvasilinda1540 is this true?

    • @fractilians7
      @fractilians7 3 года назад +3

      So true!!

    • @MrJuanport
      @MrJuanport 3 года назад

      @@ItsBlu0 yes! So after internment camps the government didn't know what to do with the citizens they were illegally detaining so they decided to pick "key cities" in helping reintroduce these citizens. Amarillo Texas funny enough is one of them, they have a vast and great Asian community there that thrives and prospers...at least BC. Haven't been in years and lost touch with some friends dont know how they doing.

  • @cc967
    @cc967 10 месяцев назад +2

    These people are so humble and so deserving of the tip.

  • @ericahuang7189
    @ericahuang7189 3 года назад +1568

    something to point out is that usually we don’t usually open red envelopes in front of other people so that’s why he asks them to

    • @emmawang2224
      @emmawang2224 3 года назад +19

      true, but the guy with the food cart by the street didnt open it up on the spot

    • @ShinsekaiAcademy
      @ShinsekaiAcademy 2 года назад +62

      if you want my opinion, it would have been more polite to leave and get their reaction at another day/time/video

    • @itmejac6945
      @itmejac6945 2 года назад +89

      @@ShinsekaiAcademy to be fair when he’s giving them $1000 each, he doesn’t need to be super polite 🤣

    • @peterbradley4916
      @peterbradley4916 2 года назад +5

      Yes , that makes sense! Thanks for your comment!

    • @ZiyandoingVids
      @ZiyandoingVids 2 года назад

      Yea

  • @howiewang9034
    @howiewang9034 3 года назад +637

    Bro your Chinese is so good you even nailed the “no no no, you must accept accept the money” quarrel our parents do. Never seen a white guy do that so well.

    • @Cruelty-Torture
      @Cruelty-Torture 3 года назад +10

      Good to know. I would never have caught that detail without your comment. :)

    • @sayajinmamuang
      @sayajinmamuang 3 года назад +6

      Well hes studied at Beijing what do you expect? Most white guys from nyc probably cant speak like a university student.

    • @variable57
      @variable57 3 года назад +7

      Reminds me Seinfeld of “just take the pen!”

    • @Gary109
      @Gary109 3 года назад

      Quite a few white guys have assaulted Asians recently in the states and no correlation was made since that doesn't play into the mainstream media narrative.

    • @Fumble469
      @Fumble469 3 года назад +1

      He speaks to them regularly just like family

  • @PandaUser-by3qj
    @PandaUser-by3qj 10 месяцев назад +2

    its been 2 years and everytime this comes up on my youtube timeline i still shed a tear and cry a little, i dunno just nice seeing these people saying no to big gifts but Xiamonyc still gives it and pushed to give it God bless you man

  • @sydneycarpenter5916
    @sydneycarpenter5916 10 месяцев назад +1

    They’re also kind of love it. Thank you for making the days and maybe the world.

  • @Deagle-lj7tv
    @Deagle-lj7tv 3 года назад +748

    "If you've allready got the footage, you can just take the money back" Wow, what a guy!

    • @cheekybangtan5083
      @cheekybangtan5083 3 года назад +82

      agree...now I wonder if thats how other’s fo it for views..I hope not..

    • @321MjC
      @321MjC 3 года назад +9

      @@cheekybangtan5083 wouldn't put it past the people who only care about "likes" && "views" SMH🤮🤦‍♀️ People are getting killed because they are pretending to be robbers, dressed in all black, fake weapons, etc. Bothering old people in grocery stores, etc. MY POINT IS: some will do anything for the camera SMH !!!!!

    • @Nikeel_A.W
      @Nikeel_A.W 3 года назад +20

      He is in the big brain game. 🤣

    • @tashacathey8967
      @tashacathey8967 3 года назад +9

      I spit my drink out hilarious!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @diplosoriano9898
      @diplosoriano9898 3 года назад +3

      I was going to say many people do it for the views

  • @DripGxd_Cam
    @DripGxd_Cam 3 года назад +1142

    The First Lady giving him the tea warmed my heart so much. Yea there’s a lot of really crappy people in the world. But part of me likes to believe that most of us are really kind at heart and really mean well and that maybe humanity isn’t a lost cause after all.

    • @playingmonkey3929
      @playingmonkey3929 3 года назад +3

      Yes man ur correct. Lots of love to the first lady ❤💕

    • @DripGxd_Cam
      @DripGxd_Cam 3 года назад +1

      @@mquiroz90 no. Where do you get that idea from?

    • @sniff.........................
      @sniff......................... 3 года назад

      Most Chinese people are good like most people from any other country, the CCP is the main problem.

    • @sniff.........................
      @sniff......................... 3 года назад

      @@mquiroz90 I bet you believe humans are the cause of climate change too huh, I bet you also believe the climate is warming when it clearly is getting colder.

    • @DripGxd_Cam
      @DripGxd_Cam 3 года назад +1

      @@sniff......................... i mean i didn’t really think it was a race thing, i just like seeing people being kind to one another. But i see what you mean i guess.

  • @D1ONYSOS
    @D1ONYSOS Год назад +1

    The guy in 8:50 absolutely baffled by the conversation