LOL: Angry Feminist ATTACKS Trad Wives
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Michael, I was a Vice President of Finance for a billion dollar insurance company. When I became pregnant I resigned. I never intended to work when I became a mother. The hate I received from women, and only women, was awful. They said things like, I am making women look bad. I made it to the top just to quit to be a housewife and so on. I said I considered it a promotion. These feminists are not for women at all. So sad.
Same for my mom. That's why I'm determined to make her happy 😁😅
I am sure God is proud and your husband and child/children are blessed!
Good for you. When I was in the workforce, I had a great job, I got laid off during the recession and found out I was pregnant soon after. At 8 months pregnant, I realized I wanted to raise my baby and be there for their needs. A lot of women these days are promised the world through feminism, then realize they are just toiling away all day and getting older without a husband or children that they secretly really want. Haterz gonna hate, lol 😆
You're correct. I am a 60 year old grandmother and wish I had stayed home with my sons instead of spending so much time on the hamster wheel of work paying taxes and buying a lot of useless crap. I am enjoying all the time I get to spend with my grandkids now however.
My MIL asked why her kids' generation is all messed up (people who are now in their 50s -40s). I asked if she wanted the honest truth. I told her it was because her generation farmed their kids out to be raised by daycare & tv. she said, "yup, I guess that's it".
She’s making this way too complicated to say SHES MISERABLE. Just let us traditional wives care for our families. WHY DOES IT BOTHER YOU SO MUCH?
Misery loves company....these feminist would rather put their all and submit for their bosses than a husband
@@xiongher3080 I strongly agree, then again these misandrist can't even answer the question of "what is a women?" in addition will defend, incentives creepy, perverted, violent biological man in dresses whom can claim women hood, frankly the modern day feminism movement has failed women completely and will probably NEVER be trusted again.
@@xiongher3080 🎯
BINGO. They are the ones miserable and cannot bear thinking other women are happy.............. It's terrible, women are like crabs in a bucket.
The sunken cost fallacy writ large.
I’m a trad wife who has raised 4 kids. I now raise adopted and foster teens. Being a trad wife is not all skin care and baking. It is cleaning, budgeting, shopping, raising kids, putting 3 nutritious meals on the table everyday and much much more.
this is so true; my husband really doesn't like doing the finances. We started our marriage out with him doing the finances because he thought as the man he should do it but he hated it, I am better at it than he is and so I took over our finances.. It's funny that these miserable feminists think all trade wives are slaves in our relationships 🤣🤣I am a trad wouldn't trade my life with any of these unhappy so called feminist.
You're amazing! God bless you with wealth, beauty, and abundance!
they’re more worried about young girls becoming trad wives than only fans models 💀
Some of these ‘trad wives’ ARE onlyfans models 😂😂😂
@@sco0by_d0ob420 people can do what they want, I just don’t get being concerned about young women being inspired to be homemakers-when it’s a really impactful thing to do. She even said “no wonder women are drawn to this with how the dating world is today with hook up culture and being ghosted etc” it’s like yes that mostly exists because of “girls can be players too” mentality
@@sco0by_d0ob420 then they aren't trad wives lol
That should clue you in, that these leftists are basically warring against god and morality and decency.
@@sco0by_d0ob420 yeah no. That’s not a “trad” wife. Don’t sound so stupid.
Being a trad wife is a huge promotion. Instead of making $$$ they're creating memories and raising kids to be well adjusted adults. What a great way to grow up.
Exactly! Instead of creating "TPS' reports I get to produce wonderful children, I create a beautiful home. And Yes I clean OUR home, just as I would have to IF i lived alone or with some inter-sexual roommate.
Perfect!! That´s why I (wrongly) care a little more about my mom than my father. (again, wrongly). I already know it´ll going to happen me with my kids (sad but it's way better than live miserable with cats).
Completely agree. There is a huge amount of trust placed in daycare services.
G.K. Chesterton: “It [feminism] is mixed up with a muddled idea that women are free when they serve their employers but slaves when they help their husbands.”
Pass it on. HUGE!
Thanks!
Crazy how good people produce good kids and the crazy leftist women who are kidless spend there lives trying to RUIN your kids and your life.
Something kind of insulting is that this feminist compares being a stay at home mom to a "fantasy," where you "prance around baking bread in a frilly dress all day," as if it isn't one of the most difficult and important jobs a person can do. Seems more like it's HER fantasy.
Some days it’s “I can’t get the kids to stop screaming and my gosh if I could just get these dishes done…”
Other days it’s my daughter making my son and I play dolls with her. XD
But seriously, some days in the time it takes my husband to work a full shift I can barely get everything done and I’m as tired as he is when he gets home.
To be fair, there are many "trad-wife" influencers who play into the role in exactly the way she's describing as a way to attract male viewers who do view that as a fantasy.
I get so annoyed at the women who think the men who want a traditional wife are just lazy abusers who want a maid. When I was pregnant I had HG, which basically means I was ill my entire pregnancy and it was debilitating. I was in bed for two straight months just trying to sleep because if I was awake I was throwing up. My husband worked at home and everyday he worked all day long then cooked, cleaned, ran errands and cared for me. Never complaining once. He hasn’t changed a diaper in months but that man is anything but selfish and lazy. He’s the leader, provider and protector of myself and our daughter. Being his traditional wife is a freakin pleasure and these women don’t understand how incredible it is to be with a man like that. They want a beta man they can boss around. How sad.
HG is terrible. Women get hospitalised for it sometimes, sometimes for weeks or months. They've even delivered babies early because the women were suffering so badly. The Princess of Wales had it and had to spend some time in hospital with a couple of her pregnancies I remember.
I’m so thankful that my wife has had a trouble free pregnancy so far. We’re 5 months in and she’s never even had morning sickness. I hope the 2nd half goes just as smooth
My mom had HG and yes, it was awful. So glad to hear your husband supported and helped you.
This thing is a lot of these feminist oriented women don't look for men that hold traditional values.
They pick the man who they never even really talk about family values before screwing the guy and then marrying him and then blame men in general for her choices in men.
And on why men are the way they are now noticed that she considered twenty year olds young.
She thinks that women should not be serious about kids or marriage or life in general until 30s, then what did she expect men to do if women are acting and thinking that way.
I was unable to find a wife because of the way society thinks now and few traditional women left so of course guys are going to become whatever it takes to get to the woman and if she's the one playing around, you're gonna play around because women don't want serious guys.
If you want a guy that's fun and funny and hot and that's your top priority, then what do you expect he's gonna be like when you have kids.
And i'm not saying those are bad traits for a guy to have, But that's unfortunately the trait that women put a priority on and we see them. Turn down good guys because it's better to have a bad boy with those traits than a good guy that doesn't
That is short sighted and I can get into a lot of why do you think those are good? But for example I'm adventurous and can't be funny. But I am pretty serious and normal in my daily life. But that means I make a good living but I don't show it off and confident and hard work isn't enough anymore.
So I'm not giving the chance to show that I can be those extra things because. What makes me a good father and husband are not desirable any more.
I am married to an Alpha male!
My husband’s mother is a working woman. My husband believed he would be married to someone like her. When I told him, during our dating years, that I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom, and maybe even homeschool my children, he just couldn’t take it. He thought I would just sit at home, watching soap operas, eating bon-bons - while he slaved away all day.
He talked to his dad about his feelings, and his dad told him that, between childcare, fuel, eating out (because mom would be too exhausted after a day’s work to cook a decent meal), and professional wardrobe, plus all the other little expenses that add up - it probably cost their family MORE to have my mother-in-law work.
My husband has expressed to me so many times over the years, how much he appreciates that I stay home and educate our kids, make good food, process our garden produce, and so on. There have been times in our marriage that I’ve picked up a little side hustle here or there. We have a modest income and a modest home and modest vehicles. But we’re united in our goals to be debt-free and to raise our family in wisdom.
I’m not glamorous like these ladies. But I’m happy because I’ve chosen this life and God has blessed me.
You are glamorous.
Your choice is very admirable. May God bless your family and give you peace!
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Amen!!
Amen
Being married 26 years as a traditional wife and mother has been the greatest blessing of my life. I have seen my more “non traditional” friends all get divorced and are absolutely miserable people! I will keep my values all day long thanks!
Amen mama!!!
As a gen z man, im gonna stay single. The fact that women will divorce you unless you are the full income is why gen Z men are choosing to stay single. Ive always thought of wives that want to only be in the home as grifters that want transactional relationships.
@annr.8883 - I can totally relate. I've been married for 34 years, and for about 29 of those years, I've been a traditional wife. A lot of people have told me that it's unusual for a marriage to last as long as ours, and these days people get divorced after a year or two. My husband is the backbone of our marriage, and I also give credit to the fact that I've been a traditional wife and helped to make our house a happy home.
@@psychedelicpython that sounds so heavenly, wishing you all the happiness in the world. I hope I can find a man who supports me like that, I want to work tho
@@gabenelms3228This is such a sad and miserable outlook to have.
As a trad wife, age 23 with two kids and whom married her high school sweetheart, I can say that this life is amazing and brings sooo much joy and fulfillment and *challenge*
Same! 25, on baby number 3, married my college sweetheart at 20. God has been good to our family!
Same! We were sweethearts in 6th grade, then started officially dating at age 15 (in 2001) we married in 2006, this year it will be 17 years of marriage and 6 kids!! I have been a tradwife for 16 years of it! Best time of my life! My husband doesn't want me to go back to work after all out children are grown either. 😊
How financially stable are you? My big fear in marrying young is that the kids will grow up in poverty
@everything you need to know We own our own home so... lol It isn't easy by any means, but to own our own home plus two cars and be able to keep all the bills paid without being in debt (besides the mortgage obviously) is something that most people our age cannot say, and I believe it's in large part because of the lifestyle we live. And just to be clear, we didn't have kids right off the bat, and we both worked up until I literally went into labor lol and then after I had our first girl we agreed that I should stay home and he would take over as breadwinner. Now he's about to be promoted into management in his factory, the youngest they've ever hired into the position actually. 😊 But we bought our house and then got engaged and then we decided we were ready to have kids so right after we got married we got pregnant with Bec.
amazing. love it. while (unfortunately) dating around, i started to be honest with guys and say “my dream job is to be a wife, mother and homemaker to my family”. actually majority strongly agreed! except for one who said im “meant for more than that”. anyway most men want to have trad wives. but since it’s not trendy they never mention it on dates. i *think* im considered more attractive after letting a guy know my dream of being a trad wife. hearing how you are living is honestly inspiring for me.
i wish for happiness, good health and stability within your household ❤
I was a traditional wife in the 80's. Loved it! Broke my heart when my husband left me with children ages 8, 5 and 6 months. I went back to school and eventually earned a Ph.D. while raising my three daughters. I wish my marriage had stayed together, but we live in a fallen world. I still believe in marriage and have made it my life's work to help people build stronger marriages. God bless the hands that rock the cradle.
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I like that you never regret being true even though things ended.
Besides, your far better than people who keep switching in the dating culture😅
Yep the hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that riles the world.
Your story is told by not just propagandist f3m1nists but by every day women, as being the norm. It is not. First, it's women who destroy their families at an 80+% rate. Second, it is not infidelity but rather finances that is the #1 cause for divorce. Generally, it is that he isn't making enough money for her to flex for her family and toxic friends. Good women need to sound off on this. Your case is rarer than what I described, which understandably makes women uncomfortable, but it has to be said that women are the ones at fault that the institution of marriage is at the worst state that it has ever been.
Amen.
You are a great woman.
I applaud you for moving forward and do what you had to, in order to provide and be in this place in life you still believe in marriage 💕 hope you get to feel the satisfaction of helping couples maintain family together 🙌🏻
As a woman who is tired of working 40 hours a week and missing my son's life I very much would prefer the opposite.
As a young teen girl, who wants to be a traditional wife one day, I’m ahead in school and will graduate with my AA. I plan on working up until I’m married, however, I’ve gotten so much hate for wanting to do this. But as a Christian I will not change my beliefs for the benefit of other people. And it’s what it truly want to do to make myself happy. The people of my generation talk about “doing whatever you want to make yourself happy” until it contradicts their ideology. It’s not like I’m telling them working as a woman is bad, but when I state my beliefs it’s a problem. Just a reminder that the libs want you to be happy as long as you are also a lib😂. God bless you all✝️✝️
I hope you get everything you dream of. I'm a widow lost my husband after 32 years. I can do whatever I want and have my own money. I would rather have my best friend back. And I loved being with my kids more than anyone else.
God Bless You and Keep You ❤🎉
Thank you, I have hope for the future! This society has become so destructive to the family. When that crazy lady tries to smear women with 'white nationalist' , it is just foolish name calling. What the femonist lady in this video comes across as ultimately hateful & destructive. I feel really sad for the unhappy somen.
Marry me❤. I was just joking. Please don't take that seriously 😅
Look take it from someone who went from school to marriage, nothing wrong with wht ur doing, I spent 19 years with my high school sweetheart, anything can happen and I get shit for settling so early, u r doing just fine , walk with u chin up, smile, and keep going
I’m 20, female, and Christian and I’d say you’re on the right path :)
I am black, I am a trad wife now. I worked in the military for 13 years and have 3 young kids. Once I had my kids I was miserable working and my mental health deteriorated, i spent little time with them and they suffered for it as well. Last year, I got out of the Navy and have been a stay at home mom. My kids are happier, and so am I. My husband and I are saving so much money on not having daycare. I love being a stay at home mom, and my husband takes the lead in all our decisions.
Thank you for your service and congrats of finding your peace!
Go momma!!!!
Same girl! SAME!
That Evil disgusting whatever she or he is have failed studying American black and red and brown women wife and men husband and really didn't study hard enough about American white women wife and men husband in America ‼️ Plus she makes women and men looking bad of all different colors and different backgrounds of overseas countries women and men coming to America legally U.S. Citizens and those overseas countries women and men wife and husband love the same ideas of American Traditional wife and husband and having babies and family members together and both wife and husband can go to work too if they provide child care daycare and night care while husband works or wife works or both works at different days and nights so that mom can stay home in daytime or night time the opposite of whatever the husband works in day time or night time or whatever works for parents and family members living in the house . My mom raised me up alone by herself when mom divorced my real dad because of alcohol and depression of working for Blowing up hills sides to making new highway and dad's young brother died off from accident blowing up the hill side and mom had to move to my second grandparents house and getting a good job in little town and finally gotten a called from first grandparents in another State 2 thousands miles away from my birth place State and took me with my mom and gotten a high paying job and stick with it for 1967 through 1996 for 29 years as a Under writer STATE Farm Auto Insurance companies to given out money for drivers and passenger in a accident of cars and trucks and whatever types of vehicles they drives and owns. Both mom and me have been raised by faith and Baptist Churches Missionary family and friends of uncles and cousins are Baptist Church Preachers owned the churches across America STATES and mom and my family members and friends doesn't believe in Demoncrats Party's KKKLAN Klu Klux klan white supremacists Neo-Nazis inventers Terrorists criminals Corrupted Organization Group normalizing smearing and lying about everything and killing innocent American black and white and brown and yellow and red innocent poor regular people and kids and babies and killing innocent Christian parents and kids because Demoncrats Party people doesn't want to believe in GOD and Jesus Christ and Prayers and Bibles and Pledge to the America flag in public schools kindergarten through highschool and college and University in America ‼️🇺🇸 And REAL American black and white and brown and yellow and red innocent straight biological male and female Christian Values parents and family members and friends have every Right to Freedom of Amendment Rights LAWS to freedom of speech and Amendment Rights LAWS to freedom of religion and Christian Values of God's LAWS of 10 commandments was installed in the U.S. Constitution and Declaration of Independence and Amendment Rights LAWS of Common sense rules of TRUTH and Liberty 🗽 and America First . 🗽🛐✝️⛪⚖️🇺🇸‼️
My mom and my family members and friends much rather have been a traditional American house wife and mother staying at home with babies and kids and being a good farmer raising farm animals and fish and birds and vegetables and fruits in a family of 2 to 4 kids growing up . And my family members and friends are military Services members of Army and Navy and Air Force and Marines and National Guard members and great grandparents and grandparents served in World War 1 through 2 in Hawaii and Europe overseas countries and against Germany Dictator Hitler Nazis Wars and came back home as a hero freeing overseas countries population of innocent poor people and kids and babies in Europe and Japan dictatorship Globalist leaders millionaire and billionaires looting and killing innocent poor people and kids for Power grabbing and money grabbing. And my other family members uncle and cousin serve in Vietnam war 1960 1970 and 1980 and my Christian girlfriend was a Air Force Radio Technician and never came back home and her parents don't know what happened to her in overseas countries .
I’m a young teen mum and I’m now a stay at home mum. I’m 19 and this baby and being pregnant taught me that this life is the most rewarding. I used to be a drug fuelled feminist lol but now I love taking care of my home and my child, I love seeing a smile on my partners face. Because he works on hours so I can do this why would I not be grateful
Also I worked since I was 16 up until I was 30 weeks pregnant at 19. And I’ve never been happier, yes it’s a full time job looking after a house and a baby but it’s much more rewarding
"Unpaid domestic labor..."
Who pays the man to do the yard work, fix stuff, take out the trash and open pickle jars?
If my husband died, I’d have to get rid of my wood stove, pay someone to mow, and ask for help fixing broken things at home or helping with bigger home projects. My husband has saved us so much money by learning how to fix many things on his own.
Also, it IS paid, because she has a house and food and clothes and so on and so on.
Yo got a laugh out of me with pickle jars lo
Wait.....I can charge to open a pickle jar?
And reach stuff I cant't reach.
One of the worst things about the Tradwife video is it perpetuates the myth that homemakers are lazy and on a permanent vacation. In reality living on one income is difficult and only possible because the wife cooks the meals, gardens, mends, shops carefully, and chooses to go without the little luxuries, and often living in a smaller home than their two income counterparts. Then she has to put up with other women snubbing her or expressing how lucky she is when it's not luck at all, its sacrifice and work.
Yes, it is a lot of work! But it is very much worth it. ❤
I work waaaaay harder, physically & mentally, staying at home than I ever did at a job. There are no other stay at home moms around me, so it is often lonely. But my kids are nice & loving and my husband would do anything for us. Our culture is never content - everyone always wants more than they need. Yet they never figure out that it does not increase you happiness, only you appetite.
@@pattyhansen7563 Well said Patty. I hope you find some ladies that have a similar lifestyle. The main thing we need to do on the Right is BUILD COMMUNITY! The left never has problems with this because they have miserable, empty lives, unfortunately for them. But it is possible and I hope you find/build it.
Underrated comment
...living on one income... Yes, you described my experience too. But it was so worth it. As a wife and mother, I felt loved and valued. Yes, the days were full, but never boring.
Fortunately for me, there were other stay-at-home mothers on my street and we were good friends.
I'm so glad you did this. I guess I'm a trad wife. As we needed, I did work part time but only until my husband's business took off. I loved raising my boys & taking care of my husband. 23 years later we are still going strong & have great young men that we are proud of. I feel very blessed.
"The lifestyle being sold is a fantasy. It's fictitious... ... it's like an extended session of playing dress-up." Uhh you just described transgenderism.
Perfect
It is though. If these women were real trad wives they wouldn’t just be wearing pretty dresses and baking apple pies all day, they’d be doing yard work and house chores too. Don’t believe these influencers, they’re just selling you your fantasy
@@sco0by_d0ob420 I totally believe that the tradwife influencers could be fake, but even if they are lying, at least young women are being convinced to consider a traditional role. I do hope you are wrong, but at least the idea is being considered!
Big facts
She did a great job describing how she's miserable because she's married to an ideology, and not a good man.
Dead on
Yah But, She's "independent"- meaning, ALONE
It’s worth noting that her parents most likely were a much more traditional couple like most immigrants of their generation. She had those benefits.
Trash Sarky is a disgrace, describes herself as a communist but lives a champagne 🍾 lifestyle.
Is it just me or is "she" a he. Looks like a dude to me
Is she for real? The best time of my life was marriage and having children. In that order!!!! I’m now in my late 70’s. So utterly 😢 that these nuts are allowed to spread these nasty untruths.
I think the saddest part of the anti-trad/feminist movement is that is only sees women as submissive to men in marriage. It fails to acknowledge how both spouses make sacrifices to each other for the proper flourishing of their family.
Exactly.
It's because feminists are suffering penis envy. Deep down they hated being women and feminine. That's why all the tropes of a stronk independen woman is having masculine name, acting all tough, being too physical and overbearing. All the traits of a tough man.
Amen!!
Still, there is a misconception about what submission means. It doesn’t mean to obey blindly and to allow yourself to be abused. It means the husband has the final say when it comes to important decisions. Also women don’t submit to any random man. It is picking a man as your husband that you can trust to take care of you. This is a Christian principle. The Christian man is instructed to lead his family as Christ leads the Church, selflessly, and to even lay down his life to protect them if necessary.
With that said, I’d guess most men don’t live lives anywhere near the standard required to lead a family.
Feminists want complete domination in relationships.
Exactly! They fail to understand what the husband/man is doing & or sacrificing for his family daily as well!
Her whole arguement went out the window as soon as she said " Right wing " . Being a mother or father is not a right or left wing thing.
Everything has to be political to these people. Literally everything.
Well said. 👏💯
What do you expect from a communist journalist lol? Nobody takes her seriously in the UK
Didn't used to be a political thing, but we've been pushed back to that hill.
Thank you! My best friend is a left leaning moderate, and she is a devoted housewife and stay at home mom!
I’m 29 years old, hold a bachelors & masters degrees, and I’ve struggled for a decade with deciding what I want to do in life as a career. Sure I enjoy what I’m doing with my life right now working in higher education, but I learned when I turned 29 that this life I am living is not my dream, it is simply the life I am living because I have to live it.
When I was younger trying to decide what I wanted to do with my life, EVERY time I would pivot & try to find something new I’m passionate about doing for a job, I’d always go back to my mom and tell her “I don’t like working 9 to 5, I don’t enjoy these industries that I see around me, I don’t necessarily want to work for a company from home because I would just want to not do my remote job while at home. If I’m home…I want to be home & enjoy being home! I want to garden & read & clean & take care of my animals. But I know I also need income and I want to be able to be home and have someone else take care of earning income.” And then it finally dawned on me….I literally want to be a stay at home wife & mother. I want a husband to take care of me by being the earner for our home. I want to be able to take care of my home and the children we bring into it!! I’ve literally had a home management binder since I was 23 years old and I enjoy updating it & doing tasks around the house. Yes, I want to be able to depend on a husband! No, I don’t want to be totally independent. And for the longest time I was embarrassed about wanting this life because it somehow meant that I was lazy or not living up to my potential. I KNOW I’m capable of being a director or head of a business. I KNOW I can go out there and make lots of money. I KNOW I’m capable…I JUST DONT WANT TO!! I don’t want to do those things🤷🏽♀️I’m sorry, but when people ask me what my “dream job/career” is, I have to be honest and say I don’t dream of working in a typical career. I dream of being home. I dream of being taken care of by my husband who I will, in turn, care for as well. I dream of being a mother & actually raising my children and not letting the government or someone else raise them while I work a job I don’t actually want to do.
When I tell you that it has been so FREEING to see other women be open & honest about wanting to be stay at home wives, be homemakers, or traditional wives? I felt like a weight lifted off my shoulders. I don’t wanna be a boss babe, I don’t wanna be head of an office. I want to be home. Not because I’m FORCED to be in the home, but because I am CHOOSING to be there. I know I can work outside the home, I just don’t want to. And I no longer choose to feel ashamed of that.
This woman works for a man and obeys him at her job but doing that with the man you love is just horrible
Tou-ƒ#cking-ché!
Feminism in a nutshell
Well, we don't call them 'Miserable Liberals' for nothing.
There's nothing wrong with doing that for a man if you want to.
Lmao not just any man probably a nonbinary fridge
I never imagined getting married, having a family and staying home to raise my children would make me part of the resistance. The world is upside down.
As a 20 something I rebelled against the machine. Little did i know that 20ish years later I'd still be rebelling against the machine. This time on the other side.
The right side. (pun intentional)
never been a better time to be a part of the Resistance
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We Mothers have always had the power, remember: Men are the HEAD of the family, but we women are THE NECK!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Boy, this woman’s mother should be so proud to have a daughter who’s ashamed of having a mother who cared and dedicated/sacrificed her life as a housewife instead of…. What?
And on top of that she’s obviously Indian descent in England, can you imagine growing up in that society?? 😳😳😳
If a woman wants to be a traditional wife and is proud to share it with the world, who's to stop her. She enjoys it as it brings fulfillment in her life. Blessed is the man who finds her🥰
I've been a traditional wife for 29 out of my 34 years of marriage. My husband and I have known many single men over the years, and their homes are rather drab looking in decor because they lacked a women's touch. The married couples we've known where both spouses work, almost all them have divorced. I've learned that the longer people are married, the easier marriage gets.
It’s funny how it’s coming from the same type of person who would tell us “trannies aren’t hurting anyone, they’re just living their truth so leave them alone!”
FEMINISTS: Feminism means you can do anything you want with your life!
SOME WOMEN: I choose to be a stay at home wife and mother.
FEMINISTS: NOT THAT!
Also Feminists: Men are evil! Trans women can have penises! Trans women can erase real women!
They just suck.
bullshit. We on the left say that women can do whatever they want just like men...We are just afraid of the dangerous social impact of promoting ancient, old-timey opressive ideas that would help monsters like Knowles opress people.
You know what I find Hilarious there was a feminist named Simone de Beauvoir.
And she was like you can't give women free will because they would choose to be house wife's.
I actually had this EXACT encounter in college, and the person who said that to me was a guy. The professor had us discussing and sharing different thoughts, and I said if my future spouse has the financial stability, I would have no problem being a stay at home mom and raising the kids. My male classmate gave me a nasty look and said, "Well, my mom worked full time while taking care of me and my sister. I don't agree with women who choose to stay at home and not work." That's when I realized third wave feminism is bullshit. They preach about women can make their own decisions, but if your opinion goes against their ideology, they will trash you.
@@queenofphilosophy1525 You have yet to prove how these ideas are bad. This is the Appeal to Novelty Fallacy, where you state that something is better simply because it is not old, i.e., modern.
I loved being a traditional wife and mother. I enjoyed every minute of raising my own children and being with them. Best life ever! 💛
my late mother would agree. she didn't like the 9-5 life. raising a family gave her meaning
Same here!
God bless the few of you wonderful females that still exist 🫡
I couldn't agree more! Mine are 23, 16, & 15. I've been there for every single moment, including homeschooling. I have zero regrets! I remember the girls, when I was growing up, looking at me like I had 3 heads. Being a wife and mother were the "only" goals I had. Obviously there was something wrong with me. Thankfully I never cared what feminists thought of me. I raised my girls the same way. I raised my son to be aware of the feminist ideology, and avoid them like the plague! I only pray they'll find the same happiness in life that I have.
"loved"?
Why past tense?
I live in a rather conservative country. Chose to be a housewife. Even here, I get hated and looked down upon by mostly women and some relatives (my husband's uncle who's divorced and insists I work otherwise I'm considered a waste of space in society). It's crazy to them that I chose to be with my child (now children), rather than throw them in nurseries
I don't think a housewife is better than a career woman. I just hate the hate/ ridicule we get when we choose to give up our career to nurture our children
"Women should choose their own path in life."
"Well, I choose the traditional wife lifestyle."
"No, except that."
The utter hypocrisy of telling people to be who or whatever they want, unless you want to be traditional. This is infuriating to me 😤🤬
"Don't do what THEY tell you to do, do what WE tell you to do!"
They're just as bad as the people they claim to be fighting against, maybe worse.
The utter hypocrisy of traditional men and women bitching at working mothers. Look at who is telling you to blame women - a MAN.
Right & the point she tries to makes on trad wife’s putting this idea into young womens minds is harmful but telling a 6 year old they aren’t the gender their born with is ok? Please make it make sense..
In addition to the fact that we’re absolutely rejected if we tell them what they should be, or even suggesting that there’s a better way of life, BASED ON EXPERIENCE. It’s a complete double standard.
@@malavewifey Please make it make sense for a woman to blame women/feminists for sodomites, transvestites and transgenders. Trad men love to hate women. And trad women parrot trad men.
I think she’s just jealous BC she’s perpetually miserable so she wants everyone to feel like she does.
I have been a "Trad Wife" for 33 years. I could not find a job outside of my home that was as fulfilling as being a Traditional Wife. I was able to be at home when my children took their first steps, said "mama" and "dada", learned to ride their bikes, and helped them with their homework. I was able to build a relationship with my husband through good times and bad while not being distracted by my boss or my job at the office, grocery store, medical office , or....??? I was able to enjoy relationships with the women on my block and with my grandmother whom we lived behind for 22 years. I also was able to develop deep friendships and serve other mothers in our church's Mother's of Preschoolers program.
My children learned to keep house as they completed their chores daily.
I believe a woman does not have to receive a paycheck to feel fulfilled.
Homemaking is about relationships, creating lasting traditions, as well as providing a haven for peace, instruction and love.
The Feminist movement was about women having choices and being fulfilled in their vocations. The position of Homemaker and being a Traditional Wife should never have been removed from the list of aspirations.
She went from "the women are the ones cleaning the toilets" to "homemaker lifestyle is leisure seeking" real fast.
Which is hilarious. The majority of my days I *maybe* sit down to eat lunch. That's it until after bed time. When a homemaker is doing her job and advancing her skills, she is rarely idle for long.
They bite their own tongue at each and every turn.
It’s the ‘kitchen sink’ approach - throw every negative analysis or characterization you can at it; consistency doesn’t matter, just flood the target in negative feelings until “the association will after enough repetition become fact in the public mind”.
@artgarfunkle8779 depends, plenty of professional jobs are work but have ebs and flows where they are not that hard
@Art Garfunkle Disagree. I have done both. I would much rather do my job as Director of Technical QA than clean bathrooms, 100%. I work so I can pay someone to clean my bathrooms (I'm only half joking). Keeping up with a house, especially a big, old one with a good amount of land, is a tough job. Way tougher than sitting at my desk and being on meetings - tougher even than the mental work I do at work.
At first i thought that lady was a native American man 😂
My Mom was a tradwife, the greatest woman ever, in my opinion. She raised 5 kids, she never worked outside of our home. She's my hero, the love of my life, my role model, my heart... my Mom, a tradwife! ❤
Life wouldn't be worth living without trad wives. Seriously they make me so happy like I can't explain it, it's like listening to the most beautiful music your whole life, so much peace in the house and so much satisfaction in life. Kids are happy too.
Been a wife for 22 years I am 41. My husband has been a wonderful provider the boy's are now able to drive so I get to go work. He still pays all the bills and let's me buy whatever with my pay. I have always said God truly blessed me with him.
Wait. You don’t drive??
@@Psyren369 I read that as: the boys can take care of themselves/drive themselves places, so I'm freed up to go work.
And God also blessed him with YOU!
Same here! 22 years married, happily and Blessed to have the King that has made me his Queen! 👑💖
Tradwife, homesteader, and exArmy officer here 👋🏻 I never realized how OPPRESSED I am by staying at home, cleaning, cooking, growing our garden, and raising our kids and animals 😅
#bestlifeever #tradwife
You know, all I really get from this lady is that she clearly hates conservatives and Christians. Just saying, how many times did she say that this trend was bad because it gave a “positive Venere” to conservatism and Christianity? I think that gives the game away.
I NEVER wanted anything but to be a stay at home and be a mother. I went to school for CENA pharmacy tech until I found my husband. He says I can work or not. I told him my goals he said great I support that. Happily married
That’s awesome and I’m praying/cheering for your fam!
I’m only 18 but same! I never aspired anything more than having a big family and caring for my future children. I do not even want to work towards any career, the only thing I want is have a family and do my best for them. My boyfriend wants me to be able to work though, just to not be dependent financially. But once we get married and start our family, we both agreed on me staying home and him providing.
@BLIBLABLUPP 561 I went to a 1.5 year program to be a physical therapist assistant. I worked full time until we had our baby 2 years ago. Now I work PRN (4 days a month) just to keep my license active. I highly recommend doing something where you can work like that just in case something ever happens. If my husband ever gets injured or anything, we feel happy knowing I could have a way to financially support us if needed. I like knowing my children and I wouldn't be stranded. God luck with all your decisions!
@@Nagemy Great advice Megan! That's really smart. Right now I'm stuck on a prescription pill that would take me several months to get normal again and I don't have a back up ability to support even just myself. Can only imagine the litany of issues that could arrive.
@@bliblablupp5616 you got this keep it up. We're cheering and prayers for your future ❤️
As a man, I know that I need to lift my game to earn enough to make this lifestyle a viable choice.
Side note: The editing is so good!
I think the real problem is many woman think obedience and servitude is backwards or wrong. Obedience is a key part of life. She functions within societal norms so she serves a boss, the government and she even serves the audience she’s pandering to, so why is it bad when a Christian woman serves her God and her husband?
Also, I’m in my 30’s. I’ve had three kids and during my last pregnancy, my morning sickness was so bad, he literally did everything. The meals, cleaning and taking care of the kids; all while having a full time job. And you know what? When I mentioned it to him and how much I appreciated him, he literally couldn’t remember! Haha. He’s a man who does what needs to be done no matter what. I’m blessed to be able to give him what he wants/needs.
Minus the SpongeBob.
Well said🏆
B-b-b-b-based! I don't suggest having your real name on your YT it's quite easy to steal identities and more hispanic sounding names are the number 1 target in America because of the illegals. Hope that is helpful not trying to be a dick.
What bugs me is that feminists never mention that until the 20th century almost all jobs were hard manual, and often dangerous, labor (plowing, lumber, mining, etc.), and rarely had a choice of which job he would do (it was based on what the man's father did). I never see feminists say that it was a negative that women of the past were never forced in mass to do these jobs.
They know that they wouldn't be able to do it themselves, they couldn't even manage house wife duties like baking and laundry by hand.
During WW2 women were FORCED into manufacturing jobs in support of the war effort. I've tried to find interviews of any of those women (who are mostly dead now) say that they enjoyed their work. It was always about the "war effort'. Even today. You don't see many women as garbage haulers or roofers or in lawn maintenance.
This lady's video screams "tell me you've never talked to a trad wife without telling me you've never talked to a trad wife"
Watching Knowles describe exactly what I saw from my parents growing up and explaining why it’s the best way to approach a marriage gives me a new perspective on why I’ve always felt a bit of anxiety at the thought of a career oriented life. As soon as I accepted that I just want a simple life as a mother all of my stress went away.
Same
Right there with ya!
Firstly that blond short-haired tradwife is absolutely stunning and I know that just burned these anti-traditional women to their core of their soul!! imagine being the type of person who looks at a young, happy, healthy, attractive woman who is being provided for, protected, loving her life, loving her husband and her family, having a nice home to take care of, warm meals to cook at night and just HATING it 😅 Its so backwards!! But if she aborted her children, hated men, lived& died single with purple hair than they are HAPPY as hell smh
Blondie would have to get fat and adopt a bunch of cats on top of your criteria to appease the feminists, but yes, it's beyond mental.
Misery loves company
@@Charlotte_MartelHey there’s no need to pick on cats!😂🐈
@@Ozziecatsmom Cats are lovely. My best friend as a child was my cat. The problem is the people (mostly childless women) who collect them like Pokémon.
@@Charlotte_Martel At one time I had 5😂, now I’m down to 1. They’re better than Pokémon!
I'm traditional in many ways. In my 34 years of marriage I've been a traditional wife for 29 of those years. I'm also a traditional Roman Catholic, and I love dressing like a woman in pretty modest dresses and skirts, along with tops that show no cleavage or a lot of skin. My husband works hard, and as a wife I like making our house a home, cooking and baking, and doing what real wives are supposed to do. I'm thankful for all of hard work my husband does.
As a SAHM, I’m in charge of our finances because my husband is dyslexic and is terrible at math.😅 He goes out and works a manual labor job because I would be terrible at that. We all have strengths and weaknesses. The way we become stronger is by admitting our strengths and weaknesses.
I feel for your husband :') and feel sorry for my future wife. I'm ADD with a bunch of hobbies.
Same here. My husband literally doesn't even know the password to our bank account. I never ask permission to spend money, but the decisions about large purchases are made mutually.
I'm in charge of the finances because my husband has ADD with poor impulse control.
In my experience with being a housewife, what I noticed is the backlash I'd get from men and women was always jealousy because they were forced to work and I was not. They would give an eye roll and say, "it must be nice". For years it would really get under my skin until I realized that their criticism was about their own issues and had nothing to do with the lifestyle my husband and I chose for ourselves. These were the same people in unhappy marriages also, which I found interesting. I think they resented the fact that I had a husband who chose and wanted to take care of me financially and I wanted to take care of him, our kids and our home. I dont regret it and I refuse to apologize for it 🤷
I’ve also found it sad that so many women who work outside the home talk about not being able to homeschool or stay at home with their kids because they couldn’t handle being with them all the time or wouldn’t want to be at home with their family every day. It seems so unnatural to not only hear women talk like that but then set their lives up in a way where they are only around their kids for a couple “fun” hours a day or vacation days here and there.
I’m with my kids all day every day, and it’s actually made us do less activities outside the home. We don’t need to constantly have classes, clubs, or teams that our kids would get shuffled off to.
"It must be nice" is not criticism. As you pointed out, it is envy because they can't afford to be, or to have, a stay at home mom. Husband needs *a high paying career and medical insurance* to afford that. I stayed home, until my 3 kids started school, then I went back to my Accounting career. I loved being a homemaker and *got zero zero negativity from anyone.* Maybe you bragged and provoked eye rolls. I never did and I never got any negativity. Be positive!
Same. My group of friends in my hometown started to distance themselves from me until we no longer spoke. My husband always suspected that they were jealous because they were forced to work and commute and all underneath people they didn't like or respect but also that they were all chronically selecting partners that were liberal and hence didn't uphold values that would have kept the relationships together.
Never apologize.
@@francikeenYou're so against assuming, yet you ASSume that she bragged? 😂
I used to think I wanted the feminist lifestyle and that being a trad wife was just taking the easy way. But since my sister got married and is a stay at home mother, and lives as a trad wife, I’ve slowly come to realize how natural it is for a woman to want that. I am currently in the military and I plan on getting out once my contract ends, I used to enjoy the life it gave me (I joined because I was living in my car and needed a job to provide food and shelter for me, not a lot of options 🤷🏼♀️) but now babysitting for my sister whenever I’m back home, I see how fulfilling her life is. My sister is beautiful and graceful and strong, she is such a light in her family’s life. It’s not as easy as people think, but I would absolutely love to raise a family and care for a husband that provides for us. I just hope that I didn’t wipe away all my femininity by being in the military and I can find someone who wants to share a life like that with me.
Take from me, it's 1000% possible for you. God has an incredible plan for your life 😊.
Tough to get the tradwife if you’re not willing to be a trad husband. Make single-income families practical again.
Women should be allowed to make choices, unless they make choices we don't like, then we'll just call them traitors
Amen
Agreed. I wish it was practical for my family. But we both have to work. We make it work for us though
Personally I think it's all hype there's all sorts of fringe internet phenomenon's that pop up and disappear after awhile and this tradwife thing is no different and if it was a widescale trend I've gotten used to being single after 17 yrs also as a 34 yr guy I'm still pretty young and for the most part I live a pretty drama and stress free life and to be honest I don't think I'll ever being married of have my own kids which considering the state of America's decline socio economically, politically, academically and culturally that's probably for the best and besides I can't afford kids anyways they cost too much.
@@fraserfir19 you’ll never be financially ready for kids unless you’re fuckin ballin. But it does change your work ethic I think. Makes you push harder to advance.
How offensive this woman is. Any woman keeping a home and family knows it IS hard work! We don't just "play dress up" and enjoy "leisure" time all day. What a disgusting way to put women down. That wet mop should be ashamed of itself (don't want to misgender it... It's a wet mop).
Lmfao. Oh shit that made me laugh hard. She really do be lookin' like a wet, gross, dirty mop.
I remember leisurely feeding the chickens, pigs and horse this winter, digging pathways and hauling buckets of water for them. I will also be leisurely planting our vegetable garden this spring. Plus homeschool and making our food from scratch. Being a lady of leisure is so easy!
Seriously this is work I chose and work I love but leisure? No.
@@helenahandbasket1489 And this is the same community complaining that work is evil and the government should pay a living wage so they can enjoy free time. It's just dumb. They cry online when their part time job serving coffee gets too many people in line. Upside down mentality.
**Good for you homeschooling your kids! Stopping the indoctrination where it starts, at school. 👍❤️ I wish I did. My kids are in college now and they are becoming insane!
Honestly since I was a kid I wanted nothing more then to have kids, be a stay at home mom, cater to my husband, cook and clean, and he go out and provide and protect us. Sadly I didn’t get that yet due to me picking loser after loser that were abusive. I’m now a nurse, no kids, not married, and I love helping people, it makes my heart melt, but it wasn’t my dream. If I was a tradwife, I would’ve never became a nurse. Hopefully I’ll get that one day lol. Because I loveee doing all that.
I wish the best to you and your (hopefully) future family.
@@philosopher-2007 Aw thank you so much. That’s honestly really sweet of you. I appreciate it a lot. 💗💗
anyone else find it really comforting that there are Trad wives in this world? i genuinely do
It is comforting to me. It means there is hope for me and any other man out there.
It’s such a breath of fresh air right?
We just have to be worthy of being a good head and work everyday to be better men! I recently married 6 months ago and just found out we have a baby on the way. I chose to quit music school and starting hauling hazmat for a year. I saved enough for a honeymoon and for us to move out of California to Texas. Christ continues to bless our marriage, but only in as much as I kill my ego everyday and sacrifice for my family!
Don’t be afraid to take risks and embrace hardship! I was miserable the past decade but IMHO I am the happiest I have ever been! I love my Trad Catholic wife and I would do anything for her and my family. FULL STOP
@@Olaizmusicwelcome to Texas man! Just for my curiosity, where did you decide to go in Texas?
I have found it really comforting after reading all the comments. Clearly not as rare as people tend to make it out to be
It shows there is hope for our species.
I like how she brings up Andrew Tate as if any trad wife would want him.
Exactly. Tate's lifestyle is pretty much the exact opposite of trad.
He is a convert Muslim. Muslim marriage and a Christian marriage are radically different. Whether she knew it or not its completely dishonest.
That Feminist is one of the reason why men running away from them.
You never know what the future might bring.
I was widowed at the young age of 26 & mother of an eighteen month old baby & a 5 year old.
His death was caused by a tragic plane crash. He was the pilot of the plane he leased.
Everyone said Social security will pay spouse & children benefits & you will be fine! Nothing could be further than the truth for me.
Back story, my husband was self employed &
I had been a traditional stay at home wife & mother.
I was suddenly the only parent without a formal education.
The business required state licensing & I wasn't allowed by the state to even finish the jobs that were in process . Taxes were due for that quarter & there was no money to pay them. It takes months to get SS benefits! So the state put a lein on all assets & bank accounts even my car. I reached out to family but they refused to help.
Next I received a letter that the company he leased the plane from had filed suit for the cost of the plane.
I was sued by vendors , customers (because work wasn't finished). Then the employees for their pay.
So now that my SS benefits were being seized by the state I had no resources!!!
A friend came to my rescue & filled a hardship claim in court. The judge let me keep my car & SS.
I applied for a grant to attend nursing school & that was denied!
The reason was my race! She told me that if I wasn't white it would have been approved.
I saved enough to finally attend & graduate with a nursing degree!
I raised my sons in a Christian home .
The point is there's hundreds of scenarios so have a plan even if you are young! This all happened in 1980.
I always trusted that God would get me through it , what he did was give me the strength & tenacity to survive the worst scenario of my life!
I'm 70 now with beautiful grandchildren & my sons are solid Christians!
God's plan works!!
Agree. I had my firstborn at a low point in life, at 17. When he was 5 months old, his father died unexpectedly. I was a child raising a son... Terrified. But God put this amazing man in my path. He adopted my son when we got married 20 years ago. Since age 11, my husband has taken full charge of all our sons' care. I believe things, even bad things, can put you on a path towards God's Mercy and Grace. ✝️
Every single family, duel income or not, should have life insurance policies on both parents. We have two large policies for my husband and one for myself. Paying into life insurance is absolutely a must.
This woman has likely never lived this life, and that’s why she is so critical of it. I became a “trad wife” due to some health issues, and I can honestly say it has been the most peaceful life I’ve ever lived. Everyday I’m reminded of how blessed I am to have a partner who provides for me financially so I can live to do the things I love. Homemaking is what I love.
Or that woman has a high body count and now she's pressuring or manipulating other women to do the same because no good man wants a hoe and she's jealous af of women who are truly happy
G.K. Chesterton: “It [feminism] is mixed up with a muddled idea that women are free when they serve their employers but slaves when they help their husbands.”
She's a professional victim. I'm British and she's one of these people that's on our TV all the time to just bad mouth everything about her country. Don't get me wrong, if I didn't live here then Putin could nuke us off the map and I wouldn't feel a flicker of emotion and I say that as an ex paratrooper. But she's one of those that blames the empire for everything that's wrong in the world and forgets Britain didn't invent history. Every problem in the world is down to some white English fella in the 1800s. She's one of them and as a result almost certainly hasn't even been fingered since she was in university, nevermind had a relationship. She just moans for the sake of moaning.
How's this even down to white people? East Asia, the middle east, Latin America, the African nations, none of them have wives who stay at home? Bollocks. I wish she'd bugger off to another country and see just how good she has it here as a woman
No the have seen it. And they know the harm it does. By the way 90 % can not life from one job, so women have no say in it. But it is ok that the rich bleed the masses out.
I can't describe how miserable being a trad husband would be. Having to provide everything for my family. Imo trad marriages are transactional marriages.
If a trad wive submits to her husband, the girl boss submits to her boss (or investors/stock holders if you reply "but she is self made, or she's the CEO").
So women submit either way.
Difference is, your boss doesn't love you (he/she is not even supposed to)...
I have been a “trad wife”, raising 6 boys for nearly 30 years. I never felt submissive to my husband- rather I have seen myself as his partner. We shared goals and both did our part to meet them. I basically ran our household, doing nearly every domestic task as well as all child related things- so when hubby was home from work, we had time to be a family and enjoy ourselves. I paid all the bills, and kept hubby in the loop regarding where things stood financially. We discussed big ticket purchases, making sacrifices when needed. I just recently re-entered the work force- as our youngest is now all sorted out. I love being back at work, and enjoy the extra money but would do the trad wife thing all over again if given the choice.
Can you please share what challenges, if any you faced???
@@Tigooooooooooo Good question…I think that my biggest struggle has been not giving in to resentment sometimes, for putting everyone else ahead of myself. I didn’t have a good role model in my own mother, and sometimes would fall into her internal dialogue of being a martyr. I have never been good about asking for what I need and being disappointed that my husband didn’t just know. It took me a long time to change my own thinking in that regard. I still struggle with that, but I recognize it’s on me to speak up.
@@Julia-en9xq this should help a few women. Nice of you to share
You are not a tradwife! That is the point.
@@Julia-en9xqit's sad in america women have to choose to be what God actually said a wife should be..trad is a normal wife...who said being a traditional wife you can't have a business etc...am african and back in our days our grand ma were married but still had small businesses here and there some were farmers etc...America wueh
Im a conservative & younger millenial that decided to stay at home after I went to school to become a teacher. After spending a few years with them while earning my degree and discovering what educators were really like with an adults eyes and hearing how they openly planned to indoctrinatę our children we decided I would be at home full time and homeschool. People thought we were nuts then and wouldn't listen when we told them our reasons but we have no regrets. Now with tiktºk everyone has been able to see it for themselves. For our part, my husband is happy, our kids are happy and not braínwashed 👍 and I'm happy at home with them. We're using a classical curriculum that I only could have dreamed of having as a child. I think everyone wins with this decision (except the wokįsts who were planing to subvért our children, and I'm not sorry about that).
This is great! I am a proud grumpy old man, but when I have a conversation with a young person I push back against the indoctrination they suffer from. The teachers at these schools are acting subversively to ingratiate themselves to the kids and try to be "cooler" than their parents, to isolate them from their parents who most likely are trying to influence and provide discipline to the kids. It becomes the "cool teacher who "gets" me", against the parents who have expectations and an actual stake in the child's success and life.
As a young millennial I don't agree with you that us wife's should be home and job less.
Yeah. If anyone (like a girl of Hindi descent living in a free country for example) gives you any shit, ask her how many "trad- wives" are there in India? And are they Nazis?
That sounds great. Just be sure to never fully rely on, or trust anyone, like husband, to guarantee you and your children’s future. Work from home to save money as an insurance incase you should need it. I hope you don’t but I have heard and seen it myself where women relied on their husbands to only find out they made a huge mistake in not having a “secret nest-egg”.
@@jillmondt5398 Yes yes NEVER TRUST NONE. LEARN TO BE STRONG AND INDEPENDENT. FINANCIALLY, MENTALLY,ECT
So many feminists act like women have to choose between being barefoot and pregnant or being the CEO of a major corporation. The reality is your average American works at low paying customer service jobs or working very hard in a factory. My mother only worked at home and save Dad all sorts of money by smart shopping, home cooked meals and sewing our clothes. She worked on her own schedule in a lovely home. What could be wrong with that??
Her future ex-boyfriend is going to ditch her, find a traditional woman, marry her and have a bunch of kids with her. Trust me, I grew up in a feminist home and do you have any idea how many times I have seen these feminists been ditched by the bf or husband only to go running to into the arms of a normal woman to wife her up?
This woman is proof that misery loves company
Yup this comment 👏 👏
imagine thinking it makes you better than everyone to be alone single and boring
They keep insisting that staying home is misery compared to working but have they seen how miserable women in the workforce are?? Housewivery is a woman flourishing
I couldn't even finish watching this. This modern feminism pisses me off! I wanted to have a family. I wanted to be available for my children. Raise them Christian. Teach them values. Have time to listen to them whenever they need me. But no! Now I am on my own with 3 kids and too busy to be there for them the way I long to be. Most of what they get is hurry up, I have to get to work!! Hurry up! It's time to go to bed, I have to go to work early. My kid is sick, I have to be reprimanded for missing days to do my God given job. I have to explain to my boss why I'm late because of something my kids did or need. The JOB doesn't care about you. You are very replaceable at your job. You have a chance to impact the future by raising the next generation and feminism spits in the face of that. I am not alone by choice. Many women look down on me for wanting the old ways. Look at the state of this world. I drive a school bus. Many mothers put their sick kids on the bus, because they have to go to work. (Some vomit on the bus before we get to school. This is insanity. Why can't the poor things stay home. We are more slaves now than ever before. We gave up freedom and traded it for a thankless burden. We miss most of our kids lives. I make a great effort to be there, but I am only one person. Kids need a father AND a mother. There is no science to it. It takes a lot to raise kids right. Feminism is to blame for many of or current problems . We dumped God and His order and are paying dearly for it.
Well said🏆
You've brought up multiple societal woes. My heart goes out to you. God bless you and your babies. 🙏🙏🙏
@@tonyascancook Thank you! God bless you!
I am so sorry! I'm lucky where I get to work part time and bring my kid with me! I clean a church/ day care , but I couldn't last night because she was throwing up, and you are right! It hurt me so much to have to leave my two year old with my mom. When I called, she ended up throwing up all over my mom, and was crying a lot. I felt horrible, but I had to go to work. I wish I could just be there with her. When I try to explain this to other people, they just say that they would never want to stay home and homeschool. I hope you find a Godly man will provide for you and your child! I'm sorry that you are doing this on your own! I don't know how you do it! I hope you have family and church that it helps you!
@@anneshirley9560 Thank you so much! God bless you and your family.
It's hard to be a trad wife when you look like 1968s Ozzy Osbourne with a 5 o'clock shadow
The woman who CHOOSES to be a traditional wife... She has a choice, continues to choose her lifestyle. This is a choice that the couple make. The woman isn't forced into anything. Isn't that the goal? Having the ability to make choices, for whatever works the best for you and the family? That's beautiful.
Pro choice…..until you don’t like their choice. 🤦🏼♀️
If you are rised with reliouse believes and talled your whoul life this is how you have to be. Your comunnity all believe in this thing. Where is the choosing? You to not whant to be shunt from your poeople. You will ablige not becouse you want it. Becouse you believe it. Hugh difference. And you are going to believe everybody else does it wrong becouse you do not know anything else. Yo tell others this is the right way. Now you advocat against the freedom of all women that do not want to life a tratitional lie you believe in.
@@alien777 so u saying your wants do not depends on the things around you?
As if there's an abstract want in your mind somewhere deep down.
Wants come from what you see people doing.
@@thompsongift7776 no that is you saying something, putting words you believe into someone elses mouth. So we are all clear her. You are saying that!
My body, my choice. Why doesn't it apply here?
The “white nationalist” accusation is hilarious to me. Just a few days ago I saw Melanie King reacting to a video about what country has the most traditionally feminine women in the world. The country was Tanzania😂
“Women have no control in the house and are putting themselves at financial risk by being trad wife”
Then why after a divorce do women continue to get the kids, the house, and receive alimony, and basically everything they owned together. To me it sounds like the man is more often at risk
My friend has been a stay at home mom for the past few months. Her husband is leaving her because he thinks she’s lazy for not contributing to the income (after encouraging her to quit her job). The lawyers she’s talked to won’t even ask for alimony. She’s still having to fight for custody. Her husband moved all the money in their shared accounts to his personal and refuses to allow her money even to eat.
This is why the courts usually favored women and why being a SAHM is more risky as the world takes those protections away.
The most offensive thing this uneducated lady said was that homesteading and farming are the same thing
wow... you are very kind to call this woman a lady.
I’ve been blessed to be a “trad wife” - I know not everyone can do that and we have made a lot of sacrifices from time to time to be able to do it but raising my girls caring for them and my husband has been wonderful. The only thing that gave me a moment of sadness were people like this women insinuating that there was something wrong with my lifestyle. Some online critics are really awful and say just dehumanizing things. I’ve gotten over that as I’ve grown older.
As a 23yo SAHM to an 11 month old, I'm happier than I've been in years. Me and my husband are highschool sweethearts and we worked since we graduated to save money to settle down. Once I found out I was pregnant, he finished his degrees, got a great job, and made it possible for me to quit my job to take care of our son and our home full time. I have never felt more fulfilled.
Thank you to the women highlighting the value of homemaking and mothering. And thank you to the men, like Michael Knowles, who defend them.
Of course, spousal abuse always involve financial control but those are criminals. Why do they always compare criminals to normal married couples??!! it is so sick, a man is bad unless he espouse is feminine virtues, and a woman is bad unless she espouses male virtues!! It’s quite insane!
But even in the studies she cited they didn't always have financial control. That was one of Knowles' main points. I do agree though the left always has to lump us in with the scum of the earth to even begin to pretend that we are lesser than their trashy lifestyles. Just part of the word game they've been playing for 100 years now.
They want to associate normality with criminal and uncouth behavior. These types want to destroy any sense of normalcy in society. They are attack dogs, nothing more.
It's because feminism treats all men as if they are already criminals, they just haven't been caught yet.
I’m in the middle of this. I love the tradwife ideology and have always wanted to find “the one” and build a family and whatnot… but in my teens, 20s and early thirties leading up to my marriage, I only found men who were abusive narcissists. It wasn’t until I was abandoned by my husband in a foreign country, left without money, a place to live, or the capability of getting a job did I finally find therapy through social assistance. I realized where all of this normalization of abusive relationships came from - my childhood. Needless to say, sometimes women are brought up in abusive cycles they can’t escape, but don’t know how to recognize early on and fall into horrible situations that destroy them. That’s why it’s such a safe guard to be financially independent. It’s a protective measure. I’m sure we all want the man that takes care of us, but for some of us it doesn’t happen. I’m happy to say now, by a stroke of luck I found my man for life… but I feel for the women out there, it’s not like men these days are itching to provide, care, love.. as maybe they once felt inclined to.
I love being a wife and mother. I am an RN with bachelors degree and i stopped working to raise my family. I loved being a nurse, but nothing gives me more joy, and satisfaction than taking care of my family. I nurture, love, take care and make our home a home! I believe women r missing out so much not being a traditional wife. They will regret it. I promise. I cant wait for grandchildren 😊
The women I know who chose not to be trad wives don't regret it one bit. Not every woman is cut out to be a wife and mother.
Also kind of rude to expect grandchildren - it is entirely up to your children to decide if they want children of their own.
@@megankissinger8269 Lol...my oldest son is 17 and he can't wait to have a family. His choice. I was just saying my opinion and my experience. You obviously don't understand that. I would never force my children into anything. I believe women will be very lonely without a husband, children etc as they become middle aged to elderly. Not saying u can't be happy without but that's not my experience. I am so grateful and happy with my life and I want the same happiness for all people. Have a glorious day!
@@megankissinger8269 It's completely understandable to want grandchildren, my future children are going to have children themselves too.
@@megankissinger8269 Every normal mother wants her children to experience the joy of parenthood and see their children reflected in their grandchildren. Of course, normal and joy are antithetical to feminism.
@@Charlotte_Martel Any normal mother wants her child to be happy, and motherhood isn't something that would make every woman happy. My mother supports my choice not to have children. Why? Because my happiness is more important than what others want. She would never want me to give her grandchildren I don't want to have, as that wouldn't be fair to me or the children. She isn't so entitled to demand that I live a certain way.
Feminism, when used properly, supports women in their individual choices, including stay at home moms and childfree women.
My wife is a "trad wife." She's incredible. 18 years and 4 kids.
She’s lucky you treasure her
@@Ruby_Villain They're both quite lucky I would say
My parents are traditional. Dad worked, mom stayed home. Well she was a teacher in a Christian school at first, we were in the daycare at said school so she was there & could check in on us a lot. Then when my older brother started school she became a stay home mom & homeschooled us. She also kept track of finances. So the idea was my dad had the final say in spending but the reality was he trusted her to be responsible with the finances so he always said if you think we can afford it then that's fine. I don't think my dad has every told my mom she can't buy something. Most of the time he's asking her if they can afford something that he wants that's not really a necessity. Which her response if she doesn't think they is we have this much in the bank & we need to pay these bills this week.
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Toward the end, she kept referring to housework like it is a leisure activity. I can assure her, cooking, cleaning, and keeping the schedules of a house full of kids is not a leisure activity. It's work.
Perhaps the one good thing about the women’s movement is that men are more involved with their children now. They are in the delivery room, occasionally change diapers, and actively participate in their children’s education and in their play. I remember a time when some (not all) men believed that doing these things meant they weren’t being a man. Children need both parents.
Exactly, men are more progressive and so should women be. Moving towards traditionalism is not the eay
Just wanna throw this out here, I'm 25, my wife is 32, I'm Christian and she's finding her faith more and more these days. Our marriage would be described as traditional. I've told her from day one that I'll never stop her from working, but I will do my damndest to make sure she doesn't HAVE to. My highest aspiration is to make certain she has everything she needs, and as much freedom of choice as I can provide. Wanna work? Cool, go to work relaxed and secure at home knowing you can walk away if ever it suits you. Wanna go to school? Awesome, go right ahead without having to struggle juggling school and bills. My goal for my wife has only ever been to enable her to choose whatever path suits her with as little burden as possible.
And that's the problem with the detractors... they actually believe that there is no communication/negotiation going on in the commited "trad" relationship. It's a bunch of Stepford Wives / Handmaiden Tales hyperboyle they propigate in their messaging. They are ignoring, without examination, what was successful in the past to promote stability in a family and rear children to be functional adults and are unwilling to look at the current level of social discord and unrest unleashed by progressives pushing too hard, too fast.
im sorry sir but ur wife is 7 YEARS older than u?? u coulda done better lol
@@aikowhite7783 I beg to differ. That woman is an angel. Girls my age are walking talking nightmares. We got married when I was 20 and I've never looked back. I wanted a partner to build a life with, found everything I ever wanted and then some. Look around these days and there's virtually no reason for a man my age with traditional beliefs and values to squander his time and effort searching within my age group. I was a grown up, I married a grown up, and no one can do better than a happy, rock solid, and fulfilling marriage.
@@taylorbotnewsomtest5860 based ngl
@@aikowhite7783 The best advice I could give a guy my age is aim up lol
Notice how she didn’t mention the Muslims at all in this video because had she mentioned the Muslims, she would’ve opened up the racial spectrum for Middle Eastern, west Asian, and east African traditional religious (& often ARRANGED) marriages. If she would’ve mentioned, this particular group, she would’ve contradicted her entire point about it being a WHITE CHRISTIAN thing. This is so offensive🤦🏽♀️I have been watching a lot of Muslim content lately , and they’re teachings are practically identical, if not more strict when it comes to gender roles, than Christianity which I grew up in. Every religion, or at least, every religion based in reality, specifies gender roles from Hindu to Buddhism to Christianity and Judaism to Islam. Does she really think that white people are the only ones who engage in traditional marriages? This is not racist how?
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exactly what I was thinking. The only culture I can think of within America that does not value (on a whole) a traditional marriage is the black community. look at how that has turned out. & NO I am not saying that black people cannot or do not ever get married & make nice marriages/families yada yada yada. She only debunks her own 'theory'. Orthodox Jewish families tend to have traditional marriages as well. All of history, all peoples of the world tended to lean towards 'traditional' marriages.
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Wow had no clue my choice of life is trending. I've been a stay at home mom and wife for 20 years. I'm Native American, definitely do not support white supremacy. My name is on all the bank accounts, our home, car, and we both have life insurance to help the other of something happens to either of us. I could empty our bank account right now if I wanted to. But that would be just dumb, it would mess up both of our lives. If they want to take over the traditional man's role, I say do your thing! I'm not going to degrade other women if they choose to work and pay someone else to do what stay at home wives and mothers do. But don't attack us and act like we're pushing some horrible agenda bc we love and trust our own instincts as women and we can trust our husband. Modern feminist are completely against traditional family dynamics, they generally hate men and I wonder what will happen to their sons with this toxic ideology of men being horrible.
She said that tradwives and gender roles are a Christian thing.
Funnily enough, I know many Muslims who follow the same principles
And Hindus
That's what I was thinking. I had to take an arts and culture class in college, and a physical activity class, so I took a multicultural dance class to kill both birds. One of the guest instructors was Hindu, and somehow or other one of the students managed to rile her up over some Feminist doctrine regarding children and power in society. I'll never forget the laser beams shooting out of her eyes as she declared, "The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world." I seem to recall now that the dance she was teaching us was a celebration of continuing creation through the love between man and woman. It was pagan, but as a Christian I recognized the natural law written into the hearts of men (all humans).
In my home, only one person is scrubbing the toilet but the other one person is cleaning out the hair monster plugging up the sink. And non of that is his hair. I’m so grateful to my husband for working so I could be with the kids. I’m very happy.
I was fixing to comment something very similar. Haha I saw your comment and couldn’t agree more!
My wife is a trad wife and has it SO easy. She just makes 85% of all the home/food choices, educates our 7 children (her choice), and "obeys" me (her husband); and in return I am suppsed to honor and be selfless to my family like Christ who DIED ON A CROSS for his wife (the Church).
It would be SO much easier to be a woman
Women want love. Men want respect. If a man feels respected by his wife, he will show he loves her. If a woman feels loved by her husband, she will find it very easy to respect him.
Its not only in the scriptures, its a biological fact.
She sounds like someone who is trying to justify why she is unhappy while attempting to make happy people unhappy.
The problem with traditionalism is that it forces the majority of households to look at their consumer habits. Most people have to sacrifice luxuries like new cars, trips, bigger homes, and entertainment habits in order to live on a single income and most people do not want to make those sacrifices. Instead, they scream “privileged!!” To those of us who decide to be content with old iPhones, used cars and homes that are not updated or perfect… they are rarely honest with themselves that they’d rather keep up with their peers than sacrifice for the best possible outcomes for their children.
Taking care and raising your children is not unpaid work!!!
Is she crazy....
Spending time with your loved ones and watching them grow & teaching them what they need to know to succeed in life.
That's payment beyond belief.
Plus your husband is literally paying for everything.
@@fivebrosstopmoswell you are saving both your husband as well as your own pocket money from footing a child care bill and even sometimes an education tuition bill so there's that.
It doesn’t help her case that all the trad women in her video are millions of times more attractive than any feminist anywhere.
... than her. they are a lot better looking than she is.... as a woman, she's likely j e a l o u s.
Especially her!
@@flyballhdeg9775 oh she’s a sight for sore eyes all right. And that hair!!
Funny how she spent the whole beginning of the video claiming how "destructive" a trad wife's lifestyle is but ends with " it's a nice fantasy i wish i could have." Girl.....
As a woman i find the Trad wife movement refreshing. For a long time women were encouraged to roam far from the traditional wife role and i think that the concept was thrown out with the bath water. Men and women have many gender based attributes. Marriage is a partnership that both parties play a role in based on their abilities and women are finally moving back towards that. Traditionally and by gender women tend to be more empathic and so take a larger role in the emotional and physical health of the family. My husband and i have been together for 37 years, we are a partnership and whilst there are some roles within the marriage we fulfil that are traditional there are others that we fill based on our personal gifts. e.g my husband has a much better understanding of finance then i do, so he makes the final decision after we have spoken about it. I made the majority of the decisions regarding our children because i am better at interacting with them. When ever a situation arises that requires a response he will often defer to my decision when it is outside of his experience, likewise i do the same to him. I think the trad wife trend is simply moving us back toward a 'partnership' mentality.
The feminist is jealous & angry because her boyfriend hasn’t propose to her & im sure he won’t ever ask her because she is a strong independent woman who doesn’t need a man
What boyfriend?😂
I think the key thing you can notice as soon as you start watching the tradwife videos, are how in almost all of them, they smile. They are actually happy and wish happiness to all, while on the other side its always "I hate this I hate that, everything is out to get me and im depressed"
That was actually my dream, especially after my children were born. Unfortunately, I married a loser, so now I’m a single mom. I applaud these women - kudos to them! They’re living the dream!
Being a single mom is no small feat, and I've been in both situations. I applaud you. Don't ever look down on yourself or feel that you're "less than" and do not allow anyone, and i do mean anyone, to tell you or make you feel that you can't raise good kids. You can.