Is it fair to say there are different types of sigma males, i.e., there are nuances and not all fit under the categories you've described in your interesting videos? Secondly, I find I fit under much of what you describe but I don't categorize myself as a sigma female but perhaps I am I do not know.
you are my sigma… my only… sigma… you make my skibidi… when times are gyatt… you’ll never hawk tuah, how much I rizz you… please don’t fanum tax my sigma away…
Sigmas are also open to revelations and changes in others. They're not quick to judge, knowing 'others' are always "becoming" who they are, i.e., 'a work in progress' or 'process.'
Im 56 yrs old, and with the exception of my wife of 21 yrs, I only have two male friends who have remained in my life from school. At best, I see them once a year, and they are the ones who contact me, I rarely contact them. Even my wife has a hard time understanding my need for solitude, silence, and abruptness. Recently, we have been having a hard time together, and I am struggling to talk to her. She left the house for 2 weeks for her sanity, and they were 2 of the best weeks I have ever had. I love her, but if we were to separate, I'd be totally cool with it because I know I would be Ok.
Mine likes to call me at work & wonders why I get upset. My day is full of meetings & client contacts. Once I am focussed I do not want interruptions over nonsense things that are not a priority in my life. Sundays are my day to grab the paper, cook a hot breakfast & read alone. My dog will want to sit with me if I am outside, in the lounge room or resting on my bed. I need space & to unwind .......................... alone.
@@brentflora8965 Apparently you have no idea how sigma’s think or live. If you stay with a partner only because then at old age you have a personal nurse or a compagnon, you are selfish, afraid and weak. Traits which are untypical for real sigma male and females. Sigma’s don’t know loneliness when they are alone, something you will never comprehend.
This is the first time a video has mentioned perfectionism in sigmas. I thought I was the only one like this. Perfectionism is a burden to me, not a gift.
I'm female sigma, age 73. I was in high school & I was frustrated with my perfectionism in everything. I got angry about it & told myself it is OK to do my best. I then stopped pushing things into perfectionism. I have never gone back to it!
Watching this video brings me so much calmness especially knowing there are people like me. Much respect to all my fellow sigma males. I love you all and feel your ups and downs. I too am a sigma male.
Once again, you nailed it. Yes, I’m always the detective using my keen instincts about people but never asking questions. I know all I need to know most times by silently observing. But this knowledge is not used against people. Just an observation for I mean no harm. I’m protecting myself from harm by always being one step ahead. That’s not conducive to societal expectations and I couldn’t care less. I’m not looking for “acceptance” by people I wouldn’t accept. But social survival requires a certain amount of pretending. I don’t like to pretend. That’s dishonest. The good news, if there is such a thing for a sigma, is that I can get most people to agree with me in a manner that’s not condescending. I’ll act like, “I didn’t in my wildest imagination see this thing coming!” And let others explain it to me while I knew all along what was going to happen. Still, some aren’t fooled. Those are usually of the sigma persuasion. Dumb people are easily fooled but I want nothing to do with them. I don’t say that in words, I just decide that. So I come off cold and indifferent in a crowd that bores me. I’ve figured them all out and since I’m not adding to the pointless mediocrity, I remain quiet and mysterious. Or just boring. But, a real good woman will pick up on my distant nature and find I’m not that mysterious. I’m just me. I’ll build her a house from scratch. She loves wind chimes so I’ll make her some that with the different lengths of aluminum tubing, ring in the perfect key of D-minor. It takes time to perfect a five note diminished chord but I’ll spend whatever time it takes to make it happen. I’m loving, caring, and sensitive. So women have fallen in love with me through the years for that, but I’m not rich. Nor do I care to be. They usually look for greener pastures after a while, and I’m not that. Oh well, I’ll never change.
I'm sigma female, age 73, never married, no children. I call it - I sit in the weeds (like a cat) I watch, listen & try to fiqure out where people are at. I rarely move in to know people, without "my" evaluation of months or a couple years! On the other hand - I'm easy going & get along with people in the acquaintance type of way. I would be so cool to meet a real sigma male of any age!!!
@@toni1724 , That’s so cool. I’ve met a few sigma females and found we have a lot in common. Together, the sky’s the limit. I’ve also found that we can clash a little so giving in is sometimes necessary and always well worth it. It’s great to let down your guard and just be free and have fun. Have that mutual trust and respect that we all demand in a relationship. I knew a sigma female once while playing music in San Francisco. She was the bass player for the Bengals. My band was rock and her’s was new-wave of course. We were just friends as both of us were in relationships but we had this thing where at the end of our gigs, we’d get the hell out of there, to avoid the crowd and overly-social nausea that always follows a show. She was great to talk to about anything. Very bright and very picky about who she thought worthy of her time. So glad I was one of the few.
These are absolute facts. You guys don't have to sneak around and spy on my entire life. Just bring the cameras and other video equipment and we can travel openly together! 😀😭😀
I've made a career of build extremely effective small teams that will figuratively die for me in battle, by hiring selectively for people that can be moulded and are looking to be lead, letting them in my world, and offering what I know freely when asked and treating them like individuals.
10:50 won't ask for help... I'm sigma female age 73. "In the abundance of counselors there is safety!" I always go "to professionals". I make apmts & pay mechanics. I don't ask my younger brothers. I talk to professionals. I had to learn this the hard way!
There are stages in the life of any men, in my case, everything changed she I finished college and got married, in very little time we had our firstborn and from that point on my family was my only circle, then once our third baby, I decided to move out of our country, and today at my 75 years of age, I can assure that there is no struggle at all, all my life my only focus was to get my goals and today I achieved all of them, so I know that a true sigma male is like water, it adapts to the circumstances and never complain or struggle.
you are my sigma… my only… sigma… you make my skibidi… when times are gyatt… you’ll never hawk tuah, how much I rizz you… please don’t fanum tax my sigma away…
A Sigma doesn't find any of these things to be struggles. Except maybe the overthinking. Outside of that, a Sigma doesn't care one bit about the rest of the things on this list.
A sigma in kitchen is obsessed in saving every single possible seconds to improve their art, or taste, or how their plate looks, both blessing and burden.
Yeah but a Sigma won't allow just anyone in, we're very selective. With some people, it doesn't matter how long they try they will only achieve a surface level interaction or no interaction.
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Is it fair to say there are different types of sigma males, i.e., there are nuances and not all fit under the categories you've described in your interesting videos? Secondly, I find I fit under much of what you describe but I don't categorize myself as a sigma female but perhaps I am I do not know.
you are my sigma… my only… sigma… you make my skibidi… when times are gyatt… you’ll never hawk tuah, how much I rizz you… please don’t fanum tax my sigma away…
The overthinking and perfectionism hit hard
Sigmas are also open to revelations and changes in others. They're not quick to judge, knowing 'others' are always "becoming" who they are, i.e., 'a work in progress' or 'process.'
You have to be under the age of 7 you cornball
Im 56 yrs old, and with the exception of my wife of 21 yrs, I only have two male friends who have remained in my life from school. At best, I see them once a year, and they are the ones who contact me, I rarely contact them. Even my wife has a hard time understanding my need for solitude, silence, and abruptness. Recently, we have been having a hard time together, and I am struggling to talk to her. She left the house for 2 weeks for her sanity, and they were 2 of the best weeks I have ever had. I love her, but if we were to separate, I'd be totally cool with it because I know I would be Ok.
Sorry to hear about the hard times brother..I do understand though..💯
Mine likes to call me at work & wonders why I get upset. My day is full of meetings & client contacts. Once I am focussed I do not want interruptions over nonsense things that are not a priority in my life. Sundays are my day to grab the paper, cook a hot breakfast & read alone. My dog will want to sit with me if I am outside, in the lounge room or resting on my bed. I need space & to unwind .......................... alone.
But Bro, think of yourself in 15 yrs! Getting along with her NOW is better than being alone when YOU need her the most!
@@brentflora8965
Apparently you have no idea how sigma’s think or live.
If you stay with a partner only because then at old age you have a personal nurse or a compagnon, you are selfish, afraid and weak.
Traits which are untypical for real sigma male and females.
Sigma’s don’t know loneliness when they are alone, something you will never comprehend.
This is the first time a video has mentioned perfectionism in sigmas. I thought I was the only one like this. Perfectionism is a burden to me, not a gift.
I'm female sigma, age 73.
I was in high school & I was frustrated with my perfectionism in everything. I got angry about it & told myself it
is OK to do my best. I then stopped pushing things into perfectionism. I have
never gone back to it!
sigma skibidi hawk tuah edge rizz
Much love brother. Thanks for all your hard work 💯
I appreciate that! Thanks!
Watching this video brings me so much calmness especially knowing there are people like me. Much respect to all my fellow sigma males. I love you all and feel your ups and downs. I too am a sigma male.
You stay on point to the fullest
thank you!
This is truly on point!
It isn't a struggle if it's natural.
Worry less, live MORE.
I am unfairly judged and always alone no brothers
You should be alone you weirdo
I always feel like I am the detective
Same here my friend. Welcome to the club that has no clubhouse. 😁
@@Woodstock271good one 👍🏿
Kinda like when someone/that certain person comes around the corner, you Immediately smell a Rat❓
@@brentflora8965 precisely
@@brentflora8965 big time
Atleast we aren’t snowflakes with a bunch of fake friends!!
🎶Strong on the outside, but not all the way through..🎶 -Chester Bennington
Once again, you nailed it. Yes, I’m always the detective using my keen instincts about people but never asking questions. I know all I need to know most times by silently observing. But this knowledge is not used against people. Just an observation for I mean no harm. I’m protecting myself from harm by always being one step ahead. That’s not conducive to societal expectations and I couldn’t care less. I’m not looking for “acceptance” by people I wouldn’t accept. But social survival requires a certain amount of pretending. I don’t like to pretend. That’s dishonest. The good news, if there is such a thing for a sigma, is that I can get most people to agree with me in a manner that’s not condescending. I’ll act like, “I didn’t in my wildest imagination see this thing coming!” And let others explain it to me while I knew all along what was going to happen. Still, some aren’t fooled. Those are usually of the sigma persuasion.
Dumb people are easily fooled but I want nothing to do with them. I don’t say that in words, I just decide that. So I come off cold and indifferent in a crowd that bores me. I’ve figured them all out and since I’m not adding to the pointless mediocrity, I remain quiet and mysterious. Or just boring. But, a real good woman will pick up on my distant nature and find I’m not that mysterious. I’m just me.
I’ll build her a house from scratch. She loves wind chimes so I’ll make her some that with the different lengths of aluminum tubing, ring in the perfect key of D-minor. It takes time to perfect a five note diminished chord but I’ll spend whatever time it takes to make it happen. I’m loving, caring, and sensitive. So women have fallen in love with me through the years for that, but I’m not rich. Nor do I care to be. They usually look for greener pastures after a while, and I’m not that. Oh well, I’ll never change.
Dude, no one is reading all that 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@jmatcham24 , You’re obviously not a sigma. We are voracious readers.
@@Woodstock271 be a “sigma” sounds retarded and they talk to no bitches
I'm sigma female, age 73, never married, no children.
I call it - I sit in the weeds (like a cat) I watch,
listen & try to fiqure out
where people are at.
I rarely move in to
know people, without "my"
evaluation of months or a couple years! On the other hand - I'm easy going & get along with people in the acquaintance type of way.
I would be so cool to meet a real sigma male of any age!!!
@@toni1724 , That’s so cool. I’ve met a few sigma females and found we have a lot in common. Together, the sky’s the limit. I’ve also found that we can clash a little so giving in is sometimes necessary and always well worth it. It’s great to let down your guard and just be free and have fun. Have that mutual trust and respect that we all demand in a relationship. I knew a sigma female once while playing music in San Francisco. She was the bass player for the Bengals. My band was rock and her’s was new-wave of course. We were just friends as both of us were in relationships but we had this thing where at the end of our gigs, we’d get the hell out of there, to avoid the crowd and overly-social nausea that always follows a show. She was great to talk to about anything. Very bright and very picky about who she thought worthy of her time. So glad I was one of the few.
I’ve been owning this title for 30 years!!!!!
Another 💯
Life is dynamic. We all have to adjust as it goes. Nothig is in stone
These are absolute facts. You guys don't have to sneak around and spy on my entire life. Just bring the cameras and other video equipment and we can travel openly together!
😀😭😀
Shut the hell up Herbert
I've made a career of build extremely effective small teams that will figuratively die for me in battle, by hiring selectively for people that can be moulded and are looking to be lead, letting them in my world, and offering what I know freely when asked and treating them like individuals.
10:50 won't ask for help...
I'm sigma female age 73.
"In the abundance of counselors there is safety!"
I always go "to professionals". I make apmts & pay mechanics.
I don't ask my younger brothers. I talk to professionals. I had to learn this the hard way!
Yep
It’s envy and jealousy
Separate people from
One another, most are
Emotional reactors based on biases view
Shut the hell up Simon
There are stages in the life of any men, in my case, everything changed she I finished college and got married, in very little time we had our firstborn and from that point on my family was my only circle, then once our third baby, I decided to move out of our country, and today at my 75 years of age, I can assure that there is no struggle at all, all my life my only focus was to get my goals and today I achieved all of them, so I know that a true sigma male is like water, it adapts to the circumstances and never complain or struggle.
Hate that word so much... But thanks for the vid.
Present 😊
💯
It seems like I'm both sigma and gamma.
Hoppe Garden
I want to be heard / considered, I don't have to be "right"...
May be another area for Sigma review would be , Which Professions Sigmas excel at and which ones they don't!.
I think we have all been there.
Erdman Row
Benjamin Port
you are my sigma… my only… sigma… you make my skibidi… when times are gyatt… you’ll never hawk tuah, how much I rizz you… please don’t fanum tax my sigma away…
A Sigma doesn't find any of these things to be struggles. Except maybe the overthinking.
Outside of that, a Sigma doesn't care one bit about the rest of the things on this list.
A sigma in kitchen is obsessed in saving every single possible seconds to improve their art, or taste, or how their plate looks, both blessing and burden.
Cornball
Yeah but a Sigma won't allow just anyone in, we're very selective.
With some people, it doesn't matter how long they try they will only achieve a surface level interaction or no interaction.
The reason no one talks about it is cause most never heard of Sigma....neither do they care.
Yeah they even judge you are not Sigma. Hahaha.
i want more videos about sigams real approach to women
It will be very hard for a real sigma to clarify how they approach women,this is because the sees it as a waste of time!
not exactly. Sigma males have some needs sometimes.
How about you talk to women without being “sigma” you cornball
Will that change Your attitude towards them❓
tf is this video 😭😭
One with pixels
@@ASUSFORLIFE this is def one of the videos ever