Sara...same thing I said in Insta? I just want to say that the morals you showed today on the pod and how passionate you are about what SHOULD matter in a relationship? Is so damn refreshing to me! Keep being you, please!
Hate to burst your bubble but she's a fake. She's not who she says she is, she contradicts herself many times like on the streams with Sneako on both Rumble and RUclips, her behavior around a guy like that was clear as day, she likes men who treat her like shit, objectifies her and lives a "bad" lifestyle such as Sneako.
@@b23beatz Foreal I’m a grown man but this dude sneako actually gives real good life advice unlike these other RUclipsrs These females just can’t handle it now a days.
57:51 I agree with Sara. There are guys who are into both kinds of relationships with women. But for me, the one I decide to spend the rest of my life with, I want them to be a pretty authentic person. It’s called raising your standards 🤙🏼 PS. Sara keep being you, don’t let anything change you
it is a big role in a relationship, but it's definitely not a priority because we clearly witness men who cheat to satisfy the sexual desires that their current partner can't please and still live happily with them, yet same thing happens to a woman but they tend to just completely find a person unattractive after a while if they don't please them sexually, sara basically describing befriending a person before any sexual acts to which eventually can lead to both a stronger connection or a deterrent
Sarah there are alot of Men who want a nice Hallmark Lady also you keep being you. You are like a Unicorn among most people your age that is what makes you special remember that always. Real intamacy is so much better than just a physical fling thing.
I feel like women don't really need sex but for guys its a really important part of a relationship be it in a marriage or dating. To be honest sex is the main way to see if your into that person everyone has a level of sex drive ranging from a month, a week, a day or somewhere in between most people don't really talk about what there level is. Depending on there partner that could be a big issue you can also learn alot from a person from how they have sex are they adventurous, do they lay like a fish when you do all the work, are they unskilled, are they passionate. I wouldn't base the whole thing about someone on the first night but after a couple times you get a rough idea how they are and can base whether or not there worth your time to pursue the relationship.
Bro I remember watching your grand opening opening back when I was like 19-20ish opening your gym now it’s a networking HOTSPOT. I’ve been going through some hard shit lately but you’ve been a huge inspiration from fitness to upgrading in general. Thank you for the content bro 🙏🔥
I’m a Christian guy. But my view is sex is important but you can always help the girl get better at sex. You can’t help her view on how she treats people like how she is a genuine person. So I am definitely more of Sara’s side
It makes me sad that Sara feels that way about the gym nowadays in comparison to when she first started. You and Brad should definitely try to start a segment where you are training hard in the gym with little banter.
It would be very demoralizing if everytime you hit the gym, people tell you to stop working out cuz you look uglier lol. In reality, she just need to train legs
I want to say that earlier in life how the sex was played a huge part in my choice. But as you get older I want to say that sex is important but an actual connection between 2 people is more important which can also affect how the sex is.
Body dysmorphia is real and personally I go through that too, I feel like it should be taking more serious then it has been because a person could be looking their best but with body dysmorphia it will have them thinking the opposite. So I feel like as a gym bro you got the responsibility to make a simple comment that could save a person or motivate them to keep going
My take on the discussion at 56 min: I’m a very social 24 year old guy from the Netherlands, love to go out and meet new people, and I’m not too shy to chat with girls. But I have always been committed to my genuine belief in bible and so I’m waiting with sex until marriage eventhough that’s very strange in my social circles. I do notice however that it makes it difficult for me to approache girls whom I find attractive because I assume them to think I’d approache them with different intentions, I still need to learn a lot in this. But I’m super confortable with my stance in this, it doesn’t require any discipline or self manipulation, because of my convictions. So yea, there are definetely many more guys like me out there, my 2 brothers for instance whom also waited till marriage in their late 20s. What Sara said is spot on, it’s gonna be hard to find in certain circles like in LA but I feel like many cities with out-going culture. Ps, I love this podcast
Never liked Sarah until I watched more of her and now I wonder how a good man hasn’t wifed her up yet especially when I see N3ons girl Sam Sarah is literally what Sam should aspire to be she is genuine and sweet and I think she’s amazing
Sexual compatibility matters, but it's not just the act of sex that matters. As an act itself, people spend less than 1% of their week having sex, so how do you feel about the person beyond that? How they talk to you, how safe do they make you fee, and how they touch you is as much a part of, if not more, sexual compatibility as the act itself.
What Sara doesn’t get is sex is viewed very differently between the 2 genders. Sex falls off after time in long term relationships it becomes sporadic moments to cherish as they wont come as often as it does in the beginning of the relationship. Best analogy i can think of is you get a house tour by a realtor & everything is perfect from the kitchen to the size of the bedroom bathroom etc then the peace de resistance is the back yard & its has been utterly neglected & is nothing like the home. Is that something you really wanna undertake when you get a not as nice home with the full package. Unfortunately the standard is ridiculously high for both genders & sex has to be one of the sharp tools in the shed 🤷🏽♂️
I believe that not all LA people swing, I’m a Wisconsinite and there is some good and bad going on everywhere ….but to BE the goodness instead of wicked is a lifestyle. Individual basis (:
Haven’t been here in a while and DAMM Sarah youve matured quite well. You remind me of my niece. Anyways YES God agrees with you its better an animal get hurt over human. God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.” Genesis 1:28 Brad the man have faith in humanity😉 annd shave that head geezy
Ive asked guys how important is sex to them and the majority had said it's very important. To girls is like not as important. We're more like communicating, hugging, enjoying a movie..
Sara’s perspective that she wants to find a man beyond just the sex at the intitial start is very respectable but brad is completely right. Most men are wired differently than what women want at the start of potential relationship. Thats the world we live in where majority of men will kind of weigh wether or not they will be with someone if the sex is good or bad. Almost every single one of my homies pretty much think in the same way brad explains about sex in a relationship. Sara might be looking for a good quality dude but that is not the majority among men. My experience with the last few potential relationships i had ended up not working because the sex wasnt the best. To me sex is kind of part of being intimate with your partner & as a man im not looking for every single day or week to have the sex but at the start of a relationship it can influence if i want to stay or not. Im being true to myself & if i were to stay with a partner that intimately wasnt great at sex but checked all the boxes everywhere else, that would be hard to be in that relationship. Even if its the amazing scenario to the woman , most guys will end up cheating or break up after a few months of bad intimacy. All my friends confirm the same ideas brad was talking about. I do hope sara can find that 1% that would fit what shes looking for because out of all the guys i know only one kind of fits into the sex doesnt matter at all perspective
@@WitchyBooo But the 'birds' in this case might be males, in general. Or, at least the high majority of males who fall into the category of those with moderately high to high social market value. Guys who know or believe they have a good chance of 'landing a better one' if they find they aren't sexually satisfied with someone.
Brad is the last person to take relationship advice from. He has no point of reference. His own parents had a failed marriage and he has a history of failed relationships.
Like 99.9% of people have a history of failed relationships. That's a pretty dumb point. You also learn a lot more from failures than you do from successes
@kodymcgrath7148 you don't get advice from someone that hasn't figured it out yet....definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. You actually proved my point with the 99% bull shit reply.
@HB-golf how is that a bullshit reply? He's also in a long term relationship now that he says he's happy in. What's the issue? If you didn't take dating advice from people with a history of failed relationships, there'd be nobody to take advice from. We all have had them before finding the right one
1:03:03 💔 i feel u bro... Honestly ill hate sara if she continues to act like clueless of how brad feels for her. Its so obvious brad loves her . That text hurt him bruh like frfr . I felt that... that awkward silence ugh 💔😭😅
First time I went to china I realized there were no homeless people, I'll let you ponder on that 1 for a little while. And not go into detail on why and how there is no homeless in china.....
I love listening to Sara trying to explain what it’s like to be a woman. Men’s hormones reset every morning and a woman’s change every 28-30 days. Some days are just eh
As an Orthodox Christian I completely agree, especially since this is the norm in my culture. However I wouldn't comment "I love her so much" haha, this would be immoral.
I was in a 7 year relationship that started with no sex for the first 6 months, I proved to her that I wasn’t just trying to hit it and quit it. That was hard to do but there’s still men that genuinely want more than just sex.
For me to do that, the girl would have to be a virgin or had maybe 1 relationship where she also did the exact thing with that person, and i'd have to truly believe her, i would know by judging her character and watching her lifestyle very closely. Anyway, for me when i truly like/love a girl i don't even think about having sex with her whatsoever, i see sex as a secondary outcome if we were to be in a relationship, because my natural instinct towards a girl who i love is that i want to show her love and affection by treating her nice and being there for her, and protecting her. Then there's girls who i see as only short term girls that are pretty much only good for sex based on their behavior and persona.
I 100% agree with Brad. An adult can defend themselves and is more capable of understanding how/why a bad event happened. A dog is defenseless and is unable to comprehend cause and effect. It's like a baby in my eyes. Although I would value a baby over a dog.
I completely relate to Sara. I prefer not to wear makeup but when I’m feeling down emotionally or the way I look, doing my makeup and caring how I dress will affect positively how I feel the rest of the day. It must be so hard being in this kind of spotlight. Sara you’re gorgeous and one of a kind. Continue to guard your heart ❤️
@@LheaWhyteget what ur saying but just bc its the job u choose doesnt mean that parts of it cant be ass. Like just because u choose to work on a farm doesnt mean plowing the feilds isnt unpleasant
@@LheaWhyte im not comparing anythjnh ab them other than the fact that they are jobs and both have upsides and downsides. Im not saying podcasting is as hard as farming by any means, its simply an analogy not a comparison
Brad's slept around too much and he has a dopamine dept and needs a certain level of dopamine high. He needs to rewire his brain. Majority of the men don't need to do that whether they are moral or not PERIOD. BTW I am a man 220 pounds mostly muscles. Sara you are mostly right, dont let this people spoil you
You made such a good point about the dopamine debt! It was either in a pod or zoo vid he mentioned how he’s had a threesome before. I was like 💀 because once you start going to those limits, it’s like, what’s next? What else do you need to be satisfied, a foursome? I think when people go to the extreme with sex , there’s really no coming back from that and a traditional, long lasting relationship is something that won’t satisfy them.
Brad you have the ability to be a massive role model in this space because your older and have been through hardship and grinded your way into your position. Make sure you guide the younger gen in the right direction because sara is very influenced by your opinion. Great pod
As a “homeless” person living outta their car, I could never beg for money. Nothing against those that do but I’d rather them get it then me. Pride is a hell of a thing. But I’d rather get it on my own and still give back to those worse off then take hand outs. Edit- I have 2 dogs also and trust, they are living better on here then I am. They are beyond spoiled and are the best motivators to keep me moving towards buying my own place again. 💪🏽
I get what Brad is saying but I think the caveat is that it depends on the woman the guy is considering. There’s women I’ve considered being with without considering the sexual aspect. Some women you align with so well that the sex part doesn’t even matter, better yet you just know the physical aspect is going to be off the charts cause you have that kind of connection with them. With these type of women I feel like the sex is such an afterthought.
Yea imma have to disagree about men needing to have sex before they know the relationship will last. I think there are women and men that think that way and culture makes it seem everyone and their mother does also. I think physical attraction is a good thing of course but is the person going to support your goals are they going be with you for the long term are they selfless are they gentle are they nurturing. Do they smell good do they believe in Christ. I think the meat and potatoes of a person some are mountains and hills more important than the sex of course it plays a factor don’t get me wrong but it’s not the determining one to a successful and life long relationship.
Sara realising a life of going to the gym everyday to make content is not really fulfilling for someone like her, she’s better than that, she needs to do something else 🤦♂️
Taxes are ridiculous in CA you're paying 48.3 % in taxes in the million dollar bracket. I think that having a friendship where you can be intimate is the best way for a relationship to work. I watch/listen to the podcast because of Sarah. You are interesting and sweet.
I agree with Sara, Brad is my guy, I support/ defend him on basically everything ( I hope to meet him one day) but I am waiting til marriage, I want to have sex with a lot of women, but as a God fearing man I choose not too, I will not lose control, I win and I am saving the sexual experience for my wife, I’m not choosing my wife based off of sex, sex is supposed to be to create a child and have intimacy with another human being, to bond you with that other human being, a marriage without sex, does not last long at all, A couple that is not having sex start getting angry with each other quicker, they start arguing. because they’re not as close. I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God. So if the lovely lady Sara happens to read this, don’t give it away just to find a husband, there are Christian men making money, tall, strong, handsome men that will treat you how you’re supposed to be treated, that don’t need you just for sex, now you also have to put something into the relationship of course, being a good person in general. Being a caring, sweet, funny, reserved, Godly woman will get you the man you want, pray and ask God, he will provide, he always does, he may not provide you exactly exactly what you want, how you want it but in the end, it’s what is best. I enjoy listening to mommy and daddy talk very much each week, please keep up the good work, from my hard heart I truly say, I am very appreciative to everyone making this podcast possible🫡
"I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God." Why didn't it work out with that girl?
@@nathanholden3098 I don’t remember saying “post nut clarity” is not a thing, I’ve just read through my comment again to make sure, and I did not say anything of the sort, I have experienced “post nut clarity” and have not had sex, there are ways to achieve “post nut clarity” without having sex.
As a guy that is waiting until after marriage, I can confirm that not all guys base at least a part of their opinion about a partner on sex. I believe connection both verbally (good communication) and emotionally are what matters the most. And yes appearance matters somewhat. Partly because you want to be with someone you enjoy looking at for the rest of your life. I mean it’s a long time potentially. And partly looks matter to a degree because if someone is not taking care of themselves then they probably won’t be good at taking care of their spouse and children. So I would say Sara is at least mostly right on the subject. Some of us guys are deep enough that we would even still marry a girl that we couldn’t ever sleep with if we had that true connection with her that we all crave. Reproductive urges and the natural instinct to spread seed are in every guy. But some guys grow to where they control what urges they allow and what they decide is most important to them.
Dated my wife 4 years before we got married. She became disabled and the medicine basically made her a vegetable. Last two years she accused me of cheating. I had never been with another woman. Yeah Sara isn't wrong. I stood on my morals and still got screwed. She did the same thing to her last husband.
You having your morals and standing on, that is not for other people but for yourself, of course, but it also divides the people who are really there for a long time and not a good time
59:35 I agree with Sara. When I was younger I thought the way Brad is saying men are. As I got older I realized it wasn’t that important in a relationship. And once I realized I’m more of an emotional person than a physical person my relationship got way better and when sex comes to play it is 100% better.
Bring someone with a different perspective. You were talking about sex and marriage and men, I think someone who lived most of their life in another country would be able to let u see outside LA. Sara's right by saying that a lot of people (outside of America cause America is something) actually follow their religions and have morals etc etc.
I don’t care for the sex as long as the women appreciate and sees what he does to provide as a person and how he is towards her for her to do it upon herself to wanna have sex even if he has to wait. It would be well worth it.
10:30 I think Sara is going through a metamorphic period. And we’re gonna see her be more & more herself. And she knows it too. Best of luck in your journey Sara
My honest opinion is bc she sees all the IG “models” getting all these attentions on looks and I’m sure she feels insecure about that…females put so much pressure on each other on who is the prettiest and who gets the most from Men bc of those looks. It’s like a flex between girls to be able to say oh I get these things from men bc I’m prettier.
@@Daniel-1-1-1 I see where you’re coming from, but I don’t think Sara’s objective is to be another “ig model”. She carries herself like much more than just a pretty face…but I definitely see where you’re coming from.
@@Nelkstreams couple times she posted pics of herself like those IG models and it’s definitely not her and I think she realized it and stopped…I think the pressure gets to females here and there but very few can overcome it and I think Sarah will and come out good in the end.
Love and connection outweighs the “quality of sex” every time. If I am in love with someone what happens in the bedroom falls way down on the list. I am in love with them, of course that would be the case. We atomise people into “qualities”, sexual or otherwise. Love is far more powerful than such categorisation.
I wish I could be friends with Sara. Girl and I have a lot in common with stuff we are going through as ladies in our early 20s who aren’t trying to sleep around and just want a normal and decent relationship. I however couldn’t imagine doing dating life in LA. I am in the Midwest so instead of everyone hooking up, everyone my age is basically already married or even has kids. But when I go to visit family/friends I grew up with out east, if I’m not making 6 figures, dating a bunch of guys, and looking like a model, I am not good enough there either. So at the end of the day, you’ll never please anyone. Just live with what is in front of you now and God will give you what you need at the appointed time. I hope and pray both Sara and I can find our “fairytale men”😂 But girl to girl - I do think it’s important to get yourself mentally ready for another person too. I think Sara has good intentions and values but just from hearing her mental health in this episode, seems like she needs to learn how to take care of herself first so she can be the person the guy she wants would want to marry. Love the pod, interested to see how things turn out in 2024 and streaming ;)
I mean me personally i think sara is right i could care less ab it bc u can always change it or make it more enjoyable if u just communicate it. But I dont really need it, i just need to some love tbh
I 100% agree with Brad on the dogs vs humans thing in the beginning. I think most would. Animals are defenseless and blameless so when they're hurt, there really is no excuse for it. I think it's weird that Sara would rather see an innocent animal hurt than a grown ass man or woman.
@@imthel0rd There is no such thing as an innocent person unless they're a baby. That's like saying there is a person who hasn't committed a "sin" in religious terms. Humans are parasitic in nature. We destroy and curate the land. We kill and eat the animals. We hunt them for sport. We lock them in cages and small water tanks for our amusement. We perform horrible fatal experiments on them. We commit unspeakable atrocities against each other. We take and take and take and rarely do we give anything back to the planet or environment. Our purpose in life is to serve ourselves. Humans are despicable in nature. The same can't be said for animals. They run off instincts and are just surviving. Even when they hunt or attack other animals or people. They were just doing what their survival instincts told them to do.
Brad marriage is a commitment between God, husband and wife. Love is from God. Sex before marriage is a sin. When the bible says its a sin. Its a sin fullstop.
Brad is right about the homeless faking being homeless too. Not all but some. That happens here in North Carolina too!! I was at Walmart the other day and I saw a homeless couple walking at the end of the parking lot, and then get into a nice Toyota Camry whilst throwing their cardboard signs in the back and driving off. 😂 then I’ve seen that same couple BACK the next day and set up their cardboard signs!
Brad been spending way too much time in LA if you’re focused that much into sex you can teach someone to be better at sex if it’s not very good but a good person isn’t something you can teach
Sara you're right there are a lot of men like how you say but it's hard to find where those type of people are. I am that way and I was lucky to find someone with the same moral mindest and energy
Sorry Sara but nobody nowadays is waiting till marriage to have Sex unfortunately, I'm in Sydney and the odds of finding a fellow virgin who's a female over 25 yrs old is probably 2/100 😅
Tell Brad to look up the schnacky family who are a Christian family on social media that will very much back Sarah up,maybe you should invite one on they live near Miami.
Sara, You need to quit being so hard on yourself about what you look like! You look great woth or woth out the make-up whice you don't wear to much at all!! Your body in on point regardless what all the negative comments about you are!! Keep your head up!
Sara...same thing I said in Insta? I just want to say that the morals you showed today on the pod and how passionate you are about what SHOULD matter in a relationship? Is so damn refreshing to me! Keep being you, please!
Hate to burst your bubble but she's a fake. She's not who she says she is, she contradicts herself many times like on the streams with Sneako on both Rumble and RUclips, her behavior around a guy like that was clear as day, she likes men who treat her like shit, objectifies her and lives a "bad" lifestyle such as Sneako.
Bradley is completely right on the animal vs human getting hurt!! Dogs/cats/pets/other small animals are vulnerable, like children!
Not going to lie sounds like Sara is mildly depressed/having a quarter life crisis
Ever since sneako ghosted her dumbass since she wanna yell at him in front of millionaires she’s been real depressed
@@JemzSAu a grown man following sneako…
@@imthel0rdI'm a grown man too the fuck?😂 Sneako is 26 he ain't a kid
@@b23beatz Foreal I’m a grown man but this dude sneako actually gives real good life advice unlike these other RUclipsrs
These females just can’t handle it now a days.
😂😂😂
57:51 I agree with Sara. There are guys who are into both kinds of relationships with women. But for me, the one I decide to spend the rest of my life with, I want them to be a pretty authentic person. It’s called raising your standards 🤙🏼 PS. Sara keep being you, don’t let anything change you
Brad speaks from a man who isn’t looking for a family and is still in his play state but a man who wants one won’t prioritize that , Sarah is right
you are just wrong😂
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it is a big role in a relationship, but it's definitely not a priority because we clearly witness men who cheat to satisfy the sexual desires that their current partner can't please and still live happily with them, yet same thing happens to a woman but they tend to just completely find a person unattractive after a while if they don't please them sexually, sara basically describing befriending a person before any sexual acts to which eventually can lead to both a stronger connection or a deterrent
polygny is the only way since hypergamy is endless.@@haveyouseengeorgehennen
@@GS-wo9 Never said it was a rule bro , I must have triggered you
Brad is soooo right I hate seeing dogs get hurt breaks my heart. But seeing another human get hurt for some reason it just doesn’t feel as bad at all.
They are the perfect Ying Yang duo, the perfect big bro lil sis combo. They respectfully check each other.
Sarah there are alot of Men who want a nice Hallmark Lady also you keep being you. You are like a Unicorn among most people your age that is what makes you special remember that always. Real intamacy is so much better than just a physical fling thing.
He likes her natural 😂
Sarah is slowly transitioning into becoming more feminine (I hope)
And I’m here for it.
Cause of nick
@@irvinmora7936 sneako***
WTFFF is wrong with yall and these comments. She’s always been feminine. Cut the crap.
Let her LIVEEEEE
Watching Sara cook is a top 5 bucket list thing to do
*they would make a great couple*
I feel like women don't really need sex but for guys its a really important part of a relationship be it in a marriage or dating.
To be honest sex is the main way to see if your into that person everyone has a level of sex drive ranging from a month, a week, a day or somewhere in between most people don't really talk about what there level is. Depending on there partner that could be a big issue you can also learn alot from a person from how they have sex are they adventurous, do they lay like a fish when you do all the work, are they unskilled, are they passionate. I wouldn't base the whole thing about someone on the first night but after a couple times you get a rough idea how they are and can base whether or not there worth your time to pursue the relationship.
This is the best episode ever!!!! Keep going about the taxes and businesses and stuff
Bro I remember watching your grand opening opening back when I was like 19-20ish opening your gym now it’s a networking HOTSPOT. I’ve been going through some hard shit lately but you’ve been a huge inspiration from fitness to upgrading in general. Thank you for the content bro 🙏🔥
Btw Sara is a mf GGGG especially after realizing how fucked up taxes are lmao. Hopfully I get to visit one of the gyms sometime next year 🔥
Sara definitely never saw the bros vs ikea furniture.
Brad knows how to build shit
I’m a Christian guy. But my view is sex is important but you can always help the girl get better at sex. You can’t help her view on how she treats people like how she is a genuine person. So I am definitely more of Sara’s side
It makes me sad that Sara feels that way about the gym nowadays in comparison to when she first started. You and Brad should definitely try to start a segment where you are training hard in the gym with little banter.
It would be very demoralizing if everytime you hit the gym, people tell you to stop working out cuz you look uglier lol. In reality, she just need to train legs
Or just focus on training and not recording the shit every time. Content creation is bad for the mental state when it's forced.
I want to say that earlier in life how the sex was played a huge part in my choice. But as you get older I want to say that sex is important but an actual connection between 2 people is more important which can also affect how the sex is.
Body dysmorphia is real and personally I go through that too, I feel like it should be taking more serious then it has been because a person could be looking their best but with body dysmorphia it will have them thinking the opposite. So I feel like as a gym bro you got the responsibility to make a simple comment that could save a person or motivate them to keep going
My take on the discussion at 56 min: I’m a very social 24 year old guy from the Netherlands, love to go out and meet new people, and I’m not too shy to chat with girls. But I have always been committed to my genuine belief in bible and so I’m waiting with sex until marriage eventhough that’s very strange in my social circles. I do notice however that it makes it difficult for me to approache girls whom I find attractive because I assume them to think I’d approache them with different intentions, I still need to learn a lot in this. But I’m super confortable with my stance in this, it doesn’t require any discipline or self manipulation, because of my convictions. So yea, there are definetely many more guys like me out there, my 2 brothers for instance whom also waited till marriage in their late 20s. What Sara said is spot on, it’s gonna be hard to find in certain circles like in LA but I feel like many cities with out-going culture. Ps, I love this podcast
Brad is wrong.
There are plenty of religions who wait until marriage to have sex and those marriages last long.
As a Catholic my religion is that way.
I love how they cut after he called her crazy
Sexual chemistry is extremely important along with everything else. It's just the reality of things.
Never liked Sarah until I watched more of her and now I wonder how a good man hasn’t wifed her up yet especially when I see N3ons girl Sam Sarah is literally what Sam should aspire to be she is genuine and sweet and I think she’s amazing
I’m gonna wake up at 9 to post on IG, thanks Sara for the motivation 💪💪💪💪💪
Sara you go girl !
Sexual compatibility matters, but it's not just the act of sex that matters. As an act itself, people spend less than 1% of their week having sex, so how do you feel about the person beyond that? How they talk to you, how safe do they make you fee, and how they touch you is as much a part of, if not more, sexual compatibility as the act itself.
What Sara doesn’t get is sex is viewed very differently between the 2 genders. Sex falls off after time in long term relationships it becomes sporadic moments to cherish as they wont come as often as it does in the beginning of the relationship. Best analogy i can think of is you get a house tour by a realtor & everything is perfect from the kitchen to the size of the bedroom bathroom etc then the peace de resistance is the back yard & its has been utterly neglected & is nothing like the home. Is that something you really wanna undertake when you get a not as nice home with the full package. Unfortunately the standard is ridiculously high for both genders & sex has to be one of the sharp tools in the shed 🤷🏽♂️
I believe that not all LA people swing, I’m a Wisconsinite and there is some good and bad going on everywhere ….but to BE the goodness instead of wicked is a lifestyle. Individual basis (:
honestly i just feel like brad and sara should just be together already
Haven’t been here in a while and DAMM Sarah youve matured quite well. You remind me of my niece. Anyways YES God agrees with you its better an animal get hurt over human.
God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.” Genesis 1:28
Brad the man have faith in humanity😉 annd shave that head geezy
Sarah is such a fucking vibe ❤
I also feel more sad towards dogs then humans (at least from a movie standpoint)
Ive asked guys how important is sex to them and the majority had said it's very important. To girls is like not as important. We're more like communicating, hugging, enjoying a movie..
Sara’s perspective that she wants to find a man beyond just the sex at the intitial start is very respectable but brad is completely right. Most men are wired differently than what women want at the start of potential relationship. Thats the world we live in where majority of men will kind of weigh wether or not they will be with someone if the sex is good or bad. Almost every single one of my homies pretty much think in the same way brad explains about sex in a relationship. Sara might be looking for a good quality dude but that is not the majority among men. My experience with the last few potential relationships i had ended up not working because the sex wasnt the best. To me sex is kind of part of being intimate with your partner & as a man im not looking for every single day or week to have the sex but at the start of a relationship it can influence if i want to stay or not. Im being true to myself & if i were to stay with a partner that intimately wasnt great at sex but checked all the boxes everywhere else, that would be hard to be in that relationship. Even if its the amazing scenario to the woman , most guys will end up cheating or break up after a few months of bad intimacy. All my friends confirm the same ideas brad was talking about. I do hope sara can find that 1% that would fit what shes looking for because out of all the guys i know only one kind of fits into the sex doesnt matter at all perspective
Since all the “homies” agree, therefore it’s fact? Birds of a feather.
@@WitchyBooo But the 'birds' in this case might be males, in general. Or, at least the high majority of males who fall into the category of those with moderately high to high social market value. Guys who know or believe they have a good chance of 'landing a better one' if they find they aren't sexually satisfied with someone.
sara makes me blush 😊
Brad is the last person to take relationship advice from. He has no point of reference. His own parents had a failed marriage and he has a history of failed relationships.
Like 99.9% of people have a history of failed relationships. That's a pretty dumb point. You also learn a lot more from failures than you do from successes
@kodymcgrath7148 you don't get advice from someone that hasn't figured it out yet....definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. You actually proved my point with the 99% bull shit reply.
@HB-golf how is that a bullshit reply? He's also in a long term relationship now that he says he's happy in. What's the issue? If you didn't take dating advice from people with a history of failed relationships, there'd be nobody to take advice from. We all have had them before finding the right one
Homie knows his whole autobiography
@@kodymcgrath7148 false, he frequently talks about his trust issues and dissatisfaction in relationships.
1:03:03 💔 i feel u bro... Honestly ill hate sara if she continues to act like clueless of how brad feels for her. Its so obvious brad loves her . That text hurt him bruh like frfr . I felt that... that awkward silence ugh 💔😭😅
Brad had Sara weak until he started the sex talk 😂
She texted him “Felipe”
Sara please switch teams lmao
First time I went to china I realized there were no homeless people, I'll let you ponder on that 1 for a little while. And not go into detail on why and how there is no homeless in china.....
Daaaammnn you guys really made me watch 1hour podcast🥴🥴🥴❤❤❤
The word is I'm not jocking her no more.. Means attracted
Sara your not annoying you are a strong phenomenal absolutely gorgeous woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love the pod fr
I love listening to Sara trying to explain what it’s like to be a woman. Men’s hormones reset every morning and a woman’s change every 28-30 days. Some days are just eh
Woah is that true about men's resetting every day??!?
That’s some bs
@@lns4life yes ! It’s all about the cycles of our hormones regulating, Buddy down there didn’t pay attention on class.
“Can you get this smoke away from me, I have asthma” KILLED me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
how much
If that killed u then better go to therapy
Sara's facial expression tells me she is not totally okay, I don't know if y'all seeing it or I'm just overreacting
Shes so freaking smart and brave and CORRECT about not doing -it- before marriage. Broooo, I love her so much.
As an Orthodox Christian I completely agree, especially since this is the norm in my culture. However I wouldn't comment "I love her so much" haha, this would be immoral.
57:57
Honestly, I don’t see how Sara not cuffed she funny asf and that personality is everything lucky guy who ever ends up with her.🔥🔥
I was in a 7 year relationship that started with no sex for the first 6 months, I proved to her that I wasn’t just trying to hit it and quit it. That was hard to do but there’s still men that genuinely want more than just sex.
For me to do that, the girl would have to be a virgin or had maybe 1 relationship where she also did the exact thing with that person, and i'd have to truly believe her, i would know by judging her character and watching her lifestyle very closely. Anyway, for me when i truly like/love a girl i don't even think about having sex with her whatsoever, i see sex as a secondary outcome if we were to be in a relationship, because my natural instinct towards a girl who i love is that i want to show her love and affection by treating her nice and being there for her, and protecting her. Then there's girls who i see as only short term girls that are pretty much only good for sex based on their behavior and persona.
simp
A lot of people have more empathy towards dogs than people in general because of their loyal and unconditional loving nature.
I 100% agree with Brad. An adult can defend themselves and is more capable of understanding how/why a bad event happened. A dog is defenseless and is unable to comprehend cause and effect. It's like a baby in my eyes. Although I would value a baby over a dog.
Animals over humans
Animals over humans
I completely relate to Sara. I prefer not to wear makeup but when I’m feeling down emotionally or the way I look, doing my makeup and caring how I dress will affect positively how I feel the rest of the day. It must be so hard being in this kind of spotlight. Sara you’re gorgeous and one of a kind. Continue to guard your heart ❤️
Thats pretty much everyone
Hard to be in the spotlight 😂😂 she literally chose to do this as a career lol!
@@LheaWhyteget what ur saying but just bc its the job u choose doesnt mean that parts of it cant be ass. Like just because u choose to work on a farm doesnt mean plowing the feilds isnt unpleasant
@@danesimonson1672 yes because plowing fields is comparable to sitting talking shit into a mic as a job 😂😂
@@LheaWhyte im not comparing anythjnh ab them other than the fact that they are jobs and both have upsides and downsides. Im not saying podcasting is as hard as farming by any means, its simply an analogy not a comparison
Sara gets hotter by the ep😅🥵😫
To me she looks like a disney bird turned human. But get after it bro.
Gay comment
Nah her teeth get me every time frl.
Really? i think she looks like a little boy with big arms
She really does 😮💨🔥🔥🔥
Brad's slept around too much and he has a dopamine dept and needs a certain level of dopamine high. He needs to rewire his brain. Majority of the men don't need to do that whether they are moral or not PERIOD. BTW I am a man 220 pounds mostly muscles. Sara you are mostly right, dont let this people spoil you
bro said period lmfao
You made such a good point about the dopamine debt! It was either in a pod or zoo vid he mentioned how he’s had a threesome before. I was like 💀 because once you start going to those limits, it’s like, what’s next? What else do you need to be satisfied, a foursome? I think when people go to the extreme with sex , there’s really no coming back from that and a traditional, long lasting relationship is something that won’t satisfy them.
Bro it’s because ur on steroid make ur balls small
Brad you have the ability to be a massive role model in this space because your older and have been through hardship and grinded your way into your position. Make sure you guide the younger gen in the right direction because sara is very influenced by your opinion. Great pod
As a “homeless” person living outta their car, I could never beg for money. Nothing against those that do but I’d rather them get it then me. Pride is a hell of a thing. But I’d rather get it on my own and still give back to those worse off then take hand outs.
Edit- I have 2 dogs also and trust, they are living better on here then I am. They are beyond spoiled and are the best motivators to keep me moving towards buying my own place again. 💪🏽
I get what Brad is saying but I think the caveat is that it depends on the woman the guy is considering. There’s women I’ve considered being with without considering the sexual aspect. Some women you align with so well that the sex part doesn’t even matter, better yet you just know the physical aspect is going to be off the charts cause you have that kind of connection with them. With these type of women I feel like the sex is such an afterthought.
Great perspective.
This comment needs to be pinned. So well said.
Sara is a breath of fresh air. She’s genuine and honestly seems like a good person. Keep being yourself and doing your thing.
shes irrational
Really? Bc I’m only 5 mins in, first episode ever and she just laughed at homeless people and their income. Not sure how old you are
💯 Sara keep it up you’re a cack 🤣
I heard Sarah can boil the meanest pot of water....
Yea imma have to disagree about men needing to have sex before they know the relationship will last. I think there are women and men that think that way and culture makes it seem everyone and their mother does also. I think physical attraction is a good thing of course but is the person going to support your goals are they going be with you for the long term are they selfless are they gentle are they nurturing. Do they smell good do they believe in Christ. I think the meat and potatoes of a person some are mountains and hills more important than the sex of course it plays a factor don’t get me wrong but it’s not the determining one to a successful and life long relationship.
Sara realising a life of going to the gym everyday to make content is not really fulfilling for someone like her, she’s better than that, she needs to do something else 🤦♂️
I honestly enjoy these two's friendship. Truly beautiful
I’m gonna bring an scale to Brads gym, to see if legitimately if he’s 260 pounds.
bring the DEA as well
Nah he’s been losing hella weight, he’s boxing now, probably 250 now. And he’s fasting and only drinking Bone broth. He definitely shrinking
No sex before marriage for me
Taxes are ridiculous in CA you're paying 48.3 % in taxes in the million dollar bracket.
I think that having a friendship where you can be intimate is the best way for a relationship to work.
I watch/listen to the podcast because of Sarah. You are interesting and sweet.
Sara’s right. I’m a man who looks beyond just the sex life. It’s about how you spend each moment good or bad.
Me too brother
Yes. Real love and feelings as well as being a good couple with respect and morals❤️
You’re a capper
So y’all are telling me if she starfishes every time you’d be happy? And i mean that with all due respect
Let’s be honest, you’re a man that hasn’t had a lot of sex, that’s why you say that.
Get a guest that is knowledgeable in tax stuff on the podcast, it would be beneficial to everyone. love the pod!!!!
I agree with Sara, Brad is my guy, I support/ defend him on basically everything ( I hope to meet him one day) but I am waiting til marriage, I want to have sex with a lot of women, but as a God fearing man I choose not too, I will not lose control, I win and I am saving the sexual experience for my wife, I’m not choosing my wife based off of sex, sex is supposed to be to create a child and have intimacy with another human being, to bond you with that other human being, a marriage without sex, does not last long at all, A couple that is not having sex start getting angry with each other quicker, they start arguing. because they’re not as close. I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God.
So if the lovely lady Sara happens to read this, don’t give it away just to find a husband, there are Christian men making money, tall, strong, handsome men that will treat you how you’re supposed to be treated, that don’t need you just for sex, now you also have to put something into the relationship of course, being a good person in general. Being a caring, sweet, funny, reserved, Godly woman will get you the man you want, pray and ask God, he will provide, he always does, he may not provide you exactly exactly what you want, how you want it but in the end, it’s what is best.
I enjoy listening to mommy and daddy talk very much each week, please keep up the good work, from my hard heart I truly say, I am very appreciative to everyone making this podcast possible🫡
But the thing is how can you tell us post nut clarity isn’t a thing if you’ve never had sex??
"I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God."
Why didn't it work out with that girl?
@@nathanholden3098 I don’t remember saying “post nut clarity” is not a thing, I’ve just read through my comment again to make sure, and I did not say anything of the sort, I have experienced “post nut clarity” and have not had sex, there are ways to achieve “post nut clarity” without having sex.
Sara needs to consider different types of content that balances out the social shit. Go for a hike and vlog or do food reviews...change it up
Sara is killing it hope you see this keep it up your brad raw gear team good job guys 🎉💪👍💰✅
Stop hating on Sara, grow the fuck up and treat others how you want to be treated
Sara you deserve the best ❤
As a guy that is waiting until after marriage, I can confirm that not all guys base at least a part of their opinion about a partner on sex. I believe connection both verbally (good communication) and emotionally are what matters the most. And yes appearance matters somewhat. Partly because you want to be with someone you enjoy looking at for the rest of your life. I mean it’s a long time potentially. And partly looks matter to a degree because if someone is not taking care of themselves then they probably won’t be good at taking care of their spouse and children. So I would say Sara is at least mostly right on the subject. Some of us guys are deep enough that we would even still marry a girl that we couldn’t ever sleep with if we had that true connection with her that we all crave. Reproductive urges and the natural instinct to spread seed are in every guy. But some guys grow to where they control what urges they allow and what they decide is most important to them.
massive mistake ......one of the most important decisions in your life and your just going to risk it,. sex is really important man
Dated my wife 4 years before we got married. She became disabled and the medicine basically made her a vegetable. Last two years she accused me of cheating. I had never been with another woman. Yeah Sara isn't wrong. I stood on my morals and still got screwed. She did the same thing to her last husband.
I'm sorry to hear that.
She's probably just projecting. See if she's not her who's cheating.
@@Eclipsar369how can she cheat when she's disabled and vegetative
@@RushinVr6 Just came off the meds for some 420 med. She has cprs is you care to know.
You having your morals and standing on, that is not for other people but for yourself, of course, but it also divides the people who are really there for a long time and not a good time
I think Sara is bored. She got rich too young. I want to see Sara goes to Europe or works out at Venice Beach or goes to Japan
59:35 I agree with Sara. When I was younger I thought the way Brad is saying men are. As I got older I realized it wasn’t that important in a relationship. And once I realized I’m more of an emotional person than a physical person my relationship got way better and when sex comes to play it is 100% better.
Bring someone with a different perspective. You were talking about sex and marriage and men, I think someone who lived most of their life in another country would be able to let u see outside LA. Sara's right by saying that a lot of people (outside of America cause America is something) actually follow their religions and have morals etc etc.
I don’t care for the sex as long as the women appreciate and sees what he does to provide as a person and how he is towards her for her to do it upon herself to wanna have sex even if he has to wait. It would be well worth it.
Sara is gorgeous and smart. Dont get caught up in the negativity. Real people respect you. 🙏 losers talk crap or stalk you 😆
Sara is right, SEX DOESNT DETERMINE THE RELATIONSHIP
Yes it does. Do you think people cheat and hold hands?
10:30 I think Sara is going through a metamorphic period. And we’re gonna see her be more & more herself. And she knows it too. Best of luck in your journey Sara
My honest opinion is bc she sees all the IG “models” getting all these attentions on looks and I’m sure she feels insecure about that…females put so much pressure on each other on who is the prettiest and who gets the most from
Men bc of those looks. It’s like a flex between girls to be able to say oh I get these things from men bc I’m prettier.
@@Daniel-1-1-1 I see where you’re coming from, but I don’t think Sara’s objective is to be another “ig model”. She carries herself like much more than just a pretty face…but I definitely see where you’re coming from.
@@Nelkstreams couple times she posted pics of herself like those IG models and it’s definitely not her and I think she realized it and stopped…I think the pressure gets to females here and there but very few can overcome it and I think Sarah will and come out good in the end.
@@Daniel-1-1-1 she’s reading this rn bro being like why these guys narrating my life 😂
Sara's always been hot 🔥🥵 yall just gay 😅
Love and connection outweighs the “quality of sex” every time. If I am in love with someone what happens in the bedroom falls way down on the list. I am in love with them, of course that would be the case. We atomise people into “qualities”, sexual or otherwise. Love is far more powerful than such categorisation.
I wish I could be friends with Sara. Girl and I have a lot in common with stuff we are going through as ladies in our early 20s who aren’t trying to sleep around and just want a normal and decent relationship.
I however couldn’t imagine doing dating life in LA. I am in the Midwest so instead of everyone hooking up, everyone my age is basically already married or even has kids.
But when I go to visit family/friends I grew up with out east, if I’m not making 6 figures, dating a bunch of guys, and looking like a model, I am not good enough there either.
So at the end of the day, you’ll never please anyone. Just live with what is in front of you now and God will give you what you need at the appointed time.
I hope and pray both Sara and I can find our “fairytale men”😂
But girl to girl - I do think it’s important to get yourself mentally ready for another person too. I think Sara has good intentions and values but just from hearing her mental health in this episode, seems like she needs to learn how to take care of herself first so she can be the person the guy she wants would want to marry.
Love the pod, interested to see how things turn out in 2024 and streaming ;)
I mean me personally i think sara is right i could care less ab it bc u can always change it or make it more enjoyable if u just communicate it. But I dont really need it, i just need to some love tbh
I 100% agree with Brad on the dogs vs humans thing in the beginning. I think most would. Animals are defenseless and blameless so when they're hurt, there really is no excuse for it.
I think it's weird that Sara would rather see an innocent animal hurt than a grown ass man or woman.
the person could be innocent too tho.. idk if a human life is less than
@@imthel0rd There is no such thing as an innocent person unless they're a baby. That's like saying there is a person who hasn't committed a "sin" in religious terms.
Humans are parasitic in nature. We destroy and curate the land. We kill and eat the animals. We hunt them for sport. We lock them in cages and small water tanks for our amusement. We perform horrible fatal experiments on them. We commit unspeakable atrocities against each other. We take and take and take and rarely do we give anything back to the planet or environment. Our purpose in life is to serve ourselves. Humans are despicable in nature.
The same can't be said for animals. They run off instincts and are just surviving. Even when they hunt or attack other animals or people. They were just doing what their survival instincts told them to do.
Brad marriage is a commitment between God, husband and wife. Love is from God. Sex before marriage is a sin. When the bible says its a sin. Its a sin fullstop.
The chemistry between you both is jokes. Love it 🤙
Reminds me of how me and my ex were/are
Brad is right about the homeless faking being homeless too. Not all but some. That happens here in North Carolina too!! I was at Walmart the other day and I saw a homeless couple walking at the end of the parking lot, and then get into a nice Toyota Camry whilst throwing their cardboard signs in the back and driving off. 😂 then I’ve seen that same couple BACK the next day and set up their cardboard signs!
Brad been spending way too much time in LA if you’re focused that much into sex you can teach someone to be better at sex if it’s not very good but a good person isn’t something you can teach
Hopefully crushes, boyfriends, girlfriends whatever it is, doesn't affect this friendship
Sara you're right there are a lot of men like how you say but it's hard to find where those type of people are. I am that way and I was lucky to find someone with the same moral mindest and energy
Sorry Sara but nobody nowadays is waiting till marriage to have Sex unfortunately, I'm in Sydney and the odds of finding a fellow virgin who's a female over 25 yrs old is probably 2/100 😅
Tell Brad to look up the schnacky family who are a Christian family on social media that will very much back Sarah up,maybe you should invite one on they live near Miami.
Sara is 100% right I’m on her side about this one, … and I’m 110% man
I agree with Brad I care about my dog more than ppl
Sara, You need to quit being so hard on yourself about what you look like! You look great woth or woth out the make-up whice you don't wear to much at all!! Your body in on point regardless what all the negative comments about you are!! Keep your head up!
Yo low key. Those pants your wearing Sarah . The gray ones with the stitching , look freakin fire on you 🔥