@@PeanutTechno Something Barney on How I Met Your Mother mentioned, saying any hot woman is some amount of crazy, and never date any who are crazier than they are hot, to always aim for the ones whose hotness can let you forgive the crazy. :)
I'm dating a girl with BPD. Dated her for 2 and a half years, broke up for about 7 months, got back together a few months ago. The first time, we didn't know she had BPD. I just thought she was crazy. But the diagnosis actually changed everything. Once we understood what it was and why she did what she did, everything just clicked. I'm currently in the smoothest and best relationship I've ever been in. She's getting help, I'm being supportive and understanding, we support each other and honestly I'm the happiest I've ever been. Sometimes you just need to get good help.
Bro get the hell outta there. Nothing good comes from being with someone with BPD. I was in a similar situation to you a few years ago. Ignorant of what BPD was. There were definitely times when things were awesome but it was short lived. Every week there’s a new problem or issue, especially with other people. I’m just an internet stranger, I get it. But don’t gaslight yourself into thinking things will be smooth sailing from here on out. Relationships alone are hard enough. That hardship is brought up to to 200 when you’re with someone with mental health challenges, particularly BPD. It’s possible, but it’s draining. I’ll say this, don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone body warm. Have self respect and stay firm on your personal boundaries. If she’s getting help, great. You are NOT her therapist and keep her accountable for her actions. Mental health (BPD) is not an excuse to treat people you supposedly love like trash. Best of luck to you
There was a time I thought all my ex’s were crazy. Than moved on to believe that I was the crazy one. Now I believe we both had our role to play to the end of the relationship. I focus on learning from past relationships and healing my issues. Take care of yourself so you may better take care of others.
The gift-giving behavior is definitely a unique approach to trying to reconnect! It sounds like you handled both situations with a lot of maturity, especially with the smooth breakup.
I actually dated the crazy girl once. She was honestly pretty chill and down to earth, she was just considered crazy because she had quirks about her. But starting to make sense when I found out she actually had a slight form of autism. The best memory I have with her is when she showed me a clip of Xavier renegade Angel, a show I have never seen and now love. The funny thing is the first clip she showed me was the wind slave bit. What makes it funny is she’s of darker skin complexion. But things didn’t work out. She and I had way too different beliefs. She was Muslim I was Catholic, she had vary different political ideals, and we didn’t have a tun of things we both enjoyed. It was a mutual brake up and we stayed close friends and gave each other “favors“ when needed. I wonder how she’s doing since it’s been 2 years. I still remember her telling me I was the first catholic that she respected and liked. God I miss her at times. Edit: i’m just fixing bits and pieces of the comments so that’s why it’s edited. Dyslexia is a bitch let me tell ya.
@@ajdominguez1002 , Temujin "Genghis" Khan should have been taken to the Crusades and made everyone be at peace, as well as planned things better with getting into Japan. Had those things worked, then he could have truly changed the world.
Oh. That first girl is on the spectrum (i.e. shes autistic). This makes perfect sense. Also I love that you mentioned she sounds like a cat because my runing theory is that autism is a cats soul in a human body.
@@Josh-sz8ip I'm autistic too, she didn't do anything wrong imo either, but we got to realize how people view our quirks and behaviors and change accordingly. it's sad and wrong but it is what it is...
It's not that what she did was wrong or anything, just very weird and doesn't follow social conventions. That doesn't mean it isn't attractive to some of us neurotypical peeps, but Def uncommon. Though the fact that she might be on the spectrum is Def a turnoff for me as I have PTSD from my first gf who had aspergers.
She lied to me about not being able to get pregnant. I stupidly believed her.she denied my rights as a father and denied me access. Sued for access to my child rhe moment he was born. We had to comfort her when I finally got to see my son because she was so upset at the concept. 6 years later, for reasons I'm probably not allowed to talk about yet, I'm suing for full custody.
you must be rich xd thats almost imposible for man to sue woman to keep child unless he rich AF and she poor AF and its still hard unless in the elite NWO club.
To be fair that first guy could’ve just chosen to leave and come back when that first girl’s family wasn’t having a bbq. So he was the one who created the scene.
Story 1 just seemed like a sad person who was lonely that the guy's "effort" was to throw her into unfamiliar situations and just expect it to work lmao.
Yeah the way i see it they were both not compatible he wasnt wrong neither was she …ive met so many people like him …i instantly related with her …find compatible parters people its important…though it was bit unusual as gifts go she seemed sweet
I ended up with an Ex military bomb squad member kicking in my front door, holding me at gun point while he searched my house for her. He then got arrested by like 12 officers and she proceeded to gash my ankle with a knife out of anger.
She said she was bipolar. I gave her a chance. She ended up getting pissed off because I was having a casual conversation with another girl. She ended up threatening to kill my dog. Needless to say, that was the end of our relationship.
1. I didn’t think she was crazy. A few times I met her at a gas station restaurant, a few more times she was a guest at the hotel I work at (but didn’t have her 3 kids with her most of the time). 2. I was scared of her claims that she was saying she’d go to the cops, saying I attempted to r her. So I ended up having a 1-night with her when she said she wanted another kid. After that, she tried to make me jealous by having another guy stay with her at the hotel, but 2 stays later, her boyfriend got arrested for property damage and since the room was under her name, she got blacklisted. She tried to stay a few more times using her sister, but when they would get turned away, she went back to her place a few hours away.
I don't suggest dating someone with borderline personality disorder. They are lovely people, truly. And some of the most passionate you'll ever meet. But the other side of their condition, the coldness, the half truths, the manipulation, the hurt... You'll find yourself simultaneously wondering where the person you fell in love with went while they're right next to you, and yet when they're gone... It's like the world stops for a while as you re-integrate with normal balanced interactions.. but the hurt... Man it hurts, it's like the most incredible, made for you partner got ripped away right before happiness, just to find out that person didn't really exist, that version of the l them only existed to make you believe that it was who they were, but it can't last. And the worst part is that they often are along for the ride as much as you. Never again. If you're like me and think that with time and therapy it can get better, truly its a maybe, but can you really trust that they are going to put in the effort, that's your judgement call to make... I thought i knew the answer too..
Unless the person takes responsibility for their condition. Just because you have the illness doesn't mean other people have to experience the negative impact of it
I have a 18 year old girlfriend. I picked her up from being in a foster home. She has been in a level 4 mental institution. Was on multiple medications for depression adhd etc. She had daily counseling. Was basically locked up in mental institutions juvenile detention and group homes. She doesn’t take any meds now. Is the most kind sweet loving affectionate stable woman I have ever known. She was treated like a prisoner and mental insane person since she was 13.
Think about it this way. If a woman is physically abused the dude is called a horrible person. If a man is physically abused, people wonder what he did to deserve it.
(We didn’t date) TL:DR We became close associates (not quite friends because we rarely talked out of class), she got a boyfriend and I got my life back. Back when I was in 10th grade I was still depressed heavily about a lot of things that happened in a close time period and I stopped talking to people. She got sat next to me in my creative writing class because our last names had the same letter. We had to write some story based on the lyrics of our favorite song or something and we laughed at one of the lyrics in my song and we couldn’t stop laughing for like 15 minutes. Ever since we’d make a bit of small talk from here and there. I decided to stop being sad and to smile more and I began to make more friends. I thought about asking her out but then I found out she started seeing a guy. Our teacher left on maternity leave so we got a sub and started speaking less besides the occasional enthusiastic hi in the hallways.
At the end of 23:37, it made me think that maybe she didn’t have many female friends. Not an excuse to do girly activities with a bf, but definitely a reason.
When I got with my ex I never knew the extent to her crazy, wasn't til well after she had tried to baby trap me I found out she had spent time in a nut hut for almost stabbing her grandmother........I'm glad I took custody from her and never married her
She was loving and supportive at first so I was the same back let her kids stay in my 2 br apartment after her housing issues then she started ending the relationship of small issues then making up on by Monday before ending things and ghosting on my son and I didn't see the truth until later after she ended things again over a fight about her making all the decisions and forgetting my birthday after making me her cousins babysitter without asking she gave me an ultimate to support her and her family without issues or she we were done I decided I wasn't begging her back again and a month later blocked her met someone who appreciates me and it's going good
I watched her kids and mine and worked nights while she worked her 2 jobs she didn't contribute anything to my household expenses except food for her kids. The kids and her cousins kids trashed my place and with the exception of one of the kids were rude and disrespectful. I'm glad she ended things I comforted my son and said sometimes people leave without a goodbye because of their issues and not because you did anything wrong
jesus christ the one where the girl and her mom prettied-up that boy is just straight up grooming. I mean, if it was just the girl, it would be just a weird girl, but when an adult woman is there and also not caring if you say no, that's just grooming.
most of my relationships are long distance, I have a strict minimum of one month, preferably three months, of exclusive talking and then we gotta meet up in real life before dating. we also need to meet up every two-three months. If it's not moving towards an IRL life together then it's not to be taken seriously.
This makes no sense. A lot of long-distance relationship crumble the moment they met. Ok. A lot of normal relationships crumble after a few months. Difference?
@@Scarletraven87 at least meeting in-person you can get a read of who they are much better and quicker.....even noticing their personality in small ways like how they treat store employees. It's easier for people yo hide who they really are if you only know them through a computer screen. They can take as much time in responding to questions as they want and won't show their flaws so easily. I've lost count of stories of bf/gf in a relationship for over a year and they finally meet and one of them are like "she/he's not what I thought they were like". One meeting! That's all it took....and they realized there was a world of difference when they met. They could have saved themselves year/s of being invested in a person that really wasn't who they thought they would be like. Come to think of it.....not once....not one time have I ever heard a story like that have a good outcome.
She was crazy and i moved on lol. What else would happen? I wasnt thinking with the right head. So i got what i deserved. Luckily once they find someone else to attach to they usually move on too.
Her mother died, stopped moving things in(wasn't a lot to begin with), she started smoking again, started hanging out with her druggy girl friends again, unblocked her supposedly abusive druggy ex and talking to him, left me to be with him.... No clue for how long, but didn't sound like it was for long they were a thing again. At least she didn't go back to being a stripper.
long story short but she ghosted me bc she got into a relationship with her ex boyfriend’s ex best friend (it was actually unknown if the ex bf was friends or not with the guy)
Im married to a crazy girl. She hates people(like me), likes to play video games/watch animr(like me), and the craziest thing, she will have reasonable arguements with me with the goal of finding solutions, will even admit shes wrong. Its crazy because ive been learning this isnt the norm, but we both come from fucked up homes, so maybe that helped.
Sharp glass sand you're now lying in. Do you have ANY idea how hard it is to even remove those. There are potentially thousand of shards. A lightbulb shattering in your hand is already a problem, all over your body? That's gonna be hell.
My first love. Practiced witchcraft and after she cheated on me with my close friends she said she would put a spell on me to get me back. Lied and said she had proof I cheated oh her, showed said "proof" to her mom who showed her grandparents and they immediately knew something was off. They heard my side of the story and they immediately knew she was full of shit. Funny enough she tried getting with me a few times, I only used her for sex and she had a kid with a close friend of mine who went to get milk when she had her kid. Stuck in a dead end job and I've recently bought my second house. I'm up and she sucks lol
@@TheRadFactor She's crazy. I was born 3 months early with severe asthma, legal blindness, partial deafness and worsening fibromyalgia. Does that clear things up a little? AMA. I don't mind educating.
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think he has a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that? I see SIX comments asking, I keep leaving comments that he should just put the game names in the description...
I think the first girl was sweet. Shes just unsocialized, but thats not really her fault. It would have definetly soften my heart if she gave me a bunch of well thought personal gifts. I dunno. I think the first guy missed out.
I asked her out (I'm a bi F) and she accepted, but then like a few days later changed her mind and just broke up with me after like a day of walking around holding hands. Should note, she was kind of batshit: very abrupt and loud laughter, very inappropriate behaviors in like every setting. It's been over a decade now so I don't remember too much about her save that her whole personality was "the quirky one" and that it was a mistake. But hey, that's high school for you.
I give the crazy girl a chance 10 years ago, she gave me 3 kids Many lost brain cells broken cellphones missing tech when she gets mad ect she still here god save me oh shit she’s coming runnnn
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that?
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think he uses a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that?
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think he has a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that? I see SIX comments asking, I keep leaving comments that he should just put the game names in the description...
Walked right into an abusive realtionship when I was 20, she was 19. My dumbass moved in with jer and a buddy who had a third roomate that moved out. And i had been seeing the girl for a few weeks and there were definitely some red flags. But i was a bit naive and wanted to get out of my parents house since i had just failed out of my first year in college and started going to a local community college. I got use to not having them around and it was real wierd since i failed out. So i was like whats the worst that could happen? Fuck me thay was dumb. Once they have all tour stuff and willing to kill themselves if you leave with in the first few months. Youve got yourself a proper cluster fuck. Got real good at talking knives out of her hands. And im easily emotionally manipulatable so it works almost everytime. I caouodnt handlebthe guilt if she actually did it. Got hit and abused for almost 4 years before i had my sister rip her out of my car and throw on her parents front lawn. Lost all my stuff and moved back in with the family with my tail between my legs. All good now. I mean im agressively single still at 34 so i got to get on that, but it took awhile to be like yeah sure lets try that again. It should be better, women arent all shit bags. But its hard to tell sometimes and that scares me.
Story 6: "It's not like it is a religion but some complete nonsense". From my atheist viewpoint it is exactly like every religion. Just complete nonsense.
I ended up finding she was the only person I could trust, married her, and we've been together 42 years (38 of them married).
She's still crazy.
I love a good love story with a happy ending ❤
Aren't we all just a little crazy?
That first girl…idk man, seems kinda like a keeper. She cared enough to remember everything…although she remembered EVERYTHING so…idk maybe not…
Very interesting situation tho
I only wish someone loved me that much
I was like "hmm that's a red flag, but wait..that's a green flag, no no, red flag, no wait..that's kinda green?" - It's pretty conflicting
People here think obsession is a good thing.
It’s Christmas with how much red and green there was at the same time lol
It’s never “giving the crazy girl a chance” it’s always “found out she was crazy after 5 years of dating her”
I’m not sure if I attract crazy girls or if I drive normal girls crazy
@@bourbonslurpee they’re just really good at hiding the crazy until they’re comfortable with you and vice-versa, than they unleash it
@@bourbonslurpee spit it out 😂 I wanna see how high over heels they're 😅
No it's the third option, you are just attracted to crazy girls.
If this isn't 35 minutes of guys saying "she was in the right spot on the crazy hot matrix" it's 35 minutes of lies.
you mean the Vicky Mendoza Diagonal?
There's a "crazy hot matrix"?
@@PeanutTechno ofc there is
Guys, go look up, Hoe_math, the crazy hot matrix is outdated. The new diagram he made is more laid out and organized
@@PeanutTechno Something Barney on How I Met Your Mother mentioned, saying any hot woman is some amount of crazy, and never date any who are crazier than they are hot, to always aim for the ones whose hotness can let you forgive the crazy. :)
We fell mad in love, did some thing we weren't proud of, got clean, have 2 beautiful kids, the saga continues
I'm dating a girl with BPD. Dated her for 2 and a half years, broke up for about 7 months, got back together a few months ago. The first time, we didn't know she had BPD. I just thought she was crazy. But the diagnosis actually changed everything. Once we understood what it was and why she did what she did, everything just clicked. I'm currently in the smoothest and best relationship I've ever been in. She's getting help, I'm being supportive and understanding, we support each other and honestly I'm the happiest I've ever been. Sometimes you just need to get good help.
its not gonna end well chief..just trust me please
@@jerrycarmody6717 so far so good. I am happy and so is she.
@@jerrycarmody6717You are right, its only a matter of time, when she stops idiealising and starts to devalueing him.
Run
Bro get the hell outta there. Nothing good comes from being with someone with BPD. I was in a similar situation to you a few years ago. Ignorant of what BPD was. There were definitely times when things were awesome but it was short lived. Every week there’s a new problem or issue, especially with other people.
I’m just an internet stranger, I get it. But don’t gaslight yourself into thinking things will be smooth sailing from here on out. Relationships alone are hard enough. That hardship is brought up to to 200 when you’re with someone with mental health challenges, particularly BPD. It’s possible, but it’s draining.
I’ll say this, don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone body warm. Have self respect and stay firm on your personal boundaries. If she’s getting help, great. You are NOT her therapist and keep her accountable for her actions. Mental health (BPD) is not an excuse to treat people you supposedly love like trash. Best of luck to you
There was a time I thought all my ex’s were crazy. Than moved on to believe that I was the crazy one. Now I believe we both had our role to play to the end of the relationship. I focus on learning from past relationships and healing my issues. Take care of yourself so you may better take care of others.
That’s some real self-awareness. Owning your part and focusing on growth is the way to go. Keep it up, and you’ll be ready for something better
Zactly ❤
The gift-giving behavior is definitely a unique approach to trying to reconnect! It sounds like you handled both situations with a lot of maturity, especially with the smooth breakup.
I'm 34 , she 37 she bullied me in 9 grade , im Puerto and she's a Russian white girl with blue eyes , we married 31 years now
… married 31 years?
holup
Math ain't mathing here
@@diegodias1998 he probably meant to type 13 xD
@@OldTexasRed That possibility went completely over my head, but it does make a lot of sense.
I actually dated the crazy girl once. She was honestly pretty chill and down to earth, she was just considered crazy because she had quirks about her. But starting to make sense when I found out she actually had a slight form of autism. The best memory I have with her is when she showed me a clip of Xavier renegade Angel, a show I have never seen and now love. The funny thing is the first clip she showed me was the wind slave bit. What makes it funny is she’s of darker skin complexion. But things didn’t work out. She and I had way too different beliefs. She was Muslim I was Catholic, she had vary different political ideals, and we didn’t have a tun of things we both enjoyed. It was a mutual brake up and we stayed close friends and gave each other “favors“ when needed. I wonder how she’s doing since it’s been 2 years. I still remember her telling me I was the first catholic that she respected and liked. God I miss her at times.
Edit: i’m just fixing bits and pieces of the comments so that’s why it’s edited. Dyslexia is a bitch let me tell ya.
Lol guy with a sonic profile pic calls girl autistic
If the Crusades were stopped this way 😂😅
@@ajdominguez1002 someone sometime blocked a relationship like this that could have saved us from learning about these wars
@@ajdominguez1002 , Temujin "Genghis" Khan should have been taken to the Crusades and made everyone be at peace, as well as planned things better with getting into Japan. Had those things worked, then he could have truly changed the world.
Oh. That first girl is on the spectrum (i.e. shes autistic). This makes perfect sense. Also I love that you mentioned she sounds like a cat because my runing theory is that autism is a cats soul in a human body.
I'm autistic and think she did nothing wrong
I'm still probably autistic but that shi is weird
@@Josh-sz8ip I'm autistic too, she didn't do anything wrong imo either, but we got to realize how people view our quirks and behaviors and change accordingly. it's sad and wrong but it is what it is...
@@naruhina1997
How is sad? Adapting to the environment is basic human behaviour
It's not that what she did was wrong or anything, just very weird and doesn't follow social conventions. That doesn't mean it isn't attractive to some of us neurotypical peeps, but Def uncommon. Though the fact that she might be on the spectrum is Def a turnoff for me as I have PTSD from my first gf who had aspergers.
She lied to me about not being able to get pregnant. I stupidly believed her.she denied my rights as a father and denied me access.
Sued for access to my child rhe moment he was born.
We had to comfort her when I finally got to see my son because she was so upset at the concept.
6 years later, for reasons I'm probably not allowed to talk about yet, I'm suing for full custody.
you must be rich xd thats almost imposible for man to sue woman to keep child unless he rich AF and she poor AF and its still hard unless in the elite NWO club.
Did you win?
To be fair that first guy could’ve just chosen to leave and come back when that first girl’s family wasn’t having a bbq. So he was the one who created the scene.
I think I dated that dragon priestess lol
I think she is the more acceptable out of this video, just grab a d&d book and play along XD
First girl: rarely see women go out like this. I would have folded for the chips.
Story 5 is literally just what happened me 💀
The first one ??? lol she dodged a bullet , a man who doesn’t appreciate her.
Thank you! I’d be over the moon for a woman like that.
Story 1 just seemed like a sad person who was lonely that the guy's "effort" was to throw her into unfamiliar situations and just expect it to work lmao.
Yeah the way i see it they were both not compatible he wasnt wrong neither was she …ive met so many people like him …i instantly related with her …find compatible parters people its important…though it was bit unusual as gifts go she seemed sweet
That guy from story 3, the Julliard dude, is so clueless. I understand why his ex-wife divorced him.
I ended up with an Ex military bomb squad member kicking in my front door, holding me at gun point while he searched my house for her. He then got arrested by like 12 officers and she proceeded to gash my ankle with a knife out of anger.
Huh?!
She said she was bipolar. I gave her a chance. She ended up getting pissed off because I was having a casual conversation with another girl. She ended up threatening to kill my dog. Needless to say, that was the end of our relationship.
The girl and mom who basically tortured the guy with painting nails and doing hair- that is sick. Like- yuck and wth??
Early for once, no more viewing months old videos!
U waited a month after each video? 😂
@@loveladii69😂
1. I didn’t think she was crazy. A few times I met her at a gas station restaurant, a few more times she was a guest at the hotel I work at (but didn’t have her 3 kids with her most of the time).
2. I was scared of her claims that she was saying she’d go to the cops, saying I attempted to r her.
So I ended up having a 1-night with her when she said she wanted another kid. After that, she tried to make me jealous by having another guy stay with her at the hotel, but 2 stays later, her boyfriend got arrested for property damage and since the room was under her name, she got blacklisted. She tried to stay a few more times using her sister, but when they would get turned away, she went back to her place a few hours away.
I don't suggest dating someone with borderline personality disorder. They are lovely people, truly. And some of the most passionate you'll ever meet. But the other side of their condition, the coldness, the half truths, the manipulation, the hurt... You'll find yourself simultaneously wondering where the person you fell in love with went while they're right next to you, and yet when they're gone... It's like the world stops for a while as you re-integrate with normal balanced interactions.. but the hurt... Man it hurts, it's like the most incredible, made for you partner got ripped away right before happiness, just to find out that person didn't really exist, that version of the l them only existed to make you believe that it was who they were, but it can't last. And the worst part is that they often are along for the ride as much as you. Never again. If you're like me and think that with time and therapy it can get better, truly its a maybe, but can you really trust that they are going to put in the effort, that's your judgement call to make... I thought i knew the answer too..
Unless the person takes responsibility for their condition. Just because you have the illness doesn't mean other people have to experience the negative impact of it
@@kevinvanwyk8815 and that's the hard part about bpd, most, if not all of the symptoms affect others as well as themselves, it's truly unfortunate
>They are lovely people, truly.
Nah.
She was violently abusive and unable to regulate her emotions…a terrible combination.
I really love it when the lady is obsessed, possessive, and very clingy. It's all about you.
I have a 18 year old girlfriend.
I picked her up from being in a foster home. She has been in a level 4 mental institution. Was on multiple medications for depression adhd etc.
She had daily counseling.
Was basically locked up in mental institutions juvenile detention and group homes.
She doesn’t take any meds now. Is the most kind sweet loving affectionate stable woman I have ever known.
She was treated like a prisoner and mental insane person since she was 13.
There are one too many stories where women doing physical harm just don't end up in jail. Crazy
Think about it this way. If a woman is physically abused the dude is called a horrible person. If a man is physically abused, people wonder what he did to deserve it.
(We didn’t date)
TL:DR We became close associates (not quite friends because we rarely talked out of class), she got a boyfriend and I got my life back.
Back when I was in 10th grade I was still depressed heavily about a lot of things that happened in a close time period and I stopped talking to people. She got sat next to me in my creative writing class because our last names had the same letter. We had to write some story based on the lyrics of our favorite song or something and we laughed at one of the lyrics in my song and we couldn’t stop laughing for like 15 minutes. Ever since we’d make a bit of small talk from here and there. I decided to stop being sad and to smile more and I began to make more friends. I thought about asking her out but then I found out she started seeing a guy. Our teacher left on maternity leave so we got a sub and started speaking less besides the occasional enthusiastic hi in the hallways.
About to give this video a chance
They say "Never dip in crazy." but you only really findout what crazy is until you dip in it.
I was more offended by the guy straight up saying that Dill Pickle was his favorite flavor of chips.
I'd argue this was less giving the crazy girl a chance, and more finding out your girl was crazy.
.....and that's how I have a restraining order 😅
Story 5... holy crap it's eerily similar to my last relationship....
At the end of 23:37, it made me think that maybe she didn’t have many female friends. Not an excuse to do girly activities with a bf, but definitely a reason.
Stopping the losers from being "First" crew checking in.
hmmmm
How are you any different?
I married her, it's the best decision I've ever made. It hasn't always been easy but I would do it all over again.
When I got with my ex I never knew the extent to her crazy, wasn't til well after she had tried to baby trap me I found out she had spent time in a nut hut for almost stabbing her grandmother........I'm glad I took custody from her and never married her
Bbbruuh, that hot over crazy scale will put you in some wild situations 😂
She was loving and supportive at first so I was the same back let her kids stay in my 2 br apartment after her housing issues then she started ending the relationship of small issues then making up on by Monday before ending things and ghosting on my son and I didn't see the truth until later after she ended things again over a fight about her making all the decisions and forgetting my birthday after making me her cousins babysitter without asking she gave me an ultimate to support her and her family without issues or she we were done I decided I wasn't begging her back again and a month later blocked her met someone who appreciates me and it's going good
I watched her kids and mine and worked nights while she worked her 2 jobs she didn't contribute anything to my household expenses except food for her kids. The kids and her cousins kids trashed my place and with the exception of one of the kids were rude and disrespectful. I'm glad she ended things I comforted my son and said sometimes people leave without a goodbye because of their issues and not because you did anything wrong
Long memories I’ve already forced myself to forget…
When your boys are getting in the way of you crushing maximum snizz, you tell them she's a fuckin dragon
I feel like story 7 wouldnt be legally binding because he had her sign it without actually letting her know what was.
Show me one thats not crazy....just a myth.
nothing says love like a restraining order.
jesus christ the one where the girl and her mom prettied-up that boy is just straight up grooming. I mean, if it was just the girl, it would be just a weird girl, but when an adult woman is there and also not caring if you say no, that's just grooming.
If the first girl was lonely she should've smile more and move on !!!
you know what they say about the worm right?
No, what do they say avout the worm?
@@straysoul1818I was under the impression that everyone had heard about the worm?
@@NoNo-xh7ru no, especially non-americans as me...
that if you swallow a tapeworm you’ll starve to death?
I guess the light bulb really went off
Ended badly. Barrel in your mouth crying in the bathroom badly. Thank God I recovered from that.
story 1 , a pack of bacon, shave cream, a screw driver?? wtf dude does are awesome gifts!!!
Last story: Why don't people understand that a long-distance relationship where no one has met in person is not a true "relationship"?
I honestly don't know. It seems like Reddit is full of those "relationships".
most of my relationships are long distance, I have a strict minimum of one month, preferably three months, of exclusive talking and then we gotta meet up in real life before dating. we also need to meet up every two-three months. If it's not moving towards an IRL life together then it's not to be taken seriously.
This makes no sense.
A lot of long-distance relationship crumble the moment they met. Ok.
A lot of normal relationships crumble after a few months.
Difference?
@@Scarletraven87 at least meeting in-person you can get a read of who they are much better and quicker.....even noticing their personality in small ways like how they treat store employees.
It's easier for people yo hide who they really are if you only know them through a computer screen. They can take as much time in responding to questions as they want and won't show their flaws so easily.
I've lost count of stories of bf/gf in a relationship for over a year and they finally meet and one of them are like "she/he's not what I thought they were like". One meeting! That's all it took....and they realized there was a world of difference when they met. They could have saved themselves year/s of being invested in a person that really wasn't who they thought they would be like.
Come to think of it.....not once....not one time have I ever heard a story like that have a good outcome.
RUFUS STORIES
First story: "Booker, catch!"
Spiritually a dragon…The fuck…😂
Divorce.
it went bad 1-00% of the time you cannot fix crazy
She was crazy and i moved on lol. What else would happen? I wasnt thinking with the right head. So i got what i deserved. Luckily once they find someone else to attach to they usually move on too.
Her mother died, stopped moving things in(wasn't a lot to begin with), she started smoking again, started hanging out with her druggy girl friends again, unblocked her supposedly abusive druggy ex and talking to him, left me to be with him.... No clue for how long, but didn't sound like it was for long they were a thing again.
At least she didn't go back to being a stripper.
10:26 "9 months later" HOLY SHIT SHE'S PRE- oh nevermind
6:24 He is too kind for the damage she did.
29 stories I have, at least I'm not alone
Quite some stories.
long story short but she ghosted me bc she got into a relationship with her ex boyfriend’s ex best friend (it was actually unknown if the ex bf was friends or not with the guy)
Im married to a crazy girl. She hates people(like me), likes to play video games/watch animr(like me), and the craziest thing, she will have reasonable arguements with me with the goal of finding solutions, will even admit shes wrong. Its crazy because ive been learning this isnt the norm, but we both come from fucked up homes, so maybe that helped.
Yoooo…. What is this game. Like I actually wanna know??
Abzu I think
@@connorminnis4754 🙏🙏
@@connorminnis4754yep
Abzu.
Looks like "Flower" but underwater.
Married her. 9 years later we're still together
Story 6 Bro was dating priestess with eyes of blue 😂
I think he should have stayed with the first woman. It’s rare being loved and cared for that much in a relationship.
She was crazy who would’ve known
Became asexual after such expirience
i'm a bit confused about how lightbulbs in a comforter led to needing medical treatments. like, did they break? were they plugged in?
Sharp glass sand you're now lying in. Do you have ANY idea how hard it is to even remove those. There are potentially thousand of shards. A lightbulb shattering in your hand is already a problem, all over your body? That's gonna be hell.
Story 2 is absolutely psychotic.
The man could have seriously been hurt, and she did it cuz he didn't fight against her when she said she was unhappy?
DONT DO IT!
Story 2 she was blanking another dude. Or her friends were telling her she is to young, he is cheating. Or she is just plain crazy and never happy.
Story 9- Did you stay friends with said best friend?
MOst of those girls are strange, but not what i would call "crazy".
Long story short, she smashed my tv and stabbed me after i got off work
Game name? 🙏
My first love. Practiced witchcraft and after she cheated on me with my close friends she said she would put a spell on me to get me back. Lied and said she had proof I cheated oh her, showed said "proof" to her mom who showed her grandparents and they immediately knew something was off. They heard my side of the story and they immediately knew she was full of shit. Funny enough she tried getting with me a few times, I only used her for sex and she had a kid with a close friend of mine who went to get milk when she had her kid. Stuck in a dead end job and I've recently bought my second house. I'm up and she sucks lol
So many of these stories look like borderline personality disorder.
We are married now 😂
Because i was young and stupid 😂
We've been married for 15 years. I'm more physically disabled than she is emotionally unstable.
I’m confused but also happy for your, which is making me more confused
@@TheRadFactor She's crazy. I was born 3 months early with severe asthma, legal blindness, partial deafness and worsening fibromyalgia.
Does that clear things up a little? AMA. I don't mind educating.
@@MaxAngor you forced me to use google. 😂😂
Game?
Abzu
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think he has a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that? I see SIX comments asking, I keep leaving comments that he should just put the game names in the description...
I think the first girl was sweet. Shes just unsocialized, but thats not really her fault. It would have definetly soften my heart if she gave me a bunch of well thought personal gifts. I dunno. I think the first guy missed out.
She kidnapped me
I asked her out (I'm a bi F) and she accepted, but then like a few days later changed her mind and just broke up with me after like a day of walking around holding hands. Should note, she was kind of batshit: very abrupt and loud laughter, very inappropriate behaviors in like every setting. It's been over a decade now so I don't remember too much about her save that her whole personality was "the quirky one" and that it was a mistake. But hey, that's high school for you.
I give the crazy girl a chance 10 years ago, she gave me 3 kids
Many lost brain cells broken cellphones missing tech when she gets mad ect she still here god save me oh shit she’s coming runnnn
Wat game is being played it looks amazing
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that?
Abzu. It’s one of my fav games 😊
What’s the game in the background?
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think he uses a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that?
What is the game in the background?
Abzu, it’s an indie game by giant squid.
Abzu (That U should have a ^ but I'm not fussing with that). I just added it to my wishlist on Steam and GOG. Steam has it on sale for 75% off, but I hate Steam so I'll wait for GOG. I think Rufus generally plays on console, judging from games I've identified I think he has a Playstation 5, so I suspect it might be also available on that? I see SIX comments asking, I keep leaving comments that he should just put the game names in the description...
Walked right into an abusive realtionship when I was 20, she was 19. My dumbass moved in with jer and a buddy who had a third roomate that moved out. And i had been seeing the girl for a few weeks and there were definitely some red flags. But i was a bit naive and wanted to get out of my parents house since i had just failed out of my first year in college and started going to a local community college. I got use to not having them around and it was real wierd since i failed out. So i was like whats the worst that could happen? Fuck me thay was dumb. Once they have all tour stuff and willing to kill themselves if you leave with in the first few months. Youve got yourself a proper cluster fuck. Got real good at talking knives out of her hands. And im easily emotionally manipulatable so it works almost everytime. I caouodnt handlebthe guilt if she actually did it. Got hit and abused for almost 4 years before i had my sister rip her out of my car and throw on her parents front lawn. Lost all my stuff and moved back in with the family with my tail between my legs. All good now. I mean im agressively single still at 34 so i got to get on that, but it took awhile to be like yeah sure lets try that again. It should be better, women arent all shit bags. But its hard to tell sometimes and that scares me.
Good sex, bad life. That’s what happened.
First story was kinda sad
I mean like maybe don’t talk about her so rudely she probably really did care about you
Dragonborn
She Cheated
Story 6: "It's not like it is a religion but some complete nonsense". From my atheist viewpoint it is exactly like every religion. Just complete nonsense.