She's Not Over Her Ex Boyfriend | Her Ex is Still in the Background

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  • Опубликовано: 11 фев 2025
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    In this video, I talk about what to do if a girl still has an ex boyfriend in the background and she keeps thinking about him. The only thing that can ruin your relationship from where I'm standing is if you start getting jealous and seeing her ex as real competition.
    I've seen other men make this mistake and it doesn't end well. I've seen girls who were massively in love with their boyfriends, fall out of love because their boyfriends started getting jealous and insecure about other men. These men were no real threat and the woman didn't want to be with them. However, the man's insecurity and jealousy turned his girlfriend off. Women are attracted to confidence above all else.
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  • @CochoAntonio
    @CochoAntonio 2 года назад +170

    Sadly in these cases, pump and dump; one, two or three times maybe if you’re lucky but that’s it. Don’t get attached please, I’m saving you a heart ache

    • @DjArie09
      @DjArie09 2 года назад +15

      I'd say don't make the mistake of trying to pump and dump, just run and never look back. It's not worth it and you'll probably get burned.

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 Год назад

      ​@@DjArie09STDs?

    • @Spector06111
      @Spector06111 10 месяцев назад +3

      This ☝️ Even if her ex has moved on with someone else, she is more than likely to still harbour feelings for him and just using you as the new guy to make him jelous. Not a position you want to be in as some “bandaid bf”.

    • @officiallnavic2741
      @officiallnavic2741 6 месяцев назад +2

      My guy!! That's facts.. Been there done that.. Back in a similar situation.. Even if she knows your the better choice, if she's still stuck on the ex better ealk away 😅 do not endulge the drama or try to be the one. Do your thing a d Dip. When she realises it's too late and believe she'll probably end uo alone or in another toxic relationship

    • @dearquan
      @dearquan 3 месяца назад

      You guys don’t know how to get her to stop thinking about her ex? Y’all are losing 😅😅😅😅

  • @jimbo6413
    @jimbo6413 2 года назад +69

    This cuts both ways for men *and* women. If someone isn't over their ex yet, then there's no point in pursuing that person. Period. They need room and time to process their emotions and the last place you want to be is in a "rebound relationship." Those never end well (unless you take it for what it is...revenge sex...and you avoid the temptation to get emotionally invested in what is for all intents and purposes a fling). Bottom line, if there's a lot of talk about the ex (good, bad or indifferent) then start making plans to move on ASAP.

    • @cliffchampion5501
      @cliffchampion5501 2 года назад +10

      When your just someone’s rebound your only a distraction for their pain for being hurt by the person they really want. So in the end your just being used.

  • @TripleOptionFootballAcademy
    @TripleOptionFootballAcademy 2 года назад +53

    Live with an abundance mentality as there are 4 billion women in this world. Thanks Chris.

    • @antilaw9911
      @antilaw9911 Год назад +2

      And all those women are someone else's ex too

  • @Lewis-me7jr
    @Lewis-me7jr Год назад +26

    I’ve been on both sides of this equation. I’ve been the ex in the background and I’ve been the dumb ass trying to compete with the ex. Trust me, that ex is one text and coffee date away from crushing your soul. If she’s still into her ex just move on. It’s probably not even worth a pump and dump because you’re probably getting sloppy seconds.

  • @RB-sc3uk
    @RB-sc3uk 2 года назад +22

    Walk away! she will always be stuck on the ex.

  • @EJayyDreadHead
    @EJayyDreadHead 2 года назад +18

    Run!!!! That's a huge red flag 🚩move on!!!!!!!!! I had that experience and trust me it did not end well.

  • @paulboutrous
    @paulboutrous 2 года назад +35

    Not a serious option.... trust me.

    • @_noname2032
      @_noname2032 2 года назад

      What do you mean by that

    • @paulboutrous
      @paulboutrous 2 года назад +8

      @@_noname2032 You can't take them seriously.

    • @_noname2032
      @_noname2032 2 года назад +2

      @@paulboutrous you mean the women?

    • @CochoAntonio
      @CochoAntonio 2 года назад +2

      Totally agree with you

    • @_noname2032
      @_noname2032 2 года назад

      @@joshsaundh4851 how is she your girlfriend if you didn't see her in 3 months?

  • @Sunnyinnitt
    @Sunnyinnitt Год назад +13

    Happened to me. Found out about the ex 3 months into the relationship and that they'd been in touch a few times and even met up and had sex. Burst out in anger but she asked for a second chance as she said she wanted to be with me and would do anything and everything for me to forgiver her. Couldn't forget couldn't forgive. Wanted revenge. Stayed on with her for another 4 months and acted nice so to get her become attached to me, shagged her almost everyday. Got bored and hated even seeing her. Dumped that b*tch in the bin and she went mad contacting me on all of my socials and even turning up at my place as I was ignoring her. I promise you bro revenge tasted sweeter knowing that she became attached to me. Wouldn't recommend this though, you're better off just dumping her. But this one deserved this.

    • @RVCAXD
      @RVCAXD Год назад +1

      How did you find out?

  • @zero1188
    @zero1188 2 года назад +61

    Find a new gf. Why be a second option

  • @XoXo475
    @XoXo475 Год назад +4

    How do you deal with a girl you’re dating that’s still obsessed with someone she dated 10 years ago but clearly had a profound affect on her?
    Dudes name STILL comes up out the blue and just kills me inside ..

    • @dbaum23
      @dbaum23 Год назад +5

      You just have to move on. I'm in this same situation. Guy cheated on her and is married now, she still keeps him around. She will always choose the ex over you.

  • @naturalbornkiller361
    @naturalbornkiller361 2 года назад +44

    Life saving tip: don't ever get emotionally attached to any woman. Don't let your relationship or marriage turn you into a wimp. Be the king and let her be your servant.

  • @yannick930
    @yannick930 Год назад +7

    I don't understand pursuing a girl who's not interested in you. You go into the relationship knowing someone else is in her head. The thought of it will make me loose attraction instantly.
    Men are too desperate

  • @_noname2032
    @_noname2032 2 года назад +24

    Chris never disappoints

  • @BlackoutPatriot
    @BlackoutPatriot 2 года назад +10

    Run away and don't waste your time is the easiest way to solve this issue

  • @dandinkunanga4809
    @dandinkunanga4809 2 года назад +6

    Best thing to do is leave she either comeback or stay with him

    • @michaeldestiny660
      @michaeldestiny660 2 года назад

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  • @adiravi3933
    @adiravi3933 2 года назад +7

    Let her be with him and walk away,one day she might come crying and begging to you, that time you choose your new gf over her and give the taste of her own medicine

  • @sixfeetunder0105
    @sixfeetunder0105 6 месяцев назад +1

    Let her come to you and never contact her first

  • @cliffchampion5501
    @cliffchampion5501 2 года назад +16

    Always friend zone her first in fact friend zone all woman your interested in and promote accordingly once they earn it.

  • @Spector06111
    @Spector06111 10 месяцев назад

    This is why after making this mistake 3 times throughout my life I decided to have a cut off period for dating a new woman and being single of 2years minimum was the rule.

  • @magichearttube1253
    @magichearttube1253 5 месяцев назад +2

    Bro had to release that at th 2:13 😂😂

  • @gary6514
    @gary6514 Год назад +2

    An alpha widow is always an alpha widow. Treat her the way she deserves. Pump and dump the way he did....

  • @danialmr5960
    @danialmr5960 2 года назад +1

    Great video as always

  • @durgaprasana5531
    @durgaprasana5531 2 года назад +2

    Hi Chris, Could you do a slightly more elaborate video on this topic?

  • @XA1985
    @XA1985 2 года назад +36

    Fellas, why make things hard for yourself, SMASH AND DASH ONLY

  • @janisvinters8797
    @janisvinters8797 2 года назад +5

    There is only 1 thing - men don't need women frends as frend. Men have many men frends.

  • @lukeArmstrong524
    @lukeArmstrong524 2 года назад +19

    friend= no attraction. Your acting like a girly man!...

  • @EternalLife91
    @EternalLife91 2 года назад +11

    Hi Chris, how are you and what did you have for breakfast today?

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  2 года назад +19

      I’m good. I had a hotel breakfast today. Salad and fruit, french toast, coffee, and water.

  • @RealMattKiefer
    @RealMattKiefer 2 года назад +4

    Chris you’re Looking like you’re putting on some healthy size brother!💪🏻

  • @ringozeme8539
    @ringozeme8539 2 года назад

    Hey anyone help me
    I have an issue that my gf ex sent marriage invitation of his marriage to my gf. And she is ready to give a gift to her ex bf, So what shall i do? Do i have to allow her or do i ask her not to give a gift to her ex bf. Please anyone good advice or suggestion regarding my issue.

  • @fede_ponz
    @fede_ponz 2 года назад +1

    Facts

  • @HELLO-iq5rb
    @HELLO-iq5rb 10 месяцев назад

    Walk away.

  • @sandrewmukhim108
    @sandrewmukhim108 2 года назад +2

    For me once we're break up i don't have the interest to get my ex back

  • @gabrielrod1253
    @gabrielrod1253 2 года назад +1

    Hi Chris, what do you think about this motto ? Talking about relationship is censorship.

    • @dendanskehelt4296
      @dendanskehelt4296 2 года назад +1

      You can talk about relationship. But ONLY if SHE brings it up.

  • @MarioP90
    @MarioP90 10 месяцев назад

    She’ll just cheat on you if you try that lol.

  • @jonahlevi3178
    @jonahlevi3178 2 года назад +3

    You gotta not give 2 sh**s about girls if she wanna be friends you shouldn't care , at all, talk to other girls just like her talking to others guys

  • @jcdenton_theantitheist
    @jcdenton_theantitheist 6 месяцев назад

    Keep her as second option find a new one😂

  • @TheKing-rj6zt
    @TheKing-rj6zt 2 года назад

    What does it mean if she started to send me random snaps? Should I just ignore it, or should I send random snaps back?

    • @co-bowham7736
      @co-bowham7736 Год назад +1

      She tryna get your attention she wants to know what u getting up to

    • @co-bowham7736
      @co-bowham7736 Год назад

      Advice if u healed enough and ready to answer so be it but don’t be brain washed by whatever she says

  • @rynelacosta9761
    @rynelacosta9761 2 года назад +3

    Hello.

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist 2 года назад +10

    Any chick that is not over her ex and tells you that? Steer clear boys lol

  • @lewis1937
    @lewis1937 2 года назад +4

    14 pro max?