Man Tries To Justify How He Ended Up With 7 Baby Mommas & Not Wanting To Have Kids With Any Of Them
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I was dating a guy and he told me, and i quote, "listen, you are a good girl and you are smart. If you get pregnant by me im not going to take care of it. You deserve better than that." To this day i am grateful for him telling me that. I left and never looked back. I wonder what ever happened to him?
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
He went on to have 7 babies by 7 women apparently
Don't look back hopefully you grew and maneuvered differently
@@stacknsat oh no. That was 18 years ago. He probably have 10 kids now
This man is 100% right. His baby mamas are the stupid donkeys 🤷♀️.
I feel for the kids . They didn’t have a choice in any of these shenanigans.
You right but the mom did especially if he told her before hand and u still allowed him to have sex with no condom.. now u will a woman telling her child your daddy ain't s**t but u knew that before hand and u still slept with him.make it make sense 🤦🏾♂️
Welcome to black america
I do too but then i was thinking, if it wasn't for these shenanigans, they even wouldn't even exist lol
@@THEVIDEOARBITRATOR Negro. This ain't Black America. This is Ignorant America.
"He's not black. He's nigga." 🤣🤣🤣💀 knew it was coming still took me out
A man I was dating told me many years ago, he wasn't ready for children. He told me upfront. He didn't love me. Listen to these man.
Your assuming he was honest with them. People lie
Listen to them and stay the hell away from them smh
For it to happen to 7 different women, he's obviously leading them on and making them think they got a future together. He's even said he don't tell them he's not gonna be their until after they're pregnant
Men can hide the number of children they have easily. I also dated a man who said he didn't want anymore children upfront, he was divorced with 4 teenaged children by the same woman. I was ok with it since they was in Oregon we were in Missouri, I didn't want kids and didn't have to deal with baby momma drama, he paid his child support. Everything was cool. So about six months into the relationship I found court orders for child support for 2 other children by 2 different women! WTF! So the man lied he actually had 6 children and 3 different mothers! It was a hot mess and turn off. I was so hurt, I thought I had a good honest man, but he was a liar and turns out a cheater (why he was divorced in the first place).
Yess
The fact that dudes are so willing to raw dog jump offs is incredibly insane. This man doesn’t value himself at all not even his own family jewels
so willing?? she allowed it...
It's still these women fault
@@d.kj.n1392 "She allowed it" won't stop him from catching diseases. Take some accountability for something in life you degenerate.
@@dadonjayy8003 It's really the man fault when you really think about it he had a choice
Just know the guy you with or you end up with has done what your talking about. 😂
Both men and women have to learn how to make better choices.
Honestly as messed up as he sounds even if he got an STD I really think he would keep going.
Mannnn. That shit is spooky. Because men do this.
Agreed, he has some real anger and bitterness inside of him and he would be the type to spread it to as many women as he can
That's what Charlie Sheen did.
He def has an STD already
And I guarantee you even after this viral video, there will still be women lining up to get pregnant by him. Sad world we live in. 🤦🏾♀️
Facts!! They love the bad boys 🤗
Look how far we’ve fallen as a society, having kids is way too casual and cavalier now. Marriage or a committed relationship never even an afterthought just child support.
A note; THE MOMENT you hear someone say "speaking my truth", understand you're only about to hear a narcissist give you their version of events. Just know this. Without fail. Always the case.
7, not once or twice but SEVEN I pray he receives the help he needs
@@coreejacobs4780 if this story is real, he's beyond repair. There are now at least 7 little children who are brought to earth by a deadbeat loser father who never wanted them to mothers who chose him over their own logic and thinking. He found AT LEAST SEVEN women willing to lay with him and sew his seed in their earth. And this is all of us assuming these women have no ther kids from similar daddies....
@@MrColdwilliam and most of the debate is focusing on the parents when the children will continue the cycle more than likely of feeling unloved and making terrible decisions because you can’t tell me a man loved and nurtured by two parents will act like this and the “jumpoffs” he speaks of with the mothers will probably soon be his daughters
@@coreejacobs4780 Plenty of men raised in nuclear families still end up becoming deadbeats or worse. Some people are just not meant to be parents.
@@barbiquearea and plenty of people who practise healthy living still get fatally ill. It's about the best bet on a good life.
Both people man n woman should be accountable. Irresponsible behaviour
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
@@dropmeoffinafrica5790 I disagree
Idk what more accountability men want from women who are literally left single mothers forced to raise a child alone for the next 18+ years and then have to share with their child why there father isn’t in their lives. Isn’t that enough women suffer a lot when they make decisions like this it’s the men who walk away without accountability 🙃
@@yamilahj9666 accountability as in make better choice in men. Take more time to learn about a guy before having sex. Or use birth control if you don't have self control to wait
The woman is taking accountability when she raises her child alone for 18 years. she's taking care of her responsibility what are you talkin. What you want her to do is be accountable for his actions. no he's alone responsible for that. We all know how kids are made. He's doing it on purpose and then being a deadbeat.
Lawyers across the US are contacting his baby mama's as he speaks
I hope so because
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
He don’t look like he has a job 😂
@@British_Cocoa Was about to say, they won't get paid as chances are he ain't got no real money. Only an emergency abortion fund. lol
They can but depending on his income they're really scratching at pennies. Also sounds like dude ain't gone stop anytime soon
Dude is the definition of ratchet. Like 7 babies with 7 baby momas wasn’t ratchet enough. On top of that he don’t want to have anything to do with them
He said he didn’t
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
@@dropmeoffinafrica5790 ok like the woman doesn’t know they don’t have a condom on. Accountability goes both ways n dude got a point. Women have them kids in they body for 9 months. They have to do better. Cry no the men aynt crying. They don’t give af. Single men don’t wana date a single mom, but we aynt crying out it, we find a girl with out a baby. Men don’t care so stop with men crying.
@@chappbandz exactly, dudes like this are stupid but the women that lay with them are equally as stupid, but get shocked when they don't want nothing to do with them, and dudes like this get shocked when they are forced to pay child support both sides need to take accountability
@@tobiaslawrence8928 I honestly think he knows if he get caught he gone have to pay. He just tryna avoid that. They lowkey gone have to do paternity tests and everything, he is not going with out a fight. But I agree with you, he dumb 2.
I think people are overlooking him saying that these 7 were the ones that kept the babies. How many others were there? Lawd🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
That's the first thing I noticed! So it's possible 50 women were pregnant for him but only 7 dropped?
The others he paid for the abortion these 7 decided to keep the kids. He must make decent money they saw a paycheck and no accountability on their part they deserve donkey of the day as well because those kids are innocent and should not been born in that mess
They were the smart ones who didn't keep his seed!!
*Most women are delusional. That's why they're losing*
This man is a savage ... he even warns them of him at the end🤣💀
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
And they still open their legs for him
Stop laying with just everyone! All of this could’ve been preventable and then you leave these children unwanted and unloved.
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
How did he stop them from taking a morning after pill?
Damn, u saying the mothers and grand parents wouldn't love it? That's cray
@@meks1478 how much do y’all men really value your own “family jewels” if your just giving your semen to every woman you sleep with, how much do you really value yourself as a man, your only as valuable as the women you lay with. My father always told my brothers… the older your mind gets the better choices your dick makes!
Exactly, completely fine to not want children but to just be sleeping around but calling women “jumpoffs” and you’re the one with 7 kids by 7 diff people is wild
Trust me, this dude will live long enough to regret all this fuckery
I was just thinking he must not have too much of a life now with 7 children with 7 women that he knows of. Also I was thinking, he must be a trucker or has a job with a lot of traveling (if he has a job).
Bro it's them women fault in this case he told them upfront.
@@marcuscopeland1250 7 seeds tho???? That's on him too for nutting in them
@Dr. ill I agree but man they got to be accountable as well.
A man that does not take care of his seed is cursed
Facts💯
My heart goes out to those innocent babies.
FACTS!!!
What about the babies that were deleted?
How about wrapping up or not doing the deed if you "don't want" kids. I can not stand these dusty, low-life men who can't take accountability or responsibility for their actions! SMDFH
All the women and this man deserve the DOTD. NEVER HAVE KIDS WITH SOMEBODY UNLESS YOU BOTH AGREE TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AS PARENTS
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
Yes duh first off he's serial impregnating different women on purpose. and saying he's not going to take care of the kids later. yes he needs donkey of the Day, life jail time and the death penalty! because he try to destroyed 7 kids life. Do you not look at stats? the biggest problem in the black community is absent father. And you crazy people are still saying blame the woman. Shut up.
Most ppl just fucking though…not planning
And what is DOTD?
@@ashleighjohnson7161 donkey of the day
1 irresponsible man, and at least 7 irresponsible women.
This one got it
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
No it's more than seven, he said majority of them took the abortion. Only these 7 kept the babies. Ugh
Bingo🤩
If he says he's gonna pull out and doesn't what do you think?
He’s a Pookie & Ray Ray ass Ninja
People need to take time to learn who they are dealing with,legs closed and eyes open..,look deep before you leap🙏🏼😇❤️
Amen!
Facts
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
He told them he wasn't going to be there.
Exactly Queen 🙏🏾🖤
The trauma ALL the children will be inflicted by the parents choices
He just need to go relinquish his paternal rights.
This is just SPIRITUAL WARFARE STRONGHOLDS AND BONDAGE.
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
Omg big facts . If the woman choose to stay .. it could cost her her life ! He probably is abusive
Yes to this! I have so many patients in therapy and on medication due to parental rejection. God cover these children in Jesus' name. 🙏🏽
If some of them girls move on to better guys who can be better fathers and they get married. I say make this guy sign away his parental rights to them.
I can't even get 7 girls to talk to me. No idea how someone ends up with 7 BMs. Bad decisions by everyone involved
Honestly, a lot of men feel this way. Why not know who you're dealing with before sexual contact? I wholeheartedly believe he did the bare minimum like he said. I imagine fast food dinner dates and elementary school style conversations (if he answered calls) for a few days before sexual activity. I guarantee you, this type of man didn't wait around for weeks or months courting a woman.
Women, you have to be careful not to give this sort of man your body. Especially if you're aware of the other abandoned women and children. Yes, he's a deadbeat and it's not right what he's doing but you gotta make responsible, rational decisions. You can't force men to be fathers, so protect yourself because this type of bum will not. So-called men like this do not deserve your time let alone your body.
So what you're saying is that women can't have casual flings? Like if a girl decide to have a one night stand and gets knocked up, its always the guy's fault if he's not there for her?
@@barbiquearea I actually said the exact opposite, not sure how you even concluded it's the man's fault 😂. If a woman is callous enough to sleep with a man for fun or a man that has shown or told her he's not interested beyond sex. She suffers the consequences of being a single mother. It's not right that the man has left her alone, because it's very heartless for him to deny his child. He was also an excited, willing participant in the unprotected sex. However, it is sex with a stranger and a promiscuous woman so it's no surprise he's not interested in settling down and taking on the responsibility of fatherhood. The woman suffers much greater therefore she needs to be responsible enough to not foolishly sleep around. It's her body, women are the gatekeepers to sex and I see it as women must to be more mindful in these situations. You can't lay with bums especially when they show you the bare minimum... as this man said exactly. He said he did the bare minimum to sleep with all seven women.
@@LifestylewithAbby It is her body. And she has the option to not have the child, either by going to a clinic to take care of it or give it up for adoption. And not have to consult the baby's father. The guy on the other hand has no such right. Men can't force women to get abortions just because they don't want kids or don't feel ready for such a huge responsibility. Society only allows women the choice of becoming mothers but not allow men the choice to become fathers. So I don't think women get it tougher because at least they get a choice in the matter.
@@barbiquearea it's certainly a tough situation for women especially now when a lot of states don't allow abortions. A lot of women can't afford the cost of an abortion without the additional expenses for travel. Emotionally it's hard on a woman to be in that predicament and physically she's force removing a fetus from her body. The procedure can cause her never to become pregnant again, there are a lot of risks and mental anguish associated with it. All the while the deadbeat dad is somewhere with another woman with no care in the world for the situation with this broad he was just smashing a few weeks ago. There's no win for the woman, abortion will haunt her and being a single mother will derail her future financially. Yeah, I'd say it's much tougher for the woman. She'll never forget the deadbeat dad but I reckon he'll forget her in no time. Which is why the choice to never get involved with a guy of the caliber I say is on her, the onus is on her not to entertain someone that clearly has no respect or interest in her.
@@LifestylewithAbby Yeah it is a tough call to make. Especially if they were raised in a religious household. The thought of getting an abortion isn't a easy decision for anyone who is a practicing Presbyterian or Catholic. Although if the fathers don't hold such values they are still on the hook to pay child support. And if they want to do the right thing and raise their baby but the girl doesn't, they still don't get a say in it.
I have two kids 10 years apart. Kids wasn’t for me so I stayed protected. Yes I’m blessed to have two
I really hate when we talk and act like this
Is “we”? This sorry nigga don’t represent me!
I agree!
Lol it’s okay to not want to be a father. It’s not okay to just have a bunch of kids tho. Both parties gotta be smarter
I hate when y'all say we I don't claim this fool.
Charlie Murphy said " there's a difference between a black man and a black ninja" and us normal men don't claim this ninja
Simple logic destroys this man’s entire argument. Say having a baby is a contract. You can’t say you don’t want to fulfill a contract but draft and sign it, then be mad when the other person signs their name as well. It’s insane. Saying one thing and doing another does not put the responsibility on someone else
I don’t believe he had that attitude when he was romancing those ladies into bed. Thing is; if men want to decide over women’s bodies so much, they must also be held to the same standard when they father children. There can be no escape from the responsibility of child rearing for any party in a society who overturned Roe v. Wade.
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
That literally just happened. If he got 7 kids shit was going on before. Did you feel men had no responsibility to take care of the children when abortion was allowed? And in the states that it’s still allowed do men have responsibility?
I wish people would stop saying men want control over women’s bodies. There are plenty of women who are pro life not to mention one of the Supreme Court justices that voted to overturn it was a woman. Also, men were still expected to be fathers before Roe v Wade was overturned. I’m not saying I don’t understand where you’re coming from, but your logic is flawed.
@@ernestorodriguez456 no, and I never said anything of the kind. I’m just pointing out the hypocrisy of how men are put in positions where they can be totally irresponsible, and hold women to higher standards.
@@ernestorodriguez456 you have the responsibility to control your nut before it even gets near a woman’s womb. You carry the seed, you have control wear it goes.
If he really didn't want all these children, IT IS CALLED A VASECTOMY.
Or women should marry the men they lay with
If he wanted one, he would've gotten one. Obviously he didn't. His body, his choice.
@@nocturnalprojectionist exactly
@@Staydispline
Marriage doesn’t guarantee that a person will stay. Y’all haven’t learned that yet?
@@AlastorsShadowDemon but at lease you know he once loved you. Stop having random children.
He admit he ain't shid, and spoke truth to power. Why they let him hit unprotected.
Why did he hit unprotected? He's the one talking about what he doesn't want obviously they wanted the baby so wasn't his job to prevent it
He seems the type of dude he to take the condom off after making a whole show of putting on. My single friends run into men like that all the time and he definitely gives that vibe
He could've pulled out goofy
Nobody is a victim except the kids
Right?
I don’t think that the responsibility is all on the woman to not get pregnant however,
If you know that a man does not want a child or there is no real commitment between the two of you, then you’re signing up to be an unmarried, single mother. We are the ones who have to carry the child and make the biggest sacrifice, why do that for someone who doesn’t want to be committed or who clearly says they don’t want the child? You are agreeing to then do it on your own.
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
I agree!!
It’s definitely not about a MAN ! and married women aren’t exempt from being single mothers ! At the end of the day it is the mothers choice it’s her body her baby if she wants to keep her baby regardless of the circumstances than that’s her decision .
I don't think it's as simple as that or as people are making it sound. When it comes to a plan b than I can see alittle bit of that. Pass that point, it a bigger step to NOT have the child. I can understand how some wouldn't want to make that step and bare the accountability.
It is all on the woman. Her body her choice. If you as a woman don't want to get pregnant, your options are to abstain from sex, use multiple forms of birth control, etc.
This interview was the best one for the year so far. I live these queens and we needed more time! 👏🏾
Right on wrong he now has seven Children that will feel abandoned and have issues around not knowing their father
Why did he not just wear a rubber??? Whether you think it's fair or not, legally you have to pay for your kids!! As porsha said.
Yes, he is a demon.
Man said "access denied" like tryna sign in to his laptop lol 😩
Lmao 😂
The best thing a woman can do after hearing this is to not get into a committed relationship with him.
And not sleep with him.
They wasn’t in a relationship to begin with just screwing & nasty!
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
Forget a commitment. No woman should do business with him, be his friend, etc. the smartest thing to do is have NOTHING to do with him. Treat him how he treats his children
“Committed relationship “ had nothing to do with this…no matter if we’re talking about the mothers or the children.
I dont want to he a father but yet go in without protection. Both the women and him are dumb ASL
That's why vasectomies exist.
The question that I seriously have, is he telling these women something differently, so he can have sex with them? I so want to hear their side.
Because I am curious if he tells them what he’s saying out loud right now to them when they first met. Would they still even entertain him?
I see a lot of people saying that he did tell them while they are pregnant, some women do not believe in abortion. So if he had told them prior to even engage in with him, some of them may not even entertain him. Man like him typically do not give women a choice to select them as potential partner, they lie, and tell them all kind of stuff just to get them in bed.
Let this be a lesson to ladies, we have to up our game when choosing a man. You also need to use protection, especially if you don’t believe in abortion.
of course he be lying I cannot believe for uhh sec he aint running g
@@sharonmarket9526 Right. Like is he’s seriously telling them that he has no love for them. That he doesn’t care about them. I am for sure he’s not telling them none of that shit.
He most likely had to manipulate 7 of those women for his own benefit. His ass probably told them that B.S after he has sex with them.
Stop dealing with bm, please.
I guarantee that all those women thought they were his first baby mama until they got pregnant and all of a sudden…”oh I forgot I had 6 other kids and baby mama”
“He’s not Black…”🤣 The hilarity. And Porsha might be a win for me over Jess. Great timing, smart and cultural commentary is spot on
I love me some Jess for sure. But I feel like she could be the "Charlamagne type" of her own show. I'm surprisingly impressed at Porscha so far.
I agree with both comments 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Porsha has been great.
I don’t care for Jess and I would never be able to get use to her voice I prefer Porsha and if I must hear a rough voice I like Lo’real’s personality
His voice was a dead giveaway.
It’s like telling the bartender at the bar that you’re gonna drive after all the drinks he is gonna be serving you and then you blaming the bartender for the accident you are possibly going to have driving home. You still have to be responsible for your actions and it’s up to you to take responsibility for how you act after drinking alcohol. You have options (designated driver, taxi and rideshare) to permit an accident.
At what number “baby momma” do we start to blame the women who got pregnant? Baby momma #3? Baby momma #4?
#2
Lol it’s both of their fault lmaoooooo but the women literally hold an unwanted baby from conception till the end then complain lmaooooo
At what number does woman say I don’t want to be the next one???
None of he lied to them all. A lot of men like to pretend they don’t have kids at all and go make some more then repeat the same with the next woman
@@wonton_soup805 you obviously didn’t listen to the video, he clearly said he does NOT want to be a father and he will be a “deadbeat dad”….
He’s putting it all on them but he’s not wearing condoms, not pulling out, and intentionally making babies with women. In all of this, it’s the children that suffer the most. It’s sick and it’s disgusting.
So let me get this straight… he tells you he’s not going to be around….
Never mind.
@@davidnorman4612 I’m not saying the women aren’t at fault. But if he knows he doesn’t want children then he also have a responsibility to prevent himself from getting women pregnant. Like wearing condoms or get a vasectomy. It take 2 people to get pregnant, 2, not one. So just like they have to be responsible for getting pregnant by him, he need to be responsible for not creating fatherless kids. As soon as she run him to the child support office, she wrong. But regardless of what he tell them, if he make a baby, the state will make him financially take care of them.
@@MelissaLona but your emphasizing the fault of the man more than the women.. that's the problem.. its a 50/50 blame. Those women should of made sure he had a condom on before having sex. More than like those women was trying to entrap him by having his kid and it backfired ... on all of them!
@@MelissaLona Why doesn't this guy just get a vasectomy? Could have solved all his problems.
@@cd2ogz1 this dude is blatantly saying I’m not pulling out. He’s not even trying to prevent himself from getting these women pregnant. And then he’s trying to use plan b and abortion as a form of birth control AFTER the fact which is extremely dangerous and traumatic. To sit here and try to act like this man is not responsible for willingly getting 7 women pregnant with no intention of taking care of these kids is crazy to me. He’s making fatherless children ON PURPOSE. And I watched the actual video, he never told these women he doesn’t want to be a father prior to sleeping with them. He only said it AFTER they were pregnant but the damage is already done at that point. And he admitted he got other women pregnant but they just happen to get the abortion. Come on man. I didn’t say the women had no fault at all. Obviously they need to make better decisions. But this dude is out here talking about not wanting or taking care of kids he willingly made and he did absolutely nothing to prevent pregnancy. Get a vasectomy. And he bragging about it like idgaf.
Every man is responsible for his seed. A woman can’t get pregnant without you bro. This shit is not all on her. Y’all need to stop blaming women for men not being fathers. The purpose of sex is to make babies. Y’all want the activity but not the responsibility. Stop it. There’s always a chance she gonna get pregnant when you lay down with a woman. At the end of the day, we don’t know what he really telling these women behind closed doors. Most men will say anything to get between a woman’s legs. Any man trying to justify his actions is delusional.
He spoke straight FACTS. He told these women he ain’t sh** and they still let him hit. UNPROTECTED at that. What ever happened to getting married first? Some women just be opening they legs to anyone, take some accountability!
Man what 😂😂 just take accountability you made them kids don’t matter you don’t want them
@@MattyE2493 so he made them by himself?
That’s my point, y’all in this together, why point a finger? If I don’t want a baby with a lady I’m not releasing in her. Kinda simple, to me.
I'm pretty sure she may not have wanted kids either, BUT once the deed is done & the mother decides to carry the child, the responsibility is to both parties.
Damn shame
Ya’ll getting these videos uploaded before 7pm !!! Keep it up !!… must be on sativa today
You see yee got Taylor workin overtime talkin about “aint no women up there” 😂
As the old saying goes “If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck…” long story short STOP PLAYING DUCK DUCK GOOSE OUT HERE! 😂😂
Can you imagine when he’s old and frail and his children grows up young and strong. He might not even be safe, especially if he has boys. I resented my after for not being around, but his kids are going to hate him.
We reap what we sow
Kevin Samuels would've had a field day with this smh.
Facts
He may of been on this man side 🤷🏽♀️
@@British_Cocoa He would of been on neither side.
I don't understand why he can't use condoms. He's nasty for going raw in that many different women. No self control and he clearly doesn't care about himself. Those women though they knew what time it was when they got with him so what else did they expect to happen? All parties involved need to think more clearly and with discernment.
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Right just as nasty as the women sleeping with him raw
@@TheFallonCarrington why willfully raw dog a girl you don’t like? Don’t you care about your own family jewels?
They all nasty, the men the women and the people in the comments, y'all all need Jesus, Zeus, Khrishna, Yaweeh and Allah!
You hit the nail on the head. This is all about self- control on both parts. This was never God's original intent.
It doesnt matter if you dont want them. You made a grown man decision to have unprotected sex and the law states that if you have a baby you have to pay child support.
It's not fair to men. Women can decide if they want to be a mother and have a child but a man can't decide whether or not he wants to be a father.
Why are you not using protection if they’re just jump offs anyway?
Cause he nasty as he3l. He definitely burning.
Facts!
How about you “BE Responsible” sir! Condoms, vasectomy, celibacy 😢
Right
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
how do any of those things stop you from taking a pill?
@@meks1478 the effects of birth control and death rates stop us from taking the pill do your research bc side effects aren't worth preventing pregnancy for when we could just use condoms anyways at least we eliminate stds SAFETY first always
Celibacy is NOT an option!
@@meks1478 because birth control is not 100% effective and some women have adverse reaction to them. Birth control can be extremely dangerous, even killing some women
Honesty is only the first step. You can't respect this guy fully for being a deadbeat and irresponsible. He's seeking praise for him being an incomplete man. He still made the kids it shouldn't be the woman's job to be responsible for the man.
Gonosyphoherpeaids. Charlamagne kills meeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“GonasyphiherpeAIDS,” wow! People seem to focus only on the possible pregnancy and not contracting an STD.
I'm trying to figure out where his accountability starts at 🤔
Use protection or get a vasectomy if you can't practice abstinence then you won't have problems
Better yet just hire hookers. Some registered sex work agencies are contractually obligated to ensure their girls won't get pregnant by their clients or they could be sued for malpractice.
Porcha is right, this man is so ignorant. "He needs to be in jail sharing this story."
When people tell you who they are...BELIEVE them. Geez believe them. smh.
this man karma finna be different different
He might end up in jail for not paying child support
To all the people claiming he told them he didn’t want kids, ask yourself when he told them this? Did he wait until they were already pregnant? Did he wait until they gave birth? Also many of these men do not tell women that they have multiple children by multiple women already. It’s possible he withheld all this information until it was too late
He’s talking about plan B so at least after he hit.
They all were being irresponsible by not wearing protection and therefore have to deal with the consequences.
Real or fake, *women* needed to hear that.
You NEED to Use protection or get a vasectomy if you can't practice abstinence then you won't have problems
@@PR7-82 You need to see if he's wearing a rubber before he goes inside you.
@@PR7-82 if we all practiced abstinence and kept our money ya'll wouldn't last 2 weeks
@@TheBrotherHoodSports , 🤔 I think I’d be good.
At the end of the day, women have the final say on whether they want to have a baby. Women should be more selective on who they open their legs too. Crazy apart about this is that women will hear what this man said and still choice sleep with him because you have a lot of ain’t shit women too.
Yeah we don’t want them to be more selective if that was the case only the 10% of guy’s would really be getting all the hoes
Did he tell them he wasn't interested in having a kid and wasn't going to father them before they hooked up or after they were pregnant? I might have missed that part
This man is right I think people just don't want to admit it🤷
Was that Charlemagne who gasped when he said "but I didn't want to!(pull out)"
I have 6KIDS with 3 different women the difference is I have custody of all of mine. An me and the mothers are 👍🏿 three boys three girls the first 2 kids was planned everybody else was made out of love, but not playing to have them but as a man you have to own up and be responsible for your actions even though they was not planned I still love them or support them. I still take care of them. I just don’t understand how a man can not want to take care of a child that is, he is or a woman be responsible people 💯💪🏿
Virtue signalling🤡 you need validation or an applause?
That's still not good.
No
Simps like you are the reason women have too much power. You aint getting a trophy for any of that.
@@sharktalezThe only clown here is you just wanting nothing but negativity! He is sharing his own experience to let other men know it’s okay to be a MAN and take care of your children like a mature being. He should receive a loud applause- the question is WTF are you looking for? 👀
He has great points. Now if a woman don’t want a child , she has options. Abortion, Adoption, abandonment. Men don’t
Men should have some type of options too
@killem dead he could've gotten a vasectomy (which is reversible should he choose to have children down the road), worn a condom, or used the rhythm method he admittedly chose not to use.
@@g30rg3gp0rg people talk like a vasectomy is just a snap fix, it's not. A vasectomy isn't ALWAYS reversible for conception of a child. 90-95% reversible procedurally but to conceive post vasectomy, you're at just above 50%.
53% achieved pregnancy from a study of 1000 men who reversed within 3-8 years, and the success goes down the longer it's been done.
People need to be responsible with information.
Depending on what state you live in..but we not gon get into that
@@MrColdwilliamI appreciate your clarification. However, it still sounds like the opportunity to have a child still exists post-vasectomy
And that's the type of man that woman continues to sleep with
When my girl said….Nick Cannon I spat out my green tea 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He isn't even trying to physically prevent himself from being a father. And he told them how he was and they still fucked with them. Smh!!! The kids do not deserve this from both party! Recommend reading All About Love by bell hooks! We gotta practice proper self-love both black men and women.
Yup most women think they can change a men .
@@nickcooler2658 naw, the problem is your not willing to change yourself
@@nickcooler2658 but I’m the same breath, “that’s our job” it’s so confusing. A lot of how we love stems from white male and female patriarchy.
@@santelaneal5374 exactly!
@@santelaneal5374 U think so ?
It is SO REFRESHING TO SEE BLACK MEN IN THIS LIGHT. I LOVE THAT THIS IS THEIR BEHAVIOR FOR THE WORLD TO SEE!! Bravo BLACK MEN. 🎉
They don’t even see it that way, they think they winning
This isn't a man
@@troublemaker574 As Charlemagne puts it, he's a bleeping N-word.
Facts 💯
I usually just scroll by things like this but after reading that title I was like I gotta see what this is about 😂
Moral of this story It's plain and simple watch who you sleep with, use protection and you wouldn't have to put yourself in type of situations it's just that simple it shouldn't be that hard to do that. ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Exactly
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
Having a baby with a man that’s not at least your boyfriend is asking for a lifetime of stress
The man is actually right.. pay attention
This dude is admitting he is a dead beat and is proud of it.
🚩He can EASILY sign away his parental rights
If they mothers let him. If they want child support, they won't. He should make better choices
@@TheRedScareIsAlive you don’t have to wait until a child is born to terminate your parental rights.
@@HonorableSienna that has nothing to do with my comment.
You have to have both parents agree to a parent signing their rights away. If the mother doesn't want it, it won't happen
If silly men like this don’t care about having dixk discipline then he deserves to pay child support or go to jail. It’s a risk on both parties can’t put all the blame on women 🗣️
How can’t you if they were told before?
We do need to question why a woman would sleep with a man that says beforehand he doesn’t want to be a father and would rather be a deadbeat. Women can’t keep opening their legs with bums and making them pay money they don’t have for a child they don’t care about
I doubt if he told them beforehand.
@@bluebutterfly5684 I doubt it. Just like there’s trash men like this there’s trash women willing to lay down with anyone.
How somebody smart and dumb AT THE SAME DAMN TIME 🤔🤣🤣
At the end of the day, the kids didn’t ask to be here. Lots of fault to go around, but they are here so his dusty ass needs to provide for them. Whoever is friends with that man also can go to hell because ain’t no way bruh. 😩😩
As F'd up as it is. If it's her choice to Abort a Child then he should be able to not take care of it. I love how the double standard is so clear yet it's normalized to see the man as a bad person for this ( which is should be) but also it's the same when a female wants to delete the child and the man has no choice.
It's her body to decide. No one should be able to decide what happens to anyone else's body. Also, pregnancy is very hard on the female body. Sometimes women have life-threatening complications during pregnancy & while giving birth. The male doesn't.
@@g30rg3gp0rg You've to explain to me how a decision made by two adults, only has 1 party with rights to do with a child made by both adults. i agree with your point, but by that same logic, if a Female has the chose to Delete the child regardless to what the male says, a Male should have the right to not take care of it. You can't have it both ways. I also am not saying what's right and wrong, im saying what would be fair to avoid this double standard that clearly exist.
@BleachEmpireBBS I don't see it as a double standard per se. Once the child is born, it has 2 parents who are equally responsible for its rearing & support. Let's face it though many times men shirk this responsibility. Either they delete the woman to delete the child or they abandon both. I respect the man AND the woman that owns up to their responsibility regarding the child.
@@AnonYoBizness a man always has a choice in this situation! Its just not at the same time a woman has her choice. A man’s choice is in the beginning… he chooses if he will protect himself or not, he chooses if he will pull out or not, he chooses who he sleeps with, he chooses where to release his sperm. Once that sperm is no longer in ur body it is no longer ur choice. Once that sperm is inside the womans body it is now her choice on what happens. Its a very simple concept
@@khalilahhughes5484 I swear accountability is Kryptonite for most Females. He stuck the key in, and she accepted it, its 50/50... The child life started in her stomach, her body, Their baby.. Her body and the child body is different. The childs body is just inside of another, Do whatever you want with your body, but the body of the child should be ALWAYS a choice of the man and the woman because it was 50/50, You can argue woman carry the kid, well im sorry we couldn't consult god before having it this way, but end of the day, to Abort THEIR child it should be up to BOTH parents, but it's not over this non sensical My BoDy My ChOiCe bs, which is stupid in the context of the CHILDS BODY, so if at the point where the child is in the stomach a female can choose to Delete it, A man from there and onwards should choose whether he will take care of it, as you said her body her choice, well by that logic, it's all her responsibility but no Woman dance around the subject because they benefit the most out of it, so why fight for fair right
Honestly, if he was upfront about his position, the donkey really goes to these women as well (if not more). Everyone involved gotta receive that participation reward.
Black men claiming to be leaders in their community is comical at best.
@@TomikaKelly all Black men aren’t a monolith, so don’t start that shit please. He’s an outlier. Don’t believe me, check CDC statistics, Black men (Kings 👑) are more likely to be involved in their children’s lives. That’s a fact you should educate yourself on further.
That last comment by Charla had me hollering out loud😂
I'm actually glad he decided to "tell his truth" because many of us get lies and deceit and we find out the truth when it's too late. Display all of your degeneracy right up front so I can make the best and most informed decisions about dealing with you. Also, ladies, take this as a lesson. When men SHOW you who they are...BELIEVE THEM! Living in delusion does not protect you from the consequences of dealing with the terrible mindsets of many a men like this one running rampant in this community.
If he's telling you this why they mad🤣🤣🤣
Ew
He says it after they get pregnant. He doesnt say it before they slept together.
And this ladies is a prime example of why we need to guard our bodies and raise our standards this man did not deserve the cookie
Who knows. This guy may shirk his responsibilities, but he might just be well endowed and fine as hell. I mean if you were girl and you got the chance to sleep with Timothee Chalamet or Jacob Elordi, your likely not getting into the sack with them because you want to be a mom.
@@barbiquearea I probably still would not do it
Portia is a surprisingly good co-host.
Probably bc of her time on the ricky smiley morning show as a host
@@rayvonce1192 You’re right. Forgot about that.
HE'S TELLING THE TRUTH
blk men cry & complain about blk single mothers, meanwhile the entire country taxes is paying for Blk Men abandoned kids. All races pay for blk men irresponsibility. Blk men could spend $2 for a condom & save society millions of dollars…
He is? Where is they responsibility. If he already on baby 3 . You have no excuse. You don’t. Complain if u want. He aynt taking care of the first 3 n you think your baby gone be special. Come on , Please.
She was stunned by his savageness 😂
CTG should have been like: 'I don't really want to make donkeys look bad but...'.